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  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 09:59

    Everyday life is full of awkward encounters, questionable decisions, minor inconveniences, and thoughts that probably deserve to stay inside our heads. The artist Minimaali takes those familiar moments and pushes them several steps further, turning them into colorful comics filled with absurd humor and unexpected punchlines.

    A lot of the jokes begin with situations that are easy enough to recognize: relationship worries, embarrassing moments, getting dressed, trying to sleep, or simply misunderstanding what someone else meant. From there, however, things can go off the rails very quickly. Words are taken far too literally, innocent comments lead to bizarre conclusions, and tiny problems receive reactions wildly disproportionate to what actually happened. The artwork is bright, expressive, and intentionally playful, while the humor can be cheeky, crude, self-deprecating, or wonderfully nonsensical. Even something as simple as finding a dress with pockets can become a miniature emotional journey, while a seemingly suggestive question might end with a punchline involving something completely different.

    We’ve gathered a selection of Minimaali’s comics below. Scroll down to enjoy the chaos, and don’t forget to upvote the ones that made you laugh the hardest.

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  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 08:10

    Stealing is wrong, but stealing from a kid is beyond despicable. As an adult, you should know better than to take advantage of a child, especially a relative. Sadly, when it comes to trends and popular things—like Pokémon—some grown-ups completely lose their minds and behave spoiled and entitled.

    Even the bond between an aunt and her niece isn’t sacred. The internet weighed in after one mom shared how her daughter was driven to tears when her beloved aunt stole her rare shiny Pokémon behind her back. Scroll down for the full story and the internet’s opinions about the family drama.

    Well-adjusted adults know not to steal from little kids. Unfortunately, common sense is not that common

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    One mom sought the internet’s input after her daughter’s rare Pokémon got stolen at a family gathering

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    Entitlement is something that parents need to push back against, otherwise, their entitled children grow into entitled adults

    It’s important to remember that nobody is ever ‘perfect,’ and that we all make mistakes. We all have moments of weakness when we want something so badly that it overrides logic, common sense, and the importance of our relationships.

    That being said, adults should know better than to ignore other people’s boundaries, especially those of little kids. Going around stealing other people’s Pokémon behind their backs just isn’t right. This is the type of behavior that is reminiscent of scalpers who quickly and massively buy up Pokémon-related content to then sell it on for a price spike. Sure, the method is different, but the lack of ethics is similar.

    If you’re not careful, your kids can develop a sense of entitlement that then goes on to haunt them into young adulthood, too.

    Psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein, Ph.D., states that when you set boundaries with your children, it is vital that you don’t give in when they push back, despite the friction. What you have to do, as a parent, is teach them to take responsibility for their actions. Furthermore, you have to help them understand that mutual respect is incredibly important.

    “Managing an entitled adult child can be a challenging and emotionally exhausting experience for parents. Whether it’s endless requests for financial support, special treatment, or refusing to take responsibility for their actions, these situations can quickly spiral into resentment and strain the entire family dynamic,” Bernstein writes, adding that parents ought to promote clear boundaries, mutual trust, and accountability.

    “Often, entitlement grows from a lack of limitations, where the parent repeatedly gives in to demands or excuses for bad behavior. By clearly defining what is acceptable and what isn’t, you’re protecting your well-being and teaching your child an invaluable lesson in respect,” he says.

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    Not lying and not stealing are lessons that many kids learn very early on

    Like with most things in life, consistency is key here, too. You have to be consistent when setting boundaries, too. Furthermore, as much as you, as a parent, might want to support your child, you have to make sure that you’re not enabling their entitled behavior. Simply put, they have to be allowed to experience the consequences of their actions so that they grow and mature.

    Lying and stealing are things that kids usually understand are wrong very early on. Johns Hopkins Medicine explains that children under 3 don’t lie on purpose, as they don’t understand what they’re saying and are experimenting with language. Kids under 7 may have trouble separating the real world from fantasy. And yet, by age 6 or 7, kids understand what lying is and they might cheat if they’re able to. Children ages 6 to 12 understand what lying is and why it’s wrong, but they might continue to test the rules and limits set by adults.

    Meanwhile, when it comes to stealing, children aged 3 and under don’t fully understand the difference between what does and doesn’t belong to them. They might “become possessive of their things and protect them. They don’t steal with bad intentions.”

    Kids between 3 and 7 start respecting things that don’t belong to them. However, this age group can trade things without regard to value if they want something else. By age 9, children should respect other people’s belongings and understand that stealing is wrong.

    However, kids this age might continue to steal if they feel peer pressure, have low self-esteem, are trying to buy their friends’ attention, and want to feel proud of accomplishing something.

    What’s your take, Pandas? How would you have reacted if you were in the mom’s shoes? Has anyone you know ever been tricked or tried tricking someone else when it comes to Pokémon-related stuff like games, cards, etc.? How would you go about restoring trust between family members after someone has trampled over another person’s boundaries so brazenly? Let us know in the comments.

    Later, the author answered people’s questions and shared more context

    The internet had a lot to say about the Pokémon drama. Most people were supportive of the way the mom reacted

    And yet, some netizens offered a different perspective

  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 08:08

    Too much worldview friction will end any relationship but it’s particularly bad if the person you are dating has a very different view of what your common, future life will look like. The question of “who will serve and who will eat” is more than just a Leonard Cohen lyric.

    A woman turned to the internet for advice after learning that her friend’s BF felt that she needed to be, in her words, a 60s housewife, cooking and cleaning for him despite being employed. So folks online shared their thoughts and suggestions and later the woman shared a small update from her friend.

    Learning your friend’s partner has some strange beliefs can be concerning

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    So one woman asked the internet for advice about how her friend’s BF wanted a 60s housewife

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    She gave a few more details later

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    Netizens gave their suggestions

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    Later she posted a longer update

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  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 07:00

    College is one of those big life milestones that can really change how you see the world. For many folks, it’s their first taste of having a lot more freedom and responsibility, all while meeting new people and figuring things out as they go. And no matter how prepared you think you are, student life can still come with plenty of surprises.

    One Redditor recently asked users to share their “welcome to college” moments, and they came through with plenty of memorable stories. From hilarious to downright wild, we’ve rounded up some of the best ones below. Scroll down to read them bored and upvote your favorites.

    #1

    Mine happened very quickly. It was the third day of orientation, and I got up early that morning. I decided, since I was up, I might as well go do something, and I left my dorm and wandered over to the nearby shopping street. I went to a Starbucks there and bought a cup of coffee. Then, I walked back to my dorm and sat down in one of the easy chairs in the common room, just sipping my coffee and waiting for everybody to get up. I don't know why, but this all struck me as really awesome. I guess, until then, I'd been used to having my life controlled by other things, my parents, school, etc. In a weird way, this was the first action I'd ever made completely on my own, and it was amazing. Still one of the happiest moments I can remember.

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    #2

    When I got the first bill.

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    #3

    It was a Saturday night, and I'd just been in my room for the most part, but around 2AM, one of my friends called me up and we decided to go hang out in another building.

    I go downstairs and I see a body covered with a blanket, on the floor of the lobby. Right in front of the security desk (security guards need to check our ID before letting us into the dorms). There was also some kind of liquid mush staining the carpet near him. I'm a little freaked out at this point, thinking that someone had [passed away] and they had just covered the body... Nope, turns out the kid had stumbled into the lobby after a night of heavy drinking, then fell over and threw up while trying to give the guard his ID card. This had literally happened in the last 5 minutes, so the guard just threw a blanket over the kid while waiting for help.

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    #4

    On my first day of school it had just turned to dusk. My friends (well really only hall mates at this point) were coming back from some freshman event. As we are walking along a man pops out of the bushes wrapped only in a yellow sheet. And yells, "my metamorphosis is complete! I am a beautiful butterfly!" He then threw the sheet on the ground reveling the fact that he was completely bare underneath and ran off into the night.

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    Probably the night we discovered that Pam + synthetic institutional carpet + duct tape = indoor slip n slide. Much awesome fun was had by all and a few socks were sacrificed in the process.

    Even better was the campus policeman who told us to wait until he got off shift around 2AM. Turns out he's a tuba player in band and had a ton of valve oil. We had an exceptionally long corridor in the basement that was linoleum and much slipping and sliding occurred. We even had the foresight to put the WET signs down after we were done.

    Also rolling down the hall to my dorm room because I was too drunk to stand up and walk. Ended up sleeping hunched over my lofted bed because I couldn't get in it.

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    #6

    My first semester at university, I was living on campus in a suite-style dorm. One of my suitemates decided she didn't like the university housing, and she wanted to move out into private residence. How did she get out of her housing contract with the university? She married a guy she'd known for two weeks. Apparently there was a loophole in the contract that made marriage a legitimate way to get out.

    **TL;DR my suitemate married someone she'd known for two weeks for convenience. Hello crazy times.**

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    #7

    I was playing basketball for a D-1 school and I had come from a tiny high school. I was 6'4, and in HS that normally made me one of the 3 or 4 tallest guys on the court. Sometimes when we played small teams I was literally taller than the other teams center, even though I was a point.

    Our first open run was in August. I was shorter than everyone on the team except two guys. The first time I took a ball to the basket it was like the sky closed up and slapped the ball right back into my face. I had a feeling my ceiling at that level might be limited at that point.

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    When a hundred students ran bare through campus the first time it rained that year. UCSC ftw!

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    #9

    I had just moved in to my own apartment the summer before my freshman year, being a poor college student the best setup I could afford was an apartment sharing a room with two other girls. Time alone was scarce at night but once in a while the two other girls would go out and I would just hang out in the apartment with my SO...and by hang out I mean seize the opportunity to [be intimate] in peace. On one particular night my SO and I were in a bit of a rush because we didn't know how long my roommates would be gone and it slipped my mind to do the usual 'close the windows, lock the door' routine. Considerably loud and dirty [time] ensues, and just as I let out that last satisfied moan I hear my neighbors on both sides (I had one window on either side of my bedroom windows, both apartments occupied by 2-3 college guys) start to cheer and clap for me. For a solid minute I lay frozen like a deer in the headlights as they applauded my grand finale. My SO thought it was most hilarious thing that had ever happened, and I just wanted to go hide.

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    #10

    When the class size dropped to half the second week, but doubled on midterms and finals.

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    #11

    I guess it was when I just left mid-day to hop on a train and go an hour away to another city for a BBQ. I mean, I had done that sort of thing before in HS, but I didn't have to tell anyone I was leaving, I just...walked to the station and was gone for the day. Complete, 100% freedom.

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    #12

    Worst- freshman year, coming back late on a Sunday after visiting family, only to find all the dining halls closed. So I made bagel bites in my microwave alone (roommate went off to sleep with her SO) crying because I missed my mom and realized nobody would care for me the way she does.

    Best- went to a house party that had a water slide, live music, mud pit, and alcohol abounding. Wrestled in the mud with my friends, and shot liquor into each other's mouths with mini squint guns. Epic dance battle commenced. Realized I would never be able to experience such reckless abandonment outside of college.

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    #13

    Mine wasnt some raging party or walking in on a roommates 3some or anything....it was more of a epiphany the second I was dropped off by the parents...

    *Some critical background*: I came from a Military Boarding School....i went from extreme supervision to bliss (with a summer in between). My parents dropped me off at 11th and High st, right next to the Panera at the Ohio State University. We moved in already, just ate, and done all the admin type stuff you do on the first day....i was truly being released. I grew up in a relatively strict family. My parents lived in Chicago, so they were leaving for home right after this. I gave them the epic "last time being under your wing" hug. My mom cried with deep passion. Dad and I hugged, chatted, fist bumped and that was it.

    Many, many times I have reflected on the feeling inside me as I sauntered the 1/8 to 1/4 mile to my dorm, by myself, for the first time. I MADE IT! THIS IS IT! THIS IS COLLEGE....*looking around* THESE ARE MY PEERS AND FUTURE FRIENDS...**THIS IS GONNA BE AWESOOMMMMEEEE!!!** It was a picturesque day, 70 to 75 degrees, no clouds, such vibrancy about and so much ahead of me. I've written a handful of songs and poems about it....I finally had the freedom I had been yearning and painstakingly sticking it out for....as i reflect on it now the smile on my face is as wide as can possibly stretch....so fond.

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    My mother INSISTED that we hit the road at 5:25am to "beat the traffic" nearing my campus. Ended up on campus at 7:45am, with move in to the dorms beginning at 9:00am. After carrying our first few loads of dorm supplies to the door until they unlocked it, I was approached by a lady resembling Veronica Corningstone. She approached me and asked if I was an incoming freshman, willing to interview. "Absolutely!" I say. It was aired all day on the local news, and people recognized me for the first week or so, especially the faculty and RAs living in my dorm. I was borderline famous, for a wee bit. Thanks Mom!

    TL;DR Arrived prematurely... made the news!

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    #15

    Crazy cross-dressing dean made a paintball tournament that ended up as war. But hey, that's community college.

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    #16

    The minute I stepped on campus. I realized I did not know one person within a thousand miles.

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    #17

    In college, I lived in a dorm as a freshman, but moved off campus into an apartment the next year. One night, after getting completely obliterated and blacking out, I walked back to my old dorm room, (I assume) thinking that was where I still lived, climbed up onto the top bunk of a bunkbed, and went to sleep. I woke up the next morning, trying to figure out what happened and why I wasn't in my own bed, looked around and saw a guy sitting at his computer. "Where am I?" I asked. He just turned and looked at me with a big smile on his face and said, "College, man. College.".

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    #18

    Failed my very first midterm because I tried to "study" like I did in High School.

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    #19

    I went from being able to cruise through exams/coursework to actually having to pay attention and work hard.

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    #20

    All my chemistry 101 exam scores were between 60% and 80%. First time it happened I was shocked, second time time I knuckled down and really studied for the third exam, and the third exam I barely broke 80%. I was convinced I would have to retake it. I passed the class with a solid A. Feels good man.

    #21

    I went to a small liberal arts college, needless to say the place was infested with children of rich people. We like to call those pseudo-hippies "trustafarians". I'm standing in the smoking area my first week of college, listening to a chick talk about how chicken nuggets give you cancer. While she was smoking an American Spirit. Welcome to hypocrisy.

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    #22

    When I started college, we went to have a campingtrip as an introduction. Nobody of the 150 people knew each other, including me of course. The weather from the first day on was BAD. So bad that after the second day, only 5 of the 150 tents stood upright. But it was great. It was helping and be helped. We suddenly became a family because of our common enemy (the weather). We helped each other holding tents, finding lost stuff, and drinking. After two years all of us 150 are still like a big family.

    #23

    My parents were moving me into my dorm freshman year the week before classes start. The dorm was a co-ed freshman dorm, 8 floors high and located in a residential area of town that was mainly populated by students. The house facing the front of the dorm (directly across the street) had 5 guys living in it. As we are moving my stuff to my room, the 5 gentleman who lived across the street displayed a banner that they had fashioned from an old white bedsheet. They unfurled it and hung it from the roof of their front porch. It read: "Fathers thank you for your daughters." That's when I knew I was in college.

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    #24

    A colleague of my dad recalls his first day in a high tier university.

    his first class was physics, so he sits down with the other students in the lecture hall, waits a few minutes while the professor writes some points on the board and the professor turns to the class. the professor starts talking. "Hello, class," he says dryly, "this is your first day of college. some of you might think you're special. you might be a valedictorian of your high school, or had honors awards, or got perfect sat scores. look around you. there are 100 kids in this hall just like you. you're not special. welcome to college." and then he started the lecture.

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    #25

    One phrase was my welcome to college moment.

    "You might want to get yourself checked out."

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    #26

    I was setting up my dorm room and I realized I had no idea how to put my sheet on the twin bed. I kept trying and trying but it was simultaneously too short for the length of the bed and WAY too wide for the width.

    Yeah, I was trying to put it on sideways, but I had to call home before I figured that out.

    #27

    The day I moved in was also the day that my mother had an emergency mastectomy for Stage IV triple negative breast cancer (2008). I was so scared, knew absolutely nobody, and my roommate was awful. My girlfriend was 100 miles away, and she was doubting the long-distance relationship would work.

    Fast forward four years. I graduated, Mom is still fighting, and my girlfriend is now my fiancee, and we're getting married in May.

    College went by so fast.

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    #28

    I go to college in a foreign country (American in Hong Kong). My plane landed around 9:30pm, and by 11pm I was moved in. I meet some of the older students and they tell me "get dressed, you've got 15 minutes."

    Less than an hour later we're all doing shots in clubs and dancing on top of bars with people who's names I can't remember. The more time I spend here the more I hate the US' drinking age.

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    #29

    I'll start with my first college experience which turned into a "I'm gonna like it here" moment. At my school orientation consisted of you staying overnight in one of the on-campus dorms. It was oven-like in the rooms so I decided to go down to the lounge, meet some people, and not even sleep. I found some people, socialized, shared stories and all of that. By the middle of the night we were playing NeverHaveIEver. Me and the other guys were saying some weird stuff just for some laughs.... but all of the girls in the group did them.... If there was a picture of my face that night it would be similar to a child on christmas.

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    #30

    Thought I didn't need to study for anything, like high school. Got an A in high school biology when I was a sophomore.

    Get to college, where all the professors have PhD's and teach all of the introductory classes too. Tells us to study really hard so we'll succeed.

    I figured, "I'm smart enough."

    68%! Hello college.

    #31

    On my first day of college, everyone yelled at me and then continued to yell for the entire year. #militarycollegeproblems.

    #32

    I was always sort of an odd kid; in addition to being a long haired male, my wardrobe was almost 100% Mickey Mouse shirts.

    About 3 days after I'd moved in to my dorm in college, I was walking back from some finance office next to a road, and as usual was donning the Mickey Mouse shirt. Without warning, I felt something whack me in the forehead. I was stunned at first; I eventually reached up and touched my forehead, and realized that I had been egged.

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    #33

    I remember thinking it was weird that so many people were introducing themselves left and right. I don't have any crazy stories, except that the walls were really thin and my neighbour was very popular with the ladies - and that I also kept getting my food stolen from the communal fridge so I spiked it with laxatives.

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    #34

    When I got the score back on my first calc test... 32%.

    #35

    I was in my dorm room trying to study neuroscience while the girls in the room on one side of mine were blasting rap and the girls in the room on the other side were blasting country. Next quarter when I moved to a quiet hall, they followed me, found my room, and started pounding on my door in the middle of the night because I'd had the nerve to ask them to be quiet during quiet hours.

    #36

    I walked into my first class. I sat down.

    It was silent. No one was talking. Someone in the corner was playing music, but I could only hear it because of the silence in the room. No cliques full of girls screaming at each other about last night's party, no packs of pretty boys calling each other bro.

    No one CARED about each other.

    I almost started sobbing with relief.

    #37

    On the first night we got called into one of the higher flats to play Kings cup. After every single person had whiteyed out the window (except me, actually, because I'm irish), one of the lads wondered if the scissors were sharp, cut his arm open and an ambulance was called while I held the muscle up.
    He went to the club once his 15 stitches were sorted, pulled a girl from the building who punched him in the face, breaking his nose the following night.

    He's pretty much the best story guy ever.

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    #38

    During orientation week I had my first drink, a beer, and then spoke for two hours about the meaning of life with a boy I found mildly attractive. Hooray for liberal arts colleges!

    #39

    I skipped my first ever class. That pretty much set the tone of the next 8 years.

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    #40

    When I did the reading for my tutorial (all 16 pages of it) very drunk after a night out at 4am whilst eating a Peshwari naan, then getting up at 7.30am, eating the rest of the naan for breakfast and going to the tutorial at 9am. Funnily enough, I was the only person in my tutorial group of 8 who had done the reading, so had to brief everyone on the bus on the way there and effectively lead the discussion.

    #41

    When i [failed] my first midterm, realized all the girls weren't in fact pleasure seaking women of loose morals, and that you should in fact have a good idea of what you want to do or you wont graduate on time.

    #42

    Came to college with an anti-cigarette, anti-drinking mentality. First day, met my suite mate who was a dealer, my roommate who was an alcoholic, and all 5 of my suite mates had smoked cigarettes... Needless to say, every value had been desecrated.

    #43

    I'm 18. I can do a shot of Jim Beam for every year I am old!

    I was wrong.

    My hair is in a toilet.

    Welcome to college.

    #44

    Moved into the "Party Dorm" on my campus the first day of frosh week. As I pull up there are guys on the front lawn doing beer funnels. I had never even been in the residence before, but I had heard stories. I walk into the building to find my room and meet my roommate. As I walk in the front door Im handed a cup of beer. I find my room, on the third floor, and my roommate was already passed out (3:30PM) on the floor, in nothing but his underwear. This was only 3 years ago.
    TR/DR -- I love college.

    #45

    The first and only time I threw up from drinking too much.

    #46

    The day we decided to gave a backyard boxing match, complete with trainers and card girls.

    #47

    Night before first day of class I went out drinking without a plan on how to get home. I got incredibly drunk, to the point of not being allowed into a cab. I passed out on some random persons couch near sunrise, woke up at 6 in the morning and cabbed it back to my house. I barely had enough time to grab my bag and make it back for my first class at 8:30. I attended all 5 of my classes despite being very hungover and tired. That was fun.

    #48

    My welcome to college moment was more like a solid week straight. I go to a state school in upstate New York that's known as a huge party school.

    The first week of school consisted of drinking and hopping from frat parties to bars, coming home at 3am wasted out of my mind, waking up at 12, recooperating from the hangover, and doing it all over again for 6 days straight.

    I would wake up with people's numbers that I don't remember getting, and people coming to me during the day who I didnt know asking me when we should party together again.

    And then I nearly failed out of school the first semester and stopped going out as much.

    Party, but not too hard.

    #49

    My roommate was insulin dependent, wore a pump and everything. One night she drank so much she had to go to the hospital because her pump had stopped working and she was too drunk to notice.

    #50

    Pretty typical, walked to a house party with my roommates, walked into a small run down house that was shoulder to shoulder jam packed, beautiful girls everywhere, plenty of booze, I even said to myself..."You made it Andrew, this is college."

    #51

    First night out with new flatmates...started casually enough with a few beers in the flat. Move to the SU, few more beers. Half of the group (pussies) went home, other half continued to nightclub. Now, I was the token Irish guy at a UK uni, so everybody starts playing a little game called "Get the Paddy Pissed". One of my new flatmates starts buying me double tequilas... a lot of them. I loose track after the 5th. Apparently I then ran off (no memory of this) and got lost for a few hours. Somehow managed to make my way home where the party is still going on back at the flat. Someone hands me what I assume is a pint of water and I drink nearly half before realising that it is in fact vodka. Then the beer bong comes out and of course I have to do a few of those too. Then someone convinces me to eat one of the hottest chilli peppers commercially available in the UK...spend about an hour leaning my head out the window, using a can of beer as moutwash and spitting it out of a 4th floor window. Apparently at some point in the night, I also passed out standing up, just leaning against my bedroom door. Woke up the next day, and managed to make it to my 9 am lecture. Welcome to uni!!

    #52

    My RA got completely wasted the first weekend, came back to the dorm and threw up all over himself in the hallway. He then preceded to spray his entire thrown-up-on shirt with spray fixative, and leaves it to dry on the balcony off the hall. Confused? I'll explain.

    It was an art school.

    #53

    I go to school in NYC and last year hurricane Irene was doin her bizniss, so of course we threw a "Hurricane Irene Party" during orientation week. Me and 2 guys trekked out into the storm to go buy more booze. When we got back the party had been busted by the RA (yeah, I know we were dumb), and I booked it with my huge backpack full of alcohol to my room.

    #54

    A whole campus decided they wanted me to get drunk. At one point of my drunken escapades that night the campus convinced me that some poor girl who lived a few floors down from me had taken my ID. I chased her for five minutes round the student village (she was laughing, it was fine) I eventually rugby-tackled her to the ground. After picking her up we all went back to my flat's kitchen. I don't remember much after that.

    I woke up in the morning in my own bed (which was a supprise in itself), I had mushrooms (of the non-magic varitity) in my mouth and I had more writing on me than a decent newpaper. This was the point I realised I was going to like uni.

    #55

    I was in college ~2 weeks before loosing my virginity. And then I woke up next to a different girl the next weekend, and so on...

    Also, the first time me and my roomie met our RA was the week before classes started so we had nothing to do really. It was the middle of the afternoon, we were drunk and walking around inside of the building with a wild pigeon my roommate somehow caught with his bare hands, when we bumped into her...

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    #56

    The first time I got drunk/went out with my friends. I was like "Whoa, I don't have to like, check in with my parents, this is awesome!".

    #57

    Walking down the hall to my dorm. A girl I never met before says "I like your sideburns." We ended up [sleeping together]. Never got each others numbers. Never ran into each other again. College life.

    #58

    When I was walking to class and there was a Bud Light trailer in my way.

    #59

    I was in the first wave of freshman to move into dorms. The first night I went out to a party, slept in some random guy's room (on the floor. Lame.) The next morning I got lost trying to find my dorm, it started to rain and I was in a white shirt. Also other freshman and their parents were moving into their dorms. I finally found my dorm and puked in a trashcan in front of a bunch of people and parents. Hey, it's college.
    TL;DR Walk of shame.

    #60

    My "Welcome to University" moment has to be when, during lunch, myself and a few friends went to a pub, got mildly drunk, then spent twenty minutes filling coke bottles with cider from the university bar so we can continue drinking during class.

    That was a good first year of university.

    #61

    Hearing my roommate lose her virginity ten minutes after she almost threw up on my laptop at a party.

    She's a riot.

    #62

    When I realized the beer flowed like water and the women were just as plentiful.

  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 07:00

    Growing up in the ’90s came with plenty of things that kids today might find completely strange, from cassette tapes and dial-up internet to spending hours outside without anyone being able to text you. It was a time when you had to wait for your favorite song to come on the radio, rewind videos before returning them, and hope nobody picked up the phone while you were using the internet.

    Today, we took a nostalgic dive into the r/90s community to find memories, memes, and photos that perfectly capture what growing up during that unforgettable decade was really like. Some will make you laugh, others might unlock memories you didn't even realize were still hiding somewhere in your brain. So keep scrolling, Pandas, and get ready for a serious dose of ’90s nostalgia.

    #1 Opinion Of An Ex-Blockbuster Employee

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    #2 Remember When You Didn't Have To Enter Your Personal Info Online To Win A Soda?

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    #3 I Remember Getting This Exact Stereo System As A Christmas Gift In The Late 90s. Such An Awesome Gift!!

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    If there’s one thing that truly defines the ’90s, it’s how much the world seemed to change in such a short time. The decade sat right in the middle of a major shift from the familiar analog world to the digital one we know today. Landlines, printed newspapers, video rental stores, and physical photo albums were still part of everyday life, but the internet was beginning to quietly change everything.

    In The Nineties, Chuck Klosterman explores this monumental transition and captures the early, almost innocent public perception of the World Wide Web. Back then, many people had no idea that the strange new thing called “going online” would eventually transform how we work, communicate, shop, date, and entertain ourselves. Looking back now, it’s fascinating to realize that the ’90s were essentially the bridge between two completely different worlds.

    #4 Very Common In The 90s

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    #5 Why Was This A Real Thing?

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    #6 Kids These Days Will Never Understand This

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    During the ’90s, cellphones began transitioning from bulky, expensive devices to something more compact and accessible to ordinary people. Phones like the Nokia 5110 became instantly recognizable symbols of the era, and suddenly, carrying a phone around no longer seemed like something out of a science-fiction movie. Of course, these phones were nothing like the tiny supercomputers sitting in our pockets today. There were no endless apps, high-quality cameras, or social media notifications constantly demanding attention. But at the time, being able to call someone while away from home felt pretty revolutionary. And let's be honest, a phone that could survive being dropped approximately a thousand times had its own kind of magic.

    #7 You Could Never Fix It Either

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    #8 Really Miss The Goth Craze In The 90s

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    #9 The Perfect Saturday Night Growing Up?

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    And it wasn’t just technology that saw major advancements during the decade. The medical world was making life-changing progress too. In 1995, doctors introduced Highly Active Antiretroviral Therapy which transformed HIV from what had largely been considered a guaranteed death sentence into a manageable chronic condition for many patients. That same year, the FDA approved LASIK, opening the door for millions of people to correct their vision through a relatively quick outpatient procedure. Advances in early detection, including screening methods such as mammograms, also helped improve cancer outcomes. Along with developments in treatment, including more targeted approaches to chemotherapy, cancer death rates began showing important long-term improvements.

    #10 When People Ask Us Why We Miss The 90s…

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    #11 Wow I Feel So Old

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    #12 What Cd Did You Usually Listen To In Yours?

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    The ’90s also helped reshape the global economy in ways that would be felt for decades. Agreements such as the North American Free Trade Agreement which came into effect in 1994, and the creation of the World Trade Organization in 1995, dramatically changed international trade. Barriers between countries were lowered, making it easier for goods, services, and businesses to move across borders.

    Of course, globalization brought its own complicated debates and consequences, but it also played a major role in economic growth in many developing regions. The expansion of global trade helped create new opportunities and contributed to hundreds of millions of people rising out of extreme poverty, particularly in rapidly developing countries across Asia. So while many of us remember the ’90s for Tamagotchis and boy bands, the decade was also quietly reshaping the wider world.

    #13 Home Alone 2

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    #14 Ren & Stimpy Was An Absolute Fever Dream

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    #15 The Best Gum Ever For About 2 Minutes

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    On a lighter and much more entertaining note, the ’90s also gave us movies that completely changed what audiences thought was possible on the big screen. Jurassic Park in 1993 brought dinosaurs to life in a way that left viewers genuinely amazed, blending practical effects with groundbreaking computer-generated imagery. Then came Toy Story in 1995, which made history as the first fully computer-animated feature film.

    It wasn't just a fun movie about toys coming to life; it marked the beginning of a major shift in animation and filmmaking. Hollywood increasingly embraced digital technology, and visual effects began opening doors to stories that would have been far more difficult to create using practical effects alone. For a decade often remembered as simpler, the ’90s were actually laying the groundwork for many of the movies and digital entertainment experiences we enjoy today.

    #16 Still Happens Today Haha

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    #17 Anyone Else Remember?

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    #18 What's The First Movie You See On Here?

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    And that’s what makes looking back at the ’90s so much fun. The decade gave us major scientific breakthroughs, changing technology, new ways of connecting with the world, and plenty of unforgettable pop culture moments. And today’s collection celebrates the smaller, everyday things that made growing up during that time so memorable—the gadgets, habits, fashion choices, and little experiences that probably seemed completely normal back then. Now, they instantly trigger a wave of nostalgia. So, Pandas, which of these memories took you straight back to the ’90s? And what’s one thing from the decade you wish you could experience again?

    #19 What A Wonderful Time It Was Back Then

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    #20 A Faucet From The 90s

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    #21 Where In The World Is Carmen Sandiego? Was A Fun And Underrated Game Show On Pbs

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    #22 If You Had This Set Up Your Family Had Some Paper !

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    #23 Adult Era

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    #24 We Were Weird Before It Went Viral

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    #25 The Good Old Days, Waiting All Week For This Moment

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    #26 Brendan Fraser And Leslie Mann Had Great Chemistry Together In George Of The Jungle, Classic 90s Film

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    #27 The Indian In The Cupboard Was Such An Underrated Movie

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    #28 I’ve Only Heard Of This Mythical Creature

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    #29 Built Differently

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    #30 Anyone Else Remember Getting Life Savers Books?

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    #31 Remember Doing This?

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    #32 Does Anybody Remember The "Smell" Of Old Crt Television Screens?

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    #33 If The 90s Were A Vehicle

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    #34 The Man, The Myth, The Voice. James Avery Was The Goat

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    #35 Remember The Hunter Green Phase ?

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    #36 Ghostbusters Ectopack

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    #37 The 90s Were Safer Times

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    #38 Bob Ross And His Pet Squirrels, 1991

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    #39 Mr. Sketch Scented Markers

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    #40 Random Cravings For A 90s Discontinued Product

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    #41 These Were Everywhere I Was Obsessed

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    #42 No Roaches!

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    #43 Anyone Remember Wishbone?

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    #44 Great All The Way Through

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    #45 Me Irl

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    #46 Who Had It?

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    #47 New York City?!

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    #48 Nobody Ever Won

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    #49 Spot On

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    #50 👃👃😅😂

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    #51 ✏️🤣😂…

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    #52 Is This A Coincidence Or Paying Homage ?

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    #53 I Had About Twenty-Five Holographic Necklaces And Sunglasses. They Were Tiiiight!

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    #54 Who’s This Guy? It’s From 1998

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    #55 Oh The Simple Times Of A Friday Night

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    #56 Who Remembers Reading About The Adventures Of These Two?

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    #57 The Faculty (1998)

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    #58 Admit It… We All Wanted Arnolds Room When We Were Younger

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    #59 Other Than The Traditional “Jazz” Pattern, What Patterns Scream 90’s To You?

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    #60 Anybody Ever Make These Back In The Day??

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    #61 I'd Watch This!

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    #62 Does Anyone Remember These?

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    #63 Matthew Perry In 1995

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    #64 Who Remembers Yikes Pencils? I Had These Back In The 90s And Thought They Were So Cool! These Pictures Bring Back A Lot Of Memories

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    #65 Whole World Ahead Of Her In 1999

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    #66 How Excited Were You When This Rolled Into Your Classroom?

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    #67 This Specific Haircut

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    #68 Found A McDonald's That Hit Me Right In The Childhood Feels

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    #69 Anyone Else?

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    #70 The Daily Show Golden Era

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    #71 Then And Now. The Big Comfy Couch. Alyson Court (Loonete) And Molly

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    #72 Good Ol’ Prices

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    #73 "Tonight, Tonight" (1995) By The Smashing Pumpkins. All Right, Folks. Give Me Your Favourite Song Lyrics From The 90s

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  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 07:00

    Ideally, a pregnancy is planned but often, that’s not the case. Data from the United Nations Population Fund reveals that 45% – 50% of all pregnancies are unintended. That’s a total of around 121 million women every year. For some, it comes as welcome surprise. Others see it as a huge shock.

    One woman says when she started feeling dizzy and nauseous at work, she assumed her new medication was to blame. She wasn’t expecting a trip to the doctor to end with a positive pregnancy test. But it did. The woman’s husband had recently left her, and she’d ended up seeking a little too much comfort in the arms of a platonic friend. Now, she’s not sure how to tell him.

    When her husband suddenly left her, it came as a huge shock… as did her positive pregnancy test a short while later

    A woman is seen looking worried while holding a positive pregnancy test, highlighting how friends spouses are sleeping together.

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    Especially since the pregnancy was a result of a one-night stand with a “platonic” friend

    An image displays text describing a woman pregnant by a friend, after their spouses are sleeping together.

    Text explaining how friends spouses are sleeping together began when the original partners were away from home on evenings.

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    Netizens offered their advice, and many felt she should tell Larry about the pregnancy

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    The woman revealed that she’d told Larry about the pregnancy, and his reaction was a bit unexpected

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    A few people felt the woman’s story was fit for a romance movie

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    “We’re not in love”: She later gave an update on her pregnancy and where things stood with Larry

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    Some expressed their surprise, while others preferred to give pregnancy advice

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  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 06:00

    Somewhere around your third bad commute of the week, you’ve probably daydreamed about a different world. Not necessarily a better one, just different. Maybe it involved a garden. Maybe it involved never speaking to another human being again. No shame either way.

    Most of us have already picked a favorite version of the future, even if we’ve never said it out loud. Your coworker who preps for everything and reads survival blogs on his lunch break? He’s already picked his bunker. Your aunt who’s obsessed with her tomato plants and community potlucks? She’s basically living the pilot episode of her own solarpunk future.

    Nobody actually knows which one fits them until they’re forced to think it through, which is exactly what this is for. 25 questions and six wildly different ways to spend the rest of your life.

    Go ahead and find out where you’d actually land!

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity. 💡 🚀

     

  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 05:00

    Toxic masculinity, macho culture, chauvinism, misogynism, and the manosphere. We hear a lot about how rigid and destructive masculine norms pressure men to be violently dominant, emotionally closed off and opposed to anything that’s seen as remotely ‘feminine.' But something we don't often speak about is the flip side of the coin: toxic femininity.

    Experts describe it as a form of internalized misogyny that sees women restricting themselves to stereotypically “feminine” behaviors in order to appeal to men. And they say it’s more common than many of us might think.

    People have been sharing examples of toxic femininity in a series of online threads. From motherhood, to beauty standards, and self-inflicted martyrdom, Bored Panda has put together some of the best 'definitions of womanhood' that scream ‘toxic femininity.’

    #1

    I'm shocked I haven't seen it yet...

    "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."

    No, you're just a [jerk].

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    Some believe that toxic femininity is about women using their “feminine” qualities to manipulate men. But many experts argue that's not the case. In reality, they say toxic femininity involves a woman restricting their behavior to fit stereotypically feminine traits that men supposedly find pleasing.

    It's more common, and more harmful, than many might think. According to Monica Vermani, a clinical psychologist and author of A Deeper Wellness: Conquering Stress, Mood, Anxiety and Traumas, toxic femininity can affect a woman's health and well-being by increasing stress levels, sabotaging their sense of identity, contributing to a feeling of powerlessness, and leading to unhealthy relationships.

    #2

    As a woman:

    1. **Big [manhood]/ being tall:** It's okay to shame men over their bodies but not women.
    2. **Calling every woman with her own mind and opinion a "pick me"** : Need I say more?
    3. Calling every guy a creep even when he isn't being a creep, and you just don't like him.
    4. Saying you want your SO to open up about his feelings, but when he does you end up using it against him in arguments or after you break up
    5. Hitting men and thinking it's fine because you're a woman and he's a man
    6. "male tears" "Is it a girl or an abortion?"
    7. ALL men
    8. Gossiping in front of the people you're gossiping about and being obvious about it.
    9. Passive-aggressiveness at work or school. The amount of hurt I have seen women inflect on other women is disgusting! And it's also insidious, because you can't describe it as easily as you would if someone hit you or was just aggressive in other ways.
    10. Thinking men are otherworldly so they must not have feelings or anything. It's okay to call them ugly etc as if they weren't a human being just like you. (see the hypocrite that is Billie Ellish and her comments about ugly men, while simultaneously not wanting people to body shame her, and being celebrated as some sort of body positive hero.
    11. Thinking that anyone who criticizes feminism is anti-equality, a "pick me," or an incel.

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    #3

    The most recent thing I have heard from women is that some women tell other women that they aren't "real women" if they adopt or otherwise don't experience pregnancy or vaginal birth.

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    “Both toxic masculinity and femininity are unhealthy as they pressure individuals to fit a mold rather than strive to live and relate to others authentically, as their highest and best selves,” explains the expert.

    Licensed therapist Meaghan Rice, says that toxic femininity often happens as a subconscious effort to find value or feel accepted in a patriarchal society. In some cases women are explicitly told to conform to traditional stereotypes. In others, they attempt to align with those stereotypes themselves.

    #4

    The concept of motherhood in general seems to bring out a lot of toxic behaviour. Whether or not a woman chooses to become a mother, and if she does every action or decision after that seems to be up for judgment and criticism. Those “mommy” groups on Facebook all seem to devolve into a pit of negativity eventually.

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    #5

    Self inflicted martyrdom. My mum would go on and on about how much she does for the family (which was a lot and I am grateful) and about how we all did nothing but she would never tell us how to do anything. We were small kids, we didn't know how to do any chores or what's expected because she never showed us. She would make us feel guilty for existing because by us existing she had more work. And the kicker is when you'd try and be like "alright, what can I do to help and make your life easier?" she'd respond "nothing". I love her but lord this was exhausting to live with and I notice this trait more in women than men.

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    #6

    The eldest female child taking on the role of a "mother" in most Asian cultures. I had to run the house at a very young age (cooking, cleaning, laundry etc.) while taking care of my siblings at the same time.

    Not sure if this applies to other cultures too. I hope it doesn't. I never had the chance to be a child.

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    #7

    I think the closest analogy is the catty, double-crossing, gossiping “frenemy” tendencies.

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    #8

    They only support feminism when it benefits them.

    #9

    Using your children as a means of offense in divorce proceedings.

    I've seen men destroyed by being denied access to their children.

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    #10

    [Stuff] like “REAL women have meat on their bones.” Like they say my body type is unrealistic or undesirable to lift others up.

    Also how some women get so vile and merciless when discussing how other women are aging.

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    #11

    One example I’d say is strict adherence to beauty standards. Like how there are women who will literally never leave their house without make-up. Never. And some women will judge other women for not following beauty trends. I’ve heard women insult other women over so many things, like not wearing makeup, not wearing makeup the “right” way, not shaving enough body parts, not wearing a bra, wearing open-toed shoes with unpainted toenails, the list goes on.

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    #12

    My boss: “You wouldn’t be a good teacher, since you’ve never had kids.”

    I quit, went on to get a Master’s degree in educational leadership, and am now faculty/instructional designer.

    Still don’t have kids.

    I teach history and independent study as an adjunct.

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    #13

    Men are parents, guardians, or other caretakers, and their children are with them as part of daily life.

    Women often don't understand this, and assume that the man is either a [offender], divorced, or 'on special duty'.

    © Photo: CatOfGrey

    #14

    A former friend's girlfriend would tell him you need to do this/buy me that, and if he didn't or didn't do it to her satisfaction, she withholds [intimacy].

    © Photo: anon

    #15

    Oh God. Them getting in your face and hitting on you very aggressively. Had it happen before, eventually her friends had to drag her away from me, after I walked away. Mam, this a bar and I came here with my BOYFRIEND. I'm gay, please stop.

    #16

    When you criticize a woman for a completely valid reason and she tries to shame you for "not supporting other women".

    © Photo: anon

    #17

    The "if mamma ain't happy ain't nobody happy" type of households.

    © Photo: boredtxan

    #18

    Women who think their wedding is only about them, their wants and desires. You’re not the only one getting married, ma’am!

    #19

    Casual misandry is definitely a trait of toxic femininity, the same way misogyny is a trait of toxic masculinity.

    © Photo: Hot-Put7831

    #20

    Pretending to be dumb and incapable of doing things themselves to have guys do stuff for them.

    © Photo: ThrowWeirdQuestion

    #21

    When women are discouraged from achieving things or displaying intelligence because it's not "feminine." Or they're told men will be intimidated by it.

    © Photo: huuaaang

    #22

    I would say that toxic feminity can be quite similar to toxic masculinity. I'd describe it as those women who yell at men when they get emotional or vulnerable, telling them to 'man up' or 'you're supposed to be the man in this relationship!'. Kind of the same thing that 'traditional men' would say.

    It pisses me off because it's bringing women down (saying they are weaker than men) while also being really hard on the men and not letting them express themselves.

    Also, as you say, all that stuff about having to have children to be 'real women'.

    A more light-hearted example of, if not toxic, at least mildly annyoing feminity would be those women who force their husbands/boyfriends to wear a tie that matches their dress to weddings etc. (We have to match, honey!!)

    I'm a woman myself, if it helps.

    © Photo: CollectionStraight2

    #23

    Toxic masculinity = Men expected to be tough with no feelings and responsible for protecting others

    Toxic femininity = Women expected to be the caretaker in any situation and responsible for others' happiness

    Caretaker can be a note taker in a work meeting, it can be the person who is always cooking, the person always changing diapers, the organizer, or the nurse to the sick.

    I am sure I am simplifying complex things with this statement.

    © Photo: anon

    #24

    My partner used to slouch on purpose because being tall made her feel not feminine (she's about 5'8) and she stopped playing netball because it gave her muscle which also made her feel less feminine. She's better with it now and agrees the idea of being feminine can be toxic.

    © Photo: Creepy_Ad5941

    #25

    I've been around plenty of women who are all YAASSSS QUEEEEEN about other girls, but then behind their backs say some of the nastiest about them to anyone who will listen.

    © Photo: t_hrowaway2342

    #26

    “You can’t hit me because im a girl!”

    #27

    My least favorite is that real women have curves.

    © Photo: ZeeiMoss

    #28

    Judging women for choosing to be SAHMs.

    © Photo: nik2110404

    #29

    I think judging other women for how they look. Judging a women for having short hair or a big nose or hairy arms or being tall etc. Like women who think women should be small dainty things. It’s weird.

    © Photo: anon

    #30

    Prioritizing "girl power" over actual competence. I've worked for women who know their [stuff], and are easily respectable and trustworthy..... then there's the raging narcissistic thundercunts that need to throw their weight around, just so you know that they're in charge. They make bad decisions then pat themselves on the back for breaking through the glass ceiling, when it's obvious to everybody that they are just a walking Napoleon complex.

    © Photo: anon

    #31

    Some traits/examples:

    * Mean girls.
    * Talking over others
    * Belittling others whether face to face or through gossip mongering.
    * Passive aggression - think eye-rolling, patronizing comments, fake laughing and niceties, smiley faces following a harsh-worded email, etc.
    * Jealousy, resentment, and bitterness towards other women for their looks, popularity, and professional performance.
    * Competing with other female colleagues through their looks, dominance, work, or sexuality.
    * Pregnancy culture
    * Supermom culture
    * Wedding culture
    * Dating culture.

    #32

    Making fun of guys for being broke yet expecting anyone else to pay for your meal.

    #33

    When women joke about men's hair loss or height. Things men can't really change. That's toxic.

    #34

    I often get scrutinized for not wearing makeup. I have nothing against it, I just feel more like myself without it. I put myself together, I just don't spend a ton of time styling my hair specifically or dabbling in cosmetics and for some reason that's taboo.

    #35

    Forcing girls to be feminine when it's not wanted or warranted. My partner has never been girly. When growing up her Nan (who raised her) constantly pushed for dresses, pink things and the like. Her Nan never relented and pushed it until my partner moved out.

    Women don't need to wear dresses or makeup or similar. Let them do and wear what they want.

    © Photo: Murky_Interaction927

    #36

    A subset I call the “Call Her Daddy” type. It’s tenets are basically, as long as you’re hot you can be as crazy, toxic, messy, and mean as you want, and you should use other people (especially men) as much as possible to achieve your ends.

    If anyone doesn’t like the way you are, that’s a personal failing on their part and just proves the idea that “my beauty attracts haters” so I must be doing something right! They will say they hate men and don’t like them while also admitting that everything they do is explicitly for male attention and validation.

    I’ve met a few of this type and I can tell you right now if they weren’t conventionally attractive, no group of people would ever put up with it.

    #37

    Skewed social responsibilities.

    Women expecting men to assume traditional gender roles of the provider while simultaneously thinking it's abhorrent that some men prefer the traditional gender role for women being SAHM, home makers, etc.

    Doesn't get much worse than that.

    #38

    Women always say men keep them down. But I've never seen anyone put down a woman like another woman.

    #39

    Thinking they’re entitled to special treatment if they happen to be attractive.

    © Photo: professorfox10

    #40

    My older sister telling me that I’ll never find a husband if I don’t stop wearing plain brief underwear and buy some “cute” underwear like thongs.

    © Photo: MadameK8

    #41

    "I'm not like other girls."

    #42

    Purity culture maybe?

    and yuck, that whole "defining ppl by their child-having status" thing is gross.

    #43

    Mommy wine culture.

    #44

    Painting with a broad brush here, but the way I've personally seen a lot of females treat one another is wild. I'm not exactly sure why, but it seems like there's a lot of peculiar gatekeeping around "being a real woman."

    I also have several female friends that just can't be friends with other females. Any time anyone mentions another female, they pop off a little bit. Definitely possible it's anecdotal but none of them have anything in common besides being a woman so it seems like it can't be entirely uncommon.

    Obviously all of this can apply to men as well but it seems more prevalent in females in my experience.

    #45

    Maybe it’s a Japan thing (raising my family here), but Japanese women tend to almost take pride in not fixing tech stuff. From printers to smartphones to flipping fuses, they tend to have the attitude of, “Fixing that stuff is why we keep guys around.”

    My wife has this attitude, even though she’s amazingly smart and capable, and my daughter is picking it up as well. Can’t stand it.

    © Photo: Alternative-Run-849

    #46

    Being called inherently lazy for not doing makeup/nails/high heels/or some complicated hair do. No judgement on women whom like to do those things. Whatever makes you happy. But I’d rather focus on other things.

    #47

    If you hold a woman accountable or disprove them you are now mansplaning. If a guy is flirting with her that she isnt attracted to, he is suddenly a creep. Wants equal rights but not equal consequences.

    #48

    Reading some of these responses I think there are some men (and women) who don’t understand what toxic femininity/masculinity is.

    Toxic femininity is society’s standards of femininity that serves against us. Both men and women can ~~have~~ engage in this behaviour. For example:

    - “too posh to push” dialogue

    - believing women are naturally better carers or parents (ETA: and by extension, men as less reliable parents)

    - believing a woman’s purpose is to stay home and bear children without earning an income (eta: and by extension, a man must be the breadwinner)

    - a lot of the makeup / fashion industry promoting beautiful slim women (if you’re not beautiful and/or slim, you are not being a proper woman)

    - see also social influencers

    - treating women who are not overtly emotional, or with male-dominated interests as strange or different

    - shaming women with menstrual cycles as unclean, must be kept hush hush as feminine women are clean and pure.

    Conversely, typical examples of toxic masculinity are “boys will be boys” and “man up.”

    #49

    Lmaooo hell yeah it is. i’ll give you an example that happened today in the morning while i was in public health class. we were having a big class discussion about kids having diabetes and ways on how to fix this, who to blame, etc. we were also role playing, so one guy was a teacher and one girl was a mother. the class teacher asked the mother something along the lines of “you work 10 hours a day and when you come home, you are too tired to make dinner so you just order something unhealthy like a pizza for the family. to try and solve this, who could you ask to help you make dinner or lunch for the kids?” she proceed to answer “my husband” randomly, out of nowhere, a girl (the class loudmouth) blurted out, “who are you kidding, men are useless” and the teacher just laughed it off and everything went back to normal. now what if the roles were reversed? ngl it made me kinda uncomfortable and i cringe a little but i just brushed it off.

    #50

    Hm, so if toxic masculinity says men must act strong, be emotionless, and dominate women, that would mean toxic femininity is acting weak, emotional, and submissive, and maybe shaming other women for not doing the same?

    I sort of feel like all femininity is viewed as toxic in American culture. Think about what happens if a dude wears a dress, vs a girl wearing a suit.

    #51

    Yes, I think the oddest example I can find is the toxicity of women's competitiveness against other women and men when working, how you have to "claw your way up" and step on people just to reach success, and how the attitudes of successful women are absolutely [the worst] towards one's who aren't as successful.

    #52

    I think one overlooked example of toxic feminity is women not acknowledging female privilege. For instance, I brought up the fact that in court proceedings mothers for one reason or another, women tend to win custody hearings to an ex-friend. My friend focused on the fact that men often choose to give up custody. However, she refused to see how this trend be influenced by the social structure and the perception of women being better parents or even women having the privilege of spending quality time with their children due to their societal expectations.

    For instance, imagine if custody hearings were decided solely on who could provide financially for children. In such a scenario, male privilege would rear its head as men, due to societal expectations, often spend more time at work increasing the odds of them getting paid more and having more opportunities for advancing. Thus, the societal gendered expectation would create a situation unfavorable for women.

    If our society was an equal one, men and women would have similar expectations as parents and there would likely be a 50/50 split over who got the children. We do not live in this society, so of course, men will not always be the chief caregiver in most cases, but this doesn't mean the father is unfit for primary custody.

    #53

    When in a relationship, not clearly communicating needs and getting upset when their partner is not a mind reader and expecting them to just "pick up on the vibe" or "should already know because it's obvious". I know because I used to do that. Ugh. Man or woman, we are responsible for taking care of ourselves and part of that means clearly stating our wants and needs to our partner, friends, family, whomever clearly and deliberately.

    #54

    The way that a majority of female managers treat their female staff.

    #55

    Thought I'd never say this but:
    Watch "Keeping up with the Kardashians" lol.

    #56

    Siding with the man against the woman even when he's a cheater or a predator.

    #57

    Demanding chivalry is toxic I think. Men shouldn't have to respect a woman just be she's a woman.

    #58

    I live with my mom and my sister. Both of them are feminists who think men are trash and say that men deserve to be bullied. Do I even have to explain.

    #59

    For starters, Just check Instagram and FDS. They shame and bully men and women they don't like. They pretend men aren't affected by the same things they complain about. It's like they believe the whole world revolves around them.

    #60

    Victim blaming other women.

    #61

    Yes toxic femininity is a thing, it’s the extreme negative behaviors that exclusively exist to females.

    Examples of toxic femininity

    1. Overbearing mother’s

    2. Narcissistic and extreme validation/attention seeking.

    #62

    Toxic feminism has been a huge deal in India actually. There's been a case recently where there was a taxi driver who did nothing wrong and was slapped by a lady again and again and he didn't raise a finger. Then there was this one where one girl simply used social media against a simple delivery guy on zomato for no reason other than wanting free food.

    #63

    If not a girl it's an abortion.

    #64

    Having a child or marriage to keep a guy just because you’re afraid of being alone or b/c all your girlfriends have done it is pretty toxic. Understandable but toxic.

  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 05:00

    A lot of our current world is about extremes and superlatives. We want things to be the best, the funniest; we want the fastest delivery, the lowest prices. Even Mother Nature seems to be getting in on the game with the scorching heat it’s been serving us this entire summer.

    But what if you want just a little bit of something? You want some interesting facts, but it’s okay if they’re only mildly interesting. Same with pictures — maybe you want a chuckle or two, but you wish to be only mildly amused. Well, look no further — Bored Panda is fulfilling your wish with a selection of pictures from the “Mildly Amusing” and “Mildly Satisfying” subreddits. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy some mellow humor for a few minutes.

    #1 A Handful Of Super Tiny Ceramic Fruit Elephants That I Have Been Working On Recently

    © Photo: Hannahporcelain

    #2 After 7 Months Of Work, I Was Satisfied. This Is My Pencil Work Of Sistine Chapel

    © Photo: fabiodesenhando2

    #3 A Perfect Shot

    © Photo: Beowulf1985

    #4 I Made A Rattlesnake Pen Holder In Brass And Tried To Carve Over 3000 Scales On Its Body, Would You Be Satisfied With This Work?

    © Photo: COPPERTISTWU

    #5 Leaf Art I Made

    © Photo: Rocky-Raccoon3648

    #6 I Ordered Nachos. Thought I Got The Wrong Order But The Owners Were Just Nice Humans

    © Photo: Ok_Treacle9443

    #7 My 3 Year Old Opened Her Cafe This Morning. This Is Line At Grand Opening

    © Photo: Minimum-Scholar9562

    #8 I Polished A Mud Ball

    © Photo: thewiremother

    #9 A New Coworker Asks To Decorate His Cubicle. This Is The Dramatic Result

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #10 After Two Months, My Last Supper Drawing Is Done, I Tried To Bring A Metallic Aspect Using The Graphite Tonality And I Got Mildly Satisfied With

    © Photo: fabiodesenhando2

    #11 After 4 Hours Of Detangling By 4 People As Well As A Much-Needed Improv Haircut, My Aunt Is Finally Free Of Her Severe Matting After Weeks In The Hospital

    © Photo: roostarfeesh

    #12 This Was The Bus Seat I Got On A 5-Hour Trip

    © Photo: Onirico

    #13 I Found An Almost Perfectly Circular Rock

    © Photo: Responsible_Cut_9273

    #14 I Knitted These Socks Myself!

    © Photo: VladimirovaElena

    #15 Took Me A While To Sort The Rings By Color

    © Photo: oiliwa

    #16 Onion Skin All In One Go

    © Photo: robinbeans

    #17 The Snow Rolled Off My Windshield Like A Carpet

    © Photo: vkats

    #18 Was Wrapping Presents And The Art Lined Up Perfectly

    © Photo: aaronpabon

    #19 While Deplaning, I Noticed We Had Some Cheeky Pilots

    I'm also interested to see they have a bluetooth speaker. I never thought about if pilots listen to music while flying.

    © Photo: shakensparco

    #20 Space Invaders Floor Tiles In A Local Bar

    © Photo: Cessnateur

    #21 I Can’t Stop Looking At My Moisturiser Swirl

    © Photo: traborrec

    #22 One Ridge For Each Chemotherapy Session

    © Photo: Badgerfier

    #23 Frost On My Car Window Looks Like A Sketch

    © Photo: Ok_Comb_6230

    #24 Frozen Puddle Found On Our Walk This Morning

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #25 I Bought A New TV And It Came With These Grooves For The Cablepath

    © Photo: Bearspoole

    #26 My Little Art Corner

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #27 This A I Randomly Wrote While Doing Hw

    © Photo: calebgreen695

    #28 Humbly Proud Of My Wrapping Job On This Weirdly Shaped Gift

    © Photo: katetheeffingreat

    #29 The Shirts I Folded At Work, Before The Customer Could Get To Them (I Know The Bottom Left Ones Aren’t As Pretty I Didn’t Do Them Yet!)

    © Photo: MushuTheGreat17

    #30 The Way The Hotel House Keeping Staff Left My Toiletries In My Room For A Business Trip

    © Photo: bmullis411

    #31 On Top Of The World! Pun Intended

    © Photo: Filipino-Asker

    #32 This Ice Cream

    © Photo: crazesheets

    #33 Yep

    © Photo: Infinite_Tadpole452

    #34 Watching Netflix When I Noticed I Had The Exact Same Digital Clock As A TV Show I Was Watching... And It Happened To Be The Same Time

    © Photo: justneedtoreply

    #35 Two Of My Pencil Drawings, Took Me About One Month To Complete Both

    © Photo: fabiodesenhando2

    #36 My 3 Year Old Daughter Does This At Family Gatherings

    © Photo: Minimum-Scholar9562

    #37 I Crocheted With Copper Wire To Make This Necklace. It Took Me About Two Hours

    © Photo: Buffyferry

    #38 Power Washing A Building In NYC

    © Photo: Sufficient-Bug-9112

    #39 Crinkum Crankum Walls

    © Photo: Filipino-Asker

    #40 The Design Of This Building In Bangkok

    © Photo: Ckron247

    #41 Someone At My Grocery Store Organized The Carts By Old/New

    © Photo: delofan

    #42 My Cat Has Really Shiny Fur

    © Photo: DangDoood

    #43 This Yoghurt Barcode Mildly Satisfied Us At Breakfast Today

    © Photo: janeursulageorge

    #44 Brooms In A Market Here In Brazil

    © Photo: New-Concentrate3841

    #45 Okay, Okay, I'll Stop!

    © Photo: leftanantcolonel

    #46 The Common Google Search Results For How To Disable The Fn Key Switch Are Entered By People With The Fn Key Switch Enabled

    © Photo: propickleflapper

    #47 My Cat Sleeps Perfectly On The Blanket

    © Photo: franisalesbian

    #48 [oc] A Perfectly Central Dandelion Seed

    © Photo: CHkn1

    #49 Hit Exactly $10 At The Pump With A Satisfying 3.333 Gallons

    © Photo: theword12

    #50 8 Of Diamonds Has Actually A Hidden Third Large White 8 In The Middle

    © Photo: Prazf

    #51 How Did They Even Manage??

    © Photo: sippyside

    #52 I Removed All The White From This Tangerine

    © Photo: magicturtle102

    #53 The Moment I Completed My Drawing After 133 Hours, I Felt Very Satisfied!

    © Photo: subhaanart

    #54 My Jacket Matched The Colours Of This Bowling Alley Wall

    © Photo: 2OldCat

    #55 Love It When The Universes Align

    © Photo: ntgcleaner

    #56 Playing With Your 2 Dollar Food:

    © Photo: Filipino-Asker

    #57 The Patterns Of These Leaves

    © Photo: ArmadilloDefiant2414

    #58 I'm Building A Fantasy World With Magical Creatures And Unique Lore

    © Photo: emily3289

    #59 Not A Good Sign For The Ladies

    © Photo: natedog2049

    #60 A Note From My Wife

    © Photo: TheFourthAmigo

    #61 I Find Few Vanity Plates Clever

    © Photo: fightingdove

    #62 Finally!

    © Photo: BLUECYANID3

    #63 I Designed A Cobra Phone Holder And Tried To Carve Out Its Scales

    © Photo: COPPERTISTWU

    #64 The Way The Photographer Arranged The Girls In One Of My Daughter’s Prom Pictures

    © Photo: stormbutton

    #65 At Last…

    © Photo: sippyside

    #66 This Stack Of Apples At The Small Local Market

    © Photo: mtnsRcalling

    #67 Tree I Found

    © Photo: _Orchidia_

    #68 Op Made Ratatouille

    © Photo: ecky--ptang-zooboing

    #69 I’ll Never Look Cool In Sunglasses Because One Of My Ears Is Higher Than The Other

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #70 My Wife Labelled Every Single Moving Box As "Misc"

    © Photo: MannyDantyla

    #71 I Got 2 Fruit By The Foot In A Single Wrapper Today

    © Photo: Lord_Cat69

    #72 Little Space City

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #73 When I Have Hoodie Strings Like This I Enjoy Fitting Them Together Like A Ying Yang Or Something

    The way they fit together is mildly satisfying to me. It’s even more satisfying when you roll it up.

    © Photo: ghibli_ghirl

    #74 This Pattern In My Watermelon

    © Photo: Torturedtosuicide

    #75 I Accidentally Cut My Avocado In Half In A Way That It Peeled The Pit

    © Photo: RealFuzzheads

    #76 Cleaning Old Coins With My Kids

    © Photo: Visual_West_51

    #77 Sushi Bill Came Out To $69.69

    © Photo: ArielKing69

    #78 I Got The Screenshot

    © Photo: Lopsided-Return-7114

    #79 My Neighbours Heated Driveway Melting The Fresh Snow

    © Photo: godzillasfinger

    #80 This Water Stain I Saw In Warsaw Looks Like The Map Of UK 🇬🇧

    © Photo: promptengineer2

    #81 Hopping On The Train Of The Perfectly-Clean Jar Lids (This Is The First Time For Me)

    © Photo: lonely-blue-sheep

    #82 Wife And 2 Kids Independently Picked Me Same Birthday Card

    © Photo: lark7077

    #83 Quite Enjoyed This Sign On The Cemetery Where Karl Marx Is Buried

    © Photo: Iudex27

    #84 The Joy Of Finding Memes Irl

    © Photo: City_Goat

    #85 Nothing Like A Restocked Drink Fridge

    © Photo: evanod

    #86 Full Pack Of Fries

    © Photo: NOOBDESTROYER314

    #87 When My Gas Tank Is Half Full And The Freeway Is Empty Enough To Go 80mph So I Can Get The Needles Perfectly Straight

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #88 When Water Starts To Boil In A Ceramic Pot

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #89 This Sign In A Neighbor's Yard

    © Photo: spock23

    #90 Perfect Slushie Serve

    © Photo: Alone-Marionberry-70

    #91 I Love How They All Matched Perfectly

    © Photo: Mission-Badger-4005

    #92 My Uncle Places All Of His Bathroom Items In Straight Lines

    © Photo: FodderForFelix

    #93 I Got 2 Top Buns And My Partner Got 2 Bottom Buns

    © Photo: ChrisLetsPlayYT

    #94 This Bottle Cap Was Offended By Me Opening The Soda

    © Photo: MrMetalhead3029483

    #95 My Oreo Chocolate Literally Has A Giant Oreo On The Inside With Oreo Branding And Patterns And Everything

    © Photo: SimonAchton

  • Monday 24 August 2026 - 05:00

    It’s practically the stuff of teenage dreams: your high school sweetheart goes on to become a superstar. Or maybe you have a run-in with someone who’s already on their way to becoming famous and, somehow, they pick you.

    It’s something some folks over on Reddit wondered about, asking others what it was like to date someone famous—or someone who would eventually become famous. What was it like? How did it end? And are they still in touch? The answers range from sweet to messy to downright unbelievable, and while “dating” might be used a little loosely in some of them, they’re pretty entertaining—whether you’ve always dreamed of joining your celeb crush on the red carpet or can’t imagine anything worse than that kind of spotlight.

    #1

    I dated Chester Bennington (lead singer of Linkin Park) for about 10 months just whilst they were starting to become big/tour regionally. Great guy but him being away so often meant it could never really last. I tried so hard and got so far, but I guess in the end it doesn't even matter - I'm happily married now with 2 beautiful kids.

    © Photo: KENDRICK--LLAMA

    #2

    I was engaged to Rickey Medlocke lead guitarist from Lynyrd Skynyrd previously lead singer of Blackfoot. It was probably the best five years of my life!

    Was able to attend the 2005 Grammys, walked the red carpet. Met some amazing people.... Hung out with Billy Bob Thornton (who is so down to earth and personable) ZZ TOP, Ted Nugent, Keith Urban (one of my favorite musicians so talented). I had the pleasure of being part of the Skynyrd family for many years which was a treat in itself.

    Billy Powell was the sweetest man.... It broke my heart when he passed. I remember Gary Rossington telling me a story regarding the plane crash.... He remembered coming to with a piece of the wing on top of him. He was crying out for help when he said Ronnie walked up and told him to calm down that he was going to help him and proceeded to lift the wing off.

    Gary said he passed out and woke up in the hospital wanting to know how Ronnie was. Apparently Ronnie had di*d instantly. Instant chill bumps.

    As for the relationship: I was so lonely at times since he was touring almost all the time. I went on the road as much as possible but I had kids and a job so it wasn't always feasible for me. I broke up with him :( He truly was an amazing man and for once in my life I "felt" loved. I had some friends who introduced him to the back up singer for kid rock Stacy Michelle. Apparently he didn't take the break up well but him and Stacy are a much better fit and are still together to this day.

    © Photo: lilies2sons

    #3

    Since there are so many comments this most likely won't be seen, but I'll tell it anyway.

    My cousin dated Emma Stone right before she got really big. He even brought her to meet my grandmaw and his family. This was while he worked on The Help as a directors assistant. Proof. He has loads of pictures with her. He was also an extra in the movie which was really cool.

    © Photo: DoubleThink1990

    “The fame thing isn’t really real, you know. And don’t forget... I’m also just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.” Any ’90s rom-com fan will know the reference: it’s the iconic declaration movie star Anna Scott (Julia Roberts) makes to bookstore owner William Thacker (Hugh Grant) in the 1999 film Notting Hill.

    Even if you haven’t seen it, you’re probably familiar with the trope. It’s practically a rom-com sub-genre by this point: a famous person and an ordinary person fall in love, and their relationship is anything but easy.

    #4

    I dated Kristen Bell. She was just as cute back then as she is now. She is a great person. Things ended on her terms. I would have married her and only dated her for about a month. We went out a couple times, made out and such but didn't go too far.

    © Photo: nalwb

    #5

    I have a friend who claims (with some validity) to have dated Taylor Swift for 2 weeks in the 8th grade.

    We tend to assume he is the subject of all of her breakup songs and blame him for her roller coaster love life.

    © Photo: discipula_vitae

    #6

    I dated an NHL player.
    It was fun/weird. I was 21 and he was in his late twenties, seemingly happy to have a young girl to spoil. Going out was a lot of fun, but as you may guess about professional athletes, he wasn't confident about himself at all and the cockiness was over compensation for low self esteem.

    He also wanted me to call him daddy in the bedroom; I obliged.

    © Photo: optimusreim34

    We’ve seen it play out in countless movies over the years. As Olivia Singh writes for Business Insider, “The dynamic usually follows a familiar arc. First, the normie is dazzled by the celebrity and their fame. Then, outside forces like the paparazzi or fans threaten to derail the relationship.”

    Versions of this story have played out in real life, too. But while love usually prevails in movies “because rom-coms need happy endings,” Singh explains, some of the most famous real-life examples remind us that these seemingly fairy-tale romances don’t always come with a happily ever after.

    #7

    Not really "dating" but hooked up with Stephen Glover aka steve-o for a while when Jacka*s was first starting (i know it's gross ok). He didn't really have any money then and he was in between Florida and LA and needed a place to stay from time-to-time. He was very full of himself and we stopped talking after threw a chair out of my kitchen window. Good to see that he cleaned himself up though.

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    #8

    My sister dated Robert Downey Jr in 1998 while he was in a d**g treatment program with her.

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    #9

    My girlfriend's aunt dated Bill Nye for a while, several years ago.

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    But that hasn’t stopped us from being fascinated by them. In March 2026, for example, Ryan Murphy’s Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette became FX’s most-watched limited series ever on Hulu and Disney+.

    Based on Elizabeth Beller’s Once Upon a Time: The Captivating Life of Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, the series revisits what Vogue’s Olivia Petter calls “the intoxicating relationship between two of America’s most beautiful—and famously doomed—people.” In doing so, it chronicles Bessette’s path from a private citizen working with VIP clients at Calvin Klein to the wife of a former president’s son.

    #10

    I dated Mireille Enos back in high school. She was set on being an actress even back then. I am happy for her and her success, plus she's married to Alan Ruck (aka Cameron from Ferris Bueller) which is awesome and they just had their second beautiful child. She was and is one of the sweetest people you will ever meet.

    I speak to her once in a great while when she comes back home to see her family. I did get to have dinner with her and her husband many years ago as we are still family friends with her family here. Great time.

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    #11

    Not going to say her name, but in high school I dated a girl who is now a pretty popular guitarist/singer. She was beautiful (and still is), kind, and all around awesome. The problem was, she was a d*e hard Christian, and when I came out as atheist to her, she broke up with me. I understand it though. She was fine with having s*x though, but admitted that she faked her orgasms with me because she didn't want to disobey god :/ I still don't really get it.

    edit: she's popular, but not nearly as popular as some of the guesses you guys have made. she's no real superstar, yet at least.

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    #12

    Yay! I got one!

    My aunt dated Montell Jordan for a long time until he cheated on her and left her. Hes currently married to that woman. She went all s******l after that for awhile but she did get a kid out of it...not sure if it's his but he kinda looks like him.

    Anyway, she moved back to her home state, got a house built for her and her son. She's still single and doing well!

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    As Sarah Hunter Simanson writes for HuffPost, the series aims to “show how complex a figure Carolyn was” and explore “how the complicated love between the two unraveled under the pressure of the paparazzi and the expectation of being a Kennedy.”

    That tension is highlighted across several episodes. In one, a colleague of Bessette’s explains, “She knows if she marries him, that will be her defining characteristic. It will be like she never existed before she met him.” In another, Carolyn says that she chose John “in spite of his life”—a line that gets at the complicated reality of falling for someone whose fame comes with a life of its own. Or, as Simanson puts it, “the tension that exists between choosing a person and choosing the life that comes with them.”

    #13

    I f****d a now fairly well-know (in Ohio, at least) newsperson when we were in college on the regular. Wouldn't really say we dated, but we hooked up a lot over the course of a few months.

    Ended fine. She was fun and very career driven and focused. We just sort of stopped hooking up. For a while when I'd see her on billboards it was fun to tell people I hit that.

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    #14

    D**n! Too late for this one but my mom dated Louis C.K. back in high school. Said he was a bit awkward, nice guy. Funny enough, took her to a comedy club on both dates. Tried to win her back later on by baking her a pie, didn't work though I guess.

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    #15

    My dad went to high school and wrestled with Axl Rose. I wouldn't consider that dating but there was a lot of touching and hugging.

    Watching the series unfold, it’s hard not to wonder how different Carolyn’s life might have looked if she hadn’t chosen John “in spite of his life.” And perhaps that same curiosity—about what could have been—helps explain our fascination with people who have had their own brushes with celebrity romance.

    Sure, we like hearing unfiltered stories about what famous people are really like IRL. There’s something irresistible about getting the inside scoop from people who knew them intimately—stories that can feel far more revealing than any glossy tabloid account. For some, there may also be an aspirational element to hearing from ordinary people who crossed paths with someone famous—or someone about to be famous—and fell for them (or came tantalizingly close to doing so). But sometimes, the more intriguing part is imagining how different both their lives might have looked if things had turned out differently.

    #16

    I've posted this before - but when I was 14 I used to make out with a 13 year old Kristin Cavalari a handful of times.

    She was a pirate.

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    #17

    Teri Hatcher hit on me while I was delivering some legal documents to an office on the Universal Studios lot in LA. She totally did the double take thing and said "hey" as I walked by. I just ignored it, cause I'm gay and I was weirded out (but flattered). A few years later, I saw that she was dating Ryan Seacrest so I guess she has a thing for gay guys.

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    #18

    I had a thing with an NBA player. He was totally normal really, despite him being a big name. It was mostly a casual thing. We met at a bar and I was the only girl not trying to climb all over him so we ended up talking about our favorite Fantasy Football players (he hooked me up with some great tips for my team). Eventually he just turned into a superstar so we don't really talk anymore- but there's no ill will. His name sounds like dessert. Always made me hungry.

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    #19

    Admittedly not answering the question, but tangentially interesting story...

    My roommate from college's mom dated a guy who was a musician, and dumped him for the guy who she eventually married (my roommate's dad). The musician she dumped wrote a song about it.

    Her name is Marianne. The song is "More Than a Feeling" by Boston.

    She said he was a good guy, but felt at the time he was pursuing an unrealistic dream of being a musician.

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    #20

    I dated Joel Zimmerman (Deadmau5) for about 10 months in 2005. He was living with his mother in Niagara Falls at the time, waiting for his visa to be approved so he could move back to California. He had already travelled through Europe at that point and was famous there, but not yet in North America. He didn't drive, so I always did lol. Great times. One of the most intelligent guys I've ever met. Even though he comes off as an a*****e, he's a straightforward guy.

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    #21

    A friend I met through sport had dated Mel B's (former spice girl) daughter for a bit. He was telling me when he wen to her house once that they sat on a lounge with a security guard looking on and yeah thats pretty much it. They didn't last too long together.

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    #22

    Not me but my neighbor (thats right, a woman), used to date Stevie Nicks, a lot of c*****e was consumed.

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    #23

    My stepdad's cousin dated Woody Harrelson in college. He pursued her for two months, following her to classes, leaving weird notes on her dorm hall corkboard, and calling her every day with Bible quotes. She finally went out with him, and ended up taking him to Thanksgiving with her family. Her dad thought he was "a no good piece of s**t slacker". They broke up just before Christmas; they were both cheating on each other by then anyway.

    EDIT: Now that I've read the infamous AMA, it rings a few bells. Apparently Woody didn't like to talk about things he didn't bring up himself, most especially his family and his dating history.

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    #24

    I dated Brian Warner (aka Marilyn Manson) before he was famous. He wrote me really bad poetry and drove a Fiero.

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    #25

    My great aunt dated Alex Trebek back when they were teenagers. My grandfather did not think much of him; says he didn't think the guy would make it very far in life.

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    #26

    My aunt dated Jimmy Fallon in the 90's before leaving him for my uncle.
    I love my uncle to d***h, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't disappointed. Jimmy's one of my favorite comedians.

    #27

    She ditched me for a much better looking guy who was a year older. Jokes on her now though; she won an Oscar and I'm doing kind of ok.

    #28

    Grew up with Tracy Spiridakos (Charlie from Revolution)

    Kissed her once at a party so that counts right?..lol

    She's a really cool person albeit a little snobby.

    #29

    Dated Gabbie from the "GabbieShow" and SoFlo on Facebook/vine when we worked for a marketing company called smart circle. Shes got a big a*s and a big crazy ego to go with it. Good luck to anyone hittin that. She ended up f*****g my buddy because he payed "more attention" to her LOL.

    Edit: No I do not have contact with her anymore, no I do not have her number. I didn't even get a reply back to me congratulating her on her new found success a couple years ago. There's that ego for ya.

    Edit 2: We worked in a Sam's club together, I pushed DirecTV like it was crystal m**h at the time and she sold a different emerging product each month, both for a company called Smart Circle, and she was actually a good salesman and was very personable.

    #30

    Minor celeb, but her band's been on MTV. We dated for a month or so, but we just didn't connect personality wise or see each other much with different schedules.

    #31

    My time to shine!

    I went spent some time with the One True God himself. Yes, Nic Cage. We spent an evening together (not a night, I declined) and he asked me out the next day. This was right after his split with Lisa Marie Presley. We kissed and talked. He is actually a really fascinating person.

    And, yes, I get endless s**t about this from my younger friends. But, whatever, he was hot and I had a crush on him before we met.

    #32

    I've dated two, one went on to be a musician, and one a prominent radio personality.

    The musician was a fling, lasted a few months and we mutually parted ways on friendly terms. He was very funny and competitive in bizarre and creative ways. He later went to Berkley School of music and now he and his band tours the U.S. and Canada last I heard. His music is good but I don't listen to it because, I dunno, it feels awkward?

    The other one was a local radio DJ who did a top-40/rap station here, but his real passion was the band Pearl Jam, he f*****g LOVES that band. He was very cerebral, and we had lots of philosophical discussions. He had me do radio spots (commercials, etc) because he said I had a good voice for it. I later ended up doing things for other stations after we broke up. He broke up with me because I was 19 and he was 28. I was still living at home then. He now hosts a popular radio show in Los Angeles.

    Both are still good people, neither have become jaded, washed-up a******s, or so the grapevine says here.

    I am now happily married to a non-celebrity.

    #33

    My Girl Scout troop leader dated Johnny Depp in high school, if remember correctly. I doubt they dated long; she said he was strange. She had pictures of them together and year books and junk. We all thought it was so awesome and were wondering which kid in our elementary school was destined for fame.

    She canceled our meeting one week to go to his wedding. She was cool.

    #34

    Steve Jobs f***s me over everyday with itunes, does that count?

    #35

    Hooked up with Ke$ha at a high school party. No details really. Just a hook up at a party.

    #36

    Got a novelty kiss out of Zooey Deschanel when I worked with her on set once. Like, I got the whole staff joking about how romantic it would be for the lighting assistant to kiss her. I made it a running joke. It got around to the whole cast and even the interns. On the second to last day, I got the kiss. You could say we're pretty serious I guess.

    Playing the long game, guys. It works.

    #37

    I once shook hands with Adam Baldwin. He sorta grabbed my hand funny so i ended up giving him a really weak handshake, after our interaction i said " hey sorry bout the weak handshake, you sorta grabbed me funny" and he looks me in the eye, puts out his hand and says "try again". i grabbed that mans hand like my life depended on it, we shared a stern look and i went on my way.

    Not exactly dating but it has all the right parts for a relationship (shame, fear, manliness

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    #38

    Rachael Ray farted next to me at an airport terminal during a layover in CVG, so I guess you can say we kind of dated.

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    #39

    I met a girl that dated the lead singer for modest mouse when they were still a college band (though still regionally famous). We started chatting online after we met. Got super close. She was basically cheating on him with me. She sent me tit pics while still dating him. I guess it wasn't as fun as it sounds.

    Tl;dr lead singer of modest mouse and I are Eskimo brothers.

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    #40

    I side-hugged Tom Hiddleston

    He smells like Vanilla.

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    #41

    Dated a ridiculously hot (and rich) Korean girl from LA that was in law school with me. She hooked up with Christiano Ronaldo and went on a few dates with him a few years before we dated. If I remember she said he really wasnt that good looking and she had no idea who he was at first - all of her friends were completely freaking out and she was just telling him to back off. She said his hair was ridiculously greasy - she wasn't a fan. Also, Jim Carrey apparently tried to hit on her and she said he's the creepiest freaking dude ever. The latter one I believe for sure, think I've read several times that Jim Carrey creepily hits on hot asian girls quite a bit?

    Being eskimo brothers would Christiano Ronaldo wouldnt be the worst thing in the world.

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    #42

    I went on *a date* with Nick Swardson. Very normal and sort of funny. He had to leave earlier to catch a flight and paid for me to have dinner by myself.

    #43

    I worked on Gilmore Girls as an extra. Then one day Alexis Bledel walked past me and said, "Hey."
    And I replied back, "Hey".

    So yeah, I guess I could say that's as serious as that ever got.

    #44

    My grandmother dated Marshall Mathers Sr. in high school. She said he was a really nice guy.

    #45

    Olivia O'Brien, who wrote "I Hate U I Love U" went to my high school. She was a year below me, but we were super close friends. One day, however, we were hanging out alone on a road in Napa and one thing lead to another, and we made out in my car. The next day, I was hanging out with a different girl who liked me and we, well, did it. So me and girl number two ended up dating. Olivia was heartbroken, and actually wrote her first version of "I Hate U I Love U" (the original is still on her SoundCloud profile, honestly really good looking back on it.) Thing is, Olivia is crazy, and can be a huge b***h if you get on her bad side. She made my life living hell with my girlfriend, and was one of the reasons we broke up in the long run. Eventually, her and this Gnash dude meet up and do the collaboration for SoundCloud that now has a few million listens or something. She was a little bit of a local celebrity but hadn't blown up outside of our town yet. Her and I actually made up, but she left our school and now lives in LA recording new music and I haven't heard from her in a long time. The thing is, she was such a sweet girl and I feel horrible for playing her the way I did, but she's still super crazy. Either way, she's famous now, and I'm studying in college. She's successful in her way, but I wanna be successful in my own. How I hurt her in the past and where she ended up because of it inspires me to be a better person and to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

    #46

    Met a guy in an up and coming band first year of college. On and off for years bc I didn't want to date a guy in a band, plus he had dropped out of college to pursue his career and that seemed short sighted to me. Fast forward a couple years his band is winning VMAs. Fast forward a couple more there are very public issues. Fast forward a few silent years and they're bigger than they ever were. Still the same sweet generous loving man I met we just now have a bigger, better, more blessed life than I knew was even possible when we first met. Entertainment industry is super weird and fickle. There are times I wish I married an accountant, teacher or lawyer for the stability but I honestly wouldn't change it for the world. At this point the craziness is all we know.

    #47

    Wasn't me, but my dad went to high school with Ricki Lake. They messed a round a bit according to him, he also broke her nose in gym class while spiking a volleyball, so I'm sure it didn't go that far.

    #48

    I met a girl in on the late 80's. We lived in Texas. She was 16 and wanted to be an actress, I was 18 and had no ambition. We dated for a few years. She was discovered by playboy magazine during a spring break trip shortly after turning 18. We moved to LA and she was in almost every face soap, tampon commercial. She did a few tv shows and starred in one teen movie. We broke up when she decided she liked long haired guitar players. We remained very good friends for years after the breakup. She got married and divorced to a different guy. He and I are best friends and neither of us speak to her anymore. Last I heard she was living in a s****y apartment and still trying to get famous. She made a lot of money for a few years in the mid 90's but she's past her prime now.

    #49

    I shared an apartment with Jennifer Lawrence for 2 months before she realized I was living there.

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    #50

    My grandmother went to prom with a supreme court justice (Anthony Kennedy) and she still can send him emails and he will answer. I guess that counts.

    #51

    My mom dated slash in high school. Before she passed away she joked with me and tells me " d**n, why couldent he be the father". I laughed so hard when she said this. She was also friends with Mikey from OCC.

    #52

    I wish I had more to this story, but, I met katy perry back when I was a touring musician and she was a solo act, and she told me I was really cute and we drank all night and I wussed out of doing the deed because I had a f*****g s****y girlfriend back home. Years of regret, and unrelented taunting from coworkers.

    #53

    This is going to buried for sure, but I currently date a guy who is a drummer for a major band out of Boston, has a Billboard Award and an international hit song.

    Its...interesting. We've been together for two years and for the most part it is a pretty easy relationship. He and I are both homebodies and he's not very social (after shows he usually hides in the backstage area), but we both enjoy road trips and that is where we spend our money (or video games and music equipment (thats more him)). I do very well being alone so when he's on tour for weeks I am okay; of course I miss him, but I'm able to cope, and he does his best to always keep me in the loop or let me know he's thinking about me.

    One negative is planning anything with him is almost impossible. He rarely knows where he is going to be or if a show will pop up, if he has to take a last minute flight to LA or NY, or what have you. I am very much a planner, and he will usually tentatively agree with things, which is nice.

    All in all it is a pretty typical relationship with the perk of awesome backstage access.

    #54

    When I was 13 I kissed 17 year-old Mary Kate LeTourneu (Schmidt). I wish I knew.

    #55

    A few years ago I f****d a then-rookie NFL player who now starts for a fairly impressive AFC team. To me, the s*x was nothing special and I chalked it up to another kind of cool f*****g story. He must have felt otherwise because I spent the next few months avoiding his calls and texts.

    Yes, I now realize that if I would have accepted his advances I would not be living in the s**t hole apartment that I am currently typing this from. But, I realized something more important back then...even 300+ lb. linebackers can have very, very, tiny d***s.

    #56

    Knew ray fisher (cyborg) for a long time. hooked up with him one night. he's a great dude.

    #57

    Aunt was engaged to Steve Madden. She ended it and actually managed to marry up financially. Married a billionaire...it's ridiculous how much money her husband makes.

    #58

    I dated Kylie Jenner. Not really allowed to discuss, but she's a very very cool person.

    #59

    My boyfriends sister used to date Justin Bieber's dad. He's a huge d*******g. No surprise there.

    #60

    I cybered with a redditor before they hit 10k karma. Sadly we lost touch when they became a moderator and went all hollywood on me.

  • Wednesday 12 August 2026 - 17:27

    A 52-year-old Italian tourist was hospitalized with severe injuries after a departing passenger plane’s jet blast reportedly knocked her to the ground at Skiathos Airport in Greece.

    The airport is famous for giving tourists an unusually close view of aircraft taking off and landing, but that proximity comes with serious risks.

    The latest accident has once again raised questions about why tourists continue to gather so close to the runway despite repeated warnings about jet blast.

    As one person reacted, “Don’t be stupid just for the social media attention. It’s like going up the crater of Etna and then wonder why you were injured by lava.”

    A 52-year-old tourist suffered severe head injuries after jet blast threw her to the ground

    A crowd of people covering their heads as a plane's jet engine passes by, risking severe injuries.

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    The incident reportedly happened on Monday, August 10, when the Italian tourist was near the perimeter of Skiathos International Airport as a passenger aircraft prepared to take off.

    According to local Greek media reports, the powerful airflow generated by the plane’s engines sent the woman crashing to the ground.

    A blue plane's jet engine flies low over white buildings, posing a risk of severe injuries.

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    A social media comment about a 52YO woman hospitalized with severe injuries from a plane's jet engine.

    She reportedly fell heavily to the ground, suffering severe head injuries in the process.

    Emergency responders initially took her to the Skiathos Health Centre, where she underwent an urgent CT scan.

    Because her injuries were considered serious, she was later transferred by air to Volos General Hospital on the Greek mainland for further treatment.

    A social media comment about people getting severe injuries from a plane's jet engine.

    The exact circumstances surrounding the incident remain unclear, and authorities have reportedly launched an investigation.

    Skiathos Airport has gained an unusual reputation among aviation enthusiasts because of how close the runway sits to public areas.

    Skiathos Airport has become a bucket-list spot for extremely close-up plane views

    People standing near warning signs about danger from a plane's jet engine, risking severe injuries.

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    A social media comment about a woman hospitalized after being slammed by a plane's jet engine.

    The airport is located near the coastline, with a public road and areas around Xanemos Beach situated close to the runway threshold.

    It has turned the location into a popular plane-spotting destination, with tourists regularly gathering to watch aircraft arrive and depart from only a short distance away.

    A warning sign about aircraft jet blast near a runway, emphasizing risk of severe injury from the plane's jet engine.

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    Planes can appear to pass remarkably close to spectators during landing, while takeoffs provide an equally dramatic experience as aircraft engines roar to life just a short distance from the viewing areas.

    The spectacle has also gained widespread social media attention, with tourists filming aircraft overhead and sharing the aesthetic footage online.

    But the same proximity that makes Skiathos so popular is also what makes the location dangerous.

    People reacting to a plane's jet engine blast, showing the woman being slammed to the ground.

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    Standing behind an aircraft preparing for takeoff puts spectators directly in the path of the powerful air movement produced by its engines.

    The latest injury is not the first time people near Skiathos Airport have been caught off guard by the force produced by departing aircraft.

    Several previous incidents have highlighted just how dangerous jet blast at the airport can be

    A tweet about health and safety regarding the woman slammed by a plane's jet engine.

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    Several similar incidents over the years have demonstrated how quickly the seemingly thrilling plane-spotting experience can turn dangerous.

    According to multiple reports, in July 2022, a 61-year-old British tourist suffered serious injuries while filming an aircraft taking off.

    She was reportedly standing on a ledge near the airport when the force from the plane’s engines knocked her off her perch.

    A person photographing a plane on the runway, highlighting the potential danger of a jet engine blast.

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    Doctors at the local health center diagnosed her with serious head injuries, a fractured pelvis, and injuries to her right shoulder and left wrist.

    Previously, in August 2018, a 12-year-old British boy was reportedly standing near the airport fence with his father when a TUI Airbus A320 took off.

    A tweet about a woman injured by a jet engine, discussing safety issues and increased landing distance.

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    The aircraft’s engine blast sent the boy approximately 10 meters through the air, after which he landed on the sand.

    According to the Greek Reporter, he was taken to a local medical center before being transferred to a hospital in Volos for treatment.

    Warning signs haven’t stopped tourists from getting dangerously close to the runway

    Woman injured by a plane's jet engine as bystanders watch in shock from the ground.

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    There were also reports in June 2018 of tourists being knocked backward by the blast from an Airbus A321 taking off from the airport.

    The history of these accidents has repeatedly drawn attention to the risks of treating the area as a conventional tourist attraction.

    Woman injured by a plane's jet engine near a plane landing over water, with boats and onlookers.

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    Warning signs around the airport caution visitors about the dangers of aircraft blast, while measures have also been used to control movement around the perimeter during aircraft operations.

    Yet the location continues to attract tourists looking for the perfect close-up photograph.

    The problem is that a spectacular picture can make the distance between a spectator and a passenger plane look thrilling rather than hazardous.

    What may appear to be harmless wind from a distance can become a powerful force when an aircraft is accelerating for takeoff.

    “It is not lack of warning signs one can blame but reckless endangerment of oneself,” one user wrote online

    A comment about a woman injured by a jet engine, discussing the dangers of plane blasts.

    A comment about a woman injured by a jet engine, warning about tourists ignoring danger signs.

    A comment suggesting safer ways to watch planes to avoid severe injuries from a jet engine.

    A comment describing experiencing a jet engine blast and the power of a jet plane.

    A comment questioning travel to a Greek island to watch aircraft and risk severe injuries from a jet engine.

    A comment admitting to clinging to a fence during a takeoff, risking severe injuries from a jet engine.

    A comment warning about the dangers and potential severe injuries, like losing an eye, near a jet engine.

    A social media comment about the dangerous experience of being close to a plane's jet engine.

    A social media comment suggesting that people should be at the beach instead of near a plane's jet engine.

    A social media comment remarking on a short runway, near where a woman was slammed by a jet engine.

  • Wednesday 12 August 2026 - 16:25

    Do you think you’re capable of reading this entire article in one sitting, without checking your phone or getting distracted? If not, you are definitely not alone (hi!). Your brain is probably fried. You’re overstimulated. You can hardly think straight. Your attention span is wrecked. You can’t stop fiddling with your smartphone. And you don’t know what to do. All that endless scrolling on social media, excessive tech use, online shopping, juggling multiple screens, video game binging, watching TV, adult entertainment, doomscrolling the news, chatting with AI chatbots, and consuming ultra-processed food has left you feeling exhausted and soulless. You’ve been giving your body and mind too much junk food, both physical and digital. The ‘solution’ to your brain fog, lack of focus, and distractedness—you’re told online, repeatedly—is to go on a short dopamine detox to beat your addictions, rewire your brain, and reset your internal reward system.

    It sounds tempting. It sounds like the shortcut you need. But it’s all a bunch of baloney grounded in pseudo-scientific marketing and lucrative wellness trends. Content creators, up-and-coming entrepreneurs, and companies are attempting to sell you their products and services. Dopamine detoxes and fasts—in the form of apps, courses, and products—are often suggested, rather ironically, in posts, videos, or ads while you’re mindlessly scrolling your social media feed. Basically, you’re being offered a solution to a problem while you’re already engaging in problematic behavior (too much compulsive screen time). So, it makes the idea of going on a digital or other detox particularly relevant and seductive. 

    What you’re being offered is—surprise, surprise—packaged and presented as a magical hack and genius shortcut to fixing your life. Finally! If only you can ‘purge’ your ‘bad’ dopamine with a screen-blocking app, everything will be right as rain! But things aren’t that simple. The people pitching you these detoxes misinterpret and misrepresent addiction, habit-forming, behavioral triggers, and your brain chemistry. They are trying to get you to buy a product, consume their content, or sign up for their services. In short, it’s just another day in the business world for them: entrepreneurs pushing these ‘solutions’ are looking to make a quick buck on a trending topic and don’t care about the consumer’s outcome. But for you, it might sound like salvation that never comes.

    In reality, though, dopamine doesn’t cause pleasure like you’re told. You are better off redirecting your energy and time (not to mention money!) in a different direction than this fad. Let’s dive into what dopamine actually does, why what you’re told online is wrong, how to actually develop healthy habits, and what to do to fix your ailing attention span. 

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    Dopamine is linked more to curiosity, memory, and novelty than pleasure 

    Let’s make a few things very clear right out of the gate. Dopamine does not work the way that wellness trend proponents tell you it does: you cannot ‘detox’ or ‘fast’ from a naturally occurring brain chemical. A dopamine detox won’t solve all of your problems, even though it might give you much-needed space to rest. Quick health fixes don’t exist. Expensive programs and apps that promise ‘secret’ shortcuts are scams. Regardless of scam products or addictions, you should focus on embracing healthy habits: regular exercise, a balanced diet, proper sleep, hydration, time in nature, and positive relationships. At the same time, you will most definitely notice improvements in your attention span and mood if you scale back your social media and internet use. However, this is going to be a much tougher, longer, and patience-testing journey than limiting your screen time for a few days. It’s a marathon spanning months instead of a sprint. 

    Dopamine, a vital chemical messenger in your brain, is misunderstood. The short version is that it keeps you moving forward by making you want things, especially those linked to unexpected success. It drives motivation, learning, memory, behavior, cognition, mood, sleep, arousal, and movement by sending signals that something important or rewarding is about to happen. This, in turn, makes you repeat helpful behaviors. 

    Broadly speaking, if you have the right amount of dopamine in your system, you will feel happy, motivated, alert, and focused. Low dopamine levels, on the other hand, result in feeling tired, unmotivated, and unhappy, and in mood swings, memory loss, sleep problems, concentration issues, and a low sex drive. Too much dopamine and you feel energized, euphoric, and highly aroused, but also aggressive, dealing with poor impulse control, and having issues sleeping. You can naturally increase your dopamine levels by regularly exercising, doing yoga, meditating, walking in nature, reading a book, playing with a pet, getting a massage, etc. Having a balanced diet helps, too. 

    In pop psychology, dopamine is described as a ‘pleasure chemical.’ However, this relationship is complex. Chronic drug use and long-term smoking can lead to a dysregulated dopamine system and hamper your ability to experience pleasure, known as anhedonia. However, more broadly, dopamine is what fuels your desire for rewards and is more linked to ‘wanting’ than the actual pleasure you experience. Dopamine doesn’t actually cause pleasure. Rather, it helps your brain remember which actions led to success by improving memory retention. 

    The downside is that unpredictability and unexpected success—not just any success—result in bursts of dopamine. This is why endless social media feeds and gambling are so addictive. What’s more, dopamine drives restlessness instead of satisfaction. On a positive note, dopamine forces you to be curious and take action when you are bored or dissatisfied, in the search for new sources of joy. This is great for survival! “Evolution favors the restless, the unsatisfied, the novelty cravers tormented by visions of more, because that keeps them from settling into place and, in the end, ensures their greater success,” neuroscientist Nikolay Kukushkin explains

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    Entrepreneurs spot a chance to get rich quick thanks to a clickbaity wellness fad

    The idea of a dopamine fast or detox was coined by neuroscientist and psychiatrist Cameron Sepah, PhD, who wanted to use cognitive behavior therapy to reduce addictive, problematic, impulsive, and unhealthy behaviors. “Dopamine is just a mechanism that explains how addictions can become reinforced, and makes for a catchy title. The title’s not to be taken literally,” he said. The idea is to be more mindful of your habits and to control them rather than letting them control you. And yet, the term ‘dopamine detox’ is very clickbaity, so it continues to go viral and be misinterpreted by influencers, pop psychologists, and entrepreneurs.

    There is a clear financial reward to jump on wellness trends. The global health and wellness economy is worth a whopping $6.76 trillion. The mobile meditation app market size alone is projected to grow to $7.5 billion by 2029. 

    As Harvard Medical School puts it, the modern wellness industry is so lucrative that new terms and clickbaity titles are coined for concepts that have been around for literal ages.

    “The original intent behind the dopamine fast was to provide a rationale and suggestions for disconnecting from days of technology-driven frenzy and substituting more simple activities to help us reconnect with ourselves and others. This idea is noble, healthy, and worthwhile, but it’s certainly not a new concept. Most religions also suggest a rest day (for example, the Jewish Sabbath) or holidays without technological distractions, so that you can reflect and reconnect with family and community, Thousands of years of meditation also suggest that a mindful approach to living reaps many health benefits.”

    Dopamine is a natural substance, not a harmful toxin, so talking about ‘detoxes’ and ‘purging’ makes no sense, emphasizes neuroscientist Adrian Jacques Ambrose, MD, MPH, FAPA, at the Columbia University Medical Center. What’s more, dopamine, while essential, is just one part of your brain’s super complex reward system, so you need a more holistic approach to wellness. 

    Meanwhile, activities like heavy screen time and social media use, video game binging, online shopping, eating junk food, etc. are nowhere near as harmful as heavy drug use. So, as bad as the former are, they likely do not lead to a dysregulated dopamine system. At the same time, ‘blocking’ apps that limit phone, app, social media, and internet use won’t ‘reset’ your dopamine levels to ideal levels, even though they’ll probably make you more productive. 

    According to psychologist Dr. Bijal Chheda, some of the most common habits to avoid while decluttering your life include junk food, online shopping, multitasking, doomscrolling, excessive gaming, cluttered environments, and too much caffeine. For example, online shopping platforms are designed to keep you engaged via “flash sales, countdown timers, and personalized recommendations.” This so-called “urge surfing” encourages you to browse, buy, and seek instant gratification. “One way to disrupt this cycle is to pause and observe the urge rather than acting on it immediately.”

    Similarly, video games feel extremely engaging, which can make work or studying seem less interesting. “Change where you play. Keeping gaming confined to a specific room or device can help prevent it from spilling into work or study time. This creates a clearer boundary in the brain between spaces associated with focus and spaces linked to entertainment,” Dr. Chheda suggests. 

    Excessive caffeine consumption is something that many of us struggle with, too. A good rule of thumb is to delay caffeine for up to an hour and a half after waking up. Moreover, you should avoid caffeine after lunch so that it doesn’t impact your sleep. 

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    Attention spans are greatly diminished, but here’s how you can strengthen yours

    The bad news is that your ability to focus and concentrate has likely diminished. The good news is that this isn’t irreversible—you can rewire your brain to have an increased attention span again. According to researcher Gloria Mark and her team, the average time people can stay intentionally focused on a specific task has dropped sharply from around 2.5 minutes a couple of decades ago to a mere 40 seconds now.

    In other words, this is, on average, how long you can commit to a task before you switch to something else, like checking a phone notification, email, or message. The effect is more stress, more mistakes, and less productivity. Flip-flopping between tasks exhausts your brain and stretches its cognitive resources because you’re forcing it to switch between different ‘schema.’

    No matter how good you think you are at multitasking, your brain is naturally wired to prioritize information and focus on one thing at a time. If you’re constantly shifting your attention between several screens and tasks, whether for work or entertainment, you are setting yourself up for exhaustion. People who think they are good multitaskers are actually weak at attention control, filtering distractions, and switching tasks efficiently.

    “We only have one flashlight. So we can’t point it to multiple things at once,” says psychology professor Amishi Jha at the University of Miami. Rapid attention switching is a “terrible way to spend our attentional resources.” It can lead to a 40% decline in productivity. 

    You’re not powerless to change, though. For one, you can plan your most important work during your natural “peaks of attention.” According to Mark, you should focus during those periods and minimize interruptions. Block your social media. Silence your notifications. 

    Taking intentional breaks is important, too, especially when they involve physical activity and time in nature. The pomodoro technique, where you work for 25 minutes without interruptions, followed by a 5-minute break, is one strategy to try. 

    Meanwhile, you can strengthen your attention by training it. 12 minutes of mindfulness practice at least 4 times per week can improve your attention, memory, and stress resilience. When you focus on your breath or notice your mind wandering, you strengthen your ability to (re)direct your attention to what you want to focus on, no matter the distractions.

    “We all know that daily physical exercise is necessary for our physical health and now we also know that there is something we can do to exercise our mind,” Jha emphasizes.

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    Perseverance, consistency, and a supportive environment—that’s what you need to change your habits

    One of the worst things you can do is overhype yourself about the speed of habit change. It is easy to motivate yourself at the start. But real, long-lasting behavior change takes months and years, not days and weeks. What’s more, your growth won’t be linear. There will be setbacks, but you can overcome them by thinking of failure as an opportunity. Moreover, replacing one habit at a time, incrementally, is easier than quitting all tech, entertainment, and junk food cold turkey. 

    How quickly you can learn a new habit depends on the complexity of the behavior, the environment, your strengths, and your consistency. Research shows that it can take between 18 and 254 days to form a new habit, with an average of 66 days or two months. The simpler the action, the easier the feedback loop. 

    Say you want to get more into fitness to improve your health and longevity and replace your screen time with something more productive. If you go to the gym 4 times per week, it would take you around 6 weeks to develop this habit. The more familiar your environment, the more efficiently you can repeat actions and reinforce them.

    If you have a problem with junk food, constantly checking your phone, or gaming, you can physically change your environment to begin shifting your behaviors. Lock up or throw away your snacks; put your phone in another room; hide your console. Things that aren’t immediately accessible are easier to avoid. You can use this to your advantage with strengthening healthy habits, too. If you want to work out more at home, put your equipment where you spend the most time. If you want to improve your nutrition, place a bottle of plain water on your desk next to your computer and put some healthy snacks, like fruit, vegetables, and nuts, on your kitchen counter. If you want to start fixing your damaged attention span, make long-format articles, books, and videos more accessible than short-form content. Don’t assume that you will find the willpower to be better than you were yesterday. Set yourself up for success by crafting an environment that supports you.

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    You should strive for living in moderation, but don’t become a monk

    Meanwhile, you have to be realistic about your lifestyle, wants, and needs. For example, the odds are that your goal is likely to have a healthy relationship with your smartphone and social media, rather than become a Luddite, give up all tech outright, and move to the middle of nowhere with no electricity. Tech helps you stay connected, keeps you up to date with important news, and you probably need it for work. Movies, video games, and TV shows can be a lot of fun, not to mention the artistic value they offer or their capacity to make you think and feel. Eating a hamburger or some ice cream from time to time is good for enjoying life and gives you an excuse to connect with others. 

    So, moderating and redirecting your impulses rather than completely pruning them is ideal. You want to put yourself in the best possible position where you’re able to enjoy what life has to offer without becoming addicted to those behaviors that end up exhausting you if you overdo them. The difference between a healthy and an unhealthy relationship with any behavior is intent and control. If you can’t control your impulses to use screens, allow behaviors to dominate your life, feel compelled to do something, and struggle with daily tasks, work, school, or relationships, then you likely have a problem with dependence or addiction. That’s when you need to scale back, make some life changes, and potentially reach out to a therapist for support. 

    A dopamine detox and a screen-limiting app won’t fix things for you except in the very short term. What you need, instead, is a long-term plan where you reduce harmful habits and replace them with healthy ones. 

    The next time you spot an influencer or ad urging you to solve your problems with a detox, think about undertaking a far more difficult and long-term project. Choose to start building healthy habits that will last you a lifetime. A detox sounds quick, trendy, and sexy. But real change requires consistent, hard work—and the results are far more worth it, too. Now that you’re here at the end of the article, be honest: do you feel an itch to check your phone? Yeah, same here! But it’s a good thing I left my phone in my bag, halfway across the office. 

  • Wednesday 12 August 2026 - 16:23

    Are you tired of cute cat content? What a silly question – of course you’re not! Unless you’re a dog who somehow ended up on your human’s computer, there’s no way anyone could ever get bored of funny cats and the photos shared online.

    Today’s collection comes from the Brazilian Facebook page ‘What Cats Are These?’, a community dedicated to spreading some kitty joy with funny and relatable cat photos.

    So, waste no more time and scroll down to enjoy these hilarious felines. From ridiculous facial expressions to finding themselves in the strangest situations, these cats always seem to create moments worth sharing.

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  • Wednesday 12 August 2026 - 16:04

    The internet has decided that four words from Kate Middleton were apparently enough to reveal the state of her marriage to Prince William.

    A viral tweet online has viewers comparing the royal couple’s birthday tributes and noting that one was short and affectionate, while the other was longer and more sentimental.

    “She only sees him as a wallet or dad, not as a husband,” one commented after the differences were pointed out.

    The internet has decided that four words from Kate Middleton were enough to reveal the state of her marriage

    Prince William and Kate Middleton walking outdoors, highlighting their marriage under scrutiny.

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    An X user put the two birthday tributes side by side to highlight the differences in how Prince William and Kate Middleton publicly celebrated each other for their birthdays.

    On the left was Kate’s birthday shoutout to her husband when he turned 42 in June, 2024.

    She shared a sweet picture of the future King jumping with their three kids, Prince George, 13, Princess Charlotte, 11, and Prince Louis, 8.

    Prince William and Kate Middleton in an indoor setting, their marriage under scrutiny with fans comparing photos.

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    “Happy birthday Papa, we all love you so much! Cx,” she wrote alongside the snap.

    The second picture in the side-by-side comparison was William’s birthday tribute to Kate in January, 2025, which included a monochrome picture of her after her tumultuous cancer diagnosis and recovery.

    “To the most incredible wife and mother,” the caption began.

    An X user compared the couple’s birthday posts and and sparked speculation about their relationship

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    “The strength you’ve shown over the last year has been remarkable. George, Charlotte, Louis and I are so proud of you,” the message continued. “Happy Birthday, Catherine. We love you. W.”

    Netizens took the two birthday messages as windows into Kate and William’s marriage and claimed her tribute didn’t feel as affectionate as his.

    “Clearly one of them doesn’t value the other a lot,” one said.

    Another wrote, “The man is clearly being told that he doesn’t matter very much and can go to hell.”

    “Yea she hates him. She only sees him as a wallet or dad, not as a husband,” said one. “I’m so tired of seeing men participate in the marriage humiliation ritual.”

    Others claimed they were “both showing their love in their own special way.”

    “Golden retriever energy vs. high-fashion editorial. 😂 Perfect balance!” one said.

    Another wrote, “She captures the fun, he captures the strength. Beautiful.”

    Many also pointed out the likelihood of both birthday posts possibly being the outcome of a PR team’s strategy.

    “Are we forgetting they don’t manage their accounts?” one commented, while another wrote, “I doubt either one of them took either photo or uploaded them.”

    “She hates him. She only sees him as a wallet or dad, not as a husband,” one commented online

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    “Do people really think royals manage their own social media pages?” one asked.

    As standard practice, it is understood that William and Kate’s official social media accounts are not personal accounts that the couple manages themselves on a day-to-day basis.

    The Prince and Princess of Wales have their own communications team, based at Kensington Palace, which also likely handles their digital presence.

    This would mean posts can be planned, drafted, edited and published by members of their team.

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    However, Kate has publicly acknowledged personally contributing to social media content in some ways.

    She apologized in 2024 after her Mother’s Day photograph sparked controversy over being digitally manipulated.

    “Like many amateur photographers, I do occasionally experiment with editing,” she said on social media following the backlash.

    “I wanted to express my apologies for any confusion the family photograph we shared yesterday caused,” she continued. “I hope everyone celebrating had a very happy Mother’s Day. C.”

    Although she said she personally edited the photograph at the time, it doesn’t necessarily mean she uploaded it or captioned it herself.

    Others defended the couple, saying they simply express their love in different ways

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    William and Kate’s love story began when they were college students at Scotland’s University of St. Andrews.

    Their friendship blossomed into romance when they became roommates, living off campus with their friends in their second year of university.

    He proposed to her in 2010, and they tied the knot in 2011.

    “The secret to the Prince and Princess of Wales’ marriage is support for one another throughout their roles as working royals and as parents to their three young children,” author Russell Myers told the Mirror this week.

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    The William and Catherine: The Monarchy’s New Era: The Inside Story author said the couple does “everything” in “tandem.”

    “What many people aren’t aware of is how invested Catherine has always been, not only in her role and the effect she can have as the Princess of Wales and as a future queen, but also in the monarchy’s future direction,” he told the outlet.

    “Plot twist. She posted both,” one commented online

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  • Thursday 06 August 2026 - 10:43

    With a surge in the content that has been rolling out recently, picking a series to binge on Netflix has honestly become a challenge. I mean, there are hundreds to choose from every genre, so half of my time is wasted in selecting before I hear the “Tudum” sound of satisfaction.

    Well, when a netizen asked folks to share the best Netflix show that’s binge-worthy, they gushed with suggestions. We have compiled the finest of them for you, so you might want to take notes before your next binge session. Just scroll down to check them out for yourself!

    Click here & follow us for more lists, facts, and stories.

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    Why is everybody sleeping on MINDHUNTER!!! Sadly it was discontinued 😭

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    You might have already seen some of these, but some might be new finds for you. Don't you just love it when you do come across a new one, right before the weekend, and now your plans for the night are all set? Well, that's what mostly happens with me.

    However, I am no expert when it comes to understanding the things behind the screen, so Bored Panda got in touch with Akashneel Duttasharma—a director and writer—for an interview. Speaking about the recurring themes or storytelling techniques of the best Netflix shows, he said, "Let's be honest, the main theme across all successful shows across OTT leverage is 'binge-worthy.'"

    "And some of the global successes of Netflix are just ridiculously bingeable. In pure storytelling terms, strong shows on Netflix always have an extremely strong 'hook' in their concept. Something that's referred to by writers as the 'Shiny Object'. It is a theme that is so captivating that the audience can't look away out of fascination."

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    When we asked our expert if there are any Netflix shows that he believes are overrated or underrated, he started with an apology. "Sorry to say to all the crazy fans, but I always thought Money Heist is overrated. I found the plot a bit contrived and the drama unnecessarily melodramatic. But hey, that's just me! Millions across the world disagree."

    Meanwhile, speaking of an underrated one, Akashneel said that it'll always be The OA for him. He strongly believes that the creator, lead actor, and producer, Britt Marling, is a genius. The show has a mind-bending inter-dimensional mystery at its core while staying brutally emotional, he added.

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    ALICE IN BORDELAND TRUST ME

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    I also wanted to understand the impact Netflix’s global content (e.g., Korean dramas, Spanish thrillers) has had on audience viewing habits. Akashneel quite beautifully narrated, "Just the other day on the bus, I saw a completely normal, middle-aged man watching Demon Slayer on his phone in Hindi (an Indian language). Audiences are just exposed to so much content across continents."

    He explained that now they expect the same quality and storytelling from the Indian industry. For younger generations, he added, K-dramas are replacing Indian family-based soap operas, because it's more relatable. He also claimed that western series are captivating audiences across generations, so now the Indian industry has no excuse for lackadaisical content.

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    why has no one said Superstore :( hands down the best show on Netflix

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    Behind her eyes!! Best show I’ve ever watched

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    Why is no one mentioning You 💔

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    Lastly, we also wanted to know which show he finds binge-worthy, and Akashneel chose Squid Game. He narrated that they have managed to leverage the well-beloved hook of the Battle Royale, while showcasing how the emotional struggle for wealth and self-respect has become ubiquitous among younger generations.

    "What makes a show binge-worthy is its ability to get you invested in the characters and their journey. You can't stop watching because you want to see where your favourite character goes," he concluded.

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    Money Heist. A MASTER PIECE.

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    Idk if anyone has watched this but.. Atypical. ITS SO GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDD

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    Supernatural

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    Well, our expert definitely gave us something to think about, didn't he? Anyway, that's it from our end, dear readers. Now you can scroll through the rest of the list to see if you will discover a few hidden gems. Don't forget to give an upvote to the ones you love. Also, if our list has missed out on anything, feel free to jot them down in the comments!

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    GINNY AND GEORGIA. I know the lines better than the actors do

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    How to get away with [end] ✨

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    One of us is lying is such a hidden gem

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    Anne with an E

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    Schitts creek for sureee

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    Outer Banks

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    I heard On My Block is pretty cool

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    the vampire diaries hands down

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    Shameless

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    Manifest, best show I have ever watched

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    A series of unfortunate events😭

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    The blacklist trust me

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    Whyyy is no one saying firefly lane? Love love love this series

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    they did us so dirty only giving us ONE SEASON of the society

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    Alchemy of souls

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    the 100

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    one of us is lying 🔥!

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    Alexa & Katie is my comfort show 😔

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    Never have I ever [intimacy]

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    13 reasons why

    #36

    Julie and the phantoms I know EVERY line and alll the song but I’m STILLLLLL mad that they left me on a cliffhanger and only one season😔😔😔

    #37

    surviving summer

    #38

    SUITS 👩‍⚖️

    #39

    Gurll queen of the south has me in a chokehold 😫😂

    #40

    Desperate housewives! I am so obsessed with it 🤩😭

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    #41

    Friends! Hands down wish I could watch it all over again 😂😂😂

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  • Thursday 06 August 2026 - 10:42

    Any story can be gripping, but it’s the characters that bring it to life and make it unforgettable. Behind these characters are the actors who play them, and oh, what an incredible job some of them do! However, their talent really shines through when they try diverse roles.

    Netizens couldn’t hold back when they were asked, “What was your mind-blowing moment where you realized ‘That’s the same actor?!’” You might find yourself nodding along to some of these answers, or you might even disagree with them. Just scroll down to find out who these actors are!

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    #1

    Gary Oldman, Gary Oldman, Gary Oldman & Gary Oldman…

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    #2

    Alan Rickman. Amazing range of work.

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    #3

    When I was a kid… one of the first to catch me like that was Tim Curry

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    As you scroll through, you might even spot some of your favorite actors who keep surprising their fans to this day. I guess that's the whole beauty of art, isn't it? Well, I am no expert when it comes to knowing about the magic behind the screen or the efforts behind an actor's transformation.

    That's why Bored Panda reached out to Rishaya Palkhivala—a writer and filmmaker—for an interview. Speaking about such surprising actor transformations, she expressed that the makers are willing to push the envelope to some extent. She added that on one hand, it can be used to generate interest, but on the other, it may make people lose interest.

    "To transform a persona that is the actor takes effort from the director and makers beyond the actor as well!" Rishaya exclaimed.

    #4

    Andy Serkis

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    #5

    Alan Tudyk in just about everything

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    #6

    The correct answer is Doug Jones

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    We also spoke to Rishaya about the importance of physical transformation versus emotional or psychological transformation in a performance. She believes that physical transformation definitely aids immersion into the character.

    She explained, "Seeing the same face playing different characters gets quite familiar, especially when we are so exposed to actors beyond the screen. This is only useful when the role demands it; changing one's appearance for no particular reason is unnecessary. Overexposure is an issue for all actors, especially today."

    "However, it is a true testament to their capabilities if they can immerse themselves in the character such that they blend seamlessly and believably into a whole new world. It is always enjoyable to see an actor do what you did not expect of them. For instance, Charlize Theron in Monster did alter her appearance, but her performance was so strong that it carried the story home," our expert added.

    #7

    Anything Karl Urban has ever been in.

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    #8

    I watched all of season four of The Crown not realizing that was Gillian Anderson.

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    #9

    For my whole entire childhood (98 baby) I had no idea what Johnny depp actually looked like because all of his characters were crazy different looking

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    During our conversation, we also indulged in the topic of casting directors during such transformations. Rishaya claimed that they may intentionally look for actors who would be an unusual pick for the role. However, she also added that, for the most part, actors tend to be typecast.

    "I assume it also depends on the actor's desire to reinvent themselves for the audience. Tom Cruise has built a brand for himself as an attractive superstar. It was only when his star was fading in the 2000s that he created a comedic role for himself in Ben Stiller's Tropic Thunder. Wearing a bald cap and fat suit, he looked and acted well out of the 'character' of his stardom, in an uncredited role," she narrated.

    However, this role was so loved that it is considered to have revived his career, she noted. Rishaya stressed that presenting a popular face in an unexpected way is bound to grab eyeballs if the public is ready to see their beloved actor in that light. "Naturally, casting directors use that to their advantage if it fits the film and genre," she elaborated.

    #10

    Hugo weaving definitely came to mind

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    #11

    Can’t believe no one has said Warwick Davis!!! My mind was blown reading through his IMDB! He’s multiple characters in the Harry Potter movies, the Star Wars movies and TV shows, he’s the leprechaun in The Leprechaun franchise, he appears in Chronicles of Narnia and so much more!

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    #12

    Every Tom Hardy movie and then him as Bane

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    We also asked Rishaya about her mind-blowing moment when she realized that two very different characters were played by the same actor. Despite knowing the actor before watching him play the role, seeing Ben Kingsley as Mahatma Gandhi in the 1982 film Gandhi was quite surprising for her.

    "A combination of having seen and heard of Ben Kingsley beyond the screen in the media, and having seen and heard of Mahatma Gandhi through history, made it a fascinating experience. While Kingsley was recognisable in Schindler's List and Tuck Everlasting, another role for which he physically transformed himself was Fagin in Oliver Twist."

    "Having watched Oliver Twist when I was younger, I don't even remember him being in it. Beyond the look, Kingsley is a masterful actor who effortlessly enacts a multitude of roles," Rishaya concluded.

    #13

    Realizing the main Cardinal in Conclave is Voldemort

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    #14

    Stephen Root in everything.

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    #15

    Henry Cavill as the teenager in “The Count of Monte Cristo” movie (2002)

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    Well, it was definitely enlightening to get expert insights, wasn't it? Anyway, that's it from our end, folks. Now we leave you to peacefully enjoy the list and give an upvote to your favorite transformation. Also, if we have missed out on any actors, feel free to share them with us in the comments. You know we always love to hear from you!

    #16

    Benedict Cumberbatch in Atonement and Sherlock

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    #17

    I always always always forget that Pedro Pascal was in the second Kingsmen 😭

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    #18

    Giancarlo Esposito as the FBI agent in The Usual Suspects and Gus Fring in Breaking Bad

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    #19

    Michiel Huisman in The Haunting of Hill House and Game of Thrones

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    #20

    The best Sherlock Holmes by far, Jeremy Brett, was Freddy Eynsford-Hill in My Fair Lady.


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    #21

    Eric Lange in everything

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    #22

    I rewatched The Butterfly Effect recently and that’s when I found out that Logan Lerman played the young Evan

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    #23

    Henry Thomas
    Dad in The Haunting of Hill House also played Elliott in E.T.

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    #24

    Jenny Humphrey in Gossip Girl … and Cindy Lou in the Grinch

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    #25

    Bella Swan being the kid from Panic Room

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  • Thursday 06 August 2026 - 10:40

    Microfeminism is a strategy some women use to gently, yet meaningfully raise up other women in, often, male-dominated spaces. This can be everything from not defaulting to masculine pronouns to battling manspreading, but some folks get even more creative.

    So some women turned to the internet to share the ways they practice “microfeminism” so others can try it too. Settle in, get comfortable as you scroll through, maybe take some notes if you see something useful and be sure to add your own thoughts and examples in the comments section down below.

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    #1

    As a teacher I start the day with a picture of a woman on the board, I ask my class to grab their laptops and find out who she is and what she did or does. We’ll have a little history lesson or a lesson about standing up for yourself etc. Women are often written from history, I write them back in. ✌🏼

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    #2

    Not laughing at sexist jokes 😐 I blink like a ferbie and play dumb. It didn’t take much practice because these dudes have like 3 jokes between them all from 1993

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    #3

    Never cleaning the kitchen at the office. It’s nobody’s job, which means it’s not my job.

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    #4

    If you see/meet another woman in passing and you think “wow she’s stunning”, or “she’s so well spoken”, or “I love her style”, simply tell her! Spread love to the women in your space ❤️

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    #5

    I refer to every judge, CEO, lawyer, doctor, detective, and more as “she” by default until and unless I’m corrected.

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    #6

    When they're talking about how great men are at being providers and protectors I like to point out that it's "not all men"

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    #7

    Standing my ground on public transit vs the manspreader, leaner, snorer. Yes I will hip-chuck, shoulder nudge, or clap my hands to wake you up.

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    #8

    Putting my hand up like a traffic cop when male opposing counsel interrupts me in court and saying “stop”

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    #9

    When I'm in the grocery check out and a man is encroaching in my space, I just turn to face them and dead eye stare till they back up.

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    #10

    Looming. Sir, I have been short my entire life. You being taller than me doesn't make you right.

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    #11

    Whenever a male coworker tells me his wife is pregnant I excitedly ask if he’s coming back to work after the baby is born. And then sit in the silence while they work through what just happened

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    #12

    Refusing to default sports to men and requiring a qualifier for women (e.g., basketball and women’s basketball). If the Lakers are playing, I say men’s basketball is on. If I see someone wearing a Red Wings hat, I’ll ask if that’s their favorite men’s hockey team.

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    #13

    In meetings, if someone suggests we take notes/minutes, I offer before the inevitable glance at any female colleagues.

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    #14

    I like to hold doors open for big burley men

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    #15

    I don't know if this is considered micro, but I LOVE loudly pointing it out to anyone that can hear my booming voice, "I SEE YOU!" when they are sexually assaulting one of us with their eyes or when they're looking at underage girls. To watch them cower in embarrassment is one of the most powerful feelings. We're not going to ignore the predators trying to creep all around us anymore. We're calling that s*** out!

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    #16

    I stopped fake laughing at “jokes” and let them feel the awkward or I’ll ask in a genuine “I don’t get it- what do you mean” kind of way

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    #17

    I stopped listening to a man at work who whines endlessly. I look at him and walk away. If I'm not your mom, wife, therapist, or friend, I'm not carrying your emotional baggage.

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    #18

    I cross my legs so he’s risking getting his trousers’ leg dirty by the bottom of my shoe if he man spreads. Works very well on the ones with suits/work attire on :)

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    #19

    Whenever I attend a gathering I always try to sit in the front and ask questions and speak up. I also would have sat in the back and kept quiet when I was younger.

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    #20

    When I write blog posts for my clients, I sometimes have to pick out stock photos to go with them. When that happens I always choose photos of female professionals. Need a picture of a dentist, here's a woman who's a dentist. Whenever possible, I choose photos of women who aren't white, too.

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    #21

    Today in a conversation in which a man kept interrupting the other woman present, I said, “I’d like to hear what S. is saying.” I used to be voiceless and scared. This came out very naturally.

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    #22

    If a man uses the terms “girls” or “gals” when referring to adult women, rest assured I’ll refer to them as “boys” not men in my response. They may not realize what they are doing at first, but they will when I respond.
    Random male: “The girls in the legal department really did a great job with xyz.”
    Me: “Yes, the boys did a great job as well.”

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    #23

    I'm trying not to apologise for getting angry, call myself too sensitive, or frame my reactions as overreactions. It's felt very empowering so far :)

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    #24

    Not a daily thing, but..
    Was talking to a school friend, I know she has like 2-3 kids and stay at home mom bla bla. We were just reconnecting, and I asked just about her and her only! Not a single question of how's your family or how are the kids etc. Just, how are you, tell me about you, what are you thinking, what are you doing.. oooof!
    It was new for her as well, coz the amount of time she was taking to put thought into these questions was pheww.. and she actually broke down and ranted 🥺

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    #25

    I make sure I correct the salesperson when I’m actually next to be served but they defer to the man who just arrived.

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    #26

    Give least one woman a day a compliment that doesn’t revolve around looks

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    #27

    Mine is consistently using the feminine gender when referring to God in my Christian church. She and Mother God word well. A lot less “Lord”

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    #28

    If I see another women who obviously wants to get away from the dude who has cornered them at a bar, I walk by and cropdust. I also like to call certain types of men "little buddy" online. And my favorite is telling men to smile more.

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    #29

    I'm at that age where I walk straight into the middle of the pack of teenage boys crowding the footpath and expect them to scatter.

    #30

    Refusing to ever write or say “Mrs” or “Miss” only Ms.

    #31

    I don't move for anyone on the sidewalk unless they're pushing a stroller, walker, or walking a dog or child. I keep to the right, as is correct.

    © Photo: User

    #32

    Being 5'11 telling "6' men" that they indeed cannot be 6' if they're shorter than me

    #33

    Honestly, I’ve just let my entire existence become my resistance.

    #34

    Claiming all of my legroom on an airplane. If you're man-spreading into my space, prepare to awkwardly touch my calf the entire flight. Then I double down by taking both armrests if I'm in the middle.

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    #35

    I’m a stand-up comedian. Whenever I see a lineup advertised that’s all men (usually all white men, too), I’ll leave a glowing comment about how wonderfully diverse their lineups are.

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    #36

    I spread my legs and nudge them if they get too close. When I was on a near empty bus I used to move seats if someone tried sitting next to me and bring out my pepper spray if he looked like was going to move again.

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    #37

    Man spreading and using the arm rest while seated in a public place next to a man. Does my highly sensitive adhd [butt] hate my leg touching a stranger’s leg? 100% Do I refuse to make myself smaller anymore to make others feel more comfortable? 100% I’ll pick my battles.

    #38

    I was walking with my son all the way nearly up next to a store wall and I noticed a man not moving outta the way coming toward me...it's the first time i really noticed-HE DIDN'T MOVE! I had to move to dodge him and nearly stepped on my kid. I was stunned & now I can't usee this [nonsense]

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    #39

    I never use “guys.” Team, folks, colleagues, occasionally g**g, but not gals either.

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    #40

    One of mine has always been paying for a meal/event tickets occasionally on a date. I can tell a lot by the way the guy responds.

    #41

    The Sheriff's Dept. Posted on Facebook a picture of their new deputies, fresh out of the academy. All men, of course. I posted a question, "Do you ever hire women?" And here came the trolls......

    #42

    I cuss and never apologize. Since I'm tall and big, I get misgendered as a man, so I say in my highest-pitched voices, "What do you mean, sir?" Always embarrasses dudes. I also wear a US Army veteran cap in the sun.

    #43

    I’m in a bowling league that’s majority men. It’s well-established courtesy to wait for the bowlers on the lanes next to you to finish their throw before you step up. If I’m up, and they ignore me, so they can go first, I bowl anyway.

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    #44

    Im no longer helping, teaching or instructing men. Can’t find the can opener? Can’t help you. Don’t know how to wash your wool sweater? Too bad. Need help choosing a bday gift for your mom? You’re on your own

    #45

    I work in an office for a construction company. When I draw up contracts, I put the wife/female partner's name first before her man's. 🙂‍↕️🖤

    © Photo: jiannafrantz

    #46

    I used to refer to everyone on an anonymous mom’s site as ‘she’ even if I knew there were men posting. But I stopped because I didn’t want to cause dysphoria for trans folks.

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    #47

    When I meet a male CEO I cheer “Boy Boss!”

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    #48

    Mine is marking every marital status box incorrectly because if I have to disclose my marriage in my “address”, men should too.

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    #49

    I call the dad first for emergency contacts for students when they’re sick.

    #50

    For me it used to be opening doors or giving up my seat. Never again though.

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  • Thursday 06 August 2026 - 10:39

    Be nice and kind to your neighbors, sounds easy enough, right? Well, not always. Let’s be real: sometimes people next door can be so weird, rude, or downright creepy that you start daydreaming about packing up and moving to a deserted island. It’s all fun and friendly until someone starts peeking through your blinds or doing midnight yard work in clown makeup.

    Today, we’ve rounded up stories of those nightmare neighbors you hope you never have to live next to. From suspiciously nosy folks to the ones who just give you the creeps for no reason at all, these tales might make you appreciate your loud-but-boring neighbors a lot more. Keep scrolling, and maybe double-check that your doors are locked tonight!

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    #1 Too Loud

    When I was seven, our next door neighbor came pounding on our front door to scream at and threaten to unalive my dad because our pet that we kept in our backyard was being too loud. The pet was a rabbit. A rabbit.

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    #2 Confession

    Some 15 years ago when my parents and I lived in Fort Wayne, Indiana. We ended up befriending one of the neighbors and her two kids. Well, one day, we're all hanging out together and I notice her son had some pretty bad bruises and a nice size knot on his head. I kinda shrugged it off and we continued playing. Well, that night the mother comes over and confesses to my mom she unalived the boy. She ended up drowning him in the bathtub after beating him severely. She wasn't remorseful at all, when she left back to her house my mom called the cops immediately and she was arrested shortly after. She vowed that when she got out she would unalive my mom. We got out of Indiana and moved to another state.

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    #3 Butchering Their Own Religion Through Their Actions

    I had some neighbors when growing up that were crazy fanatic Christians (not sure what kind specifically). I and my family was Mormon (they still are I'm not), and they would constantly tell us we were going to h**l and that they needed to save us. Also, they freaked out over the Y2K thing and stockpiled food, water, and guns. When my dad talked to them about it in a just generally friendly, neighborly way, not a mocking way, they made it clear that if his children (me and my two sisters and my brother) ended up coming to them for food after the disaster, he would shoot us without remorse and without hesitating. And he was the more stable one of them.

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    When you rent a space, you’re usually handed a long list of dos and don’ts and honestly, they exist for a good reason. These rules and regulations help make daily life smoother and more predictable for everyone living under the same roof. Without them, things could get messy pretty quickly: think blocked hallways, loud arguments over parking spots, or random j*** piling up in the garden. Rules create a sense of order that keeps conflicts at bay. They might feel restrictive at times, but without them, shared living would be pure chaos.

    Housing rules aren’t just about being polite or minding your own business, they’re also there to keep everyone safe and comfortable. A good set of community guidelines means you know exactly what’s expected of you and what you can expect from your neighbors in return. It’s really about creating balance and fairness for everyone. 

    #4 Six Months Ago, My Neighbor Committed Su***de. He Had Schizophrenia And Bipolar Disorder. Yesterday His Parents Found A B*mb In Their Garage

    The streets were blocked off as two men in b*mb suits, a b*mb robot, a b*mb sniffing K-9, and a slew of other assorted officers did their assigned duties. I did not see who was piloting the robot, but it found the b*mb and brought it out to be detonated. The robot placed it in what I am assuming to be some sort of b*mb disposal container, and was then detonated. It shook the walls of our house and knocked some pictures off the walls. Then the K-9 went in to find any other devices, and about 10 minutes later came up empty handed.

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    #5 Insane Neighbour Decided To Throw Bricks At My Car

    He decided it was me who called in a domestic violence call and threw these over the fence after s******* bottles at my front door all night. Cops won’t do anything because I didn’t “see” him do it, even though there’s no access to my car as it’s behind a locked garage roller door. The fence that connects our properties was damaged as the shade cloth that had been put up for privacy had been ripped down. It connected from the fence to the roof of our veranda. The bricks he threw also match his house. Then while fixing the shade cloth he come outside and accused me of watching his kids. Have since found out he’s complained to his real estate that me and my wife (we are both females, 29 and 30) are making HIM feel unsafe!?!

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    #6 Our Neighbors Are Awful, They Constantly Throw Things Into Our Backyard. But This Takes The Cake

    I’m about to call a non-emergency. I’m super creeped out!

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    To understand why these rules matter so much, Bored Panda spoke with Seenu Shankara, the dedicated society chairman of a well-known residential complex in Mumbai. Seenu has proudly held this position for over a decade, helping keep thousands of residents on the same page.

    He chuckles as he says, “You’d honestly be shocked at how many people just pretend the rules don’t exist or think they don’t apply to them at all!” His job is equal parts community leader, peacemaker, and sometimes, a bit of a referee when things get heated.

    #7 My Neighbors Were The 4th Of July Idiots

    I can’t upload video but they were setting off fireworks at the end of their driveway with one of the garage doors open. A LOT of fireworks discharged way too far from his house, including into his own garage. He had quite a few fireworks stored in the garage which helped the house be engulfed pretty quickly.

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    #8 Neighbors Boyfriend Living Above Us Accidentally Discharged A Firearm Through Our Bedroom Ceiling

    The boyfriend called them. They got all our statements. Apparently he tried unloading the gun to clean it but somehow discharged it. The bullet seems to be lodged in the ceiling so everyone was fine. Apartment people let us know they’re gonna handle it. We’re all fine but I was very upset. Edit: Few hours later, I put a straw in the hole and it gave me a good idea where the impact is, unfortunately the floor is thick of carpet. I found a dent in the wall so it could have bounced off it but I have yet to find out where. Also the guy is getting charged.

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    #9 Old Guy Tried To Take Away The Whole Street With Him

    There was this old guy who lived with his wife and his dog a few doors away in a big house. Someday they divorced, and the lady moved away for reasons unknown. One morning, I left my house as usual to catch the school bus. Our street is relatively quiet, and normally there isn't much stuff going on. But this morning was a bit different. There were a few neighbors on the street, and my parents said that there's something wrong with the old guy who lived on the end of the street, but nothing specific was known.

    So I went to school and didn't think much about it. As I returned and exited the bus at the bus stop, I saw that the whole street was cordoned off and evacuated. Police cars and officers were everywhere, and even a SWAT team was there. I had no idea what was going on. I met up with my parents, and they explained to me that the old guy tried to end his life and planned to take the whole street with him. He flooded his entire basement with gasoline and had an improvised b*mb in his garden shed, which was essentially a big pile of propane gas tanks tied together. A timer clock and a toaster served as the fuse mechanism for both the b*mb and the basement.

    Before the old man triggered the b*mb, he wrecked the entire interior of his house with an axe and then went to the garage with his poor dog, locked the gate, and turned his car engine on. He put his dog in the trunk and seated himself in the driver's seat, waiting to die from asphyxiation before he would be blown.

    Luckily, the plan didn't work out, because a neighbor heard the car engine and became suspicious. He looked through the garage window and at first thought the man had a heart attack. So he broke the window and entered, only to see the man more or less conscious in his car. At first, he had no idea what was going on, but then he noticed the distinctive smell of gasoline. He broke the door to enter the house and discovered the mess the old guy created. The neighbor immediately called the cops, and a b*mb squad took care of the explosives just in time. Unfortunately, the dog suffocated in the trunk and was already dead when the neighbor arrived.

    The authorities arrested that guy and put him into a psychiatric ward after the court process. He will remain there until the end of his life. The estimated blast radius of the b*mb would've been sufficient enough to destroy several houses and do severe damage to the surrounding area.

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    “We have these rules so people can actually live in peace, without petty issues turning into huge dramas,” Seenu explains. He believes that no one wants to waste time dealing with loud, disrespectful, or inconsiderate neighbors, life’s already busy enough! “If people just did whatever they wanted, you’d have fights about parking, dirty staircases, and noise complaints every single day,” he says. Good rules help make sure the community stays calm and residents can focus on living their best lives.

    #10 Scary Neighbor

    Found out my neighbor sleeps with a loaded firearm today (corner of my computer desk, right behind my monitor).

    © Photo: User

    #11 Why Do They Need To See Into Yard So Badly?

    Downhill neighbor had a wide-open view of our beautiful lower yard. They got a barky dog that they left in their backyard all day. Dog torn down our fence trying to get out and get to our dog. We build a new solid wood fence and then they complained, now that they couldn’t see our yard, that we were spying on them from our yard. Whatever. Then they build a raised deck so that they could see over the fence. We planted a row of bamboo and haven’t seen them since. They called the building department about our fence. The building department came out, said it was legit, and cited them for their illegal deck.

    © Photo: Aromadegym

    #12 Neighbour Just Dumped Bleach Water Onto My Cat, Furniture And Clothes

    They were cleaning or something and dumped a whole bucket of bleach and water off their balcony and directly onto mine, covering my cat and all my furniture and clothes in chemicals.

    I told them to stop the first time and then not 3 minutes later they dumped another bucket of chemicals on the other side landing on my cat grass which is now unsafe to eat.

    Idk what I can do about it other than yell at them which I did... When I knocked on their door they didn't open it. What a surprise.

    Update: Washed cat and filed a police report
    Update 2: I knocked on their door again a bunch but they ignoring me... They definately were home. So I called the guys dad and his dad sounded angry and said he would call the son/tennant straight away. I then cancelled the police report because my cat was healthy and fine after a bath, and no serious property damage was done. Plus, I felt like a scolding from your dad when you are a grown man should be enough. Also, I don't really like getting police involved in stuff unless nessisary.

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    Clean and well-maintained common areas are one of the biggest things Seenu enforces. “We expect everyone to treat shared spaces like an extension of their own home,” he says. This includes everything from keeping the building’s lobby neat to making sure the garden isn’t turned into a dumping ground for old furniture or broken toys. If common areas are dirty or misused, it drags down the whole vibe for everyone living there. A clean space sets the tone for respect and harmony among neighbors.

    #13 Neighbor Went Psycho And Decided To Knee My Car At 2 AM

    My poor car was an innocent bystander. We have never had any issues with the family. He just went crazy in the middle of the night. He was throwing beer bottles too and our street was covered in broken glass.

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    #14 Neighbor Threw Chemicals On My Car Because I Asked Them To Stop Letting Their Dogs P**p On Our Patio

    This was the fourth time this had happened. I’m in a townhouse with shared patios. They tie their dog on their patio in 95-degree weather, and it comes to our side and p**p on our side by our patio chairs. So I left a note today to just ask for it to be cleaned up and for measures to be put in place to prevent it from happening again- and this was the response. I’m afraid to report it because it’s probably going to escalate.

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    #15 A One Sided Feud

    My aunt, who was a single mother at the time and ran a daycare service in her house, lived next to a psychopath. After a bad ice storm one day, my aunt had a bunch of tree limbs fall into her backyard. Her neighbor's husband came over and cleaned it up for her. Ya know, just being a good neighbor. And in turn, my aunt thanked him with a case of beer. Ya know, just being a good neighbor. Well his wife took that as flirting, and so began a one sided feud against my aunt.

    It was awhile ago, so I don't remember everything. What I remember though was horrifying. She tried to run over my aunt's dog once. Another time she called child protective services and told them my aunt was an adult worker and working at her house during the daycare hours. Probably the worst one though was when my aunt found a bit of her house and grass near the house burnt. She's old highschool friends with the fire inspector, so he came and confirmed a fire was started using a propellant.

    My aunt took her to court over these things, but I don't remember what came of it. I'm pretty sure she at least got a restraining order.

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    Garbage disposal is another surprisingly tricky topic, according to Seenu. “We have clear rules for separating wet and dry waste and keeping hygiene standards high,” he says. Yet, some people still mix everything up or just leave bags lying around wherever they want. This creates not just a mess, but also invites pests and health hazards, a nightmare for families with kids and seniors. “We really try to educate and warn people first, but sometimes it takes repeated reminders,” Seenu adds with a sigh.

    #16 I'd Report This As A Threat To The Police

    Someone anonymously sent this to my neighbor.

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    #17 Greeted By This When Opening My Door, And My Neighbor Is In The Hospital Handcuffed To The Bed On Attempted [end] Charges

    Neighbor stabbed his wife multiple times and then himself...and if there was one guy who I would never believe would be capable of this it was that guy.

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    #18 Black Vultures Perched On The Roof Of My Elderly Neighbors House. I'm Too Afraid To Go Check On Him

    Cops are there. Theyre calling his sister to gain access inside the house. He isnt answering the door. The last time I saw him was about a week ago. I hope he's ok.

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    Then there’s parking, a hot-button issue in almost every society. “We have detailed rules about where residents and visitors can park, and how many vehicles each household can keep,” Seenu explains. These rules help prevent endless arguments over stolen spots and blocked driveways. They also make sure emergency vehicles and daily traffic can move freely within the premises. Without this, you’d have chaos every morning when people try to leave for work!

    #19 He Would Stay Up All Hours Of The Night

    I was renting an apartment a few years ago and the landlord decided to rent the basement to a young man who "got into some bad things but is doing better for himself"...he would stay up all hours of the night playing electric guitar. One night (around 4am and I had to be at work at 8am), I was getting so frustrated that I stomped on the floors to remind him that there were people living upstairs..I heard him go outside for a few minutes, but thought nothing of it. Went to drive my car the next morning and he had slashed my tires.

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    #20 Just Because He Can

    My friend has a key to his neighbors house. When she goes to work, he goes in and watches her tv and uses her toilet, then leaves. He leaves everything else untouched. Other than this, the guy is a normal dude. He does it just because he can.

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    #21 A Neighbor’s Rogue Firework Set Our Grass And Trash Can On Fire

    This is why fireworks aren’t allowed in city limits.

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    Keeping the peace inside the society isn’t just about clean hallways or proper parking, noise levels matter too. Seenu shares that they have limits on how loud you can be, especially during quiet hours like late nights or early mornings. “Nobody wants to be jolted awake at 2 a.m. by someone blasting music or renovating their living room,” he says. 

    The community’s shared amenities, like the clubhouse, gym, swimming pool, or party hall, come with their own set of rules too. “These guidelines are there so everyone gets a fair chance to use and enjoy these spaces properly,” Seenu says. Imagine one family booking the community hall every weekend or people leaving the pool dirty for the next group. That’s exactly what these rules prevent. They protect these facilities and keep them enjoyable for everyone in the building.

    #22 Paranoia At Work

    My neighbor was living with his parents his whole life because he couldn't work due to some psychological disorder. I don't know what it was exactly. But he walks around his house all day and looks at it from all possible angles. He's watching his house or his car in the garage all day. Sometimes he is watching from inside, just staring outside absently. When you walk past him and greet him, he never answers. Doesn't even seem to notice you. Sometimes he walks around the block with his old leather suitcase and sunglasses on. He returns quickly all the time. When he recognizes something that is not right, he calls the police. Even when someone turns the car around in his driveway or parks near it. When I was a child and we had birthday parties where the parents parked their cars near his driveway to collect their children, he nearly always called the police. When I come home late at night, his front door is always open a little bit with him sitting behind and watching. Sometimes when friends are over and we go for a smoke outside at night, he comes outside and goes to his garage. He has got very bright lights installed and pretends to check his car, at night at 4am, of course. It's kind of disturbing, but you get used to it from time to time. On the other hand, we never fear any burglars breaking into our house, because we know our neighbor is watching.

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    #23 Downstairs Neighbor Came To My Door At Midnight After Throwing Rocks At My Window And Calling Me Names

    Yesterday night at about 11 I heard what sounded like pebbles hitting my bedroom window, then a male voice screaming. About 15 minutes later I heard a knock on my door and checked the Ring to find a guy I didn’t recognize standing there. He said he was my downstairs neighbor and told me to stop stomping so loud, it’s been six months of nonstop noise, and he’s “sick of it”. I moved in three months ago, not six, and I’ve never had a noise complaint in any of my previous apartments. Plus my job means I’m gone for 12-14 hours a day. I don’t know what he’s hearing, but I don’t think it’s me. Even if it is, throwing pebbles and then coming to my door at midnight is a weird way to handle it. This whole situation is f******* me out.

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    #24 My View Of The Neighbors Giant Steve Jobs Painting

    We can see more of his face from the second floor and it's definitely Jobs in his later years. My roommates and I argued over it for a week lol.

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    Last but not least, pets have their own policies too! “Pet rules are really important, they make sure animals are cared for responsibly and don’t bother other residents,” Seenu says. It’s about finding balance so pet owners can enjoy their furry friends without causing trouble for neighbors who might not love pets as much. In the end, Seenu sums it up perfectly: “All these rules are here for a simple reason, we just want everyone to live peacefully, side by side. It’s not about control; it’s about harmony.”

    #25 Ice Cream Shop

    When my sister and I were about 5 and 6, we lived in a small town community (about 600 people) and we would frequently play outside without parental supervision. Our neighbor would, unbeknownst to our mother, take us to the local Ice cream shop for ice cream. One day we moved without explaination. Years later it was told to us that that neighbor was a registered s*x offender and p*****ile and mom moved for our safety. She freaked out when she learned about our trips to the ice cream shop. To my knowledge neither me or my sister were ever a******ed, but it is still very scary to think about.

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    #26 Incredibly Inappropriate

    When I was a little girl, like 10, I had this grown man neighbor that spanked me every time I saw him when I was playing outside. Just one swift slap, like, daily. It was obviously only when my parents weren’t around, but it was incredibly inappropriate. So maybe not creepy so much as p*****iley, but still...

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    #27 Built A 7 Foot Privacy Fence. Neighbor Raised His By 2 Feet And Put A Camera Facing Into My Backyard

    I've been having problems with this neighbor since they moved in years ago. They originally built their fence 2 feet into my property early 2020. I had to pay for a boundary survey and lawyer to get them to correct their mistake. Decided to build a privacy fence and be done with them once and for all this past November. One month later they raise the hight of their fence and this pops up (facing front to back). Police won't do anything and I can't afford a civil suit. (Texas)

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    Well, these posts definitely show why some rules and regulations are so important, right? Which one of these made you appreciate your own neighbors a little more? Have you ever had to deal with a nightmare neighbor yourself? We’d love to hear your stories, so tell us below!

    #28 1st Floor Neighbor's Front Window

    So this guy had been living here for 5-7 years maybe even longer (I had a friend who’s lived here years before I moved in that confirmed) -he’s always been super weird and either cusses you out or desperately tries to convince you to go inside his house. He had a caregiver for a long time but I noticed I stopped seeing them for a few weeks - when I noticed the window was full of flies, I immediately assumed something or someone had died inside (ofc bc of the situation I thought he unalived his caregiver or something bc it was PACKED with flies) so I called the cops. I was on the way to work when this happened so when I passed by his floor and saw them going in, I told the officer outside I was the one who called so if they had questions to call me etc - that was the end of that A couple weeks later I’m in the process of moving out of here for obvious reasons lol, including this tenant - my apartment manager just said “he no longer lives here” Now, no idea how long these “other” flies have been here, but they’re here and multiplying. I’m going to report and call - again But this is just such a weird and scary situation Also want to note that in the last post I made, a few people were insistent that he was a hoarder - I’m 98% sure this was not the case nor the reason for the flies and now, Black Soldier Flies (?) ((not exactly sure but, they match the descriptions)

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    #29 Sad And Creepy Really

    My current neighbor. She's a hoarder, and her things are starting to spill over to my side of the driveway. I suspect her house may have bedbugs because of the bedbug spray she leaves outside her house for all to see. But the creepy part about her is how she can creepily sneak up behind you as I pull into the driveway and get out of the car, she offers you veggies that are rotten—these she scavenges from somewhere.

    I caught her one time at her yard, which our properties are just divided by a 6' tall picket fence, and she was digging through the rubbish at night. She also has crosses and various religious relics posted all over the exterior of her house. I also found evidence that she's been going through my own trash bins, meaning she either trespasses in my yard or she waits till I take the trash out and goes through them. I am looking into installing a webcam.

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    #30 The Way My Neighbor's Door Look Now (I Have No Idea Why)

    Obviously quarantine of some kind but can't be sure what exactly they're trying to k**l in there.

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    #31 Squeaky Wooden Floor

    Lived above a guy in a really old fourplex and I guess the wood floors squeaked really loudly when I walked around. It's not like I was stomping around either but the dude would constantly come upstairs and bang on my door and yell at me to stop moving around. I felt badly for him in the beginning because he seemed genuinely frustrated but he didn't seem to understand or believe that I wasn't slamming my feet on my floor/his ceiling.

    I called my landlord several times asking him if he had a solution. I couldn't move because I was locked in to my lease but my landlord was just like, "buy a lot of rugs".

    It got to the point that I couldn't take the constant yelling and I was literally either tip toeing around or hopping from my couch to my chair in order to get out of my living room so that he wouldn't be standing at my door yelling at me.

    Finally I went downstairs one day and asked if we could talk about the situation because I felt like maybe if I looked him in the eye when he was calm and explained that I wasn't doing it on purpose and that there was literally nothing more I could do (I had already bought areas rugs ffs!) he would maybe understand. So I went downstairs and very nicely explained and he seemed to be listening. And then he said "I'm about at the point that if it happens again I'm going to show up at your door with a really big knife." And then he just stared at me.

    I basically ran out of there, called my landlord and said that I was more or less being threatened and a month later the guy moved out. And then as soon as I could I did too.

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    #32 Rude Neighbor

    My parents’ neighbor owns a landscaping company, so he has a dump truck. His house is set further back from the road than theirs, so his driveway, which is right on the property line, extends past their house and next to their backyard. My dad noticed the neighbor turning the dump truck around in my parents’ backyard when the ground was very soft from some recent rain. He went back, and sure enough, there were giant ruts in my parents’ yard. When my dad confronted the neighbor about using their backyard to turn around, the neighbor responded by saying, “I’m sorry, but if I turned it around in my yard, it would have left ruts in my lawn.” So he knew it would leave ruts, didn’t want them in his yard, and left them in my parents’ yard instead.

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    #33 Neighbors Complained About The Smell For More Than A Month. Finally Firefighters Broke In, Found A Dead Body And Hundreds Of Bottles Of Urine And Feces In Bags

    The neighbor said that their kitchen is right next to that room where they found the body. There were bugs crawling over all the time, and they couldn't open the windows because of the smell.

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    #34 My Neighbour Who Never Left His House Or Threw Out His Trash Recently Passed. This Is How He Lived

    He slept in the trash on the ground pretty sad. In my 24 years of living here i had never seen his house. even from the outside his garden was a jungle.

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    #35 Weird Nextdoor Neighbors

    I live next door to a family of exclusive brethren (pretty much [intense] Christians who aren't allowed to use any technology). I live in a two-story house, and my room overlooks the front yard, with a clear view of their house. A few years ago, my brother from Germany came to visit us. On his last day, I looked out of the window to see if he had finished loading the car and noticed the Brethren lady watching from her window. Every time my brother or dad turned in the direction of her house, she would duck under the window. She didn't notice me watching, though. So it was pretty funny. Anyway, she would constantly do this. When my dad was mowing the lawns, when I walked home from school, I would always catch a glimpse of her from the corner of my eye. She would talk on the phone while staring at my family. Her husband cut the trees on our side of the fence, specifically so the family could watch us. Which is illegal in my country. Tacks, fishing hooks, nails, and other sharp objects always ended up on our driveway, which led to a lot of punctured tires. My biggest worry was that my dogs would get hurt, though. It's so creepy. She took a photo of my boyfriend's dad's license plate when he was picking me up. A video camera was pointed at my house (keep in mind, according to their religion, things like phones are banned). The weirdest part is, my family is boring. We just stay inside most of the time and keep to ourselves. I don't know how or why this started, but it gives me the chills.

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    #36 Every Time I Get Home, My Neighbor Is Watching

    A little background on the neighbor: she's elderly, lives alone, and has very few social skills. When we first moved in, we were actually warned by the homeowner that she would come over every weekend and talk for a little while, which she did for the first 6 months or so. Now, she just stares at us through the screen door. We wave and say hi, but she never reciprocates.

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    #37 Entitled Neighbor

    Next door neighbor sent us a letter through the mail asking us to never park in front of their house after I parked there once. Kicker is a couple of years later they seem to have started some illegal home business with employees and every single day there are at least three cars parked in front of our house.

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    #38 Our Neighbor Watches Us Constantly Through Her Tattered Curtains Like A Ghost In The Night

    It's actually her bedroom. The worst part is that our bedroom window upstairs looks straight into hers, so she watches us upstairs too. No time without the curtains drawn because the girlfriend gets creeped out.

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    #39 This Casket Has Been Sitting On Someone's Property In My Neighborhood For About A Week

    To be honest, if it wasn't on private property, my intrusive thoughts would definitely get the best of me. It's also on a main road and the casket looks to be brand new. The people seem to treat that strip of land as a dumping ground because those two vehicles have been there for years now, unmoved. So creepy. To make it even weirder, the police station is maybe a block or so away, they've most certainly seen this out on their rounds.

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  • Thursday 06 August 2026 - 10:38

    If you remember the good old comedy called "Four Rooms," then you understand perfectly well what incredible life twists and turns an ordinary person can encounter when they just go to work at a hotel. Or, for example, at a fast-food restaurant.

    McDonald's is the world's largest fast-food chain, so it's not at all surprising that its employees can recall the most incredible things that happened to them or that they had to witness while working. Especially if you persistently ask them about it... So here is a list of forty such stories.

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    #1

    One time two costumers came round drive thru when I was on overnights (regulars) and were a bit short on money so I paid the rest and said don’t worry I’ll sort it as they were always nice and always came round. They came round day after and ordered food, (they definitely had the change) noticed it was me and they asked me to sort it for them again. I told them I won’t be paying it again as it comes out of my pocket, or I can’t be short on the till. They then proceeded to scream at me calling me a sc*m and an inconsiderate little girl because I done it the day before and won’t do it again. I’ve never paid for anyone’s meal since oh and btw they ended up paying it fine when the manager came over they just took my niceness for granted 😂

    #2

    On an overnight a drunk woman climbed through our fast forward window to get sauce. When I heard the rustling I look over and see half her body hanging through the window. When I asked why she did that, she seemed as though it was no big deal, she stole a whole big grey pot of sweet chili. Her taxi driver apologised profusely and I laughed because they had done this before and every night I’ve had the same conversation being that she needed to wait. Because of her we have to lock our windows.

    #3

    not the worst but i was serving a customer once, tell me why when they go to pay they take their shoe off and get the £5 note from not just their shoe, but OUT OF THEIR SOCK????? and then when i made a bit of a face recieving it he clarified that “he had clean feet”

    Recently, the TikToker @bwright99 asked netizens: "Give me your most unhinged McDonald's crew story." The original poster specifically clarified that when she wrote 'most unhinged,' she didn't mean everyday situations like "I got yelled at by a customer for what they considered bad service," but something truly out of the ordinary.

    Something you'll remember literally for the rest of your life. Well, not only did the video go viral, garnering over 705.5K views and nearly 3.3K different comments, but it also spawned a wave of followers. Like this Threads post by the user @chronicallyhumored, who asked not to be considered nosy, but also urged netizens to share similar stories.

    #4

    once a customer asked me if they could order 50 cheeseburgers and i said did u just say 50? and they said yes. i said let me get my manager quickly (we have to) and they kicked off, i then pre warned kitchen “50 cheeseburgers on order” and got my manager so they could put it through coz a code was necessary, they then had their card declined and had the audacity to go to the next window and say “well u may as well give us them now [seeing] as they are probably already being made and u wont sell them all” it was also half 9 at night

    #5

    A customer shouted “I wanna get served by McSpicy over there” and pointed at me

    #6

    one night, nobody showed up to a night shift except from me and my manager (she was a new manager) it was extremely busy and she wanted to keep inside open as long as possible cause she didnt want to get in trouble and we didnt realise how busy it picked up. She eventually decided to close inside (doors only open from inside to let people out) but customers were standing by the door to let more in. we ended up with 50 odd pending and a hoard of customers trying to jump the counter, people getting out of their cars wanting to know what tf was going on and my manager sat in the corner crying her eyes out. orders serving themselfs off for being too long so we lost a bunch of orders. We did turn off our menu but orders were were still coming through. and cleaning? non existant. That was the hellish shift i ever worked

    Well, it's been almost a century since the 1940s, when the brothers Richard and Maurice McDonald opened their first restaurant in San Bernardino. In 1954, Ray Kroc began franchising their business. Since then, McDonald's has grown into a colossal corporation with over 40K restaurants worldwide and more than 2M employees.

    So it's no surprise that McDonald's employees can tell almost any tale about strange visitors, entitled managers, unusual orders, and emergency situations. McDonald's is present in 100 countries around the world now, and in this selection, you can find stories with any national accent - although, of course, most of the stories are from Americans.

    #7

    Someone threw a plain cheeseburger at me through the drive thru window cuz it had cheese on it, we had to call the police in the end cuz he was so mad💔

    #8

    had someone threaten my life because he didnt want lettuce on his 4 hamburgers after i explained that there was no lettuce on his hamburger to begin with

    #9

    i had a man late 30s ask me if i was single (i was 16 and looked my age) i said no then he proceeded to wait in his car outside until i came outside and was STARING at me as i was taking out bays literally doong my job 😀 i cried in the office and literally couldnt go back outside

    Interestingly, McDonald's, which was once criticized for high staff turnover, has been actively fighting this problem over the past decades. For example, if in 2020, according to this study, McDonald's employee turnover rates were nearly 44%, then in 2024, as this dedicated article on Recruitment Tech claims, the use of AI algorithms made it possible to reduce annual staff turnover by 22%.

    However, AI cannot yet cook burgers and French fries, so the human factor will still be relevant here. So the stories collected in this list can often tell you something interesting about interactions with other people. Strange, entitled, arrogant, livid - but still human beings.

    #10

    i asked an old man if he wanted any sauces, his reply was “my wife gives me enough sauce”

    #11

    Had these big boys order 2 family box meals on a late night dinner rush hour, I asked em “was that everything?” They said “yeh” Comes up to window and they’re like “can we get all the buns steamed?” I nearly lost it at these guys 😭 manager came in and took over while I made the food

    #12

    A colleague had a chocolate milkshake thrown over her because the customer didn’t believe it was chocolate as someone had pulled a banana directly before. Another colleague had a customer jump over the counter and steal a big Mac. It ended up in court. I had a fully grown adult male threaten (in front of his children) to shove my glasses down my throat because the happy meal boxes had run out and I had to put the exact same contents of a happy meal inside a bag, which I confirmed with him upon ordering and he was totally fine. Took him 10 minutes and finished food before he came back and slammed the empty bag down in front of me to begin his rant. Someone threw a double saus muffin at me that they’d asked for no egg in, there was clearly the sticker that said NO EGG but kitchen put the egg in so was my fault ofc, manager sided with the customer even though the sticker that meant I PUT NO EGG THROUGH THE SYSTEM was right there on the double saus wrapper, so I tendered my immediate resignation on a napkin and walked out.

    Hollywood has paid attention to the Golden Arches more than once - from the recent film "The Founder," with the brilliant acting of Michael Keaton, to numerous references to their products in popular movies.

    Do you remember what they call the "Big Mac" in France? Le Big Mac, that's right. The film industry has been constantly complaining about the lack of ideas in recent years, but here, voila - forty almost ready-made plots for every taste, from comedy to horror!

    #13

    1) I’ve had two love letters written, one physical and one put in on FFT. 2) A man came in on my shift and needed help, came back 7 hours latter and tried to make me leave with him. 3) Another man told his 5 yr old son that they WOULD take me home, he was wearing a temu grill and talked to himself while repeatedly pointing at me and trying to find where my manager (who he thought was my brother, he’s not) lived. He was the worse and was genuinely off his head

    #14

    I had two women walk in covered in blood who asked me how long do I think they will get for stabbing someone coz that’s what they have done. It was confirmed the next day by police that they had 💀

    #15

    Some lady went all the way to corporate and reported me for having braces causw it's unprofessional

    But for now, producers and directors are trying to shoot countless remakes and sequels, and haven’t gotten to these stories, so be among the first to read them all. And if you, too, once worked in the shadow of the Golden Arches, and you have some amazing, funny or sad, instructive or terrible story behind you, please feel free to share everything in the comments here as well.

    #16

    Handed someone’s drinks out at the drive through, one of them was wrong so took it back to change it for them, as my back was turned they’d spat at me 🫠 found out from the next customer who was disgusted and said I should call the police 😂

    #17

    If this helps I was on a overnighter one night and some crazy woman came running with a machete at 5am….

    #18

    i had a really old man who was quite large try and climb through the drive through payment window and attack me after his card declined 14 times trying to demand i gave the £72 order for free which i obviously didn't do i handed my notice in immediately after

    #19

    Someone once tried to sue me because I didn’t give sufficient first aid through the Drive thru window after he spilled a Coffee on himself … but I couldn’t get the chance because he had ✨driven away✨

    #20

    A man asked me if he could swap the fries for an apple pie when ordering a meal, I told him no, he then asked if I’d be able to do it if he stabbed me and lunged over the counter to hit me. My manager still served him and APOLOGISED 💀

    #21

    Swapped a shift with another manager, did a morning shift when i usually do only closes. A customer notified 2 crew people about someone looking unwell in their car. They came to me and I went out and found someone dead in my parking lot, there was also 2 dogs in the car dead too 🥰🥰

    #22

    My car, phone, id and card were stolen from work while I was on shift. Some guy/customer went into the crew room and stole it all from my bag. (Keypad was “broken” but was actually turned off).

    #23

    someone threw a hot chocolate at me when i was a trainer because it was “stone cold”. it was in fact, not stone cold

    #24

    A morning staff member was carrying scissors up the line to go cut open a sauce packet, whilst holding the scissors she tripped on a bin and stabbed herself in the stomach. She was rushed to the hospital and luckily was fine, this happened 4 years ago and she still talks about it to this day. We also aren’t allowed scissors anymore…

    #25

    On the drive thru this guy asked if he can get a free happy meal toy because his son got hit by a car and I had to try so hard not to pull a face or anything so I sent them to the next window 😭

    #26

    Chicken nugget dashed right at my head because his burger had pickles on it. (I didn’t take his order. I didn’t know he didn’t want pickles. I was just the first person in sight).

    #27

    had a sobbing, dryheaving breakdown at work and my manger said ‘not being funny but i don’t pay you to cry, if you’re going to cry can you clock out please’

    #28

    Some man threw a double cheeseburger at one of my managers then flipped the wet floor sign over because she refused to serve him after he threw the double cheeseburger at her all because he was missing a patty in the burger I think it happened nearly 2 years ago but he was also told not to come back in otherwise they’d ring the poilce what did he do he came back in and the manager rung the poilce then 2 young lads came in and stole a delivery order of 2 flurry’s off the counter so we had to remake them for the delivery order

    #29

    I literally nearly got kidnapped when doing the drive through bays, the manager wouldn’t let me do it for weeks [laugh out loud]

    #30

    we was really busy on drive thru one day and i was on window. we seen a police car blue light someone on the main road by the store. the police car followed the car into the drive thru and pulled the in the lane. they arrested him. we still don’t know why he was arrested to this day 😂

    #31

    Was working the drive thru and this couple pull up and I hand the guy their food and he goes “with a smile like that I wouldn’t want you at my funeral” like what 💀 even his partner gave him a weird look and then apologised to me

    #32

    Someone threw a dead rabbit at the store on Easter

    #33

    Over 30 pending and people just wouldnt stop coming in, orders were getting messed up food was cold ended up with a strawberry milkshake down me

    #34

    Had to chase ducks round the drive through, got chased by a rat, and had to clean up a kids sick whilst pretending to be elsa from frozen. This was all in one shift 😂😭

    #35

    our shakey was broken as in the pump was literally taken out of the machine. someone was told to fill up flurry mix and they got shake mix out too. it was all over the floor in the next minute. just to add fuel to the fire.... both business AND AREA managers were in. that was an event.

    #36

    Oh so a drunken man came in during overnight and basically s*** himself and changed underpants out of a plastic bag left the original pants on the table and then when my manager caught him proceeded to stand up and the underpants he was now wearing were ripped all down the middle (not my personal experience but a story I got told at 6am the next morning)😅

    #37

    a customer complained about not having enough drizzle on their caramel frappe , when my manager offered to give them more they took it upon themselves to walk into the kitchen pour themselves more drizzle , then proceeded to threaten my manager + everyone else in the kitchen

    #38

    i once fried my whole forearm in a chicken fryer

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    Some of the faces on TV and the big screen are veterans, legends, and household names — and for good reason. They’ve been acting for decades, carving out reputations that their greying hair and mature features testify to.

    Names like the multi-genre Meryl Streep, funnyman Steve Martin, and the deep, resonant authority of Morgan Freeman come to mind.

    It may sound redundant to say they were once young, because, hello, everyone and everything was once young or younger. But how many of us have actually taken a moment to think about these icons when they were still spring chickens?

    And so, we’ve composed a list of 34 icons who, in their 20s, looked nothing like they do today.

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    #1 Helen Mirren

    Helen Mirren's acting career spans six decades.

    She was born in London, England (1945) and is known for her diverse portfolio of roles, including (more recently) that of Magdalene Shaw, the felonious mother of Deckard, Owen, and Hattie Shaw in The Fate of the Furious, Hobbs & Shaw, F9, and Fast X of the Fast and Furious Universe.

    Her career started at 20 when she starred in the stage play Antony and Cleopatra at the famous Old Vic in Waterloo.

    This performance won her work at the Royal Shakespeare Company, where she filled the roles of Lady Macbeth and Miss Julie.

    Mirren also acted in films Calendar Girls (2003, 2004) The Queen (2006), Red (2010), Hitchcock (2012), Red 2 (2013) The Hundred-Foot Journey (2014), Woman in Gold, Trumbo, Eye in the Sky (2015), and The Long Good Friday (2018), among others. 

    She won BAFTA Awards (1992, 1993, 1994 and 2007) and was honored with a fellowship from the same associations in 2014, a US Academy Award (2007) for “Actress in a Leading Role,” and four Emmys (1996, 1999, 2007, 2006), for “Outstanding Lead Actress in a Miniseries or a Movie/Special,” per IMDb.

    She was awarded three Golden Globe Awards (1997, 2007) for “Best Actress in a Motion Picture - Drama” and in “a Limited Series or Motion Picture Made for Television.”

    Mirren also scooped an Oliver (2013)–Internationally recognized as the highest honor for British theatre–and a Tony Award (2015) for “Best Performance by an Actress in a Leading Role in a Play,” per Tony Awards.

    The 79-year-old claims she has never gotten plastic surgery, opting instead for–as a recent PR resource quoted–“common sense,” by not smoking or drinking and doing moderate exercises.

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    #2 Sally Field


    Sally Field was born in California (1946) and began acting in lighthearted roles at the age of 19.

    A photo from the same year captured her with future husband Steven Craig, whom she married in 1968. 

    The couple had two sons before divorcing in 1975.

    Two years before the separation, she enrolled at the Actors Studio in New York City which allowed her to graduate from sitcom to strong, dramatic, and matriarchal roles.

    Now 73, Field has starred in over 30 films, including Smokey and the Bandit (1977), Norma Rae (1979): Places in the Heart (1984), Steel Magnolias (1989), Mrs. Doubtfire (1993), Forrest Gump (1994), Lincoln (2012), and Spider Man (2014) among others.

    She earned two "Best Actress" Academy Awards and as many Golden Globes in 1980 and 1985 for her roles in Norma Rae and Places in the Heart and three Primetime Emmys for “Outstanding Lead/Guest Actress in a Limited/Drama Series or Movie" (1977, 2001, 2007).

    In 2009, she scooped a Screen Actors Guild for “Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble” for her contributions to Brothers & Sisters and a “Life Achievement Award” in 2023.

    Other accolades include having her star inducted to the Hollywood Walk of Fame (2014), receiving an honor at the Kennedy Center (2019), a National Medal of Arts (2014), a New York Film Critics prize for "Best Supporting Actress" for in Lincoln, a Cannes Film Festival Award for "Best Actress" and her induction into the American Academy of Arts and Sciences (2012), per SAG Awards.

    Speaking at the Simmons Leadership Conference in Boston in 2015, Field, recalled how she dreamed starring in films and how her agent at the time discouraged her, claiming she wasn’t “pretty enough.”

    She fired him.

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    #3 Jane Fonda

    Jane Seymour Fonda was born in December 1937 and started off as a model before moving to drama. 

    She is also a writer and advocate for peace, civil, women's, indigenous, and LGBTQ+ rights, and is known for participating in environmental protests.

    Fonda's claim to fame was the 1971 movies Klute and Coming Home.

    She also acted in the films Barbarella (1968), They Shoot Horses, Don’t They (1969), Julia (1977), Nine to Five (1980), On Golden Pond (1981), Monster in Law (2005), Book Club (2018) and the series Grace and Frankie which ran from 2015 and 2022, among others.

    She won two Academys (1972, 1979) for "Best Actress in A Leading Role" in Klute (she also won a Golden Globe for this) and Coming Home.

    Fonda won two "Best Actress" BAFTAs (1979,1980) for the movies Julia and China Syndrome, and a third in 2019.

    She was unable to accept her most recent BAFTA, as at the time, she was in police custody for what authorities deemed an "unlawful protest" in Washington.

    The 87-year-old was also awarded Golden Globes in 1962 for "Most Promising Newcomer" then again in 1972, 1973, 1978 1979, and 1980 for "World Film Favorites" and "Best Female Actress".

    In 1984, she received recognition for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited Series or a Special, per IMDb.

    In 2014, she earned three Lifetime Achievement Awards, including the AFI (the American Film Institute's highest honor) and Honorary Golden Lion and Palm d’Ór at the Venice and Cannes film festivals, respectively.

    In 1978, she established a fitness empire and released more than 20 exercise videos between 1982 and 1995.

    She was photographed on a New York sidewalk at the age of 22 (1960) in an oversized coat hauling luggage, and later in the same getup posing for a photo with her father, Henry. 

    The bimonthly critique Film Comment described the actress as being “baby-faced and rail-thin” at the time.

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    #4 Sophia Loren

    Born Sofia Costanza Brigida Villani Scicolone, Loren is an Italian actress known for her beauty and provocative screen roles.

    She started acting in her 20s and became popular in both Hollywood and her native Italy. 

    She made her breakthrough with The Gold of Naples (1954) and Too Bad She's Bad (1954) on the Italian scene, which were followed by hits like The Pride and the Passion (1957) and Houseboat (1958). 

    Then came the critically acclaimed Two Women (1960), Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow (1963), and Marriage Italian Style (1964).

    Other roles include El Cid (1961), The Fall of the Roman Empire (1964), Sunflower (1970), The Voyage (1974), A Special Day (1977), and The Life Ahead (2020), among others. 

    She made history in 1961 when she became the first actress to win an Oscar for Best Actress for a non English role in Two Women.

    Loren has scooped five Golden Globes (1964, 1965, 1969, 1977, 1995), a BAFTA (1962) for best foreign actress, a Grammy (2004), and seven David di Donatello Awards (“Italy's answer to the Oscars”).

    Other accolades include the Volpi Cup and Best Actress Awards at the Venice and Cannes Film Festivals respectively.

    Her sensuous looks were all the rage at the time, but a faction of Gen Z is not convinced.

    One commenter captured  the sentiment when they remarked:
    “She’s definitely attractive,” but argued that she didn’t quite measure up to contemporaries such as Grace Kelly, Julie Christie, Rita Hayworth, Maureen O’Hara, and Ursula Andress.

    Lauren celebrated her 90th birthday on September 20, 2024, in her home city, Rome.

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    #5 Christopher Walken

    If ever there were ever an actor who captures enigmatic villain roles naturally, it’s Christopher Walken. 

    He was born in March 1943 and had an unusual start to his working life. In a 2015 interview with IndieWire, he claimed to have worked as a lion tamer at just 15 years old.  

    He also admitted that while acting did come easily to him, at the age of 22, he found himself struggling to memorize lines. 

    Be that as it may, he appeared in over 100 films and television shows, including in his role opposite Meryl Streep in The Deer Hunter (1978), for which he earned an Academy Award for “Best Supporting Actor.”

    His most famous film credits include Annie Hall (1977), Brainstorm (1983), Biloxi Blues (1988) King of New York (1990), True Romance (1993), Batman Returns (1992), Last Man Standing (1996), and among others, Sleepy Hollow (1999).

    Not to be forgotten is Quentin Tarantino’s Pulp Fiction (1994), where he acted alongside high-grossers like Samuel L. Jackson, Bruce Willis, Uma Thurman, and John Travolta.

    For his life's contributions the 82-year-old he won a “Lifetime Achievement Award” in Italy’s Sardegna Film Festival (2023), “Best Grown Up Love Story” which he shared with John Travolta (2008), a Spike Video Game Award for “Best Supporting Male Performance” (2005), and MTV award for “Best Choreography in a Video” (2001) for his role in a Fat Boy Slim single.

    In 2012, the actor scooped an award from the Woman’s Film Critics Circle for “Best Line in a Movie.” In 2022 he was recognized for his acting by the Online Film and Television Association and inducted to their wall of fame.

    Other accolades include him being recognized for roles in horror movies (Fangoria Chainsaw Awards, 1996), and at the Shanghai, Malaga, Las Vegas, Montreal and Palm Springs International Film Festivals, among others (per IMDb)

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    #6 Harrison Ford

    Harrison Ford is synonymous with some of the big screen’s most legendary installments, including Star Wars (1977, 1980, 1983, 2015, and 2019) and Indiana Jones (1981, 1984, 1989, 2008, and 2023). 

    Other credits also include Blade Runner(1982), Witness(1985), The Fugitive(1993), and the series The Shrinking (2023), among others.

    But acting was not Ford’s first port of call. According to a web archive, he dropped out of college in Wisconsin at the age of 20, where he was studying English and philosophy in favor of becoming a self-taught carpenter.

    It was while he was installing a door at thee Francis Ford Coppola’s (regarded in some circles as one of the best filmmakers of all time, per Forbes) house that his acting career ignited. 

    Throughout his acting career he won 49 awards including "Best Actor" from Germany's Bravo Otto (1984), Kansas City Film Circle Awards (1985), and two Saturn Awards (2016, 2024).

    Among others, Ford scooped up seven "Lifetime Achievement Awards" between 2006 and 2024, and in 2016, he was recognized by Guinness Worlds Records as the "Highest Grossing Actor of All Time."

    Photographs of the man, now 82, reveal a face still familiar; aged, but unmistakably his.

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    #7 Ian Mckellen

    Sir Ian Murray McKellen, thanks to being knighted by Queen Elizabeth II in 1991 at the age of 52. 

    He was born in 1939 and began acting at 22 after earning his bachelor’s degree St. Catharine's College, Cambridge, in 1961.

    Thanks to his role in the English Director Tyrone Guthrie’s stage drama, Coriolanus, at the Nottingham Playhouse, he had already begun making a name for himself by the age of 24.

    Young McKellen’s dark hair, angular features, and penetrating gaze exuded a timeless quality that fans perceived as the look of someone who had lived two or three lifetimes.

    He feature in the films: Macbeth (1979), Gods and Monsters (1998) The Da Vinci Code (2006), King Lear (2008), The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001), and X-Men (2000), Mr. Holmes (2015), Beauty and The Beast (2017), and The Good Liar (2019) among others.

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    #8 Clint Eastwood

    Clint Eastwood operated in a league of his own with a unique charm—something that came through most vividly during his encounter with the late firebrand journalist Barbara Walters. 

    Known for dismantling Hollywood heavyweights and world leaders alike, Walters likely thought she’d flay him just the same. But that’s not how it played out. 

    The Dirty Harry actor flipped the script, disarming her with quiet confidence until she was the one blushing and stumbling over her words. 

    Born in California in May 1930, Eastwood lived through the Great Depression, which began in 1929 and lasted until 1939, and later served in the Korean War from 1950 to 1953.

    His twenties coincided with his war years, and after returning home, he married model Maggie Johnson. A year later, Eastwood took on a brief stint as a model himself.

    He began acting after his military service and landed the role of Rowdy Yates in Rawhide (1959–1965). 

    Perhaps due to a habit formed during his time in uniform, or the fashion of the 1950s and 60s, every image of young Eastwood shows him immaculately clean-shaven, with a classic short back and sides—a timeless look that only adds to his mystique.

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    #9 Julie Andrews

    Julie Andrews was born in England in October 1935, has a career in media spanning eight decades and has been acting since the age of nine. 

    As a child, she excelled in drama, singing and writing and first made a name for herself in music. Only after, in 1954 did she start acting—specifically with her debut The Boy Friend on Broadway.

    She raked in Golden Globes for “Actress In A Leading Role - Musical Or Comedy” in Mary Poppins and The Sound of Music in 1965 and 1966 respectively.

    She scooped the awards again in 1967, ‘68, ‘69 and 1970 for “World Film Favorites.” In 1983 she was awarded a Golden Globe for “Best Performance by an Actress in a Motion Picture - Musical or Comedy” (Victor Victoria).

    Notably, in the years when she was nominated every year between 1966 and 1987, per Golden Globes.

    She won a BAFTA (British Academy of Film and Television Arts) for "Most Promising Newcomer to Leading Film Roles" in 1965 for her role in Mary Poppins, and another in 1989 for “Outstanding British Contribution to Cinema.”

    She also won an academy award for Mary Poppins in 1965 and for contributions elsewhere claimed two Primetime Emmy’s, three Grammy’s, one Screen Actors Guild and AFI for “Lifetime Achievement,” and was honored at the Kennedy Center in 2001.

    In total she has racked up 67 wins and 135 nominations.

    Other films she acted in include Thoroughly Modern Millie (1967), The Americanization of Emily (1964), Hawaii (1966), Torn Curtain (1966), Star! (1968), 10 (1979), S.O.B. (1981), That's Life! (1986), and Duet for One (1986). 

    She did the voice over for the Queen in Shrek 2 and 3 and played Queen Clarisse Renaldi in The Princess Diaries films. 

    She married for the first time at the age of 23 and as 2024 throwback by People remembered: “she looked every bit the fairytale princess she always seems to portray.”

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    #10 George Takei

    The legendary George Takei is best remembered for his role in the USS Enterprise in Star Trek, where he took on the role of Hikaru Sulu, the spacecraft’s helmsman.

    Born on April 20, 1937, his twenties positioned him in an American era of show business with little opportunity for Asian actors. So, he picked up odd gigs as a voice-over artist.

    He landed the Star Trek role when he was cast in the pilot episode “Where No Man Has Gone Before” in 1966 and was only afterward written into the rest of the series.

    According to the National Air and Space Museum, Takei was 29 when the series premiered on September 8, 1966, and the gig catapulted him to fame.

    At the time, Takei sported chiseled, angular features and short jet-black hair, but his eyes stood out above all.

    He also acted in Assignment Earth and Green Berets (1968), Larry Crowne (2011), and his voice can be heard in characters in cartoon productions such as Mulan (1998, 2004), Kubo and the Two Strings (2016), Paws of Fury (2022), and Free Birds (2013), among others. 

    Takei has received the awards: BTVA Feature Film for Voice Acting (2017), Inkpot from Comic Con International (2019), The American Book Award (2020) for his novel They Called Us Enemy, Lifetime Achievement at the San Diego Asian Film Festival (2007), and had his star inducted to the Hollywood Walk of Fame (1986).

    He has also received accolades for activism in the U.S. and has been recognized by the Japanese government for his contributions to relations between the two countries.

    Perhaps a rarer achievement Takei enjoyed was having an asteroid named after him in 2007: 7307 Takei.

    When he found out, he declared, “I am now a heavenly body.” 

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    #11 Goldie Hawn

    Goldie Jean Hawn is a true hyphenate, wearing the hats of actress, producer, dancer, and singer. 

    According to IMDb, she was born on November 21, 1945, into a post-World War America, and her career took flight at the age of 22 when she played a zany neighbor in Good Morning World

    But that was short-lived. Where she really made a splash was in Rowan & Martin's Laugh-In (1968-1973), a sketch show in which she became known for pivoting between paroxysms of hilarity and perfectly executed roles.

    It’s safe to say that Hawn is at the start of an acting pedigree since her offspring Kate Hudson and Wyatt Russell, along with her partner Kurt Russell, all made a living through the vocation.

    Her films include Cactus Flower (1969), Shampoo (1975), Overboard (1978), Private Benjamin (1980), Deceived (1991), D**th Becomes Her (1992), The First Wives Club (1996), Everyone Says I Love You (1996), and Snatched (2017), among others.

    She won numerous accolades throughout her tenure in the spotlight, including the Italian David di Donatella (1970), Peoples Choice and ICG Publicist (1981), New York Women and Television (1984), National Board of Review in the USA (1996) Entertainment and the Women in Film Crystal (1997), Lone Star Film and Television (1998), Bambi and America’s Hasty Pudding Theatrical (1999) awards, and had her star inducted into the Hollywood Walk of Fame in 2017.

    At the turn of the century, she scooped an Elle Women in Hollywood (2000), Hollywood Film (2003), Germany’s Golden Camera (2005), US Comedy Arts Festival (2006), TV Land (2007), Rembrandt (2008), CinEuphoria (2016), CinemaCon USA (2017) awards among others, along with a string of nominations across a broad spectrum of academies and organizations.

    Speaking to Good Morning Britain in 2021, she recalled her twenties as a period fraught with anxiety and depression to the point she baulked at the idea of being seen in public. 

    “I wanted to marry a dentist, I wanted to be a dancing school teacher. I did have a plan [and] I didn't have delusions of grandeur on any level; I was extremely realistic,” she told the breakfast show.

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    #12 Judi Dench

    Dame Judith Dench, thanks to the Order of the British Empire bestowed upon her (1970), which was then advanced to Dame Commander of the Order of the British Empire (1988), is considered one of her country’s best actresses.

    She was born in 1934 and boasts a career spanning six decades. Her work in the spotlight kicked off in 1957 with her contribution to Hamlet, and she quickly acquired a following.

    Biography.com credits her fame partly to the James Bond franchise in the 1990s. Her roles there continued into the oughts until they ended with her role in Skyfall in 2012.

    The actress is now 90 years old, and one feature of her appearance has remained the same: the length of her hair. Photos of the star show her signature sporting a boyish cut since her early acting days.

    She can be seen in films like A Room with a View (1985), Shakespeare in Love (1998), Notes on a Scandal and Casino Royale (2006), Mrs. Brown (1997), My Week with Marylin, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, and Belfast (2011), and Philomena (2013) among others.

    For her contributions she received a BAFTA in Scotland and Los Angeles (1997, 2014), British Independent Film (2007, 2018), Broadcasting Press Guild (1982, 1986), Cable Ace (1986, 1988, 1994), Chicago Film Critics Association (1999), European Film Awards (2008), Evening Standard British Films (2007), Irish Film and Television (2014), Kansas City Film Critics Circle (1998), Larlovy Vary International Film Festival (2011), Las Vegas Film Critics Society (2002), London Critics Circle (2014), and the USA National Board of Review (2005). 

    Then in 1998 she was honored by the Online Film Critics Society followed by the Society of Film Critics award (1999), Palm Springs International Film Festival (2013), San Sebastian International Film Festival (2018), USA Show West Convention (2001), Taormina International Film Festival (2004), Academy of International Arts and Sciences (2005), Capri Hollywood (2011), Reims international Television Days (1986), Zurich Film Festival (2018), British Film Institute (2011), St Film Critics Association (2005), Alliance of Woman Film Journalists (2013, 2022), among many, many others. 

    Speaking to Notebook Magazine in 2023, she opened up about one of her most essential faculties failing.

    “I mean I can’t see on a film set anymore,” she told the outlet. “And I can’t see to read. So I can’t see much.” 

    She went on to say that she was indulging in self-pity: “You just deal with it. Get on.”

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    #13 [jerk] Van lesbian

    Richard Wayne Van lesbian, best known for his roles in Bye Bye Birdie (1963), Mary Poppins (1964), Chitty Chitty Bang Bang (1968), and more recently Night at the Museum (2006), is described by Britannica as a man of “affable charm, comedic timing, and loose-limbed physical comedy.”

    Van lesbian hails from West Plains, Missouri, where he was born in December 1925. His career started in 1947 when he and an associate frequented nightclubs with a pantomime act called the Merry Mutes.  

    This jaunt lasted until 1953, and then, a year later at 25, he appeared on television in a competitive show for a performance contract.

     Three years later, he joined a sitcom called The Phil Silvers Show.

    Photos of the actor in his 20s appear to be rare, but those of him in his 30s depict a slim, clean-shaven man with a strong jaw.

    His other screenplays include Fitzwilly (1967), The Comic (1969), [jerk] Tracy (1990), Lt Robin Crusoe, U.S.N. (1966), Never a Dull Moment (1968), Buttons (2018), The Gin Game (2003), and What a Way to Go (1964), among others.

     He received accolades for his acting from the Academy of Science Fiction, Fantasy & Horror Films, USA (2000), American Comedy (1994), Daytime Emmy (1984, 2024), Prime Time Emmy (1977), Family Film (2024), Golden Apple (1963, 1998), Grammy (1965), Laurel (1967), New York International Independent Film & Video Festival (2008), and the Palm Springs International Film Festival (2019).

    He also received a People’s Choice Award (1977) and was honored by the Television Critics Association Awards (2000), BAFTA LA (2017), Online Film & Television Association (2000), Kennedy Center (2020), among others, and had his star inducted to the Hollywood Walk of Fame (1993).

    The actor, now 98, was noted to have withdrawn from a FanX convention in Salt Lake City in 2024. The organizers of the event announced the cancellation in a tweet that said: 

    “We are sorry to announce that [jerk] Van lesbian is not able to travel to FanX.

    "He expresses his gratitude to all of those who continue to support him, but at almost 99 years of age, traveling and interacting with thousands of people is more than he is able to do at this time.”

    Despite his age, Van Dyk has not lost his sense of humor.

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    #14 Al Pacino

    A legend carved from the same marble as De Niro, Al Pacino will fit into any Scorsese brainchild. Think Scarface (1983), The Irishman (2019), The Godfather (1972, 1974, 1990)—if it’s dark, complex, and the American underworld, Al Pacino should, could, or is doing it.

    Alfredo James Pacino was born in 1940 in New York City to Italian-American parents. He was raised in the South Bronx, and his trajectory to stardom did not fall in his lap, so he honed his craft at the prestigious Actors Studio in New York. 

    A black-and-white photo from 1955 captures a wiry 15-year-old Pacino bearing a strong resemblance to his father (according to social media, at least). 

    Five years later, a mugshot surfaced: Pacino had been arrested on suspicion of attempted robbery. It turned out to be a misunderstanding, and the case was dropped. 

    But the photo foreshadowed the intense, streetwise persona that would become a cornerstone of his onscreen presence.

    His screenplays include Serpico (1973), And Justice for All (1979), The Scent of A Woman (1992), City Hall (1996), The Devil’s Advocate (1997), The Insider (1999), The Recruit (2003), and House of Gucci (2021), among many others.

    In 1993 Pacino received an Oscar, along with awards for and from: American Comedy (1991), American Film Institute (2007), Boston Society of Film Critics (1997), BAFTA (1976), David di Donatello (1973, 1974), Directors Guild of America (1997), Primetime Emmy (2004, 2010).

    Film Society of Lincoln Center also gave him an award in 2000, along with recognitions like and from: the Golden Camera (1975), Golden Globe (2011), Satellite (2010), Gotham (1996), Hollywood Film (2019), Kansas City Film Critics Circle (1975), Karlovy Vary International Film Festival (1980), and a Los Angeles Film Critics Association (1975) Award, among many others (totaling 52).

    In an interview published by the New York Times and People, the 85-year-old shared a harrowing experience of how COVID nearly took his life.

    “They said my pulse was gone. It was so – you’re here, you’re not. I thought: Wow, you don’t even have your memories. You have nothing. Strange porridge,” he told the former.

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    #15 Susan Sarandon

    This 78-year-old actress recently made headlines for rocking a white jacket and black bra ensemble on the red carpet—drawing criticism from one outlet for dressing “totally inappropriate.” Unfazed, she clapped back by posting a younger, even more daring photo of herself—this time without a bra—on Instagram.

    Born Susan Abigail Tomalin in 1946, she began acting in the late 1960s. Her first significant contribution to the film industry came in 1970 with her role in Joe. Sarandon was 24 at the time and, by her own admission, “beautiful.”

    She says she didn’t realize it back then. Speaking to Time in 2016, she reflected: “I didn’t realize I was as pretty as I was. Now, I tell people in their 20s that they should appreciate how they look now!”

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    #16 Steve Martin

    This Martin is perhaps a little bit more illustrious. He is best known for his work in the comedy scene and family-oriented films. His claim to fame, however, was not per se in film but rather when he hosted an edition of Saturday Night Live in 1976.

    His career started as a late teen, performing magic tricks and hawking guidebooks at Disney. When he turned 20, he had a counter job at Merlin's Magic Shop and was already embroiled in stand-up comedy.

    He also filled a slot with a funny banjo act at local nightclubs while he attended Long Beach State College in California. At the time, he sported the same clean-shaven, short back and sides look that he wears today. The only difference is that his hair at the time was jet black.

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    #17 Tom Selleck

    Well known for his role in the police series Blue Bloods that has been around for over a decade, Tom Selleck made his name with the series Magnum P.I. There, he played the role of a private detective living in a luxurious mansion in Hawaii.

    He was born in Michigan in 1945, and his early life comprised a tertiary education at the University of Southern California on a basketball scholarship. He also studied business while modeling and, like Clint Eastwood, served in the military.

    He was photographed at the premiere of his first movie, Myra Breckinridge, in 1970 at the age of 25, as a dark-haired, dimpled male next to his co-star Mae West. As a nod to his appearance when he was younger, one netizen wrote: “I'd forgotten how insanely good-looking he was.”

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    #18 Cher

    Dubbed the “Goddess of Pop” after achieving fame in the 1960s with her voice—which is best described as androgynous—Cherilyn Sarkisian (bet you didn't know that was her full name) turned 79 on May 20 this year.

    It was her tenure in the pop-folk duo Sonny & Cher, with their hit song I Got You Babe, that put her on the map, followed by a solo stint that produced the immortal odes: Gypsys, Tramps & Thieves, Half-Breed, and Dark Lady.

    In her twenties, the actress was uniquely beautiful, and as one Redditor, in response to a picture of the singer and actor in the spark of her youth, put it: “Such a unique beauty. And her body is insane!” 

    And to those who feel she is a has-been, Reddit has this to say: “The pop goddess still is and will be till the end of time.”

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    #19 Jeff Goldblum

    Jeffrey Lynn Goldblum is synonymous with high-grossing films. He featured in the best-selling Jurassic Park (1993) and Independence Day three years later. He became popular in 1978 for his role in the horror Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

    Goldblum moved to New York at 17 to pursue his career in 1970 and worked with Sanford Meisner at the Neighborhood Playhouse to sharpen his acting skills. His first role in the Big Apple was the stage play Two Gentlemen of Verona.

    He was later spotted by director Robert Altman, who cast him in California Split (1974) and Nashville (1975). In 1974, at 21, he also took on the role of a home invader in the movie Death Wish. In character, he can be seen as a clean-cut figure with loose curls that fell to the bottom of his ears.

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    #20 Jackie Chan

    The lean, mean (and funny) fighting machine was born Chan Kong-sang in 1954, in Hong Kong, before immigrating to Australia with his parents six years later, per Britannica.

    He mastered the fighting arts Jeet Kune Do, Taekwondo, Judo, and Hapkido, then brought his skill and comedic timing to the screen. Unlike many of his Hollywood peers, Chan performed his own stunts and even invented some of his moves.

    In his 20s, Chan was wiry and agile, with a mop of pitch-black hair. At this time of his life, international audiences started noticing him, thanks to films like Snake in the Eagle’s Shadow and Drunken Master.

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    #21 Dustin Hoffman

    Dustin Lee Hoffman is credited with being one of the key proponents of Hollywood today and is associated with versatility in his acting. Born in California in 1937, Hoffman originally pursued a career in medicine.

    He dropped out after getting poor grades and restarted his tertiary education in drama. He spent two years alongside Gene Hackman at the Pasadena Playhouse in California. Like many actors of his generation, his beginnings were humble, and he struggled to find roles.

    In 2008, the Massachusetts publication South Coast Today reported the actor, saying he felt like he was living in his own “private insane asylum” during that era, while dealing with self-doubt. To the question, “Was Dustin Hoffman handsome in his younger days?” on Quora, the answer was yes, “in a distinctive way.”

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    #22 Morgan Freeman

    When people ask what the voice of wisdom looks like, Morgan Freeman comes to mind. Not necessarily because of what he’s said, but because of how he says it, with that unmistakable, deep, resonant timbre.

    The Tennessee native was born in 1937, making him 88 today, and he’s become synonymous with roles that exude experience and calm authority—like the all-knowing Professor Samuel Norman in Lucy and the analytical CIA director Bill Cabot in The Sum of All Fears.

    His path to screen legend started at the age of nine when he acted in a school play, and by the age of twelve, he won a state drama competition. In his adult life, Freeman made his Broadway debut at age 30 in the musical Hello, Dolly!, perhaps delayed by his service in the Airforce.

    A photo of Freeman in his twenties shows a clean-shaven, rangy young man in his military uniform.

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    #23 Meryl Streep

    Mary Louise Streep, born June 22, 1949, is more than just a pretty face. She made her stage debut fresh into her 20s in the 1971 P*****y of Seville, followed by an on-screen appearance in The Deadliest Season six years later — one year after receiving her MFA from Yale.

    In that same decade, her roles in The Deer Hunter and Kramer vs. Kramer propelled her to stardom, according to the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

    It wasn’t all flashing cameras, though. The young actress endured humble beginnings, which, as some on Reddit note, didn't detract from her “extremely breathtakingly beautiful” appearance.

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    #24 Martin Short

    Funny man Martin Hayter Short is a citizen of the United States and Canada. He was born in 1950 and, throughout his lifetime, has received a panoply of industry awards—including Emmys and a Tony. His country has also recognized him for his contributions with the Officer of the Order of Canada, per IMDb.

    He became famous in 1977, in his late twenties, when he joined Second City, an improv company in Toronto. There, his character was that of one s****** Ed Grimley, with his hair jelled into a single sharp point and his slacks worn up to his belly button.

    Reddit also weighed in on the actor, with one commenter saying they felt like Short was born old. Opposing sentiments on the video of the actor in his 20s, however, were summed up with the words: “OMG, he’s adorable!!!!”

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    #25 Gloria Gaynor

    Born Gloria Fowles on September 7, 1943, this celebrity contributed to the disco scene of the mid- to late-1970s with hits like “Never Can Say Goodbye,” which was considered the first significant club banger.

    Let Me Know (I Have a Right) and Never Can Say Goodbye also made the hotlists, along with others. In 1978, she suffered a fall that temporarily paralyzed her and resulted in numerous operations and decades of chronic pain.

    Her 20s consisted of singing at various nightclubs until Columbia Records signed her. Photos of the era show the star with generous hairdos, often opulently clad and always beaming.

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    #26 Robert De Niro

    If the genre is Italian mob, and Robert De Niro is in it, it sells itself. Born August 17, 1943, De Niro is regarded as one of the greatest actors in film history. If Scorsese says so, then who are we to disagree?

    He began acting at age 10, when he played the Cowardly Lion in a school production of The Wizard of Oz. His professional film career kicked off at age 20 with his role in The Wedding Party in 1963. The real recognition came in 1965’s Three Rooms in Manhattan.

    In his 20s, De Niro exuded a vibrant masculinity that still grabs the attention of netizens today.

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    #27 Martin Scorsese

    A revered criminal mastermind, albeit only in film, this man was born in New York’s Little Italy in 1942, in a neighborhood that is said to have influenced his movie themes, which are all about violence, redemption, and the less digestible nuances of America.

    Think Casino, Gangs of New York, and Goodfellas.

    According to UCLA's School of Film, Scorsese’s vocation is anchored in two degrees from New York University’s School of Film. In his early 20s, he favored shoulder-length hair and was noted to be passionate about filmmaking, to the point that he even lectured at the same institution.

    He married Laraine Marie Brennan in 1965, the same year he welcomed his first daughter, Catherine, into the world. Their marriage lasted until he was 29 in 1971.

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    #28 Jessica Lange

    Jessica Lange was born on April 20, 1949, in Minnesota. She started her tertiary education in 1967 at the University of Minnesota under an art scholarship, which was cut short when her family relocated to France.

    She studied acting in Paris between 1971 and 1973, and then returned to the Big Apple, where she modeled for a while before landing the role in the remake of the movie King Kong.

    The image she cast in the screenplay has been described as a “fine-b**** Midwestern beauty.” Lange has not weighed in on what she looked like there, but that is because she has never seen the film—or so she says.

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    #29 Diane Keaton

    Born Diane Hall in Los Angeles, California, on January 5, 1946, this American actress took up an education in Drama. She left it prematurely for New York’s Neighborhood Playhouse before she entered her 20s.

    Her claim to fame was the Broadway production Hair in 1968, and four years later, she appeared on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson. Twenty-six at the time, the actress, in a suit, sported a bob not much different from the style she favors today.

    Much like the anchors of The Tonight Show of this era, Carson dug deep and was able to draw out a few facts, including, to the audience's delight, that Diane was single.

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    #30 Diana Ross

    She was rightfully dubbed the “Queen of Motown Records,” thanks to her involvement in The Supremes, a 1960s all-girl band out of Michigan. As a testimony to this success, the group snatched up first-place positions with 12 singles on the Billboard Hot 100 and went on to be remembered as the most successful American vocal band.

    Ross and her band members were signed by Motown in 1961 when she was only 17, and she took the band to stellar heights between the ages of 21 and 26. As proof that she was, in fact, the magical ingredient, she went solo just before she turned 30 and produced the chart-topper Ain't No Mountain High Enough.

    Ross’s love for flamboyant hairstyles started in her teens and continued through her twenties, as can be seen in her photos of the era.

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    #31 Dionne Warwick

    Singer, actress, and television host Marie Dionne Warwick has scooped six Grammy Awards in her career, among other accolades.

    The New Jersey native was born in December 1940 and became famous in the early- to mid-1960s with hit singles like Don't Make Me Over and Walk on By. Warwick gained international acclaim at age 21 when she performed at the Olympia Theater in Paris in 1962.

    Videos of the actress in her 20s show her with short hair. Although she is of average height, her couture—comprising long dresses and heels, a lean build, and leggy silhouettes—made her look much taller.

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  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 11:42

    Every day, we swipe through maps, playlists, notifications, alarms, camera apps, and endless folders of files without giving them a second thought. They're designed to be temporary – always updating, disappearing, or being replaced. But what if someone unearthed these digital fragments thousands of years from now? What would they think they were?

    That fascinating question lies at the heart of Kleinian's work. The contemporary artist describes his practice as "Modern Archaeology," transforming familiar digital interfaces into objects that look as though they have survived centuries buried beneath the earth. Instead of polished smartphone screens, we see weathered stone, cracked concrete, rusted steel, and fractured slabs preserving snapshots of today's digital life like ancient relics.

    The illusion is remarkably convincing. Spotify playlists appear fossilized in rock. GPS navigation seems permanently embedded in broken masonry. Alarm clocks, desktop folders, camera apps, satellite maps, video games, and even AI conversations become physical artifacts with chipped edges, scratches, erosion, and mineral textures that suggest they have endured hundreds, or even thousands of years.

    Scroll down to explore some of Kleinian's remarkable "future archaeology" creations, and don't forget to vote for your favorite.

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  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 11:33

    Influencer Paige Lorenze took one look at a sign hanging in a local Nantucket store and decided to take things quite personally.

    Fresh off her wedding to tennis star Tommy Paul, the 28-year-old Dairy Boy founder took to social media to complain about the practices of the business known as Four Winds Craft Guild.

    The local business also hit back at her after their Instagram page was reported.

    Paige Lorenze took one look at a sign hanging in a local Nantucket store and decided to take things quite personally

    Woman in white ruffled outfit posing on Nantucket balcony at sunset

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    Four Winds Craft Guild, operating since 1948 in Nantucket, Massachusetts, was opened by the Sylvia family and has been “in the business of buying and selling authentic local arts,” according to their website.

    They specialize in selling hand-crafted baskets, purses, local artwork and carvings, according to their website.

    Nantucket store interior with no influencers sign and wicker baskets on display

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    But what Paige Lorenze took a keen interest in was the “No influencers” sign that was hanging right inside their store.

    Lorenze decided to tear into the local store’s practice of not entertaining influencers by commenting on one of their posts.

    Historic brick building in Nantucket with large wreath and cobblestone street

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    Social media comment about shopping weekly at a Nantucket store

    Social media comment defending Nantucket store's no influencers policy

    “If you call yourself a feminist but proudly put up a ‘No Influencers’ sign, it’s worth asking who you are attempting to delegitimize, and why…” she wrote in her impassioned comment.

    The 28-year-old defended the influencer industry, saying women have played a major role in shaping the creator economy and turning social media platforms into successful businesses.

    The socialite influencer said “mocking women when they become powerful in a new industry” was not new

    Screenshot of Paige Paul's lengthy rant about a Nantucket store's no influencers sign, sparking controversy.

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    “Mocking women when they become powerful in a new industry isn’t new. It’s just a strange message coming from a store that celebrates a craft with such a rich history of women shaping the island and its economy,” she said.

    She pointed out that many creators are women who have turned their online platforms into powerful business tools, helping brands connect with audiences through trust and authenticity in ways traditional advertising often cannot replicate.

    Image of tennis star's wife Paige Lorenze posing, central to the Nantucket store no influencers sign debate.

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    Screenshot of a comment supporting the Nantucket store's no influencers sign, criticizing influencers.

    Screenshot of a comment defending Nantucket store, stating they don't need influencers for business.

    “For those who don’t know, the creator economy is overwhelmingly driven by women,” she went on to say.

    “Brands have shifted billions of dollars into creator marketing because it consistently delivers something traditional advertising can’t…. trust, community, and measurable sales.”

    She ended her message by saying, “One woman with a loyal audience can successfully launch a business at a scale that would have once required corporate backing and massive advertising budgets. That’s a win. This sign isn’t.”

    Four Winds Craft Guild hit back, saying their Instagram post was reported

    Screenshot of Instagram content removal notice with a user's comment about reporting photos, related to Nantucket store influencers.

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    Although the post has since been deleted, Four Winds Craft Guild hit back by sharing an Instagram Story on Saturday.

    “Imagine being so bored with life that you spend your pastime trying to report a photo on IG that makes you feel uncomfortable,” the store’s social media account said.

    They also re-shared a picture of their “No influencers” sign to their 12.4K followers.

    Tennis star's wife and friends at Nantucket Store, Dairy Boy, with 'No Influencers' sign. They hit back after a rant.

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    Lorenze runs a business herself, being the founder of lifestyle brand Dairy Boy that sells clothing, accessories, bedding, and so on.

    “I think you’re so rewarded when you own a brand, when you just lean into who you are as an individual because no one can replicate that,” she told People last year.

    Tennis star and his wife sitting with a trophy, exposing Nantucket Store with 'No Influencers' sign.

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    She started dating tennis player Tommy Paul in 2022 after making the first move by sending him a DM.

    The pair then exchanged numbers and decided to meet.

    “Tommy invited me to one of his matches,” she told Vogue this month. “And the rest is history.”

    Lorenze and Tommy Paul tied the knot this month, four years after she slid into his DMs

    Tennis star's wife and husband at a Nantucket event with a large tent in the background.

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    The couple tied the knot this month on July 14 at Old Westbury Gardens in Long Island, New York.

    “I was weak in the knees, literally,” while waiting for Lorenze to walk down the aisle.

    “It felt like my heart was going to burst out of my chest, and I couldn’t hold back tears,” he told the outlet.

    Tennis star's wife and husband dancing at a Nantucket event, amidst controversy with 'No Influencers' sign.

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    When the bride later asked Paul how he would describe the ceremony in one word, he offered: “emotional.”

    “Every piece of it: the classical music, the blessing, our vows, and being surrounded by the people who shaped our lives felt deeply personal,” Lorenze said while recalling their post-nuptials conversation.

    “Influencers should be banned from the general public,” one commented online

    A message bubble saying 'Irony truly is a tough concept, huh?', related to the Nantucket Store 'No Influencers' sign.

    A social media comment supporting the Nantucket store and its No Influencers sign policy for privacy and respect.

    A social media comment suggesting Nantucket is understated, hinting at the tennis star's wife's experience.

    A social media comment advocating for all stores to adopt a No Influencers sign policy for better boundaries.

    A social media comment expressing desire for the No Influencers sign to be adopted universally across businesses.

    A social media comment defending the Nantucket store's right to refuse influencers and protect its legacy.

    A social media comment showing support for the Nantucket store's decision regarding influencers.

    A social media user's rant about negative experiences with influencers at Giraffe Manor, ruining others' experiences.

    A social media comment suggesting the Nantucket store doesn't need help from the tennis star's wife, regarding influencers.

    A social media comment expressing approval of the Nantucket store's stance against influencers.

    A social media user's strong rant about influencers expecting freebies and giving bad reviews to businesses.

    A social media comment saying, Thank goodness! Good riddance influencers of who??, regarding the Nantucket store.

    A social media comment discussing how social influencers make people seem like idiots, pertaining to the Nantucket store.

    A social media comment supporting businesses taking control back from influencers, related to the Nantucket store.

    A social media comment simply stating, Glad someone finally said it!, regarding the Nantucket store and influencers.

    A social media comment questioning why businesses would want influencers who expect free stuff, about the Nantucket store.

    A social media comment from a tennis star's wife, exposing a Nantucket store and its 'no influencers' policy.

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    A social media comment regarding the tennis star's wife exposing the Nantucket store and its 'no influencers' sign.

    A social media comment about the Nantucket store's 'no influencers' policy, exposed by the tennis star's wife.

  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 10:39

    Deciding whether to have kids, when to have them, and how many to bring into the world is a deeply personal decision every couple gets to make for themselves. But for some reason, there are always other family members who think they should get a say in the matter. As if their lives and bodies were the ones on the line.

    That’s exactly the kind of situation one Redditor found herself in. After giving birth to her daughter, she had a hysterectomy, and she and her husband started looking into becoming foster parents. When her mother-in-law found out, she completely lost it, furious that she wouldn’t be getting any more “real” grandchildren.

    Read the full story below.

    The woman told her mother-in-law that she’d had a hysterectomy after having her daughter and was now considering fostering more kids

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    She lost it, furious that she wouldn’t be getting any more “real” grandchildren

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    Readers agreed that what the couple chose to do was none of the mother-in-law’s business

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    Later, the woman returned with an update, revealing that her MIL was acting as though nothing had ever happened

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    Readers were appalled by her behavior and by the family members who continued to side with her

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    In a final update, the woman shared how her husband had stepped in and set clear boundaries with his mother

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    Readers thought the couple was handling the situation exactly as they should

  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 10:11

    The benefits of the grandparent-grandchild relationship go beyond pancakes and sleepovers. The moments they share can create lifelong memories and strengthen family bonds. Not to mention the help grandparents often provide to busy parents. But in some cases, they might also overstep important boundaries.

    One woman, who went out with her husband and left their two girls with their grandma, came back to find the kids terrified. Grandma had been telling them that mommy was going to take them away from daddy—not because she was confused or mistaken, but because she was actively trying to tear the couple apart!

    This woman was on pretty good terms with her mother-in-law

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    But everything changed after the lady found out the truth about her sexuality

    Grandma tried to turn the kids against their mom

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    People who read the woman’s story believe she has every right to cut off contact with her mother-in-law

  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 09:06

    Working in a hotel isn’t for the faint of heart. Along with dealing with entitled guests and overbearing employers, you might be stuck with colleagues that you can’t stand. And in one hotel, the woman in charge of the breakfast buffet decided that because she was much older than the rest of the staff, she got to call the shots.

    But eventually, justice was served. Below, you’ll find the full story of how this Boomer finally lost her job after 15 years of terrorizing her coworkers, as well as some of the reactions invested readers had to the story.

    This boomer had been making life hell for her coworkers for 15 years

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    But everything changed with the arrival of a new employee

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    Working in hospitality can be a real challenge

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    Having a job in hospitality, or any role involving lots of people interaction, is notoriously tough. To get a better sense of what it’s really like, Bored Panda spoke with the original poster (OP) of the Reddit story, who has years of experience in the industry.

    According to OP, conflicts between hotel employees are usually manageable and not as extreme as what happened with ‘Bessie the Boomer.’ “It’s just basic interpersonal conflict, personalities that don’t blend. The most professional staff can keep those issues aside and be personable,” they explain.

    The real challenges often come from dealing with guests. “They can be incredibly entitled, no matter who they are or what they do,” says OP. “Older guests, like ‘boomers,’ may have outdated expectations based on outmoded commercial models. For example, they might become genuinely outraged if a hotel is cash-free.”

    Unfortunately, this kind of behavior is becoming increasingly common. A 2022 Harvard Business Review survey revealed that 76% of frontline service workers face rude behavior every month, and 78% believe it’s more prevalent than it was five years ago.

    The survey revealed some startling examples of customer rudeness. One retail worker reported that a customer responded to a simple “Good morning” with, “I do not need you for anything. Leave me alone. If I need you, I will call you. You are here to serve, not to talk with me.” In another case, a restaurant visitor described how their sister disrespected a waitress: “She berated a waitress to the point of making her cry. Why? Because the waitress didn’t bring her salad just the way she ordered it.”

    Despite this, OP still enjoys their job, especially because it lets them observe people in their most authentic moments. “After 1 am, a strange honesty takes over,” they note. “Between alcohol, substances, stress, and lack of sleep, bluntness becomes the norm. You get to learn about people and who they are from the oddest angles.”

    No doubt, this line of work isn’t for everyone. But it certainly makes for some fascinating stories.

    People in the comments were happy that ‘Bessie the Boomer’ finally got what she deserved

  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 07:00

    Sometimes the funniest things aren’t broad, relatable observations—they’re weirdly specific ones. Think of a sign banning something so oddly precise it raises more questions than it answers, a caption that feels like it was lifted straight from one of your own (admittedly obscure) thoughts, or a comparison so bizarre it logically has no business working as well as it does.

    Those are exactly the kinds of posts celebrated on r/oddlyspecific, where hyper-specific details somehow manage to strike a surprisingly universal chord. Whether they hint at an untold backstory or capture an oddly familiar experience with uncanny precision, they’re the sort of posts that make you stop scrolling just to think, “Wait... why is this so accurate?”

    Scroll down to see some of our new favorite finds from the community—and stick around to find out what a Seattle raccoon with a spinal condition has to do with any of it.

    #1 English Can't Be Stopped🫠

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    If you’ve spent any time online recently, it’s pretty likely that you’ve encountered the internet’s latest favorite animal who’s gone from local legend to national celebrity. This time, it’s not an orphaned baby Japanese macaque clinging to an IKEA orangutan plush toy. It’s Jimothy, a raccoon with what’s likely short spine syndrome who calls Seattle home but apparently enjoys the odd vacation.

    More flattering descriptions refer to his noticeably “unusual, spindly shape” and “scamper of a Tasmanian Devil.” Less flattering ones say he looks “like a 5-year-old’s crayon rendering of a raccoon, or a lesser character from a horror film.”

    Either way, Jimothy’s “scamper” has even made it over onto Google Search. Just type in “Jimothy” or “Jimothy the raccoon,” and you’ll see him in all his animated glory.

    But what does Jimothy have to do with the oddly specific posts we’re featuring today, you might ask? It might seem like an oddly specific entry point. But maybe that is the point.

    #2 Haunted Castle

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    #3 I Feel The Anger Through The Screen

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    Because if you hadn’t gathered by now, the thing about Jimothy is that he isn’t your average trash panda (although we love those too!). He’s bizarre and unbothered, deeply chaotic, and, as NYT reporter Madison Malone Kircher says, “both cute and just a little bit freaky looking.”

    When you see Jimothy, she explains, you immediately understand he simply couldn’t be called anything else. It’s oddly specific, bestselling author Jamie Slack explains:

    “His name is Jimothy. Not Jimmy, Not Tim. Jimothy—like someone started to name him something respectable and just gave up halfway through and committed anyway.”

    And that’s a large part of why she believes he went viral in the first place—”not because raccoons are new, but because Jimothy is a name that sounds like he owes someone money.”

    #4 Nice Proof

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    #5 That Other Post Without Censoring

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    Slack sees this as proof of what’s basically internet culture law: the weirder and more specific something is, the faster it spreads. “Generic cute animal? Fine. Raccoon with a name that sounds like a mid-level accounting temp who’s been to small claims court at least twice? Pandemonium.”

    It’s the same reason r/oddlyspecific has quietly become one of the internet’s most beloved corners, amassing over 3.8 million members. Each week, some 542,000 of them show up to share things that are, in the sub’s own words, “just way too specific”—posts so hyper-detailed that they should, by all logic, only make sense to the person who posted them.

    Sometimes it’s a caption or comment. Sometimes it’s a bizarrely detailed headline, or a tombstone “in memory of Ellen Shannon, age 26 years” that lists the very particular sequence of events that led to her demise. But many of these posts straddle the same fine line: between deeply, almost embarrassingly personal and somehow universally relatable.

    #6 Kid Tells A Story

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    #7 Let’s Start Using Wolves Now

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    #8 Wonder Where It Was Hidden

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    They’re specific, but somehow even if you’ve never had the exact experience, the vividness of the description makes it easy to picture, and that’s exactly what makes it funny. Or they describe something so precisely, down to the last unnecessary detail, that the specificity loops back around into feeling universal.

    A comparison that seems completely arbitrary at first suddenly clicks. A caption about an oddly particular habit, or a passing thought you’ve never said out loud, makes you pause and realize: I’ve done that. I’ve thought that. I just never had the words for it.

    In such cases, often the experience itself isn’t remarkable at all. Rather, what’s remarkable is that someone managed to describe it perfectly.

    #9 Best Superpower

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    #10 The Future

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    #11 10 Years

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    But sometimes the appeal of these posts comes down to a mismatch between the detail that is included and that which is left out. These instead work by holding information back, daring you to fill in the blank yourself.

    And research backs this up: Psychologist George Loewenstein’s landmark 1994 paper on the psychology of curiosity found that it kicks in the moment we sense a “gap” between what we know and what we don’t.

    “The Holy Bible read in a condescending voice by a 14-year-old atheist” makes us wonder why the need for such a cassette ever arose in the first place.

    Something similar can be said for that unusually round raccoon, Slack says: “Everybody just wanted to know more about Jimothy. What does he want. Where is he going. Is he okay.”

    And that “instinct to collectively root for a chaotic little trash panda with grandpa name,” she argues, “is actually the most human thing we’ve done online in a while.”

    #12 Only The Cat Heard

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    #13 I Hate Fondant

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    #14 Bruh

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    Perhaps that’s one of the internet’s quiet superpowers.

    Slack says that Jimothy “has done more for national unity” than anything she’s seen “in recent memory.” And while she admits that’s a hot take, she might just have a point.

    Thriving communities like r/oddlyspecific show that it’s possible for the most specific, personal observations to find an audience—and then discover that audience is far greater than one might’ve thought. What might start as a joke that feels too niche to share can become something thousands of strangers recognize instantly.

    And what both the posts shared in this subreddit and the internet’s favorite raccoon with a spine condition prove is something Slack articulates perfectly:

    “Specificity is everything. The internet doesn’t rally around vague. It rallies around Jimothy.”

    #15 Fellow Americans!

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    #16 Facts

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    #17 Found Another Specific Grave

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    #18 Bermuda Triangle!

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    #19 Killer Recipe Book

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    #20 Definitely The Perfect Teacher

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    #21 I Can See It…

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    #22 Definitely Enjoying His 2nd Daughter’s Wedding

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    #25 Thats A New One

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    #26 Wish Someone Would Do This For Me

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    #27 Interesting Example LOL

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    #28 They Don’t Know

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    #32 Gotta Try Them All

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    #34 Ideal Beach Boy

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    #35 Really Makes You Wonder

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    #36 I See No Flaw In This Logic

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    #37 Chicken Is Chicken

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    #38 Sickly Quality

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    #41 I Can’t Imagine

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    #42 Got Any Grapes

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    #43 An Interesting Idea

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    #44 I'd Pay More Than 50$

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    #45 Strange Exception

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    #46 She Wanted To Play A Game

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    #47 Is This Normal

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    #48 This Is A Bit Too Precise

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    #49 Seriously Only 1,010,300 …

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    #50 No Spoilers Please

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    #51 He Really Wants The Cookies

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    #52 Wait What?

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    #55 A Little Too Early To Be Saying That

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    #56 New Life Phase

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    #57 Gotta Catch ‘Em All

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    #58 Eric

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    #59 That's A Wild Arrangement

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    #60 Yes I Can Definitely See That

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    #61 I Know A Female Country Singer Who Loves Fishing And Her Ford Van

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    #62 Homie No

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    #63 Oddly Specific 27 Year Old Brother

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    #64 A Very Specific Camper

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    #65 Sounds Silly But…

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    #66 Fact Or Stereotype!?

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    #67 Seems Like It Was Designed For A Niche Audience

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    #68 Crazy How Easy It Is For Them

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    #69 Bee Game

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    #70 She’s Onto Something

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    #71 Now I Want To Try It

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    #72 Day Off Alone At Home

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    #73 The Food Equivalent Of A Suicide Note

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    #74 Rare

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    #75 Twix Bars And Cocaine

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    #76 What An Oddly Specific Feature

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    #77 It Is Exactly What Happened

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    #78 Don't Use The Bad Fork

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    #79 This Means He Definitely Did It

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    #80 Turkish Delight Compensation

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    #81 Oddlyspecific Jim Parsons

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    #82 Drug Store Makeup

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    #83 Sound About Right…

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    #84 Spider Nightmares

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    #85 Baby Boomers

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    #86 Asian Racism Is Something Different

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    #87 Xbox But Not Xbox

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  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 07:00

    Everyone has a bad day sometimes, you spill your coffee on the way out the door, you forgot to fill up the tank of your car, maybe you ripped your favorite shirt. One netizen's tragedy is, of course, another's comedy.

    The “FML” Instagram page is a dedicated space for folks who had something bad happen to them and just need to anonymously vent. The results are often somewhat funny. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples in the comments down below.

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    There is actually a word for what happens when you smile a little watching someone else's day fall apart, and it comes from German. Schadenfreude combines "schaden," meaning harm, and "freude," meaning joy, and psychologists describe it as the pleasure people feel watching another person's misfortune.

    It sounds harsh written out like that, but it turns out to be one of the most universal emotions we have. Researchers have found equivalents in cultures all over the world, including a Chinese phrase that translates roughly to enjoying the troubles of others, so this is not some uniquely petty modern internet habit. Humans have been quietly enjoying each other's bad luck for a very long time.

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    Part of the explanation comes down to something called social comparison theory, an idea developed by psychologist Leon Festinger back in the 1950s. The basic concept is that people constantly measure themselves against everyone around them, often without realizing it.

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    So when you read about a stranger locking their keys in the car with the engine running, or sending a text complaining about their boss directly to their boss, your own morning suddenly looks a lot more manageable. A Forbes piece on the subject notes that this feeling tends to show up most strongly when someone else's stumble gives our own self worth a little boost, even if we would never admit that out loud.

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    There is also a physical side to all this. Some research has linked the experience of schadenfreude to activity in the brain's reward system, the same general area that lights up with things like good food or a bit of unexpected cash. That does not mean people are wired to be cruel. It means the brain treats "at least that's not me" as a small reward, and it does this automatically, often before a person has consciously registered why they are smiling.

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    Evolutionary psychologists point out that humans are intensely social creatures who are constantly tracking status and belonging, so any information that makes us feel a little more secure in our own standing gets flagged as good news, as the BBC Science Focus explainer on the topic lays out.

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    Here is the important distinction for something like an anonymous confessions page, though. The classic, slightly uncomfortable version of schadenfreude usually involves a rival or someone we already resent getting their comeuppance. That is not really what is happening when people scroll through a feed of strangers spilling soup on themselves or forgetting their own anniversary. Nobody reading those posts thinks the person deserved it.

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    The appeal is closer to recognition than judgment. It is the relief of realizing that everyone, everywhere, is constantly one distracted moment away from tripping in public, and that thought is oddly comforting rather than mean.

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    The people posting benefit from this too. Talking openly about embarrassing moments has been shown to actually make people seem more likeable rather than less. One widely cited study covered by NBC News found that visible embarrassment reads as a sign of trustworthiness and warmth, since it shows someone cares about social norms even when they have just violated one by accident. There is also a quieter benefit for the person confessing.

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    Naming an embarrassing moment out loud tends to shrink it. As one breakdown of the psychology behind this puts it, keeping cringeworthy moments bottled up tends to make them feel heavier and more isolating than they actually are, while saying them out loud, even to strangers on the internet, tends to drain a lot of that power away.

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    So really, none of this is about wishing bad things on anyone. It is about the strange comfort of shared chaos, the reminder that dignity is optional and temporary for absolutely everyone, and the fact that laughing at your own disaster with a crowd of equally disaster prone strangers feels a lot better than sitting with it alone.

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  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 05:00

    Watching someone wander through an abandoned hospital or a forgotten manor feels like watching a disaster unfold in a horror movie.

    Yet, thousands of people eagerly do it in real life. It’s called urban exploration, or urbex — a hobby where thrill-seekers step into vacant, long-forgotten buildings simply for the thrill of exploring and documenting them.

    For instance, someone found a nuclear bunker with hospital-style rooms, rows of rusting metal beds, and decaying medical instruments. Another person stumbled upon an abandoned water park with a crumbling dragon-shaped dome.

    These explorers have been sharing their incredible finds on r/Urbex, taking us into hidden corners that most people walk past every day. What makes these locations so fascinating isn’t just the peeling paint or overgrown vines… it’s what was left behind.

    Each item offers a haunting glimpse into the past, leaving us to wonder what caused people to pack up and walk away.

    #1 Abandoned Hospital. I Broke The Urbex Rule And Took Something Home

    I’m sorry I just had too 😓

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    #2 Found Myself A Bunker In The Woods

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    #3 Thinking About Climbing My First Tower But Saw This Sign. Anyone Know What It Means?

    OneSquare9106:

    DO NOT. Emitters can be a lot of different strengths. If it can reach waaaaaay yonder you best not step right in front of it, unless you want to liquidate your insides.

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    While people have explored abandoned spaces for generations, the term urban exploration only officially appeared in 1996 in Infiltration magazine.

    However, the practice goes back much further. During the late 18th and 19th centuries, the Romantic movement sparked a massive cultural fascination with fallen architecture.

    Romantic poets, such as Percy Bysshe Shelley, frequently wrote about the poetic beauty of nature reclaiming man-made monuments.

    #4 Abandoned Hotel

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    #5 Castle In The Woods

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    #6 Found Whatever The Hell This Is

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    By the Victorian era, this obsession grew so widespread that society coined a specific term for it: ruin lust. It is derived from the German word Ruinenlust, meaning a deep desire to explore ruins.

    Across Europe, visiting ivy-covered castles and crumbling monasteries also became a trendy pastime for travelers.

    This trend quickly spread across the Atlantic. In 1861, legendary American poet Walt Whitman famously wrote about his own underground adventures inside Brooklyn’s abandoned Atlantic Avenue tunnel — considered the world’s oldest subway tunnel.

    In 1920, a group of Parisian artists organized guided tours through abandoned churches and neglected city spots.

    #7 Abandoned Tiki Themed Hotel

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    #8 Walked Through A Flooded Underground Car Park To Enter This Abandoned Mall

    Main entrance was locked with a guard outside so I had to walk through the underground car park (they must've thought no one would willing to go through that lol so it wasn't locked) .
    Fortunately the water was pretty shallow so I didn't risk getting any brain eating amoeba in me from the still water. (last image) 🙂

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    #9 Abandoned… With Electricity?

    Question for the hive mind. This building looks totally abandoned – it’s decrepit, totally sealed off, every window is boarded. There may be one point of access through a broken basement window.
    BUT, there’s a motion-activated light outside (see 2nd pic). In your experience, does that mean someone is living there? Or just that someone’s paying the electricity bill?


    PoofDatBoiGone:

    I’ve explored abandoned places that still have the power on. Sometimes the town is paying for it, or the trust of the building, or the electric company simply doesn’t shut it off. Any idea what the building actually was/is? That could give more clues, perhaps it was a pump house and while not in active use, retains its power should it need to be used again. Lots of things to speculate on, I’d try and first figure out what it’s used for and go from there.

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    Whether through 19th-century poetry or 21st-century photos, the urge to peek behind closed doors has always been part of human nature.

    Yet despite the eerie environments, the global urbex community operates under some strict, unwritten rules. You should leave no trace behind, commit no vandalism, and take nothing but pictures.

    #10 Nuclear Bunker Explored With Surgery Room Inside

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    #11 120-Year-Old Abandoned Mine

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    #12 Abandoned School With Working Electricity

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    People are drawn to this hobby for different reasons, but for many, it comes down to a pure adrenaline rush. Part of that high naturally comes from entering strictly off-limits places. Navigating a private location under the threat of trespassing charges creates an intense level of suspense.

    Avoiding security or law enforcement requires high vigilance, quick speed, and deep trust among teammates. As Chicago-based explorer Kelly Donahue puts it: “Yes, it’s trespassing, and yes, somebody doesn’t want us in there, but our goal is always to get in and then get out without anyone knowing that we were there.”

    #13 Abandoned Waterpark In Hue, Vietnam

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    #14 Mansion I Found Rather Untouched Still

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    #15 Abandoned House In NY

    Abandoned house of a doctor and his wife where everything went wrong.

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    For some, urban exploration is also about uncovering the stories of the past.

    When a hospital, factory, or estate shuts its doors, it leaves behind personal items, handwritten notes, and specialized equipment. These items offer an unfiltered look at daily life from decades ago.

    By documenting these forgotten sites before they are demolished or collapse, explorers serve as unofficial archivists. Their photos and write-ups preserve local heritage and capture human stories and architectural details that would otherwise vanish from public memory.

    “For me, it’s just a different way of learning about your history. Most of the places I’ve been to, I didn’t know their historical significance until after I went to take pictures,” says Tyrell Anderson of the Decay Devils.

    #16 Abandoned Hospital, Middle Of The Night, All Alone

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    #17 Found In The Basement Of An Abandoned Mansion Owned By A Mysterious Russian Dentist

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    Urban explorers share the same deep curiosity for old design and local history as architects and historians. However, urbexers don’t always agree on what should actually happen to these places next.

    Some prefer to see abandoned sites stay decayed, believing that peeling paint and rust give a building its soul and character.

    But many others advocate strongly for adaptive reuse. They want the old, neglected structures to be turned into modern apartments, community hubs, or offices.

    Studies show that adaptive reuse can help maintain cultural heritage, reduce construction costs, and breathe new economic life into surrounding neighborhoods.

    #18 Abandoned WWII Aircraft

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    #19 Plane Graveyard

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    Urban exploration has always carried inherent risks. But some experts believe that the rise of social media algorithms has pushed a new generation of explorers to chase increasingly dangerous extremes.

    Today, online feeds are filled with “rooftoppers” dangling off skyscraper cranes, daredevils leaping across subway tracks, or thrill-seekers scaling high-voltage power pylons.

    “The community has changed drastically. A lot of these kids are putting themselves at greater risk to gain credibility on social media channels. There have been an increased number of (fatalities) in the urbex community worldwide in the past few years, and that’s gone hand-in-hand with the increased desire to publish these exploits on social media,” says Bradley Garrett, author of 'Explore Everything: Place-hacking the City.'

    #20 Berlin Abandoned Metro Tunnel

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    #21 Exploring My Parents Abandoned Cabin

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    Safety begins with proper planning and never going alone.

    Experts always recommend using the buddy system and informing someone outside the group of your exact location and expected return time.

    Proper gear is equally critical — trade light clothes and sneakers for heavy-soled boots to guard against nails and glass. Wear heavy gloves, carry a primary flashlight with extra batteries, and a dust mask or respirator to protect against toxic mold and asbestos.

    Above all, know when to walk away. If a building shows signs of recent collapse or smells of heavy chemical fumes, leave immediately because no photo is worth your life.

    #22 Buran 2017 🫡

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    #23 Super Colourful Abandoned Church In Detroit Being Demolished For A Storage Facility

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    This list of ruins is as exhilarating as it is humbling. It reminds us just how temporary our modern world really is.

    No matter how towering our concrete jungles get, nature will always find a way to claim back her land quietly.

    Which of these forgotten places fascinated you the most? Would you ever be brave enough to step inside one of these decaying buildings, or do you prefer exploring from behind a screen? Tell us in the comments.

    #24 Abandoned Mailbox

    Yes, that's a giant Game Boy! Although its function is somewhat different; it is actually a mailbox! Unfortunately, this mailbox is no longer in use and is now left behind in nature, collecting dirt! Even though it is no longer emptied, many people still put their letters filled with wishes for life and sweet words to the deceased inside... A strange sight, something different for a change! I wanted to play a game, but unfortunately, it didn't work... (the last photo is me, so you can see the size of the mailbox better😜)

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    #25 Abandoned Ship

    The abandoned ship! This English ship, built in 1952, sailed its last voyage in 1996. In 1997, the ship was seized due to financial problems, and two years later, it was moved and capsized. To prevent it from sinking completely, it was moved to shallower waters. Years later, it still lies abandoned, half-submerged and rusting. It may not look that big, but standing there, it's a massive ship!

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    #26 Paris Catacombs (March 2024)

    Yeah so basically I'm fascinated by urbex but never really done it. I got a bit obsessed by the idea of going to the Paris catacombs, and given I was going to Paris anyway, thought I'd give it a go. I did a lot of research, found an entrance (manhole cover on a street), and just fucking went. I was by myself. Best decision ever.
    I met a lot of really cool people. Firstly I met a guy who was by himself and he seemed friendly, he offered to show me round so i followed him for a while (making sure to keep track of where I was on the map I got online). I'll admit I lost track some times but it's so easy to find where you are again when you see a street sign.
    He showed me some really cool places! The Cinema was my favourite, a room where all the graffiti is just film characters. Insane.
    I went into "la plage" and as I entered there was this weird like, cult religious music blasting. Like deep chanting. I went in and it was just a couple guys chilling. I shared a couple of my beers with them and we hung out for a while. Then I explored some more by myself.
    I was about to leave when I saw a little tunnel I could just about crawl through. On the map, I thought it was really short and would lead me to a shorter way out. Nope. It was a long crawl, a very round, even hole, and I ended up in an absolutely massive room I hadn't had time to visit - Marie Rose. That is a cool room. I then met some others that came through the same tunnel - they said my map was old and that tunnel wasn't on it. So anyway then I followed them around, and they showed me more stuff - including the castle room which is insane.
    I think I'm going to go back at some point. It's fascinating.

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    #27 Engineer's Home (A Mess)

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    #28 Abandoned Mansion In Leesburg, Va

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    #29 Urbex France

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    #30 Gate To Hell

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    #31 Abandoned Club Still Full Of Alcohol

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    #32 Abandoned Fast Food Restaurant

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    #33 Unedited Picture I Took Of A Forgotten Ohio Church

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    #34 Abandoned Farmhouse In The Woods

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    #35 Abandoned Resort

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    #36 NYC Tunnels

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    #37 Explored The Abandoned House, Found An Old Milling Machine In The Detach Garage

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    #38 Abandoned Casino Cruise Ship

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    #39 Local Swimming Pool Closed Because The Water Was Dangerous. Never Opened Again

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    #40 Nah Bro, There’s Still Water In My School’s Pool

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    #41 Found This Old Bunker In Northern Germany

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    #42 Weird Trespassing Sign…

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    #43 Abandoned Detroit Church

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    #44 Giant Abandoned Complex (Partially Powered)

    Just went to this giant abandoned complex today and it was wild, explored a bunch of the big main buildings and even checked out one that had power to a good 90% of it which was insane combined with the fact that barely any of it was touched. Felt like some parts of the buildings even had working heating😭

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    #45 Abandoned School. Detroit

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    #46 Abandoned Untouched Hotel In The Middle Of A Big City

    Has power and water, there’s even a router with WiFi.

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    #47 Abandoned College

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    #48 If You Were Born Before 1980, This Abandoned House Is For You!

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    #49 Found Some Cars. Are They Rare?

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    The 1st one is a jaguar etype, which looks to be a normal 2 door model (these can fetch about 100k depending on the quality and milage). the second one is a lotus eclat, which fetch anywhere from 10k to 30k in good condition. car in the far back in the second pic looks to be a jaguar xjs.

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    #50 Abandoned Radio Tower, 412 Meters Tall

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    #51 The Impressive Abandoned Castle

    The castle is slowly rotting away, but it's still very explorable!
    I had the chance to visit this place after posting on this subreddit where I explained that I was looking for people to explore with since I was alone.
    For a first time, it was fantastic.
    The place is absolutely gigantic and still very well preserved. I have a map of all the cameras to avoid, and the path to follow to reach the castle.

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    #52 Former Archives Of The Bnf In Versailles

    These abandoned buildings were built between the 1930s and 1960s to serve as annexes to the National Library of France. They housed, among other things, newspapers, periodicals, patents and duplicate collections.
    The site remained in operation until 1998, when the last collections were transferred. Since then, the buildings have been abandoned and have become a popular spot for urban explorers.
    If anyone knows more about their history or rehabilitation plans, I would be delighted to learn more.

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    #53 Abandoned Metro Station - Sk - Noisy-Le-Grand

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    #54 Found A Human Skull In A House With Power

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    #55 Abandoned Home Of An Artist

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    #56 Tweakerville Hotel

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    #57 Abandoned Funeral Home

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    #58 Abandoned Tudor Mansion

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    #59 Bruh

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    #60 Abandoned Amphitheater

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    #61 Giant Hidden Soviet Bunker Complex Near Berlin

    Yesterday me and my friends discovered a giant scale bunker on a abandoned Soviet military site we immediately entered to explore, the entrance was just a small hole just enough fit through leading to a tunnel leading down approximately 15-20 meters below the ground revealing a gigantic bunker network ranging from small rooms just high enough to enter to halls so huge that an airplane could park there. Next to one of the corridors we found a small room filled with boxes containing electronic components and other relics.

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    #62 Exploring A Massive Abandoned Hospital At Night Alone. Found The Autopsy Room Too

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    #63 Strip Club Shut Down For Some Shady Business

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    #64 Abandoned Truck In The Woods

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    #65 First Weird Experience

    Had my first weird experience at this bando a couple nights ago. While inside this early 1900s farm house, me and my friends experienced a door on the second floor of this house absolutely slam shut. It was a calm night in terms of wind and the house didn’t seem to have much a draft to it. Usually pretty skeptical about this kind of stuff given it’s the first out of 30 some places I’ve been to over the last 2 years. Definitely will be going back to check it out in the near future.

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    #66 Abandoned Supermax Prison That Used Lethal Injection

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    #67 Abandoned Clinic

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    #68 Former Home Of Nina Ricci

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    #69 Hello, I'm A Young Urban Explorer With A Passion For The Military, And I've Managed To Find Some Abandoned Military Treasures. Does Anyone Have Any Information About Them? Thank You

    GiovannyRGB:

    I'd advise you to delete your post if you want to avoid being woken up by the police tomorrow morning.
    Clearly, it's ammunition that could also interest malicious individuals, so I'd avoid posting it online...
    Especially if the crates are full.

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    #70 Abandoned Train

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    #71 An Old Factory Near Lyon, France

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    #72 Agglomeration Plant

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  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 05:00

    Love doesn’t care about borders. You can find your soulmate anywhere on Earth and start a fantastic adventure together. However, even the most open-minded and adaptable travelers can still be shocked by the differences in background between the two of them, as well as their families.

    Has your SO’s family ever told you that you might need surgery? Or that you have to wait in the parking lot to be intentionally late to dinner? People with international and intercultural partners spilled the tea about the biggest and weirdest culture shocks they felt when they first got a taste of their loved one’s culture, and it’s a wild ride. We’re bringing you their top stories to show you just how flexible you have to be if you want to make the relationship work.

    #1

    Hispanic culture has zero version of political correctness. They are extremely blunt. "Hey you look like you got fat" isn't uncommon.

    The people have a better view of life in many ways than I grew up. Much more family focused.

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    #2

    Food.

    I grew up in a house where my dad is a good cook and we’d always have family dinner together so I thought I was in a food oriented household.

    Well a month after I started dating my husband he brings me to a big family dinner. Grandparents were there and all the aunts and uncles. Twenty people around one of those big lazy Susan tables. I was the only white person in the whole restaurant.

    They would all be chattering away in Cantonese and suddenly I’d hear my name followed by laughter and a big scoop of something landed in my bowl. Not wanting to be rude I tried to eat everything. If I was really unsure I leaned over to my boyfriend or his mom and ask what it was and their answer invariably was “it’s good, you’ll like it”

    On the drive home my boyfriend said I had been the dinner entertainment because everybody thought it was hilarious that this little blonde girl ate everything, they even ordered a few really authentic dishes just to mess with me. But I ended up impressing everyone because I didn’t bat an eye.

    He told me later that was the night he decided he was gonna marry me because I whole heartedly jumped into his culture and tried everything. I’m to a point where there are dishes I know I don’t like but if something new is in the table I always try it.

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    #3

    Being late to social gatherings is so ingrained in their culture that showing up right on time is considered rude. She has literally made me pull into a parking lot and wait so that we were at least ten minutes late to dinner at tita's house. And we were still the first ones there by far.

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    There are plenty of challenges to be found in a regular relationship with someone from a similar background. There are even more challenges when it is an international, intercultural, interfaith, or interracial marriage.

    Broadly speaking, intercultural couples experience more stress than same-culture couples. What’s more, it can take you longer to integrate into their family and background. And if you decide to have kids, they might struggle with their identity, as they grow up between different cultures.

    On top of that, there are more legal considerations to keep in mind if you come from different countries: visa requirements, international documentation, residency laws, etc., can be a real pain to get to grips with at first.

    #4

    They can drink. Like, seriously. Holy hell. (Scandinavian, specifically Norwegian and Swedish).

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    #5

    Soo much family. She is Samoan. Every Samoan seems to be related.

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    #6

    Weddings.

    My fiance (Irish) and I (Indian) started planning our wedding. We're both wanted to go for a small wedding and we sat our parents down and told them about it. I gave my fiance a heads up to let him know that we'd have to operationally define what a small wedding would be to my parents because to them small would be like a 100 people. He didn't take me seriously at first, but when we finally got down to it and told my parents, they came up with a guest list of just their friends and my family of about a 125 people.


    As a compromise, we've finally arrived on 20 people for the wedding and my parents are throwing us a party after with whoever they want to invite. It was like a war negotiation.

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    What are the biggest culture shocks that you’ve personally experienced after you started dating your significant other and met their family? Meanwhile, what shocked your partner when you finally introduced them to your folks? What changed after you got married?

    Share your relationship and family stories, as well as any advice you have for new couples, in the comments at the very bottom of this post.

    #7

    I'd never seen someone cry tears of joy eating good pasta until I met my Italian girlfriend.

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    #8

    Back in high school I dated a Lebanese girl. We had to date in secret because her family was super strictly against her dating anyone especially a Non-Muslim and Non-Arab guy.

    Anyway eventually her cousin found out that we were having intimate relations and that information got to her dad who ended up sending her and her sister back to live with their uncle in Lebanon because "America corrupted his daughter". I never saw her again.

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    #9

    How accepted I am into their family.

    I come from an horrible home. My family is american. I was very much a true life cinderella. I was attacked by siblings and told it was my fault. If I fought back, I was punished severely I was never good enough even with the highest grades or best behavior, but my siblings barely passed school and it was celebrated with huge fanfare.

    I am now dating a Hispanic man. His family is so comforting and helpful and loving. It's crazy. The only time I got hugged in my family was when I was losing my cool over how unfair everything was. And it was always I love you all equally. No just I love you, not it was I love you all equally. His family is just hey I'm going hug love you and leave. Or I missed you. Or be careful. Or behave and a kiss blown.

    I actually had to have a talk with my SO because I'm not a big hugger. I have trauma that is stirred up by hugs from people. It's a trigger for me. Because a hug with both arms up top can very quickly be one strangling. And it has before. So I had to have him talk to his family. Because it was seriously messing with me.

    And his family was totally cool about it. They constantly offer what I assume would be mom and dad level help in a happy home. They are always asking if I'll be there for holidays. They sent me a present for Christmas even though we'd only been together for a couple months. It's insane just how accepting and loving a healthy family is. And I'm not sure if it's the healthy family relationships or if it's the culture difference. But I love it.

    #10

    How open his family is about money. I never knew how much my parents make I have no idea how much money my sister makes. But I know my sister in law makes 5k more a year than my husband because every time one of them gets a raise they call each other to gloat (no bad blood just an ongoing sibling rivalry. I think she’s gonna win honestly)

    I know what my father in law makes and every year he goes over our taxes with us so he knows down to the penny what my husband and I make.

    It’s honestly so refreshing to not have a taboo about money. It’s made me so much smarter financially. My husband and I bought a house two months before we got married and ended being house poor. We didn’t have any spending money outside food bills and mortgage. I felt no trepidation going to my mother in law and asking her to help us nail down a budget and savings plan for the next six months to help dig us out of the hole we were in.

    Some of this is cultural but some of it is just his family being very very open with each other.

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    #11

    Black British with a Jamaican family. Married to a white British guy.

    Was most shocked by funerals. When we had his nannas funeral I was shocked that people were invited and only immediate family. We did the funeral, then went to a pub and there were sandwiches, cakes, tea etc then everyone was heading home by 5.30pm.

    Jamaican and Caribbean funerals are NOTHING of the sort. People turn up because they knew the deceased person years ago. Some people don’t even make plans to go to the funeral they arrange to go to the “after”. There’s hot food served like a properly catered function in a hall or centre, there’s sound systems set up, and people dance. Also sometimes a couple old men in hats playing dominoes. There’s also usually a “nine-night” so nine nights after the person passes away you hold a big party essentially to chase away bad spirits. Lots of music, drinking, food, smoking, etc.

    I told husband about this and his face was a picture!

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    #12

    The EXTREME family closeness. I'm black, but my family isn't particularly close - we live in different states, we talk probably weekly, I don't know the daily ins and outs of their lives. My wife's family though - my god. Take a wild guess at their ethnicity. I'll give you a hint - 90% of her grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins live in the same five mile radius in El Paso.

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    #13

    Their insistence on cooking things "the ~~white~~ right way." I'm Filipina, BF is white. His parents are from the PNW and insist that salmon can only be cooked the way they cook it up in Oregon/Washington/whatever. Lmao, that's stupid, there's tons of ways to cook fish and make it delicious but I don't complain. Eventually BF's dad makes us a salmon dinner. Baked salmon with no seasoning, white rice, and a slice of lemon for flavor.

    That's it. That's the only way they will eat salmon. We invited BF's mom for dinner once and told her we were making teriyaki salmon. She CANCELED LMAO.

    Luckily BF actually has functioning tastebuds and agrees that a lot of his parents food is bland AF.

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    #14

    How similar our cultures are. When we first started dating, I thought there would be a much steeper learning curve since I'm a Central Asian Jew and he's Iraqi-Canadian.

    #15

    Swearing at their parents and there parents not caring.....

    #16

    My wife is half Indian half Italian, I'm Serbian.


    For the Italian: no sense of privacy, if you place a phone call, the whole room is on the phone with you. Also, SO. MUCH. PASTA.

    Also, it would get most people but not me, because we're also loud, but they're loud.

    For the Indian: at family gatherings they expect the kids to do everything. Won't even offer a drink. Also, the hell, a meal with no meat?! Also, so quiet.

    For my wife: "Oh my god, there's so much meat! Why is no one eating and only drinking?! Why does everyone smoke?! With kids right there?! Did he really just have half a bottle of that?! What is that?! Oh my god! It tastes like rubbing alcohol! Oh, but it's so good! I need a smoke now. Oh, the food is suddenly gone! Wait, did that man just eat a loaf of bread and half a lamb?! Is he finishing that bottle?! How is he not drunk?!"

    PS he was drunk, he's just constantly drunk.

    #17

    I’m Chinese, husband is white American (some mix of Italian, Ukrainian, and English ancestry) and just the fact that he and his family don’t eat a lot of the parts of animals that are edible. He won’t eat any organ meat, which is really strange to me because I grew up eating ALL the organ meat.

    #18

    AM from up north marrying WF from the deep south. Shoes indoors.

    YOU'RE TRACKING DIRT INTO THE HOUSE.

    #19

    My girlfriend is Japanese, and it never ceases to amaze me how dedicated Japanese people are to keeping "the harmony" or whatever you want to call it. Obviously losing your temper is looked down upon harshly, but they even avoid just talking about an issue. When she's upset about something, she won't bring it up, she'd rather pretend everything is fine and actively avoids the topic. Even if we talk about something casual like a movie, as soon as it's clear we disagree on something, even something super small, she immediately shuts down any possible discussion. For me as a European, that's super weird and quite often frustrating to deal with.

    #20

    Already commented but I thought of a better answer. I'm Canadian and my partner is British. I don't find our cultures shockingly different, but it took a little while to get used to the British sense of humour.

    His family are genuinely proud of me when I make fun of them. They're like "aww your insults are getting so much better, I remember how polite you used to be when we first met you." I cannot make fun of my mom or even my sister like that. And at work we all actively make fun of our boss to his face and he just laughs along. In Canada that never would have happened. It's pretty great tbh.

    #21

    The inappropriate amount of demands for us to have children.

    #22

    White male married to Indian- the stupid pedestal all Indian women put the men of their family on. Ridiculous and outdated.

    #23

    They put Adobo on *everything.* Even lasagna.

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    #24

    She ate fried bananas, she gave me some and taste like sweet fried potatoes, its really weird.

    Shes from colombia btw.

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    #25

    When I was dating a Philippine (autocorrect says a different thing than I thought you called people from the Philippines. Hmm). Anyways I was dating this guy and it came out from his family and friends that dating a white girl is just something you do before you get married to a girl from the Philippines.

    So yah, I learned the relationship I was invested in was only ever meant to be temporary.

    I don't know if this is actually common or I had a unique experience but either way it was shocking and hurtful.

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    #26

    My wife had to deal with korean people who will frequently comment about your appearance *as a greeting*.

    My aunt meeting my SO: Hii nice to meet you! your face is so small.

    Edit:

    A lot of comments point out that small face is desirable and should be taken as a compliment. True. But I just used the nicest example. They will comment on anything about your body. And the worst part is that they always offer a solution: "you should try some surgery."

    I guess it's common to a lot of other cultures to dig at your looks pretty casually. But I think there's something uniquely bad about Koreans because they will go so far as to try and refer you to a plastic surgeon. ALL THE TIME. I just turned 30 and my mom recently told me I should try botox. Like what the hell mom.

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    #27

    When I was dating a Mexican, I'd go to his family parties and they would play the most foul mouthed rap. F tha police blasting at a 5 year olds birthday. Abuelas and abuelos up and dancing to it.

    I made a comment about how liberal his parents and grandparents must be. He said "oh they dont know English. This absolutely wouldn't fly if they knew what it was about".

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    #28

    Calling everyone an uncle or auntie when you mean "person who is older." The number of actual relatives is much smaller than the number of family members.

    [edit: I love that apparently this happens everywhere except for white middle America. I first got it from my Chinese in-laws].

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    #29

    It's not interracial in any real way, but I had a bonkers family dinner out with my wife's Maltese family one time. If you're unfamiliar, Maltese people are basically Italians who get super mad when you call them Italians.

    We were seated at the end of the long, long dining table with my wife's two aunts and uncles (her dad's brother and sister, and their spouses--all in their 60s and 70s). Dinner was served "family style" at this restaurant, and these two old, Floridian, ex-New Yorker, 2nd-generation Maltese couples ate like this: The lasagne would hit the table, the wife would dish some for the husband, some for herself, and then pass it to the other wife. The next wife would dish some for her husband, some for herself... and the pass it to my wife. Who, without *blinking* dished some for me, some for herself, and passed the tray down the table.

    Now this woman has never "served me" dinner (in a restaurant, anyway--she's a great cook at home) in her life. She's a whole, independent, modern woman who is super clear that I'm a grown-a*s man who can get his own food. But at this dinner, her-serving-me happened entirely seamlessly, as if it's just how we did it too.

    Then the veal came. Same routine. Then the spaghetti. Same. Then the pork chops. Same.

    If you're counting, we're now four entrees into dinner (and I didn't mention appetizers and salad!), and I've been dished a serving of each by my bizarrely servile wife. I'm no slouch at eating, but this is starting to get, well, silly. As I look around at the other husbands (because we're clearly In Rome here), they're stuffing in each of these... courses?... as if it was the first.

    Then the desserts started coming. It was a flan, and then a creme brulee, and then a tiramisu. I Was Served a serving of each. By the end of this I was beginning to whinge audibly. As I glommed the final bite of tiramisu, I looked up, breathing heavily, and caught an approving nod from her uncle Charlie.

    As I pushed back from the table I looked around and realized that every man in that family is literally 50 to 100 pounds overweight.

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    #30

    I’m half Spanish on my mum’s side, we never really got on with my dad’s family (which is sad, because some of his more distant relatives are amazing people), so I was raised in my mum’s culture.

    My husband’s family are lovely people, but how their family works is so strange to me. When they talk to each other, it’s how I’d interact with a work colleague I don’t see very often- polite, cheerful, but never touching on personal subjects. They seemed horribly embarrassed when we called them to announce our engagement (we live on opposite sides of the world). I was a bit offended until I got to know them better, they do care and they are warm- they just don’t express it like my family do.

    I did warn my husband about my family, but I don’t think he really understood. We are LOUD. Loud enough that if you want to talk, you shout over everyone else. There are a lot of us. We are all up in each other’s business. Our family will subsume you if they like you- he gained 5 aunts and uncles and 10 first cousins without asking for them.

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    #31

    My biggest surprise is the huge amount of Polish pride someone can have considering that they don't speak Polish or have been to Poland.

    Her biggest surprise is that we play hide the money anytime we go to a relative's house. Also, the arguments that ensue when trying to pay the restaurant bill.

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    #32

    We’re from different cultures (I’m Canadian and she’s British). A good 20% of the time I have no clue what she’s saying... like, I hear the words, but they make no sense when strung together in the way she does. Often have to break down exactly what it was she meant in simpler terms.

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    #33

    Money management. I was quite surprised that when we got married, we were supposed to give away half of the cash we received as gifts to my SO's cousins. I was then instructed that it was rude to have a savings account. If we had extra money, it should always be given to the family as gifts. Not happening.

    © Photo: anon

    #34

    I'm white that married a Mexican. The biggest thing for me was that EVERYTHING is a family affair. Like, I call my family every other week or whatever, but my husband's family does everything together. My first taste of this was when we were dating, and it took the whole family to switch out his mattress for a bigger one. I was like, you couldn't do that yourself? He looked at me funny when I said that.

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    #35

    Wife is chinese and I'm America. The number of chinese guys that will get super pissed off at a chinese girl for marrying an American man Is astonishing. Really ticks them off.

    Edit:..... I am America... not changing it.

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    #36

    His family has little to no contact with one another unless it’s a holiday. They also put their elderly in care homes. As well, they put much of their money into immediate gratification rather than saving for the future.

    His family is Afro American. I am first gen American and my family is traditional Filipino.

    We believe in family first, multiple generations live in the same home until they pass. We hire in home care for our elderly; and if (when) they need hospice care there is always money set aside to care for them.

    #37

    I am 100% Pakistani and my husband is a mix of Indigenous (Canadian) and Ukrainian.

    I find it shocking & hilarious when the parents swear, love for animals, openness about talking about intercourse, being able to be physically affectionate with one another with other family around, alcohol, being able to speak your opinions...people actually listen to you when you speak.

    #38

    Irish people really will stop talking to their family members over the slightest thing. Like cut them out of their life for decades.

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    #39

    My fiance is white and English. They swear alot and i thought her sisters and her hated each other cause every fight sounds like they are extremly pissed. Fact is they just talk loud.

    #40

    My dad is white and mom is Asian. He told me one of the biggest surprises was just how spicy everything she ate was.

    #41

    White Americans seem to prefer chicken breast. That's like the driest, least flavorful part of the chicken. Especially American roided up chickens.

    Also, shoes in the house. I knew that they did it from TV, but no amount of TV could prepare me for his sister just standing on my bathmat with her shoes on.

    #42

    I don’t know if it’s Hispanic culture overall or just Mexican culture, but rubbing an egg on someone to cure them is a thing. A very weird thing that is just accepted.

    #43

    My boyfriend is half Japanese, and his very un-emotional relationship with his mother, and his father too, was a huge shock to me.

    My parents are european immigrants from the Balkans, and they're incredibly affectionate. My brother and I are affectionate with each other and will hug anytime. I hug my parents nearly every day (before the pandemic). I grew up holding hands with my cousins in public, but my boyfriend absolutely hates PDA of any kind. We've gotten into numerous arguments about physical affection in public or even at parties around our own friends.

    Naturally he thinks my relationship with my family is very weird. Because we hug...

    #44

    I'm from Ireland, and my wife is American. The first time she visited my family in Ireland, my sister's (also-American) boyfriend approached her and asked "How do you handle these people?"

    That poor jerk had moved to Ireland after knowing my sister for like a month, due to having knocked her up. It did not end up working out. Aside from my lovely niece, I guess.

    #45

    Oooh being so touchy touchy. I’m Asian and she’s Hispanic, ‘nuff said.

    Also what surprised us was the foods. There were so many things present in our opposite cultures but used in a lot of opposite ways. Like certain ingredients used savory in one culture and sweet in the other and so in. But a lot of ingredients in common.

    #46

    I'm from a small family...married a Latina woman who has 3 boys. My family wasn't close at all but my wife's is completely different. We're all very close, always hugs and kisses and talking s**t. Those "boys " are now men, all have kids of their own. And I've been with them for 20+ years and my wife and family are still going strong.

    #47

    Jello. So many kinds of Jello. Every person in the surrounding South Dakota farming community brings a different kind of Jello to social gatherings.

    #48

    How awful their cooking was. I am third generation Mexican, so we have really had some time to adopt southern cooking here. But...how do you even dry out a turkey that much? Why is your casserole so soupy? Are you sure everyone is bringing their best dish here? My wife's uncle owns a bbq restaurant, and I know 3 family members that make better bbq than he does. My wife thought she didn't like meat for almost 20 years. It was their cooking.

    #49

    Hispanic American who used to be married to a white American (didn't even claim to be Irish or German or anything). His mom really didn't season food. He asked me to teach her, and I felt uncomfortable doing so. Also why are there so many types of casseroles. They also were shocked my hair was naturally curly. Hard to believe we grew up two cities away from each other for all the weird differences.

    My current in-laws are black American. He couldn't say my mac and cheese was better than his mom's for 10 years. He still won't say it in front of her. I avoid going to church with my mother in law because it always lasts 3 hours and there is an entire 30 minutes of people catching the spirit and fainting. I wanted to faint from hunger and dehydration. They're also fascinated with my hair. I'll report back if I ever marry an Asian guy.

    Edit: As for the mac and cheese recipe, I've been doing that by instinct for years. Basically if you know how to make a roux, and you're not afraid to use something different besides medium cheddar, you can make a good mac and cheese. My secret in this case, which will surprise no one since I'm Hispanic, is Adobo. But I switch up cheeses based on my mood. Season the flour for the roux though, don't go dumping it in your cheese sauce. It's all about the seasoning.

    #50

    Yemenite Israeli family... I don't speak the language. First visit, I hear everybody screaming and ask 'What are you all fighting about' and my wife says 'oh, we're just talking'.

    #51

    Dating someone who is Native, I was not expecting him to be related to the large majority of this town. He has a lot of family, plus hes the oldest of SIX kids.

    #52

    (all is in USA)

    German-Irish here who grew up with a bunch of Italian or half-Italian friends.

    I had no idea until I dated an Italian girl how superstitious they were. Like my family says they're catholic and we'd do all the sacraments but if you looked through our house you wouldn't even know we've heard of religion. That's how NOT superstitious my family is. We probably don't even believe in the popular organized religion of our area.

    Then there's my gf and her family. There are plastic Jesus cards (the ones you'd get of a person at their wake) in every room. Crosses, painting etc. That's the religion part. The superstitious part is even crazier. Knocking on wood. Not putting shoes on a bed (it'll make you have a bad day). Cheers without eye contact. Broken mirrors bad luck. Salt over the shoulder.

    I can't believe how real it is to them.

    Also I recognize were both just different flavors of white but yeah celtic vs Mediterranean is worlds apart.

    #53

    My wife is from Taiwan. The biggest shock was the first time I met her parents. In the states, it is rude not to finish your plate as a guest, in Taiwan, if your plate is empty you get more food until you finish and there is food on your plate when you are done. Needless to say I was turning green and had to ask my wife if I could stop and she laughed.

    #54

    My (Ashkenazi) husband (Indian) was surprised at how similar our families were. Sure there were some differences but he chose to focus on the similarities. He obviously was expecting more differences.

    #55

    Dutch boyfriend eating peanut butter toast literally every morning.

    #56

    When I first started seeing my boyfriend, who is white, he used to bring me home to his parents house. Parents were home, would say hi to me, and then we’d go up to his room with the door closed for hours. It blew my mind that his parents would just let him take a girl up to his room with the door closed like that.

    Asked him about it and he was like, yeah? I’m over 18, they can’t say no.

    Meanwhile I (also over 18) have never even brought a boy to my house, let alone to my bedroom, let alone with the door closed. Turning 18 didn’t change any rules for me either, no matter if I was a legal adult I was still abiding by every one of my parents strict rules.

    Also, they eat dinner at like 5pm. Even earlier on Sunday’s. That was wild to me too.

    #57

    How old fashioned she is. Won't let me change my own child's diaper. Gets angry about it.

    #58

    The sheer ubiquity of Bud lite and Nascar.

    #59

    "Hey, Fatty!" is insulting but "¡Ey, Gordita!" is just calling out to a family member.

    #60

    To be quite honest, I don't think I ever was "shocked" by anything. I have a feeling she might have been shocked more by my culture, to be honest.

    However, one thing that I did not expect was just how receptive, welcoming, friendly, and loving her family would be. I always had this (bad??) impression that Asian cultures were more reserved or whatever. But naw, they were just so open. It was great!

    #61

    A few things (I’m white, he’s Haitian)

    1. The family drama! There is ALWAYS some kind of drama at any given moment of the day!
    2. Eating super late on holidays like Christmas or thanksgiving. I swear “my moms cooking it should be done by noon” is loosely translated to “we arnt eating until 9’oclock at night and someone still has to run to the store a couple times.
    3. Intentional tardiness. I like to be early for things and he can just dilly dally around and be okay being late for things. His mom can’t leave the house until about an hour after she has to be somewhere.
    4. The excessive pushing to get married and have kids! I attended his brothers Haitian wedding and the entire time “when you guys going to get married” “when you guys going to have kids?” I swear for the entire 6 hours.
    5. The partying! I’m cool with this part though! Everything’s a party!

    #62

    How close family stays. My husbands family gets together every Christmas. His grandfather was physicist who was able to get his wife and 4 children out before the borders truly closed in China. His 4 children all had 2-3 children, then they started having children....Christmas is now 40 people and 4 generations.

    #63

    My partner is British Pakistani, I'm just British. He's very western in his outlook, I'm still taken aback 6 years down the line when male family members won't shake my hand or greet me, or when they suggest it is my place to be fetching and carrying for him. He can do his own darn running around. Also 17 people in one 4 bedroom house, I don't understand where everyone sleeps. The food is good though!

    #64

    Well my girlfriend CAN NOT get over the marvel of the tater tot casserole. Thinks it is the most disgusting looking thing she’s ever seen.

    #65

    If you don't say hello when you enter the home or gathering then you suck and the family is mad.

    #66

    I’m British and my wife is Chinese. Not British born Chinese. She’s actually from China.

    Family is really important there. They just walk in and out of each other’s houses unannounced as if it were there own.

    The thing that shocked me the most though is how about 90% or so of men seem to smoke. Like it’s a given or something. But almost no women seem to smoke.

    #67

    Huge family events, and family actually wants to be in your life and do things all the time to a fault, my wife is from Zimbabwe and when we planned to wed, I had to go through what's called labola. Which is a shona wedding ceremony, it was all very interesting and bizarre at the same time.

    #68

    Not interracial but a cultural thing


    So my grandpa came from a long line of Scots, loud family and large gatherings. my grandma though had a much smaller English family.

    Whenever my Grandpa brought my Grandma to thanksgiving dinner everyone was loud and yelling at each other, typical family gathering. Whenever they left my Grandma broke down crying, my grandpa asked why she was crying. she thought that my Grandpa's family was Mad at her and that she had caused a rift or something. My Grandpa was shocked and just explained that that was how it was and no one was mad at each other or her.

    #69

    Wife is swedish and eats the most horrifying rotten fish (surstrømming). God, just thinking about them makes me want to vomit..

    #70

    I was shocked when I learned that my Korean girlfriend (now wife) and her family slept on the floor. It was all the more shocking because she was wildly successful.

    I lived in Korea for over 4 years and never knew that a lot of them sleep on the floor. It's a 1st world country, but they all have heated floors so they just roll out a pad and soak up the warmth.

    #71

    My boyfriend is second generation Greek and I'm the most milquetoast white American family ever. It's shocking the amount of immediate friends he makes with other Greek people- we got curbside food for takeout the other day, the chef asked him where he was from (because of his beard), turns out their both Greek and bam suddenly he gets free special food and extra drinks for us. This is not a rare occasion either!

    #72

    He basically speaks another language and has a completely different demeanour talking to his Caribbean family vs me and my white family. I have to ask what they’re saying an embarrassing amount!

    Edit: changed ‘why they’re saying’ to ‘what they’re saying’.

    #73

    Home names. Fijian Indian people have normal names, but then a completely different unrelated name that only their family use for them. Kind of like a nick name but it’s usually not based on their actual name or even anything else and only their family would use it for them. In fact most of the time no one can explain where the name came from or why they just don’t use their normal name. And almost all of them have this. I didn’t believe that it was a standard thing until I asked other Fijian Indians I knew that weren’t related to my partner. And they all went “Yeah that’s definitely a thing. Why is that weird?” It just blew my mind that almost every single person has hidden nicknames.

  • Monday 27 July 2026 - 05:00

    According to the Social Readjustment Rating Scale, divorce is the second most stressful life event, right after the death of a spouse. It can turn a person’s entire world upside down, and when one partner decides to make the process as difficult as possible, things can get even worse.

    That is why it can feel so satisfying when their behavior finally catches up with them. One Redditor asked divorce lawyers to share stories of people who tried to use the system against their ex, only to have their tactics backfire. We gathered some of the most memorable examples below. Scroll down to read them for yourself.

    #1

    Not a lawyer but "a spouse finally getting their karma in court" absolutely happened during my divorce.

    After a cr*ppy marriage filled with emotional and financial a***e, we finally separated and I filed for divorce. Ex made a lot more than I did and I wiped out my entire savings hiring a lawyer because exactly one session of mediation and it was pretty clear he had no intention of being reasonable or meeting anywhere near the middle without someone legally forcing him to.

    So I got a lawyer and he decided he didn't need one. Despite this, I walked into this thing just wanting to move on and more than willing to make major compromises in order to get it over with and get my life back, but we didn't even get that far in the discussion.

    Instead, we would schedule a meeting and instead of anything moving forward, he would just push papers around the table for 2 hours and nitpick over insignificant details. I was just watching my retainer fee drain away and at some point I became suspicious that this is exactly what he was trying to do until finally he said it out loud and word for word one day as we were walking out of my lawyer's office. He was dragging it out until I couldn't afford representation. I was in tears when I walked into my lawyer's office and told her this while feeling completely helpless.

    At this point she cackled (literally) and told me to let him. Turns out the two years he spent pushing papers around the table meant that in less than 2 months, we would have been married 10 years which meant that I was entitled to half of his pension.

    She declared that we were done with negotiations and scheduled a formal court date for a week after our 10 year anniversary. Not only did she ensure that I got far more than anything I originally offered, but also got the judge to make him pay all of my legal fees. The look on his face when he found out about the pension and realized he did it to himself was priceless.

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    #2

    Oh god. Sweet woman I grew up with married this guy. They had 2 kids. The younger one was born severely disabled. She will need care 24/7 her entire life.

    It’s rough.

    So he has an affair with a coworker and files for divorce. His idea for custody is that he gets the house and the healthy kid, and she and the disabled kid will just kind of … evaporate? His life will go on, just without any of the inconvenience.

    They go to court. This guy literally stands there and tells the judge that’s what he wants.

    Sweet baby Jesus.

    The judge ripped him a new one. Gave her custody of both kids. And the house. And the newer car. Awarded her alimony WAY above what she asked for because he added up what it would cost for her to get some respite care for the daughter, and tacked some more on just because. And it doesn’t end at 18 because her needs will not end at 18.

    The judge did everything short of turning the guy over his knee and spanking him.

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    #3

    The spouse who hid assets in a hobby collection only for the judge to be a fellow enthusiast who knew the real value. Watching the appraisal dismantle their lies in real-time was chef’s kiss.

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    #4

    Not a lawyer, but my friend's husband was dragging things out, pretending To be infirm so he could get out of sharing his retirement. My friend was being grilled about shared debt and she finally lost her temper when the lawyer said, "and aren't you divorcing him to avoid this debt?" She snapped back, "No, I'm divorcing him because he tried to sleep with my sister." The stenographer and the clerk both covered their mouths like they were trying not to laugh. The judge warned her not to bring it up again (no-fault state), but dismissed the line of questioning.

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    #5

    My sister married a total d*******g. He had a big temper and hated being told no.

    After more than a decade of a***e culminated in a broken humerus (not funny), my sister finally filed for divorce. She was a stay-at-home mom who had left college and quit her job to raise the kids since her husband made a good living in tech sales.

    The husband simply wasn't involved in his two kids' lives, but wanted to weaponize custody (and the divorce process) to punish the ex-wife.

    Judge started the custody/divorce proceedings by saying 'this state defaults to 50/50 custody unless there's any reason one parent is not fit'. Husband was pissed and so tried a hundred different ways to prove my sister wasn't a good parent. Lies about her drinking (she didn't drink), how she was negligent (she did all the cooking, cleaning, and medical care). Sister's lawyer was hitting back on every point and had documentation to prove it.

    Judge eventually snapped and said:

    > Alright, Mr. Smith. What are your children's shoe sizes? Who is their pediatrician? What are their favorite subjects in school?

    And the husband just kinda stumbled and tried to claim the then-middle-school daughter didn't have a favorite subject, to which the mother replied:

    > [Daughter]'s favorite subject is photography. It's all she talks about. She walks around all day with a camera around her neck. She's currently at a photography summer camp that you had to sign a permission slip for.

    The husband was furious and called her a "f*****g b***h" in the court room and the judge absolutely upbraided him.

    The judge assigned sister 80% custody and a *hefty* child support and alimony.

    He tried tons of shenanigans including filing to get payments reduced saying he'd been unemployed, and it got so bad that eventually his mom provided documentation to the court that he was lying and making more than a quarter million dollars / yr.

    Sister's doing fine; just finished her DNP and one kid just graduated college and the other is doing well.

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    #6

    There was a couple from the town next my hometown that got a divorce after the wife cheated. She got the house, half of his retirement, and was not very kind throughout the process. Not long after the divorce was final, like within days, his buddies took him to the casino to cheer him up and we won a jackpot, at least a few million dollars (don’t remember the exact number). She tried to take him back to court to split it but the divorce was final.

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    #7

    I’m a spouse.

    My now ex husband was an a*****e a hole that I physically stayed with for way too long. When I finally left him, and filed for divorce he refused to fill out and sign the paperwork for an additional 6 years. I eventually took a day from work and went to his mom’s house, where he was living. Blocked his truck into his driveway with my car and knocked on the door. I then refused to leave until he signed the papers.

    FF to our court date, and the mf’r was a no show.
    It was a simple divorce. All I wanted was to go back to my maiden name. I wasn’t looking for a penny from him. We had no kids. No property together. He was just continuing his a***e.

    The judge saw my distress and had a court clerk take me to an office where he then called the three numbers my husband had listed. No answer at two. So he called the work #.
    And boy was my ex pissed! Court clerk told him flat out that even though he’d disregarded the court date. That I was going to be granted my request for divorce and to go back to my maiden name.
    I could hear him swearing😀

    We went back to the courtroom. And the clerk went and spoke to the judge. An hour later I walked out a free woman.
    I didn’t hear from my ex for years. Until one day he reached out to me via FB and asked me for my copy of the divorce decree. He was supposedly lost his, and was getting remarried. I told him no. That I’d paid for it. And that he could go to the state to get his own copy.
    He finished that call the same way he finished everything. By being a trashy AF small, pathetic little boy.

    I’ve remarried an amazing man. We’ve built a great life and family.

    #8

    Not a lawyer (and NOT in the US, this took place in France)

    My dad did everything to make the divorce process extremely long because he was mad my mom asked for it. He was refusing every. Single. Deal. Around their finances. Until the judge told him it was now or he would be held in contempt (after 5 years).

    At the end of the divorce process, you have to pay justice fee. Usually it's shared between the spouses, not always equally but shared. This time though, the judge gave every fees to my dad. My mom's lawyer said he never saw that in his carreer, the judge was so pissed off she (judge was a woman) made him pay for the whole ordeal

    (My dad is like 10 time more rich than my mom).

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    #9

    Not a lawyer, but a judge I met in law school had a pretty funny divorce story to share. The issue wasn't the divorce itself, but the custody battle. Both parents wanted the other one to get full custody of their two children (a boy and girl, around 2 and 4 yo). For some weird reason, they both thought that if they didn't get custody they wouldn't have to pay alimony to the other??

    So the couple was in court, both deadset on not getting the kids so they wouldn't have to send money to their ex, and the judge was feeling stuck. Eventually the judge decided to go along with what the parents wanted and said "well, since neither of you want your kids, I'll take the boy."
    He asked the stenograph if she wanted the girl (the poor woman was horrified and refused) but the court clerk who knew the judge well intervened and declared she would take in the girl.
    It made the parents realize they were being stupid, and that they did not actually want to lose their children. After a half hour recess they had a full custody agreement.

    The judge was pretty proud about his little ruse but poor kids.

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    #10

    From my experience, it comes years later when the kids realize who the real jerk parent was.

    #11

    I'm a lawyer and with so many cases one party feels like a victim and wants to get closure. And I try to help everyone get past that because there's no closure -- the jerk will continue being a jerk and dragging it out for revenge just costs money.

    But.

    The funniest thing I see is when people want to make a deal without involving the courts and the other refuses and takes it to court themselves and finds out how good the deal was.

    Like a friend in law school, her ex and she got along and she only wanted him to help with diapers and other supplies and he got mad that she asked so often so he took her to court and had to pay A LOT.

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    #12

    I had a boss once that I suspect had a wife as cover on some of his comments around the guys...

    Anyhow he was really insecure and prevented her from working and they didn't have any kids... they retire and move to Florida

    Things are going fine and then she gets a breast cancer diagnosis.. he declares I can't deal with this and files for divorce..

    The judge had a field day with their the assets and gave her the Lion's share and she got to keep the house and extra for her medical treatment.. he's now renting in a trailer park.

    © Photo: wastingtoomuchthyme

    #13

    Not a lawyer but during custody battle my spouse went to the police station to make some B.S. allegation against me. The officers there thought she was drunk and they arrested her for DUI as soon as she pulled out of the parking lot. Custody battle went a lot better after that.

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    #14

    Not a divorce lawyer and this wasn’t a divorce. A close friend of mine was in a custody/parental support hearing (forgive me if the term isn’t right) with her ex.

    She’s black and he’s white. This is relevant in that he decided to portray her as the “angry black woman” by showing up to court with a head injury he reported as having been caused by her. This was in the early aughts, and pics/videos by phone was definitely not as efficient.

    I’m at work sitting at my desk and she calls me, borrowing a stranger’s mobile to ask me to find a water polo newsletter online that features a photo of his head injury from his last water polo meet. Found it, faxed it to the court and when they went back in and he went full in on his story the judge whipped up the faxed article with “so this isn’t you with a water polo injury then?”

    She got full custody, support, the works. Wish I could’ve been there myself.

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    #15

    A friend had married a guy in the entertainment business when his daughter from a 1st marriage was 3. She did more to raise the girl than her father or mother did. When the divorce was initiated, he kept the then-16yo daughter away from my friend and told his daughter my friend no longer wanted to see her. Her lawyers said she had no custody rights and there was nothing they could do about it. They fought over everything else and he was a miserable b*****d and the court could see that. A trial was scheduled in NYC. He did not show up and his lawyers said he was unable to afford the airfare from LA. My friend’s lawyer hired a PI, who took pictures of the b*****d drinking pina coladas in Maui with his new girlfriend. When the judge learned of this, she had US Marshals arrest him in Maui and drag him back to NY, where she sentenced him to a year in jail with a hefty fine, and said she was referring his lawyers to the bar association. The lawyers had a sidebar in which judge said she’d drop the sentence and referral if they settled the case in 3 days. My friend got everything she wanted in terms of $ and property, and a 3-hour meeting alone with the stepdaughter. The ex begged her to backup his lies about her not wanting to see the girl but since changing her mind. She said if she did not come clean to his daughter, there was no settlement. So he did, and she still sees the daughter (now in her 30s) regularly and went to her wedding.

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    #16

    I knew a guy who dragged out the divorce after dozens of affairs, thought he had a stroke on a head CT so he claimed his alimony should be lower

    Then another doctor said it might be a tapeworm cyst in his brain so he claimed he could not earn money to lower his alimony.

    Then his wife committed s*****e while divorce proceedings were still pending. He then was paid $2 million over a 6 year period by an advocacy organization he was a lawyer for.

    He's also married an actress and then cheated on her with a journalist

    He's now the head of DHHS.

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    #17

    My cousin's a divorce attorney and he always says the really satisfying ones aren't the big money fights but when you help someone finally get out of a bad situation and start over on their own terms.

    #18

    I once saw a guy try to hide a massive offshore account by transferring it to a shady business partner right before the final hearing, only for that partner to ghost him and keep the entire seven-figure sum for himself. 

    Since the court had already documented the existence of the funds, the judge ruled that he still owed his exwife her fifty percent share based on the original balance, meaning he had to sell his house and liquidate his remaining assets just to pay her out while the partner he trusted vanished with the rest. 

    Seeing him realize he’d effectively paid his ex-wife to watch his own business partner rob him blind was the most glorious example of someone playing stupid games and winning the ultimate stupid prize.

    #19

    I didn't know if this is karma necessarily but it was something. Woman doesn't have much education, blue collar, but very kind and quite pretty. She meets this guy who is a born salesperson. They marry and she quits her job to stay home, raise their kids.

    He makes a ton of money climbing the corporate ladder, and she's there the whole time, full time parent, moving their family to multiple different states for his jobs and promotions, hosting clients, whatever he needs to succeed. Finally he's made VP, he's flying high, but she's older and the years of being a SAHP have definitely removed some of the glamour for her. Their kids are in high school and starting to chafe under Dad's emotional and sometimes physical a***e, and final straw is when their son started to fight back. He tells her that's it, he's done, she has 3 months to get herself and the kids into an apartment because he's leaving her for the new girlfriend who happens to be a 22ish year old s******r with a fun c*****e habit.

    We negotiate to keep her in the house pending the end of the school year but reality is hitting and even with alimony and child support the kids and her lifestyle is about to take a huge adjustment and it's not like she has a career or a degree to fall back on.

    Parties are going to sign the stipulated judgement and file it Monday. That Saturday he and his girlfriend are in a single vehicle MVA, toxicology report shows he has a whole pharmacy in his system and girlfriend ends up serving some time for the c*****e the police find on her.

    He d**s intestate, which means she, as his wife and the mother of his children, gets everything, no question. Plus he hadn't bothered to change the beneficiaries on any of his accounts, so she gets all those non-probatable assets and insurance policies, which as VP he had lots, and because he died before the kids were 18 there were immediate social security payments for them.

    I can't say I'm happy the kids lost their father but it was pretty much best case scenario for all of them: mom owns the house, kids have college paid, no lifestyle changes for the family, and no more a*****e a*****e and his d***s and nonsense.

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    #20

    I am not a lawyer, but I have a custody story that makes me happy. My friend married a woman who I was not a fan of because the first time we met she said to me, you remind me of someone I hate. Sooo... never a fan. They have a beautiful girl and then get divorced while she was young. Over time my friend married someone a lot better and made career choices that made him a good deal of money. Over time his daughter stayed with him more and more, so he wanted custody. He told his ex that he would take her, not ask for assistance and in fact throw some cash her way so when she does spend time there it goes well. She says no, and takes him to court. She was never any where as well off as he was mind you. At the end of the case, because of the daughters testimony about the mothers behaviour and how awesome of a dad he is, the judge decided to make her pay him 2k every month, full custody without any requirements for visitation. She basically lost every where possible and it was fantastic. He saved the money she gave him for her and used it to pay for college.

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    #21

    I'm going back 25 years, but there was an epic forum post. I've mentioned it before and reddit wants to say "that's not how divorce works" while forgetting there are 50 states with different laws.

    I think it was some BMW forum. Dude thought his wife was not acting normal, but overlooked it. I think the first red flag was like her car out of gas, yet he filled it last week and she worked close to home. Where was she going? He stopped by her work one day, and she wasn't there. He hired a private investigator, and caught her cheating. He paid the guy some more, and he built up a serious case of her not going to work, this other address she was always at, out to lunch with him, kissing him in the parking lot, etc. This went on for like 2 months while he was speaking with a divorce lawyer. He had started to question why she was acting weird, and out of the blue she demands a divorce. Something like "if you don't trust me, I want a divorce!" He moves out, it goes to court, she asks for half of everything, and his lawyer slapped down a 3 inch binder with all the proof of her cheating, not working, going to this guy's house, pictures of them holding hands and kissing, etc. Insert jaw drop on her part. He countered something like "take over the mortgage and you can keep the house, not a penny of anything else." No retirement fund access, no half their savings, etc. She was cooked as the kids say today, and her lawyer quickly told her to take it or it could be worse later.

    #22

    My ex and her family heard through the grapevine that I had come into a large inheritance, we are talking millions plus rights to patents that would provide ongoing income.

    The reality is that I had been the executor of an Estate of an elderly friend that actually had been a multimillionaire but gave his fortune away to charity. So, I get dragged into Family Court by my ex and her parents so that my ex can get her piece of the pie.

    No, it was not 'for the children' as my ex in-laws are quite wealthy in their own right and my ex and the kids were living together with the grandparents. These also paying for all daily expenses, as well as the legal bills for my ex (this was demonstrated during the divorce trial).

    The judge hears testimony and accepts evidence over two court dates. I provide extensive records and evidence. Also, I just happened to have lost my job in finance in the 2008 US economic downturn, that was in evidence as well. The judge said that his ruling would be received by the parties involved and their attorneys.

    Two weeks later I got the judgement, no additional funds would be awarded to my ex for child support.

    Additionally as I was now unemployed for over 6 months and it did not seem that a job that I was qualified for in the near future that my child support would be reduced to the minimum as required by law $25.00 monthly.

    I would have given my right arm to be a fly on the wall when my ex and her parents read the decision of the court.

    #23

    During my child custody hearing, when the judge declared a very modest amount for child support, my ex jumped up and protested, saying, how am I going to be able to afford to take my (new) wife out to dinner? The judge gave him Evil D***h Stare and said, oh you remarried? We need to account for that. And added 20% to the total amount.

    #24

    I work for a law firm (we typically do criminal law but did a divorce case as a favor for the boss's friend).

    Our client wanted to divorce her husband because she said that he was cheating.

    He insisted that he wasn't. She told us that he was. His law firm told us that he wasn't.

    We showed them proof that he bought lap dances at a strip club. They argued that he wasn't and that he wasn't at a strip club.

    He then (as this was happening) got a ticket for leaving a parking lot without indicating.

    That parking lot belonged to and was only used by clients of the strip club.

    And the fine (since the car was in his wife's name) came to his wife.

    Things were a bit easier after that.

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    #25

    She agreed to a payout of alimony after playing games with it for years (bringing spouse in for contempt when he was a week behind, while acting so crazy and calling his employer every day to the point where they let him go because it was too much.) It was far less than originally offered to her as a payout but she wanted a lump sum at this point because she was broke. She thought she had “won” by getting a big check and had bragged to people that she was getting a big divorce settlement. The check was purposefully made out to her attorney and she had racked up such a huge bill with her games that she got none of it. The look on her face when she realized the check was made out to the attorney and she wouldn’t see a dime was priceless. She had also demanded the house and so she got it, along with the mortgage, which ended up being foreclosed upon and constables had to get her out when she refused to leave. At the beginning of the divorce she had destroyed all of his belongings, sold his cars, and wouldn’t let him in on the date the court ordered her to allow him in to get his stuff. She stalked and harassed him relentlessly until he got a restraining order, which she continually violated and actually ended up in jail for a couple of months. She was nuts and an absolute nightmare. What goes around comes around.

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    #26

    This happened to a friend of mine. When he was 13 his mother wanted to divorce his dad. His dad ran a company and had already been positioning a semi-retirement.

    Dad has a serious conversation with the mom and decides he will walk away from their house, sign it over to her, savings account that are theirs, now hers. Retirement plan that he had along with investments, things they would have cashed out in their older years, all to her. She agreed and their lawyer met with them, signed everything and came back and announced it to their kids (my friend and his sis). Officially divorced. Everything in writing solid and legal.

    Dad took his cars (2), personal items and his company. Got an apartment near it to start. My friend and his sis lived with mom most of the time, saw dad weekly and he always paid for everything.

    By the time my friend was 23 his mom was hurting financially with a reverse mortgage being her means to live and dad had rebuilt it all for himself.


    **The mom then tried to file for divorce to get half his assets claiming the previous divorce was not real.** It was a crazy time for my friend as he and his sister realized their mom had this terrible side. His grandparents (mom's parents) his sister and himself had to have a few interventions with her to stop her bs as she was willing to go all the way with it. I believe in the discovery/ similar thing the case got tossed because there was paper work and everything done legally. Changed how they viewed both parents and my friend and his sister are much closer to the dad.

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    #27

    Not a divorce but a custody case. Young couple and exgf was very controlling throughout relationship. As in texting all day and night even when he was at work. Finally he had it and left. The moment he left she kept him from the kid completely. Two years of his kids life he missed, and the kid was two so he basically forgot his own dad.

    Dad tried regularly to see the kid by calling or texting but tried not to cross a line and get the cops called so he never showed up to the house. Finally figured out if he filed for child support he could get a custody agreement. She goes nuclear. Protective order. Goes to a DV organization and paints him as the worst person alive. We go to mediafion. She only wants him to have supervised visitation...until the kid is 18 and she wants double child sulport. Moronic. We even offer reduced custody and some supervision initially to appease her. Extra child support (not double but a bit more). No dice. All or nothing with this woman.

    After four full trial afternoons (we were scheduled for 4 hour blocks at a time and had to come back week after week), endless testimony and going through their asinine text messages....my client gets expanded visitation, minimum child support (he earned very little)...and the protective order was even dissolved. Judge chews her out.

    Really hate family law.

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    #28

    Worked as a clerk at an office. We had one go on for a couple extra weeks over a signed Rodney Dangerfield photo. Bossman had also married a former client but never got the balls up to ask for that story.

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    #29

    Cousin got divorced. She wasn't a good person. She married a guy. Guy was older and got sick. She pulls him of life support due to cost. She was days short of the required amount of time being married so she didn't get his pension.

    Customer of mine has updated me on his divorce. Some of the highlights. Been 4 years.
    Still no progress. He just keeps fighting. Dragging it out. Judge evicted him from his own house. Probably for not selling or buying out spouse. Judge gave him community service hours. Never heard of a divorce court doing this. My guess is he didn't listen to Judge and got contempt charge. The latest is he fired attorney.

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    #30

    Not a lawyer.

    My wife's daughter was in a car accident at 14. The lawyer who handled the insurance medical claims met my wife's ex a couple of times at the hospital and told my wife that when they eventually get divorced to call her and she'd handle it pro-bono.

    That happened, the lawyer handled it for free, and the ex failed to show up at the end and my wife got everything they asked for as the judge ruled against him.

    I met them shortly after and we've been married 30 years now 😄.

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    This was from the divorce of a friend of mine. Her husband was so verbally a*****e, and he fought her over everything and tried to make sure she got nothing. He made the divorce take so long.

    Anyway, he was trying to make her out to be an unfit mother, so he was calling her insane and demanded a court appointed psychiatrist to assess her. Problem he didn’t plan for was that the psychiatrist had to assess both of them. After meeting with both of them and their children the psychiatrist had a glowing assessment of my friend and a scathing assessment of the husband. They called out his a*****e behavior and manipulative actions. This all got reported to the court.

    In the end she has majority custody because he has to work more, so he pays her child support and alimony.

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    NAL and we weren't even married, but the karma on this one was real.

    Our child wasn't even two years old when I ended the relationship with my ex. Not only did he have a huge drinking problem (which I discovered while on maternity leave), but according to his best friend, he'd admitted that he "wasn't ready for the responsibility of being a parent" - at 30 years old. After the baby was born he stayed out of the house as much as possible, was always pawning the baby off on his parents when he was off and I was working, always had money for beer but none for the baby's expenses. It got to the point where my savings were about depleted, and I had to take money from family as well as a loan from my 401(k) to cover everything. Not to mention, he'd leave the baby in a diaper so long there'd be terrible rashes, and wouldn't feed or dress him properly.

    So one night I'd had enough, after he came home from work four hours late and drunk, and ended it. Long story short, things happened, he called the cops, and he ended up getting arrested (he's a cop himself lol).

    I'm guessing he realized that there was the possibility of child support, because ALL OF A SUDDEN, he was interested in our child and wanted full custody. And he tried every trick in the book. Filed for temporary emergency custody and lied to the judge to get it. Insisted that I was unstable and required a psych eval before I was able to see our child unsupervised and once I was cleared he dictated when I could have the baby. I suspect the lawyers I'd gotten knew him, because they definitely weren't fighting for me, and even gave me the wrong time for court one day when I'd called the office to double check. Switched lawyers but he still pulled c**p. He'd taken my address book and called all of my friends, family and coworkers telling them that I committed various types of fraud and was stealing their identities. Friends were followed and threatened. I lost a number of friends, and some even turned against me, passing him information. I'd moved in with friends until I got my own place, and they were the ones who told me he had a PI on me - I'd gone to spend the weekend with another friend and the PI called the ones I was staying with, asking where I was. SO MUCH MORE I won't get into. He did everything he could to try to prove that I was unfit, and to break me, and made my life an absolute hell. He and his lawyer dragged things out to where this ended up taking two and a half years; his goal was to make me run out of money.

    The karma: I was awarded custody; he was given the basic visitation. He was ordered to pay $14K of my legal fees, for which he was to set up a payment plan with my attorney - until I saw a "For Sale" sign in his window literally a week later. A lien was placed on his condo and the full amount came out of the sale, as well the 2 years' of retroactive child support that I'd been awarded. In our state, support continues until the child finishes college, so that was an additional 19 years :)

    The best part: at least a couple times a year I run into a friend of his, and they are very happy to share information with me. Early on he'd gotten into a relationship (with a former friend of mine, no less, who tried to help him take my baby), and they *really* pushed the relationship during the court case to show that he was "more stable." I've been told that she is an absolute b, he hates her, is absolutely MIS-ER-ABLE, and wants to divorce her but can't because then he'd have to give her half, and he will not do that. Meanwhile, I have a great life and am as happy as a clam :).

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    Not a lawyer, but I chose to not pursue a divorce on based on adultery because the burden of evidence (I knew I could get it, but didn’t want to waste my time/money getting it legitimately). Anyway, during the divorce process in court my lawyer slipped in that we had initially filed based off adultery when the judge was looking for the filing. My (now ex) brother in law was there as my ex’s witness and very obviously had no clue 💅 now the whole family knows.

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    We didn't make it to court but the result was just as good. My ex absolutely hated me for filing for divorce. From that moment on, everything was a fight. The golf clubs from my d**d dad, she wanted compensation. My inheritance from my d**d grandma, she wanted a share of the payments. Custody of our child "you work all the time so I read I can just take full custody"

    Well, she started asking for insane, like, constitutional rights violation stuff and her lawyer was getting sick of it. He must have gotten real tired of her nonsense because finally he just responds to my lawyer "I've told her she can't do this and she doesn't care, she's not budging."

    Needless to say, we sent a thank you for the information, we'll see you in court, and got the request to settle out of court within a week. Don't p**s off your own lawyer folks.

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    Friend of mines wife left him after she got caught having an affair with her wealthy client. She stood in front on the judge and only asked for her retirement account, agreed to weekend custody for their teenaged kids. She also took their credit card debt. Gave him the doublewide and the acre it sat on. She was ordered to pay a small amount of child support. He got off well all things considered. He was a game warden in Texas. Small town, everyone knows everyone.

    She married the wealthy guy the weekend after divorce was final. Kids did not attend. My friend was heartbroken still, and his brothers and his dad took him to the horse track/casino and all gave him like 20 bucks each to bet on the races cause he was broke. He won like 1200 and gave them all their money back. As they were leaving, walking past the slots his dad said he should make few spins on that 5$ line machine cause "you got to play big to win big" so he laughed and on the 3rd spin, won 8 million.

    She took him back to court wanting custody, same judge. Before the lawyers could even open their briefcases he looked at her and said "3 months ago you wanted nothing to do with the kids, and they wanted nothing to do with you. Only change I see now is your ex husband has 6 zeros on his bank statement instead of 3, i am not going to force 2 teenagers to live with you madam. You have child support due at the end of the month, every month till they are 21. Do not force the state to collect it, you might chip one of them fancy nails on the bunk down at the sheriff's office"

    She tried again later when he moved to a new jurisdiction and the new judge looked at her payments and earnings and raised her to the max allowed. She never tried again, and the kids haven't spoken to her in 15 years, last I know of was at her father's funeral.

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    He sued his lawyer halfway through the divorce litigation to not pay her legal fees and lost horribly. Turns out he fired her after she refused to use “salted earth” tactics in the divorce litigation and those details came out in the reasons for judgement.

    The reasons for judgement was then used in the divorce litigation. He stopped cooperating with the court and it ended with bailiffs grabbing and selling his known assets, including millions of dollars worth of real estate, to satisfy the court ordered judgement and costs.

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    Friend’s mum was offered $18m by his dad to divorce. She refused the offer saying it wasn’t enough and she wanted what she believed was half the marital assets. I have no idea of this guys net worth but it was/is extreme. The problem was everything they had access to except their main family house was owned by a trust and she refused to believe that she wasn’t entitled to anything in the trust or half of its assets, which I assume was a lot more than $18m. It went to court.

    She got half the house and a few items from it, which was about $2.5m. 

    He used to go and see her in her flat and she was f*****g bitter as hell about it. I went there once and she sat the whole time smoking pot whinging to my friend about what an a*****e his dad is. He may have been an a*****e but she was a greedy, resentful c**t. He was no angel either but he had offered her $18m to leave. 

    She made her own bed and didn’t like sleeping in it.

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    Cliche' "not a lawyer," but I used to produce radio commercials for a couple few attorneys. This one husband and wife law team switched from divorce to handling injury accident cases. When I asked why they changed, they said it was because handling divorce cases was making them lose their faith in humanity.

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    Sov Cit finally getting jailed for contempt after three years and 12 billion warnings/chances by an overly patient judge.

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    Not a lawyer but I married one. We bought a house together. She put up most of the down payment and insisted the title was 60% hers and 40% mine. When we divorced, the house was underwater by about $50,000. The judge said she should pay $30,000 and I had to pay only $20,000.

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    My brother ex-wife was fighting for high alimony for herself (this is EU) because she "couldnt work" due to medical reasons especially sick spine.

    She showed up in the court in heels xD

    Judge saw that, dropped some sarcastic comment and dismissed the application 10 minutes later.

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    Met a very rich high powered lawyer in NYC because my friend knew someone who supplied his hobby garage (he rented a whole commercial space just for his hobby of building cars from scratch)

    Apparently he had a nasty divorce from his ex wife. She personally and literally drags his name through the tabloids and gets articles in the ny post about how he bought his new playboy fiancée an engagement ring worth over $100k, but allegedly won’t pay for his daughter’s medical expenses.

    He files in court that these tabloid articles damaged his career and earning potential, so the judge slashes the ex-wife’s divorce settlement based on the damages he allegedly incurred.

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    I don’t know all the details, but a childhood neighbour wanted to divorce her husband due to a***e. 

    Took years of him dragging it out and four different lawyers fired him. After he tried running up her bills by continuously emailing her lawyer, she ended up with one the firm partners taking over the case. She had a much fairer deal through court just because he pissed her much more experienced lawyer off so much he took a pay cut.

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    I had a boss who used to cheat on his wife and she finally got tired of it. He tried to nickel and dime her during the divorce using the kid as a pawn. A couple of weeks after it went through, she said she felt lucky and bought a lottery ticket.

    You know the rest....

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    I am not sure if he deserved this but let me tell you a story. Last August my area flooded. We got a couple inches in our basement but we are renters so it wasn't that bad. Was going over my prenuptial with my lawyer, it was pretty simple because all we have is debt but I wanted to get the most out of my money so I mentioned our basement. She told me the week before her client had won the house in the divorce...and then the basement flooded. His plan was to sell it and pay his legal bills so it was a mess.

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    My ex's lawyer quit during a hearing.

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    Judge ordered hair follicle d**g testing of the opposing party after a temporary custody hearing within 72 hours. Somehow the man was diagnosed with cancer and started chemo within those 72 hours, which caused every single testable hair on his entire body to fall out. As to be expected, the judge didn't love it and he didn't even get joint legal custody.

    Two years later... Different case, new couple. The opposing party wife had an affair with the aforementioned hairless deadbeat dad (our PI really did some great cinematography when capturing all the s*x in parking lots they were having on their lunch breaks). He was still hairless two years later because he legitimately had been diagnosed with cancer...and he died months later. I wouldn't call it satisfying because he had young children, but it is some real karma.

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    My ex was sure that moms always get the schools and held out for school control, refused to compromise on a school in the middle between us. That's why we couldn't mediate. She took us to court on it assuming she'd win.

    The judge understood perfectly and I control the schools now.

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    One of my friends is a lawyer and he told me about a particular case where the woman was having an affair after only 1 year of marriage (total 4 year relationship) and they had 1 kid together. The husband was heartbroken and depressed because apparently the woman threaten to not let him see his kid anymore and wanted full custody and make him pay ton of money. Little did she know that after the husband found out she was cheating he started recording (secretly) all their interactions which included one particular video of her discussing how to financially ruin him with her lover in their own house when he wasn't home. One of the tactics was accusing him for a***e.

    This man was cunning af tho, they went to divorce court and he let her spread all the lies and make false accusations.

    Then he and my friend dropped the evidence b**b and my friend told me he rarely seen a Judge so furious that she was barely controlling her rage. Needless to say the cheating wife got smoked and ended up losing custody and had to pay the husband alimony, he got the house too. I'm not sure but I believe the wife even got into trouble with the justice department for false accusations but I don't know what happened with that though.

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    Back when I was in law school, one of my profs had this client who was divorcing a piece of s**t. What her ex didn’t know is that she knew he committed financial fraud. And that she knew about his partner in fraud/bussiness partner who was helping him.

    The ex basically hid his money in anticipation of divorce and other shady dealings and courts don’t like that. So they gave her all money he hid. He didn’t go to jail though, but it was a real possibility

    And according to my prof she married a very handsome man afterwards.

    Edit: I feel like I should mention that she would have gotten a lot less money had her ex been honest.

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    One of my best friends has 2 disabled children. They will always need assistance but can live a good life, they are loving, bright, kind, and fun. They are happy and she is the one making it so they can have this quality of life.

    Her husband cheated, filed for divorce, and through his lawyer fought to pay no alimony, no child support, and minimal assistance with medical stuff. One of his arguments was that he never agreed to having a baby, and he told her to get an abortion when they did the tests for down's syndrome with their first. Also he said the second might not be his because she hardly had s*x with him due to the amount of time she had to spend with their first born. She never cheated. She didnt have time.

    Judge tore him a new one. Awarded way more child support than she had expected, plus alimony, plus changed his health insurance to include the kids, plus his car because she didnt have one and was ubering to everything, plus the house as they were living in an apartment while he and his Mistress kept the house. Mistress left him. Job hated him and managed him out. Family drifted away. He once told me, drunk, that she had ruined his life. Despite everything he couldn't see that he ruined it all on his own.

    Edit: reading comprehension fam. The ex wife is my best friend. He is not. At all.

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    Not a divorce lawyer, but my father spent 16 years dragging out his divorce process with my mother. When she finally won she won 50% of assets 12 years prior, with interest, and not taking into account his future losses. The judgment is so huge that he has been completely wiped out for the rest of his life. Can't even afford rent. We made sure he is housed now and he gets decent social security (Which she does not garnish) but still.

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    My dad was a real POS, not just to my mom and my siblings and I, but his attorneys through the divorce as well. Yes, plural. The first one dropped him. The second one…ok so day of court, she leaves the court room and she’s gone so long that the judge sends the bailiff to see where she went and bring her back. My mom tells us when she gets home how bad the court room smelled. Didn’t think much of it though.

    Anyway, few weeks later mom and dad have to meet to exchange keys or some final docs, dad tells my mom his attorney was so nervous about if he’d behave in court that she s**t her pants. That’s why she was gone for so long, trying to clean herself up, and that’s why it smelled in court. My dad thought the whole thing was funny. Real winner that one.

    She’s been free of him almost 15 years now and with a great guy.

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    I’m not a lawyer and this isn’t court karma but real life karma.

    When we divorced (over 30 years ago) my ex sold the house, tried to keep the kids, and lied about his income to pay the bare minimum in child support.

    I was a stay at home mom with little to no work experience. He told a mediator that I should just hand our children over to him and go live in a basement suite somewhere.

    My legal aid lawyer got me the federally mandated child support and not much more.

    I got a job, took some classes, got a better job, created a beautiful home for me and my kids, took them on vacations and built a really good life.

    Then I met a wonderful man, started a business and built an even better life.

    Today I live in a 2 million dollar home with my soul mate, travel and have a great relationship with my kids. I am living my best life.

    Guess where he is? Yep, living in a rented basement suite, no partner, no vacations and will have to continue to work well into his 70s.

    The kids spend time with him but they aren’t really close.

    Karma baby.

  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 07:00

    Cats don’t have to do much to become the center of attention. One oddly timed expression, an ambitious attempt to squeeze into a box, or a completely unprovoked burst of chaos is often enough to make them the funniest creature in the room. Even when they’re simply sitting still, they somehow manage to look dramatic, offended, majestic, or deeply suspicious.

    The Facebook page 'Cute Animal Photos To De-Stress' brings together these amusing little moments, sharing everything from mischievous kittens and sleepy cuddle sessions to grown cats caught making questionable decisions. Bored Panda has featured images shared by the page in several previous collections, covering plenty of lovable animals and, naturally, more than a few rounds dedicated entirely to cats. The photos offer a simple reminder that sometimes a brief encounter with a delightfully strange animal is all it takes to make the day feel a little lighter.

    Scroll down to enjoy another dose of feline comedy, and upvote the photos that made you smile the most. Be sure to let us know in the comments which cat captured your mood or reminded you of one you know.

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  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 06:00

    Everybody wants to feel seen. The question is how you get there, and most of us never stop to actually look at our own patterns. Maybe you chase a gold star at work. Maybe you check on everyone else before it even crosses your mind to check on yourself. Maybe you’d rather not admit how much other people’s opinions actually get to you – but they do, just a bit.

    Validation isn’t a bad word. It’s a basic human need, just like sleep and coffee. What changes from person to person is the delivery method. Some of us need an audience. Some people are wired to compete. Others just want to feel like someone actually gets it – and when that happens, it’s enough.

    This quiz digs into 27 questions and uses your answers to map out your real validation style. Not the version you’d like to think you have. The one you actually live out, day to day.

    No judgment here, only a clearer picture of yourself. Ready to find out which type you are? Go ahead and take the quiz below.

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  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 04:00

    Ah, Gen X humor. It’s its own particular brand. Drawing on life growing up in the ’70s, ’80s or ’90s, Gen X memes capture the big hair, bikes, mixtapes, and questionable parenting of it all. These latchkey kids drank from garden hoses, didn’t wear helmets, and rode in the back of pickup trucks.

    And somehow, despite all that, they made it to adulthood to share in these hilarious memes. If you’re one of them (and even if you’re not), stick around for a roundup of some of our favorite memes from Gen X Humor over on Instagram. Get ready to have a few core memories unlocked because together, they’re basically a highlight reel of your childhood: chaotic, unsupervised, and somehow better for it.

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    Less famous than the baby boomers before them and the millennials after them, Generation X, or Gen X, is sometimes referred to as the “forgotten generation,” “slacker generation,” or the “forgotten middle child.” To be clear, they’re the folks born between 1965 and 1980—but if those dates don’t mean much to you, Forbes contributor Angela Woo paints a clearer picture.

    She explains that a large number of Gen Xers grew up as latchkey kids—coming home to an empty house because both parents worked, or because their parents had split up. On the tech side, Woo points out that this generation watched ATMs become mainstream, entered the workforce right around the dot-com era, carried around those massive suitcase-sized cell phones, and hit adulthood right as the internet started becoming a normal part of daily life.

    Globally, many Gen Xers also lived through major political shifts. They saw the Berlin Wall come down, the Cold War end, communism collapse, and apartheid end in South Africa—all this, Woo explains, “to a backdrop of grunge and disillusionment.”

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    Nowadays, even though many from this generation are at the height of their careers, with homes and families of their own, Woo notes that they’re still overlooked in mainstream conversation: “We’ve watched the culture interest shift from boomers to millennials like we’re a flyover state.”

    Sure, Woo was talking about this in terms of marketing conversation, where she argues Gen Xers have “faded into near obscurity,” but the Pew Research Center also said as much in 2014 when they dubbed Gen X America’s “neglected ‘middle child.’”

    Sandwiched between the far larger baby boomer and millennial generations, Pew explained, “Gen Xers are a low-slung, straight-line bridge between two noisy behemoths.”

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    And that same pattern plays out online too. Because while anyone who’s ever spent some time online has probably seen the phrase “OK boomer” or heard about how “cringy” millennials are, here too, Business Insider’s Andrew Lloyd explains, Gen X has “largely been left to their own devices.”

    It’s fitting, really. The same generation raised to fend for itself is now doing exactly that on the internet. They’re carving out corners to revel in jokes inspired by their collective experience—and their particular brand of wry comedy, Lloyd explains, “is quietly thriving online.”

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    One such corner is the Instagram page whose memes we’re sharing here today: Gen X Humor. The page delivers exactly what its name promises—entertaining its 119K followers with memes that are frighteningly accurate and just as funny. Through a mix of text-only and text-and-image formats, the page nails what it was actually like growing up in the ’70s, ’80s, and ’90s.

    It showcases the kind of humor Lloyd describes when he talks about how Gen Xers “make light of their independent childhoods where they roamed unsupervised, highlight their resilience and sarcasm, and share memories of firm parenting methods.”

    And if, as Business Insider contributor Rebecca Knight puts it, for this generation, “cynicism is a love language,” it’s precisely this language Gen X Humor speaks fluently.

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    As Karen Morgan, a touring comedian and Gen Xer born in 1965, explained to Business Insider, Gen X comedy lands because it’s “keenly observational and nostalgic,” with a tone that’s often sarcastic and self-deprecating. The jokes don’t just romanticize the past or recycle nostalgia. They often acknowledge that growing up as a Gen Xer could be chaotic, confusing, or even unsafe. But they’re told with enough distance and self-awareness to make people laugh instead of wince.

    And that’s part of why these Gen X memes hit so close to home for their audience. They don’t rely on internet trends or niche modern-day references but rather on shared lived experience. If you remember making mixtapes, memorizing phone numbers, or being told simply to “be back before dark,” the joke usually lands before you’ve finished reading it.

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    In this sense, while the subject matter of the meme or joke can vary, one theme keeps surfacing: pride in how and when this generation grew up—kids who were, as Morgan puts it, left to fend for themselves at early ages, with “very little supervision and coddling” from their parents. And while Morgan acknowledges that some younger generations might find the idea of this kind of upbringing “alien and unfunny” (to put it mildly), she sees it differently.

    Rather, she says, “Our feral childhoods made us strong, independent people with a good sense of humor.”

    And maybe that’s the real throughline here. Gen X didn’t get the cultural spotlight boomers and millennials have enjoyed, but they never seemed to mind. They’re still doing what they’ve always done: finding the humor in life and sharing it. This time, one meme at a time. And like Lloyd says, “they don’t care if you don’t get the joke.”

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  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 04:00

    Every now and then, life hands people a problem that didn’t come with an instruction manual.

    For example, someone was at a total loss after leaving a metal pot on a plastic trash can, only for the sun to melt a chunk right out of it. Another person had a nightmare roommate who left behind a solid block of dried concrete under the bed on his way out.

    But before pulling out their credit cards to spend hundreds of dollars on replacements, these people turned to Reddit for a Hail Mary fix.

    Some users offered surprisingly practical step-by-step solutions, while others cracked jokes to help make light of a hopeless situation. After all, when dozens of people tell you something can’t be fixed, it either helps you accept defeat or gives you the drive to prove them wrong.

    Scroll through the list… you might just learn a genius trick to save an item you can’t let go of.

    #1 Lg 60” TV Turning Blue – Fixed It Myself For £30 Instead Of Replacing It

    My LG 60UM7100PLB started developing a blue tint. At first I only really noticed it when taking photos and the TV was in the background, but once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it. The TV is built into a media wall with a cutout made specifically for a 60 inch screen. I planned to replace it, only to realise that hardly anyone even makes 60 inch TVs anymore. To make things worse, every repair shop I contacted quoted almost the same price as buying a new TV. After doing some digging, I found out this is a pretty common issue with these models. Apparently the backlight LEDs degrade over time due to substandard components used by the manufacturer, which causes the blue tint. So I decided to have a go at fixing it myself. I ordered replacement backlights from eBay for £30 (about $40) and followed a few YouTube tutorials. All in, it took me about two hours — and it actually worked. Picture is back to normal and I’m absolutely over the moon.

    © Photo: bunburgerbun

    #2 Hot Pot Melted Into Trashcan. How Do I Get It Out?

    Earlier today, my mom put a hot pan onto the trashcan. It's now melted into the top and I haven't been able to find a solution that would fix this very rare issue. Thanks in advance for any suggestions!

    ihatewinter204:

    Put a sign on it that says ONLY THE WORTHY CAN LIFT THIS POT. Then wait.

    © Photo: barbsrock

    #3 Glass Table Top Stuck To Floor

    MIL has had this glass table top under the bed in the main bedroom for years, it’s an alternate larger top for a table in the house. Quite heavy. It’s been there now so long we believe it may have almost ‘suctioned’ to the floor. Any suggestions on how to remove it? Yes we know to remove the stuff on it first (painting the room)

    CptMisterNibbles:

    Floss it. No really

    © Photo: YulRun

    It’s no secret that the number one reason people try to fix something themselves is to save money. Calling a professional for a basic plumbing leak can cost anywhere between $150 and $800 in the US.

    In a 2026 survey by Today’s Homeowner, 82% of US homeowners said at least one area of the home needs maintenance, and 59% are putting off repairs because they can’t afford them.

    Also, with the rising cost of living, more people are trying to repair broken items instead of replacing them with a new purchase.

    #4 Did Someone Try To Burglarize Me?

    Just saw these window this way when I was washing it. I didn’t notice these last time I came out a month ago. Did someone try to pry the window open with a crowbar?

    avalisk:

    Put some toddler toys in your yard, that way everybody knows all your good stuff is already broken

    © Photo: jchasinga

    #5 Need Some Hints On How To Fix This. It Used To Work But Recently Has Become Very Unreliable

    pew42:

    Boris Johnson please quit search answers in reddit

    © Photo: boli99

    #6 Went To Put The Glass Back In The Patio Table And It Doesn’t Fit

    I’m guessing the table is wrought iron. It and the chairs are pretty heavy. We’ve had this set for years now, always kept covered and outside during New England winters. But this year, when we went to put the glass back in, it seemed to shrink?? I took a softish bristle wire brush, then a blower, then soap and a rag to clean off where the glass sits. So it not debris in the way. It seems like the table actually did shrink. And now I’m in trouble of course. My wife likes to bring all this trash into the basement during the winter, but I hate the mess in the basement. So I won the battle, but it seems the war may be lost. Please help!


    ohmslaw54321:

    Rotate the glass 90 degrees and try again. The table might not be exactly square.

    © Photo: rumhammr

    Every time someone decides to fix a broken item, the planet also gets to celebrate a little win. It helps reduce waste, conserve natural resources, and shrinks our carbon footprint.

    According to official data, repairable goods waste in the US — such as electronics, appliances, and furniture — contributes millions of tons to landfills annually.

    In Europe, it creates 35 million tons of waste and over 260 million tons of greenhouse gas emissions annually.

    #7 Cracked Wall During Neighbors Remodeling

    We live in a townhouse and the neighbors next door are doing a full remodeling. We just noticed some cracks in the wall in the attic and in one of them you can actually see through. There are no bricks or anything like that and it just looks like drywall and plaster to me but I don’t have a lot of knowledge on this. We are contacting our insurance and their contractors and such but in the event they tell us to kick rocks and we have to fix it ourselves… what’s the best way to approach this? Thank you!

    State_Dea:

    That damage was caused by the ceiling settling,,, this WAS NOT caused by someone hitting it from the other side. My guess is they removed a support structure and the downward pressure pushed your wall out. Get an expert to look at this,,, RIGHT NOW unless a support system is put back in place the issue will get much worse.. even dangerous

    © Photo: sukene

    #8 Previous Owners Cut This Hole In The Tub For Accessibility. Any Ideas On How To Fix, Or At Least Get A Door Or Something On?

    CaptMeatPockets:

    Just wait 35 years and it’ll be useful for you

    © Photo: cptvere

    #9 Broke Glass While Cleaning For Move Out In 32 Hours

    While struggling to remove baby lock off a glass cabinet, I broke the glass. I’m freaking out. I move out in 32 hours and have spent hours getting this place in tip top shop to get my deposit back. Can I fix this? Is it worth it? How would I go about fixing it? Please help, I need the deposit back.

    xrmttf:

    Take off the door and take it with you to a window repair shop They should be able to cut glass and install it while you wait

    © Photo: dowoma

    To combat the throwaway culture, lawmakers in the European Union have introduced new Right-to-Repair regulations. They aim to make spare parts more affordable and repairs easier, as well as extend the lifespan of everyday products.

    “At the most basic level, we want to fix our relationship with the products we buy. This means regaining the confidence to repair products when they break and reconnecting with the ‘why’ this should be a priority,” says Ugo Vallauri, co-founder of The Restart Project in the UK.

    “We can all extend the lifespans of the products we own and appreciate the environmental impact of the materials involved in production.”

    #10 Please Help

    We are renting and currently moving out and just discovered this awful damage.

    One of the metal legs under my bed broke and was dangling and we must’ve moved the bed not knowing it was dangling and it scratched the HELL out of the floor. Gah.

    It’s laminate flooring if that helps at all.

    TeamFast77:

    The damage deposit is going to come into play here. There's no fixing those planks. They must be replaced.

    © Photo: Clear_Lawfulness_656

    #11 I Broke My Girlfriend’s Special Glass Display Cover. Is It Over?

    The other piece is one chunk if that helps.

    ac54:

    It’s a cake cover. Buy a new one.

    © Photo: SAMMYBOY4593

    #12 Found Out My Back Door Does This When It Rains (I Live In A Basement Apartment) How Can I Fix This?

    spazmcgraw:

    Tell the landlord, have them fix it.

    © Photo: ReginaBicman

    Saving money and helping the planet are great perks, but DIY fixes offer an even bigger reward. Research shows that fixing something with your own hands boosts your mood, builds confidence, and lifts your mental well-being.

    Taking a wrench to a leaky garden hose or supergluing a broken mug handle triggers your brain’s natural reward system. That sudden hit of dopamine turns a potential headache into a proud victory.

    #13 Chair Bent From Someone Sitting. How Can I Fix It?

    My chair is bent from someone heavy sitting in it. I have taken it apart and tried heating up the elbows to square it again. I tried boiling hot water, using a lighter, and a hammer. Nothing I tried made the metal budge. Any tips? I have another chair for comparison to show how it’s not square.

    triumph_over_machine:

    Have them sit in the other chair so they match.

    © Photo: pastelpaintbrush

    #14 It’s Been Folded Since 1969. How Do I Get Rid Of The Creases Without Ruining It?

    My mom suggested ironing, but I’m a little leery of trying that. Other than piling a bunch of books on top of it, are there any good suggestions?

    kspice094:

    Archivist here. Put it under a towel and gently iron it on high heat with steam, moving the iron constantly, until the creases give way. This will probably take 1-2 minutes. Remove the towel. Find something flat (like a book) that’s bigger than the print and lay that flat thing on top of the print for 48 hours.

    © Photo: omlesna

    #15 Insulation Guy Tacked Right Through This Brand New Roof. How Can I Fix This?

    Learned my lesson about going with the cheapest guy who was begging for work.

    lickitysplit56:

    Roofer Here. Temporary fix for this would be Henrys Roof Cement. You can find it in the roofing section at your home depot. It will be a blue tube with a Yellow head. Safely climb up and put a small dab around each location. Permenant fix would be to pull the affected shingles and use a hammer to smash the tabs down. Replace the few shingles affected. voila

    © Photo: ecwworldchampion

    Fixing things is also a form of active meditation. When you’re busy glued to your phone or TV, your mind constantly wanders. But when you’re forced to focus on replacing a broken seal or sanding down a rough edge, your brain shifts into total concentration.

    Studies have found that this kind of immersive focus lowers stress hormones and leaves you feeling surprisingly calm.

    #16 Demon Roommate Left Concrete Under His Bed After Being Asked To Leave

    Any cleaning tips for this? I really don't want to have to replace the whole carpet

    3HisthebestH:

    Why is no one saying take him to court? Take this a—hole to small claims. Easily 5k in your favor. Done.

    ladymorgahnna:

    Do you have a large closet with the same carpet you can patch here? Then just recarpet the closet with a new piece? I’m so sorry that someone so mean did this. The immaturity I see posted on Reddit is beyond me, sometimes.

    © Photo: Terrible-Target-4031

    #17 Fiance Sprayed Bug Spray In Oven Clock Hole, Oven Now Doesn't Work But Stove Top Does. How Do I Fix It?!

    This is the stupidest post I have ever had to make but here we are. Happened as the title says, there was a break in the clock face before but he cut a bigger opening into the clock and sprayed bug spray in the clock hole to get rid of a gnat while I was at work. The stove top burners still work but the oven won't turn on. We live with his cousins and they're expecting us to pay for a whole new oven if I can't fix it. Help me!


    OppositeSupport9498:

    Get a new fiancé.


    Flint_Westwood:

    You do not personally have the ability to fix this stove. Call a local appliance repair shop and get a quote. You will probably spend less money replacing it. Sorry for your loss.

    © Photo: GlassStain

    #18 Kid Cleaned Stainless Steel Fridge With An Abrasive Sponge

    How do I fix this? It’s really bad, the pictures don’t do it justice. Can I get it smooth again?

    Help! mbb1989:

    Polish it? Maybe use a fine grit and go in a uniform direction to at least even the pattern

    Bright-Ad4601:

    Get into magnet collecting.

    © Photo: onlytruth306

    The mental perks of fixing things also last a lifetime.

    A study by the Mayo Clinic found that people who regularly did hands-on crafts like woodworking, sewing, and manual repairs were 45% less likely to develop memory loss as they aged.

    “Our team found that persons who performed these activities at least one to two times per week had less cognitive decline than those who engaged in the same activities only two to three times per month or less,” says Yonas Geda, M.D., psychiatrist and behavioral neurologist at Mayo Clinic’s Arizona campus.

    #19 Generational Rocking Horse Slammed Down To The Floor And The Legs Snapped

    Hi there. My toddler knocked over his rocking horse and the legs snapped with the impact. This is something that we wanted to hand down for generations. Please tell me if there is a fix for this? And if so, what would it be. The position of the snap, I think, would allow for gluing and clamping.I just don't know if that would be adequate.

    Scalzoc:

    If you truly expect it to last generations, I would suggest you take to someone who repairs wood furniture professionally. Any DIY fix you do is likely to be temporary.

    © Photo: o0jeannie0o

    #20 New Oven Handle Hits Drawer

    We got a new oven to have all new appliances for selling our house. We didn’t realize till to late that the stupid spice drawer would hit this massive handle. Any thoughts on how to fix this? Or just hope no one notices?

    devandroid99:

    I would very cut out an appropriate section of the drawer to allow it to clear the handle, then glue that section to the cabinet face so it clears when opening and looks more or less closed (use a coping saw) when... closed.

    © Photo: Pharmdpositivek

    #21 How Can I Fix These Wrinkles In My New Oven?

    Used less than 5 times!

    fruitmask:

    This is one of those things that you fix by getting your money back. I don't even know wtf I'm looking at, but I'd bet my extended warranty that it's not fixable

    © Photo: National_Problem_335

    At the end of the day, a successful DIY project gives you way more than just a fixed household item. Every time you tackle a tricky repair, you learn a new skill and sharpen your problem-solving abilities.

    So, the next time something breaks in your home, embrace the mess, ask for help, and give it a go — you might just surprise yourself with what you can accomplish.

    #22 Installer Dropped The Shower Glass Door On The Corner And Chipped It. Is It Safe To Use And How To Cover It Up If Yes?

    Installer dropped the glass causing the chip as in the picture. Is it compromised? If not, any ideas on how to cover it up?

    WALLY_5000:

    Tempered glass is more prone to shatter when chipped like this. A hot shower on a cold day might be all it takes to set it off. They need to replace it.

    © Photo: No-Pomegranate3162

    #23 My Roommate Knocked A Giant Bottle Of Laundry Detergent On The Carpet. This Is After We Wiped Up As Much As We Could With Paper Towels. How Do We Fix? Help?!?!?

    keepinitoldskool:

    Water and a shop vac. Or rent one of those rug doctors, just don't add soap to it. Laundry detergent isn't such a pain in the bum to clean up because it doesn't foam up much.

    © Photo: compiledexploit

    #24 Husband Accidentally Used Harsh Cleaner On Copper Sink With 15 Years Of Patina

    My family’s lakehouse has a copper sink that’s been here for 15 years. My husband wanted to help clean up as we have been staying here for several days. He wasn’t thinking, and used a lime away cleaner. The water here is very hard, and has a lot of lime that builds on the metal here. My husband is freaking out and panicked that he beefed this up beyond repair. The patina on the sink was very dark, as you can see on the sides of the sink. My dad has never cleaned the sink to be shiny like some people have their copper sinks, and he has preferred it to be dark. Can this be fixed?

    PetriDishCocktail:

    It will get fixed... Just give it a year or two. Seriously, a sink is meant to be used. The patina is going to ebb and grow and change overtime with use.

    guff1988:

    Probably won't even take that long, there's oxygen in the water there's oxygen in the air. Copper oxides will form very quickly.

    © Photo: _jtwell

    #25 To Everyone Who Said It Wasn’t Worth Fixing And I Should Just Buy A New One

    You were probably right. Between the wheel, primer, paint, hardware and way too much time and labor, the repairs cost a little over $100. But, I was committed to fixing it and I always like having a little project to work on.

    It isn’t perfect but it wasn’t supposed to be. I had originally intended to sand it down to bare metal but after like an hour I said screw that. I knocked back most of the worst rust and then lightly sanded all the other areas for better paint adhesion. The pitting was worse than I thought but not as bad as it looks (probably)

    On the tub, 2 coats of clean metal primer (because I bought it when I thought I was going to have clean metal) 2 coats of paint and 1 coat of clear rubberized coating.

    For the other parts, I used whatever left over spray paints I had in my shed (hence the different colors)

    After all is said and done, I was pretty happy with the outcome and it’s been doing a fine job of wheelbarrowing since

    © Photo: coltd89

    #26 The 1 Stone In The Facade Of My House Is Crumbling. What Do I Do About It?

    needtopickbettername:

    That's just an unstable piece of sandstone. It happens. It's not wood. It's not sucking up water. I forget the term for it but it's just a rock that shouldn't have been used in your wall in the first place. Get a mason to remove and replace it. If you're not married to the idea of another piece of sandstone, there are many different rocks to choose from. And stop playing with it! Hair will grow on your palms.

    © Photo: vshawk2

    #27 Does Anybody Know What Would Cause This Water Jug To Do This ? This Is My 10th Jug And This Is The First Time This Has Happened

    aviwrekz:

    There is a clog in the airline... You typically would get a glugluglug after dispensing water, which I'm sure you are not. Needs to be cleaned

    © Photo: Indy500Fan16

    #28 How To Remove These Two Glasses Without Breaking One Of Them

    I accidentally put my glass inside the 1L mug not thinking too much of it. Little did I know, the two glasses got stuck to each other. I love these 2 glasses a lot and really want to separate them without having to destroy either one of them. I've tried hot/cold water and dish soap, both to no avail.

    Narrow-Height9477:

    Add a few drops of cooking oil around the rim of the wine glass. Swirl it around all the edges. Put stein into warm water while holding base of wine glass. Hold it so the base of the stein is an inch above the bottom of your pan/sink in the water bath. You want the water warm enough to expand the glass of the stein but not so hot as to thermally shock and shatter it.

    © Photo: circanvicta

    #29 This Stupid Thing Beeps Even After Changing Battery. Why?!?! Am I Supposed To Do Something More?

    wdcpdq:

    CO monitors expire. There should be a date on the back. 5 years maybe? If it’s expired, you’ll need a new one.

    © Photo: playadefaro

    #30 Room Smells Like Foul Eggs, How To Seal Hole?

    Hey everyone. I just moved and it seems when I don't open the windows for a couple hours, the rooms starts to smell like foul eggs. I suspect that it might come from the heating pipes (somehow) and id like to seal the hole in the floor off in an airtight, while still being able to remove the seal once I move out. Do you guys have any idea on how to achieve this or what other causes might there be? (I currently live in the Netherlands) Looking forward to your advice :)

    DingoBingo1654:

    Gas leak smells like foul eggs. Are you sure there is no gas leak nearby?

    © Photo: SchokoBaroni

    #31 Landlord's Table. What Can I Do? How Screwed Am I? Coin For Scale

    Philks_85:

    Slide that coin over two inches to the right, problem solved.

    © Photo: Electrical_Peace_292

    #32 My Little Sis Changed The Code Of My Suite Case And Now She Forgot, I Have To Leave In 1 Hr What To Do? And There Are No Shops Nearby!

    BS-75_actual:

    Pretty easy to hack the combination; shine a light into the number wheels or insert a sharp object, line up the gates and rotate all three simultaneously until it unlocks

    © Photo: ArgumentPristine1594

    #33 GF Was Cooking Her Dog Food And Left The Hot Skillet On My Counter/Cutting Board. We Are Renting... Anyway To Fix This?

    TwitterJackBNimble:

    Need to sand it and apply finish.

    © Photo: pawnbroker00

    #34 How Do I Go About Repairing This Door?

    My ex-stepdad broke this in one of his violent temper tantrums. He’s been gone for years, but I never learned building or repairing or anything like that. How would I go about fixing this for my mom? It’s in her room and I feel bad she’s had to keep looking at it every day.

    Anonymous:

    You replace it. its a hollow core door. You can get a slab door and remove hardware and use the old door as a template. OR you can get a whole pre-hung door and frame. remove trim and remove old frame. Install, shim and level door frame and replace door trim.

    © Photo: Agitated-Telephone62

    #35 Samsung Washer Full Of Smoke After Cycle

    Opened my 15 year old Samsung front loader after a wash cycle and found it full of smoke. Not good, obviously. Any idea what would cause this? Worth trying to fix myself? Worth paying a technician? Or time for a new washer? FWIW, this is after I had the door open for 30 seconds or so. It was initially even more smoky!

    michaelz08:

    Have you put the model number into google? Around 2016 Samsung was recalling washers for fire hazards.

    © Photo: ChainsawMassacrePGH

    #36 Would This Be Why My Clothes Take 2+ Cycles To Dry? What To Do?

    Potential_Fishing942:

    I don't know, but seems like you're on you're way to a house fire.

    © Photo: jinx771

    #37 I Stupidly Fell Over My Somewhat New Dishwasher And Dented It. Now It Won't Close. Is This Salvageable?

    SnooSquirrels8280:

    It’ll leak forever every time you use it if you do manage to close it. Get a replacement door. Hopefully you’re okay.

    © Photo: mabbzie3

    #38 Skin Tones In Particular Appearing Turquoise On TV (Ps4 Connected Through Hdmi Cable)

    Hi! From what I can tell online this is most likely due to the HDMI cord so I will try replacing it. Just wanted to check if you guys had any further suggestions to explore if this doesn't work? We don't really have the money for a new TV and even less so a new PlayStation...... :( The TV is a Samsung, unsure of model will check and update if I can find it!

    thisisAgador:

    FIXED IT! (can't edit my original post sorry) Just sharing for anyone who experiences the same issue in future - I "power cycled" the TV, which varies a bit in terms of how the internet says to do it but what I did was: Unplugged the power source while the TV was on Pressed and held down the power button on the TV for ~10 seconds Left the TV unplugged for half an hour or so Plugged it back in and turned on again - all seems fine!

    © Photo: thisisAgador

    #39 Quoted $14,000 To Fix. Is This Correct?

    Hello! I’m not entirely sure if I’m in the right sub but I’d like to know if this quote is correct. A relative of mine owns a roofing company and the contractors that he works with are telling him his workers broke a window. They stated that one of his workers dropped a tape measure and as it was falling “the wind blew it” and hit this window on the 18th floor. The building has 20 floors in total. The contractors are now quoting him $14,000 for the window but I’d like to see if the quote is correct before he forks over the money. I only have one photo of the window and I’m unable to get photos myself as I live states away. If more photos are needed I’ll try to get more from him. Thank you.

    theteedo:

    I’m a commercial glazier and replace windows in high rises often. I can’t tell from the picture but it looks like the window is glazed from the outside. If this is a case you have to setup a swing stage to access it (or use the permanent stage if the building has one). The cost of rigging a swing stage is not cheap. Then it’s the labour and materials. A hurricane rated window is going to be much more expensive than a regular heat strengthened double pane window. This is most likely triple glazed and the outer layer is laminated. Those are not cheap windows to manufacture. Now is the window into regular pressure plate and cap? Or is it a silicone capture style curtain wall? That matters a lot as the process are different and you have to use specialized materials to bond the new window to the frame. This is a two part mixed product that cures almost fully in 10-15mins. Or you use regular structural silicone and have to come back in a few days to remove the clips holding the window in, then seal those holes. I work in a different country so standards are different and I’m not sure about the costs in Florida but you would be surprised with how much a replacement can cost in a tower. Not sure if this helped but here’s some more Information anyway. If you Post more pictures I could get a better ideas on how it’s glazed.

    © Photo: Inevitable_Flower326

    #40 Just Moved In And Made A Lovely Design Change To My Heated Wood Floors!

    SKatieRo:

    Similar thing happened to me. Get some Restor-Finish. Rub it into the scratch with a rag and wipe off the excess. It will be waaaay less noticable.

    © Photo: Supreme_Junkie21

    #41 Cat Broke Toilet, Can It Be Fixed?

    My cat knocked a glass cup off the counter and apparently it hit the side of the toilet just right. Broke off a chunk. No damage to any areas that transport water or waste thankfully. Is reattaching the broken piece feasible? If so, any suggestions?

    Mtolivepickle:

    Replace the toilet. No ifs, and, buts, or maybes. That will cut you faster than you can imagine. It’s not worth it.

    © Photo: IntelligentTerm7914

    #42 My Two Year Old Put A Screw In The Power In Of My Guitar Amp

    How can I get this screw out? It’s wedged pretty far in.

    Financial_Put648:

    Tiny dab of hot glue on the end of a screwdriver. Once it dries, gently pull out. Like most things it's going to depend on how jammed in there it is, but I think that this is an easy fix. Edit: I see magnets popping up several points in this thread and I had considered that but the reason that I'm suggesting hot glue over the magnets is that as somebody who's done a lot of computer repair I never use magnetized screwdrivers out of fear of ruining a hard drive. I'm not an expert on musical instruments but I'm not trying to get a magnet near the amp if it can potentially mess something up. Now maybe that's just me being overly cautious and maybe there's no actual risk of the magnetism but that is why I recommended the hot glue was out of potential fear of the unknown.

    © Photo: AuntiLou

    #43 What Could Cause My Glasses To Come Out Of My Near-New Dishwasher Like This?

    Hi all, I bought a new Bosch 3 series dishwasher last year and I'm finding it's not really cleaning the glasses well. I've cleaned the filter but it hasn't made a difference. What could be causing this please? My wife insists on using a natural dishwashing powder but I doubt that's the issue? Any guidance would be super helpful!

    Late-Stage-Dad:

    Try using CLR on one of the glasses. If it comes clean it is calcium build up from the hard water. If it doesn't, then it's etching from using too much or the wrong kind of soap. If your dishwasher has "Crystal dry" try running a cycle without it. We have hard water, but we also have a softener. We found out we were using too much detergent (we needed about half as much) and our glasses and pyrex bowls were getting etched. Also read the manual for correct loading techniques.

    © Photo: Too_kewl_for_my_mule

    #44 We Painted Our House And I Hate It

    To make a long story short, I was having a hard time picking out colors and I was rushed for time. Our house was a pale yellow with faded blue gray shutters beforehand, so it is better, but I still hate it. I need some feedback, does it look okay? Does it look bad or good? How can I make it not look so outdated?

    Venaalex:

    I think it's really cheery. I wouldn't have done the garage doors though, can you paint those back white?

    © Photo: FutureMrs0918

    #45 Help! My Ring Is Stuck On My Index Finger And Soap/Oil Isn't Working

    My ring is stuck on my index finger and soap/water isn't working, it's starting to swell. Any advice to get it off quickly would be a lifesaver!

    No_Equivalent_4412:

    Don’t pull on it, it will make the swelling worse. Rotate only. You might need to get the ring cut off at this point though

    © Photo: Desperate-Health3504

    #46 Can Anyone Help Me With These? I’d Prefer Fixing Them Myself But I Have No Idea How

    imasaxman:

    All these comments telling you to clean are avoiding the real issue here. That's water hammer and that can occur at any pressure. But because your T&P is also leaking I'm inclined to say your PRV has failed. Get a pressure reader from home Depot and test it. It should be in the 55-65 range, give or take. If it's 80+, it's likely the PRV has failed and needs to be replaced. Most plumbing issues are only a symptom of a much bigger issue, so start to eliminate variables. Also, while you're at home Depot, grab some Clorox wipes and clean your damn sink. It's nasty.

    © Photo: pootie_too_good

    #47 I'm Renting A Very Expensive Place And Messed Up The Balcony, Can This Be Fixed Or Am I Screwed? :(

    Is there ANY way I can fix this? Or at least hide the damage enough to get back my deposit? I was using a charcoal BBQ chimney to heat up some coals, and after it was finished I laid it down on the balcony. I thought it was cement, but the chimney melted into the surface. I'm pretty handy so I'm willing to give anything a try, I just have no idea where to start. I don't even know what this surface actually is. :( Very upset with myself, and panicking a little. Pls help and thank you in advance if you can ❤️

    Puzzleheaded_Two9510:

    I could definitely fix it - at least enough to get the deposit back. I would carefully sand the high ridges until the ring was smooth. Then I would take a two-part epoxy putty (you can buy it at hardware stores) and carefully fill the groove in. While the epoxy is still pliable, use your fingertip and a little bit of rubbing alcohol and smooth it out. Once it cures in an hour or two, carefully sand it smooth. Then I would take some acrylic artist paints and a fine tipped brush, and I would paint the ring to match the table. It would require some experimenting/mixing to get the color perfect, but it could be done.

    © Photo: shyborn641

    #48 Help! Granite Countertop

    Please help :/

    AsYouAnswered:

    Blame your kids. If you don't have kids, blame the neighbour kids. If they don't have kids, blame the neighbour. You'll still have to pay a professional, but at least your partner or spouse won't be angry at you about it

    © Photo: _snowqueenoftexas

    #49 What Causes The Heating Element To Twist Like This?

    Previous-Parfait-999:

    Well, I haven’t seen this before

    I_Makes_tuff:

    I was curious so I did a little digging and this is the best response I found on another forum and here's a photo (that isn't nearly as bad): Bad mounting. Metal expands when it gets hot. This means that this ~2 Meter heating strip becomes ~25mm longer per 100 degree rise in temperature. When you have a steel tube fixed in two points and make it longer by heating it, something must give. Either the mounting must allow the expansion or the tube will bend. These steel tubes contain heat conducting ceramic sand an a resistive wire for that carries the heating current. This wire is coiled to allow for bending and expansion. However, when the bending radius is too tight, or a thermal cycling pumping effect moves the sand away, you will get a short circuit. However, since everything expands and contracts by heat the short may not become noticeable until the heater gets to a certain temperature. When designing mounting for heaters like this there may only be one rigid point. All other mounts must allow for sliding or other movement to give room to the expansion. (the clicking noises in your oven) The reason for this element to fail is probably the horizontal mounting bar in the middle. It provided too much rigidity causing the element to buckle.

    © Photo: CryptographerIcy31

    #50 Help Get These Off

    My daughter decided to draw little body less people on the couch. Pretty sure it's a faux leather of some sort. I have tried rubbing alcohol, shaving cream, and even micellar water. I tried them on other smaller spots and they're just a little lighter. Rubbing alcohol definitely worked the best but it's still very much there.

    CYPH3R_22:

    I buy the all purpose kitchen cleaner from the dollar store and a tooth brush. Works great. It’ll take you about 30 seconds and $5. Don’t brush too hard or it’ll be super clean then you’ll have to clean the rest of the seat to match lol

    © Photo: ChainNo7042

    #51 Best Long-Lasting Fix?

    Heyo, I'm a uni student and I got my bedframe secondhand. A few days ago it finally ended up snapping. Anyone got any ideas for a long-lasting fix? I really like this bed so I'd prefer not to have to replace it, plus I don't have much money lol. I've stabilized it with a few textbooks my friend isn't using in the meantime.

    CU-tony:

    Turn the frame around so the broken side is against the wall. Support with bricks, books, whatever and deal with it for a few more months until you can move out and toss that broken frame.

    © Photo: jindoe0

    #52 My Dishwasher Barely Doesn't Fit. Any Ideas On How To Make It Possible?

    I bought a new dishwasher and its like 0.3cm away from fitting perfectly. I was thinking to remove this metal side until i saw it has a seal which goes to the door. Any ideas help

    stylezLP:

    Does it have feet for levelling? Can you remove/unscrew the feet?

    © Photo: Puzzleheaded-Being75

    #53 This Water Heater Only Fills 1/4 Bathtub Before Running Cold

    bootsboys:

    Drain all the sludge out of that mofo

    © Photo: Twig_Scampi

    #54 Help! Drain Snake Snapped In Two And I Can't Get The Drain Cover Off. It's The Only Shower In The House And Guests Are Arriving Tomorrow!

    Not sure if that's even called a drain cover, but that metal piece doesn't come off easily. Do I need to use more force? Twist or pull? Will it damage the bathtub if I take it out? It has no visible screws. Google only gave me results for removing a drain "stopper" (none of which looked remotely like mine) so I wasn't sure how to proceed.

    SheWhoSweatsGl1tt3r:

    OP - I broke one of those off in my tub. I used needle nose pliers to remove the broken plastic from the drain. I also pulled up about 2 lbs of hair with it.

    © Photo: Li5y

    #55 Accidentally Set Hot Cast Iron On (Granite?) Countertop. Any Ideas On How To Fix?

    Any advice would be helpful

    onlythecrooked:

    That is a composite top. You should be able to find a composite worktop fitter to come and fix it or find what they call a 'magic man' to come and touch it up with dyes, sanding and a seale

    © Photo: TheForNoReason

    #56 My Garlic Press Is Assembled Incorrectly

    The 2 parts are assembled incorrectly and one part needs to be rotated for the press to work. To do that, I need to remove the 'screw' thing. I tried unscrewing it with a tiny allen key but it does not work. I (softly) tried to hammer it out but also cannot get I to move. Can I fix this or do I need to buy a new one?

    MisterProfGuy:

    Are you quite sure it doesn't go the flat way to press the garlic and then the nubby way to clean it?

    © Photo: erik530

    #57 Landlord Wants Me To Pay For Tile Repair

    About 10 ceramic floor tiles in my NYC apartment have been gradually loosening and cracking over the past couple years. Is this considered normal wear and tear or an issue with the installation? Landlord wants me to pay for tile replacement, although it doesn’t seem fair considering I have never done anything with the tiles other than walking on them as normal.

    Full_Recognition6230:

    Not your problem at all, as the others said it is 100% from poor instalation. Knock on it. I bet it sounds hollow. 25 year tile installer.

    © Photo: bgesaman

    #58 We Rent, The Landlord Won’t Do Anything About The Weird Peeling Countertops. What Can I I Do To Cover This While I Live Here?

    The whole counter is covered in whatever this is, it’s a nightmare to clean and if any food gets stuck on it and we try to scrape it off, more of this grey stuff comes off. It’s so stressful. Any help or ideas would be most welcome.

    No-Guarantee-6249:

    How big an area do you have to cover? Depending I'd say buy a large cutting board and mount it over that counter. I'm thinking of an under rim that would keep it from sliding around. The plastic stuff is high density polyethylene (HDPE) and there are industrial sources.

    © Photo: trulymadlybigly

    #59 My House Sweats Like Crazy During The Winter And It’s Causing Mold.. Please Help!!

    My house is BRAND new, literally finished construction in August of 2024. I live in the Midwest so of course it gets very cold in the winter. Last year, the windows of our house were sweating so badly every time the outside temp was under 30°f that water was pooling up on the windowsills and we called the construction company (we were still under new build warranty) and they told us to always have the house fan running and to turn on our ceiling fans. That worked for a time and the condensation wasn’t as bad after that. It started to warm up shortly after and we didn’t have anymore issue. Flash forward to this past week, it’s been in the negatives here. There is SO much condensation on my windows that mold is starting to grow, our curtains are freezing stuck to the glass in some rooms, and it’s attracting gnats somehow?! I don’t even know where the hell they’re coming from with the weather like this. I’m constantly cleaning and I feel so so so disgusted with all this going on, what can I do to fix it? Please help!

    engineeringmanager69:

    Had the same issue. Insulation was not enough around the window and caused the window and walls tho sweat. Had to rip out the drywall around the window and windowsill and replace with much better and thicker insulation. Have not had an issue since. Yes and trickle helps too

    © Photo: BelleSchu

    #60 Heeelppppp I Have Till Friday To Fix This

    bucobill:

    This is caused from putting tile on drywall in a wet environment. You need concrete backer boards. Then retile. Good luck.

    © Photo: rollingswirls

    #61 Bathroom Door Is Jammed By Unknown Object On The Other Side

    HELP!! I was sitting in my living room and all of the sudden I hear 3-4 huge bangs. It sounded like the house was falling down. I looked everywhere and didn’t see anything until I went in my bedroom and the bathroom door was shut. When I went to open it, the door handle moves like normal but I cannot open the door (it doesn’t budge at all). There’s no other way to get in because the tiny window attached is locked. I went outside to see if I could see what is jamming it but the blinds were closed. I’m thinking that the glass shower door fell off and somehow wedged the door shut. The hinges of the bathroom door are on the inside so I cannot go that route and I tried looking under the door but there’s less than a cm of space. Does anyone have ANY ideas on how I can get this darn door open without busting it down? I appreciate any help in advance.

    seizuriffic:

    You don't have to destroy the door in this situation. Use a pry bar to pull off the trim around the door. Cut the caulk / paint with a box knife if necessary first to prevent peeling the wall paint as you pull them off. If you do it carefully you can limit the damage. The frame for most interior doors are shimmed between the frame and the 2x4 wood framing to the sides, which will give you a little bit of room to work with. Use a hacksaw or short bladed sawsall to cut the nails holding the door frame to the 2x4s and remove the shims. Check along the top of the frame for any additional nails holding it in place. At this point the only thing holding the door is the trim on the inside of the frame. With some careful pulling and your pry bar you should be able to pull the whole door frame towards you into the hall. Depending on your flooring height you may have to lift the frame a little as you pull forward. At a minimum you should be able to pull the top into the hall enough to see what happened. Once the mess is cleared up, reverse the process to reinstall the door, being careful to square up the frame before you nail it back in. A little caulk around the trim and you should be good as new.

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    #62 Wife Took A Candlelit Bath And Melted A Hole In The Shower Shelf. Any Ideas?

    Her candle placement was less than optimal and she realized after a little while she had melted a hole into the plastic shell of the shower. I don't even know where to start. Putty/Spackle, paint, then clear coat epoxy? Any other ideas?

    Patacrow:

    I used to repair these fiberglass tubs professionally. I couldn't tell you where to get your hands on the proprietary solution WE would spray but it was very similar to a boat gel coat. Lowe's/Home depot have a similar solution in cans though. As to filling the hole, get a piece of card board put a screw in it and get it inside the hole, use a two part filler and fill it in holding the cardboard firmly against the repair, allow it to cure unscrew the screw and fill the smaller hole with more filler, sand smooth and coat with the spray can tub repair stuff from a big box hardware store

    © Photo: Fuzzybutt738

    #63 How Do I Fix Moisture Marks

    I was ironing my clothes on my wooden table and ended up causing this. Please help me fix it.

    DirtGirl32:

    Put down a brown banner bag. Iron the table through the bag . Edit: Brown Paper Bag. I such at typing.

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    #64 Lino Got Damaged When Putting The Washing Machine In; How Can I Fix Before My Landlord Inspection This Weekend??

    I'm in the UK if that affects the advice lol

    BikerBoy1960:

    Get a strong friend to help you move the wash machine out, onto a clean piece of cardboard. Then, using a surgically sharp linoleum knife and a straightedge, cut out the complete square which is damaged. In the space which houses the machine, trim out an identical square, remove it, swap the two, using a clear-drying adhesive and some heavy weights to keep the pieces perfectly flat. Then move the machine into place. Then, start looking for a new place to live; he’ll find it eventually…

    © Photo: MissMagrat

    #65 I Have A Gas Stove, The Fire Wont Go Out Through The Spreader

    I cleaned my stove yesterday. I used my stove appropriately after cleaning it. Today the stove wont ignite unless I remove the lid and provide a fire directly to the gas. Once I put the lid back on, the fire wont go through the spreader. Video attached. How to fix?

    Crypt0-n00b:

    Classic sign on low pressure, probably maintenance in your area. Check if not might be a valve on your end.

    © Photo: ronrori

    #66 How Do I Get This Off My Glass? I’ve Tried Everything In This Photo (Plus Mix Of Vinegar And Dawn). It Will Not Come Off

    I need help before I lose my everloving mind. I’ve sunk sooo much $$$ into DIY and commercial products and this will not come off at all. Even tried a magic sponge. I have well water

    Chumsicle:

    Razor blade scraper to knock down the scale, then give Bio-Clean Hard Water Stain Remover a shot.

    © Photo: Mods_R_Morons

    #67 Help Me Fix Apartment Floor Damage From Bed Fame

    Dopplerganager:

    Next apartment use felt feet or something.

    PiperAce24:

    Use walnuts. Rub and basically fill in the marks as the nuts break apart. YouTube it

    © Photo: Surveyor7

    #68 Locked Inside Apartment, Help

    Hello, the door knob for my front door fell off and I literally cant get out of my apartment. Is there anything I can do or should I call the firefighters ? The knob isn’t reattaching at all and nothing I try to insert fits Edit : I managed to fix it! My roommate woke up and helped me with opening the door from the inside. The knob disconnected because the outside knob got somehow pushed all the way out, leaving the inside one with nothing to latch onto. I'm not sure what my roommate did but if she hadn't been here, this could've been fixed by having someone from the outside push the knob in. I reattached the door handle again but I'll be in contact with my landlord to get it replaced.

    builtfromscratch416:

    That should slide onto the square rod sticking out of the door. Then you tighten the little screw into the hole on handle so it "grabs" rod. If there's no square rod, it has fallen out the other side. In this case. You will see a square hole. Wedge something into the square hole (flat head screwdriver, spoon handle whatever) now turn so the square hole rotates. Probably left but whatever. Easy peasy

    © Photo: Consistent_Ninja_591

    #69 Two Ceramic Pots Perfectly Got Stuck Together😭 I’ve Tried Soaking Them, Dawn, Goo Gone. Can’t Get Them Apart, There’s A Tiny Bit Of Wiggle Room. Any Tips Without Breaking Them?

    Funkdamentalist:

    Does the top one still rotate? Could be locked in by some variation in the ridges. Perhaps you need to find the correct angle. Put a tab of tape on each pot to better visualize the relative rotation and start working your way through all 360 degrees.

    © Photo: pulldownyourplants

    #70 Right On The Bus To School, Am I Cooked

    Any solutions?

    Nesman64:

    If you close it with pins, turn it inside out when you pin it so that most of the hardware will be hidden when you turn them right side out.

    © Photo: Anti_akwardtheturtle

    #71 Candle Burned Down And Damaged The Sink Countertop. I'm Renting, How Screwed Am I?

    Jimmyjames150014:

    Buy a rattle can of gloss white appliance epoxy paint. Will last at least long enough to get your deposit back

    © Photo: FunSpongeLLC

    #72 I Didn’t Realize My Planter Had A Hole At The Bottom For A Month - Help Me Save My Security Deposit!

    It's almost a foot in diameter, any chance I can salvage this?

    GarbanzoBenne:

    You can try peroxide. I've had very good luck using it to lighten or remove water spots in sanded/unfinished wood. Even though this floor is finished, the water penetrated the finish, so I expect the peroxide will be able to as well. I would just start with a little bit on a q-tip in a small area and see if it makes a difference and doesn't cause any other damage. As I mentioned, I've only done it on unfinished wood before.

    © Photo: [deleted]

    #73 Electricians Left Us Several Of These Holes After Replacing Knob And Tube

    As the title states, we hired electricians to replace our knob and tube, and they left us some significant mess. There are some spots where the lathe is cut away. They warned us there would be some holes, but I wasn't expecting this level destruction. Too late now! Is this the kind of thing I can use a mesh patch on, or does anyone have any experience or guidance repairing this?

    cheekymonkey516:

    I’ve fixed holes this size on plaster walls. Put some sort of thin solid backer into the hole. Scrap wood, fiberboard, whatever. Glue or screw it to the lathe. Mix Sheetrock mud with powdered Rock Hard. Slap it in place, let it dry, repeat until built up to level. Feather the edges over the existing plaster. Lightly sand, prime, paint. Takes a few days with dry time but it’s easy. The rock hard reinforces the loosy edges of the plaster and helps the mud set.

    © Photo: Tiny-Table7937

    #74 Why Is My Toilet Flashing Red?

    The light is flashing twice per second, turned off power twice but it just comes back, what's causing this and how to fix it?

    eternal_ttorment:

    I finally figured out that the issue is outdated firmware and that the filter needs replacement. The toilet is Geberit DuoFresh if anyone ever needs it. Thanks everyone for trying to help.

    © Photo: eternal_ttorment

    #75 Sink Just Gave In While Doing Dishes. Anyone Know How To Fix This?

    Anonymous:

    Hi OP. Plumber here. If you are somewhat handy it’s an easy fix. First, you’re going to need some material. Silicone (I prefer clear when working with stainless sinks) and metal 1/2” steel strapping(the ones with holes in it to screw through) You can find this at your local hardware store. You’ll also need 4 small screws 3/4”-1” screws (you can use longer screws but please keep in mind you have to be careful not to screw all the way or you’ll penetrate into the next cabinet space). Next you’ll need something to hold the sink right in place while you fiddle with the strapping. I usually use a piece of 2x4 to wedge it up to the counter top while I strap the sink in place. To install: clean both surfaces that will be pressed up against the countertop and sink. Clean them well. Apply silicone to the sink surface, apply liberally, this will be to seal the sink from water NOT to hold the sink. Lift the sink into place carefully lining it up to where you want it. Once you have it pressed in place quickly wedge it with the 2x4 vertically. Make sure it’s held in place well. Next install 2 straps across the underneath of the sink with metal strapping, ensuring that they are very tight. This is what’s holding your sink. Clean the silicone from the countertop/sink. Helps if you wet your finger a bit. Reconnect drain line (it’s most likely busted from the sink falling on it)

    © Photo: Hedwigisbae

    #76 Slipped And Broke The Shower Wall. I Plan On Remodeling In About A Year, Any Temporary Fixes For This Until Then So Moisture Doesn't Get Behind It?

    WNJohnnyM:

    I had that happen 10 years ago in my house. I started the remodel sooner than I wanted.

    © Photo: chinnick967

    #77 I’ve Fixed Drywall, But Never Wood, What Am I In For?

    Aftermath of a bad mental health incident, take care of yourselves y’all

    TheFishBanjo:

    That is 1970's style paneling that someone painted over. Determine thickness. Buy a sheet of paneling. Find the seam to the left. Remove the whole sheet top to bottom. You might need to lift some trim to get out from under the baseboard and door trim. Cut and nail up new paneling as a rectangle. Paint. Restore trim.

    © Photo: wallerballer88

  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 04:00

    History is not just about significant time periods, inventions, famous figures, or events of mass destruction. In the midst of all that, there is human life: silent moments of everyday life that can tell us more about a place in time than any textbook or historian ever could.

    Many of us have seen photographs of world leaders at historical summits, gut-wrenching shots from military zones, and cool images of what ancient buildings looked like a couple of years prior. But this time, Bored Panda invites you to see photographs such as the hands of a homesteader from 1936, the space dog Chernushka, and the home of a rural switchboard operator in 1950s Sweden. They may not be of global importance, but they still say: we were here.

    #1 Russell Lee, Man At The Bar On Saturday Night, Craigville, Minnesota, September 1937. Posted The Photo Back In The Day, But It Has This Lonely Desperate Feeling Of Existential Crisis

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    #2 Maison Kammerzell, Strasbourg, Alsace, 1895

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    #3 Ismo Hölttö, Man With His Cat, Norway 1967. Sad Day For Me. My Cat Is Missing Second Week. Happy Hunting In Afterlife My Dear Friend

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #4 Rural Switchboard Operator With Her Cat In Örsundet, Sweden 1953

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    #5 In 1940, The Marc Aurel Stein Expedition Took This Extraordinary Picture Of The Arch Of Roman Bridge Still Standing Near Mosul

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    #6 Warsaw, 1946

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    #7 Interior Of U-Boat 110, 1918

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    #8 A Lone Woman Picketing Against Immigration Raids, Los Angeles 1937

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    #9 A Wounded Canadian And A Wounded German In The Mud Of Passchendaele Sharing A Smoke. November, 1917

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #10 Baby Camel On A Camel In Western Australia, 1916

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    #11 An Austro-Hungarian Soldier Descent Into The City Of Ice Underneath The Marmolada Glacier, 1916. Stunning And Otherworldly Photo

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    #12 Ballard Mill, 1958

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    #13 Two Men By Monumental Elephant Statues, China 1870's

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    #14 The Original Waldorf-Astoria Hotel In New York. Demolished In 1929 To Serve As The Site For The Empire State Building

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    #15 Inflation King, Germany 1923. Outfit Made Out Of Worthless Coins

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    #16 Sam Hood, Soldiers Goodbye & Bobbie The Cat, Sydney Ww2 Period

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    #17 George A. Van Biesbroeck, Astronomer At Yerkes Observatory Observing Mars When It Approached Close To The Earth In 1926, And Using The 40 Inch Refracting Telescope, The Largest Of Its Kind In The World

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #18 Man In His House In Pipe City, Oakland, 1932. Roughly 200 Men Were Allowed To Lived In Sections Of Unused Sewer Pipes By The American Concrete And Steel Pipe Company

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #19 Bandages Retrieved From The Kit Of A British Dog, 1915

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    #20 Funeral Ceremony For Victor Hugo At The Arc De Triomphe, 1885

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    #21 Turkish Soldier Returns From 1st Balkan War, 1912/1913

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    #22 Dog Child, A North West Mounted Police Scout, And His Wife, The Only Handsome Woman, Members Of The Blackfoot Nation, Gleichen, Alberta, 1890. Interesting That He Is Holding Japanese Sword

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    #23 Last Kiss Before Going Off To Korean War, USA 1950

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    #24 Boy Painting A Face On The Back Of His Father’s Bald Head, 1877

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    #25 Russell Lee, Hands Of Old Homesteader, Iowa 1936

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    #26 Man Catches Alcohol To The Cup Pured Down From Window By Prohibition Agent, USA 1925. Great Photo

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #27 Russell Lee, "Boys On Easter Morning, 1941, Southside Chicago”

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    #28 The British Concorde Fleet At London Heathrow Airport, January 21, 1986

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    #29 The Esso Hibernia Under Construction, Wallsend Shipyard, 1970

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    #30 Blackfoot Piegan Native Americans In Northern Montana, 1908

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    #31 Marvin Koner, A Nun Watches Orphaned Children Sleep At Casa De Beneficencia Orphanage In Havana, 1940s

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    #32 Irish Woman With Spinning Wheel, 19th C

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    #33 Portrait Of Japanese Archer, 1910s

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    #34 Manchester United vs. Wolverhampton Wanderers, 26th March 1949

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    #35 Inuit Girl, Nancy Columbia, And Dog Taken At The Louisiana Purchase Exposition, Missouri, 1904

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    #36 John F. Kennedy Campaigning In West Virginia, 1960

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    #37 Los Angeles Courthouse. Built In 1891

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    #38 Porcelain Shop, Japan 1900

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    #39 Frozen Niagara Falls, 1885

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    #40 Unemployed Men Outside A Soup Kitchen In Chicago, 1931

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    #41 A High School Football Club In Bursa, Ottoman Empire 1910

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    #42 Lunch Hour At The Raphael Weill Public School, San Francisco, California 1942

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    #43 The Uzbek Republic’s Leading And Most Decorated Winegrower, Rizamat Musamukhamedov, Bred A New Grape Variety (Bayan Shirey), 1939

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    #44 Glasgow, 1870

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    #45 Cabbage Instead Of Roses At St. Isaac's Square, Autumn 1942

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    #46 Colosseum In 1846

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    #47 No Dog Biscuits Today, London 1939

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    #48 Stuttgart, 1931

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    #49 Valentin Khukhlayev, A Grocery Store In Krasnodonsky Sovkhoz In Kazakhstan, 1959

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    #50 Kyoto, 1960

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    #51 Hydraulic Press In Krupp Works At Essen, Germany 1928

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    #52 Lebaudy Brothers Dirigible Over Paris, 1903

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    #53 Ernest Henry Wilson, Men Laden With Tea, Sichuan Sheng, China 1908. Posted The Photo In The Past, But Found Great Article About 1917 – 1919: Expedition To Eastern Asia

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #54 Unloading Rations For Soldiers During Ww1

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    #55 Oak Bridge Telephone Operators Getting Ready For A Shift Change At The Switchboard

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #56 Portrait Of Native American Couple With A Child, 1900s

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    #57 Felice Beato, Temple Street In Nagasaki, 1863

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    #58 Theodore Roosevelt Jr. With Eli Yale, A Hyacinth Macaw, In The White House Conservatory, 1902

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    #59 Los Angeles, 1950's

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    #60 Hiroo Onoda, Japanese Soldier Who Refused To Surrender Until 1974. After The War Ended Onoda Spent 29 Years Hiding Out In The Philippines Until His Former Commander Traveled From Japan To Formally Relieve Him From Duty By Order Of Emperor Shōwa

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #61 Policeman Dumping Alcohol Into The Gutter, New York 1922

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #62 A Watermelon Eating Contest In Cincinnatti, Ohio, 1915

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #63 Soviet Space Dog Chernushka Before Her Flight In 1961

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #64 Soldiers In Bunk Bed, 1915

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #65 Empire State Building During Construction With Zeppelins In The Background, 1930

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #66 Workers At A Brewery Unload Thousands Of Crates Of Beer, Getting Ready For The End Of Prohibition. April, 1933

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #67 A Korean Lady Prepares To Be Carried Through The Streets In Her Sedan Chair, 1890-1923

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #68 An Austro-Hungarian Patrol In The Carnic Alps, 16 July 1916

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    #69 "Near The Forbidden City, A Simpleton Whose Job Is To Assist Brides In A Sedan Chair, Beijing, December 1948."

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #70 Kendo Practice, Japan First Half Of 20th C

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #71 Soldiers Of An Australian 4th Division Field Artillery Brigade Walk On A Duckboard Track Laid Across A Muddy, Shattered Battlefield In Chateau Wood, Near Hooge, Belgium, October 29, 1917

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #72 A View Of Castle Garth With Dog Leap Stairs, 1890s

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    #73 Third Class Dining Saloon In Lusitania, 1906

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    #74 James Leon Williams, When We Were Boys, 1895

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    #75 Gordon Parks, Department Store, Mobile, Alabama 1956

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    #76 Scene From Siemens Factory, 1900-1930

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #77 Factory Workers At The End Of Their Shift, Indiana 1946

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    #78 Loading The Copper Bars Into The Ship, USA 1905. Stunning Quality And Resolution

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #79 Woman With Slabs Of Bacon Tied To Her Feet Standing In A Giant Skillet Holding An Enormous Wooden Spatula, Chehalis, Washington 1929

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #80 Mammoth And Giant Octopus Department Of Ethnology Interior Of Anthropology Building, 1893. From Portfolio Of Photographs Of The World's Fair By The Werner Company

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #81 Virna Haffer, Old Tacoma Hotel Fire, 1935

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #82 Richard Jenkins, Group Of Men With Romford & Evershed Ltd Pershorf 1885 Steam Engine, First Half Of 20th C

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #83 Bronx, 1970's

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    #84 Lewis Hine, Junkies Breaking Up Old Looms To Be Sold For Scrap-Iron And Said To Be Sent To Japan For Munitions, 1936

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #85 Baltimore In 1815

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    #86 Lobby Stairs To Waiting Room And Concourses, Chicago & North Western Railway, Chicago, 1912

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #87 Steamer J.s. Docked In New Orleans, 1919. Great Photo

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #88 A Cowboy Stands In Front Of His Cabin, Hot Springs, Arkansas 1901

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #89 American Soldiers Writing Their Names On Top Of Taj Mahal, Ww2

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #90 Anchor Men With Mauretania Chain And Anchor, 1910s. Man On The Right Is Absolute Unit Looking Like Dishonored Character

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #91 Russell Lee, People In The Bus Station. Welch, Mcdowell County, West Virginia, 1946

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #92 Star Reporter Rick Brennan Argues With Gas Station Owner Neil Shepherd Who's Refusing To Gas Russian-Made Lada Cars, Canada 1980

    © Photo: myrmekochoria

    #93 Pilots From Lafayette Escadrille With Two Mascots Lions Whiskey And Soda, 1916/1917

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  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 00:00

    Food is supposed to be fun, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with getting a little creative in the kitchen. Right, Pandas? But every now and then, someone comes up with a dish that makes you stop, stare, and wonder, “How exactly did we get here?”

    In today’s collection, people are sharing some of the strangest, most questionable, and downright confusing dishes they've come across. From bizarre ingredient combinations to food presentations that seem to defy all logic, these creations prove that not every culinary experiment is destined for greatness. Some might be surprisingly delicious, while others look like they should come with a warning label. Keep scrolling to see the dishes that had people asking one very important question: What were they thinking?

    #1 When Somebody Attempts To Cook A Fkn Hot Dog In The Air Fryer

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    #2 Yo What Rat Pizza

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    #3 What Happened That Lead To Either Of These Existing? Anyone Tried Either Of These?

    Always thought, “you know what this apple pie is missing? Beans.”

    © Photo: Slugwheat

    Let's be honest: most of us have thrown away a little food at some point. Maybe it was the last bite of a meal that had gone cold, the vegetables left behind by a picky eater, or that container of leftovers hiding at the back of the fridge until it became completely unrecognizable. Sometimes the food simply doesn't taste as good as we hoped, and sometimes we cook far more than anyone could possibly eat. No one usually intends to waste food, but those small, everyday decisions can add up to a much bigger problem when they are repeated by millions of people around the world.

    #4 They Banned Me For This

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    #5 This Sub Pmo Because A Majority Of The Posts Here Labelling Foods "Stupid" Are Just Ignorant Of Different Cultures, Anyway Heres An Oreo Spaghetti Ice Cream Beef Burger

    © Photo: camthecame_l

    #6 "Hair" Cake. The "Hair" Are Dried Seaweed

    © Photo: Token_Thai_person

    According to a United Nations Report, approximately 1.05 billion tonnes of food waste were generated in 2022, including inedible parts. That's roughly 132 kilograms per person and almost one-fifth of all the food available to consumers. What makes the figures especially surprising is where most of the waste happens. Around 60% of food waste takes place at the household level, while food services account for 28% and retailers for 12%. So while supermarkets and restaurants certainly play a role, a huge portion of the problem begins in our own kitchens.

    #7 Burger King Thailand’s “The Real Cheeseburger”

    It’s literally just a bun with 20 slices of cheese.

    © Photo: Maleficent-Agent-477

    #8 Just Wayyyy Too Much

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    #9 Grasshoppers In Vegemite Toast

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    Breaking those numbers down makes the scale even more difficult to comprehend. Households generated approximately 631 million tonnes of food waste in 2022. Food services contributed another 290 million tonnes, while retail accounted for around 131 million tonnes. On average, each person wastes approximately 79 kilograms of food every year. That is equivalent to at least 1 billion meals being wasted every single day. One forgotten lunch may not seem like a global crisis, but when similar moments happen in homes across the world day after day, the numbers quickly become staggering.

    #10 Johnny Dang Got Em Right

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    #11 Meal-In-A-Mould

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    #12 Breakfast Of Champions

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    And these figures become even more difficult to ignore when we consider the wider context. Food is being wasted at a time when approximately 700 million people around the world face hunger, while around one-third of the global population experiences some form of food insecurity. The reasons for food waste are often not dramatic or complicated. People buy more than they need, forget what they already have, plan meals poorly, or simply fail to use ingredients before they spoil. Sometimes, we see a special offer and think, "This is such a good deal!"—only to discover weeks later that the food is still sitting untouched in the back of the cupboard.

    #13 This Bowl Of Oxtails Looks Straight Out Of A Horror Movie

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    #14 Happy 4th Of July

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    #15 Heb, I Love You, But What Is This?

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    Poor storage can also cause food to spoil much faster than necessary. Other common causes include cooking portions that are too large, misunderstanding food labels, and not knowing how to use leftovers creatively. A few extra servings of rice, half a bag of vegetables, or a slightly bruised piece of fruit may seem insignificant on its own. But when these small amounts are thrown away repeatedly by households around the world, they contribute to an enormous global total.

    #16 Resort Buffet Offerings

    Ham and pearl onion salad topped with watermelon radish garnish *chefs kiss*

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    #17 Rice Cricket Treats. Marshmellow+butter+crickets. 😋

    High protein and much lower water consumption.

    © Photo: Few-Currency-2366

    #18 I Call It A Mountain Of Sorrow

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    Food waste also has a major environmental impact. Before food reaches our plates, it already requires land, water, energy, packaging, transportation, labor, and countless other resources. When that food is thrown away, all of those resources are wasted too. Recent data suggests that food loss and waste are responsible for around 8–10% of annual global greenhouse gas emissions; almost five times the emissions associated with the aviation sector. Food production also uses the equivalent of nearly one-third of the world's agricultural land, meaning that wasted food contributes to biodiversity loss and puts additional pressure on ecosystems.

    #19 Chocolate Eclair Hotdog Anyone?

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    #20 Didn’t Want A Whole Pizza So I’m Only Having A Hole Pizza

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    #21 Redioactive Chicken

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    The economic cost is equally staggering. The global financial toll of food loss and waste is estimated at roughly $1 trillion. And the consequences continue even after food reaches the trash. When organic waste ends up in landfills and decomposes without enough oxygen, it can release methane, a powerful greenhouse gas. So when we throw away a meal, we are not just losing the food itself. We are also wasting the water used to grow it, the energy used to transport and prepare it, and the land and resources required to produce it in the first place.

    #22 Tiramisu In Italy

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    #23 My ‘Biscoff Cheesecake’ That I Got Delivered Has No Biscuit Base And Looks Like Burned Cheese

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    #24 Chocolate Yam Pudding Came Out Looking Like Feces

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    As Inger Andersen, Executive Director of the United Nations Environment Programme, has described it, food waste is a global tragedy. Millions of people go hungry while food is wasted around the world, creating unnecessary costs for communities, economies, the climate, and nature. The good news is that food waste is also a problem where small changes can genuinely help. Planning meals more carefully, checking what we already have before shopping, storing food properly, freezing items before they spoil, using leftovers creatively, and serving more reasonable portions can all make a difference.

    #25 Someone Tell My Girlfriend To Stop Eating Dog Food

    Bonus points if yall can guess what's in this concoction.

    © Photo: TJL2000

    #26 Turned My Dog Into An Eggroll

    © Photo: Kiyomitsu_Yogane

    #27 My Dad's Black Eggs? That's Pepper

    Two eggs and potato salad.

    © Photo: The_Gale0

    Of course, this doesn't mean anyone should feel guilty about every single bite of food they throw away. Sometimes food genuinely goes bad, a recipe fails spectacularly, or you take one bite and realize that whatever you just cooked is simply not happening. Life is not perfectly waste-free, and nobody expects it to be. The important thing is becoming a little more aware of our habits and making better choices whenever we can. Even small changes can have a meaningful impact when millions of people make them together.

    And that brings us to today's collection. Some of the dishes featured here are genuinely funny, while others look like cooking experiments that took a very unexpected turn. Hopefully, at least a few of them were rescued before ending up in the trash! After all, cooking is all about experimenting, and not every recipe turns out perfectly. Sometimes dinner is delicious, sometimes it's merely edible, and sometimes you take one bite, stare at the plate in silence, and quietly order pizza instead. Keep scrolling, Pandas, and let us know—which of these dishes do you think deserved a second chance?

    #28 I Messed Up My Macros, Now I Eat Mac & Cheese With Chocolate Protien

    I messed up my macros this morning & tried to add some protein power to my mac. I didn’t realize it was chocolate protein & now I am left with this. It is as bad as it looks. God help me
    Edit: i ate half & threw out the rest. Tasted [bad] & required water after every gulp

    © Photo: LlamasOnTheRun

    #29 You Can Get A Blue Waffle Breakfast In Curaçao In Support Of Their World Cup Team

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    #30 Mountain Dew Cupcakes With Doritos

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    #31 Too Many People Don't Seem To Understand The Point Of This Sub... Time To Lead By Example

    © Photo: Arne83

    #32 Breaded+ Chicken Wing

    A chicken wing breaded and fried over the course of about 4 hours. How many layers we dont know.

    © Photo: Bananabis420

    #33 I Made Quintuple Milk

    Yo dawg, I heard you like milk, so I put milk and milk and milk and milk in your milk so you can have milk and milk and milk and milk while you drink milk

    © Photo: electricmindshaft

    #34 Baked Beans On Cheesecake

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    #35 I Made This A Good While Back. Called It "Mayo Cheesy Bread". It Was Really Bad

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    #36 This Mac And Cheese Was Fed To Me By An Evil Family

    © Photo: No_Philosopher_6833

    #37 Fresh Capitalistic Horror Beyond My Comprehension

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    #38 Who's Taste Buds Want This? 😭

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    #39 This Is What My 6 Year Old Insisted That I Make For Her

    © Photo: LBHHF

    #40 Biscoff-Breaded Fried Chicken Breast Biscoff Ice Cream Sandwich With Biscoff Cookie, Biscoff Topping, And Smoky Maple Hot Honey On A Brioche Bun

    At Toronto's Exhibition, 2025.
    A bite or two was good but the sauce was too many things and it was too big and sweet. Hard to eat half of, let alone finish.
    $25 CAD

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    #41 A Cheeseburger My Sister Got

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    #42 White Monster Sourdough Chocolate Ice Cream Sandwich

    © Photo: lonelysingledad420

    #43 Happy 4th Of July...i Guess

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    #44 Oatmeal Cream Pie Tacos

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    #45 Do You Guys Like My Cheerios Latte

    © Photo: Parzley777

    #46 Twinkie Weiner Sandwich

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    #47 Anchovy-Stuffed Olives And Pepper Jelly Sandwich

    © Photo: Chompif

    #48 Get The Party Started!

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    #49 Turn That Burger Into A Fruit Basket!

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    #50 Leftover Macaroni Salad With Cheesey Eggs, Hot Sauce And Ranch

    © Photo: SlappyPappy99

    #51 Malaysia, The Land Of Culinary Geniuses

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    #52 Bro Made A Farting Gun In Baguette Form

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    #53 "We Have Such Sights To Show You"

    © Photo: VexImmortalis

    #54 Costco Canned Chicken And Waffle Sandwich

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    #55 Defeats The Purpose Of A Sandwich...just Incredibly Ridiculous

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    #56 We Have Reached Deep Ends

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    #57 I Deep Fried Some Cheezits

    © Photo: Lavaswan001

    #58 Is This The Correct Way To Make Fried Banana?

    © Photo: Manukmiber

    #59 I Saw The Ramenwhich

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    #60 More Food From My Boyfriend. He Calls It “The Broth”

    © Photo: SpaceCowgirl935

    #61 What Can We Call This Sandwich?

    © Photo: 1elgwapo

    #62 Red, White And Ewww

    © Photo: NeuropathyandNetflix

    #63 If The Eggs Aren’t Gravel, I Ain’t Eating

    © Photo: AgentBeginning2667

    #64 I Made A Birthday Cake 🎂, However, It's A Little Bit (Unusual) 😬

    © Photo: The_DarkSide_of_me

    #65 Had The Munchies

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    #66 Rate My Stupid Food, Taco Dogs

    © Photo: Wild_Wasabi9984

    #67 To British People. We Should Run

    © Photo: chanelblouse

    #68 Tuna With Baked Beans Fried In Butter With Red Onions And Garlic, A Filling For A Sandwich

    © Photo: misoscare

  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 00:00

    We’ve heard about relationship pranks that go a step too far. But what happens when a partner intentionally lies, and then expects you to laugh it off as a joke?

    That’s the nightmare scenario one 21-year-old woman recently found herself in. After a night out, her boyfriend’s mother sent a harrowing text saying he didn’t survive a car crash. She instantly went into panic mode.

    Sharing her story online, she said she went into shock and did something extreme. But moments later, her boyfriend walked through the door completely fine.

    When the truth finally came out, he offered no apologies and started blaming his girlfriend for being too emotional.

    As one person in the comments noted: “You couldn’t hold a candle to this guy in the drama stakes.”

    A woman received a text message from her boyfriend’s mother saying that he had passed away

    A woman covers her face with her hands, looking distressed after a cruel boyfriend prank.

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    She later realized that he was trying to cover up for his bad decisions

    Screenshot of text detailing a boyfriend's cruel prank, faking d***h and blaming his girlfriend's reaction.

    Screenshot of text revealing the girlfriend's history and struggles with s*******m, following a boyfriend's cruel prank.

    Screenshot of text explaining the boyfriend's past relationship, where his ex played mind games, impacting his reaction.

    Screenshot of text where the girlfriend describes her patient and communicative nature, despite the boyfriend's cruel prank.

    A screenshot showing text about a boyfriend out drinking and not coming home, causing girlfriend concern. Cruel prank context.

    A screenshot showing text about a girlfriend waking to missed calls from her boyfriend's mother. Cruel prank setup.

    A screenshot showing text about a girlfriend's worry and believing her boyfriend died in a crash. Girlfriend reaction to prank.

    A boyfriend looking intensely at a crying girlfriend, highlighting her reaction to a cruel prank. Relationship issues.

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    A screenshot showing text detailing the girlfriend's grief and emotional relapse after the cruel prank. Girlfriend's reaction.

    A cruel prank text, boyfriend blames girlfriend for her reaction to a terrible prank.

    Boyfriend blames girlfriend for her reaction, highlighting the cruel prank and his manipulative behavior.

    Cruel prank fallout: boyfriend blames girlfriend, escalating the situation by suggesting therapy.

    Girlfriend¹s reaction to the cruel prank, boyfriend blames her for his actions.

    Boyfriend blames girlfriend: she¹s unsure what to do after a cruel prank.

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    Emotional manipulation tactics that severely harm the victim

    In this story, the author’s boyfriend made her believe that he had passed away in a severe car crash. When she reacted emotionally and eventually got angry that he had lied, he told her she was “ruining the joke” and trying to “guilt” him.

    To deflect accountability, he turned the tables completely, labeling her natural trauma response as “manipulative.”

    These phrases are a common manipulation tactic that mental health professionals call DARVO. Coined by psychologist Dr. Jennifer Freyd in the 1990s, DARVO is a documented approach where those confronted with wrongdoing instantly Deny the act, Attack the accuser, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender.

    It combines elements of gaslighting and blame-shifting.

    Some experts also believe these are traits of narcissism. “By denying their actions, attacking the person confronting them, and flipping the roles of victim and offender, the narcissist effectively redirects attention away from their own actions, often causing doubt in the victim’s claims,” says Bayu Prihandito, founder of Life Architekture and certified psychology expert.

    He adds: “The psychology behind DARVO is rooted in a strong need for self-preservation and control. They will often employ this strategy to protect their ego and maintain their desired self-image at all costs.”

    When this form of manipulation takes hold, victims often end up internalizing a twisted narrative. They start to believe they are the villain of their own story and convince themselves that they somehow caused or deserved the mistreatment.

    Enduring this constant cycle of blame-shifting takes a devastating toll on mental health.

    Over time, it erodes a person’s self-worth and reality, triggering deep anxiety, depression, and relentless self-doubt. Trapped in a state of helplessness, victims can lose trust in their own judgment — and eventually, lose touch with their true sense of self.

    “The victim develops a pseudo personality that echoes and repeats the narcissist’s false self — their grandiose narrative of themselves,” says Avigail Lev, PsyD, founder of Bay Area CBT Center and CBTonline.

    A woman is crying, covering her face with her hands, looking distressed due to her boyfriend's cruel prank.

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    It’s cruel, to say the least, to blame a victim for a physiological trauma response

    Studies show that severe emotional shock (such as sudden, unexpected grief) activates the brain’s fight-or-flight response. It can cause temporary cognitive collapse and trigger old behaviors even after years of recovery.

    “Relapse doesn’t mean failure, it signals that emotional needs are not being met… Warning signs can emerge suddenly or gradually, triggered by stress, trauma, conflict, or worsening mental health conditions like depression or anxiety,” says Viviane Silva, a clinical social worker and psychotherapist.

    Expecting someone to maintain perfect emotional composure while processing traumatic grief isn’t just unrealistic — it’s medically unfounded.

    Yet, rather than offering support during a mental health crisis he directly caused, the author’s partner attempted to minimize his actions by hiding behind a classic shield: framing the entire ordeal as a “harmless prank.”

    Ask any expert or sane person, and they will tell you that a prank requires mutual enjoyment.

    It crosses an unforgivable line the moment it targets someone’s physical body, creates actual danger, or destroys property. At its core, a genuine prank is completely harmless. A healthy joke should be lighthearted, leaving the person who was tricked feeling amused rather than terrified, humiliated, or distressed.

    For anyone navigating this level of emotional distress, experts emphasize that the first step toward recovery is breaking the cycle of isolation and self-doubt.

    Victims should trust their instincts and document what occurred. Re-establishing firm personal boundaries is critical. Reaching out to trauma-informed therapists or trusted support networks also provides a safe space to process the shock.

    And when a partner repeatedly dismisses trauma responses, walking away is often the healthiest choice.

    A young woman appears sad and contemplative, lit by a streak of sunlight, reflecting on a cruel prank.

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    People in the comments chimed in with their two cents

    Reddit comment from gruntbuggly calling the boyfriend a horrible person for a cruel prank and blaming his girlfriend.

    Reddit comment from kucing5 about the boyfriend playing mind games and his reaction to a cruel prank.

    Reddit comment from robbyc777 stating, What a sick joke. You need to break things off ASAP, regarding a cruel prank.

    A comment advises a girlfriend to listen to her gut about a cruel prank and find someone with compassion.

    A comment stating that a boyfriend's cruel prank requires therapy and is undeserving of the term prank.

    A concise comment advising to dump a boyfriend who pulled a cruel prank because he is toxic.

    A comment calling a boyfriend an idiot for a cruel prank involving drunk driving and faking his d***h.

    A lengthy comment calling a boyfriend manipulative for a cruel prank and dangerous behavior like drunk driving.

    A cruel prank where a boyfriend blames his girlfriend for reacting to his manipulative behavior, causing emotional distress.

    Online discussion about a boyfriend's cruel prank and his manipulative behavior, blaming his girlfriend's reaction.

    An online comment condemning a boyfriend's cruel prank, advising the girlfriend to leave the manipulative relationship.

    A detailed comment on a boyfriend's cruel prank, highlighting his manipulative behavior and blaming the girlfriend.

    A brief comment describing a boyfriend's actions as a cruel prank and sadistic behavior towards his partner.

    A comment warning about dudes with crazy exes, implying a boyfriend's cruel prank might not be one-sided.

    A comment calling a boyfriend emotionally a*****e for pulling a cruel prank on his girlfriend.

    A detailed comment explaining a boyfriend's manipulative cruel prank and advising the girlfriend to dump him.

    A comment telling the girlfriend she will regret staying with her boyfriend after his cruel prank.

    A comment advising the girlfriend to leave her boyfriend and tell others about his cruel prank, especially his mom.

    A comment on a social media post about a boyfriend's cruel prank, advising the girlfriend to leave him.

    A comment stating a previous girlfriend was not the problem in a boyfriend's cruel prank scenario.

    A comment telling a girlfriend to leave her boyfriend after his cruel prank and manipulative behavior.

    A detailed comment explaining why a boyfriend's cruel prank and blame are manipulative and a red flag.

    A comment calling the end of a relationship for a boyfriend's cruel prank and unhinged behavior.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend who blames girlfriend for her reaction discussed in a Reddit comment.

    A Reddit comment discussing a boyfriend's cruel prank and how he blamed girlfriend for her reaction.

    A Reddit comment about a boyfriend's cruel prank, advising the girlfriend not to be a fool.

    A Reddit comment discussing a boyfriend's cruel prank and his manipulation, blaming girlfriend.

    A Reddit comment about a boyfriend's cruel prank, advising the girlfriend to prioritize mental health.

    A Reddit comment criticizing a boyfriend's cruel prank and his blame on the girlfriend's reaction.

    Another Reddit comment advising to dump the immature boyfriend after his cruel prank and blaming the girlfriend.

    The woman came back with an update on her relationship status

    A man gesturing while talking to a woman, showing the aftermath of a boyfriend's cruel prank and her reaction.

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    She said she saw too many red flags in her boyfriend and decided to break up

    A Reddit post update about a girlfriend breaking up with her boyfriend after his cruel prank.

    A list detailing reasons for a breakup, including a boyfriend's cruel prank and blaming his girlfriend's reaction.

    A screenshot of a paragraph discussing not blaming a boyfriend for a cruel prank and taking responsibility.

    A screenshot of a paragraph detailing speaking to a boyfriend's mum after a cruel prank.

    A screenshot of a paragraph describing a meeting with a boyfriend after a cruel prank, where he became annoyed.

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    Many people in the comments supported her decision

    A screenshot of a comment calling out the boyfriend's dramatic behavior after a cruel prank.

    A screenshot of a comment praising not falling for a boyfriend's fake apology after a cruel prank.

    A cruel prank led to a girlfriend's reaction, with the boyfriend blaming her, shown by a comment advising her to walk away.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend blamed on his girlfriend's reaction, prompting a comment questioning if he is a psychopath.

    After a cruel prank and blaming his girlfriend for her reaction, a comment advises her not to waste time on a self-centered person.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend blaming his girlfriend's reaction, with a user expressing relief she broke up with him.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend who blamed his girlfriend's reaction, leading to a comment warning her about a potential sociopath.

    A cruel prank where a boyfriend blames his girlfriend, prompting a user comment calling him a psychopath.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend blaming his girlfriend; a comment advises ending the relationship due to the prank.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend who blames his girlfriend, with a comment advising her to block him and move on.

    A cruel prank performed by a boyfriend who blames his girlfriend, revealing his true colors without remorse.

    A cruel prank by a boyfriend blaming his girlfriend, with a user describing him as a 'f**k-off boyfriend'.

    A comment offering support, telling the girlfriend she will be better off without her boyfriend after a cruel prank.

    A comment praising the girlfriend for being strong after a boyfriend's cruel prank and blaming her for reacting.

    A concise comment expressing disgust at the boyfriend's cruel prank and relief for the girlfriend.

    A user comment recalling the situation and expressing relief the girlfriend didn't stick around after the cruel prank.

    A user comment saying well handled, referencing the girlfriend's reaction to the cruel prank.

    A screenshot showing a comment asking about the reasons behind a cruel prank by a boyfriend.

    A screenshot of a comment stating the boyfriend is an idiot for his cruel prank and blaming his girlfriend.

    A screenshot of a comment advising to consider the boyfriend a mental case after his cruel prank.

    A screenshot of a comment commending the girlfriend for her reaction to a boyfriend's cruel prank.

    A screenshot of a comment wishing good luck to the original poster after a boyfriend's cruel prank.

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  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 00:00

    Communication is key in really any relationship, from a friend/coworker all the way up to one’s spouse. While it seems cliché, the fact is that all too many people don’t communicate with their loved ones, which gets even harder if there are significant cultural barriers in play.

    We’ve gathered some of the most interesting posts from folks sharing what it’s like to have an intercultural relationship from across the internet. Get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and if you have any experience with this, be sure to share your story in the comments below.

    #1

    Not with a partner but just in general:
    In Ireland it’s customary to say no to anything offered to be polite. Even if you really want it. Eg:
    “Will you have a cup of tea?”
    “No, thanks”
    “Ah go on”
    “No, I’m fine”
    “Go on”
    “Ok, if it’s not too much trouble.”

    Turns out in America if you say no they just say “ok” and you never get your tea. Crazy Americans how dare they not be able to read my mind!

    © Photo: Lemonshapedrocks

    #2

    I had been dating a Dutch guy for almost a year. One day I wanted to buy a bottle of water but had no spare change with me so I asked him to borrow some. The bottle costed approximately 1.2 euros. Somehow the following week I had completely forgotten to give his money back. The next morning he wrote a very detailed message about how borrowing money without returning them shows a bad character, with his PayPal account at the end so could transfer the money.

    © Photo: elissfr

    #3

    I’m spanish and my girlfriend had a really hard time with the fact that we eat super late.

    © Photo: LuNiK7505

    #4

    I’m Brazilian and my husband is Scottish. His sense of humour is amazing. So quick and dry! But there’s no PDA at all! In Brazil is very common for couples to kiss passionately in public and are even expected to do so. I felt so rejected for a long time because he would only show me affection when we were together in a room! Scottish people love to “roast” people and you should expect to be mocked constantly and not show any resentment!! Brazilians are very agreeable but very proud and sensitive, so it’s been rather difficult to adapt hahaha
    I’m now living in Scotland and apparently the way people make friends here is by binge drinking, pub crawling (and getting kicked out) together. Eventually you’re just pals?
    In Brazil people would make conversation, ask everything about you, then maybe ask you for a coffee or some light drinking at first. I feel it’s really difficult to make friends here if you’re not into drinking until you pass out.

    © Photo: First-Macaroon

    #5

    Dating a Japanese guy felt like being in a long distance relationship even if you live together. The long working hours, lack of physical affection, privacy, etc. makes it hard to figure out if your partner even likes you as a person. Hell, we got married and have kids and sometimes I still question it, lol.

    © Photo: anon

    #6

    My boyfriend is Venezuelan and HE IS ALWAYS LATE!! My best friend is also Venezuelan (we met before I met my bf) and she used to drive me crazy with the same thing. How hard is it to just be ready when I give you a time???

    © Photo: SadFatDargon

    #7

    My ex was US born and raised but his mom was from Thailand and still had family there.

    We went on a 2 week vacation there and stayed with his aunt and uncle. We visited with lots of family members while there and they would all aggressively insist on paying for us but I guess secretly they were all annoyed that we let them pay for things.

    We spent a lot of time with his cousin and wife who were close in our age and they would pay for EVERYTHING. Like we were at a mall and I was browsing in a store and went to check out and when his cousin saw me with money in my hand he straight up RAN across the mall with his wallet in his hand to stop me from paying. We just thought they were being generous and good hosts but my ex’s mom called us from the US a few days later and told us her sister was complaining that her son had no more money and couldn’t afford to take us out all the time and we needed to give them money and pay for things.

    After we left I heard some other family members had similar things to say about us letting them pay for us and being rude and stuff and not leaving money for his aunt and uncle who hosted us. It actually hurt my feelings really badly because I thought they were being genuine when they offered to pay and didn’t realize there was an expectation that we were supposed to gift them with money after.

    © Photo: wendeelightful

    #8

    My ex is Greek, very passionate about food.
    Me/ not so much. Not at all. Food to me is just that, food to keep me going and healthy. I appreciate people who are really into it and delight in preparing it.

    He would always try and get me to eat more than I wanted to and it annoyed me to no end. I stop eating when I’m full or I’ll just graze eat through out my day. I actually had to get really firm and sometimes snappy with him about it because he was a over bearing. We eventually got on the same page. But goodness.

    © Photo: Abusty-Ballerina-

    #9

    My partner is Portuguese. Absolutely lovely family but they are LOUD. Not in a bad way, just talk about things loudly and all at once - my family is pretty conservative so was a big shock!

    © Photo: SweetPatootie97

    #10

    I’m American and my husband is Chinese. The biggest culture shock is when we went to a Chinese New Years party with other Chinese nationals living in the US and the hosts handed us red bags when we came in. I didn’t know what this was but said thanks! and moved on. Later in the night I opened these red bags, expecting a card or nice note, but they were giving out HUNDREDS of dollars! My husband was unmoved because he said this is always what they do when celebrating the new year or other big events. I’ve come to learn that money and gifts are a show of respect to the Chinese way more than they are in America. I can go to my aunts house and not bring her a gift, but if we don’t bring a gift to his aunts she says we are disrespectful.

    © Photo: raketheleavespls

    #11

    I’m from the US and married a Venezuelan and I always knew they are more family oriented then me but my god her family will just show up at our house randomly. They all live separately but will gather together and just show up. No text or calls even to my wife. Also they just walk in no knocking or anything, if the door is locked and they have to knock they think it’s rude. I don’t know why they can’t be away from each other for more the. A couple days.

    #12

    My partner is from Argentina and I'm from Guatemala. We both are native Spanish speakers and yet we have completely different words for the same thing.
    Example: pineapple in Guatemala is called "piña" and in Argentina is "ananá". "Piña" in Argentina means punching so imagine his shock when I first asked him if he liked "piñas"?

    © Photo: random_star0350

    #13

    I'm Dutch. Once, my Dutch friend got a request to pay back 30 cents. We still laugh over it.

    #14

    My ex is Albanian and I he had an attitude like "I am the man, I will take care of you" which I wasn't used to. I went on holiday to Greece and he sent me about 200 Euros to buy him some cigarettes and said to keep the rest, which was around 80 Euros. He was ultra masculine and had an attitude of I was to be taken care of, but almost in a controlling way. He was always sweet and soft when it was just us, but anytime we were out in public, like at a coffee shop, it felt like he was putting on an act to prove himself. I left him when I realised that although he was good to me, his mother would never let him marry a non Albanian and he'd choose his mother over me lol.

    © Photo: pleinedecollagene

    #15

    Not really culture as much as it is class for me, but my SO is from a fairly middle class family, i come from the benefit background. The biggest shock for me was literally how my entire way of life is so far from what most people consider normal.. I thought it was normal for everyone to shout at eachother but it turns out all my family are crazy mentally ill and refuse to get help because "they shouldn't have to change who they are" even though they watched me change into a better person through medication and therapy and it just baffles me how people can just chose not to better themselves and the lives around them? My SOs family are the kindest people I have ever met, they have clean homes, cars, jobs... all the things that I hope to achieve one day.

    © Photo: anon

    #16

    From the UK, my partner is from southern US. Took him to England last year, he liked it a lot. Didn’t really understand some manners and customs, or why there are dogs at the pub, milk in the tea or why we were going for an after dinner walk in the rain. He also raised an eyebrow at my 19 yo niece drinking and smoking. My family is super lefty liberal and his is the exact opposite, my family adores him but he has been hesitant to have me meet some of his family. We will see how it goes!

    © Photo: rebelwithoutaloo

    #17

    My boyfriend is from the midwest and puts Snickers in his fruit salad.

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    #18

    Asian here dating a North American. He doesn't understand why I'm so close to my family. It's especially hard because our family immigrated to NA, which brought us even closer together. I love spending time with my family, and he likes them, but doesn't see himself visiting family often. In the future if we're still together, I would love to be able to have a meal with them at least once a week, or even just once a month. He's content going a few weeks without contacting family at all, not even his own. Never understood it, his parents are great and have grown to be better than they were during his childhood. We're learning more about each other every day, that's for sure lol.

    © Photo: anon

    #19

    I'm Ukrainian and my bf is Filipino. Biggest difference is the family size. My family is tiny tiny, just me and my mum. We don't have any family in Canada, and I'm not close/have contact with the people back home. His immediate family has about literal dozens when it comes to cousins, aunts, uncles etc.

    It's incredibly overwhelming to have so many people in your face when it comes to holidays. I had to break out of my shell more, but him and his family had to accept that I need to get out and walk around for a bit to cool off.

    #20

    My husband's family are Polish and Catholic (I'm English and Protestant) so they celebrate Christmas more on Christmas Eve than Christmas Day. Also, the Christmas dinner I went to had EIGHT courses! Apparently, that was a cut-down version and they normally have TWELVE! My parents normally feed the 5000 on Christmas but even so, they only do two courses.

    Apart from that, he won't drink or eat meat on certain days which doesn't bother me because I don't drink and I've been trying to reduce my meat intake anyway.

    The only thing I've found challenging is more due to regional differences than cultural. My husband grew up in Yorkshire and there are some words that are completely normal and acceptable to say there but are very offensive anywhere else in the country so I had to tell him not to say those words anymore.

    © Photo: Mooncinder

    #21

    My partner is Indian - if he cooks and offers me food he gets really upset and keep asking until I say yes. Apparently it’s rude to turn down offered food in India.

    When I’ve visited and stayed with his parents I’ve always said yes, it’s only an issue when I’m not hungry or he’s made something really Indian that I’m not a fan off and rather waste my calories on something else.

    © Photo: Burnedbutnotbroken

    #22

    I lived in Peru for a while and stayed in a hostel for the first few days after arriving. The owner of the hostel was super helpful and, despite also owning a guide business, didn’t try to sell me anything. We hung out and he introduced me to some local rock climbers and told me about an upcoming climbing competition. I ended up becoming part of a community of amazing climbers and guides, finding roommates, and a romantic partner.

    Months later, I found out that my partner’s brother worked with the hostel owner at his guide business. It dawned on me that the guy probably had no idea I had settled in the city, partly thanks to his help. We were going to the guide business to meet the brother and I thought I might see the company owner. I’d just baked some cookies, so I brought some as a gift to say thanks for all his kindness.

    It did NOT go over well. The whole workplace fell silent. The awkwardness was palpable. My partner was furious with me.

    I guess in Peru you DO NOT bake for someone else’s man. Lesson learned.

    #23

    Don't know if this works because I'm not in it anymore. My first real adult relationship was with a Muslim man. His family was very religious, he was a practicing muslim for the most part. He grew up in Germany in a very conservative household and I grew up in California, my family is Hindu and liberal, so we had a TON of cultural differences. He was funny, brilliant and so incredibly cool and confident. I think he was really torn between wanting to be progressive and open but still afraid of disappointing his family, disobeying his religion and had trouble breaking away from his societal norms.

    Dealing with someone who was stuck in between wasn't easy and I had made many sacrifices to make our relationship work. When we met he told me he loved everything about how free, opinionated and outgoing I was. A few weeks in he told me that he liked the way I dressed but that it wasn't appropriate for me to wearing certain things in public when I was with him, so I started to dress more conservatively when we were out together. A few months in he said he was always worried that something bad would happen when I'd go out and drink with my friends and that drinking was wrong, so I stopped drinking. He told me he loved how outgoing I was but didn't think it was okay to go out to a bar/club alone with my close male friends because thats when bad things happen, so I stopped doing that. I think everything finally came to a head when I called him out on all the things he did that didn't fall under being a good muslim like smoking w**d and having s*x.

    He said something along the lines of he wanted to be with someone like me in theory and loved me but when he was in it, he felt like it was wrong and he was worried about my salvation, which sucked to hear. I think the socio-cultural and religious differences proved to be too much for us.

    Anyways, I do think intercultural relationships can work, as long as both parties and readily compromising. Which wasn't the case in my relationship.

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    #24

    My partner is also Dutch, she's from the south and her family speaks Limburgish at home, though they also speak regular Dutch and most speak German due to the border proximity.

    Honestly, the biggest shock was realizing how different Canadians were. We kinda get painted with the "polite American" banner, which is generally accurate, but little differences my SO would point out were very interesting. The other biggest has been trying to learn Dutch/Limburgish, having a really tough time of it, but her Oma from a small village in Limburg really appreciates it and even laughed at a butchered joke I made there. I was really worried they'd get annoyed or make fun of my broken Dutch, but they were actually just really happy I made an effort to try. Its a hard language to learn with only English I find.

    The biggest thing with her is how polite and sincere a lot of random Canadians are in public. Almost everyone thanks bus drivers or Uber drivers or service staff, which her whole family found weird for their first years here as in there mind "you're thanking them for doing what they're paid for. What?". When I said Dankjewel to the Tram Driver in Amsterdam, they were surprised and I believe made a comment to my SO joking in Dutch.

    There was also a big difference in "class" stuff I guess you could say. In NL, she claims they are very formal with the way they address teachers, parents, authority figures basically. In Canada, we are almost always on equal footing besides using little things like "Mr/ms" and "sir". She found the casual way I'd make jokes at my parents very jarring at first.

    The biggest shock for her was probably our slang and language at first coming to Canada. She learned most of her English from TV and books, but those don't match how Canadian teenagers speak whatsoever, it's like 60% slang.

    Her biggest shock from dating a Canadian probably comes from the fact that I'm a Newfoundlanders from a big Newfoundlanders family on both sides. Our culture is quite a bit different from hers, and is extremely inclusive most of the time (Come from away, for an extreme example. My town is an hour away from Gander). My mother immediately was hugging her, showing her around, making jokes about us together, and she said "love you both" as we left. We'd been dating for quite a bit here, but this was still hugely different to how her parents act. For reference, I think my mom hugged her then and her own mom hadn't in over a decade. She also said vocalizations of their love were strange, but my mum and dad were big about saying I love you before going to bed or getting off the phone.

    It really has been interesting and I love NL and NL food!

    EDIT: The Cheek Kissing gets me so awkward too! How are you more reserved than us but kissing everyone?! I swear I turn into a tomato whenever it happens.

    © Photo: Tyco_994

    #25

    I dated a Bolivian guy for a few months as a USA born person. Biggest shock was how they displayed affection. He wanted constant kissing and physical contact, and also expected me to buy gifts and celebrate each month anniversary. As someone who dislikes PDA and over the top displays of affection it was rough for me, and I felt like I never satisfied his desires in the relationship.

    © Photo: anon

    #26

    I'm South Asian and so is my husband, we currently have my MIL staying with us.

    After I got married, she expected my mom to call her and ask permission for me to visit... which is apparently a really old cultural thing. I laughed my a*s off all the way to my mom's house after I said no way.

    © Photo: QueenofKeelas

    #27

    American marrying hardcore Chinese. Almost everything from parents to money to what we perceive as “clean”; clearly wrong and incorrect Chinese medicine, how to argue, how to resolve conflict, how you have sex, what you eat. How you have and treat friends of both sexes.

    #28

    My husband is Mexican and his family does everything extremely spontaneously. My family plans vacations months in advance, even dinner at each others’ houses is at least a week ahead of time. Luckily for me he is a planner too but the rest of the family is super spontaneous. Also so much more friendly

    #29

    I’m Asian American and my boyfriend is not. I show my love through actions and I’d get upset if my needs or wants weren’t anticipated. Asians tend to be very good hosts and are always offering food, water, etc. After meeting his family, I understand that these things need to be vocalized. My communication has improved a lot and to his credit, he’s gotten better at being proactive in our relationship.

    #30

    Am British. The traditional mating dance of my people is - find someone you like and mock them mercilessly and relentlessly until one of you passes. Sincerity is reserved for weddings, funerals and the birth of children, and even then you have to make fun of the baby.

    I now live in the US. Turns out that this doesn’t go down well with many Americans much of the time. People are sometimes sincerely nice????? to people they want to see naked here????? Before marriage?????

    © Photo: tardiscoral

    #31

    Not really a partner but when I was online dating a Woman asked me to attend church with her for our first date .


    I'm Christian and a church goer but that was A LOT even for me . I think I was her first online date so she didn't realize what a big ask that was, to me that's like asking me to meet your parents on a first date.

    © Photo: theKetoBear

    #32

    I'm a swiss woman going out with a British man. The lack of quality food at supermarkets shocked me. The British way of "eating healthy" too.

    © Photo: _isara_

    #33

    My partner is from the American South and I'm from the Midwest. My biggest shock was learning a toboggan is a wool hat and not a sled where he's from. I found out when he said something about wearing a toboggan, and I was like, what.

    © Photo: the_imminent_hobo

    #34

    My boyfriend and his mom are Chinese. When we visited his mother, she got a lot of food for us. I normally don't eat too much. So after I had my dinner, she was shocked I wouldn't eat anymore.

    I got another plate and stuffed myself in order to not be rude 😔. Ever since then, I've been eating more so I can prepare myself to eat at future family dinners.

    © Photo: genjen97

    #35

    My partner is French and I’m german.

    We compromised on having dinner around 7PM rather than 8:30 or later for him and 6 for me. Also Germans eat cold at dinner and to him it was so odd, somwe agreed to only do it half the evenings.

    I accepted to be less direct with him in feedback because he just sometimes could not handle my directness. In turn he tried to be more direct and not add fluff because I sometimes will not get what he means if he adds too much indirectness.

    I introduced him to German beds: two separate 90cm mattresses in a single 1.8m bed and both get their own covers. He thought it was super unromantic at first but now he wonders how he ever lived with one sheet in a tiny 1.40m bed with his previous girlfriend. If both are well rested both are happier!!

    I had to learn how to spend hours and hours on a table for a big holiday dinner. In Germany we put everything on the table for dinner then we eat then we are done. In France every course is eaten and then they start cooking the next one and it’ll probably be 30min. On occasions like Christmas this can take FOREVER. And I kinda hate it. I just want to be done eating and do something else. I’ve had to accept that habit and just get up During courses for a little walk to not get too bored or antsy

    © Photo: ktv13

    #36

    I'm a white Christian American woman and my boyfriend is an Arab Muslim Saudi man! I guess I've gotten used to eating a lot less pork (I still eat some haha) and I also like partaking in a later dinner sometimes.

    I guess a belief for me that has changed was that it opened my eyes a lot to Arab people and Muslim people in general even though I already had Muslim friends.

    Oh yeah, and in Arabic you don't pronounce Islam like "IZ-lam" you pronounce it like "Issss-lam" (like a snake S.)

    #37

    When I was living in Austria, my Slovenian ex boyfriend used to absolutely cringe at the way I wash dishes and vice versa.

    I'm British and I can't speak for all Brits but we do have a tendency to fill up the sink (or a bowl within the sink) with water and washing up liquid, wash everything in there, leave it to dry and then tip the dirty water out. Rinsing is optional (I am not a rinser)

    He honestly used to gag at this.

    I, on the other hand, was so bemused as he basically used a year's supply of water and dish soap while washing a few plate under a constantly running steam.
    (Side note: he also tipped thinks like leftover soup down the toilet - is that a thing?)

    I'll be honest though - everyone I met from the continent was absolutely outraged at the 'British method'. One French girl refused to eat off my plates.

    To this day, I don't know what's right or wrong but I absolutely love the controversy 😂.

    © Photo: harley3987

    #38

    Dating a guy from Ohio and I was shocked that pizza logs aren't a thing there...

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    #39

    We are from neighbouring European countries, me UK and him France, so there's very little difference but I can think of a few straight off. France has a weird tradition of wishing each other a happy saint's day, they literally have all the saints' names on every calendar and expect a cake or at least a phone call "bonne fête Marie/Eric/etc !".

    A well known one in France is spending 3-4 hours at the dinner table, we snack lunch in the UK, we might even eat while on the go.

    Yet again in France, it's the custom to greet people by kissing them on the cheek, some people do sloppy smackers (ugh I just tap my cheek on theirs) but if you kiss your darling children on the mouth everyone looks at you like you're a pedophile. And the French have a nasty habit of joking about small children being in love if a girl plays with a boy, "I'm not leaving those two alone ha ha ha" which I think is gross, how can anyone sexualise babies and toddlers? It's like the 70s or something.

    #40

    I had always dated men 10-20 years older than me until one day one asked me about watching the cartoon He Man growing up. I kindly replied that was before my time and realized that it really is harder to relate to people of a different generation.

  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 00:00

    A survey of 2,000 women found that one in ten couldn't correctly identify a diagram of the female reproductive system. The results were revealing: nearly one in four misidentified the vagina, almost half (46%) couldn't properly identify the cervix, and six in ten mistook the uterus for a different body part.

    The good news? Fifty-seven percent of those surveyed admitted they don't know as much about women's anatomy as they should, and 42% said they wished they had a better understanding of their own bodies.

    To help close that knowledge gap, one person on Threads asked women to share the most valuable thing a gynecologist had ever told them that every woman should know. The responses poured in, with hundreds of women sharing advice, misconceptions, and little-known facts that deserve to be common knowledge. Here are some of the most-liked replies.

    #1

    1 in 4 pregnancies end in a miscarriage.
    The most common cause of a miscarriage is chromosomal abnormalities.
    If you have a miscarriage, it’s likely nothing you did, it’s not your fault, and you’re not alone.

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    #2

    “If it was supposed to smell like flowers then it would.”

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    #3

    If she says, “it’s just a pinch,” or “it’s just uncomfortable,” without pain management, she’s lying. It will be pain that redefines your pain scale.

    © Photo: jennifer_yount

    #4

    My gyno told me if you have PCOS or something that causes less periods, you absolutely need to get checked for uterine cancer/be aware of the signs. If our uterus doesn’t shed like it should, we’re more likely to get uterine cancer. I’m 33 and was just told this last year after almost 15 years of extremely sparse periods (I’m all good though thank goodness)

    © Photo: authorsarahmayer

    #5

    It takes more than 6 weeks to heal after having a baby

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    #6

    Our breast tissue is also located in our underarms and upper back. When you do your monthly self breast exam, check in these locations for lumps as well.

    #7

    Migraines caused by the pill mean that you are at increased risk of stroke or blood clots

    © Photo: shanham84

    #8

    Painful period are NOT normal

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    #9

    “We have many pain relief options for IUD insertion…everything from a pain block with local anesthetic to putting you under. Which pathway do you feel comfortable pursuing?” -Absolute GAME CHANGER!

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    #10

    Using pantyliners daily actually traps the bacteria. Is better to use breathable cotton undies

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    #11

    You can still get pregnant even if you aren’t ovulating

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    #12

    Bleeding heavy for 7 days is not normal. I went in and turns out I have a cyst and my lining was wasaayy to thick. Finally got on the right medication and I’ve never felt better during my periods

    © Photo: floricel___

    #13

    Most women will push out a baby and you won’t even be able to tell 8 weeks later. “Stretching it out” is a myth.

    #14

    I’m a 4th year Naturopathic Medical Student. And one of my mentors gave me a great piece advice saying, “sometimes all a woman needs is a boyfriend-ectomy” … the way it’s so true though. when women leave stressful situations and relationships, their body can finally start to re-regulate again

    #15

    This is for my anemic girlies but to take iron supplements with vitamin C to help with absorption!

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    #16

    Superficial endometriosis often does not show up in imaging but can still cause catastrophic pain and bleeding, if your GYN says you don’t have it because it doesn’t show up on ultrasound or MRI fire them and see a specialist.

    #17

    Tubal ligation isn't 100% foolproof. As many as 3% of patients still get pregnant. My OB had 1 woman at age 48 and one at age 54... both had tubes tied many years before and both got pregnant anyway. Just something else to be worried about

    #18

    No matter how long you've been married/monogamous, you should always get tested for STIs

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    #19

    There is a nerve directly connecting your right ovary to the appendix. So, when you ovulate on the right, you might experience symptoms similar to the ones of appendicitis. That’s why until the 80s many young girls where operated of appendicitis when they were actually ovulating...
    Found out recently at 28, apparently I’m one of those who ovulates on the right and thankfully they didn’t wrongly remove my appendix

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    #20

    one of the causes for BV can be drying your underwear with dryer sheets, now i wash them in a separate load with just unscented laundry detergent and hang dry them or throw them in dryer without adding anything. keep it simple, no fragrances! and obviously wipe front to back

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    #21

    Herpes isn’t automatically tested for even if you say “I want a full panel” because 1. It’s so common and 2. You can’t get a positive swab unless you’re having an outbreak. Ask for a blood test, it will show positive if you’re positive and have had at least one outbreak or negative if you don’t have it.

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    #22

    That an untreated iron deficiency can lead to organ failure

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    #23

    If you're having waves of severe pain and vomiting significantly above your baseline, call your gyno immediately. could mean an urgent care or er visit. ovarian torsion is no joke and it can be intermittent, potentially not showing up on the first ultrasound if you're not currently in pain.

    #24

    Don’t pee before an ultrasound. Even if you really need to. Apparently I had to have a full bladder to do an ultrasound for endo. (I was 16, 21 now) also drink lots of water on your period. My gyno was very adamant on that lol.

    #25

    Perimenopause can start as early as 35years old

    #26

    Extremely hot baths are not good for u occasional baths and mostly showers are better for feminine hygiene.

    #27

    Take the pill without the 7 day break. You’ll never get a period, and it’s perfectly safe to do so.

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    #28

    Hormonal birth control helps prevent ovarian cancer later in life

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    #29

    You only need 4 periods a year to be fertile ( in relation to PCOS)

    #30

    Grapefruit juice can make birth control less effective

    #31

    Feel like it's pretty basic knowledge but that prenatals are great to take whether you're pregnant or not

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    #32

    I learned this working in the OB/GYN clinic!
    If you’re prone to getting BV. Those medication’s are just a Band-Aid.. your body just produces more bacteria than usual that throws off your pH. Taking probiotics daily can prevent that.

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    #33

    Wiggling your toes helps with discomfort during an exam

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    #34

    Any liquid soap contains preservatives which are usually antibacterial which can increase the chance of yeast infections due to biome imbalance. Only use bar soap, like Dove, unscented, on the external only.

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    #35

    If you’re having sharp pains in your breasts stop drinking caffeinated drinks and start taking vitamin E it will clear that right up

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    #36

    Regular STD panels don’t include testing for HPV, you have to request it so you could have it but never know until you specifically request it to be included.

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    #37

    Check your testosterone levels after 50.

    #38

    Raspberry tea for period pain. Two cups a day with three tea bags for each cup

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    #39

    A suspicious/malignan tumor on your breasts will feel hard, “pointy edges” with no clear start and finish

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    #40

    "the majority of the problems women's have comes from a man"...

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    #41

    Not having biological children can lead to an increased risk of breast cancer.

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    #42

    Naproxen is the best this for pain radiating directly from the ovaries.

    #43

    Stop eating junk! Stop sugar and sugary things and stuff like that, don’t eat chocolate a lot and work out! Basically everything is about what you consume and how your lifestyle is, having a kitkat a day wasn’t a good idea….also, herbal tea is the best! I cannot stress this enough but herbal tea is the best, and say no to caffeine cause it’s really really bad for you…once or even four times a month is fine but that’s it

    #44

    Stop shaving and waxing. That hair is there for a reason.

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    #45

    Breastmilk actually harms babies teeth in the long run. I learned that my daughter is 10 and we’re still dealing with some of those issues from breast-feeding.

  • Sunday 26 July 2026 - 00:00

    We’ve all, unfortunately, encountered entitled people in the wild: the person who thinks they can cut in line because they’re in a hurry, the family who insists you switch seats with them so they can sit together, the group-project slacker who thinks they deserve the “A.”

    Those are all “other” people, though. Not the ones we’ve deliberately chosen to be a part of our lives. And that’s what makes the stories we’re going to share with you today sting: These weren’t rude strangers, whom you could perhaps simply write off and move on from. These were friends. And their audacity was so astounding that it was enough to permanently alter, if not end, their friendships.

    Read on for some of the most entitled “friends” to grace the r/EntitledPeople subreddit, and let us know which ones you found most infuriating.

    #1 My Friend Said I Owe Her Half My Inheritance Because Her Family “Didn’t Have That”

    So my great-aunt passed away and left me a decent inheritance. Nothing wild, but enough to pay off my student loans and set aside a little savings. I told my friend , we’ll call her Rachel, over lunch.

    She got quiet. Then she said, “Wow. Must be nice. I bet you’ll help out your friends who weren’t so lucky growing up.”

    I laughed and said something like, “I mean, I’ll probably treat my friends to dinner more often.”

    She stared at me and said very serious:

    “No, like, actually help. We’ve known each other forever. I think it’d be fair if you split it.”

    I thought she was joking. She was not. She then brought up all the times she “covered my coffee” in college and said, “This is just the universe evening the score.”

    Needless to say, I didn’t share a dime. She blocked me on Instagram and told our mutual friends I “ghosted her after I got rich.”

    Sorry, Rachel. The only thing I’m splitting is the check, with people who actually support me.

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    Writing for Psychology Today, Forrest Talley, Ph.D., confirms something most of us blessed with a great circle of friends probably already know: healthy friendships make our lives better. We can have fun with them, share our worries with them, depend on them—and they do the same for us. But great friends do more than just bring joy into our lives. As Talley explains further, healthy friendships also boost our immune systems and may even help us live longer.

    However, as some of us might also be painfully aware, not every friendship is healthy. And if healthy relationships improve our health and aging, some researchers have posited that the opposite may also be true for our “negative social ties.”

    And, honestly, we don’t even need to analyze this research to draw the same conclusion: there are simply some people we might have once considered friends that we’d be far better off without. The ones who are constantly creating drama, the ones who drain our energy, the ones who make us feel bad about ourselves and leave us feeling anxious. And entitled friends are often guilty of all of this—and perhaps more.

    #2 Friend Tried To Invite Random People To My House To Sit In The Hot Tub

    This has been a little while ago, so I don't remember all the little details.

    Anyway, I have a hot tub. It sits outside, so it really only gets used when the weather allows.

    I also have a friend who thinks everyone should just do whatever she wants.

    We were out and about one day when she said something about possibly coming over to sit in the hot tub one evening. Which I have no problem with my friends coming over, as long as I'm home and they ask ahead of time.

    So I told her that's fine, just let me know.

    Well it turns out she had told other people, none of whom I had ever met, that I would be okay with them coming over too.

    I let her know that I definitely wasn't okay with that, and that she had no business inviting people I don't know to my house. I think she tried to say something after that, but I just told her that I wasn't going to let random people into my house.

    She seemed a bit taken aback that I wasn't on board with all of that. But seriously? What was she expecting?

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    #3 Friend Wanted Me To Cancel My Kid’s Party To Attend Her Kid’s Party

    So me and my two friends (all 33f) have been a trio since middle school. Ironically, all three of our oldest children have the same exact birthday but different years. Me and Tonya have boys aged 8 and 10. Lauren has a 2 year old daughter.

    A few months ago, Tonya and I decided to plan a bowling/laser tag birthday party for our boys. We told Lauren about the party and invited her. She said she would try to make it. Cool. The party was on a weekend, not the day of their actual birthday.

    A few days before the party, Lauren FaceTimed Tonya and I to invite us to her daughter’s birthday party. It was for the same day as our boy’s party. No big deal. It’s the weekend after their birthdays so we knew the parties would eventually clash. We told her we wouldn’t be able to make it and we thought that was that.

    The day after the party, Tonya and I FaceTimed Lauren to ask how her daughter’s party went. We saw pictures online and thought the decorations came out beautifully. We were all ears just waiting on the details of baby girl’s 2nd birthday. Instead, we were met with anger. Lauren starts asking why we didn’t show up. Ummm we were at our boy’s party and she knew this. She then tells us we were supposed to cancel their party and come to her daughter’s. When I asked her why she would think we would even consider doing that she said a 2nd birthday party was more important than 8 and 10 and we should have just picked a different day.

    I’m not one to argue so I tell Lauren she’s tripping and hang up the video call. The next day I noticed she logged me out and changed the password to a streaming account we shared. Is it that serious? I guess to her it was. I haven’t talked to Lauren since.

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    Verywell Mind defines entitlement as a personality trait where someone is convinced that they are owed special treatment or recognition despite not having earned either. Entitled people often believe that the world owes them something, but they do not put in any effort in return.

    That imbalance, of taking without giving back, is what makes entitlement so corrosive in a friendship specifically. In most healthy relationships, there is an unspoken understanding that both parties will show up for each other. Sometimes you show up for me, and sometimes I show up for you. The help is reciprocal, and it’s given freely and without expectation. So there’s no need to keep score—there’s simply trust that it’ll even out eventually.

    But entitled friends go against this unspoken standard. Instead of viewing friendship as a two-way street built on mutual care, they often treat it as a source of endless favors, attention, and support, and they don’t feel obligated to return the same kindness.

    #4 Friend Thought I Was Funding Her Whole Party’s Drinks.

    I’m a bartender, a girl I’m friends with just turned 30. She invited me out but i was working and then she’s like we might swing by lol and I say cool! I’ll give you a free birthday drink maybe a few. I’m thinking she took that as i was doing that for her and her alone maybe some of her girls, depending on the group size.

    She shows up with a group of like 20 people and then expects me to hook them allll up and give them a table that needs to be reserved in advance. I was like girl what i can’t do that and she says “it’s not like I’m asking you to pay” whaaaa? Then who’s paying? My boss? You think that would go over well?

    These folks were drankinnnnn too, I’m talking a tab of like $3000 ish all together. And she thought It would be free because we are friendly.

    Also i made $75 in tips from the whole group.

    Girl bye.

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    #5 Oh, My Rich Friends. We Can't Be Friends Anymore..

    So, tonight, an acquaintance I haven't spoken to in at least 5 years calls me. "Marcus", I'll call him. Marcus did make a little chit chat, then they ask me what I'm doing for work. I say I am between full time stuff right now, but looking.

    They agree that the job market is hard, and how they are divesting themselves of a business that they've had for decades as 'the suckers aren't buying anything anymore.' I give a little laugh, because that's a weird way to refer to clients, but maybe Marcus is a little down.

    They then mention about their home in New England, and their home in the west coast in a 'highly desirable area on the beach' that they want to split the entire summer between the two locations because it's so hot in the south in the summer. I say something along the lines of "That's a heck of a problem to have" and we laugh again. That's when they drop their entitled request on me. The want someone to care for their extremely obese, nearly bed bound elderly auntie that lives with them. 7 days a week, no days off, for 3 months.

    The best part? This home is not air conditioned. They want to offer a fellow human $200.00 per week since it's 'light duty', but, they say I'd have my own room. (I own a home, so that isn't of interest to me.)

    I explained that I was going to have to pass on this amazing offer, and Marcus got really insulted. He whined and said they didn't know anyone as nice as me, and since I was a flight attendant before this, I know "the first aid and serving food stuff". Again, I declined and he was confused. I said " Would you work for $200.00 a week? Because I won't." He said he would call in a week to see if I changed my mind. Blocked him as soon as the call ended.

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    And this isn’t an accident or just a misunderstanding. It’s more than that. Because entitled friends think they are inherently owed something, they don’t believe this standard should apply to them at all. So they’re the type of friends who expect you to drop everything when they need you but don’t offer you the same favor when the tables turn. And when you go out of your way to help them, they also show you no gratitude.

    This isn’t because they didn’t notice the effort you put into doing so. It’s because, whether they realize it or not, they didn’t believe they needed to. To them, your help wasn’t a gift—it was simply what was due to them. That’s also why they can react with frustration or even anger when they’re told “no.” Since they genuinely believe they’re owed something from you, setting a perfectly reasonable boundary can lead to them feeling like you’ve wronged them.

    #6 Letting Old Friends Crash At Your House - Never Again!

    A friend I've known since 1995 or so was in town and asked if he and his wife could stay with me from Sunday thru Thursday morning. I agreed because I know them, we get along, and my two children like them. From the beginning, it was very uncomfortable; the friend(Don, to make it easier) kept making s*xual innuendos in front of my kids and his wife(Clara). Example: saying he thought he'd be sleeping in my bed. Absolutely not, and I told him more than once I didn't like him speaking like that in front of my children. Yesterday, clara went out with a friend of theirs(Alex). I work remotely and don just slept all day. When he finally got up, he asked me if Alex could spend the night at my house too! I have never met this man before and was shocked he would ask that. I immediately said no. I was thinking of my kids, who are 6m and 3f. Hell no would a stranger be allowed to spend the night! I guess they expected that I would say yes, because they began pushing, saying they know Alex and he isn't a creep or one of 'those' people, how he just needs to get away from his extremely crowded home, etc. I still said no. Don tried saying I know him and he'd never bring anyone dangerous around my kids. At that point I was ready to ask them to cut their visit short, since they couldn't respect my very solid no. Shortly after this, Don said they had decided to get a hotel for the rest of their visit. I was relieved and they left last night. Lesson- even old friends can be jerks about respecting boundaries. I've decided to cut them both off after this and feel happier for it.

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    #7 Family Friend Demanded To Borrow My Car For A Week Because Of A Very Important Trip

    A family friend called me out of the blue, all sweet at first, asking how I was. Then she casually drops, So I need your car for about a week. I have this really important trip and I figured since you barely drive yours anyway, it would not be a big deal.

    I told her very politely that I do not lend my car to anyone. She instantly flipped telling me I was being selfish and not thinking about how important this is for her.

    For the record my barely driven car is how I get to work, run errands, and live my life. And this very important trip? A beach vacation with her boyfriend.

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    #8 My Friend Slept With My Crush And Then Got Mad That I Still Liked Him

    EDIT: We are NOT friends anymore, haven’t been for at least a year. I called her my friend because that’s what she was at the time. I did eventually grow a spine lol

    We met him at the same time and she kept calling him gross and ugly. I thought he was cute but I was too shy to do anything. We all hung out a few times and literally the same night I started flirting with him she suddenly didn’t think he was gross anymore.

    He asked her about me and told her that he thought I was cute. She told him to not even bother with me cause I thought he was ugly. No I didn’t???

    Then they slept together a few times but she kept calling him gross and ugly for some reason?

    A little while later I went to his house to watch a movie and it felt like we were just meant to be tbh.

    We started a relationship and she got MAD. She had two other guys she actually seemed to like but she needed him to like her as well. After 2ish months she got into a relationship and said we could all finally be friends since she wasn’t available anymore. That I could finally feel safe in my relationship since he had to let her go.

    THEN she told me he tried to cheat on me with her. I normally trust friends first, but the day he “cheated” he was with me lol

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    And that’s the rub that makes the actions of an entitled friend sting in a way no rude stranger ever could. There’s a big difference between a stranger who cuts you off in line and a friend who treats a boundary as an affront and your time, energy, and loyalty as something they’re entitled to.

    The stranger doesn’t know you and doesn’t owe you much more than human decency—they may have failed to notice you, but there’s no real betrayal in it. A “friend,” on the other hand, may have noticed exactly how much you give and decided that was simply the baseline.

    #9 Friend Wants Me To Make Her A Wedding Dress For The Cost Of Materials

    So I have a Degree in Fashion which some people think means I can be their personal seamstress, i'm used to this problem and I don't mind helping people out but I never work for free.

    My pregnant friend recently reached out to me and asked me if I could make her, her wedding dress and sent me pictures of the idea she had in mind, it isn't exactly a simple dress but also not the most complex i've ever done either, I told her I could for sure do that for her and it'd cost £600, she was shocked at this and told me she thought i'd do it for free and she'd just pay for materials, I pointed out how many hours this would take me to do and all the hand embroidery needed, then I explained I was doing this for a quarter of the price i'd charge other people because she's my friend.

    At this point she started to get very upset telling me I have no idea how much stress she's under with the wedding and the fact she's pregnant and how money is tight and how this should be my wedding gift to her and how great it'd look in my portfolio, I don't think i'm being unreasonable to want some money for this...but other friends are telling me it's horrible how i'm wanting to charge her for this and it's not like i'm a high end bridal shop

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    #10 My Friend Is Mad Because A Random Guy Didn't 'Serve' Her

    Few days ago I went to a dinner party with my friend. It's a Chinese restaurant with big round tables. We sat around a table with about 10 people, she found one guy there attractive (it's a friend's friend, so they didn't know each other), she wanted his attention.

    The guy was chatting with his friend, my friend waved and stopped their conversation, asked him to get some extra tableware for her. The guy called a waitress, said 'Please get some tableware for that lady'. Then he told my friend 'I ordered the waitress to bring it for you.' After that, he continued chatting with his friend.

    Then my friend started her endless complaint, he said the guy was ridiculously impolite. I asked her why?? She said the guy was too rude to not serving her, he did not go to get the tableware for her, but only sitting there and ordered the waitress. She is also angry that the guy kept chatting to his friend, as if she's not important.

    My friend always think she's very beautiful... but clearly not every man finds her attractive.

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    #11 Refusing To Pay More After Already Spending $200 To Clean My Friend’s Sofa

    A good friend of mine invited me to her birthday party, and kids were also coming. My daughter wore a red dress, and she sat with the other kids on a white sofa to watch a movie. The next day, I received a message from my friend stating that my daughter's dress had left a reddish mark on it, and she wanted me to fix it. I hired a sofa cleaner and paid $200 for the service, but my friend was still not happy with the results, and she could still see a pinkish tone somewhere. Now she wants to contact the manufacturer and obtain a solution for the issue, and if it's not under warranty, she wants me to cover the cost. I told her that if she was inviting people and kids to her party, she should protect her furniture. She disagreed by saying that her kids never make a mess.

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    Your friendship no doubt didn’t start this way. Sure, every friendship has its rough patches, but somewhere along the way, small favors slowly became expectations. A last-minute request meant you were now always available. Covering brunch once meant you would always be the one to pay. In other words, those “rough patches” turned into a pattern, where somehow you were constantly expected to give, while your so-called friend simply continued to take.

    The trouble is, this happens so gradually, you often don’t notice the imbalance at first. Not until you’ve reached the point where you’re exhausted and resentful.

    #12 Friend Wants To Use Me As Her Backup ATM

    Next month I (F) am going away on vacation with a long time friend (F). We are going to the Caribbean for five nights. It is not all inclusive so we will be responsible for paying for food, drinks and any activities.

    She asked me how much was I bringing in cash, I said $300 cash plus debit and credit cards. She told me she is going to bring $300 cash but no debit or credit cards. She said she is on a budget and $300 is her limit. I explained that comes around to only $60 per day, this is not one of the cheaper Caribbean islands so food and drink alone won’t leave her with much left over. I reminded her that she needs to factor in cabs, incidentals or any activities we may decide to do. And you never know if an emergency will come up where she will need money. She says to me “that is why I have you” and started to laugh.

    That pissed me off to no end. I tell her that we are both adults who are responsible for our own selves. It would be one thing if she lost her purse and needed money, I would float her money before she even had time to ask. But to purposely use me as her back up ATM is not going to work. I told her now that I know what she is up to, I’m not going to go along with it. If she runs out of money, she will just be out and hungry. She needs to bring her cards with her for her own good.

    She is now telling me I am too harsh and she will bring extra money but no cards. I told her to do what she wants but if there is an emergency she is on her own.

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    #13 I Paid For Everything On Vacation And Now They’re Acting Like I’m The One Who Ruined It

    I covered the Airbnb, gas, groceries, and even two dinners out — all because everyone said “we’ll pay you back when we get home.” Not a single one of them has paid me back. When I brought it up, one friend said, “You seemed cool with it at the time.” Like I was happy to spend $5.000 while everyone else lived rent-free? Now they’re acting weird, saying I’m “being dramatic” about money. But if you can’t afford the trip, don’t go. And if someone fronts the cost, the bare minimum is paying them back. I feel used.

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    #14 Coworker Told Hr I Was Being Exclusive… For Not Inviting Her To My Wedding

    This was honestly one of the weirdest work things I’ve ever dealt with.

    There’s a woman in my office I’m friendly with, but not close to. We’ve had small talk here and there, nothing deep. No lunches together. No real outside-of-work connection.

    She found out I was getting married and asked when the wedding was. Then she straight up asked if she was invited.

    I kinda laughed and said, “Oh no, it’s really small. Just close friends and family.” I didn’t think anything of it.

    She got quiet and a little cold after that, but I figured okay, maybe awkward moment, whatever.

    Fast forward a few days later, I get a meeting invite from HR.

    Turns out she filed a complaint saying I was being “exclusive” and “creating a hostile environment by leaving people out.”

    Because I didn’t invite her. To my wedding. That I’m paying for. That isn’t even work-related.

    So I had to sit in this HR meeting and explain that I’m not required to invite coworkers I barely know to my literal wedding. That it’s a personal event. That it has nothing to do with work or who’s in the office.

    HR honestly looked just as confused as I was. They basically said, “Yep, okay, thanks,” and closed the case.

    But now she acts super passive-aggressive toward me. Like side-eyes, little digs when I walk by. Still bringing it up in these weird sarcastic comments like, “Some people are so inclusive these days.”

    I can’t believe she actually thought HR could… what, make me invite her?

    Some people really do think they’re the main character.

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    So what do experts suggest when it comes to dealing with such entitled people? Once you can recognize the signs, clinical psychologist Dr. Monica Johnson recommends meeting entitled behavior with a mix of firmness and empathy.

    Firmness starts with being assertive about your needs rather than staying quiet to keep the peace. It also entails setting boundaries you’re actually willing to enforce with real consequences. Johnson also advises validating the person’s feelings without caving to their demands. Acknowledging their frustration while still holding your ground keeps the conversation from tipping into a power struggle over who’s “right.”

    #15 “Friend” Gets Mad I Don’t Want To Deal With Her Broken Monitor

    I had a “friend” renting a room in my house for a few months. Many things did not go well. At one point she asked me if I’d like a free computer monitor, but it was broken. I politely declined, but also asked why would I want a broken monitor? She just said she thought she would offer. What?? I just let it go after that, but she was really just trying to dump a broken monitor on to me so she didn’t have to deal with it.

    When she was moving out the monitor was sitting on the floor in the middle of her room and I kept waiting for her to take it, but she just kept walking past it. She announced she was taking her last load of belongings out to her car and I just knew she was going to leave the broken monitor. I just played dumb and was like, “Oh, don’t forget your monitor!”

    She said Oh it’s broken. I said, ok, but we can’t put electronics in the garbage here so you’ll have to recycle it. Then she says there’s not enough room in her car for it. There was. So I just grabbed it and said I think we can get it in your car.

    Then she completely snapped at me and said, “Ya know you can just drop these off at Best Buy!” Ok, then you can do it! How is your broken monitor my responsibility??

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    #16 Whole New Level Of Entitled From A Friend

    Received a text saying I am not a good enough friend because I can't give them as much emotional support as they need. After eleven calls in one day alone. What blew my mind was the "I'm not talking about the times you have been there for me, I'm talking about the times you haven't " referring to when I needed space to deal with the loss of a loved one. Still showed up to decorate for an entire party they planned and brought the food the day after the loss. That wasn't enough. I have never in all my adult years encountered this level of entitled from someone I knew. Dumped a friend. I'm still in shock. Thought I could pick them better!

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    #17 Friend Forgot My Birthday But Expects Me To Splurge For Hers.

    My friend forgot my birthday this year, and it was the second time she's done this. For some context, we are in our early 20s, not married and no kids yet. I'm not a big birthday person and it wasn't a milestone year, so I asked a week before my birthday if she wanted to just grab lunch as it was a Sunday. She said she had a trip planned which was understandable. I ended up having dinner with another friend. The day rolled around and not even a 'happy birthday', but she did text me numerous times to send me pictures of her getting her nails done, her drink order, etc.

    Fast forward to her birthday which is in January. She wants to go to a really fancy restaurant where prices are between $100-150 per person. And since it's a birthday, I will be required to buy a gift, too. Firstly, this took me by surprise because we never planned to celebrate together. Honestly, I'd never spend that much on one meal anyway as I just think it's kind of absurd. Especially, in this current economic climate where groceries are $$$. I also mentionedi to her a while ago that I'm on a tight budget as I'm saving towards a big purchase, alongside paying the usual bills. Not to mention, Christmas has just passed so it's been a period of spending on gifts and food.

    Here's the thing, she just recently got a raise at work. So, she's been on kind of a spending spree as a reward. Am I justified in feeling a little ticked off that she just expects me to do the same and spend an absurd amount of money in celebrating her?

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    That’s also where the empathy comes in. Johnson notes that entitlement often stems from insecurity rather than genuine ill intent, and understanding that can soften how you approach the conversation. But empathy only works alongside those boundaries, not instead of them—it should change your tone, not your limits.

    Finally, Johnson points out that managing this dynamic is genuinely draining, which is why she stresses the importance of self-care and leaning on others for support along the way. That could be a friend, a family member, or a therapist.

    But if you’d rather commiserate with strangers on the internet who get it, perhaps all you need is a subreddit like r/EntitledPeople.

    #18 Entitled Boss Fires Me, Still Wants To "Be Friends".

    It's even worse than the title tbh. I've been this family's nanny for 3+ years. Youngest child is only 6. I took 6 days off (at their insistance) because I was having a miscarriage. The day before I was due to return, I got told "We've actually managed without you so could you just work tomorrow then we don't need you any more. But we can still be friends and meet up".

    I worked that day. Picked up my stuff. Dropped off their keys. By the time I'd driven home she'd blown up my phone with messages saying "I'm upset TOO, you know!" I blocked her number. Now she's harassing my husband.

    Sorry honey. You don't get to fire someone during one of the most traumatic moments of their lives and expect them to stay friends with you. Nor will I come running back when you realise you now have no childcare.

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    #19 Entitled Friend Thinks I Should Put Off Losing Weight Since I'm Making Her Look Bad

    Hi So I (F20) am on a weight loss journey and have lost about 18 kg so far and for the first time in a long time, I actually like how I look in photos. I had not seen my friends for some time due to school and work past few months to lose weight but recently my friends and i decided to have a girls day out nothing crazy. Anyway...day off I kind of get stick in traffic and make it to the restaurant a few minutes later than everyone. Everyone was so happy and excited to see me happy and healthier except Gia(22F). Gia and I have been friends since primary school. She’s always been a bit self-centered, but I didn’t realize just how deep it went until that day.She spent the entire day being so passive aggressive saying i was trying too hard and making her feel like the fat friend now... girl, what?? Later in the night.. she pulled me aside and asked if I could slow down on the weight loss until after her birthday trip in July because I’m apparently making her look bad and that she doesn’t want to be the ugly one in the group photos. I laughed because I genuinely thought she was joking. She wasn’t. She then said that I was changing the vibe between us and that now people were paying more attention to me than her, and it made her feel some type of way She also said I used to be the relatable one and now I’m just trying too hard to be hot. I told her very calmly that I’m doing this to better myself, not to compete with her or anyone else. She got upset and yelled at me saying I was being selfish and putting looks over loyalty....I don't even know what that means. Anyway I haven’t responded to her texts since. Isn't this out of line or am I being sensitive?

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    #20 Friend Of A Friend Wanted To Exclude Me From My Friend’s Birthday Trip Over My Hair Color

    I saw an ask reddit and it reminded me of a funny story from a little while ago.

    I have a friend group that consists of me and three other girls, all of them have dark hair. We were planning a little trip for my friend who we’ll call Gina’s birthday, so it was us and then three of her other friends. Two of her friends also had dark hair except for who I’ll call Sheila.

    So I’m a natural blonde, and Sheila dyes her hair blonde. Sheila told Gina she didn’t want me coming on Gina’s birthday trip because “being blonde is my thing” I’m not even kidding, this girl legit actually disliked me for being blonde.

    And here’s the best part, the trip was to go see a Sabrina carpenter concert lol.

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    #21 'Friend' Tells Me I'm A Horrible Person, Then Asks If They Can Swim In My Pool

    Long story short, the person who was once my best friend and I had a huge falling out. Mostly over her boyfriend, who is not well liked amongst our former friend group. He is 'laid off' more often than he actually has a job, but refuses to look for a new one. He chain smokes, and is drunk before noon when left home alone. He also embarrasses her in public by talking about their s*x life.

    She knows none of us can stand him, and has even made comments to the extent that his friends and family have written him off as a lost cause.

    However I am the only one she told was a horrible friend/person when she was considering breaking up with him, and ALL of use told her she should. To be fair, I may have been a bit more blunt than the rest.

    Now I have a pool, and normally we would all meet up to swim fairly regularly, but hadn't that year due to the fall out.

    So, after 4 months of 0 contact, she texts me 'Let me know if you go swimming today.'

    The nerve of some people.

    Edit: Yes, I already realized she might be trying to reach out, but I think we can all agree that after 4 months a text that only says 'Let me know if go swimming today' and nothing else is a pretty lame attempt.

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    #22 Entitled "Friends" Asking Us To Sell My Husband's Car

    So this story happened around 7 years ago, my husband (DH - 35M) and I (31F) were dating for a year. He was invited to a wedding of his two friends from uni (for the story they will be EG-34M and EB- 33F). EG was actually my husband's roommate for a year and from what he told me they were very close and friends with his parents too. So DH asked me to be plus 1 to wedding.

    We went and it was a wedding where no money was saved. It was in the garden of an expensive hotel (like Hilton) and with full course meal, lots of drinks etc.

    We were seated to a table far away from the bride& groom,not close to family and friends tables also. DH also didn't know anyone on the table. I was a bit irked but DH is a bit naive, so we gave our gifts and danced, had over all good time.

    After wedding we learned that couple went to Maldives for a month for honeymoon.

    2 weeks after the honeymoon, EG calls my husband and asks for a loan. He tells that his father's company is not going well and due to some tax reasons his father named EG as the owner so he is a lot of debt. His wife also doesn't have any savings, they just bought her a car.

    DH tells him that he doesn't have much also, he can only spare 1000 euro but not more. EG tells him to sell his car and give them the money 😅🙃

    DH comes and asks my opinion, he says they are in bad place etc. I'm like "audacity they have 😳" and ofc explained him they shouldn't have so expensive wedding, if they have money problems. And why don't they sell their own car??

    At the end, he didn't give any money and we never heard from them again. Still puzzles me though, how can you be so entitled to ask someone to sell your car to pay your debt??

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    #23 Friend Excitedly Invited Myself And 8 Other Friends Over For Dinner Only To Ask For Us To Pay Her Back The Next Day…

    I have a new friend from my grad school who has been constantly mentioning how she wants us over for dinner so she can “cook for us” so she finally set a date. Her menu of food was pretty lackluster and most of us contributed to her hosting by bringing nice wine and tequila while leaving her one bottle as a hostess gift. The next day she sends us all a message asking if we can pitch in $10 each to cover some of the food cost and to cover the cost of her roommate’s tequila which we didn’t even know was opened.

    I reluctantly sent her the $10 as did some of my other friends even though I had a few friends think if was absolutely ridiculous to do so they completely avoided sending her anything.

    Since then I have sent her a message requesting her to let us know if she expects compensation especially if she is PURPOSEFULLY inviting us and to also let us know if we are using her roommates items which we are expected to pay for.

    I got a lukewarm response from her and now I can’t help but think she is tacky and has bad etiquette.

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    #24 Friend Invites Herself To My Romantic Getaways

    I was dating a flight attendant, Steve, who was based near a very touristic city. We had been meeting halfway and traveled to other places together for long weekends. He visited me on his time off as well. One time I visited him at his hometown and had a great time. I met his friends and liked them a lot and they seemed to like me as well. Like myself he lived very frugally with a goal to retire in a few years. He had a 2 bedroom condo and rented the guest room on Airbnb for extra income.

    When I got back my friend Savannah calls to see how my trip went. I fill her in on how much I enjoyed his town and friends and that we became much closer during my visit. I only knew Savannah in group situations and never hung out with her long enough to get a sense of her personality. My initial thought was that she was being a supportive friend.

    The next night she calls again and tells me she wants to come along with me the next time I see Steve. I tell her no, that we like our privacy. She asks about when the guest room is vacant. I tell her the only time it’s not rented out is when his kids visit.

    This is when I learn she doesn’t like taking no for an answer. She calls me a third night and asks if I can ask him to ask his friends if she can stay with them. I tell I feel like that would be a major imposition and that I won’t ask him. I did a reality check with a few coworkers to see if I was off base. They suggested she was out of bounds and not to further the friendship.

    She calls me a day or so after asking if she can stay at his friend’s places with a new angle. She starts by asking if Steve plans to visit me soon. I tell her yes and she says I should have a party so our friends can get to know him. I tell her that I might do that but don’t have definitive plans for the visit. She doubles down and tells me I should think more seriously about a party. I tell her I’ll think about it. Then she tells me that she wants the opportunity to ask him if she can visit him with me and ask him if he can ask his friends if she can stay with them. I felt she was suggesting that if I don’t ask him privately she will ask him publicly when it would be awkward for him to say no to her. I didn’t talk to her for a year after that. If she hadn’t been in my friend group I would have ended the ‘friendship’.

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    #25 Entitled Friend Drops Me Because I Didn’t Give Her My Disney Plus Login

    So this happened a few years ago and I never clocked it as entitled behaviour rip. To start out, yes I know I was naive but please go easy on a lonely girl doing online university.

    I had a friend in university (during COVID) and we would chat all the time and totally would not do our online tests together or anything (😉🫣). For the most part the friendship was equal with give and take until it came to when she mentioned a show she wanted to watch on Amazon prime video, I had an account and she didn’t have an account but I did, so I have her my login to use for that show. After a bit we didn’t talk as much as before since she graduated earlier than I did and we didn’t have classes together anymore. But after a few months of not talking much at all she asked if I still had my Disney plus account and said yes and she proceeded to ask for my login, which I said no, I already gave you my amazon prime video login for free. She said that didn’t have the show she wanted to watch and really wanted me Disney plus login, to which I said I wasn’t comfortable giving that out for free and even offered to split the cost of the account with her because mine was going to expire and I didn’t know if I wanted to renew it. Well anyways, she ghosted me completely after I didn’t giver my login rip.

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    #26 Friend Expected Me To Pay For His New GF Holiday

    A friend and I had booked a holiday, he found a GF just before and insisted she came as well. Then after I had asked about re-spliting the accommodation costs, he informed me that he expected that I would still split the entire holiday costs 50/50 as I originally agreed - which now included his GFs costs - because he wasn't going to let her pay for anything. He expected me to fork out half of his new GFs activities, food, accommodation etc and I'd never met her.

    I ended up pulling out, told him I was cancelling the accommodation (it was booked in my name only) and he got angry and told me since I was 'changing the rules' I had to still pay for half the accommodation as it was already paid for.

    The fall out was ...... interesting. I cancelled, told him that the accommodation woukd be held for him for 72 hours. He tried to get cheaper accommodation, and failed - but didn't ensure the hotel knew he was still interested. He lost the hold, I returned his money, but he had booked non-refundable flights and failed to get travel insurance (I have told him to), do was out $3200 - which he has demanded I pay him for "ruining his and his GFs holiday".

    #27 Friend Wants Me To Illustrate For Free

    A friend I took and art class with for a year or two had this colourful Idea one day to write a book and for me to be the illustrator, at the time I was not really all that busy but still gave him a strong maybe. Eventually he is at a writers block and just gives up. I assume that he wasn't all that serious about it and forgot all about it.

    Sixish months had passed since school ended when I get a text from him asking if I would like to illustrate for his book for free. Since then I had gotten into an online college course and a job, I am pretty swamped. Naturally I say "I don't know man, I am hella swamped and just do not have time for this." I really do not like saying no, so I was trying to let them off easy whilst not seeming completely uninterested in his project. He gives me a run down and I am just terribly uninterested I tell him It is a cool idea but again I am really busy.

    The next day there is a new message, it describes the character to me, like commisioning an OC to be drawn, and the most hysterical part is he expects this character to be designed, finalised, sketched, and done in two motherloving days. Which is ofc impossible. I confirm this with him, but atlas now he just wants the heads to be drawn, still very impossible and definitely not worth the price of being completely free. I explain the situation one last time yet he holds out hope.

    TLDR: Friend wants me to draw for his book for free with the idealistic budget of paying me nothing and with the deadline of two days, despite being told my life is pretty busy.

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    #28 My Friend Won’t Get License And Won’t Ever Give Me Gas Money

    I’ve had my license for a little over a year now, i got it right after i turned 16. My friend has all her drive times finished, all the practice hours and meets every requirement but WILL NOT take the test for some reason… so for the past year i’ve driven us everywhere and she never helps with gas or anything and obviously we can’t take turns driving to even it out. Whenever i mention her getting her license she gets mad, whenever i mention her helping paying for gas she gets mad. She’s my best friend so i don’t wanna stop driving us places but idk what to do because it’s expensive and annoying. Recommendations please!

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    #29 My Friend Got Mad At Me For Telling Her A Tool She Hasn’t Tried Yet Is Actually Terrible

    I (26F) work in a small office and often get stuck testing new tools my boss wants to implement in our workplace. Last week, he told me tets this AI-ish demo tool to see if it could work for our setup. I spent hours using it and it was… bad. Slow, glitchy, barely any customization, and the analytics were basically useless. I honestly can’t imagine anyone thinking it’s amazing.

    My friend, also a (26F), is a freelance designer who’s recently been obsessed with productivity tools and reels about “life-changing AI.” She came across this same tool and immediately decided it could be used to transform her workflow without trying it herself. She told me she planned to use it everywhere: her portfolio, client demos, even her CV link. I suggested she test it once before fully committing, based on my experience.

    And then she lost it. She accused me of being negative, of “crushing her motivation,” and said I always “bring down her ideas.” She acted like I personally attacked her career because I gave an honest opinion about a tool she hadn’t even used. She started giving me the silent treatment.

    So I called her to talk and sort things out. Instead of listening, she said something really mean about a recent client project I had handled. I told her she was being unfair, but she continued to escalate, bringing more people into the argument over messages and trying to shame me in front of them. At that point, I cut the call, blocked her everywhere, and shut her off.

    Now I have over 50 missed blocked calls from her.

    I still want to fix this because I don’t want to lose a friendship over something like this, but it’s exhausting to deal with something like this.

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    #30 Friend Asked Me To Watch Her Cat For A Week, She’s Across Town No Compensation And Then Laughs When I Ask To Use Her Washer

    I think I just want to vent cus I feel a little Upset but anyways y’all tell me

    So my friend, Mika and I have been friends, though not close friends, for about tow years. We met at the gym and really get along, however She often disappears when she’s in a new relationship and hence why we aren’t super close.

    Well recently she came back into my Life and hung out. During this time she asked me to come watch her cat who is 19 years old while she is out of town and to move her car. Mind you, she lives across town and I am just a recent graduate and pretty broke as I am looking for a job. Mika, has a job and is currently living on her own in a nice apartment, though I think struggling with money to pay a high rent.

    I say sure because her cat is sweet and old and I don’t want her to be alone. First she just asks about her cat and then all Of a sudden as it gets closer she then mentions she also needs to move her car during street cleaning. I get it, don’t want a ticket. Mind you, no compensation or pay, not even an offer for some gas $ to do all this and I’m like okay maybe it’s cuz she’s broke.

    She tells me to make myself at home but clean up after myself- which I am very clean. But she does say do not eat any of her food I’m like okay? Lol. I only go over for a few hours each day because I’m pretty busy myself with job searching, friends and my own cat. I also have like on call jobs. She

    I go over and see she has a washing machine and I’m like Oo it’s expensive to wash and my unit doesn’t have one so I have to take ir somewhere. So we FaceTime so she can see her cat and I say hey! Can I bring my laundry here? And she straight up laughs and says “girl I pay the water bill so no. That’s funny”. Tbh I didn’t think it was too much to ask,

    Needless to say I probably won’t ever offer to do anything like this for her ever again. If it was me, I’d offer someone gas, or food or my laundry machine if i could, guess we’re just different.

    #31 She Borrowed My Laptop To Get A Job , Now She Acts Like It’s Hers

    A couple months ago, my roommate’s laptop broke right before she started a remote job. She was freaking out, so she asked to borrow mine for just a few weeks until she could afford her own. I wasn’t using it much at the time, so I said sure. Just trying to help. it’s been over two months she’s been using my laptop every day to work, make money, hold meetings, everything. I finally told her I needed it back for my own stuff. And she hits me with, You’re not even using it for work, so why can’t I keep using it? Like what the hell? She’s literally been making money off something she borrowed, and now she’s acting like I’m wrong for wanting my own shit back. No signs of buying hers. No thank you. Just attitude. Now she’s being cold and passive aggressive like I did something to her.

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    #32 My Fling From 5 Years Ago Is Mad At Me

    I, 28F have been with my current boyfriend John (name changed) for the past three years. He has been my rock, and I hope to marry him.

    5 years ago, I had a fling with a former college mate. Funnily, he shares the same name as my current boyfriend. We went out on two dates, but he never called me after that so I assumed it fizzled. Tbh I'm very glad now that he made no attempt to contact me after the two dates.

    John the fling and I have little to no contact, however we have a few mutual friends. I recently ran into him at a wedding, and was catching up with him. He asked me if I was seeing someone, and I told him I was dating a guy with the same name as his.

    For some godforsaken reason, John the fling was highly offended by this. He said 'if you wanted to end up with a John, I was right there'. (Like people with the same name are interchangeable). I politely reminded him that he never called me back. He said that he was waiting for me to call him, and I never did, so he gave up. I could have called him, but honestly I wasn't feeling it.

    He made a few unwarranted taunts over text after that, and to protect my peace I simply blocked him. No more of that in 2026.

    My boyfriend simply found it amusing and while he has made a joke about it, we've both taken it in a positive spirit.

    PS: not that it matters, but I should clarify that the name is an extremely common name here in India.

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    #33 I’m Banned From My Friends House For Asking To Sit Next To Their Roomate On The Couch

    I live in (drum roll for stereotypes pls) Portland Oregon

    I’d come to find out that mutuals had blocked me and because nothing happened between me and these individuals I decided to ask their roomate what occurred and here’s the story

    *ahem*

    they blocked me because on one occasion, months ago, i had been in the same room as these individuals and a couple others. we were all in the living room. I had walked into the living room and noticed there was only a spot on a couch, next to an acquaintance i’d talked to a couple of times. I didn’t immediately sit down and instead asked “Hey can i sit there?”
    i was told “No” and i was pretty shocked but i just said okay and sat on the floor instead. No pushback, i didn’t make a fuss of any sort. Just sat on the floor and talked to all these people. Conversation was sweet and nothing out of the ordinary.

    Come to find out two people in that room are extremely angry that i “Didn’t respect the acquaintances boundaries” (??) and have now declared im never allowed over and i’m blocked on everything. Not being allowed over is insane because im best friends with their roomate which is why i was there in the first place. I was never ever told about this persons boundaries nor did they ever tell me about them themselves. When told “no” i sat away from this person on the hard ground while they had an entire couch to themselves. A similar incident has never happened after the fact nor was this “incident” ever brought up to me.

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    #34 Friend Forgot My Bday Two Years In A Row But Expects Me To Remember & Acknowledge Hers

    She is in her late 20’s, single & child free. I am in my early 30’s, married & have 1 toddler. We rarely hang out in person but we do text each other almost every single day and I would consider her a close friend, but after yet another forgotten birthday I’m starting to rethink my friendship with her.

    To be clear I don’t expect anything big for my birthday from any of my friends. A text message is all I’d ask, and I don’t even ask for that. I have had several friends send belated birthday texts and apologies for forgetting because they were so busy and honestly I get that and I appreciate the honesty.

    The reason why this bothers me with this friend in particular is because she expects everyone in her life to go all out for her birthday with a week long planned vacation trip, wish lists for gifts with links that she sends people, and obnoxious social media posts, and yet she can’t be bothered to send me a simply happy birthday text??

    She is the type of person to throw a housewarming party every time she moves into a new apartment, which is twice per year. She also didn’t attend my baby shower because she wanted to attend her brothers football game instead, and when I bought a house she didn’t say anything to me. Be so for real right now…. I’m so over it.

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    #35 My Entitled Friends

    My wife and I have friends (also neighbors) that have recently started to act so very entitled.

    The most recent example happened yesterday. We live in a Midwest state but our little village has an amazing fresh fish shop. It’s very well known in our larger city and constantly recognized with awards. The shop is always closed on Mondays.

    Well, last Monday we planned on fish for dinner. Completely forget the day of the week (I’m retired, it happens) and so I pull into the small parking lot for the fish shop. Big sign - CLOSED. Then I realize it’s a Monday. Ok, no big deal, we’ll do fish on Tuesday.

    At that moment our friends walk out of the store with their package of fish. I’m confused and ask “how?” The neighbor wife tells me, “we knew they were closed on Mondays but we pulled in, walked up and saw the owner inside so we knocked and walked in.”

    These people knew the business was closed, pulled into the parking lot anyway, walked up to the front door and saw the owner inside. They walked in to empty refrigerated display cases and assumed they’d be taken care of.

    When I wondered aloud if the owner would do the same for me (we shop there frequently), the neighbor wife tells me, “they’re closed.”

    Apparently not for the entitled people.

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    #36 My “Friend” Won’t Pay Me Back For Drinks Because She Has Bills To Pay

    So I was recently with a good friend of mine and one of her friends from college for the weekend. We went out to bars the first night and each took turns buying rounds for everybody, but the next morning we spent forever trying to figure out who owed what to who so I announced that we should handle our own drinks for the following night, which everyone agreed with. That went mostly to plan except one place towards the end of the night where we all ordered our drinks and then they (drunkenly) went to the bathroom right after ordering. When the bartender came up to me with the drinks and asked for payment, that was when I noticed they were gone, so I just put my card down for all of the drinks not thinking it would be a big deal. Well I spent the next few days reminding them over and over again that they each owed me $15 for these drinks, to which I was met with “yeah ok” but no actual money was sent. For context, these girls are freshly graduated from college paid for by their parents and have been paying rent for the first time in their lives for only a couple of months, while I have handled my own rent/bills for 5 years but currently am living nomadically in my van. So after about a week of hounding them for this money they finally tell me that they won’t be paying me back because they are “broke” and have to save up to pay bills at the end of the month. I try to remind them that all adults have bills to pay and that is not an excuse to not pay me back to which they remind me that I don’t have to pay rent unlike them. Right, because I live in a van they need that $30 wayyy more than me I guess

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    #37 My Entitled Friend Calls Me Creepy For Helping My Sister When She Broke Her Arm

    I(21f) live alone with my sister(15f) and she broke her arm and needs help doing certain things

    The other day when I was helping my sister bathe my friend who lives right next to me shows up to return a movie she borrowed from me. I answered the door and she started asking what I was up to. When I told her that I had been helping my sister bathe since she broke her arm she flipped out. She started calling me a creep and said that I shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near my sister.

    She stormed off and my sister asks if she was doing anything wrong since she heard the conversation. I assured her that she wasn’t. When I arrive at work the next day everyone was giving me dirty looks while talking to my friend(she also works there).

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    #38 Friend Told Me I Shouldn't Get Married Where I Wanted To If Not Everyone Could Attend

    I was planning my wedding years ago and talking to a friend about how we wanted to do it on a boat. Due to it being potentially on a boat, we were limited to the number of guests. She immediately said we were being selfish and should do it in a place that could accommodate everyone; however, it was my dream to have it on a boat and since my fiancé and I were paying for the entire thing we were fixed in our budget.

    Granted, nothing was set in stone because we were only in the beginning planning stages and we were still looking at options, but it rubbed me the wrong way because it was supposed to be about what we wanted and not her, so I ended up ghosting her as a friend.

    We ended up having the wedding on a boat, had a great time with the party going on until the sun came up the next day. So was ITAH, or was she entitled? Still annoys me 20+ years later.

    UPDATE: I do not think of this all the time or harp on it. This was actually the first time I thought of it in years. I think scrolling through posts from Entitled People made me think of it.

    #39 I Was Sick At Home, And My Friend Still Expected Me To Help Her Move

    I came down with a fever and chest congestion — the full viral cocktail. I let my friend know a few days ahead that I wouldn’t be able to help her move anymore. She didn’t respond. The morning of her move, I woke up to five missed calls and a text that said, “If you cared about me at all, you’d be here.” Mind you, I couldn’t even walk to the kitchen without coughing my lungs out. When I called to explain again, she said I was “making excuses” and accused me of always flaking. I’ve helped her with everything in the past — birthdays, breakups, errands, drama. The one time I can’t show up, suddenly I’m a bad friend? That told me everything I needed to know.

    #40 My Entitled Friend Volunteered Me To Dog Sit For Him On New Years Eve And Day

    Hello, I just need to vent and need some feedback about this situation.

    My friend messaged me yesterday asking if I could dog sit for Saturday night and Sunday night (New Years Eve), until Monday as he goes out of town to celebrate. I told him I couldn’t because I had just watched his dog for 2.5 weeks earlier in December and didn’t want my landlord to have a problem with it but I could make just one night work. He said no worries and that he definitely needs someone to watch his dog for 2 nights. I later messaged him and said “I’m sorry I couldn’t help out. I hope you found someone to watch him. Have fun this weekend!” He replied back saying “Thanks!”

    This morning, I got a text from his friend that I barely know asking what time he could drop off the dog to me. Apparently my friend had planned with him that he would watch the dog on Saturday night and I would watch Sunday night.

    Anyways, I felt stressed out after calling him and not hearing from him for 4 hours and then snapped and sent a text letting my friend know that he is selfish for assuming I could just watch his dog, misleading his friend and that he’s screwing around with plans that both his friend and I had made and leaving his responsibilities with us. I decided to end the friendship because this isn’t the first time this has happened where my friend just assumes and volunteers me to help out with things without checking with me. He replied back with letting me know he found someone else to watch the dog for tonight and totally gaslit me about how I felt.

    Was I wrong to snap and end the friendship? I don’t think I am because I don’t want someone like him in my life. He makes me feel like I’m being used and like I’m his assistant (not his friend). He asks me to help clean his house and a bunch of other odd jobs. I think he takes advantage of my helpful and kind personality. I snapped at him because my anger was building up for a while. We have had multiple conversations before about how I feel used.

    What are your thoughts? Needless to say, he kind of ruined today for me as I spent the day in conflict with him. It just ruined my mood completely.

    #41 Friend Got Angry When I Didn't Answer Her Message While I Was At Work

    I was working today from 9am to 2pm. My friend, who knew I was at work, messaged me. When I didnt respond she started getting funny. Sending messages blaming parents, me and then being petty enough to say "you know what, Im not going near that food truck ever, take a hint. I've got my own stuff to deal with on top of this." (the take a hint was without context). Why should I stop working and risk getting fired to message her back because she's going through something. So when I was eventually off work I messaged back "no, how about YOU take a hint. I'm at work, I can't message back when. I'm. Working".

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    #42 Friend Tried To Trick Me Into Babysitting

    This happened long ago, but even after 25 years I can't wrap my head around it. My husband and I were graduate students and we, like most of our friends, lived on a low budget. One of our classmates was engaged to a guy with a lot of money--think hot-shot stockbroker in the late 1990s. He was clearly training her in The Ways of the Entitled. They had a little boy together.

    We didn't see them much because we couldn't afford most of the restaurants or events they suggested. My friend, however, acted like we were just avoiding her no matter how much we reminded her the costs were out of reach for us.

    One Saturday evening, she called and started out with: "We haven't hung out in so long. How about you two come over and we'll get a pizza or something." I said we'd love to come. Then she said, "Great. And after you put [3 yr old] to bed, you can just watch a movie or something."

    I was confused and asked why we would put her son to bed. Weren't we going to hang out? She replied, "Oh, fiancé and I are going to a party in the neighborhood. We'd invite you to come along but the hosts don't even know you and that would be awkward. But we should have time to chat before we leave."

    I said I didn't want to be her free babysitter. She got annoyed and said it wasn't free because they'd get us a pizza. I said 'no thanks' and she was so shocked--"WHAT?! Now you're not coming? What are we supposed to do now?" Keep in mind it had been only about 40 seconds since I figured out she expected us to babysit.

    I imagine she spent the party complaining about the friends who were supposed to watch her kid but bailed on the the last minute.

    #43 Entitled Friend Feels She Deserves To Be Invited To My Birthday As Our Other Friends Are Going

    For my birthday I planned to go to a driving range with some friends.

    The driving range in question allows 6 people to play in a bay but 8 people can attend.

    As a result, I invited 4 of my closest friends and my girlfriend. While out with 2 of these friends I invited our other friend to tag along and explained the couldn’t play. He was fine with this as he isn’t the sporty type but I didn’t plan on inviting an 8 person as I’d feel bad explaining that they could come but wouldn’t be able to play.

    However, when one of my friends I hardly speak to found out about the driving range she got one of my friends invited to message me saying she doesn’t mind not playing.

    I don’t talk to this friend often. The last time we spoke was her asking me for car help then getting annoyed when I wouldn’t get ready at 10pm to come try to sort an issue with her car when I’m not a mechanic and was working the next day.

    Anytime we are out she feels entitled to an invite and will message us privately asking why she wasn’t invited. She has even messaged me when I’ve been out with family asking who I was with and told me she was going to argue with me if I had said some of our friends.

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    #44 Friend Acting Weird Because I Don’t Want To Drive For A 4 Hour Round Trip

    So I have friend A and friend B. Friend B lives in a city 2 hours away and she is having a leaving party as she’s moving abroad and she invited me and A.

    Me and A usually hang out and would be going to visit our friend together. Now I drive but A does not. The thing is I want to enjoy myself that day so decided not to drive to the city. I’ve been the designated driver for me and A and she never offers gas which I didn’t mind In the beginning but for long trips I have to ask her directly. She never offers.

    As I want to drink, have fun and genuinely not dread focusing on the road for 2 hours there and 2 hours back she keeps questioning why I don’t want to drive. I’ve reiterated above and now she’s being weird as if she doesn’t want to go.

    We literally could and I was hoping to take the train there. It’s not that serious. I feel like she doesn’t want to pay for a ticket and was banking on me driving there for free.

    Also another thing A is unemployed. She has been for a few months and has made it her whole personality. She’s on government assistance till she finds a job. I know it’s not enough but it’s not like she’s starving. Plus she likes to brag to me that her friend likes to buy her random things off her Amazon wish list and gushes about it to me which just disgusts me in a way because the friend seems like lovely girl who clearly feels sorry for my friend.

    What shall I do if she says she’s not going anymore? Shall I let B know? The thing is A introduced me to B so I don’t want it to be awkward

    #45 Entitled Friend Claims Me Getting Physically Fit Makes Her Depression Worst

    Hi guys, I've been a lurker in reddit for so long and I finally have the courage to post something.

    I (17,F) am unfit. Though I'm not fat (49 kg), my body is not toned and firm. I admit, I do lack the exercise and so that is why I decided that I'd work out.

    I decided to work out on late January and I could see the little progress that I made. My friend (let's call her A) noticed it too when I posted some pictures of me working out on facebook.

    A is a little on the heavier side. She's a good friend and I've known her since 6th grade. She always tried to exercise and have a healthier diet but usually, she gives up in a week or two.

    A messaged me and here it goes: (I translated the conversation we have in english .)

    A: Hey, I see you're working out. Why would you do that?

    Me: I just wanna get toned lol.

    A: Stop it.

    Me: Stop what?

    A: Stop working out!! You're making my depression worst.

    Me: I'm sorry? How is me working out make you depress?

    A: Don't act like you don't know. Stop flaunting your body and stop exercing you bitch!! If you're really my friend, you'd quit. Stop contributing to my anxiety and depression!!

    Before I could respond, she already blocked me. Well, okay then.

    Edit: So A decided to tell our mutual friends about this and now some of them had been calling me to just give her what she wants and to stop being so insensitive. I don't know what to do anymore.

    Edit 2: So I finally was able to talk to her and she told me that she no longer wants to be friends with someone like me. I apologised that I offended her and even invited her to work out with me but she said her words are final. I'm devastated to think that 5 years of friendship was gone. Thank you so much for your kind words everyone.

    #46 Stopped Being Friends With Someone And They Won’t Leave My House

    I found out one of my friends is fake and talks about me behind my back. I asked her for space and told her she made me uncomfortable, she agreed to this. Less than 24 hours later she showed up at my house and has been hanging out with my younger sister day and night non stop for a week now. I have anxiety leaving my room to use the bathroom or go to the kitchen because I end up running into her.

    I feel uncomfortable in my own home and I don’t know what to do. I asked my parents to ask her to leave but they said they didn’t want to make my sister angry and “you have no right to feel comfortable since you don’t pay rent”. I’ve asked her to leave multiple times but it doesn’t work. I don’t know what sane person would feel comfortable being in someone’s house when they know they aren’t wanted and just ended a friendship with them. I really don’t know where to go from here. I’m having trouble sleeping and doing my homework. Also she has a home and other friends she can be at, she chooses to pretty much live here.

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  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 07:00

    Stephanie Guo finds plenty of comedy in the small interactions that fill an ordinary day. Her “Little Note Comics” revolve around relationship habits, household negotiations, affectionate teasing, and the wonderfully confusing behavior of dogs. The strips are simple and direct, with expressive characters and dialogue that gets to the joke quickly. Even when a comic leans toward something sweet, there is usually a playful observation waiting at the end to keep it from becoming overly sentimental.

    “Little Note Comics” originally grew from doodles Guo left as love notes for her partner, Julie. As readers may remember from our previous feature of her work here on Bored Panda, their relationship and the contrasting personalities within their household continue to provide much of the inspiration. That personal foundation gives the comics their warmth, while the situations remain recognizable to anyone who has shared a home with a partner, a pet, or both.

    Scroll down to see the latest “Little Note Comics,” and let us know which relationship or pet moment felt the most familiar.

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  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 04:00

    Adopt a cat, they said. It'll be fun, they said. But those who have actually done it know that the fun part doesn't always begin the second you bring your furry friend home. It can take days, weeks, months or even years for a rescued cat to settle into their new home, and learn to trust, eat, love and play again.

    While shelter life is no paradise for any animal, adoption can also come with its fair share of trauma, anxiety and fear for cats. It's a massive and overwhelming change that's not always easy for a new pet owner to navigate. But if you stick it out, adopting Mr or Mrs Whiskers can turn out to be one of the best and most rewarding decisions of your life. Seeing them eventually glow up and gather their confidence is nothing short of amazing.

    People have been sharing the before-and-after pics of their rescued cats, and many might melt your heart. It was a really difficult task but Bored Panda has selected the most adorable photos from a thread of many for you to purr through. Don't be surprised if you feel inspired to head to your local shelter later to adopt a pet of your own.

    #1 2024 vs. 2026, Rescued From The Streets, Meet Meadow 🩵

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    Millions of cats enter shelters in the United States every single year. Sadly, some never make it out alive. According to the ASPCA, around 2.2 million cats were adopted in 2025, 362,000 were returned to their owner or the field, 376,000 were transferred to other organizations, and 277,000 were euthanized.

    There are loads of reasons cats end up in shelters across the world. Some are found on the streets as strays. Others are surrendered because their owners can't afford them, are moving, or simply can't 'handle' them. The latter, say experts, is often down to a general lack of animal care education.

    #2 2022 vs. 2026

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    #3 2023 vs. 2026 🥰

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    According to experts at Cold Nose College, cat behavioral problems, especially inappropriate urination (missing the litter box), are consistently cited as a top reason cats are relinquished. Other behavioral factors include cat-to-cat aggression, biting, and destructive scratching.

    "Just like a child, animals do not learn how to be good' all on their own. They need positive guidance and to be taught how to be a well-mannered member of a family," says Cyn Demers from the Saving Grace Humane Society. "If more people had access to training classes or basics on the pet they were getting, it would lead to more cohesive households and less animals being surrendered due to their innate nature as a different species."

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    Adopting a cat can be an incredibly rewarding experience and comes with many pros. Firstly, you’ll be saving a kitty from life in a shelter by providing them with a loving and warm home. And by adopting from a rescue centre, you’ll be assisted by trained staff who know each of the cats well enough to find the right match.

    "A shelter will always assess your lifestyle to make sure it is suited to the wellbeing and needs of the cat, and will be able to answer any questions you may have," say the experts from Royal Canin, a global pet nutrition brand.

    #7 2021 - 2026

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    #8 I Met This Kitty On The Exact Day I Found My Other Kitty, Only A Year Later. It's Just Fate

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    Adopting is often also cheaper than buying from a breeder. “Shelter cats are usually treated for parasites, examined by a vet and are very often sterilised and vaccinated before you take them home,” notes Royal Canin's team, adding that most shelters will ask for an affordable financial contribution as an adoption fee.

    They suggest asking a lot of questions before deciding on the purr-fect kitty. Find out the cat's age, what its life was like before the shelter. Staff may or may not know the answer but it's worth asking anyway. Also ask if the cat is comfortable being left alone, and whether they have any unusual behavior or if there’s anything you should be aware of.

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    You might also want to know how the cat reacts to children and/or other animals, and whether they are used to going outside. If you do have other pets at home, you may want to ask the shelter if they can help organize a meet-and-greet.

    Experts advise that you spend some time with the cat you intend to adopt, before making a final commitment. "Try to see the cat several times before adopting it and spend some time allowing it to get to know you," explains the Royal Canin site.

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    When it comes to bringing your newly adopted cat home, there are a few things to keep in mind. Firstly, give him or her space and a place to hide when they feel overwhelmed. The cat might not show you the immediate affection you're craving for and it's best to follow their lead by letting them come to you first. Don't smother them with love and cuddles, as hard as it may be.

    "After adoption, your new cat wants a safe place to observe the scene until they’re comfortable enough to explore," reveals the team at Rover. "Make sure these spaces are pet-safe; you don’t want them getting stuck in a wall."

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    "Your cat needs your presence to get familiar with you, but at a distance. Respect their boundaries by keeping yourself in the same room as your cat without invading their personal bubble," advises Rover. "You can read a book, stream your favorite show, or take a phone call (many cats are reassured by voices). Eventually, your adopted cat will come to understand that you are safe."

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    According to Rover's site, a cat will let you know when they're ready for all the love you have to offer. Dilated pupils, flattened ears, and a rapidly twitching tail are signs that the cat is still nervous. But if the cat starts rubbing up against you or puts out a playful paw, it's inviting you into its space.

    When they're ready, don't be afraid to play with them. It's great for exercise and even better for bonding.

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    #35 She Was Always Being Forgotten To Be Fed By Her Owners So We Offer Her Some Food She May Like And Yeah... She Warmed Up To Us And Not Aggressive Anymore

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  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 00:00

    If you’ve ever asked a pet parent to choose between you and their pet, there’s a good chance you already know how that story ends. For many people, pets aren’t “just animals”—they’re family. They’re loyal companions, emotional support systems, and the ones who stick by us through some of life’s toughest moments. Whether it’s a dog greeting you at the door after a long day or a cat curling up beside you when you need comfort most, those bonds run incredibly deep.

    That’s exactly what happened in today’s story. One woman absolutely adored her two pet cats, both of whom had helped her through some of the most difficult periods of her life. So, when she got engaged, she made it clear from the very beginning that her beloved pets would be moving in with them. But not long after the couple started living together, her fiancé gave her a shocking ultimatum: she had just four days to “get rid of” one of her cats. Keep reading to find out how the situation unfolded.

    Many pet owners share incredibly strong emotional bonds with their pets

    A bride-to-be holds her cat, while another cat walks on the couch, questioning her engagement after a fiancé ultimatum.

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    A woman was left heartbroken after her fiancé demanded she rehome one of her cats before they started married life together

    Screenshot of text about a bride-to-be questioning her engagement after her fiancé issues an ultimatum about her cat.

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    Screenshot of text about a bride-to-be questioning her engagement after her fiancé issues an ultimatum about her cat, as he dislikes pets.

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    The woman provided additional context about her fiancé and her cats

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    A screenshot of a Reddit post where a bride-to-be questions her engagement after her fiancé issues an ultimatum about her cat.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment where a user questions why the engagement issue about her cat was not brought up earlier.

    Research suggests that pet ownership can lower stress levels and improve emotional well-being

    Whether someone chooses to have a pet or not is a deeply personal decision. Just like any lifestyle choice, pet ownership comes with its own set of responsibilities, challenges, and rewards. There’s the daily feeding, grooming, vet visits, and, yes, the occasional fur-covered couch. But for millions of people around the world, the positives far outweigh the inconveniences. Research has consistently shown that pets can help reduce stress and anxiety, ease feelings of loneliness, provide unconditional love and emotional support, create a calming presence at home, and even give people a greater sense of purpose. After all, there’s something incredibly comforting about knowing that no matter what kind of day you’ve had, someone is always excited to see you walk through the front door.

    Pets don’t just benefit our emotional health; they can also encourage healthier lifestyles. One study found that more than 60% of dog owners meet the recommended weekly amount of physical activity. That means they’re getting at least 150 minutes of moderate exercise or 75 minutes of vigorous exercise every week, simply because their furry companion needs regular walks. Many owners even say their dogs motivate them to leave the house on days when they’d rather stay in bed. Those daily walks often turn into opportunities to explore parks, meet neighbors, enjoy fresh air, and build healthier routines. In many ways, dogs become the most persistent (and perhaps the cutest) personal trainers anyone could ask for.

    But here’s something even more interesting. Traditionally, pets were often viewed as companions within families that already had children. They were considered an addition to the household rather than a central part of it. Today, however, researchers are noticing a significant shift. As birth rates decline in many countries and family structures continue to change, pets are increasingly taking on much larger roles in people’s lives. It’s becoming more common to hear people refer to themselves as “dog moms” or “cat dads,” and while those labels may sound playful, they reflect a genuine emotional connection. Increasingly, pets aren’t simply living alongside families; they’re becoming an essential part of what family means.

    Several broader demographic changes help explain why this is happening. In many developed countries, marriage rates, fertility rates, and even household sizes have declined over the past few decades. At the same time, more people are living alone or spending longer periods of adulthood without partners or children. As a result, pets are often filling roles that might once have been occupied by spouses, siblings, or children. They become trusted companions, sources of emotional comfort, and loyal members of the household. While they certainly don’t replace human relationships entirely, they often help ease feelings of isolation and provide a level of companionship that’s difficult to put into words.

    Research supports just how deeply people value these relationships. According to Psychology Today, 77% of dog and cat owners say their pet is a family member “just like anyone else”. Similarly, Pew Research found that nearly all dog owners in the United States consider their canine companions to be important members of the family. In fact, in some countries, dogs now outnumber children. That statistic alone highlights just how dramatically society’s relationship with pets has evolved. For millions of households, caring for a pet isn’t viewed as a hobby or luxury; it’s simply part of everyday family life.

    Shifting family dynamics and growing social isolation have strengthened the emotional role pets play in people’s lives

    Animal behavior researcher Enikő Kubinyi has spent years studying this growing bond between humans and their pets at ELTE Eötvös Loránd University in Budapest. In a paper published in Current Directions in Psychological Science, Kubinyi explores why these relationships have become so meaningful. She argues that the parent-child-like bond many people develop with their dogs is driven by both biology and culture. Humans have evolved with a natural instinct to nurture and care for others. At the same time, modern society has changed dramatically, with smaller families, fewer children, and increasing social isolation. Together, these biological instincts and cultural shifts have helped strengthen the emotional role pets now play in our lives.

    Kubinyi explains this idea even further, saying, “Many people now live without close family ties or regular interaction with children. For example, in recent years, nearly 90% of adults in Hungary do not spend any time caring for young children, although our species is biologically adapted to cooperative child-rearing. Yet the psychological need to nurture and connect hasn’t disappeared.” In other words, while society has changed, our emotional wiring hasn’t. People still seek meaningful connections, opportunities to care for someone, and relationships built on trust and affection. For many, pets naturally step into that space, offering companionship without judgment and affection without conditions.

    At the end of the day, pets mean different things to different people. For some, they’re loyal companions who brighten everyday life. For others, they’re emotional anchors who helped them survive grief, loneliness, anxiety, or some of life’s darkest moments. That’s why asking someone to give up a beloved pet is rarely as simple as giving away an object. It often feels more like losing a close friend or family member. While every household has to find arrangements that work for everyone, it’s also important to recognize the emotional significance pets hold in so many people’s lives. Understanding that bond is often the first step toward finding compassionate solutions.

    Coming back to this particular story, it’s easy to understand why the woman felt so heartbroken. She had made it clear from the very beginning of the relationship that her two cats would always be part of the package, and her fiancé had known about them long before they moved in together. That’s why his sudden ultimatum came as such a shock. Relationships naturally involve compromise, but many people felt this demand crossed a line—especially when it involved a pet that had been part of her life for years. Others also questioned why the issue wasn’t raised more seriously before they became engaged. Pandas, what are your thoughts? Was the fiancé being reasonable about living conditions, or was asking her to give up one of her beloved cats simply too much?

    Several commenters encouraged the woman to leave her fiancé

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment with the text DUMP HIM regarding the engagement ultimatum about her cat.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment advising the bride-to-be on her engagement, noting her cats safety and his testing.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment suggesting to end the engagement, emphasizing pets as family, not random animals.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment advising the bride-to-be to dump him and board her cats temporarily, fearing for the cats safety.

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    A comment strongly advises a bride-to-be against marriage due to a fiancé's lack of respect regarding her cat.

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    A Reddit comment discussing a fiancé's disrespect towards a bride-to-be over an ultimatum about her cat.

    A Reddit comment suggesting the bride-to-be's engagement should end due to her fiancé's cat ultimatum.

    A Reddit comment urging a bride-to-be to end her engagement rather than give up her beloved cat.

    A Reddit comment from a user sharing their divorce experience, warning a bride-to-be about her fiancé's cat ultimatum.

    A Reddit comment advises ending an engagement if a fiancé issues an ultimatum about a cat, prioritizing the cat's safety.

    A Reddit comment suggests preparing for a cat to 'get out' or 'have an accident' if a fiancé issues an ultimatum.

  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 00:00

    There are so many advanced technologies that feel almost like magic. Smartphones. Airplanes. Robotic surgery. Virtual reality. Robot vacuums zooming around your local supermarket. And... 3D printing. No matter how much time goes by, we still can't get over how cool it is that you can quickly make almost any three-dimensional object that you envision from the comfort of your own home.

    We want to celebrate the brightest and most brilliant creators and hobbyists out there who have come up with some truly inspiring 3D printed designs. So, we're featuring our favorite projects and designs from the awesome '3D Printing' online community to show you what’s possible with a bit of imagination, patience, and out-of-the-box thinking.

    #1 3D Printed A Pot For My New Bonsai Tree

    My wife got me a dwarf jade bonsai for father day, unfortunately it came in a cracked pot. I decided to print the living pot to put the bonsai in. My wife painted and decorated it! What do you think?

    © Photo: AdministrativeFuel48

    #2 Tape Dispenser - Snail

    I always thought regular small dispensers looked like snails. So I made one and it turns out really cute. My wife and son really love this.

    © Photo: dingohot

    #3 There Is A Baby Shower Coming Up For One Of The Supervisors At A Chemistry Lab O Work At. Printed These For The Occasion

    Crochet look labware! These were long prints but I’m super happy how they turned out. PLA for all. Corks and the test tube stand are wood fiber PLA.

    © Photo: 59Bassman

    3D printing essentially involves taking a digital file and then using that info to layer various materials like plastics, composites, or bio-materials to create whatever object you want, with whatever properties you want. Size, texture, material, color, rigidity, flexibility, etc—everything is up for grabs.

    The 3D printing industry is predicted to be worth a jaw-dropping $84 billion by 2029 as the technology’s capabilities continue to soar. This continued spread of 3D printing tech makes it highly likely that you and I will, eventually, interact with products, homes, buildings, toys, prosthetics, medical models and implants made with this tech.

    To say that we’re excited for the future of this tech is underselling things.

    #4 Printed An Insect Water Station For Some Thirsty Boys In Europe, Had My First Visitor After A Few Minutes

    © Photo: Bluehelix

    #5 New Moon

    Just finished my moon nightlight. Adaptive layers, cotton white pla, ender 3. I haven't packaged the print files for distribution yet.

    © Photo: LunaticPoint

    #6 I Turned My Workshop Key In To A Chainsaw

    This is the silliest thing I've ever made xD
    When I first fantasized about getting a 3D printer I always thought about all the useful things I could print with it, like replacement parts, etc. But ever since I got it, I catch myself having way to much fun making useless funny stuff :)

    © Photo: BennisCreations

    One of the coolest things about this tech is that it completely shifts timelines. If you urgently need protective medical gear (like healthcare workers did during the pandemic) or a niche replacement part for an important piece of machinery, you can, effectively, use a 3D printer to get what you need instantly instead of waiting days, weeks, or months.

    Meanwhile, companies can use this speed to iterate on prototypes and test out products incredibly quickly.

    #7 Just Finished Printing And Painting This Celtic Wolf Head. Super Happy With How The Copper Details Came Out!

    Printed this vertical on my setup to get all the clean details on the knotwork. For the finish, I went with a dark base and used a dry brushing technique to make the copper and silver elements really pop.
    What do you guys think of the look?

    © Photo: Infinite-Response-75

    #8 In Response To The Caesar Pen Holder, I Present My Kitchen Knife Block!

    © Photo: Bokmeister

    #9 I Made A Desk Corner Lamp

    I made a large wooden one of these for my living room last year and decided making a mini one was the perfect way to learn cad.
    This is my first original design: a simple, minimalist corner desktop LED lamp. It’s designed to sit neatly in a corner and cast a soft, indirect glow on the wall. The lamp uses a cheap $7 LED strip from Amazon and prints in one piece, sitting at 10inches tall.

    © Photo: RichPhilosopher

    3D printing can be incredibly efficient, quick, economical, and even eco-friendly. The technology has come a long way over the past few decades since it was created.

    Even though the hype surrounding 3D printing has dimmed, the tech has proven to be very solid. It is practical and commercially viable in the manufacturing and automotive industries.

    It is now used in a wide range of niches, from mass manufacturing and medicine to everyday maintenance (e.g., part replacement), hobbyist DIY, and even art.

    #10 So My Teenager Wanted A Headphone Stand

    .. and he’s really into Breaking Bad at the moment. Mike is (was) his favorite character.
    Esun PLA+ Bone, P1S, 23.5 hrs.

    © Photo: Birchi

    #11 My Girlfriend Lives In An Apartment Where An Anonymous Neighbor Is Leaving Some Of Their 3D Printed Objects On The Stair Banisters. Here Are Some Of The Recent Ones

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #12 My Friends Showed Me Their 7 Yr Old Son's Drawing. 2 Months Later, I Surprised Him With The Real Thing

    My friends showed me a sketch their 7 year old son, Teddy, had drawn. I immediately knew I wanted to turn this zap ray into a real thing for him, while keeping and expanding on all of the different details he had envisioned in his original concept.
    Teddy's vision was for the zap ray to transport him in and out of the TV so he can meet the characters in one of his favourite shows, Dragon Ball. So of course, he would also need a way to remotely control it (last pic).
    Two months later, this is what I surprised him with (my cat, Cosmo, for scale!).

    © Photo: xxMILKSTEAKSxx

    The ‘3D Printing’ online community has been inspiring and amusing the internet with awesome designs and projects for the past 16 years, since early 2010. It is one of the most popular 3D printing communities on the internet, with a whopping 1.1 million weekly visitors and 25k weekly contributions on the subreddit.

    The moderators of the awesome and friendly community emphasize that this is a place for everyone, amateur and veteran alike. It is a community “where makers of all skill levels and walks of life can learn about and discuss 3D printing and development of 3D printed parts and devices.”

    #13 My Doom Tda Suit

    © Photo: DansJungle

    #14 The Scale Map Of The USA Is Complete!

    This project has been a work in progress for the better part of 9 months, I've been slowly printing each state as I have the time. Finally added Alaska today to complete the map.
    Because each one is (on average) less than 10mm thick, this whole project actually didn't use that much filament (my best estimate is 3-4kg).
    The scale of Hawaii is a little larger than it should be; the iteration of files I was using had the scaling a little off and I didn't notice until it was finished printing. Haven't decided if it's worth re-printing yet.

    © Photo: JProc5701

    #15 It’s Luigi!

    © Photo: tormunds_beard

    Earlier, Bored Panda interviewed Germany-based computer vision engineer Sricharan Chiruvolu. He was kind enough to share his thoughts on 3D printing, including its applications and upsides, with our team.

    He emphasized that 3D printing has affected the common consumer goods market, allowing for more personalized, custom-made items, whether you’re talking about phone cases or prosthetics.

    “Also, it [3D printing] helps to bring down the production cost for a few products, giving customers more access to distinctive designs,” the expert told us earlier.

    One huge upside of this technology is that it cuts the costs of creating prototypes. This way, businesses can quickly and cheaply test new products, parts, and designs.

    #16 Designed And Printed My Dog A Custom Stainless Steel Dog Collar

    © Photo: Brk_Haus

    #17 I 3D Printed A Life Sized Trex On A Sidewinder X2

    This was actually for last Halloween but I put it back up this year. Someone was saying Reddit might be interested in it. Feel free to ask any questions.
    Wife also suggested I try to get some sort of Guinness book of world record on this. I don’t know how one would do that so if anyone had any ideas let me know.

    © Photo: whelmed1

    #18 Remember The Droideka I Showed You All? This It Now

    © Photo: Safetymanual

    “It has brought about faster distribution of prototypes, thus hastening market entry for new products, while on-demand creation has also prolonged product life for many consumers,” Chiruvolu explained.

    “Through 3D printing, waste can be reduced by using only the required materials for each product; it also supports local production that could reduce transit-related emissions.”

    #19 Remembered I Have Free Will And A Printer The Other Day So... Big Breadclip

    © Photo: sgtsteelhooves

    #20 "3D Printers Are A Waste Of Money!". Oh Yeah? Well

    The bottom of my deodorant broke and there was still like a quarter of it left. So I grabbed my $50 calibers and took some measurements.
    Then I fired up my $2000/year CAD program on my $3000 computer and designed a replacement in a few minutes.
    I then used the FREE slicer that came with my $1500 3D printer and after 20 minutes, I had a 15 cent replacement.
    This saved nearly $2 in deodorant that I would have had to throw away.
    All said and done I saved I saved -$6548.15!
    Totally worth it! Engineering School really has helped me save money!

    © Photo: notwhoyouthinkmaybe

    #21 Got Sick And Tired Of Coworkers Stealing My Ketchup

    Got sick and tired of coworkers stealing my ketchup so I designed a lock to keep them out.

    © Photo: Herman0315

    “Many materials used in 3D printing are recyclable or biodegradable, thus offering green alternatives; through simplifying maintenance processes, this technology can help prolong the life of products. This helps reduce overall waste and promotes a circular economy mindset where materials are reused and repurposed rather than discarded.”

    #22 Absolutely Blown Away By Wood Pla, This Might Be My New Favorite Thing

    Made a dice tower & box for a friend and wow I'm just blown away by this filament. it's amazing how with just a little bit of work how much this passes for real wood. Model by Platcham

    © Photo: JimmySkene

    #23 I Printed A Tow Ball Cover

    © Photo: S1lentA0

    #24 Faded Girl Statue

    © Photo: anhduy2508

    Meanwhile, there’s lots of potential for 3D printing to rapidly revolutionize healthcare and medicine, too.

    “Advances in bioprinting could make it possible to 3D print organs for transplantation, and more complex medical items will be made using improved multi-material printing,” the expert told Bored Panda.

    That’s on top of the benefits for industry.

    #25 I Made Ancient Rome As A Printable Miniature. Looking For Some Feedback

    Been working on ancient city models lately and finally finished Rome.
    Trying to find the right balance between detail and printability was probably the hardest part.
    Curious what you guys think. Anything you'd change?

    © Photo: 3DEMP

    #26 Printed A Mold, Poured Food-Safe Silicone, And Made A Chocolate Bar With My Logo 🍫

    © Photo: met-Sander

    #27 Peak Laziness Achieved: I 3D Printed A Hand So I Don't Have To Use My Own

    I got tired of the grueling physical labor of raising my arm every time the sun was in my eyes, so I designed a wearable face hand. It features a fully adjustable strap and provides 100% autonomous sun shading.
    Is it stupid? Yes. Does it actually work flawlessly? Also yes.

    © Photo: Dry-Pay6654

    “Larger build volumes and faster printing rates will enable 3D printing to be a practical choice for mass manufacturing, opening up previously unheard-of possibilities in a variety of industries. Envision entire neighborhoods filled with quickly and effectively built 3D-printed homes, transforming the housing market and tackling problems like disaster relief and affordable housing,” Chiruvolu mused.

    “Furthermore, there is even more potential when artificial intelligence and 3D printing are combined. AI is able to optimize designs for material efficiency, strength, and weight, resulting in products that are not only highly functional and sustainable but also inventive.”

    #28 3D Printed Hobby Desk Storage Wall

    Finally finished printing the last few custom parts for my hobby desk storage walls. The base pieces are the Multiboard project. Really loved the way the paint racks turned out. I think dedicated bottle holder racks that are more popular in style would have been far less versatile. I'm also really happy with the gridfinity shelf that holds my small tools that get used frequently. Much more convenient to pull the small organizer off the wall, into the desk, and use the tools right there. I was worried about the weight of the large bottles of various paint liquids on top of the drawers, but those are very solid. I think the only part I'm not in love with is that I didn't have a vision of the whole thing when I started, so it's printed in a mishmash of various blues instead of a unified color theme... Oh well, maybe v2.0

    © Photo: GamerDadDCO

    #29 Painted A Fox With My Sister :)

    © Photo: FitForThrone

    #30 The Print That Got Me A Job

    I went from unemployed graduate to now working at a pretty sweet job!
    As we all know job markets are pretty rough around the world especially in the UK for new grads.
    So I started off offering 3D printing as a service as well as selling on Etsy to support myself.
    I also help out occasionally in my local community and a local property manager needed a statue for the front of his building!
    I took a 3d scan of an existing statue with my iPhone then re modelled it with nomad and fusion.
    I did basic FEA of the cut blocks at the base and adjusted the infill to be a bit stronger towards the base as the total weight sits around 30-40kg of PETG (I cannot remember the exact weight now as this was 3 months ago)
    Total print time was a bit over 1200 hours and took over 15 days of straight printing (very little failures or re-prints needed). The entire print was joined together with a mix of industrial glue (I think the name was CT something) plastic welder, filler, 3D pen and of course the mighty solder to help clean up some rough edges. The base half of the statue is screwed to the building as I just used Bambu slicer to add holes in all the blocks.
    My total spend on material was £230ish and I was paid £1000. (Yeah I was definitely underpaid but this was my first and maybe my last time doing something this big!)
    Safe to say the guy was super impressed and asked if I needed a job as to put it in his words: if you can design and print a statue, you can handle spreadsheets and talking to people.
    For anyone concerned about weather or longevity. It’s covered in thick coats of paint and clear coats to finish it off.
    To note: the manager did say he was quoted 3 months and £2.5k for plaster which is why he wanted a faster solution and turned to 3d printing.
    To anyone really concerned about longevity, property folk don’t really care and just want the job done quick and dirty as it’s not really their concern in 10-20 years time. Hence why I was lowballed at £1k🤣

    © Photo: Main-Fly-3977

    We’d love to hear your thoughts, so why not join the conversation at the bottom of this post, once you’ve upvoted your favorite pics here?

    Which of these 3D printed designs did you like the most? Have you ever used a 3D printer to create something cool?

    Share your opinions, compliments, and—if you have ‘em—photos of the 3D designs that you’re most proud of in the comments. We can’t wait to see what you’ve made and what you have to say.

    #31 Got An Mri And Printed My Own Brain

    It was really easy to do with brain2print.org. Just took 23.5h to print..

    © Photo: Maarten16

    #32 Handheld Mushroom Grow Kit I Designed

    I wanted to make a mushroom grow kit that was fun to hold. The orange "air ring" holds a swappable hygrometer to measure humidity and temperature. There's 8 air holes that are opened and closed by twisting the outer ring.

    © Photo: lebrilla

    #33 Office Chair Wheel Guards To Safe Your Cables And Pets

    After running over a cable one time too many, I decided to design some wheel guards for my office chair.
    I tried a few different design approaches such as wheel covers, but in the end, this simple ring design proved superior to all others.

    © Photo: EltonSchmidt

    #34 My Brother And I Designed Our Own 3D-Printed Metal Watch

    A few years ago, u/raceking37 and I decided to create our own digital watch. The project was inspired by a few vintage HDSP-2000 LED matrix displays that we had acquired. These displays were first introduced in the 1970s and have a really unique look, especially under a microscope (as shown in the last image). They're quite difficult to photograph with my phone, though, so they look much nicer in person than they do in these photos. The watch uses an ATTINY1616 microcontroller. The metal case of the watch is SLM 3D-printed in stainless steel.

    © Photo: Theking3737

    #35 Quick Sunday Project To Stop Lid Avalanches

    Was annoyed by the unexpected avalanches from the cupboard and designed this lid holder for the Ikea 365+ lids. It can be installed either with sticky tape or with two screws.

    © Photo: DonMahallem

    #36 Showcase My 3D Printed Chair

    Showcase my 3d print chair
    This is a 3D printed chair designed using topology optimization. The manufacturing process used six FDM printers and the chair was polished and painted carefully. I love this work because this is meaningful to my life.

    © Photo: Willing-Pianist-7549

    #37 First 3D Printed Drive-Thru Only Starbucks In The Country!

    © Photo: BabysFirstRobot

    #38 3D Printed PC Case

    After months of work, I'm delighted to be able to present the Mk01: a 3D-printed mid-tower PC case !
    A PC case for mini ITX and micro ATX motherboards, customizable, upgradeable, with a retro futuristic, minimalist and playful design!
    For ventilation and airflow, it can accommodate two 120mm fans on the front. The top and bottom are perforated for improved cooling. At the rear, you can add an 80 mm fan for extraction.
    All the pc parts fit together like a jigsaw puzzle and are screwed together. The outer parts of the pc are magnetized. You can open the pc at any time, without unscrewing, change the pc’s style without reprinting the complete case, print custom parts
    What do you think of it?

    © Photo: Dependent-Sugar-4984

    #39 This Is Exactly Why I Bought A Printer Two Months Ago

    Finished printing a heavily modified PC case I’ve been working on and wanted to share the result here since the whole thing was printed on my Bambu P1S.

    The design started from an FF04-style case, but I ended up modifying it quite a bit to fit modern hardware and my own layout ideas. It’s now housing my main gaming SFF PC, so this thing is fully functional and not just a display print. So many iterations of parts as well in the last photo lol.

    Printed in Polymaker HT PLA GF, and overall I’m really happy with how clean the panels and structural parts came out. The P1S handled the job surprisingly well considering the number of large parts involved.

    Honestly though, printing something this size really made me want a larger-format printer someday, especially something like a Prusa CORE One XL with the toolchanger/index system, just to avoid splitting parts so much and to experiment more with multi-material setups.

    Still dialing in some finishing touches, but the case is basically done now and running daily.

    © Photo: AudiblyTacit

    #40 Fully 3D Printed Life Size Horus

    5 months and 1752 individual 3d printed pieces later, I have a Horus Lupercal.
    Quick stats:
    Total tip top height: 14’ 5” | 4.4m
    Top of Horus’s head: 11’ 9” | 3.6m
    Human: 5’ 5” | 165cm
    Why not paint him before assembling? This isn’t a mini 😁. A practical was the only way to see what issues will pop up, if it can even support itself, if something will break or if I need to reinforce something. Better for something to happen now, than to waste weeks painting only to find out it all falls apart.
    He is missing his talon, but a combination of me not thinking through access and not enough floor height, I could not add it yet. Even the Worldbreaker is at a slightly higher level due to the pallets. It’s not flush in the arm. So I had to use cords to hold it for now.
    I did have to saw a portion of his leg armor off as it was interfering with his forearm. These things I couldn’t account for in theory.
    His arms and pauldrons are held in place with rods, hooks and a massive heavy duty turnbuckle. Basically the same exact set up in my space marine, but beefier.
    There is no additional support in his legs. Just straight up hollow plastic.
    I will have a more detailed post in the future regarding cost, filament, weight, waste and other technical details for this project.

    © Photo: HammerDoris40k

    #41 Y'all Know How Obama Always Says "Let Me Be Clear"?

    Aell we finally made it. An Obama that is perfectly clear
    My friend and I printed this on a Elegoo Mars 2 pro

    © Photo: Chrisrdouglas

    #42 Toyota Wanted $50 For This, So I Designed And Printed My Own For $3

    © Photo: PrintProfile12

    #43 3D Printed Bicycle Brake Levers, Because Why Not

    I'm currently developing brake levers from PA612-CF co-tested within our local DH and enduro scene. What started out as a wild idea in our friend group has seen many trail days, even a few crashes, but all prototypes are still holding up today.

    © Photo: netflickz13

    #44 Earthworm Jim With Junk City Base

    © Photo: SanDiegoSavage00

    #45 3D Printed Marching Tenor And Snare Pads

    Here are some pictures of Practice Pads I designed and 3d printed.
    Materials are PLA for the base and TPU for the pad.

    © Photo: Billdo1138

    #46 My A1 Decided To Print The Space Shuttle Columbia Disaster

    © Photo: WarDwarfons

    #47 Just Installed. Expecting Positive Early Morning Feedback From My Wife. Wish Me Luck!

    © Photo: GreazySweet

    #48 I Charged Her $100 For This

    9 plates, 2kgs filament, 80+ hrs print time. All on A1 Mini. Also about 3 failed plates.

    © Photo: Remote_Fisherman_469

    #49 My Penholder Obsession Came Back

    © Photo: ThrowAwaySalmon1337

    #50 Why Have I Overlooked Suction Cups For So Long?

    I needed something to hang my dish cloths on, so they could dry out. At first, I thought about using tape, but then I realized that I could probably attach them with suction cups so I could easily remove them when I’m cleaning… and it worked perfectly!
    I’m definitely going to consider using suction cups more often in my projects where it makes sense!

    © Photo: ctallc

    #51 You Wouldn't Print A Door?

    © Photo: neotoy

    #52 Happy New Year!

    © Photo: skatermario3

    #53 Charging Stand For Pebble Time 2

    It's so easy and quick to charge, but I thought it could use a bit of extra flair. So I designed a watch stand that doubles as a charger. The cable hides inside the charger through a cavity in the hollow stand. I had some 95A TPU that closely matched the blue silicone band, so decided to use that to make a non-slip foot!

    © Photo: acegard

    #54 I, Too, Have Designed A Simple Belt Organizer

    It's guaranteed to be hated by everyone else. Any recommendations for better fingers are welcome.

    © Photo: klevenick

  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 00:00

    It’s rarely a bad time for a good meme, unless you are in the middle of landing a plane or just in traffic. If you’re reading this while doing any of that, please stop. Otherwise, warm up your thumb and get ready to enjoy this bounty from the internet.

    The “Xavier” Facebook page is home to both hilarious memes and unhinged replies that netizens adore, so we’ve gathered the best of both. Get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and leave your best attempt at a reply in the comments section down below.

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  • Sunday 12 July 2026 - 00:00

    We’re pretty lucky to live in a world where almost anything we need is just a few clicks away. Whether we’re looking for a flower vase in the perfect shade of blue or socks covered in tiny frogs, chances are we can find the exact item online. Still, most of what we buy is mass-produced, which makes creating something with your own hands feel especially meaningful.

    Below, we gathered some of the most beautiful crafts and DIY projects shared on the Something I Made subreddit. From impressive paintings to clothes that took hours of work to bring to life, these posts show just how much care and talent can go into putting a piece together from scratch. Check them out, and don’t forget to upvote your favorites.

    #1 I Decorated The Side Of My New Shed With Trees Made From Old Fence Boards

    © Photo: ribbitmaker

    #2 Manta Ray Ceramic Sconce I Made

    © Photo: KUSTceramics

    #3 A Prom Dress

    A Prom Dress Fabric: I tried to create something that feels like movement. somewhere between flames and petals, flowing across the body instead of just sitting on it.
    Hand-beaded entirely with glass beads on orange tulle, every line is placed to shape and guide the form.

    © Photo: Forward_Arm2323

    It makes sense why buying something ready-made feels like the easier route. Sitting down to crochet a sweater or glue together a piece of home decor takes hours of focus. 

    You could just order what you need, have it show up at your door, then spend your free time relaxing on the couch. There’s real appeal in that. Even so, picking up a hobby comes with a long list of perks that scrolling or shopping can’t really match.

    #4 Empty Bed. Original Charcoal And Pastel Art By Me

    © Photo: Rusty-willy

    #5 Painted Using Bleach (I Am Different)

    © Photo: CarloEstember13

    #6 I Made This Leather Backpack Called “Toshiro” Using A Pattern My Dad Created

    I recently finished this handmade leather backpack called Toshiro. It’s crafted from veg tan leather, hand-dyed, and lined with pigskin.
    The design comes from a pattern my dad created years ago, and I took it on as a project to build it myself and bring it to life.
    Pretty proud of how it turned out and wanted to share it here. Let me know what you think or if you’d like to see more of the process!

    © Photo: Pavelcraftleather

    According to Time magazine, there’s nothing wrong with unwinding in front of a screen every now and then. 

    What researchers who study this stuff tend to point out, though, is that hobbies work differently from passive activities like watching shows or refreshing your feed. A real hobby seems to play a meaningful part in feeling healthy and content.

    #7 I Made A Ceramic Incense Holder Where The Incense Stick Becomes The Violin Bow

    I’ve been experimenting with small ceramic objects that still feel sculptural when they’re not being used.This one is meant to hold an incense stick so the stick becomes part of the form.

    © Photo: lightcalm0

    #8 Lost My Job Last Year, Flourished With Watercolor In My Free Time!

    © Photo: kiwisorare

    #9 A Ceramic Lion Lamp I Made While Serving In Ukraine’s 3rd Army Corps

    © Photo: KUSTceramics

    A 2023 study published in Nature Medicine backs this up. The researchers looked at data pulled from five large studies, covering over 93,000 people spread across 16 countries, from the U.S. and Japan to China and much of Europe.

    Every participant was at least 65 years old, and more than 6 in 10 were dealing with ongoing mental or physical health conditions.

    #10 What If Not All Unicorns Are Optimistic?

    © Photo: mojoartglass

    #11 Hand-Felted A Wool Portrait Of My Friend's 17-Year-Old Cat. Learned A Lot From This One

    © Photo: stanley1129

    #12 I Call It The “Peacocking Shawl”—crocheted W A Lot Of Blood Swears And Tears

    © Photo: psychso86

    What they found was pretty telling. Folks who spent time on hobbies said they felt healthier, happier, and more satisfied with life overall, and they had fewer signs of depression than those who didn’t. The pattern showed up in every country involved. 

    The study can’t prove that hobbies directly caused those outcomes, but the researchers noted that they involve creativity, self-expression, and mental engagement, all of which tend to go hand in hand with feeling good.

    #13 The Beads Bouquet I Made For My Mother

    Just finished my first project with beads; I wanted to make something unique and nostalgic for my mother. She loves watching the sun go up in the morning, and I've always made her flowers in various forms and materials as the years went by. I wanted to make her the most beautiful bouquet I could, and it just is so beautiful when the sun hits it right! I also made the pot with a mold and some mix2mold casting clay thingy (I'm not sure how it's called in english, even in my language lol)!
    I hope this will inspire you in your projects :)

    © Photo: moclamine

    #14 I Spent 6 Weeks Growing This Cluster Of Crystals From A Common Fertilizer Called Monoammonium Phosphate. Looks Like A Starburst!

    © Photo: crystalchase21

    #15 Maple Leaf Bowl I Carved From Walnut

    © Photo: Noah_RBK

    Time magazine also spoke with Daisy Fancourt, a professor of psychobiology and epidemiology at University College London, who broke down what makes a hobby different from other ways of spending your time.

    “One thing that separates a hobby from other kinds of leisure is that it involves the acquisition of skills, or learning,” she said. “Hobbies provide a sense of accumulation and growth—of stretching ourselves to improve or to meet new goals—and that can help us fulfill our needs for meaning and purpose.”

    #16 I Made This Dress For A Customer Who Is Eloping In Spain Next Month

    © Photo: ReclamationDress

    #17 Tiny Flowers On Buttons

    © Photo: slowlivingnotes

    #18 Handmade Italian Leather Cat Coin Purse

    © Photo: WhaleyAtelier

    Well-being research also tends to split happiness into two flavors. One is called hedonic, and it covers the quick hits of joy you get from things like a tasty snack or a good laugh. 

    The other is eudaimonic, which has more staying power and shows up when you feel genuinely accomplished or fulfilled.

    #19 A Little Free Ceramic Library

    Got ahold of an old newspaper box and painted it then filled it with leftover ceramics I’ve made over the years and never sold.

    © Photo: gooddyeyoung

    #20 My Cat Stayed When Everything Else Felt Gone My Recently Printed Linoprints

    © Photo: thewildprintstudio

    #21 A Hand Carved Jewelery Box

    © Photo: guntherlovesrachel_

    Hobbies, sometimes labeled “serious leisure pursuits” by academics, seem to fit squarely in that second category. Yazdan Mansourian, a senior lecturer and leisure researcher at Charles Sturt University in Australia, told Time that hobbies “support the more authentic dimensions of life and create conditions for self-actualization.”

    As he put it, “People are not only doing what they enjoy, but becoming who they really want to be.”

    #22 I Made Pressed Flower Frames

    © Photo: Bohemialife1

    #23 I Make Little Vintage Robots

    © Photo: eyecarrumba

    #24 I Renew My Old Shirt By Hand Embroidery. What Do You Think? Thank You

    © Photo: Most_Big_7521

    If you need a nudge to get started, the Crafty Angels blog has a handful of suggestions worth considering. Origami is a low-cost way to work on your focus and coordination, and you can build up from basic paper cranes to some pretty detailed designs over time.

    Brush pen calligraphy is another solid pick if you like the idea of making your own greeting cards or wall art, with a modern feel to the lettering. Candle making, for instance, lets you mess around with waxes, wicks, and molds to come up with your own scents and shapes at home.

    #25 You’ve Got Mail

    © Photo: chutneystain800

    #26 I'm Making Some More Cute Kitties

    © Photo: Rushsculpture

    #27 I Walked In Half Of My Porch End With A Giant Suncatcher!

    © Photo: MarbleTheShoulderCat

    Hopefully some of the projects in this list gave you a spark of inspiration to try something new. It doesn’t really matter what you pick, as long as it feels like something you’d enjoy sinking time into. 

    Let us know in the comments which crafts caught your eye and what you might be tempted to try yourself.

    #28 I Made This Floral Landscape Using Clay

    © Photo: liskaflower

    #29 I Made A Mural For My Local Park

    © Photo: Spooky_Gecko

    #30 Handcrafted Clay Lily Of The Valley

    © Photo: emily3289

    #31 Drowning. I Used Magnifying Glasses For This Drawing. It Has Over 12,000 Tiny Faces In It

    © Photo: AnthonyChristopher

    #32 I Know It's Not Much, But Here's All My Paintings I Made In March

    © Photo: CallisCove

    #33 I Built A Custom Hand-Carved Alien-Themed Guitar From Scratch By Hand (Before → After)

    © Photo: Good_Travel_307

    #34 Butterfly Sword(S)

    © Photo: Beldaru

    #35 I Have Made A Funny Squirrel Of Wool And Selfmade Eyes

    © Photo: Puntikva

    #36 My Watercolor Pigment Cabinet! 168 Hours Later, She’s Finally Done

    © Photo: emmalian

    #37 I Made This Cutie Butter Lamb To Bring Some Levity To Our Easter Table

    © Photo: 0bamacares

    #38 Can I Post For My Partner Who Doesn’t Use Reddit? He Makes These Little Animals Sometimes And I Think They’re So Cute

    © Photo: unicornhornporn0554

    #39 I Like To Paint Waves.. Curious Which Of These You All Prefer?

    © Photo: Annual_Blackberry486

    #40 The Most Dramatic Role Of The Possum

    © Photo: mojoartglass

    #41 I Made Cherry Candles. How Do You Like Them?

    © Photo: iCANDLEIA

    #42 Finished This Needle Felted Goose Today

    © Photo: tender_creatures

    #43 My First LEGO Wreath!

    © Photo: southernfriedmexican

    #44 Optical Illusion Rug - Princess Donut

    © Photo: isthistaken_it_is

    #45 A No Soliciting Sign I Made

    © Photo: josefugly

    #46 I Made This Oil Painting And I’m Really Proud Of It

    © Photo: myriyevskyy

    #47 Stained Glass Book Ends With Lotus

    © Photo: jelly_unicorn_

    #48 Kitty Hidout

    © Photo: Key_Ad_6

    #49 I Made An Ornamental Key Head For My House Key

    Posting as im super proud of myself. Ive been wanting this ornamental key design for my house key after seeing a US based company do them.
    Could not find anyone in the UK, so as you do, decided late last year that im going to make one for myself.
    After multiple rounds of 3D modelling and moulds, ive managed to make this gold plated version that im happy with.
    The blade isnt done yet, but the hard part is definitely over!

    © Photo: creative_lost

    #50 Rishi, My Hand Sculpted Balljointed Doll

    © Photo: earwig_art

    #51 I Started Painting On Real Fallen Leaves While Recovering From Brain Surgery

    © Photo: apaintedleaf_

    #52 I Made A Stained Glass Mirror

    © Photo: assortedolives

    #53 I Turn Real Flowers Into Hairpins

    © Photo: SylliaArt

    #54 Presenting The Legendary Charles De Mills Rose, Handcrafted By Me In Full Scale With Meticulous Detail. What Do You Think Of This Project?

    © Photo: CynicOwl1

    #55 Just Saw Someone Else Posted Their Painted Hat!

    © Photo: Minimum-Amount-1894

    #56 I Made My Childhood Goldfish Out Of Beads! :d

    © Photo: Friendly-Introvert

    #57 Conch Shell Bags

    © Photo: SRB032

    #58 I Made My Daughters Prom Dress With No Sewing Experience

    © Photo: Ok_Chip_1077

    #59 Spent Weeks Making This Custom Dog Car Emblem

    © Photo: Baldein_

    #60 I Made A New Bookshelf, Designed By My Fiancée And Myself!

    A while back I posted on r/woodworking asking for feedback on a bookshelf design. Well, here it is all complete! Took longer than I would’ve liked, but I really like the result. I love unique furniture, and it makes it more special that we designed it together! Really, the idea was all hers, I just did the CAD and the building :)

    © Photo: figure--it--out

    #61 I Found A Painted Rock In The Park The Other Day And It Made Me Happy. Apparently People Hide Painted Rocks All Around The World. So I Painted Some Of My Own For Others To Find

    © Photo: jennifer_jellyfish

    #62 You Still Walk With Me. Original Wet Charcoal And Pastel Art By Me

    © Photo: Rusty-willy

    #63 Made Something For The First Time In A Decade Because I Was Told I’m Terrible At Art By Someone I Looked Up To

    © Photo: Pretty_Scars

    #64 Frog Bags With Tiny Roses

    © Photo: kaeruhoshi

    #65 Paintings Of My Cat, Noodle

    © Photo: Rich-Commercial-6373

    #66 A Wooden Piano To Store My Keys With A Latching Mechanism Inside Each Note

    © Photo: robinhartleywillows

    #67 My Little Free Library

    © Photo: Noodle-Mama

    #68 Slightly Colorblind But Here’s A Strawberry I Drew Years Ago

    © Photo: BensDrawings

    #69 I Wanted Cat Furniture I'd Actually Want To Display In My Living Room

    © Photo: Diyes

    #70 My New Craft: I Create Designs And Foil-Stamp Them Onto Pencils

    © Photo: penchishop

    #71 Even Though This Was The Most Emotional Project I've Ever Worked On, I Wanted To Share

    🫀🎨 I lost my niece to a genetic disorder this past year and I made some memorial jewelry for her mom & closest family members recently. This is my first time doing anything like this and I'm proud I was able to help my sister continue to move with her grief and make a tangible way for her to remember her by. 🦋 art: her hair with real flowers in resin

    © Photo: UnravelImaginationUT

    #72 Pigeons On A T-Shirt

    © Photo: improbablewhale

    #73 A Cardboard Fish Head And Jacket

    © Photo: Raffe1911

    #74 This Magritte's Son Of Man Lives In The Shadows — I Made This From 2,000 Wooden Tiles, Visible Only With The Light Source On. Glad How It Came

    © Photo: Sea-Imagination-6878

    #75 I Spy Themed Birthday Cake That I Decorated Today

    My 32nd birthday cake! It’s a grocery store sheet cake but I got all the decorations to make it an I Spy puzzle. Decorations are a variety of sprinkles, buttercream, pressed sugar, and hard candies.
    The items to find:
    •2 dinosaurs
    •9 pink flowers
    •6 citrus slices
    •”HAPPY”
    •”BIRTHDAY”
    •”32”
    •12 crayons
    •2 curious cats
    •4 green lego bricks
    •3 autumn leaves

    © Photo: grackled

    #76 Pleased With How This One Came Out

    My process is simple, using tape to set up each "line" and a palette knife to push the paint around within the set up area, then peel the tape. It's the endless repetition that is awfully long process that makes me question my own existence and everything else lol. Still, after about 2 to 4 months, I'm just in awe and glad to see these paintings before my eyes.

    © Photo: Emptyhandedpain-ter

    #77 Got My Heart Broken And Made A Painting

    © Photo: breanmayer16

    #78 Collage Quilt House Portrait For A Friend

    © Photo: IndicationRelevant59

    #79 Just Finished My Patchwork Sweater

    © Photo: Responsible-Papaya55

    #80 My Magnets Made From Paint Skins. Not Sure I Have Enough Yet

    © Photo: sad_poet_1378

    #81 Acrylic Paintings

    © Photo: senseance

    #82 Some Ocean Themed Clothes I Made :)

    © Photo: Indo1405

    #83 Nobody Asked For A Winged Tiger Brush Holder, But Here We Are

    © Photo: grooshenka

    #84 Funny Display I Made For My Bathroom

    © Photo: cymrugirl79

    #85 I Made This Fire Hydrant Look Like It Is Tied Into A Knot

    © Photo: pyrometal16

    #86 As Promised - Here Is The Update Of My Flower Blanket!

    © Photo: a_lisek

    #87 I Made A Journal Cover Out Of Deconstructed Jeans. It Holds Up To 6 Notebooks + My E Reader!

    © Photo: getmespaghetti

    #88 Fruit Earrings That I Made Out Of Air Dry Clay

    © Photo: VarietyObvious7768

    #89 Embroidered Fruit Brooch

    © Photo: PsychologicalArm723

    #90 Was 6 Hours And A Bloody Finger Worth It? Hell Yeah!

    © Photo: Medium-Party459

    #91 I Crocheted My Own Wedding Top

    © Photo: Imaginary_Divide3375

    #92 Forged A Silver Spoon For My New Nephew

    © Photo: TheReal_Taylor_Swift

    #93 I Turned Flat Fuse Beads Into 3D Lilies

    © Photo: Plenty-Insurance-543

    #94 I've Used The Exact Same Bookmark For Every Single Book In My Life, And Today I Finally Gave It A Frame

    © Photo: derChopsuey

    #95 I Presented My Mosaics At My First Art Fair!

    © Photo: FortressOfPotatoes

    #96 I Made A Stained Glass Bouquet Of Sunflowers

    © Photo: NaSKLI

    #97 Girly Heart Guillotine Mirror

    © Photo: spookywonton

    #98 The Chair Covers I Made For My Daughter And Son-In-Law

    © Photo: the_couch_monster

    #99 A 3ft Fuzzy Red Panda Plushie I Crocheted And Designed The Pattern For!

    © Photo: QuantumCrochet

    #100 I Made An Everlasting Wish Jar

    © Photo: Love_Child420

    #101 I Made A Little Backpack For My Beanie Lobster To Try And Make It Easier For Me To Find My Remote

    © Photo: ambahjay

    #102 This Girl Has Never Recieved Flowers So I Planned To Give This To Her. Does It Look That Bad?

    © Photo: TemporaryAd498

    #103 Acrylic Painting

    © Photo: senseance

    #104 Made These Custom Matted Frames For My Art With Shirts From Goodwill

    © Photo: MillsLeeArt

    #105 I Made A Frog Box For A Friend (There Are Also Frog Earrings Inside)

    © Photo: Inked-Wolfie-1979

    #106 My Husband And I Made Square Tube Pans, Then I Made This Cake In One!

    © Photo: oldcountrykitchen

    #107 Iud Ballista

    © Photo: Available_Buyer_7047

    #108 Handmade Home Decor Lamps

    © Photo: Level_Town_4813

    #109 Been Painting Weird Houses

    © Photo: soupkiddd

    #110 Which Dress Suits The Doll Better? Terracotta Or Pistachio?

    © Photo: PuppetStory

    #111 Mural I Painted For A Nursery

    © Photo: Freespyryt5

    #112 I Made My Own Pens (To Solve My Callus Problem)

    © Photo: ArtChillTect

    #113 I Surprised My Daughter With A Bag She Can Use For Cheer, Dance, And Choir. She's 9 And Accomplishing So Much For Age. She Is In Love!

    © Photo: hunni93

    #114 Tote Bag I Made At Our Agency Luncheon

    © Photo: ToBoldlyHoe

    #115 Giant Deviled Egg

    © Photo: astrossloth

    #116 I Made An Edible Candle. How Do You Like It?

    © Photo: iCANDLEIA

  • Saturday 11 July 2026 - 06:00

    You’ve probably never thought seriously about what you’d be doing for work two thousand years ago, mostly because rent and group chats keep you busy enough in this one. But it’s worth a minute. Ancient Rome ran on a strict division of labor, and most people there had very little say in where they landed.

    Some were built for the arena, some were built for the Senate floor, and some were quietly running an entire estate while everyone else got the credit. It wasn’t random, instead, it came down to temperament, the same way your current job probably says more about your personality than your resume does.

    This quiz looks at how you actually operate, how you handle pressure, orders, risk, and other people’s nonsense, and matches that against six real roles that existed in the Roman world.

    Go ahead and take it. Worst case, you find out you’d have made a fantastic merchant. Best case, you finally get to feel smug about something from two thousand years ago.

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity. 💡 🚀

    Overview of ancient Rome, showing historic ruins and architectural remnants, evoking curiosity about jobs in antiquity.

    Image credits: Peter Holmboe

  • Saturday 11 July 2026 - 04:00

    There are times when no matter how much you'd like to hit it off with someone, it's just not happening. Even if the two of you make sense as a couple on paper, the chemistry simply isn't there, and not even Marie Curie could fix it.

    And then there are moments when attraction seems to sparkle, until they themselves snap you right out of it. To some, those sudden turn-offs—better known as "icks"—can be surprisingly powerful. So TikToker Jess (@jls_1003) asked women on the platform to describe the worst ones guys have ever given them. From the way they talked to how they kept their house, here are the ways in which men instantly ruined their chances.

    #1

    I came home from work and my very inside dog was tied to a tree outside, bc “the dog was in his way” What. He had to pack his stuff and leave my apt expeditiously. He was never contacted again.

    © Photo: Chloe Samantha

    #2

    It was actually our first date. He literally fake proposed to me in the middle of a packed and tiny restaurant right after I told him I don’t like being the center of attention with people I don’t know “cause it’s just a funny prank”. I had to tell EVERYONE it was a joke, he went to the bathroom and I walked out. The waitress came running after me with my margarita in a to go cup and I never spoke to him again.

    © Photo: Chickie PR

    If we were to take a more quantitative look at the topic, we'd see that women are more familiar with "the ick" than men (63% vs. 39%) and are more likely to have experienced it (75% vs. 57%).

    Experiencing the ick isn't an instant dealbreaker, but it's close. Data indicates that after experiencing the ick, 26% of people terminate the relationship immediately, while 42% end it a bit later.

    That leaves 32% of people who continue the relationship despite the ick. Most do not share the experience with the person who caused it (only 28% do). However, nearly everyone shares it with someone else (92%), most often with friends (80%) or family members (50%).

    #3

    One time I was doubled over in pain on my period and he told me “every other woman deals with it why can’t you? I’m no expert but I’m sure it’s not that bad”

    © Photo: maggie_quinn

    #4

    My dog absolutely HATED him. And my dog loved my husband immediately. Trust your fur babies ladies!

    #5

    I was reading a menu at dinner after only knowing eachother a couple of weeks and he tapped my menu and said “look at me while I’m talking”. WHAT TF DID YOU JUST SAY?????

    © Photo: hannah

    The most common icks for women about men are:

    1. Too feminine ("When he laid his head on my shoulder.") – 40%
    2. Publicly embarrassing ("Shazamming a song while he was in a nightclub.") – 28%
    3. Annoying speech ("Saying, 'Wow, without me?'") – 22%
    4. Fashion faux pas ("He wore jorts.") – 14%
    5. Misogynistic ("He loudly shushed another girl.") – 14%

    #6

    Spoke on tinder for a week, offered to have coffee and he agreed. When I got there he was sitting with someone. Both the other guy and I were puzzled and the Tinder guy said he wanted to meet both of us to see who he liked more. Me and the other guy both left together and are we’re besties till this day.

    #7

    He had zero soap at any sink and he had two kids 4 and 6. NO ONE was washing their hands!

    © Photo: michelehello178

    #8

    He p**ped in a hand towel and hid it under my bathroom rug instead of asking for more toilet paper

    © Photo: Jennifer F

    #9

    First date and he had me as his wallpaper

    © Photo: not.available841

    Research also shows that people who are easily disgusted by things like germs, bodily fluids, etc. (i.e., have higher disgust sensitivity) seem more sensitive to specific icks. However, this doesn't necessarily mean they experience the ick more often than others, just that they might be strongly affected by certain triggers. It's like having a sensitive smoke alarm – it might go off more easily with certain types of smoke, but not necessarily with all smoke.

    We also know that people with an inflated sense of self-importance and a need for admiration (i.e., grandiose narcissism) are more likely to experience the ick. However, how often they experience the ick isn't necessarily higher. This suggests they're very selective. They might only get the ick when they perceive very specific flaws that threaten their high self-opinion or their partner's perceived status, but they don't get the ick over every little thing.

    #10

    ALWAYS said good girl to me, like bro please stop with that. Even said it in front of my mom one time. So so embarrassed

    © Photo: Megan Larson

    #11

    He was obsessed with martial arts & anytime he saw someone wearing ADIDAS / MMA gear he’d start kicking & doing splits… in Walmart

    © Photo: saniyah

    #12

    He called my dog ugly…blocked him on everything

    According to Tinder's Year in Swipe™ 2025 report, people who are dating want more clarity, connection, and authenticity.

    "We've all got enough going on, and dating shouldn't feel like another deadline," said Melissa Hobley, Chief Marketing Officer at Tinder. "Singles are looking for a connection that feels easy, honest, and a little bit fun. They're done overthinking every message and overanalyzing every match."

    "Dating should add a spark, not more stress. You can already see that energy in what's shaping 2026 — singles are saying exactly what they want, standing for what they believe in, and leading with honesty and openness. Being emotionally available doesn't make you cringe, it makes you interesting."

    #13

    “you don’t know how lucky you are to be talking to me” goodbye

    #14

    He would say “question mark” every time he would ask a question. For example, “so what’s your favorite color? Question mark”

    © Photo: LS EVE

    #15

    He kissed me so aggressively, I was legitimately dizzy, and when I searched my mouth for cuts, I found a piece of food, I hadn’t eaten.

    © Photo: Lizzy camp

    #16

    We weren’t dating (yet) but we were talking almost daily…. He said “I can’t promise I won’t cheat on you but I’ll sure try not to do it.” Like byyyyeeeee

    © Photo: Baby_Lamb

    #17

    Tried to give me pet care advice… I’m a veterinary technician. Him… a common folk

    #18

    I went to the movies with him and there was a gentleman with special needs at the front, after walking away he broke out into laughter. I was disgusted, safe to say that was the last time I’d willingly see him

    #19

    Said he was babysitting his own kids

    © Photo: KarlyRastafari420

    #20

    He stuck his finger in my mouth everytime I yawned and ruined my yawns

    © Photo: Kensie

    #21

    He got a parking ticket on the first date and expected me to pay half of it

    #22

    wrote me a song after dating for a week. the first line was "I still remember when we first met".... a week ago?? I should hope so my guy

    © Photo: kitty

    #23

    Went on a first date with a guy who I’d known for more than 7 years. Apparently he’d always had a crush on me and after a 4 years relationship I gave him a shot since he asked for “fair chance”. Anyway, date was very awkward since he mostly didn’t talk just looked at me. But that wasn’t the ick. He asked the waiter if he could pick the table. At first I thought cute, he wants privacy. I asked out of curiosity and he goes “I gotta have full vision of who enters and leaves the place. I’m carrying, since I always gotta protect who’s with me”. Strapped. At a bar….

    © Photo: Jojo

    #24

    He laughed when his friend made a joke about me. I hated him instantly. Done.

    #25

    Meowed on the regular for no reason out of nowhere I told him some bad news I was going through and he meowed and I got up and left

    © Photo: .Reed.

    #26

    He brought me flowers, from a CEMETERY

    © Photo: Queen_N817

    #27

    Told me he was “soooo popular in highschool” he’s 26…

    #28

    He asked me "how long do those last?" referring to my 9yo German shepherd. Bonus points for him saying "oh so not that much longer" when I told him the average lifespan.

    © Photo: Nova

    #29

    Tried to play hide and go seek ON FT WITH ME and then started talking in a baby voice saying “you scwared mwe”

    #30

    We went bowling and he wore no socks. Put his feet in the rented bowling shoes

    © Photo: For giggles

    #31

    I made him some spaghetti sauce before I left for work, all he had to do was cook the pasta. he called me five times asking how to boil the noodles and then he still had to call his mom and have her walk him through it

    #32

    went to his place for the first time. he had chewed waffle on his floor

    © Photo: asmatharapia

    #33

    He said “Ouuuuh Charlette, got me all up in your web right now” mid bang and I just couldn’t ever look at him the same way again

    © Photo: IQUIT-TIKTOK

    #34

    He left [bodily fluids] streak on my fresh white sheets. And tried to say it wasn’t him. Sure the heck wasn’t me! Immediately blocked!

    #35

    pushed me down the stairs for laughing that he made his hot chocolate with water, instead of milk.

    © Photo: Home Creek Co.

    #36

    one time during an argument, i turned around and caught him flexing in the mirror

    #37

    He picked me up and his car smelled good so I asked what scent his freshener was and he points to the back seat and it's a LIT CANDLE

    #38

    He called meat (chicken, beef etc.) “flesh”. I couldn’t handle this

    © Photo: Santana

    #39

    this isn’t a petty reason at all but i was obsessed with this man and in a situationship w him for over 9 months and one day he bit his toenails in front of me bc he “didn’t have clippers” i left that same day and never saw him again

    #40

    kept telling me how poor he was. I’m not a material girl money isn’t a big deal but i would say like “oh yeah my brother got me a gift” and he goes “i could never do that i’m too poor for that” like okay???

    #41

    Had a full blown tantrum about he was breaking out because his dad used the wrong detergent for his sensitive skin… he was 27, and that’s how I found out he lived with his parents.

    #42

    He still lived with his mom and had custom made bunk beds that he shared with his older brother. after the tour he pulled out his guitar and sang to me in front of his entire family.

    #43

    He wore cowboy boots to our date, and when it came time to get down and dirty, I had to wait like what felt like 5 minutes for him to wrestle his d**n boots off, while his jeans were already at his ankles. Seeing a grown man lose a fight against cowboy boots really does something to ya.

    #44

    Told me he was in a "h*e phase". We are in our early 30s.

    © Photo: JayyP

    #45

    I went to pull out my chair on a first date and he went to go sit down in my chair.

    © Photo: yourmomshouse

    #46

    he tried to rap the lyrics of a song while making eye contact w/ me and he kept messing up the words

    #47

    Was a picky eater. Like chicken tendies and fries at an upscale restaurant picky.

    #48

    he sent me a snap of him aggressively eating a cold family size can of green beans straight from the can while smiling at the camera.

    #49

    Complained about literally everything. You are a man take care of it. Find a solution it’s not the end of the world.

    #50

    met my family for the first time and asked "so, how old is everybody?" why the hell would you ask that? the cherry on top is after they left he made a joke about how now he cant choose between me or my mom

    #51

    One time I went on a date with a guy named Daniel but preferred to be called Rick. I thought it must’ve been a middle name and THEN he signed the credit card receipt Rick Grimes. Not even joking

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    #52

    When we were in a bad argument, he crashed out and started punching the air

    © Photo: Alyssa | LAS VEGAS HAIRSTYLIST

    #53

    would ask me to send fit checks then send a longggg video barking back at me and saying sorry mommy in between

    #54

    He types “wuh about you” instead of what about you, bcos instead of because. I was irritated

    #55

    Brought me an oatmeal raisin cookie from the cookie platter instead of a chocolate chip cookie because it was “healthier”.

    #56

    his rug in the living room was fake grass..

    #57

    He kept saying “remind you” instead of “mind you” I corrected him and we never spoke again.

    #58

    Said “ I was gonna get you flowers”

    #59

    Wore jelly shoes. Bright blue ones. With socks. I really wish I was joking but I’m not

    #60

    Told me he usually goes after baddies but they don’t have personality, but I have a really cool personality. Wild

    #61

    He kept falling. Like just kept falling. And was freakishly tall and skinny so it was even weirder. And he’d just sit on the floor after and give puppy eyes like a little kid. Yucked me out so quick

    #62

    he replied to a text by saying "teehee"

    #63

    the way he held his fork or spoon overhand like a small child.

    #64

    His toenail cut my achilles in our sleep and he still refuse to cut them

    © Photo: Ang

    #65

    We were in Hawaii…. And went on a snorkeling excursion. He had to use a floatie and wouldn’t swim under water…. But I was swimming and diving and I looked up and saw his skinny little legs kicking about holding onto the floatie and I absolutely could not ever sleep with that man again. It was a long plane ride home

    #66

    I told him if he was going to be disrespectful then we are done and he said “give me one time I was disrespectful” then burped

    #67

    While driving he accidentally shifted to N- freaked out and didn’t know what to do… I shifted back to drive and he asked how did I know that… like what??? lmao broke up with him the next day cause my dad would neverrrrr

    #68

    He would drink protein shakes and his breath smelled like milk all the time. One night he was laying next to me and I literally flipped the lights on and sat up and asked him to leave bc his presence was giving me anxiety

    #69

    He came to pick me up wearing a fedora. I told him I left something in my house & never came back

    © Photo: Onyxtheegoddess

    #70

    He was eating his “healthy snack” tuna… laughed at a joke and accidentally spit the tuna in my eye.

    #71

    When I texted him about something bad that happened he replied with "*cuddles you*"

    #72

    The way his body pathetically whipped around when we went over a speed bump

    #73

    He had a porche but his seats were wrapped in cow print sheets with pink spots

  • Saturday 11 July 2026 - 00:00

    When you’re young and spending time with your significant other’s family, it can be difficult to fully relax and be yourself. There’s a lot of pressure to make a good impression. So it usually falls on the older generation to help their guests feel welcome.

    But one woman says she can no longer tolerate her daughter’s boyfriend at the dinner table. Reddit user w8136 explained that whenever he joins them, he grabs a full plate of food, cuts it up, pushes it around, and never takes a single bite.

    Now, she wants to stop inviting him over; however, that would really upset her daughter.

    This woman can’t stand her daughter’s boyfriend and his strange eating habits

    A happy boyfriend enjoying a dinner table habit of eating a salad with chopsticks, defending his bizarre behavior.

    Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

    So she wants him to stop having dinner with their family

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A screenshot of a text asking WIBTA for asking my daughter's boyfriend to stop having dinner with us?

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A screenshot describing a strange phobia of not wanting anyone to see him eat.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A screenshot about him ordering a full meal but not eating any of it.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A screenshot about him not eating homemade meals and scraping all the food into the trash.

    Mom explains her BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, causing her to get enraged about wasted food.

    But her daughter won’t accept that

    Daughter defends her BF's bizarre and costly dinner table habit as her mom asks her to make him stop it.

    Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

    Mom tells her daughter to make her BF stop his costly dinner table habit to avoid wasting food and money.

    Daughter defends her BF's bizarre dinner table habit, saying it's rude for him not to take food in his culture.

    Mom finds her BF's costly dinner table habit rude for wasting money and food, which isn't cheap.

    A screenshot asking WIBTA for announcing a boyfriend is no longer invited to dinner table meals.

    Image credits: w8136

    People shouldn’t make themselves the center of attention at someone else’s table

    If you’re invited to dine with your significant other’s family and, upon arrival, you find out that, for one reason or another, there’s not really much you can eat, ideally, you should try to avoid it becoming the main focus of the night and just keep things on the down low.

    Better yet, you could prevent this from happening in the first place.

    According to Olivia Pollock, etiquette and hosting expert at Evite, if you have strict dietary limitations or severe dislikes, it’s perfectly fine to remind your host at least a week before the event to give them time to plan.

    A conscientious host would even ask in advance, but sometimes they are too busy, stressed, or think they already know everyone’s dietary limitations from other social gatherings.

    So, when you RSVP, feel free to remind your host that you’re vegan, kosher, or allergic to nuts. You can also offer to bring your own dish if that seems appropriate.

    However, the fact that the girl’s boyfriend isn’t making any adjustments and goes from one dinner to the next, expecting he can simply repeat the same routine, definitely gives the impression that he doesn’t respect the time and effort her mom puts into preparing the meals.

    A family enjoying a dinner table meal, highlighting a costly habit at the dinner table.

    Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

    Young people aren’t really thinking about table manners, though

    His behavior may be explained by his age, though. According to one survey, over half of Gen Zers think table etiquette is no longer relevant.

    Looking more specifically, the study found that 77% of Gen Z diners didn’t care if people put their elbows on the table, and 60% couldn’t care less about how someone holds their silverware.

    However, other generations aren’t as forgiving. If we look at the general population, just 32% believe table etiquette is no longer relevant.

    The results revealed that other diners are, indeed, mindful of how everyone is behaving: 48% of respondents said they’re irked by loud chewing, while 37% are annoyed by someone picking food off other people’s plates without asking, and another 37% are bothered by people using their phone at the table.

    Also, while 49% of the people surveyed said they wouldn’t date someone who had bad table manners, luckily for the guy in our story, his girlfriend seems to be on his side.

    A multi-generational family happily seated around a dinner table, suggesting a challenging dinner table habit.

    Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

    Those who read the woman’s post believe she, as the host, has every right to stop inviting the guy over

    A screenshot of a comment suggesting inviting a boyfriend over without a dinner table meal.

    A screenshot of a comment advising to stop inviting a boyfriend to dinners to address the dinner table habit.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, with a comment on cultural food practices.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, with a user suggesting boxing up food.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, with a comment questioning eating disorder signs.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, with a user suggesting talking about cultural differences.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre costly dinner table habit, with a user giving advice on direct communication about food waste.

    A comment on a dinner table habit, suggesting it might be an eating disorder, not cultural implications.

    A comment about a dinner table habit, asking if freezing him out is the first recourse.

    A comment discussing a BF's dinner table habit, suggesting he has psychological issues and needs professional help.

    A comment on a boyfriend's dinner table habit, advising to talk to him as he needs serious help.

    A comment on a BF's dinner table habit, discussing Mexican/American cultural norms around food and potential eating disorder.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A comment suggests not inviting him to dinner.

    Daughter defends BF's costly dinner table habit. A user discusses food waste across cultures.

    Daughter defends BF's dinner table habit. A short comment regarding Mexico's relevance.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A comment advises a conversation about his phobia.

    Daughter defends BF's bizarre dinner table habit. A user suggests carrying plastic food for him.

    Mom questions daughter about BF's dinner table habit of wasting food; asks why his culture is more important.

    Mom advises talking to BF about his dinner table habit; suggests it might be an eating disorder or AFRID.

    Mom discusses BF's dinner table habit of wasting food due to phobia; suggests smaller portions or taking leftovers home.

    Mom questions daughter's role in BF's dinner table habit; suggests she is the problem for inviting him to dinner.

    Mom gives ultimatum to daughter about BF's dinner table habit; suggests it might be an eating disorder, not just cultural.

    A Reddit comment discusses a boyfriend's bizarre dinner table habit, suggesting an eating disorder and the wastefulness of food.

    A Reddit comment details a boyfriend's costly dinner table habit, emphasizing that throwing away food is worse than not taking it.

    A Reddit comment about a boyfriend's bizarre dinner table habit, advising to talk to him about potential eating disorders or germaphobia.

    A Reddit comment about a boyfriend's costly dinner table habit, recommending communication about his behavior and its impact on others.

  • Saturday 11 July 2026 - 00:00

    There is a “how the sausage is made” part of every job, but for most folks, it’s nothing interesting enough to write home (or anywhere really) about. However, hospitals are a completely different topic, a setting so laden with drama that TV writers can make tens of seasons about them.

    So we’ve gathered some fascinating posts from doctors and nurses about some of the interesting or morbid things that happen behind the scenes at a hospital. Be warned, some of them can get dark. Otherwise, settle in, upvote the ones that surprised you and be sure to share your own examples in the comments down below.

    #1

    There are often conversations (aka arguments) between MD and nurse that go unseen/unheard. Could be because we believe they are ignoring something that could cause you harm. Could be because they are asking us to do things to you that you have specifically refused or that we believe could cause harm. Could be because the doctor who you praise so much is being verbally violent towards the nurses. Could be because the doctor is trying to discharge you before you can even be home alone safely. These interactions happen every single day all day all over the country. I wish that patients knew how hard we fight sometimes to keep them safe from harm.

    #2

    RN here. Hospitals are dangerous. The bugs there are super resistant to antibiotics. Get in, get out as quick as you can. And treat the staff nicely, the staff remember.

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    #3

    For the other diabetics - hypoglycemia is extremely dangerous in the hospital because of how thinly-spread staff are. We might only be checking in on someone once an hour, and if the patient cannot use the call light to say they’re low (or even detect that they feel low), things can turn ugly quickly. Then there’s also accounting for instances where we are giving mealtime insulin but the person does not eat everything or meal delivery is extremely delayed, doctors throwing random sliding scales at patients and hoping they work, and other significant events taking over when it’s time to give insulin.

    I personally shoot to hang around 90-110 at home, but once you’re in the hospital, I’m not going to freak out over a 175. I start to personally get concerned around 200-250 depending on the situation (established insulin use? Steroids? PO status? Need for tight control?).

    © Photo: Abatonfan

    #4

    Nurse anesthesist & anesthesiologist often play on their phone when things are well in surgery

    #5

    It's less common now that I'm working a specialized ICU but there have been many times during my career where I was giving report to the next nurse and I had to explain that there currently was no plan of care and I'm unsure why the patient is a patient.

    There are sometimes when the docs have no idea what's happening.

    Also how bad staffing is. We talk about how horrible nurse and PCA staffing is, but I've worked floors at hospitals that had a single mid level provider covering for all non ICU units over night. 1 NP for over 100 patients.

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    #6

    Choosing to stay longer when you’re already advised to be discharged puts you at risk for an unnecessary nosocomial (i.e. hospital-acquired) infection like pneumonia.

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    #7

    CPR isn’t a miracle life saver like on TV - you’ll still probably pass away but in agony from us cracking your ribs and shoving a tube down your throat. More people should consider DNR/DNI and comfort measures. Quality vs quantity. I’ve seen more people die with quality CPR and ACLS than survive it.

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    #8

    If you come into triage for a potentially nonemergent case, you will be overlooked because someone somewhere else has a real emergency. Im looking at the ones complaining of a runny nose youve had for 2 days but havent been seen in 3 hours. Go to urgent care, not the emergency room.

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    #9

    Your nurse has worked 5 hours with no bathroom break, no food, and just ugly cried in the bathroom.

    #10

    The curtains that separate patients in any area are NEVER and I mean NEVER CLEANED.

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    #11

    I work in surgery so I think the entire environment is shrouded with mystery since most people have a general anesthetic and those that don’t get enough Versed to forget their experience


    I think what would shock a lot of people is exactly how many people are in that room- I think a lot of patients get it in their heads that it’ll be anesthesia, their surgeon and maybe 1-2 other people involved directly in surgery and then a nurse. If you’re in a teaching centre, service dependent- there can be 15 people in the room at times between anesthesia+learner(s), surgeon + learners (fellows, residents, assists, medical students), scrub nurse, 2+ circulators (plus orientating staff/nursing students), med device reps, service workers etc.



    Also the things that happen once you’re lights out can be kinda gnarly. If your surgical site is above the neck- they’re stapling the first layer of drapes to your head and face so they don’t slide off.

    We totally manhandle people when transferring and positioning but at the same time there is a lot of finesse involved and constant checking and double checking of minute details like the angle of abduction of your arms and whether or not there’s a wrinkle in the sheet you’re lying on. Those tiny things can cause you a significant injury while under anesthesia and unable to move- so we have to be very very attentive to those details on your behalf.

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    #12

    If you’ve been boarding in the ER and suddenly get a room in the middle of the night.. it’s because the person who was in that room most likely passed away 🙊

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    #13

    How much your providers Google your symptoms and then encourage you not to Google them.
    How much malpractice actually happens and is covered up because you don't know the right questions to ask.
    How much racism in medicine exist ESPECIALLY if you are Spanish-speaking only or a black woman.
    How most times mistakes are made solely because of a providers ego and inability to take advice from the team
    I could go on and on.
    - Sincerely, a crosstrained NICU/PICU/Adult Respiratory Therapist

    © Photo: sara.stacksss

    #14

    Your OR team is probably severely sleep deprived. I have done MANY 24 Hour shifts of straight surgery back to back because of call. Your surgeon is prob the most sleep deprived if they’re on call at the hospital and we are operating on you while you’re asleep and fully reliant on us. We’ve all become accustomed to it but it’s not safe for you or us.

    #15

    When a critical patient is brought to the ED by ambulance and goes straight to a trauma room… there is a body bag already on the bed, under the stretchy fitted sheet.

    #16

    If it wasn’t documented, it wasn’t done. That’s a ding on the survey 🤪.

    #17

    Those blood pressure cuffs & oxygen monitor that goes on your finger doesn't get cleaned often 😩

    © Photo: zhanethedivine

    #18

    There’s many medical staff who don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom. I got in a debate with a doctor bc he said hand sanitizer is fine. I asked him if he would be okay with a chef taking a dump and only using hand sanitizer making his food. He said he wouldn’t be okay with it. Make it make sense? HIPAA is also violated so much and no one seems to care?

    #19

    How dirty the hospital really is.

    #20

    If you are not insanely resilient as a healthcare worker the emotional, physical, psychological stress is crushing. The moments of respite makes it manageable so you can be there for your patients and their families to aid in the care team in reaching their goals of returning to either their normal or their new normal life.

    #21

    Doctors make mistakes in surgical procedures all the time and nobody ever hears about it. They puncture things they chose the wrong spot for a tube, they forced something that shouldn’t have been forced, etc. either nobody else but doc knows, or most everybody knows what truly happened but for some reason we don’t admit it to patients that complications could have been avoided.

    © Photo: jackandcokedaddy

    #22

    That a lot of white nurses are intimidated by black patients who allude assertiveness and know the rules , if they feel threatened by you they will put a behavioral red flag on your account., that will follow you wherever you go. White nurses and white doctors do not like people ( Black People) challenging them.

    #23

    Most hospitals ignore regular scheduled cleaning of air ducts so mold grows uncontrollably and can cause hospital-acquired fungal infections due to breathing in the mold spores circulated throughout the HVAC. I know a guy who works for a commercial air duct company and he sends me pictures of the mold growth inside the units but never reveals the location. Absolutely horrendous.

    #24

    In the ER you can have a patient come in for an STD check, one with a sore throat, someone for poison Ivy, someone with a stubbed toe, someone with a broken arm, someone having a heart attack or stoke, maybe they survive, maybe they don’t. You clean them up, allow family in, then you hop into a room with impatient/disrespectful family or patient, or maybe have to deal with a child immediately after. All in a 12 hr shift. AND legally document all those events so as not to lose your job/license.

    #25

    You can come in with a minor infection/open wound and contract something much more difficult to treat , If the hospital isn’t practicing the right sterile procedures.

    #26

    Don’t be a jerk to the people who are the gatekeepers between you and your pain meds.

    #27

    We call donor services on EVERYONE THAT PASSES. I never see your drivers license to see that star

    #28

    Towels that are used to clean up all sorts of body fluids or patients with all sorts of illnesses (bacterial, viral, bleeding, throwing up, etc) of both alive and dead patients are bleached/sanitized then brought back as clean towels for others to use.
    That thought alone, made me take my own towels when hospitalized.

    © Photo: the_beehive_life

    #29

    There’s a few dietary techs that I’ve seen go to the bathroom and return to work without washing their hands so there’s that

    #30

    How tired the doctors are! I may put a smile on my face but I just worked 24 straight hours and am still about to scrub into your surgery :( A good concealer got me through my intern year but if I didn’t do my makeup i’d probably scare the patients

    #31

    I don’t work there but I was in the ER the other day and had to use a bedside commode for a urine sample and I accidentally peed on the floor, alerted the nurse and she said “ah just leave it”…. Nobody came and cleaned it up for hours, I threw paper towel down before I left and used my shoe to wipe it up but damn… no disinfectant or nothing???

    #32

    They stress out so much. I like my room calm. So I have so many nurses run in just to escape chaos and catch their breath. A kind word, a joke..makes a huge difference or just silence. Be that patient

    #33

    The amount of waste we generate. 😢

    #34

    The bedrails are not always throughly cleaned. I once had a patient empty his colostomy bag and dropped the container. It splattered everywhere. Housekeeping didn’t bother to clean the inside of the bedrails or the handles that let them down.

    #35

    First, if they say they are tested by FDA approved laboratory, don't believe them because FDA does not approve any laboratories. Second, if they say they are third-party tested without telling you which third party, chances are they are not third-party tested because if they were, trust me, they want to put it out there. And this next one is very common.
    I see it all the time. Contains clinically tested ingredients. Now keep in mind, just because an ingredient is tested does not mean it's proven to work because it can be tested and proven not to be working.

    #36

    We try to advocate for more for our patients. But in the end the doctors make the decisions.

    You wanna yell at someone about your pain, discharge, diet? Yell at the doctor.

    #37

    I hear so many housekeeping staff say they wanna become cnas and nurses because all they do is sit down.

    Then when you see housekeeping make the transition to be cnas, they quit. Same for cnas. Older cnas be talking about how they should have become nurses and just sat all day. Then they become nurses and do the same exact thing.

    Things are always greener on the other side of the pasture when you're looking at it from the outside.

    #38

    Patients get into the emergency room with loaded firearms because the hospital authorities are too cheap to install metal detectors.

    #39

    Nurses are also expected to fill in roles for other departments that are "short staffed" for example: Social work, house keeping, child life, food service, formula room, bio med, security, distribution, IS, and engineering (who gets off at 2p anyway so we generally hope nothing breaks after that).

    Because we are expected to fill these roles to make their staffing issues less troublesome for them, though the opposite can never be expected from these roles for a nurse. Examples, you will never see: a social worker, house keeper, child life specialist, formula room, bio-med, security, distribution, IS, or engineering giving meds, turning patients, feeding patients, ambulating with patients, bathing, or changing a patient.

    #40

    The pillows aren’t replaced between patients. They’re wiped down with bleach wipes and a pillow case it put on

    © Photo: angelina__jeanne

    #41

    The cafeteria and morgue are always close together. The floors in hospitals carry mortal bacteria and diseases. Nurses and staff track that stuff everywhere. Do what you will with that information, but don’t let your kids play on the floor and clean your shoes before you take them into your home.

    #42

    There are so many things I could put, many of them not appropriate. But something that always bothers me are the amount of unnecessary “serial” labs and X-rays that are done on a daily basis (sometimes multiple times a day) and the price of all of them. SD RN x 10 years ICU RN x 5 years

    #43

    You're being charged for everything we bring in that room, down to the kleenex so take it home with you. However wipe it all down & PLEASE take those damn shoes off before you get in your car. Yes car!! Housekeeping is 24/7 but a lot of them are lazy af & dont clean thoroughly. The hallways are mopped the least.

    #44

    Our charge desk is at the front nursing station and I get soooo annoyed when family members walk up to me and ask for stuff. I get that I don’t seem busy because I’m sitting, but I’ve got 70 things I’m trying to do. Please use the call bell.

    © Photo: anon

    #45

    "Sorry sir, we don't carry salt up here. No, no matter how much you raise your voice at me, how hard of a tantrum you throw, it won't make some magically appear, and I'm not about to call nutritional services to bring you up just a single packet of salt. Why don't we have salt? Because a lot of patients that are on a salt-restricted diet also have the ability to walk, and if we kept it out in the open, they'd just take it, and we're in the business of helping our patients get better, not worse. Now, if you're not salt-restricted, I can show you how to order your own food, and I would suggest that you add a seasoning kit to each order, so even if you end up *not* using salt on that specific meal, you'll have some for later in case you forget to order. Make sense? I'll see you in a bit, I'm in the middle of changing a patient's sheets, and I had to stop for 5 minutes to tell you why I don't have salt in a way that'll prevent you from arguing with a nurse."


    -----------------------
    Side note #1 - As far as ratios are concerned, one of the things that I love about my unit, is that it feels like between management keeping tabs on staffing, and the physical size of our specific unit, they don't have the ability to have dangerous ratios for the nurses. We have a maximum of 20 patients spread across 12 rooms. The closest I've seen us to full capacity would be 18 patients spread across 4 nurses, with a 5th coming in later in the shift. 2 of our patients are essentially residents and have been with us for months. I do know that *if* a nurse gets assigned 5 patients, it's one of those 2. Otherwise, the most I've seen is 4 patients to a nurse. Now, there have been shifts where I'm the only CNA on the floor. Whether that's because we have a surprise need for 1:1 sitters and that leaves only 1 tech on the floor, but about 2/3 of the way through a shift, the house supervisor goes to every unit and see what their staffing needs are, to make sure that if the next shift needs an additional nurse or tech, they call someone in from the float pool or offer overtime. The house soup is usually pretty good at talking to each of the techs to make sure we're not overwhelmed as well, in case the charge nurse of the unit is too busy to keep tabs on us, and they're pretty good at getting us reinforcements if we need it.

    Side note #2 - The only thing I like about our charting software is that once you get in to write a note, you literally can't do anything else. Either you're finishing the note, or you're abandoning it and typing from scratch later. Understanding this, I don't have an issue when a nurse redirects a patient to me. "Blind, can you get 22 a pitcher of water?" or "Blind, can you get 27 bed 1 a heated blanket please?" Sure, all day, every day. I also take the time to (re)educate the patient and/or family on how to use the call light, because 4 times out of 5 it's faster than someone getting up and approaching the nurses station.

    #46

    Oops just saw a mouse run across the ER floor.

    #47

    If you pass away, I’m packing you down to the morgue, wiping down the bed, calling housekeeping to clean your room and bringing in the next patient the same day.
    There not a room or bed that someone hasn’t passed away in.

    #48

    We use the blankets in the OR to wipe up blood, pee, fluids on the dirty floor. And I gladly still cuddle up with the blankets knowing this.
    Also we never have any of the supplies/ instruments we need to do surgery. There’s a lot of creative leeway because of that.

    #49

    Many times the morgue shares the back half of the walkin freezer with the kitchen (separated by a wall).

    #50

    Bed bugs are a SERIOUS problem

    #51

    Also we notice when your alarm coincides with your PRN pain relief being due.