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  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 06:00

    Navigating the modern dating scene feels like learning a completely new language. From viral trend-chasers to shifting relationship goals, it’s getting harder and harder to find common ground with someone. That’s why people on the internet have popularized looking out for early signs, which may signal what kind of person you’re dealing with.

    In this interactive poll, you’ll get to judge 12 dating behaviors with red, green, or beige flags. Weigh in on the funniest, weirdest, and most relatable dating scenarios of the digital age. There’s no need to go to 12 awkward dinners this time; you can do it all from your home. See if your gut feeling matches the opinions of other Pandas!

    When you’re done voting here, check out our other polls by clicking here.

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity.💡 🚀

    #1 During a casual conversation, your date lays out their highly detailed timeline for marriage, career milestones, and children. They are looking for someone who fits perfectly into this life plan. They ask if your career goals and lifestyle align with their trajectory.

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    #2 Your date proudly mentions that they are completely cleansing themselves from technology. They do not own a smartphone, have no social media, and cannot be reached via text, unless it’s an emergency. They carry a basic flip phone strictly for voice calls and work coordination. They suggest planning future dates weeks in advance with fixed times and locations.

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    #3 Throughout the entire evening, your date asks you dozens of fun, but intriguing questions and listens attentively. They don’t offer much information about themselves, but don’t dodge your questions when you decide to ask something. You realize you know almost nothing about them by the end of the night, but they’re a really good listener.

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    #4 Your date insists on taking you to an incredibly expensive, exclusive restaurant for a casual first meeting. They dismiss your suggestions for a low-key coffee or drink, stating they only enjoy high-end experiences. They pay for everything without letting you look at the price.

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    #5 On your third date, you talk about some of the problems you’re facing in life. Your date keeps interrupting with some unsolicited advice, but it comes off as them genuinely wanting to help. Afterward, they explain that self-help books helped them deal with exactly these sorts of problems, and offer to lend you 3 of their favorites.

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    #6 You find out that your date’s best friend and current roommate is actually their most recent ex-partner of four years. They explain that the romantic spark died, but they remain deeply bonded in a platonic relationship. They frequently text this person during moments of casual downtime and at the dinner table.

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    #7 Within an hour of parting ways after a pleasant first date, you receive a massive wall of text thanking you. Over the next day, your date sends constant updates on their daily routine and random thoughts. They do not seem upset if you reply late, but the stream of messages is continuous.

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    #8 When your food arrives, your date spends five minutes meticulously arranging the table lighting and plates for a photo. They ask you to hold your phone flashlight at a specific angle to get the perfect shot for their story. They take a great photo of the food and post it on their Instagram story.

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    #9 About an hour into the first meeting, your date starts talking about how honesty is a big deal to them, and how they simply can’t date a dishonest person. To “prove” this, they start telling you about their childhood traumas and therapy sessions, showing emotional vulnerability. Later, they start asking you probing questions about your life, to “make it fair” and show that you’re an honest person.

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    #10 When the bill arrives after your first meal together, your date calculates the exact cost of what each person ordered down to the cent. They use a calculator app to split the tax and tip in proportion to each person's actual consumption. They then request a precise digital transfer of your share.

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    #11 Your date openly admits that they consult their parents before making any major financial, career, or personal decisions. They don’t follow it to a tee every time, but they seek it out, and as you talk with them more, they frequently compare your insights to advice their mother has given them.

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    #12 Your date talks passionately about their corporate job for most of the evening, admitting they routinely work more than 50 hours a week. They take two brief work emails on their phone during dinner with you, apologizing and explaining that a huge deal depends on them. They promise you that slightly more laid-back times are ahead.

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  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 05:00

    Scrolling through thousands of stranger reactions on platforms like TikTok has become its own form of entertainment. You can find some unhinged, dumb, and often funnier replies than the content itself.

    If you are looking for the absolute peak of this chaotic art form, one TikTok account tracks and jots it all down in one place. We have scrolled through the madness and collected the best screenshots right here.

    They prove that you should never skip the comments, because sometimes, that’s where the real comedy lives.

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    As TikTok’s user base grew to 1.59 billion active users globally, the comments grew with it. The average TikTok post now receives around 66 comments, compared to just 24 on Instagram.

    And the responses have taken on a life of their own.

    Recent research found that TikTok comment sections have become active environments for culture and connection. Humor, shared references, and phrases that create instant inside jokes are bringing large numbers of people together.

    The study found that these linguistic signals do two things at once: they pull insiders together, and they signal to outsiders that there is a whole culture they are missing.

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    The language of the comments has become its own area of study.

    A 2024 paper published in IDEAS journal analyzed TikTok comment sections and found sophisticated linguistic patterns at work. It found slang terms that can quickly move from obscure to mainstream, driven by the platform’s algorithm.

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    In a recent survey, 91% of people said they spend time in the comments section of social platforms.

    A third of them said they spend time commenting themselves, while 65% said comments sections are funnier than the creators themselves.

    “Commentary is now a form of currency. Actually, it’s the main point of interest. We want to have commentary on the culture that we’re consuming, not just consume the culture prescribed to us,” says Annie House, head of strategy at OK Cool.

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    Even though comments can be bought in the form of bots, there are still some refreshingly unfiltered ones out there. People say exactly what they think whether that’s a joke, a callout, or something completely unhinged.

    And somewhere in this chaos, inside jokes are born. A lot of times the comments only make sense if you’ve spent enough hours on the app.

    For example, the classic “bro really said” comment showing up under any video where someone does or says something stupid.

    Then there’s the capitalization chaos. For example, “moo DENG” — a pygmy hippo who went viral and became a TikTok obsession. People started dropping her name in random caps under completely unrelated videos, paired with a purple heart. It caught on as a way to express something that is too cute, too chaotic, or just too much to put into words.

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    One reason people scroll straight to the comments after watching a video is because they want to know if everyone else felt the same thing they just did.

    Experts call this the false consensus effect. It is a deeply human tendency to assume that others share our beliefs and see them as normal. We watch something funny, unsettling, or bizarre, and almost instinctively, we look for confirmation. The comment section is where that confirmation lives.

    In today’s hyperconnected world, this bias is more active than ever. Our reliance on social media as a primary source of information means we are constantly checking our perceptions against other people’s reactions.

    It is less about being right and more about feeling less alone in what we just experienced.

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    Even brands and influencers now realize the power of comments.

    The replies provide a snapshot into public opinion and trending topics.

    By tapping into inside jokes, brands can easily show off their personality. Companies like Duolingo and Ryanair are already experts at this. They use clever replies to build huge followings and connect with younger audiences.

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    Liz Cole, chief social officer at agency VML, which handles social media for Audible, says the comments offer something traditional content often cannot: speed and low stakes.

    “It allows us to test things in a very quick and lightweight way that doesn't require a whole big production every single time,” she said.

    Audible’s approach is to occasionally drop the corporate mask — just enough to feel human. “There’s just enough personality to be able to imagine that there is a real person there understanding these titles, engaging with the lore, and taking part in the community,” Cole added.

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    While comment sections can be a hub for negativity and hate, they are also a source of humor and authenticity.

    That is what makes the best TikTok replies so satisfying to stumble upon. They are not produced or optimized.

    They are just someone, somewhere, saying exactly the wrong or right thing at exactly the right time.

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  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 04:00

    Much like the hunter-gatherers of our past, collecting and bringing home berries or animal pelts, modern dating often involves sending your choice of online content. A funny TikTok or maybe two kittens laying together, that you’ve captioned “us.”

    We’ve gathered some of the funniest and cutest posts from a page dedicated to “love memes.” Save the ones you plan to send to your significant other, get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples and thoughts in the comments section down below.

    #1 Wholesome Date

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    #2 Not Dumb, It Is Just Love

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    #3 It's The Thought That Counts

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    There is a penguin-inspired word for what happens when your partner sends you a blurry video of a cat falling off a counter at 2pm on a Tuesday. It is called "pebbling." The term borrows from the courtship behavior of Gentoo penguins, who bring their chosen partners small stones as tokens of affection. Digital pebbling works the same way. A meme, a viral clip, a Reddit post that made someone snort at their desk. These are tiny offerings that say "I saw this and immediately thought of you." In a relationship, that turns out to be worth a lot more than it sounds.

    The science behind it is more interesting than you might expect. When couples share something funny and laugh together, the brain releases a mix of feel-good chemicals including dopamine and endorphins. Shared laughter also triggers a surge in oxytocin, the so-called bonding hormone, which helps build trust and closeness between people.

    #4 I Do This To My Guy Too Sometimes

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    #5 Must Be Nice Being The God’s Favourite

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    #6 This Is Partnership. You Lift Me Up, I Hold You Down, We Both Win

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    A well-timed meme about your shared hatred of Monday mornings or your mutual obsession with a specific TV show is not just funny. It is, in a very literal sense, a small chemistry experiment that tends to go in the relationship's favor. Humor has also quietly become one of the most important qualities couples look for in each other.

    #7 The World Needs More Love Like This

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    #8 From Heartbreak To Home

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    #9 It Do Be Like That

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    Research from psychologist Vassilis Saroglou found that sharing a funny moment during a first encounter led to stronger feelings between two people, and that couples with compatible senses of humor were more likely to end up together long-term. Saroglou also found that married people frequently credit shared laughter as one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship. Memes are not just silly distractions. They are one of the primary delivery systems for exactly that kind of humor.

    #10 Rawr

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    #11 Gratitude

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    #12 LOL

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    Beyond the chemistry, there is something meaningful about the specificity of a well-chosen meme. Dr. Rosanna Guadagno, a social psychologist at Stanford who has researched social influence and virality, points out that one of the clearest signs a relationship is growing stronger is the development of shared inside jokes.

    #13 Sweet Meme

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    #14 Just Let Me Be Crazy For A Minute

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    #15 Introvert Couples

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    A meme is essentially a visual version of that. Sending your partner a very specific format that captures something only the two of you would find funny is a way of saying "this is ours." Over time, those accumulate into a private language that belongs entirely to the relationship.

    #16 Best Feeling Ever

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    #17 True Love

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    #18 Keeper

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    There is also a simple logistical function at play. Couples spend the majority of their days apart, navigating work, commutes, and everything else that has nothing to do with each other. Memes give people a way to briefly re-enter the shared world of the relationship without needing a full conversation.

    #19 He Made An App Just To Give Her Attention

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    #20 Don't We All

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    #21 May This Love Find Us

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    A tagged post or forwarded video requires no formal response, no specific timing, and almost no effort. It is the lowest-friction form of "I am thinking about you" that exists, and it works reliably. None of this means memes are a substitute for real conversation or quality time together. Therapists note that while pebbling is a meaningful habit, it works best as a supplement to deeper communication rather than a replacement for it.

    #22 A Text Changes Everything

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    #23 Humans Were Meant To Hibernate With Their Soulmate

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    #24 May This Love Attack Me

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    But within those limits, the humble meme is doing more emotional heavy lifting in modern relationships than most people ever stop to think about. The raccoon eating a tiny grape, the perfectly timed reaction image, the post that is just "us." These are small things. They just happen to matter quite a bit.

    #25 If Its Not Like This I Dont Want It

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    #26 Love This :)

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    #27 When I Talk About Football To My Wife

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    #28 The "I Love My Wife" Starter Pack

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    #29 Dynamic Kind Of Love

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    #30 When He Trusts You With His Soft Side

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    #31 It Is

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    #32 "Borrow"

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    #33 Sweet Chaos

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    #35 Girls Is This Actually True?

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    #36 LOL

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    #37 It's So Easy I Promise!

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    #38 He's One Heck Of A Wholesome Boyfriend

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    #39 Isn't That Right

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    #42 That's Gotta Be The Best Sandwich Ever

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    #43 Words That Teach How To Truly Love

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  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 00:00

    We’ve all heard the stories about managers pushing people to stay late, work longer hours, or constantly “go above and beyond.” Sometimes that pressure is baked into the job. But other times, it doesn’t even come from the boss. It comes from that one coworker who acts like a self-appointed supervisor. No title, no authority—just opinions. And somehow, they feel very comfortable judging how everyone else does their job.

    In this case, one employee shared how a 60-year-old coworker labeled them a “lazy worker” for taking frequent bathroom breaks and refusing to do extra work for free. What she didn’t consider was that those breaks were medically necessary and completely allowed. Keep reading to see how the situation unfolded and how the internet reacted.

    Workplace conflicts are sometimes inevitable, and you can tell a lot about an employee’s character by how they handle them

    A senior woman, an Ableist Karen, lecturing her coworker for doing what is expected.

    Image credits: www.kaboompics.com / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    This worker revealed how an older colleague recently confronted them about their work ethic

    Screenshot of text: Ableist Karen lecturing a coworker, stating they are not a "particularly hard worker."

    Screenshot of text: Ableist Karen lecturing a coworker for being away from their desk and taking breaks.

    Screenshot of text: A coworker explains medical condition that causes them to take more bathroom breaks.

    Screenshot of text: Coworker mentions ADA accommodation for their medical condition and HR awareness.

    A screenshot of text about an ableist Karen lecturing a coworker about company break policy.

    An ableist Karen coworker standing by a desk with papers and glasses, contemplating lecturing a coworker.

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    A screenshot of text about a coworker responding to an ableist Karen about taking allowed break time.

    A screenshot of text about an ableist Karen accusing a coworker of being lazy for not doing extra work.

    A screenshot of text about a coworker's refusal to do extra free work despite an ableist Karen's demands.

    Screenshot of text about a coworker being lectured for not working unpaid extra hours by an ableist Karen.

    A frustrated woman in a plaid jacket sits at a desk looking at a laptop, demonstrating the stress from an ableist Karen.

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    Text snippet explaining the refusal to work unpaid hours for an ableist Karen who expects extra work.

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    Text from a coworker explaining that employers want free labor, challenging an ableist Karen's expectations.

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     Coworkers enjoying pizza and casual conversation in an office setting, highlighting a normal work environment before an ableist Karen.

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    Many Gen Z workers prioritize mental health, even while on the job, making self-care and emotional well-being a part of their daily work routine

    Over the years, what counts as “normal” at work has changed dramatically, and for many employees from the baby boomer generation, staying late and putting in unpaid overtime was considered just part of the job rather than something exceptional. Hustle was worn like a badge of honor, leaving precisely at the end of the workday could make you look lazy, and questioning authority was rarely encouraged. Boundaries between work and personal life were often nonexistent, and loyalty was measured by how many hours you put in rather than the quality of your output. This mindset shaped decades of workplaces, setting expectations that linger in subtle ways even today.

    Gen Z, however, approaches work with a completely different mindset, viewing balance not as a luxury but as a necessity, and they refuse to treat burnout as a rite of passage or a badge of dedication. According to McKinsey, 77% of Gen Z workers consider work-life balance a major factor when deciding which job to take, and for them, time outside work is just as important as the paycheck itself. They value flexibility and boundaries, logging off at the end of the day without guilt, seeing rest as something that fuels productivity rather than laziness, and they approach work as one part of life rather than its entirety.

    Mental health awareness is another defining feature of Gen Z in the workplace, as this generation has grown up in an era where conversations around therapy, burnout, anxiety, and emotional well-being are no longer taboo. They are comfortable speaking up when they feel overwhelmed and understand that taking mental health days isn’t dramatic or indulgent—it’s responsible and necessary for long-term productivity. Older coworkers are sometimes surprised by this openness, but for Gen Z, keeping struggles hidden simply to appear “professional” feels outdated and unnecessary, and they actively seek workplaces that understand and accommodate these needs.

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    Today’s workers often prefer less formal ways to communicate at work, favoring quick, efficient channels that get things done without long-winded explanations

    Technology plays an equally critical role in how Gen Z approaches work, as they’ve grown up in a world where digital tools are the norm rather than an option. They expect workplaces to have systems that are efficient and intuitive, and clunky, outdated processes can feel like a frustrating waste of time. Automation and AI aren’t scary; they’re welcome, especially when they take care of repetitive, low-value tasks. For this generation, technology isn’t a perk; it’s essential infrastructure that allows them to focus on the work that actually matters, and they quickly notice when companies fall short in providing it.

    Diversity and inclusion are not just buzzwords for Gen Z—they’re a core expectation, and they want to see workplaces that genuinely reflect the world they’ve grown up in. Representation matters at every level, from entry-level roles to leadership positions, and empty gestures or tokenism don’t go unnoticed. They’re looking for authentic policies, fair practices, and real opportunities for everyone, regardless of background, and they place significant weight on whether an organization’s actions match its stated values. To them, inclusion isn’t optional; it’s part of how a workplace earns trust and loyalty.

    Communication is another area where Gen Z prefers efficiency and clarity over formality, often favoring short, direct messages over long, drawn-out emails. If taking a day off is allowed, they do so without feeling the need to overexplain or apologize excessively, and they expect coworkers and managers to respect that choice. Tools like Slack and Teams replace lengthy chains of emails, and transparency, honesty, and mutual respect are valued far more than politeness for politeness’ sake. They’re pragmatic, understanding that time is finite and communication should be clear, concise, and actionable.

    Collaboration is prioritized over hierarchy, as Gen Z thrives in environments where ideas and feedback can flow freely, regardless of title. They respect managers who listen, who engage in two-way conversations, and who value empathy as much as authority. Being spoken with rather than spoken at creates loyalty and trust, while rigid hierarchies and top-down commands without context often lead to disengagement. For them, respect isn’t automatically granted based on title, it’s earned through how leaders treat their team and how the workplace fosters collaboration.

    Of course, this shift in work culture hasn’t been universally welcomed, as many older employees view Gen Z’s habits as “lazy” or “entitled.” Leaving on time, saying no to extra unpaid work, or openly discussing mental health can draw side-eye and criticism, yet what appears as laziness is often just thoughtful boundary-setting, and what seems like disengagement is usually intentional prioritization. Generational differences in workplace expectations can create tension, but different doesn’t mean wrong—it simply reflects the evolving nature of work and how we define dedication.

    Whether you’re Gen Z, a seasoned professional, or somewhere in between, there are clearly workplace norms that deserve rethinking. Expecting employees to work unpaid overtime shouldn’t be standard. Treating exhaustion as proof of dedication is outdated and harmful. Respecting personal time, mental health, and life outside work should never be controversial.

    In this particular case, it really seemed like the author was simply doing the job they were hired and paid to do. They followed company policy, used the breaks they were entitled to, and met their responsibilities. Being judged for not doing extra, unpaid work feels unfair. “Going above and beyond” shouldn’t be an unspoken requirement just to avoid criticism. Showing up, doing your work well, and respecting boundaries should be enough. What are your views on this situation?

    The author interacted with some readers in the comments

    Reddit comments discussing a coworker being harassed over a medical condition, revealing the impact of an ableist Karen.

    Reddit comments detailing a HR lady following a coworker to the bathroom for IBS, illustrating ableist Karen behavior.

    A Reddit comment describing a coworker followed to the bathroom for IBS, demonstrating the microaggressions of an ableist Karen.

    A screenshot showing a Reddit user commenting on how weird management can get, relating to the Ableist Karen story.

    A Reddit comment from a user sharing their experience of being bullied by their boss, echoing the Ableist Karen issue.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment suggesting not to engage with the Ableist Karen to prevent her from feeling validated.

    A Reddit comment asking why the original poster is arguing with the Ableist Karen, and the OP's response.

    A Reddit user's comment questioning if the Ableist Karen knows about a medical condition, leading to a discussion about work ethic.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment where a coworker explains their IBS accommodation regarding restroom use, central to an Ableist Karen story.

    A Reddit comment where an OP responds to a user, stating they are annoyed by an Ableist Karen lecturing a coworker.

    Here’s what people said after reading the story

    A detailed Reddit comment describing how a coworker dealt with an Ableist Karen by arriving just before her, making her uncomfortable.

    A Reddit comment suggesting an Ableist Karen should focus on her own work instead of lecturing a coworker.

    A Reddit comment expressing sympathy for the coworker with health issues, questioning why the Ableist Karen is acting as a hall monitor.

    A Reddit comment criticizing Ableist Karen for projecting suffering onto her coworker, not understanding medical conditions.

    A Reddit comment stating Ableist Karen is trying to revert labor protections for her coworker.

    A Reddit comment by Cassierae87 suggesting Ableist Karen and boomers value hard work, but smart work is better.

    A Reddit comment suggesting Ableist Karen has a wasted life if she is watching her coworker.

    A Reddit comment describing Ableist Karen as a bitter old woman realizing her miserable career.

    A Reddit comment from a user named skipjac, about an ableist coworker lecturing another, and Gen X and Boomers.

  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 00:00

    Choosing a baby name is supposed to be one of the most exciting parts of pregnancy. But when you throw in pushy family traditions and a relentless partner, it can turn into a total relationship nightmare.

    One pregnant mom is living this reality. In an online post, she revealed she is expecting her third child and is facing a major marital crisis. Her husband, whom she describes as a “huge mommy’s boy,” is pressuring her to name their future daughter after his mother.

    Between her husband’s demands and her MIL’s boundary issues, the woman was left in tears, wondering if she was wrong to say no to her husband.

    Read her story to find out whose side the internet is on.

    A pregnant woman said that her husband wants to name their kid after his mother
    A pregnant wife pushes away her husband as she experiences pain, highlighting the challenges of pregnancy and relationships.

    Image credits: Getty Images / Unsplash

    She said she refused his demands as she doesn’t like her MIL’s name

    Screenshot of an online post detailing a wife's refusal to honor her husband's mom by naming their child after her.

    Text explaining how a couple agreed to honor heritage when naming their first child.

    Text detailing a husband wanting to honor his mom by naming their second child after her, causing marital conflict.

    Text describing a wife's appreciation for her MIL but her refusal to honor her with a name due to personal dislike.

    A husband wants to honor his mom, making his wife wonder why he never wants to honor her.

    A pregnant wife, visibly upset, sits on a couch while her husband argues with his mom in the background, highlighting the husband wanting to honor his mom.

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    Text expresses a wife's jealousy because her husband wants to honor his mom more than her.

    Text explaining a husband's compromise to use his mom's name as a middle name, still upsetting the wife who wonders why he never wants to honor her.

    A text from the wife suggests a compromise to honor both grandmas, highlighting her feelings about her husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A screenshot of a Reddit post where a wife describes an argument with her husband about honoring his mom and not her.

    A couple sits on a couch, looking at a notebook with baby names. The husband wants to honor his mom, the wife wants to honor her.

    Image generated by Bored Panda using Gemini (not the actual photo)

    A screenshot of a Reddit post where a wife wonders why her husband never wants to honor her, fearing marriage issues.

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    For centuries, naming a child has been the father’s territory

    In most cultures, babies automatically took their father’s surname without debate or discussion.

    In fact, an 1881 New York court ruling declared that under “the common law among all English-speaking people,” women should automatically give up their surnames upon marriage.

    This tradition runs so deep that even today, over 96% of children born to married heterosexual couples in the United States still take their father’s last name. Moms carry the baby for nine months, while dads contribute the name on the birth certificate.

    In the UK as well, around 90% of straight women still take their husband’s name when they marry, many of whom pass it on to their child.

    This unfair trend goes beyond surnames.

    Historically, firstborn sons were named after their fathers. Daughters were named after paternal grandmothers.

    Experts call this patrilineal naming — the practice of using names to trace and reinforce the father’s bloodline. It has never really been about honoring family, but more about marking ownership.

    “While everyone should be free to make their own choices, there can be an implication that marriage fundamentally changes a woman’s identity, while it doesn’t for men. Assuming a heterosexual couple, the entire family having the man’s last name implies that the man is the ‘head of the household’,” says Jocelyn Stitt, professor of women’s and gender studies at the University of Michigan.

    Stitt believes that this surname tradition, which clearly stems from patriarchy, reinforces power dynamics within the family.

    Studies consistently show that women carry the heavier mental load at home. Yet when it comes to decisions that shape family identity, such as naming a child, they often have surprisingly little power.

    A 2020 Gallup survey found that even in households that consider themselves equal partnerships, women still make fewer of the big decisions. Men were more likely to have the final say on finances, major purchases, and family traditions. Women, meanwhile, were left managing the day-to-day invisible work.

    “We tend to connect a person’s identity with their name and since a name usually lasts a lifetime, new parents feel the pressure to ‘get it right’. The higher the stakes, the more likelihood of conflict,” says marriage and family therapist Kate Engler.

    Choosing your husband’s mother’s name for your child might feel like a personal decision. But it’s heavily influenced by old-school traditions that still subtly expect women to bend to their partner’s family dynamics.

    While patrilineal surnames are the norm in some countries such as the US and the UK, they are far from universal. In many cultures, including Spain, Mexico, Colombia, and Puerto Rico, children traditionally inherit a double-barrel surname that combines the last names of both their father and mother.

    When the power imbalance becomes even more toxic

    In this author’s case, the fight over a baby name might be a symptom of a much deeper psychological issue known as emotional enmeshment. It’s where a husband is unable to separate his identity and loyalties from his mother.

    When a husband consistently prioritizes his mother’s feelings over his wife’s comfort, marital satisfaction goes down rapidly.

    A study by psychologist Dr. Terri Apter revealed that 60% of daughters-in-law experience sustained, high-level stress due to friction with their mothers-in-law. The research showed that this tension almost always boils down to a battle for influence over the husband.

    When a husband is emotionally enmeshed, he views his wife’s healthy boundaries as an attack on his mother.

    “Being married to a mama’s boy can create drama between you and your husband on a constant basis when he does not distinguish the importance of making you and your family his priority,” says relationship strategist Sherrie Sims Allen, Ph.D.

    Dr. Allen suggests that the wife should express to her husband that putting his marriage first is good for him, too.

    Still, you can’t do the work for him. Experts believe that the partner who is enmeshed must change the dynamics.

    By relentlessly pushing his mother’s name, the author’s husband is trying to physically carve his mother’s influence into the identity of his new household. He is demanding that his wife carry, deliver, and raise a child named after a woman who already oversteps her boundaries.

    When naming a child becomes a battlefield, experts say the only way forward is to establish rock-solid boundaries and stand firm. When the process drags on, it can morph into deep anxiety, disappointment, and full-blown resentment.

    “The bigger the family you have and the more cultures intertwine, the more difficult it will be to navigate between all suggestions and pick a name that everyone will be happy with,” explains Dr. Max Doshay, PsyD, co-founder of Monima Wellness.

    He notes that setting clear boundaries from the very beginning is the only way to simplify a high-stakes decision.

    Yet centuries-old traditions still carry significant weight. While women have successfully climbed to the top of corporations, led countries, and rewritten laws, the default expectation in the delivery room remains exactly as it was generations ago. Real progress, it seems, stops at the nursery door.

    Ultimately, names are so much more than ink on a birth certificate. They carry our identity, telling the world exactly who we are and where we belong. Because the stakes are for a lifetime, a child’s name must be a choice that both parents genuinely love. It can’t be a compromise born out of exhaustion and tears.

    The woman gave some more information in response to the comments

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment section with a user suggesting combining names to honor his mom and the wife.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment section with a user suggesting a flower name to honor his mom, as the wife feels unhonored.

    A Reddit comment where a wife defends her husband while wondering why he never wants to honor her.

    A Reddit comment discussing a wife's plan for more kids, relevant to her husband honoring his mom.

    A detailed Reddit comment from a wife explaining her husband's reluctance to honor her with a name choice.

    A lot of people in the comments supported the woman’s choice

    A Reddit comment about a husband's rejection of names, causing his wife to wonder why he never wants to honor her.

    A long Reddit comment from a wife sharing her experience with honoring her husband's family, resonating with the struggle to be honored.

    A Reddit comment asking if babies having husband's last name is enough honoring of his family, relevant to a husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment suggesting the wife is NTA for offering a compromise incorporating both grandmas names, related to a husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment advising the wife to say 'no' and that his attempts to convince her are manipulation, about a husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment stating the wife is NTA if the husband is trying to change their process for honoring grandmothers, for a husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment asking why only his mother should be honored and calling it an issue of fairness, regarding a husband wanting to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment regarding a husband wanting to honor his mom, and the wife feeling unhonored.

    A Reddit comment about a husband wanting to honor his mom, and the wife feeling unhonored.

    A Reddit comment expressing suspicion about a husband's continuous push to honor his mom.

    A Reddit comment discussing a husband who wants to honor his mom, and his wife's feelings of being unhonored.

    A Reddit comment about a husband wanting to honor his mom, and the wife feeling unhonored due to naming traditions.

    A comment on why a husband should honor his wife's decision not to have more children, emphasizing her autonomy.

    A comment about renaming children after family names, suggesting a husband's surname is honor enough.

    A Reddit comment advising a wife not to cave to her husband's manipulation to honor his mom, highlighting a husband problem.

    A Reddit comment stating a baby should have its own unique name, not just to honor mom or wife.

    A Reddit comment discussing how a husband wants to honor his mom by taking from his wife's body.

    A Reddit comment advising a wife about her husband wanting to honor his mom, and not her.

    Some people disagreed with the woman, and advised her to compromise

    A Reddit comment suggesting a wife's insecurities are causing issues in her marriage with her husband and his mom.

    A Reddit comment asking why a baby cant have their husband's mom's name as a middle name.

    A Reddit comment stating that if both a husband and wife dont agree, the answer is no.

    A Reddit comment suggesting a wife has jealousy because she does not want to honor her husband's mom.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment regarding a husband wanting to honor his mom, and wife wondering why he never wants to honor her.

    A screenshot of a Reddit comment about a husband wanting to honor his mom, and his wife's feelings of not being honored.

  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 00:00

    We humans have an innate urge to lay our hands on things. And while it's not just reasonable, but advisable with cats and dogs, there are plenty of objects—living and inanimate—that we should approach only with our eyes.

    However, as the subreddit r/WhyWouldYouTouchThat shows, not everyone is that careful. Whether they're fearless or just completely clueless, some of us just cannot resist poking, pinching, and prodding everything from venomous critters to radioactive waste.

    Mandatory "don't try this at home!"

    #1 Can You Tell Me What Is This Little Shiny One?

    BigOlPenDisorder: Half life of cobalt 60 is ~5 years so it should be practically non-radioactive (manufactured in '63) But still, why

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    #2 Oooh, That’s Going To Sting

    This is the Hooded Pitohui. These adorable little orioles are poisonous to touch because of the malarid beetles that they eat, exhibiting feathers which, when touched, can cause burning and irritation. If the toxin is ingested, it causes respiratory paralysis, similarly to cobra venom.

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    #3 Found On A Beach In Ireland

    Frog_enjoyer123: That’s unfortunately a human mandible

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    #4 Does This Count?

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    #5 That's A Yellow Bellied Sea Snake Brother

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    #6 Scientific Name Put-Itus Downus

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    #7 What This?

    that is a man o' war! it's kind of like a jellyfish, though it isn't actually one. the "balloon"/sail is safe to touch, but please don't, in the future! if any tentacles are still attached/wrapped around the balloon, they can hurt you VERY badly. the stinging cells remain active after passing and can cause some very severe pain, and worse in some rare circumstances!

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    #8 Look At This Beautiful Baby Girl I Found On My Plants Today 🥰

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    #9 A Pregnant Black Widow. Nope Nope Nope Nope Nope Nope Nope

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    #10 Does Anyone Know What These Are? Hundreds Washed Up On The Beach Today Miami Beach, Florida

    most-perplex9811: By-the-wind sailors (Velella vellela)/Blue sail Jellyfish

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    #11 A Tiny Alligator Snapping Turtle

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    #12 Absolute Unit Of A Wasp

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    #13 Swimming With An Absolutely Massive Great White Shark

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    #14 This Is Some Nonsense

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    #15 Hmmm

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    #16 Cow Killer Ant

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    #17 What Is This Fish? Found In Australia Great Barrier Reef

    Baby flying fish

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    #18 Scientists Have Discovered The Largest Spider Web Covering 106 Square Meters With 111,000 Spiders Belonging To Two Different Species Who Are Rivals, Coexist Together

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    #19 What Is She?

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    #20 Strange Insect Web

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    #21 What On Earth Is This?

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    #22 A Prickly “Stick” Insect

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    #23 Nope

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    #24 Just Why??

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    #25 Walked Outside And Spotted This Strange Brown Smudge On My Tree

    It's maggots...

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    #26 Can You Guess What This Is?

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    #27 The Tattoo Is Sick, But Whywouldyoutouchthat

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    #28 The Chinese Giant Salamander Is The Largest Amphibian In The World And Can Reach A Length Of Almost 2 Meters (6 Ft) And A Weight Of 60 Kilograms (130 Lb)

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    #29 Found Out A Day Later This Is A Highly Venomous Cane Toad

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    #30 Tiny Shiny Black Things On Patch Of Driveway, Maybe Some Kind Of Seed?

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    #31 Just For Confirmation...is This A Brown Recluse? (Midwest USA)

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    #32 What Is This? Found In [florida] Ocean. It’s Heavy, Rubbery, A Bit Squishy

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    #33 Juvenile Eastern Brown Snake, Second Most Venomous In The World

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    #34 Why, You Say? For Science!

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    #35 Is This A Moldy Tomato?! Why Is It So Big?!

    © Photo: Dapper_Price7069

    #36 Nope And Never

    © Photo: Snoo_89466

    #37 What Is This? Soft Ball Things Suddenly Fell From The Sky In The Middle Of The Night

    these are almost definitely rat poison balls targetted at our dogs. These were thrown directly into our balcony and yard at 3am.

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    #38 Sealed Glass Vial On The Beach

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    #39 Plastic Suction Tube That Was Found Laying On Top Of Gas Station Trash Can

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    #40 The Humble House Centipede

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    #41 What The Hell Did I Find On The Side Of The Road

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    #42 Book With Growth

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    #43 Friend Found These On A Beach On The East Side Of Hawaii Island

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    #44 Found This Today At Our Local Thrift Store

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    #45 Found This During Low Tide

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    #46 Is This A Tick Of Some Kind? In Southern Michigan

    © Photo: SuperVDF

    #47 I Work For The Airlines And Found This In The Cargo Pit In The Plane… It’s Hard As A Rock

    © Photo: smthsmthinsidejoke

    #48 10/10 Would Not Touch Or Bring Home!

    © Photo: ResearchSchmeSearch

    #49 Saw Someone Posting A Pic Of Moth. Let Me Introduce You To Megaloblatta Longipennis

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    #50 What Is The Orange Mold In This Bread?

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    #51 What Is This

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    #52 Found A Severely Dehydrated Redback At Work

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    #53 What’s This Black Stuff Under My Sink

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    #54 Tonsil Boulder That Fell Out Of My GF’s Mouth This Morning 😭

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #55 Taking A Break From Cleaning The Septic Tank For A Nice Handful Of Bacon

    © Photo: Silly-Mountain-6702

    #56 But Why

    © Photo: thedarwinking

    #57 What Is This Sea Creature That My Children Found Washed Up On The Shore? [east Coast Of Canada]

    © Photo: Liz__Gloss

    #58 Dense Rubber-Like Slab Washed Up On The Beach - So Of Course We Gotta Touch It

    © Photo: the1un1corn

    #59 My Dad Grabbed A Wild Mouse

    © Photo: SunnySolarSundance

    #60 A Pet Leech

    © Photo: Lucy1967

    #61 Opinion On Black Liquid Or Ooze Which Seems To Be Coming From A Tree

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #62 What Is This Called?

    © Photo: Spiritual-Macaron-13

    #63 Don’t Boil Or Season It

    © Photo: pinkcrab18

    #64 What Is This?

    © Photo: pierogi_slut

    #65 Oh Hell Naw

    © Photo: StormLokiPeco

    #66 What In Gods Green Earth Did I Pull Up

    © Photo: DirectorHuman5467

    #67 What Kind Of Mosquito Is This?😳😳

    © Photo: Darklight964

    #68 It's Fluffy And Pretty And I Have Too Touch It

    © Photo: MoonlitReigns

    #69 My Roommate's Tetanus Device

    © Photo: serieousbanana

    #70 What Is This?

    It was a pill, [illegal substances]

    © Photo: Crazy_Draw_9490

    #71 Found This Unidentified Sea Creature

    © Photo: ComeflywithEm

  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 00:00

    It’s strange to think that not too long ago, the idea of carrying a tiny screen around and messaging anyone in seconds would have sounded ridiculous. Now texting is just part of everyday life. We make plans, have arguments, send random thoughts, and sometimes write things that definitely deserved a second look before hitting send.

    Luckily for us, some of those conversations get screenshotted instead of being forgotten. This Instagram page collects funny and unhinged text exchanges people shared online, and we’ve gathered some of the best ones. Scroll down to read them and upvote your favorites.

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  • Saturday 27 June 2026 - 00:00

    Oh, the pressure to be a 'real' man... You can't carry an umbrella, lunchboxes are a no-go, owning a cat is gay, and don't even dare think about crying! Of course that's all a bunch of rubbish but it doesn't stop certain grown men from believing (and spewing) the hype.

    Some fight so hard to protect their flawless image of manhood that they end up shooting themselves in the foot with their embarrassing public comments. But we see your chests out. And we'll raise you a confident compilation of the most fragile toxic masculinity posts to shatter your ego into tiny shards.

    Bored Panda has collected them from the r/toxicmasculinity community, a corner of the internet where people of all genders gather to discuss the dangers of this social disease.

    #1 Title Not Required

    © Photo: CurrentlyARaccoon

    #2 Remember Not To Use Lunchboxes

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    #3 The Truth

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    About 4 in 10 American men see themselves as "highly masculine." That's according to a 2024 Pew Research poll, in which more than 6,000 adults participated. But what does it even mean to be masculine? It would seem the answer depends on who you ask.

    For example, the Webster's New World College Dictionary defines masculine as "having qualities regarded as characteristic of men and boys, as strength, vigor, boldness, etc.; manly; virile."

    But does that mean women and girls can't be strong bold? Or that boys and men can't be vulnerable?

    #4 “I Am Jack’s Complete Lack Of Surprise.”

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    #5 Getting Rid Of The Shackles Of The Masculine Role

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    #6 The Kind Of Healthy Outlet That Every Child Needs

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    "Rather than defining boys or men as 'good' or 'bad,' or 'tough' or 'weak,' it's important to recognize that men, like women, have many facets that extend far beyond the traditional expectations of their gender," cautions Dr. Carly Snyder, a reproductive and perinatal psychiatrist.

    Snyder adds that society often pressures men to "be men" in the traditional sense, rather than simply be human.

    "For men, vulnerability is often neglected, dismissed, or combated," warns the expert. "When men push down emotions, ignore feelings, or dismiss their feminine traits, their mental health will suffer."

    #7 Watch Out How You Gesticulate Boys

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    #8 Very Cool

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    #9 Cats Are Gay Now

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    Social justice activist and public speaker Ron Blake agrees.

    Blake once swallowed a bunch of pills, in the hopes that they would end his life. His mental health struggles began in 2015 after three men broke into his apartment, held him down, had their way with him and beat him. 

    Blake says society, and the police, failed him in his quest for justice. Purely because he's a man.

    “A former FBI agent was brought in and did a detailed investigation on my case, and his report stated that the police treated me differently that night. He said it was because I was a male, and it became clear to many people that, because I’m a gay man, they just didn’t take it seriously,” revealed Blake.

    #10 #wholesomeaf

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    #11 I’m So Tired Man

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    #12 Was On Instagram And I Found This Persons Instagram Account. Looked Through Some Of The Posts. I Just Don’t Know What To Say

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    Blake believes that toxic masculinity took more from him than justice. He struggled to speak openly about the trauma in a world where men are encouraged to remain silent, and “tough it out.”

    Today, he encourages boys and men to communicate their feelings and emotions more freely. “Once we remove those barriers, it will allow people to truly be themselves, a human being, without hiding their emotions and who they are,” he says.

    #13 Now You Can Finally Be A Manly Man And Stop Going To Beta Barbers!

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    #14 Nonewnormal Isnt Just For Idiots, Its Also For Fragile Men

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    #15 You Can't Be Beautiful And A Man Simultaneously

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    Society often dictates that men and boys should suppress their emotions but this can lead to them handling pain alone. Another case in point is that of student Ayaan Maker.

    “My friend’s dog passed away during school, while I was with him. Instead of letting us comfort him, he walked away because he didn’t want anyone to see him crying,” Maker told Scot Scoop, Carlmont High School's student news site.

    #16 What’s The Quote? “You Think It’s Degrading For A Man To Act Like A Woman, Because You Think Being A Woman Is Degrading”?

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    #17 This Guys Comment On My Poem 🤭

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    #18 Men Can't Enjoy Seafood

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    Blake believes that men need to be more empathetic so that they can process their feelings openly rather than internalizing them.

    "We need men to be role models for the new generation. It all starts with teaching boys to not be men, but to be humans," he says. "This should not be a gender issue. Once we make this a human issue, toxic masculinity will fade."

    #19 Don’t Read Books, Guys 🙃

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    #20 Oh, So When It Hits Close To Home It’s Different?🤔

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    #21 This Youtube Channel Is Just Astrology For Men

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    "The truth is being a man can mean whatever you want it to mean," says Britt East, author of A Gay Man's Guide to Life. "You get to decide." This also means that society as a whole needs to stop putting people into boxes.

    "Our society needs to remember that being a man doesn’t mean you have to like sports or women. Being a strong man doesn’t mean you can’t show weakness or cry. Being a successful man doesn’t mean you have to marry or become a C-suite executive," adds Snyder. "Gender identities, just like career choices and lifestyle choices, don’t make you any less of a man."

    #22 Jeff Feels So Threatened By A Cartoon That He Had To Write An Entire Article About It

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    #23 This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

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    #24 Iwil Have A Fwapachino Pwease

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    In an essay titled, Why Calling It 'Toxic Masculinity' Isn't Helping, Mark Greene argues that "masculinity is not toxic; our culture’s narrow, conformist, violent, bullying, man-box version of it is." He says that words matter, and that "language that critiques men’s culture (toxic culture of masculinity) is received differently than language that critiques men’s personal sense of self (toxic masculinity)."

    One blames and shames, explains Greene, while the other invites men to understand how they are victims of man-box culture.

    #25 Twitter Is Such A Lovely Place Isn’t It

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    #26 Dude Thinks He’s Eren Jaeger

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    #27 More “Rules For Thee But Not For Me” Nonsense

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    #29 Real Men Can't Get Cold

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    #30 Seen In A Bar In Bozeman, MT

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    #31 Do I Need To Write Anything?

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    #32 Toxic Masculinity Has Entered The Chat 🙄

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    #33 Fatherhood Is Not Safe Either Apparently

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    #34 Local Bro Ashamed To Give Positive Feedback To Women’s Clothing...as Part Of His Job

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    #35 Whatever Shall We Do!?

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    #36 Putting All Your Self Worth On Your Perceived Fuckability. It’s So Sad To See Men Brush Off Positivity, Especially When They’re Being Told They Are Worth More Than The Things They Can’t Change About Themselves

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    #37 On A Video Where A Guy Happened To Have Painted Nails Lmfao

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    #38 I Found This In The Q&a For An Air Purifier On Amazon

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    #39 The Entitlement And Lack Of Self Awareness Is Overwhelming

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    #40 Seen At A Local Candy Shop

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    #41 Manly Color

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    #42 As A Rider, I'm Part Of A Few Motorcycle Groups So I Know When There Are Group/Charity Rides I Can Join But Most Of The Time It's Just Stuff Like This

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    #43 Idk If It Fits Here But Anyway, I Saw A Guy Sharing His "Opinion" On Abuse So I Texted His GF To Make Sure She's Safe. Feel Free To Msg His GF And Show Her That This Is Abuse

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    #44 This Feels Like Pure Toxic Masculinity This Boot *reviewer*

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    #45 Run-Jumps Gaily

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    #46 Caring About Animals Lives, The Environment Or Human Lives Is Now Pansy Shit

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    #47 Real Men Don't Post Anything Apparently

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    #48 Ugh, Saying Sorry Is Nonexistent Cause ‘We’re Guys’ Apparently

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    #49 I Guess Basic Safety Is Also Not Masculine Enough

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    #50 Whew! So Glad They Were Only “Bro-Hugging”. Otherwise It’d Mean They Were Gay Or Something

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    #51 He's At It Again

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    #52 Til That Men Wearing Bright Colours Is Juvenile. And Not Age Appropriate?

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    #53 Heres Something Replied To Me On A Youtube Video

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    #54 Found This On A Xbox Post About Minecraft

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    #55 Why Just Why

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    #56 They Call It Puppy Love

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    #57 Will Take Down If I Did Something Wrong

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    #58 Little Bit Toxic?

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    #59 Men These Days Aren’t Fucking Up Their Teeth With Pliers Like They Used To. Fucking Pussies

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    #60 For Fuck Sake

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    #61 Finally You Can Wash Without Putting Your Masculinity In Danger

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    #62 “Emasculated” For Carrying A Bag?

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    #63 Okay Freud Calm Tf Down

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    #64 This Man Needs A Therapist

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    #65 Toxic Masculinity At Its Finest

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    #66 From A Pick Up Artist

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    #67 #9 Is My Favorite!

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    #68 Men Are Not Allowed To Cry, According To Twitter Intellectuals

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    #69 This Guy Is A Goldmine Of Cringe

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    #70 “Women Fear Men They Respect”

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  • Thursday 25 June 2026 - 10:29

    No country is without sin. And nobody has a clean slate. There are a lot of unpalatable secrets lurking in any country’s history and present. Even though it might be uncomfortable dragging them into the spotlight, acknowledging these less-than-savory facts is the first step to solving the issues in the first place.

    The redditors living in Europe opened up about the dark facts about their home countries in a brutally honest thread over on r/AskEurope. These facts might not be for everyone, so fair warning, some of the things you might read are darker than dark.

    If you’d like to share some lesser-known dark secrets about your home country, Pandas, you can do so in the comment section once you’re done reading this list.

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    #1

    England. I don’t know how unknown this is but Alan Turing who helped to break Nazis’ enigma code was arrested for being gay and was chemically castrated by the government he helped years ago. He was banned from GCHQ and the US which greatly effected his career. He killed himself in 1954.

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    #2

    In Italy a r*pist could marry his victim to avoid any legal persecution (this practice was called "matrimonio riparatore"). The women were pressed to accept the marriage to avoid social shame. Franca Viola, in 1948, was the first woman to refuse to marry her r*pist, but this practice was abolished by law only in 1981.

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    #3

    Sweden used to treat Sami natives in northen Sweden as second class citizens for the longest time and we barely learn about it in school. As late as the 70s Sami children were still forcefully taken from their Sami parents and adopted by Swedish parents to ”make them Swedish”

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    User u/AkruX explained that they were inspired to create the thread on r/AskEurope after learning that their home country, the Czech Republic (aka Czechia), was at one point ranked the third-worst slavery haven in the entirety of Europe. They were completely shocked by this.

    Very recently, Bored Panda spoke to Brooke Burris, who chairs the Tri-County Human Trafficking Task Force in the Charleston area in South Carolina. She went into detail with us about human trafficking. It’s a deep-seated problem that is global, not located in just any one or two countries.

    According to Brooke, people care about fighting against human trafficking more when they realize that it’s a local problem. 

    #4

    Norway. How terrible we have suppressed the Sami people and how we forcefully assimilated them in order to “fit in” with the “Norwegian culture”. And how the racism against them still exist very much to this day. They are still treated horrible by Norwegians and we are barely learned anything about their history in our schools.

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    #5

    Poland is ranked as the most homophobic country in the EU

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    #6

    NOBODY answered from the USA!? SO MANY...but I've always thought that how the land was taken from the original inhabitants one of the worst things this 'land of the free' has done. The massacres, the forced relocations, the infecting with smallpox, the loss of their identity as independent peoples...the list just goes on. Continued up until taking Hawaii away from the ruling monarchy in the 1800's.

    "The U.S. Dept. of State has recognized that trafficking is a global problem, solved on the local level through a multidisciplinary response. The more local one's focus on the nature and prevalence of the issue, the better and truer understanding one will have as to both (1) the scale of trafficking and (2) how they specifically can take ownership of the problem and become a part of the solution,” she explained.

    The expert noted that human trafficking is a far broader and more complex problem than it’s presented in movies. 

    "Kidnapping and using physical force/coercion is only one means by which a trafficker can control a victim," she said.

    #7

    Australia. Basically everything to do with the First Nations/Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Mostly the stolen generations but there was a whole lot more f*cked up s***.

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    #8

    Turkey. There is overwhelming violence against women in Turkey. And the first thing [anyone] asks: well, what was she wearing?, what is she doing there this late?

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    #9

    Spain is only second to Cambodia for missing persons cases that were never resolved. There is a government run online search tool for finding mass graves.

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    "In fact, according to a report of prosecuted [intimacy] trafficking cases in the U.S., 59% of coercive tactics used by traffickers were non-physical, compared to 41% of tactics involving physical coercion. Further, transportation is merely one type of action used by a trafficker,” Brooke told us.

    Though it’s unlikely that human trafficking will be fully rooted out globally or in any particular country, it is vital to limit its scope.

    “Until the Lord comes, I think evil will always exist in our world. Therefore, if I'm honest, I don't think we will be able to eradicate human trafficking entirely," Brooke said that it’s important to keep fighting injustice, but it’s equally vital to be realistic about the scope of the problem.

    #10

    France. Forced sterilization of intellectually disabled people was a very common thing until the early 2000s. There's now a law requiring consent since 2001, but I wouldn't be surprised to learn forced sterilization still happens.

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    #11

    Portugal has massive problem with domestic violence (including femicide and child abuse). Strict catholic patriarchy was THE rule until 1974, so it's still hanging around in older generations and trickling down on their descendants. And most offenders get off with a slap on the wrist because we still have courts full of old [butt] judges.

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    #12

    I think many people, that don't live in german-speaking countries, don't know that Austria was a fascist dictatorship for 4 years before the Anschluss

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    #13

    Netherlands. In 1620, the Dutch East India Company committed genocide on the people on the Indonesian Banda Islands, under the flag of the Dutch fleet. Murdered 95% of the population as punishment. Their crime? Selling nutmeg to the Portuguese and the English. I don't even like nutmeg that much. Their population still isn't at the level it was before the genocide.

    #14

    In Ireland we were under such control of the Catholic church until 2000s. Our constitution was drawn up with their approval and still says that women have a role in the home. Anyway the control of the church meant that the church got away with shielding and transferring p********e priests ( well known). The not so well known was the following three things outside Ireland are: Mother and baby homes - This was where unwed mothers were brought. They were a shamed, has their children taken away. The children either died or were adopted illegally to Irish and American families. They also burned their records and one in Tuam Co Galway dumped the bodies of many children who died in a septic tank (tank where sewage is stored from houses not connected to the main sewage system). Magdalene Laundries - this was where runways and some troubles were brought. They were slaves in a laundry and received nothing and were treated terribly and the religious orders made money off the backs of this slavery. The last one wasn't closed till the 90s which is messed up. Also corporal punishment in schools until the late 60s early 70s especially in industrial schools (some of which were for troubled boys and the abuse there was messed up. So yes we have a dark past. Now it makes sense why there are few young Catholics in Ireland. We don't mention it much but we know and it makes me ashamed and I'm 25.

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    #15

    Germany. Female genital mutilation in Germany. It makes me incredibly angry as it is an more or less unpunished crime for decades now and nothing is done really. Every few years, when sombody decides to report about it measures are announced, but nothing will be really done.

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    #16

    Russia. Most Russians actually support their government and especially Putin

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    #17

    Georgia. State of LGBT rights. They are non-existent, you can easily get killed by religious people and nobody will give a s***.

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    #18

    France. I'd say war against colonised Algeria. It is really a shameful thing involving war crimes, torture, ... A lot of veterans won't talk about it because of how ashamed they feel. Look it up.

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    #19

    Lithuania often ranks among the top countries by suicide rates. It's like ~1/4000 lithunians is gonna [end] themselves.

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    #20

    United Kingdom. King Edward VIII was a N**i sympathiser; he and his wife visited Germany in the 30s to have dinner with Hitler and inspect SS troops. In the 60s, he is believed to have said to a friend: "I never thought Hitler was such a bad chap."

    #21

    Romania. A few years back there was a scandal of a pediatric doctor that did extremely painful medical experiments on children he was supposed to be treating, such as putting a metal rod near their backs and putting screws into their spines to "fix" scoliosis or something similar with bones he considered weren't growing properly. He mostly targeted poor families, or families with kids with weird conditions because he figured they wouldn't be able to or have the power to question his practices. Also the fact that it's been revealed several orphanages drug the kids there and tie them to their beds to keep them compliant. I've also read a religious article of an "exorcism" that was performed on a little kid they called posessed because "he would suddenly go very still and start shaking violently" (to anyone with a brain it's obvious he was just seizing). Instead of following the procedure for a seizure, which is making sure he isn't in danger of hurting himself by bashing his head or something, they rushed him to a church and placed him on the floor there (and it wasn't a soft floor by any means). Or the fact that we've had gay people thrown in prison for being gay several years after communism fell (I think either late 90's or even early 00's). Or, not that sinister but just plain stupid and more recent: the church brought "moase" (aka remains of "saints") during the current pandemic and hundreds of people just lined up to kiss them, all on the same spot too :) (it's a /s smile, don't get me wrong).

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    #22

    Switzerland. "Verdingkinder" basically orphans used as slavelabor. They were often mistreated. There is a movie about it if anyone is intrested

    #23

    In Ireland homosexuality was only decriminalised in 1993, after a 16 year legal battle which ended up in the European Court of Human Rights in 1988 (it took 5 years to implement the courts ruling).

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    #24

    I guess colonization is a dark time for many countries, in Denmark is was no different, but often you talk about the islands is the Caribbean or Africa, but the treatment of Greenlandic people has been absolutely horrible in Denmark. They have been treated 2. rank citizens, and everything was dictated from Denmark and they had little to no say in it. Still I have heard that higher education in Greenland is taught in Danish not Greenlandic, but they might have changed that?

    #25

    Turkey. The years 1980-1983 were very dark years for Turkey - a paranoid nationalist military junta coupled with guerilla warfare in the countryside and massive political repression. Add torture in military prisons, kangaroo courts, and state-funded assassinations to that. Pardon my French, but the [jerk] who caused all that died before his jail sentence was approved.

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    #26

    Greece. We are the only country in EU where the Sharia law is still legal.

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    #27

    I don't know if it's not known but Italy passed racial laws during WWII. More recent: the "trattativa stato mafia" aka "state-mafia negotiations" in 1993 and 1994. Essentially it was a secret negotiation between very high government figures and Sicilian Mafia chiefs, at the end of the "massacre season" in which Mafia carried out literal terrorist attacks, since there was a very strong battle against them carried out by the Palermo group (pool di Palermo). The prosecutors Falcone and Borsellino died at the end of the massacre season, after they hit hard the Sicilians with the Maxiprocesso (aka Mega-Trial)

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  • Thursday 25 June 2026 - 10:28

    Traveling is one of the most exciting things we can do in this world. Why wouldn’t we want to see as much as we possibly can of this fascinating planet? But if you’re a fan of true crime documentaries, films like Taken or shows like The Serpent, you might be a bit fearful of traveling abroad. Going to another country can be the most exhilarating experience of your life that you talk about for years to come (despite your friends begging you to stop mentioning how you studied abroad during college), but it can also turn into a harrowing experience you wish to never repeat.

    Below, we’ve gathered a list of some of the creepiest and most frightening experiences traveling abroad that Reddit users have recently shared online. We don’t mean to scare you with these tales because, let's be honest, we don’t actually need to leave our home countries to encounter dangerous individuals. And the vast majority of the time, traveling creates wonderful memories. But these stories might just serve as a healthy reminder to be smart and cautious when traveling, and always be aware of your surroundings. Be sure to upvote the stories you’d like all of your fellow pandas to read, and then if you’re interested in checking out a Bored Panda article detailing more lighthearted travel stories next, you can find that right here.

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    #1

    Mine wasn't abroad. We were traveling from Kingman Arizona to Tucson Arizona. Car broke down and we were lucky enough to be able to get off the freeway and into a parking lot of a store in the middle of nowhere. The building was a run-down place with nowhere AZ painted on the side. It's the middle of the day at this point but in afraid. I tell my friend that this is like some house of 1000 corpses s**t. She's trying to get service on her phone and there's nothing. Then two creepy guys who look like they kidnap women and steal their skin come out from around the building. I swear I've never felt so cold. They came to the driver's side and asked what was up. We explain that the car had broken down and one guy asked to pop the hood. The other guy went into the building. He came back out with a toolbox and sealed snacks for us and the kids we had in the back seat. They fixed our car for free and sent us on our way. We couldn't thank them enough and we tipped them what we could. Several miles away the car takes a s**t again. We have service and are stuck on the side of the highway so we call my mom to come to get us. It's starting to get dark now and a big a*s truck pulls up behind us and two dudes get out. Same guys. They fixed it again and sent us on our way. We start driving and call mom to update her. We got home safely and never saw the guys again. That was seriously wild though and 2x I thought we were gonna die and 2x those guys taught me not to be a judgmental a*****e.

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    #2

    A friend of mine went on a trip to Thaïland, staying at a relatively inexpensive hostel. In the middle of the night, my friend was violently woken up by hotel staff and moved to a different floor. Turns out the hotel was gassing the rooms on that floor to deal with a bed bug issue. The hotel accidentally gave guests rooms on the floor they were gassing, and didn't notice until they killed a couple.

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    #3

    On a train in Athens traveling alone, a group of men tried to push me off the train with them at a stop. Three women started yelling at them and pulled me back. It happened to fast I didn't know until the one that spoke English explained they were trying to take me. They made sure I made it back to the hostel and told me not to wear what I was wearing ( shorts and a tank) while alone.

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    #4

    Top two. 1. Travelling across Cambodia. Get to Preah Vihear, which is disputed border territory with Thailand. See my driver talking to the armed guards and pointing towards the hill. Ask him what’s up. Gives me binoculars. Looking through those tiny glass windows, I see it’s the Thai army on the border not too far away aiming their guns at us. High tailed it out of there. That was scary in retrospect. 2. In New Zealand, of all scary places in the world (/s), trekking Fox Glacier with my boyfriend. Getting towards the end, but still at least a kilometre to go. All of a sudden there’s a loud CRACK. The stairs collapse beneath my boyfriend and plummets. I grab his hand and scream out to him to hold on but the glacier has made us wet, numb, slippery. His fingers slip through mine, and I watch him fall down the crevice, about 10metres, rolling, hitting clumps of ice, until his body stops just before a cliff, held up by a wedge of ice. My now-husband still gets shoulder and knee pain from the accident, but he is whole. I will never forget the sound I made screaming out his name down the crevice.

    #5

    In India our bus rounded a corner in the mountains and another bus was on the other side of the curve. Both busses skid to a stop about 1 foot from one another. Both drivers started laughing and poking fun at each other. We saw a bus from the '80s that fell down the mountain about 15 minutes later. Hella intense.

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    #6

    I was traveling by van through the mountains in the Philippines with a friend that is a really big guy. We came up on a checkpoint with soldiers searching cars. The guys we’re all wearing mismatched clothes and did not have any insignias on their uniforms or trucks. They searched all of our bags and we’re asking questions of the driver in Tagalog, which we did not speak. We heard them say American and we we’re the only two Americans on the bus. They talked for a little while and finally waved us through. Later we told the story to another American and he said we had gone through a Guerrilla controlled area where Americans had been kidnapped for ransom lately. They all agreed they did not take us because of the size of my friend. I think we got really lucky that day.

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    #7

    I had a pack of wild dogs chase me from my bus stop to my hotel at 3 am in Kosovo. I also had a old woman yell at me in Russian about not making my bed right on the train and then watched over my shoulder til it was to her satisfaction when I was on my way back to Bucharest from Moldova

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    #8

    It was my first time visiting New York City. My aunt and uncle who both work in FiDi (Financial District) took the whole week off to show me and my family around Manhattan. It was a beautiful Tuesday morning and we just had our photos taken around Wall Street when the first plane crashed into the WTC

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    #9

    A good friend of mine in Zimbabwe was grabbed at gunpoint and forced into a van, thankfully they only took her to an ATM and made her drain her account then they left her somewhere outside town. Could've been so much worse

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    #10

    My buddy and I were flying into Malaysia from Vietnam on the day that MH370 went missing. We were at the gate watching the whole thing unfold about it going missing. It was playing on virtually all the TV's in the airport. We were flying Malaysia Airlines. The tickets were expensive (for a backpacker's budget) and they weren't offering any refunds. Told ourselves that maybe they'd be extra cautious now so we're actually more safe. Definitely puckered up for 2 hours until we touched down.

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    #11

    I was in a bar in Athens in 1985 when someone left an explosive device there. Of the 50 plus people injured, I was luckily not one of them. My ears rang for a couple of days and I spilled my beer but that was it.

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    #12

    Was on a flight once going into Orlando that hit some unexpected turbulence. This was no ordinary turbulence. We went from 0 to 100 in an instant. People literally flew out of their seats, luggage fell from the overhead bins, people screamed like they were going to die. There were several sudden drops in elevation strong enough that people's arms flew up in the air and my b**t came out of the seat. I've flown quite a bit and sometimes it gets bumpy. This was the first time I seriously thought something bad was going to happen.

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    #13

    I was walking around in a town in Algeria. I wandered in to a neighborhood, and noticed there were hardly any people out. A little further, and there were literally no people out. I started to feel a little uneasy. And then I see an extremely tall man walking towards me, straight towards me, obviously with intent. He gets closer, and I see an older gentleman with a long grey beard and wearing a grey tunic. I stop. He comes right up to me and says, in pretty good English, “you’re not safe here, we need to get you off the street”. I say “OK”, and he says “follow me”. We walk a few blocks and we come to a door, he says “wait here a minute”, and he goes inside. He opens the door again and invites me in. When I get inside, there are maybe a dozen men. They are all dressed in black, and they are staring absolute daggers at me. Grey-beard lays in to them, starts shaking his fists at them, gets really worked up. Then one of the younger guys goes in to the kitchen and brings out some tea and cookies, and offfers them to me. So, I’m drinking tea, and trying to smile, and one of the young guys asks where I’m from and I say “The States” and he starts talking about the CIA and stuff... and then I say “you think the CIA is bad here? Let me tell you about Central America”, and then pretty soon everybody is warming up to me and we’re laughing and talking s**t about American foreign policy and drinking tea. After a bit of that the older man invites me back to his apartment. He has a huge library. I gift him a book that I had finished. And then he tells me what had just happened. His little brother, who was one of the younger men, was the leader of a radical group, all the other men I had met. He had overheard them getting ready to kidnap me. But he had shamed them for not being good hosts, and for disrespecting him because it was his house. He said that I would be safe from then on. TLDR: Gandalf saves my life and got a copy of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance for his trouble.

    #14

    Friend of a friend went to Jamaica with her parents and sister when she was about 12. They came back to their hotel room one day to find a guy in there trying to rob them. He stabbed the girl's dad (he lived) and escaped. They had to go through family therapy after that.

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    #15

    I was walking to a pharmacy down a busy avenue in Rabat, Morocco. It was the Feast of the King so most people had off work and school, meaning the avenue was empty. Myself and two volunteers (all three young, white females) are walking and chatting when two guys on a motorbike pass us the opposite way. They drove over the median and pulled up beside us. The guy on the back gets off and walks toward us then pulls a machete out from underneath his flannel. Girl 1 throws her purse, Girl 2 throws her phone, and both go running. Guy comes after me and I wrap my hand around my purse (had my passport, wallet, phone, etc.) and he holds the machete up to my neck. I say a few choice words to him in Arabic (essentially “Shame on you by Allah”, which is something I was taught by locals to keep the kids I was working with at an orphanage in line). Machete man promptly appears to s**t his pants. He goes after the dropped phone and purse and I start running the rest of the way to the pharmacy. I wind up there crying and the other two girls meet me. People are starting to congregate. Some witnessed it while driving by while others are trying to translate for us. A woman says she will drive us home after speaking with the security guard at the pharmacy. We agree and get into a minivan. I provide directions in Arabic and the woman drives right past the house, blowing stop signs and ignoring traffic lights. It’s then we realize we’re about to get kidnapped. One of the two girls reached forward, opened the door of the van, and we jumped out while it was moving. TLDR: Held up at machete-point then almost trafficked in Morocco during my first international travel experience.

    #16

    Guy in Aruba tried to kidnap/r*pe me, I think. I'm a single female and found a crazy cheap ticket out there. Decided to use it as a chance to get my advanced diver certificate. Anyway, I went on a horse riding trip where the tour picked up a group in a minivan. On the way back, the driver skipped my stop and dropped off the last riders at their hotel. After a moment of confusion (I was unsure of my surroundings, but felt like this was wrong), I asked why we drove past my place. The driver said "oh I'm taking a different way." And I said, "that really doesn't make sense. The traffic is fine. It's more direct this way. Can we just go back?" He was quiet and kept driving, and now my heart was pounding so hard I could hear it in my ears. He said, "there's a really great beach down this way; not many tourists." At this point he was driving through the backside of a shopping complex, nobody in sight, dusk, and I was considering if I should try to jump out of a moving vehicle... but because I'd get stranded in an empty parking lot, it'd be all too easy for him to grab me again. Instead I said "I can't. There are people waiting for me. I just texted them saying I'm in the car on the way home and will be there in a few minutes. I'll be late if we don't go back now." Somehow that worked, he turned the car around and his whole attitude changed. He started telling me how he had a wife and kids. My heart was thundering, but I think I sounded normal. (Also I had 0 cell phone reception. The story about the text was a lie, and I had no way to phone for help if he called my bluff.) F*****g scary. If that s**t happens on a tour when you go in a decent sized group, I have no idea how you stay safe as a single female traveler.

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    #17

    We went on a family trip to Croatia and on our way to the beach we pulled over to the side of a road for a pee break. So we opened the car door and like always our dog jumps out first. He ran into the field right next to the Street. Then suddenly my mother starts screaming the name of our dog because 10 meters away from our car was a sign that said: Stay Away, an old minefield. Thankfully nothing happened

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    #18

    Got pickpocketed by a group of 3 on a Paris metro. I'm paranoid of losing my wallet, so I'm always checking myself. When I realized it was missing, I made a bigger scene than the pickpockets were making (they shoved me into their friend and were trying to convince people I knocked him down). I stopped the train from leaving the station. One of the other passengers left to get got conductor and security. I guess that didn't sit well with the pickpockets, so they gave me back my wallet and took off running. Edit: This event still freaks my wife out.

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    #19

    1992 I was walking up the stairs to the ticket booths in the Warsaw, Poland central train station. All of a sudden this dude is falling down the stairs coming to rest a few stairs above where I was standing. Dude had a long screw driver sticking out of his abdomen.

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    #20

    I was working at the Sochi Olympics and saw a pack of stray dogs chase and take down one of our teams translators before people scared them away. That was an eye opener.

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    #21

    Husband had a month long job in Japan. We joined him for the last week of his gig. My daughter and I had made reservations about two months ahead of the trip to go to the Ghibli Museum in Mitaka (an hour by train outside of Tokyo). Since we didn't know husband's work schedule, only got tickets for her and I. Found out last minute that he had the day off so he came with us. They managed to find him a ticket and he joined us. We left earlier than planned because he had to get back for a 5:00 call. We would continue on up to Harajuku after his subway stop. Two stops before we would have parted ways, the train came to an immediate stop and frantic Japanese came over the speaker. Shortly after that, the car started rocking. And kept rocking. And kept rocking. For about ten minutes. Hubs said he realized it was bad when he saw people taking out their phones and start texting (something you never saw on the subway). After half an hour, the car slowly crawled to the next station. A friendly English speaking woman informed us that there had been a bad earthquake, and the trains were shutting down. We walked the two miles back to the hotel and met up with the rest of his crew. We had to stay in the lobby for eight hours while maintenance checked the building for damages before we could go up to our rooms. The aftershocks continued for the next five days before we flew back home. We were in the Tokyo subway for the Tohoku earthquake on March 11, 2011. I can honestly say, I didn't start getting nervous until they started talking about needing to take iodine table because of the power plant emissions. And it wasn't until we were back home and watching all the news specials about the quake and tsunami that I realized how truly dangerous the situation had been. Mid western ignorance on earthquakes saved our trip, I guess.

    #22

    The first time I ever visited the London Bridge was the day the terrorist attack happened where they drove a van through the crowd.

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    #23

    A friend and I were waiting for a night train in Naples and after someone tried to steal our bags decided to go everywhere together. It was a good thing because a man who had been whistling at us for an hour tried to follow us into the bathroom.

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    #24

    A cult behind several murders in China tried to recruit me for some reason.

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    #25

    I fell asleep on a long-distance bus in Greece and woke to a toothless old woman running her fingers through my hair. She kept repeating something in Greek over and over; other riders found it hilarious but wouldn't tell me what she was saying. Unfortunately I couldn't get off the bus, so I had to make her get away from me, and then sat there [angry] off and embarrassed for the remaining 90 minutes of the trip

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    #26

    A handful of men in Thailand were vehemently trying to haggle with my friends to purchase me. They kept pulling my arms to try and seperate us and asking "how much" and offering different amount of money. Edit: Jesus this blew up! Thailand is a very beautiful place and very safe for travel, guys! The place I was at, Pattaya Beach, is the central location where we are allowed to stay when the ship pulls into port. It's basically nothing but bars and brothels. Don't go there. I don't know why they even let *us* go there. Even if you did go, you'd most likely not be in any danger, the people are very helpful and kind but every place has bad people and we happened to run into them. I'm not even sure if these men were Thai. Don't let this freak you out from going. SEA does have a dark underbelly of human trafficking but it's pretty unlikely you will be involved in it as a tourist. And everyone who is freaking out about the Sailors "buying" underage girls; they're just stupid kids who want to get their d**k wet. They have literally no idea that these girls are underage and just think they're paying a prostitue. Most of these idiots can't even fathom that child trafficking is a thing. We make every effort possible to keep this from happening and inform our Sailors about what is really going on. Your average US servicemember is just as disgusted as you are that this happes to children.

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    #27

    I was traveling in Costa Rica with two flashy businessmen who were there to possibly purchase a gentleman’s club. We were staying at the Radisson and asked the concierge to get us a cab to the club. We got in the cab and made sure that the driver knew where we were going. We were told it was a 10 min drive. About 7 min in I realized that we were not in a touristy part of town. At all. The driver is whispering into his phone in Spanish, staring at us in the rear view mirror. I get uneasy and look at my companions, who are clearly feeling the same way. We ask “are we almost there?” Oh si! Uno momento. More whispering. Not good. We are being set up. It’s been 10 minutes and we are in a sketchy residential area. I’m sitting in the middle and my partner opens his briefcase and hands me a pen and tells me to stab someone if I need to. What?! He passes another pen to the other man. He’s sitting directly behind the driver and takes his own gold pen and holds it to the drivers jugular and screams “TAKE US BACK TO THE RADISSON RIGHT F*****G NOW”, the partner snatched the drivers phone and hangs up. I’m just clutching the pen. We did make it back to the Radisson. The jewelry was deposited into the safe in the room for the rest of the trip and we eventually made it safely to the club. I was young and naive, I had had my passport for 3 days at this point and didn’t really get that we shouldn’t have been traveling there with that amount of flashy jewelry.

    #28

    I was working in a poor community in a small village in Romania (helping to build a small extension to a school), at around dusk I decided to go for a short walk to the local shop for some water when a car drove past me. They suddenly broke and reversed down the road and stopped beside me, telling me to get into their car as they want to show me their cool things (radios, cars, knives) they kept slowly curb-crawling me and demanding I got in the car until I got back to my group whereby they sped off. For the next couple of days the same car (I believe) kept driving past and stopping outside where we were staying (for 30 minute intervals several times a day) and I was staying a good hour away from the village. Creepy as all h**l and I still believe it could have gone badly.

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    #29

    I was on a volunteer trip to Guatemala and we took a day trip to see some Mayan ruins on a small island. My friend and I were looking for a bathroom and several locals pointed us in the direction of one at the top of the mountain. We found a small building with no door and one toilet. My friend says I can go first and she’ll stand watch. I start going about my business when I hear my friend saying that I should hurry up and then I hear a mans voice shouting something in spanish about “permiso”. Out of no where he barges in while I’m mid pee pointing a very large gun at me. He had some sort of uniform on so he may have been police but I’m not sure. I pull up my pants, completely paranoid, grab my friend, tell the man Lo siento over and over and run as fast as I can down the hill. He was shouting after us but didn’t follow. Although nothing happened I was terrified and my poor friend still had to pee!!

    #30

    Gypsies in Romania tried to (what I can only assume) sell me a baby... The woman, who looked like she was using since the day she first saw light, kept a one sided haggling conversation in her own language all the while shoving the tiny child at me. The swarm of children aged between 2-12 kept touching me and what I can only imagine is "appraising" my clothes... This didn't really end until I had to raise my voice and go serious. I walked away and went back to the village where I was staying with a friend of mine at his distant relatives' house. After telling our hosts the bizarre tale attempted human trafficking, they proceeded to inform me that the child was most likely stolen from somewhere else in Romania, another town most likely. It was apparently a local racket, reselling newborn kids to international tourists. What really gets me is the way in which they were telling this story. As if it was business as usual. P.S. Hosts where very kind hospitable people. Lead tough lives though...

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