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  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 11:23

    After featuring the Travel, Wildlife and Animals, and Nature categories from the 2025 Chromatic Awards, we’re now turning to another powerful part of the competition: the People category. Dedicated to color photography, the Chromatic Awards brings together work by both professional and amateur photographers, celebrating images that use color in expressive, memorable, and visually striking ways.

    In the People category, that focus shifts toward human stories, emotions, traditions, work, relationships, and everyday life. The awarded photos featured in this selection capture people in a wide range of settings and circumstances. Some images feel intimate and personal, while others document cultural traditions, labor, community, movement, and hardship. Together, they show how much a single human-centered image can reveal when composition, color, timing, and emotion come together.

    Scroll down to see the photos, and don’t forget to upvote the images that stood out to you the most.

    More info: chromaticawards.com | Instagram | Facebook

    #1 “06:53 Morning Mundari” By Svetlin Yosifov

    2nd Place Winner in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: South Sudan Description: “In the Mundari cattle camps, kids are doing most of the daily work. Kids collect the fresh cow dung and put it into piles which are then set on fire. Those fire are useful as they repel the (extremely) numerous and voracious flies and mosquitoes of the South Sudanese countryside.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #2 Untitled By Luka Drezga

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Oprtalj, Istria, Croatia Description: “From the ashes rises a phoenix. A photo taken on fire festival in Oprtalj, Istria.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #3 “Tea Charm Time” By Guanhua Ren

    1st Place Winner in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “The morning mist has not yet dissipated, and the tea leaves stretch into jade ripples on the bamboo plaque. The old tea master's calloused palm gently strokes the tea cake, kneading the rhythm of time's sedimentation into every leaf vein. The young apprentice tiptoed to adjust the tea formation, his clothes stained with the fragrance of the mountains, and the light and shadow flowed between the tea ridges, frozen into a poetic line intertwined with inheritance and time.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #4 “The Universe In The Eyes” By Stefano Lotumolo

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “My first Holi fest had just ended and in her eyes, I saw other universes, a vastness of emotions that cannot be explained in words.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #5 “Skyladder” By Gurpreet Chawla

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Description: “Skyladder, a memorable sculpture from Burning Man 2025 by Franziska Agrawal & Transitionzone Collective. Much more precarious than it looks!”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #6 “Isobel” By Benny Kasper

    Honorable mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Description: “Let's see what the new Day brings if you feel lost today. Until the last rays of Sun disappear above the Clouds, it feels like Heaven. The image conveys a quiet message of hope and new beginnings. It speaks to those who feel lost, reminding them that each new day holds fresh possibilities.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #7 “Worker” By Guanhua Ren

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “From a high altitude, a group of workers riding electric bicycles converge like a flowing ant colony, creating a spectacular scene. The sunlight poured down from above, casting a golden glow over these hardworking builders. They are dressed in various work clothes and wearing safety helmets. Although their figures appear small in the camera, their strength cannot be ignored. Every electric bicycle carries their hopes and dreams, shuttling through every corner of the city, watering the prosperity of the city with sweat. This picture is the best interpretation of the workers' strength and resilience, as they use their own hands to write the glorious chapter of this era.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #8 “Vitor De Mayorga” By Samuel De Román

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: Mayorga, Spain Description: “Villagers hold torches made of wine skins during the El Vitor Civic procession in Mayorga, Spain. It is a festival where the people of the town wear old clothes and cover their heads to remember Saint Toribio, a missionary born there who became a saint in the 18th century”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #9 “Women's Choice” By Philipp Schmieja

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Chad Description: “It is more than just an annual date in the calendar. They sing, they compete with smiles and gaze. Their voices turn into a single one. It is a celebration of beauty and identity. Once a year in Chad, at the end of the rainy season, the nomadic Wodaabe tribe (Mbororo) gahter in a festival - the Gerewol. It is women's choice. Young girls of the tribe select the men. The men paint their faces with colors, often so that the whites of the eye and teeth are prominent. Their outfits are in a huge diversity of colors. From a western cultural perspective, the men's appearance with makeup and outfits can only be described as feminine. They dance like male birds in order to attract females. Their male beauty ideal highlights white eyes and teeth; the men will often roll their eyes and show their teeth to stress these characteristics.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #10 “Hammer Of Hope” By Sau Boon Lim

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Singapore Description: “Crowd gathered at a political party rally in Singapore.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #11 “Art With Cancer” By Melanie Timperman

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Description: “What would the person depicted have worn if they had cancer and chemo existed at that time? My niece and I started from that question when we took these photos. They also contribute to my niece's acceptance process.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #12 “A Lifelong Bond” By Thibault Gerbaldi

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Mongolia Description: “In Mongolia’s Altai Mountains, Kazakh eagle hunters form lifelong bonds with golden eagles weighing up to 7kg. Passed down through generations, this tradition survived Soviet-era repression and remains a powerful symbol of resilience, pride, and harmony between human and animal. Hunters ride with their eagles across vast, unforgiving terrain, showcasing their heritage each year at the Golden Eagle Festival in Ölgii—a vibrant tribute to identity and survival.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #13 “The Sulfur Miners Of Kawah Ijen Crater” By Athanasios Maloukos

    1st Place Winner in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Mount Ijen, East Java, Indonesia Description: “Mount Ijen in East Java, is an active volcano that contains the biggest acidic lake in the world and a sulfur mine. Sulfur mining here is one of the hardest jobs because of the thick, toxic volcanic gases coming out of the active vents inside the crater. Besides this, miners have to carry big baskets full of sulfur blocks all the way up the crater through a steep path and then walk for miles to unload them at the checkpoint. Usually, they are able to do this no more than 2-3 times a day for a paycheck of about 10 dollars. Although the scenery is breathtaking, being here is the only way to get an idea of what it is like to move around and breathe sulfuric volcanic gases.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #14 “Drenched In Reflection” By Bhaskar Sitholey

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: Mumbai, India Description: “In the heart of Mumbai, where the Arabian Sea meets the city, a young man sits amidst the monsoon storm. His umbrella, turned inside out, mirrors the chaos around him. This boundary wall is more than just a line between land and sea; it is a border between dreams and reality, between the haves and the have-nots. This is where the spirit of humanity is tested and forged. It is a place where dreams are both born and battered, reminding us that even in the face of life’s storms, our dreams are worth holding onto, for they are the essence of our hope and resilience.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #15 “Desert Devotion” By André Vroon

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: Namib Desert Description: “A young couple shares a special moment at Deadvlei in the Namib Desert. It's almost impossible to avoid people when photographing at Deadvlei these days as it has become such a popular spot for tourists visiting Namibia. I first saw the remarkable natural phenomena in 2002 and I had the place to myself then but this image was captured in 2025 as hundreds of people descended on the now famous salt pan. I was composing this shot of the dead tree skeletons with a telephoto lens but the young couple walked into the scene and embraced. They were dressed in white in what must have been a special occasion for them - perhaps an engagement celebration? I snapped off a couple of frames regardless and was pleasantly surprised on reviewing the photos on how much they added to the mood and feel of my intended image. Not only did they provide a sense of scale, but they added emotion and intrigue. The brightly clad, embracing couple contrasted with the dark and ominous shapes of the twin trees. The living vs the dead. The red hue of the dunes (slightly enhanced) convey a feeling of love and connection between the pictured man and woman and their presumed love for the natural world in which they are celebrating.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #16 “The Path” By Athanasios Maloukos

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Description: “Tien meditating after following the path to inner introspection.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #17 “Street Children” By Michael Wasserman

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Jodhpur, India

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #18 “My Thoughts, Words, And Deeds” By Pekka Ala-Pietilä

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #19 “My Cup Of Tea” By Pekka Ala-Pietilä

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #20 “Family Portrait” By Davide Massignani

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Lake Titicaca, Bolivia Description: “An elderly Bolivian woman, dressed in colorful traditional clothing and wearing a bowler hat, stands beside her white llama in a small village on the shores of Lake Titicaca.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #21 “Boli Khela - Traditional Wrestling Game” By Mohammad Shahriar Foisal

    3rd Place Winner in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Bangladesh Description: “Jobbarer Boli Khela is a traditional and very old wrestling game in Bangladesh. It’s a lively and exciting event that brings energy to both the wrestlers and the audience. People from all over the country—and even from abroad—come to watch it. The game includes strong throws and intense grappling that create a thrilling atmosphere. As the wrestlers use force and smart moves in the ring, the crowd gets more and more excited, cheering loudly with every action.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #22 “The Grace In The Chaos” By Stefano Lotumolo

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: India Description: “During the 2025 Maha Kumbh Mela, the largest spiritual gathering ever recorded by mankind, in India, on the banks of sacred rivers I captured this shot, where two eyes, before dawn, emerge from an incredible chaos of people.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #23 “Pride Domination” By Alvaro Diaz

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: San Diego, California, USA Description: “Captured during the San Diego Pride Parade, Pride Domination portrays a group of participants wearing pup masks and harnesses beneath the bright California sky. The image freezes a moment of intensity and play, where desire and defiance coexist. Through their vibrant masks and confident stances, these figures transform the public space into a stage of empowerment and self-determination. The photograph explores how visibility can become a political act — one that celebrates difference while confronting the boundaries of normativity. The dog masks, a symbol often misunderstood or fetishized, here become expressions of identity, vulnerability, and belonging. Under the umbrella’s blue reflection, they appear simultaneously shielded and exposed, echoing the tension between protection and openness that defines much of queer existence. Color plays a crucial role in the narrative. The dominant blues evoke both serenity and resistance, while the reds inject a pulse of vitality and provocation. The photograph’s composition — balanced between symmetry and spontaneity — invites the viewer to engage with these bodies not as spectacle, but as subjects reclaiming their right to visibility and expression. Pride Domination belongs to an ongoing photographic series documenting the performative dimensions of Pride parades in California and Mexico. The project seeks to reveal how gestures, costumes, and public presence create a collective choreography of identity — one that extends beyond celebration to assert dignity, intimacy, and resilience. Ultimately, this image is a tribute to those who inhabit their truth without compromise, transforming the street into a living archive of freedom, desire, and color.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #24 “Keeper Of Memories” By Reinhold Bader

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “The Spanish lady is the keeper of a lifetime, surrounded by memories of love, loss, and joy. The flowers hint at small pleasures, the cigarette a quiet defiance. In the portrait from decades past, her youthful beauty lingers, a reminder of who she was and who she has become. Her room is more than a space—it is a testament to a life fully lived.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #25 “Hutsuls - The Soul Of The Carpathians” By Michael Dorohovich

    3rd Place Winner in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “Hutsuls, personifying the strength, pride and originality of their people. Their images are living evidence of a deep connection with the roots, traditions and nature of the Carpathians, which has withstood the storms of history. In every look - the wisdom of generations, respect for culture and ancestors. These people are a symbol of the continuity of the Hutsul spirit, which is passed down through generations.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #26 “Second Nature” By Pekka Ala-Pietilä

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #27 “Red Point” By Tomasz Rykała

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Description: Photo taken during a competition for young rescuers on the Baltic Sea.

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #28 “Loneliness” By Jacek Chachurski

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #29 “Friendly Game Of Dominos In Havana Centro” By Barry Crosthwaite

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Havana, Cuba Description: “In 2013, UNESCO recognized the cultural significance of Cuban dominoes by inscribing it on the Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity. This acknowledgment highlighted the game's role in fostering social bonds, preserving traditions, and promoting a sense of identity and continuity among the Cuban people. Today, dominoes remain an integral part of Cuban life, with the distinct sound of shuffling tiles and lively banter echoing through the streets. It serves as a reminder of the resilience, camaraderie, and cultural pride that define the Cuban spirit.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #30 “Cuban Shadows” By Demetrio Jereissati

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Amateur Division Location: Havana, Cuba Description: “In Havana, people are always out and about, especially in the late afternoon when the sunlight fills the streets with vibrant colors and intense light.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #31 “Soil Is Our Mother 13” By Dimitris Sideridis

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Location: Maharashtra, India Description: “Pravin Mali (12) while sleeping on the floor and around Gangavesh Talim's pit. Maharashtra, India.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #32 “Portraits Of Man In Nightclub Corridor In Madrid” By Edward Olive

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #33 “Backstage” By Samuel De Román

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “Model image taken backstage before the Adlib Ibiza fashion show at the 2025 edition of Madrid es Moda.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #34 “Backstage” By Samuel De Román

    Honorable Mention in the People Category, Professional Division Description: Model image taken during the backstage before the Adlib Ibiza fashion show at the 2025 edition of Madrid es Moda.

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

    #35 “Looking Out” By Orna Naor

    2nd Place Winner in the People Category, Professional Division Description: “Children from Bnei Brak, and ultra orthodox city in Israel, looking out from the window of their school.”

    © Photo: Chromatic Awards

  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 11:07

    The fallout from a fatal rope jumping tragedy is getting bigger, as more suspects were arrested in the case of Maria Eduarda Rodrigues de Freitas’s passing.

    The 21-year-old Rio de Janeiro woman trusted a set of rope jumping instructors with her life. But seconds later, she was gone.

    A criminal case was launched after the jump went catastrophically wrong.

    The fallout from Maria Eduarda Rodrigues de Freitas’ fatal rope jumping tragedy is getting bigger

    Authorities arrest three more over rope jumping tragedy claims, suspects in custody with police officers.

    Image credits: BlogdeDaltro

    Three more people were arrested in the case of Maria Eduarda Rodrigues de Freitas, who lost her life after being tossed off the “Skeleton Bridge” at Ponte do Esqueleto in Brazil’s São Paulo state on June 13.

    A 29-year-old Rio de Janeiro woman named Evelyne dos Santos Gonçalves, a 25-year-old man from Limeira, and a 27-year-old man from Indaiatuba were the latest additions to the growing list of suspects.

    The location of their arrest was unclear.

    Young woman involved in the rope jumping tragedy, looking directly at the camera with long dark hair.

    Image credits: dudz.rodrigueess

    Tweet displaying a comment about the rope jumping tragedy, stating 'a mistake THAT bad is horrible and unacceptable.'

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    On the day of Maria’s fatal fall, the three additional suspects were allegedly at the base of the rope jumping site, waiting for her so they could remove the safety gear.

    But when the jump went catastrophically wrong, they fled to a nearby wooded area and allegedly tried to conceal evidence.

    “They didn’t have a typical or active role in the jump. They only participated at the moment the jump ended,” lawyer Vitor Aurélio, representing one of the suspects, told G1.

    “One would pull the rope back up, and the other would just take the rope off the jumper.”

    Three new people, who were allegedly at the base of the site, were arrested over the weekend 

    Aerial view of a bridge where the rope jumping tragedy occurred, surrounded by green landscape.

    Image credits: g1globo

    The latest arrests took the suspect count to six so far.

    Luis Felipe Feliciano Egoroff, 32, Vitor de Freitas Goncalves, 27, and Maicon Fernandes Cintra, 42, were arrested the day after Maria’s passing and were charged with homicide with eventual intent.

    The three had attempted to flee after Maria plummeted to her tragic end, but a military helicopter tracked them down.

    Three men arrested for their involvement in the rope jumping tragedy, looking somber in separate close-up shots.

    Image credits: NSCTotalVideos

    A social media post discussing the ongoing rope jumping tragedy, focusing on claims about responsibility and neglect.

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    The homes of all six suspects are expected to be searched as part of the investigation.

    It is believed Maria’s final moments were recorded on a GoPro she was wearing when three instructors tossed her off the bridge without ensuring she was attached to safety ropes.

    Investigators believe someone took the camera off her after she plunged 130 feet.

    One video that circulated online captured Maria with three instructors on top of the bridge, moments before the fall.

    Authorities arresting three individuals in connection with the rope jumping tragedy, highlighting the developing claims.

    Image credits: BlogdeDaltro

    A viral video on social media reportedly captured the final moments before the tragedy, where three employees were seen carrying Maria toward the jumping structure.

    The instructors hoisted her above their shoulders as she spread her arms out in a “Superman” pose. Unfortunately, nobody allegedly remembered to attach her to the safety ropes.

    Moments later, they launched her from the platform without realizing the mistake.

    “The rope!” one was heard shouting.

    Another panic-stricken voice said, “Guys, the rope!”

    The three instructors who tossed Maria off the bridge claimed they “blacked out” and couldn’t remember who was responsible for attaching her to safety ropes 

    A social media post on the rope jumping tragedy, questioning intentions regarding the disturbing claims.

    Image credits: XRvibe

    Cops accused the three additional suspects, who were arrested over the weekend, of deleting digital content of what happened during Maria’s doomed rope jumping experience.

    “During the investigation, elements were gathered that indicate possible suppression of evidence relevant to the investigation, especially related to the disappearance of the image capture equipment used by the victim during the jump,” Civil Police Delegate Andréa Levy was quoted telling news outlets.

    A witness named Rafael Goulart also claimed to have seen someone take the camera.

    “I saw the girl on the ground, [I saw] one of the employees removing the GoPro camera from the neck strap of the body that was already on the ground, either worried about the equipment or wanting to hide evidence,” the witness reportedly said.

    Maria had a special request for her instructors and asked them to launch her from the bridge in airplane style

    A social media post alleging criminal negligence and safety protocol failures in the rope jumping tragedy.

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    A social media post expressing outrage over the horrific rope jumping tragedy and demanding accountability.

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    On the morning of her planned jump, Maria wrote a message on social media that will forever haunt her jumping instructors for the rest of their lives.

    “Who was the crazy person who let me jump off a bridge?” she wrote.

    She was laid to rest on June 14.

    The three instructors on top of the bridge claimed after their arrest that they couldn’t remember who was supposed to attach the ropes.

    “They do not remember whether they forgot to attach (the ropes), or who was supposed to do it, or who failed to check. But the fact is the ropes were not attached to her,” Police investigator Andrea Dantas Levy told AP News.

    Warning sign reads DANGER and D***H RISK at Ponte do Esqueleto, related to rope jumping tragedy.

    Image credits: dudz.rodrigues

    Suspects Luis, Vitor, and Maicon claimed they “blacked out” and couldn’t remember who was responsible for ensuring Maria was securely attached to the safety ropes.

    “Either it’s me or [Maicon] who does it. So I went ahead first, and after that it’s all erased from my mind,” Luis told EPTV. “…I don’t remember.”

    Luis and a few other instructors reportedly made a disturbing video four years ago, where they tossed a black bag made to look like a corpse off the “Skeleton Bridge.”

    “Hiding the body,” read the title of the September 2022 video.

    The bridge had been abandoned for years, but tourists in the municipality of Limeira would often visit the site for extreme sports.

    Following Maria’s passing, authorities said the bridge will be demolished to prevent similar tragedies from taking place.

    “All of a sudden no one remembers anything or how they forgot to put it on,” one commented online

    Screenshot of a tweet by Alien Supara discussing trust and failure in relation to the rope jumping tragedy.

    Image credits: AlienSupara

    Screenshot of a tweet by Thabzo about not trusting the rope and avoiding bungee, related to the rope jumping tragedy.

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    Screenshot of a tweet by Joelyn Jane stating rope jumping is a big risk, concerning the rope jumping tragedy.

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    Screenshot of a tweet by Lizabelle implying a cover-up regarding the rope jumping tragedy.

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    A social media post from 'Your_Favorite_Mexican' about a rope jumping tragedy, discussing honesty and responsibility.

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    A social media post from 'Rachel' about a rope jumping tragedy, questioning the risks people take with their lives.

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    A social media post from 'NOISE FREQUENCY' about a rope jumping tragedy, suggesting a fabricated story.

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    A social media post from 'Sofia' about a rope jumping tragedy, asking about certification for forgetting the rope.

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    A social media post from 'Jazmine' about a rope jumping tragedy, describing it as criminal negligence.

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    Screenshot of a tweet from ChiChi, @soshishichic, replying to @PopCrave, discussing the Rope Jumping Tragedy and claims.

    Image credits: soshishichic

  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 10:40

    Dogs have spent decades earning a reputation as humanity's best friend. Cats, meanwhile, have been stuck defending themselves against accusations of being cold, antisocial, untrainable, and impossible to understand. Yet many of the beliefs people hold about cats turn out to be little more than myths that have survived through repetition rather than evidence.

    Part of the confusion comes from the fact that cats play by a different set of social rules. Their body language is more subtle, their motivations aren't always obvious, and behaviors that humans often interpret as rude, spiteful, or aloof usually have a far more logical explanation. As researchers have learned more about feline behavior in recent decades, many long-standing assumptions have been overturned, revealing animals that are far more social, adaptable, and emotionally complex than their reputation would suggest.

    Curious which cat "facts" are actually fiction, Bored Panda asked animal behavior expert Zazie Todd to weigh in. From purring and scratching to training, companionship, and life indoors, she breaks down some of the most persistent myths people still believe, and explains what the science really says about our feline companions.

    More info: companionanimalpsychology.com | Facebook | Instagram

    #1 Purring Always Means A Cat Is Happy

    We don’t fully understand why cats purr. Although purring is most commonly associated with contentment, research suggests it serves several functions and is not exclusively a sign of happiness. Cats often purr while being petted or resting comfortably, but they may also purr when they are frightened, stressed, injured, giving birth, or recovering from illness. Scientists believe purring can act as a self-soothing mechanism, helping cats regulate their emotions in challenging situations. Some researchers have also proposed that the low-frequency vibrations produced during purring may promote healing of bones and soft tissues, although this theory is still being studied. In other words, a purring cat is often a happy cat, but not always.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #2 Cats Don't Need Mental Stimulation

    Cats need things to do. In the wild, cats would spend a significant portion of their day hunting, often catching multiple small prey items rather than eating one large meal. This means that pet cats also benefit from opportunities to engage in activities that satisfy their natural instincts. Interactive play with a wand toy is one of the best ways to provide physical exercise and mental stimulation, but cats should also have toys they can enjoy on their own, as well as scent enrichment such as catnip or silvervine. Positive reinforcement training can be another excellent form of enrichment. Not only can cats learn useful behaviors and tricks, but training sessions also provide valuable mental exercise. Food puzzle toys are particularly beneficial because they encourage cats to work for their food in a way that mimics natural foraging and hunting behaviors. When introducing a new food puzzle, start with an easy version and fill it with especially tasty treats to help your cat understand how it works. As they gain confidence, you can gradually increase the difficulty level to keep them challenged and engaged.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #3 Showing Their Belly Means They Want A Belly Rub

    Many people are surprised when a cat rolls over and shows its belly, assuming it’s an invitation for a tummy rub. In reality, that’s often not the case. Cats typically expose their belly only when they feel safe and relaxed, as it is one of the most vulnerable parts of their body. For many cats, showing their belly is a sign of trust rather than a request to be touched. In fact, most cats dislike having their belly rubbed and may react by grabbing, kicking, or swatting if someone reaches in to pet it. It's usually best to appreciate the gesture and let the cat decide how it wants to interact.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #4 Cats Can't Be Trained

    Cats are actually very trainable. If more people realized this, life would be better for both cats and their guardians. The best way to train a cat is through positive reinforcement, using small pieces of their favourite food as rewards. Some cats may prefer being petted, brushed, or playing with a toy instead. It all depends on the individual cat, so the key is finding what motivates yours. One of the most useful things you can teach a cat is to come when called. It’s also a great idea to help them develop positive associations with their carrier (I include a step-by-step plan for this in my book Purr). Even cats that are frightened by the sight of a carrier can learn to feel comfortable with it, but the process needs to be gradual and move at the cat’s pace. A carrier with a removable lid works best. You can start by encouraging your cat to explore just the base of the carrier, rewarding them with especially tasty treats. Once they are comfortable, add the lid and slowly increase the amount of time they spend inside. Leaving the carrier out in a room all the time can also help, as it allows your cat to use it as a familiar place to rest and relax rather than associating it only with trips to the veterinarian. Cats can also learn a variety of tricks, which can be both enriching for them and a lot of fun for their people. Training provides mental stimulation, builds confidence, and strengthens the bond between cats and their guardians.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #5 Cats Don't Experience Loneliness

    Cats are generally okay being left home alone for longer periods than dogs, but they still enjoy spending time with their people. However, while some cats like having a feline companion, others prefer to be the only cat in the household. Because of this, if you plan to have more than one cat, it's usually best to adopt a pair of kittens together or a bonded pair of adult cats.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #6 Cats Hate People

    Not at all. In fact, many of the behaviors that people interpret as a cat being unfriendly are actually signs that the cat is feeling frightened, stressed, or uncomfortable. Unfortunately, feline body language is often misunderstood, and it can be difficult for people to see a situation from their cat’s perspective. Cats place a high value on feeling safe. Although they are skilled predators, they are also prey animals, which means they are naturally alert to potential threats. They prefer having choices and a sense of control over their environment, but people don’t always recognize or respect those needs. As a result, misunderstandings can arise between cats and their humans. When a cat’s behavior seems unfriendly, it’s worth considering what the situation might look like from the cat’s point of view. Often, their actions make much more sense when viewed through that lens. The more we learn about feline behavior and communication, the easier it becomes to build a positive, trusting relationship with our cats.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #7 Indoor Cats Are Bored And Need Outdoor Access

    Cats do not need outdoor access to live happy and healthy lives. In fact, keeping cats indoors is generally safer, as it protects them from risks such as traffic, predators, disease, and other hazards. However, an indoor-only lifestyle requires more than simply keeping a cat inside. Guardians need to provide an environment that meets their cat’s physical and behavioral needs, including opportunities to play, explore, climb, scratch, hide, and engage in natural hunting behaviors. Without enough enrichment, cats can become bored, frustrated, or stressed. One helpful framework is the "Five Pillars of a Healthy Feline Environment," a set of evidence-based guidelines designed to help create a home that supports a cat’s wellbeing and allows them to thrive indoors.

    © Photo: Zazie Todd

    #8 Cats Scratch Furniture To Be Destructive

    Cats need to scratch to help maintain their claws and keep them in good condition. Scratching also serves important communication functions. It leaves behind both visual marks and scent signals from glands located in the paw pads, allowing cats to mark areas that are important to them. Because scratching is a natural and essential behavior, cats need appropriate places to do it. Ideally, they should have access to a tall, sturdy scratching post that allows them to stretch their body fully while scratching. Unfortunately, many scratching posts sold for cats are too short or unstable. It's also important to remember that cats have individual preferences, some prefer vertical scratching surfaces, while others prefer horizontal or angled ones. Understanding your cat's preferences and providing suitable options is key to ensuring they can express this natural behavior in a healthy way.

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    #9 Cats Are Completely Independent And Don't Need Attention

    Some cats can manage on their own, while others cannot. Some community cats live quite happily without assistance from people, catching mice for their meals, finding their own shelter, and so on. Other community cats have people who feed them and take them to the veterinarian from time to time. However, most pet cats need plenty of attention from their guardians. This is especially true for indoor-only cats, as they can easily become bored. They rely on us to provide enrichment, such as food puzzle toys, games with a wand toy, interesting views from a window, and scent enrichment like catnip or silvervine. Some pedigree cats, particularly long-haired breeds, need to be brushed every day because they are unable to maintain their coats on their own. Others, such as Persian cats, may also need their faces wiped daily to keep them clean. Senior cats, especially those that live indoors, may need help with claw trimming as they become less active. Regular veterinary checkups are also important for maintaining your cat’s health: annually when they are young, every six months between the ages of 10 and 15, and every four months after the age of 15 (or more frequently if your veterinarian recommends it).

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    #10 Cats Are Solitary Animals That Prefer Being Alone

    It very much depends on the individual cat. Pet cats are socialized with people, so they often form strong bonds with their humans and enjoy spending time with them. Some cats also like having another cat as a companion, while others would rather not share their home with another feline. This depends on their personality as well as their early experiences as kittens. Community cats, on the other hand, often live in colonies, which can range from small groups to quite large populations. Cats within these colonies spend time together, and female cats may even help one another care for their kittens. So while cats are sometimes described as solitary animals, the reality is much more nuanced—it really depends on the cat and the circumstances.

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    #11 Cats Don't Recognize Their Names

    Most cats (though not all) recognize their own name, and many can also distinguish the names of other cats they live with. Research has even shown that some cats recognize the names of the people in their household. Of course, individual cats vary, and not every cat pays attention in the same way. Still, these findings suggest that cats may be listening more closely than we often give them credit for. So it’s worth talking to your cat, they might understand more than you think.

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    #12 Cats Are Aloof And Don't Form Strong Bonds With People

    Cats can form strong bonds with people, and you can often see this in the way they choose to spend time with us. Some cats follow their guardians from room to room, choose to sit on or near them on the sofa, or sleep on the bed for at least part of the night. Every cat is an individual, and some prefer being close rather than actually touching you, but that’s still a choice to be with you. Once a bond has formed, your presence can even help your cat feel less stressed in situations such as a visit to the veterinarian. All of this speaks to the importance of the feline-human bond. Of course, not all cats feel the same way about people. Kittens go through what’s known as a sensitive socialization period between about 2 and 7–8 weeks of age. If they meet a variety of people during this time, they are more likely to grow up friendly and comfortable around humans. Ideally, they should have positive interactions with at least five different people. The key is that these experiences are positive. Kittens that are not socialized with people during this period may grow up fearful or wary of humans.

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    #13 Cats Are Nocturnal

    Cats are naturally crepuscular, meaning they tend to be most active at dawn and dusk. This likely reflects the activity patterns of many of their natural prey species, making these times ideal for hunting. However, domestic cats are also remarkably adaptable. Research suggests that pet cats can adjust their daily routines to fit those of their human companions. In fact, one small study found that pet cats are often most active when their people are at home and interacting with them, showing that social factors can influence a cat's activity patterns just as much as their natural instincts.

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    #14 Cats Are Spiteful When They Misbehave

    This is a myth. Cats do not act out of spite or revenge. When we understand more about feline behavior, it becomes easier to see that there is usually an underlying reason for what appears to be "bad" behavior. For example, if your cat starts urinating outside the litter box, the first step should be a visit to the veterinarian to rule out any medical issues. Similarly, if your cat bites or swats when you try to pet them, it may be a sign that they are uncomfortable, overstimulated, or simply do not want to be touched at that moment. Giving cats a choice about whether to interact and keeping petting sessions short can help prevent these situations. Rather than assuming a cat is being difficult on purpose, it is more helpful to ask what they might be trying to communicate. In most cases, what looks like misbehavior is actually a response to stress, fear, discomfort, illness, or an unmet need.

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    #15 Cats Always Land On Their Feet

    Not always. Whether a cat lands on its feet depends in part on the height of the fall. Cats have an innate righting reflex that allows them to twist their bodies in midair and orient themselves feet-first as they fall. However, they need enough time and distance to complete this maneuver, and even when they do land on their feet, they can still be injured.

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    #16 A Wagging Tail Means A Happy Cat

    When a cat’s tail is swishing, it is often a sign of arousal or heightened emotion. The exact meaning depends on the situation, but if you are petting a cat and their tail begins to swish or flick, it is usually a good indication that they are becoming overstimulated and would like the interaction to stop. Paying attention to these early body language signals can help prevent your cat from becoming uncomfortable and may reduce the likelihood of a bite or swat.

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    #17 Cats And Dogs Are Natural Enemies

    It really depends on the individual cat and dog. Some dogs have a strong prey drive and may chase, injure, or even kill cats, while others are calm and friendly around them. Early experiences also play an important role. Kittens that have positive interactions with dogs during their socialization period are more likely to grow up comfortable around them. When introducing a cat and a dog, patience is essential. The process should be gradual, carefully managed, and always supervised. Giving both animals time to adjust at their own pace tends to lead to much better outcomes than simply putting them together and hoping they will work it out themselves. It's also important to make sure the cat has safe spaces they can retreat to if they feel overwhelmed. If you're planning to have both a cat and a dog, it is often easier if the cat is established in the home first. This allows the cat to feel secure in its territory before the dog is introduced, which can help reduce stress and make the transition smoother for both animals.

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  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 10:17

    It’s often said that people and their pets start to resemble each other over time, and artist Connie Kang became fascinated by this idea. Inspired by a memory game called “Do You Look Like Your Dog?” and “Do You Look Like Your Cat?” by photographer Gerrard Gethings, she began exploring this concept in her own unique way. 

    In this selection of illustrations, you’ll find some of Connie’s most recent animal-inspired illustrations, where she transforms animals into human characters, reflecting their personalities, quirks, and energy through expressive artwork. This time, the series also expands beyond animals, including creative portraits inspired by real-world places and locations captured in photographs, reimagined in her unique artistic style.

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  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 08:00

    Summer is already happening, and Prime Day just made it significantly more affordable to do it properly. Whether the plan involves a backyard that finally lives up to its potential, a camping trip that has been on the calendar since January, or simply surviving the heat with more grace than last year, this list has the outdoor essentials worth grabbing while the deals are live.

    July 23rd through 26th is the window, and the savings across outdoor, garden, and backyard categories this year are genuinely worth showing up for. From sunup to sundown, and everything that happens around a fire pit after that, consider this the summer upgrade list that Prime Day just made a whole lot easier to justify.

    #1 Comfort Finally Got A Glow Up And Crocs Women's Low Wedges Are The Proof That Nobody Has To Choose Between Looking Good And Actually Enjoying The Walk Anymore

    Review: "Wow! I love heels but have lately been having foot pain due to a Morton’s Neuroma. I’ve been living in crocs and I got these hoping they would be just as comfortable as regular crocs and they are!!!!! Now I have something cute to wear on Sundays when my foot is acting up… well I will wear them all the time anyway! They are just as squishy as regular crocs! Now I’m going to save up and get an all black pair. I’m normally a 6.5 and a 7 in crocs and I got these in a size 7 and they fit perfect. I have very small ankles and they adjust and fit perfectly." - LadyFitzgerald

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #2 Nobody Misses The Part Where Everyone Spends The Whole Evening Smelling Like A Campfire, And A 20 Inch Smokeless Patio Fire Pit Makes Sure That Part Of Outdoor Entertaining Is Officially Retired

    Review: "I ordered the smokeless 20” pit and the heat shield. We had our first burn in it and once the fire is going it really is smokeless. Needless to say it was a hit. The heat deflector is a must have and pushes the heat out very well. It’s very therapeutic to watch the smoke burn off. It’s also cost a fraction as the name brand pits but does the same thing. Only con is the wood you put in it will need to be cut into smaller chunk size piece. For full length wood(18”) id look into a bigger unit. But I had some pine I cut down into 12” chunks and it burned very clean. Also very light weight, portable and easy to remove the ashes." - Justin

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #3 Cold Drinks That Actually Stay Cold Stop Being A Problem The Moment A Smart Countertop Ice Maker Joins The Outdoor Setup And Starts Producing Ice Faster Than Anyone Can Use It

    Review: "Arrived with no issues. Connected to wifi with no issues. It's just another great product from Govee for my smart home. I made a couple of batches of ice and tossed them to clean it out. It shuts off fine when ice tray is full or out of water." - Blue River Lore

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #4 Carrying Cold Drinks, Snacks, And Enough Lunch To Last An Entire Day Out Without A Single Compromised Temperature Reading Is What The Stanley All Day Backpack Soft Cooler Was Built To Do And It Does It Without Breaking A Sweat

    Review: "Great price point for this Stanley bag. Get the Midi. It’s slightly bigger. Holds ice well and isn’t too bulky. Matches the seafoam color perfectly." - Stephanie

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    Summer entertaining has a way of exposing every gap in the outdoor setup all at once. The cooler that doesn't hold temperature, the chairs that were never quite right, the lighting situation that sends everyone inside before the night is over.

    Prime Day is the one moment in the year where fixing all of it at the same time actually makes financial sense, and the deals on this list are broad enough to cover whatever the backyard has been missing since last season.

    #5 Reapplying Sunscreen Without Interrupting Whatever Good Thing Is Currently Happening Is Exactly The Kind Of Effortless Coverage A Neutrogena SPF 50 Sunscreen Spray Makes Possible Without Asking Anyone To Stand Still

    Review: "It Smells very good. I buy it every summer. I highly recommend it." - Edwin

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #6 Backyard Vibes After Dark Get A Serious Upgrade When A Row Of Solar Tiki Torches Handles All The Ambiance Without A Single Extension Cord Or Lighter In Sight

    Review: "I just love sitting outside with my Tiki style torches on. The flicker feels so real and they bring such a wonderful and fun ambiance to my yard. The light temperature is just right." - Wendy Williams

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #7 Turning The Back Of The Car Into A Fully Covered Campsite Without Setting Up A Single Pole Separately Is Exactly What A Tailgate Suv Tent Brings To Any Overnight Adventure That Starts And Ends With The Trunk

    Review: "I purchased this tent 5 years ago and can’t believe how well it’s held up!!! It’s been caught in storms, tossed around vehicles and stored in my garage. It only takes a couple minutes to set up or breakdown. Probably the best thing I have purchased on Amazon." - Jun J

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #8 Drifting Downstream With Cold Drinks Within Arm's Reach And Zero Effort Required Is The Entire Promise Of An Inflatable River Tube Float With Built-In Cooler And It Delivers On Every Single Word

    Review: "Was tough enough to handle the vegetation on the banks of the river. Sturdy and comfortable. Really liked the cooler, although I used it more as a storage space. Very pleased with it!" - Katy Richards

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    Beyond the backyard, the best outdoor summers are the ones where the gear actually keeps up with the plans. A spontaneous beach day, a last-minute camping trip, an afternoon at the park that turns into an evening nobody wanted to end, none of that happens quite as well without the right equipment backing it up.

    Everything still to come on this list was chosen because it travels well, performs better than expected, and makes whatever you had planned feel as if you prepared for it weeks in advance, even if you ordered it yesterday.

    #9 Striped, Fringed, And Giving Full Bohemian Beach Club Energy Without The Membership Fee, A Beach Cabana Is The Setup That Makes Everyone Else On The Sand Immediately Wish They Had Planned Better

    Review: "Best cabana at the beach! This is a must super cute and high quality! Easy to assembly and put up. Perfect protection from the sun for my daughter’s play area at the beach!" - Emily

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #10 Stringing Up 50ft LED Outdoor String Lights Is The Single Fastest Way To Turn A Plain Backyard Into Somewhere People Actually Want To Stay After The Sun Goes Down

    Review: "Great product works super great especially attaching it to a cable and or another fixed object for longevity." - Jason

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #11 Showing Up To The Beach With A Lightweight Coleman Beach Chair That Sets Up In Seconds And Weighs Almost Nothing Means More Time Sitting And Significantly Less Time Wrestling With Equipment In The Sand

    Review: "Lightweight and very comfortable. Easy to carry, quick to set up, and surprisingly stable on sand. Comfortable to sit for a long time — perfect beach chair. I use it often in Oahu, Hawaii." - Anna

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #12 Flat When You Don't Need It And Fully Functional When You Do, The Coleman Snap N Go Collapsible Cooler Is The One That Finally Makes Sense For People Who Never Had The Storage Space For A Regular One

    Review: "Wow, wow, wow! What an amazing product. As RVers, we find this collapsible cooler incredibly useful. The overall quality is very good, and the lid provides an excellent seal. The cooler collapses into a compact package that stores easily in an RV or vehicle, as shown in our SUV photo. We have used this cooler on multiple grocery runs and have experienced no issues keeping food and beverages cold with reusable ice packs. For RVers, campers, or anyone short on storage space, this cooler is an easy recommendation." - MKWilli

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #13 No Backyard Gathering Has Ever Been Made Worse By The Arrival Of A Cornhole Set That Gives Everyone Something To Compete Over While Pretending They're Just There To Relax

    Review: "This is exactly what I was expecting and hoping for. The bags are a proper weight for throwing, and I really enjoyed the waterproof carrying case that came with it." - Laura Pollock

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #14 Everything That Has Been Cluttering The Patio, Porch, Or Garage Floor Finally Has A Home Inside A 30 Gallon Resin Outdoor Storage Box That Locks, Stacks, And Handles Whatever Weather Shows Up Without Complaining

    Review: "I read the reviews that this was easy to put together, and it really is. I honestly cannot put anything together, ever, but decided to give this a try. It just snaps together and the directions are straightforward, completely straightforward. This took me maybe 5 minutes. I wanted something to hide my leaf blower, extension cord and watering can. It all fits with room to spare. It’s a little darker than I anticipated, which actually matched better. It’s not the sturdiest, but it’s pretty well made and should hold up well enough. I like it; it was a good purchase." - Michelle S

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #15 Beating The Heat At A Festival, A Game, Or Anywhere Outside That Forgot To Install Air Conditioning Is A Lot More Manageable With A Mini Portable Fan That Fits In A Bag And Works Harder Than It Has Any Right To At That Size

    Review: "Small but powerful. This portable fan has three levels and it's very convenient whether for office, car, or events. Highly recommend!" - Winnie

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #16 A Garden Hose That Actually Survives The Summer Without Kinking, Cracking, Or Giving Up Halfway Through Watering Is Exactly What A 25ft Abrasion Resistant Water Hose Brings To A Yard That Deserves Better Than What's Been Out There

    Review: "I’m surprised of the quality of the garden hose!! It’s very maneuverable and lightweight the connection with the head spray very good material it don’t slip out of my hand ( bring extra O’ring) it does not leak and have so much different types of pressure." - Jasmine

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #17 All You Need Is A Patch Of Grass And A Portable Volleyball Net To Turn Any Outdoor Space Into The Most Competitive Spot At The Campsite, The Beach, Or The Backyard Barbecue

    Review: "Was looking for a sturdy volleyball net for the beach. We purchased one before and it did not hold up so wasn’t expecting this to be good, but it held up so well. Easy to set up. Would recommend if you’re looking for a beach volleyball net." - Joan

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #18 Ground That Used To Mean A Sore Back And A Bad Night's Sleep Becomes A Completely Different Experience When An Aksoul Camping Sleeping Pad With Pillow Is Between You And Whatever The Earth Has Going On Down There

    Review: "Simple, fast and comfortable sleeping mat for camping. It rolls up really well and fits into a small bag, so takes up no space at all. Built in foot pump is awesome and deflating is quick. Roll and go!" - Cory

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #19 Turning A Bare Patio Lounger Into Somewhere Worth Spending An Entire Afternoon Starts With An Outdoor Chaise Lounge Cushion That Makes The Whole Setup Feel Significantly More Intentional Than It Did Five Minutes Ago

    Review: "Fits this old deck chair well! It has a pocket on the top the fits over the head of the chair. There are two tie strings that line up perfectly to the cross bars on the frame. As long as the material weathers well, I’m going to be very happy." - MDJ

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #20 Staying Fresh Through Heat, Humidity, And Whatever The Afternoon Decides To Throw At You Is Exactly Where Saltair Serum Deodorant Earns Its Place In Every Beach Bag And Outdoor Kit Worth Packing

    Review: "Love Love Love. Great scent throw, effective, lasting great all day odor protection, dries fast; it is a serum and it is liquid so it needs a few to dry but its a lovely texture and smells wonderful. The acids help exfoliate the skin and keeps it soft. No residue on clothing. Easy to use and keep clean. Safe for all skin types. I wanna try all the flavors!" - jaimilee

    Buy Now: amazon.com

    #21 Fresh Juice That Actually Tastes Like The Fruit It Came From Is What Separates A Cold Press Juicer From Every Other Appliance On The Counter That's Been Promising The Same Thing With Significantly Worse Results

    Review: "I have only had for few weeks and used 3 times, but it's worth the money. Juice fully extracted and few pulps" - ok

    Buy Now: amazon.com

  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 05:00

    Choosing whether or not to have kids is a deeply personal decision. And yet, people who choose to stay childfree often find themselves repeatedly explaining that choice to others. Friends, family, and even acquaintances sometimes feel the need to question it or try to convince them they’ll eventually change their mind.

    One woman shared how her friend kept pushing the topic for years, even though she had always been clear about not wanting children. The final straw came at a wedding, when the friend loudly told her across the table, “Well, I hope you get pregnant.” What happened next left everyone at the table stunned—keep reading to see how she responded.

    It is a personal decision whether to have kids or not, and nobody should pressure you into one or the other

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    A woman vented online about how a ‘frenemy’ of hers kept shamelessly testing her childfree boundaries

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    A woman is pissed by child-obsessed friends comments at a wedding.

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    Many Gen Z adults say they are choosing not to have children because of the financial strain and rising cost of living

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    Parenting is no easy task, and most of us have heard the stories (whether from friends, cousins, or coworkers) about sleepless nights, endless laundry, and the chaos of raising little humans. In fact, the internet is packed with memes joking about the daily struggles of being a parent. Yet despite all the challenges, many moms and dads say the journey is deeply rewarding. For them, the joy of watching a child grow often outweighs the exhaustion. Parenting can bring meaningful moments, strong family bonds, and a sense of purpose that many people cherish. At the same time, it’s also a life choice that requires time, energy, and long-term commitment. And that’s exactly why some people take their time thinking carefully about it.

    Beyond the day-to-day challenges of raising a child, there are many factors people consider when deciding whether parenthood is right for them. In recent years, more Millennials and Gen Z adults have openly talked about choosing to delay or skip having children altogether. Research from the Pew Research Center shows that the U.S. fertility rate reached a historic low in 2023. At the same time, a growing share of women ages 25 to 44 report that they have never given birth. These trends reflect changing lifestyles, priorities, and economic realities. People today are thinking differently about relationships, careers, and personal goals. And for some, that reflection leads to a different vision of adulthood than previous generations had.

    One of the biggest factors influencing this decision is finances. Raising a child can be incredibly expensive, and many young adults are becoming more aware of those costs before making long-term commitments. According to a survey by MassMutual, nearly a quarter of Millennials and Gen Z adults without children say they don’t plan to become parents. Their main reason? Financial concerns. From childcare to healthcare and education, the price of raising kids can feel overwhelming. Many people worry about whether they’ll be able to provide the lifestyle and opportunities they would want for their children. As a result, finances have become a major part of the conversation around family planning.

    That same survey revealed something interesting about how people think about money and parenthood. About 23 percent of adults between the ages of 18 and 43 said their decision to remain childfree is tied to two key financial concerns. First, many value the financial flexibility that comes with not having children. Without the costs of childcare, schooling, and other expenses, people often feel they have more control over their budgets. The second concern is uncertainty about whether they could comfortably afford the long-term costs of raising a child. For some, the question isn’t about whether they want children; it’s whether they could realistically support them without constant financial stress.

    When you look at the bigger picture, those concerns start to make sense. Living costs have been steadily rising in many parts of the world. Rent, groceries, healthcare, and everyday expenses can already stretch budgets pretty thin. Buying a home, something many people once considered a major step before starting a family, has also become far more difficult for younger generations. With student loans and economic uncertainty in the mix, financial stability can feel harder to achieve. For many couples or individuals, the idea of adding the cost of raising a child on top of everything else can feel overwhelming. So naturally, people are thinking twice before making that decision.

    And then there’s the sheer cost of raising a child itself. In a piece discussing the topic Fox News mentions, experts estimate that raising a child to the age of 18 now costs over $300,000 in the United States. And that number doesn’t even include college expenses. Once higher education is factored in, the total can easily climb into six figures more. When you break it down, the expenses add up quickly—food, clothing, healthcare, school supplies, childcare, and extracurricular activities. Over the years, these costs can quietly stack up into a massive financial commitment.

    It’s important for people to respect others’ decisions about having children and avoid pressuring them to change their minds

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    For some individuals, the decision not to have children is also influenced by health or genetic concerns. Certain people live with medical conditions or inherited disorders that they worry could affect future children. Others may carry personal experiences with illness in their families that make them cautious about passing those challenges along. These decisions are often deeply personal and emotional. People who make them usually spend a lot of time reflecting on what feels right for their circumstances.

    There are also lifestyle reasons why some people choose to remain childfree. Many say the choice allows them to dedicate more time to hobbies, interests, and passions that matter to them. Without the responsibilities of parenting, they might travel more, explore creative pursuits, or invest more energy into personal growth. Others focus on building their careers, saving for the future, or maintaining an active social life. For these individuals, the freedom to shape their lives in different ways feels fulfilling. It’s not necessarily about rejecting family life; it’s simply about prioritizing different goals. And for them, that path feels right.

    Ultimately, deciding whether or not to have children is a deeply personal choice that looks different for everyone. Some people dream of becoming parents and building a family, while others feel happier pursuing different life paths. Neither decision is inherently right or wrong. What matters most is that individuals feel supported in making the choice that aligns with their values, circumstances, and well-being. Conversations about parenthood are becoming more open and nuanced as society evolves. And perhaps the most important takeaway is that everyone deserves respect for the life they choose to build.

    In this particular case, it seemed like the author’s friend simply refused to respect her decision to remain childfree and kept pestering her about it for years. Eventually, the author decided to stand her ground and respond firmly when the comment crossed the line. What are your thoughts on this situation? Do you think she handled it the right way?

    Here’s how readers reacted to the viral story while the author interacted with them in the comments

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    Some internet users shared similar stories

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    Not everyone was on the same page. Some readers disagreed with the author

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  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 05:00

    “Turn and face the strange, ch-ch-changes

    Pretty soon now you're gonna get older

    Time may change me, but I can't trace time…”

    David Bowie’s iconic song may have been about reinventing himself as an artist and the inevitability of aging, but it’s something that we can all relate to. We’re constantly evolving, and so is the world around us.

    Below, you’ll find a list that Bored Panda has compiled of then-versus-now photos of famous places in the United States. As you’ll clearly see, these cities and landmarks have undergone massive changes, and it’s fascinating to examine how they’ve occurred. Enjoy scrolling through these images, and be sure to upvote the ones that inspire you to take a trip down memory lane too.

    #1 Once Upon A Time In America Iconic Scene Then And Now (1984-2019)

    © Photo: PhilGrishayev

    #2 Hoover Dam Water Level July 1983 vs. December 2022

    © Photo: HD_Adventure

    #3 University Of Montana ~150 Years Apart

    © Photo: sweetz55

    Compared to the rest of the world, the United States is a pretty young country. It’s only been around for 250 years, while some have been standing for over a thousand years. Because the nation is so young, it has transformed an incredible amount over the past two centuries. And the places that have changed the most drastically are the cities.

    There are plenty of small towns in the U.S. where you can still find dirt roads today, but the nation’s largest cities are sprawling metropolises with seemingly endless highways and millions of homes. The most important and influential cities in the nation haven’t always been the same, though.

    #4 What An Abandoned Mansion Looks Like As It Deteriorates When It's Not Cared For Between 1965 And 2012

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #5 Tunnel Rock At Sequoia National Park, 1952 And 2020

    © Photo: Eddielowfilthslayer

    #6 The Pines, Fallsburg, NY. (1950's-Semi Recent) Not Mine, I Thought It Belonged Here. I Borrowed This From Deadmotelsusa On Instagram

    © Photo: PugetSoundOgre

    Back when the country was formed, New York City, Philadelphia, Boston, Charleston, and Baltimore were powerhouses. And while they’re all still important today, some have become overshadowed by younger cities like Los Angeles, Atlanta, and Houston.

    And according to The Atlantic, the prominence of certain cities has changed drastically between 1978 and 2010 as well. Detroit, St. Louis, Cleveland, New Orleans, Kansas City, Milwaukee, Columbus, Indianapolis, and Buffalo have all dropped significantly in GDP rankings. Meanwhile, Washington, DC, Dallas, Phoenix, San Diego, Denver, Tampa, Portland, Orlando, and Sacramento made huge strides in improving their rankings.  

    #7 Fresh Prince Basketball Court 1990 vs. Now

    © Photo: karmacannibal

    #8 Charlotte, NC: Unsure Of The Year, But I Found What Appeared To Be A Dirt Track Near My Workplace On Google Maps. I Did Some Research And Went To Check It Out

    © Photo: dominicmannphoto

    #9 We Lost Amy Winehouse 10 Years Ago Today. Here She Is Back In 2007 In NYC

    © Photo: mablox

    These changes are still happening today, though. Good Migrations notes that a handful of cities have rapidly changed even in the last five years. These include Boise City (ID), Provo (UT), Lakeland (FL), Austin (TX), and Huntsville (AL). 

    The transformations that these cities have experienced can be attributed to an increase in job opportunities, an increase in population, an increase in GDP, and more. Along with all of these changes often come more tourism, more cultural and arts events, and perhaps even happier populations.

    #10 Manhattan In 1851 And Today

    © Photo: ParaMike46

    #11 Waiting Area In Michigan Central Railroad Depot, Detroit (1965 And 2014)

    © Photo: hankmeisterr

    #12 Theodore Roosevelt Would Be Proud

    © Photo: sethsta

    One thing that makes the United States unique (for better or worse) is the highway system that the country has. And that has definitely changed an incredible amount over the past century. According to Vox, 48,000 miles of highways were added to the nation between the 1950s and 1970s. These gave rural residents access to cities and allowed people who worked in cities to move to suburbs, while still having easy access to their jobs and communities. But there were certainly downsides to these highways as well.    

    #13 Unfinished Manhattan Bridge In 1908 And Now

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #14 Woodstock Festival Site- 1969 / 2020

    © Photo: spkelly37

    #15 Chicago In The 1930s vs. Today

    © Photo: DrDMango

    Peter Norton, a historian at the University of Virginia, told Vox that there was almost always discrimination involved when determining where these highways would go and whose communities would be impacted by them.

    “The explanation, in almost every case, is that the relatively well-off, influential people in those cities were able to stop the urban highways that would have gone through their neighborhoods," Norton says. He cites the example of Wisconsin Avenue in DC, which was supposed to become a highway but never did because wealthy residents protested. "The destruction mostly happened in the most disenfranchised neighborhoods. It's astounding how selective it was."

    #16 2117 Vyse Ave, Bronx 1989 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #17 Grand Central Terminal, NYC. 1912 Top, 2021 Bottom

    © Photo: strikejay

    #18 Before And After, Seattle Wa

    © Photo: SimplySeager

    Despite how much American cities have changed already, it’s likely that the transformations won’t stop any time soon. There is a movement for walkable cities that is gaining traction in the U.S., and hopefully, many more communities will have options available for transportation other than just cars. 

    In fact, a recent survey found that six out of 10 builders are now moving away from large homes and focusing their attention on creating walkable neighborhoods. 56% of Americans even say they would be willing to move and have a smaller yard if it meant they lived in a more walkable neighborhood. Times are changing! 

    #19 1878 - 2022. Tetons. Not Much Has Really Changed In This Photo. But I Still Think It's Neat

    © Photo: andeo1996

    #20 1939/2021

    © Photo: mrl33602

    #21 1091 E. 165th St, Bronx 1987 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    Are you enjoying these photos that tell stories about how much the United States has changed over time, pandas? Keep upvoting the ones that you find most fascinating, and let us know in the comments below how you’d like to see your own city transform. Then, you can find another article from Bored Panda featuring interesting American cities right here!

    #22 A New York City Street - 1984 And Present Day

    © Photo: Objects_Food_Rooms

    #23 Old vs. Now

    © Photo: Actual_Macaroon_3024

    #24 Sneffels Revenue Mine Colorado 1896 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #25 St. Elmo Colorado 1890 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #26 Stunner Colorado 1913 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #27 Silver Cliff Colorado Fire House And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #28 Sneffels Colorado 1897 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #29 Then And Now — Salem, Virginia

    © Photo: VaDOT

    #30 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #31 The Flatiron Building, New York (1917 And 2012)

    © Photo: chriscambridge

    #32 My Family Farm C.1900/2000. It Was In Our Family For 125 Years. My Childhood Bedroom Window Is In The Top Center. It Was Also My Father’s And My Grandfather’s Bedroom

    © Photo: pappard57

    #33 Amazing Looking Home Restored In Detroit. 1993 And Now

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #34 1820 Industrial St, Los Angeles

    © Photo: Just_Another_AI

    #35 Statue Of Liberty: Left Photo By My Great-Grandfather In 1937, Right Photo By Me In 2019

    © Photo: Weasley9

    #36 The Corner Of 49th St & 3rd Ave, Manhattan 1940 vs. 2021

    © Photo: Weasley9

    #37 The Fallen Monarch, Yosemite - 1899 And Nowadays. 'F' Troop Of The 6th Us Cavalry Pictured In The Older Photo

    © Photo: Le_Rat_Mort

    #38 Hollywood Sign, Los Angeles, USA

    © Photo: TogderNodger

    #39 10 Years In Detroit. 2009 And 2019. House Proud Lawn Mowing To Abandoned Debris

    © Photo: Christopherfromtheuk

    #40 Early Los Angeles Compared To 2001

    © Photo: chazwazzle

    #41 The North Bank Of The Chicago River Between State Street And Dearborn Street - 1960 The North Bank Of The Chicago River Between State Street And Dearborn Street - 1960 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #42 Madison Street Bridge - 1911 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #43 Randolph Street Of The “L” Train Passing Over The Lake Street Bridge - 1910 Randolph Street Of The “L” Train Passing Over The Lake Street Bridge - 1910 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #44 Amsterdam Ave And 126th St, Harlem 1989 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #45 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #46 Before (1916) And Current (2019) Photo Of Our Street

    © Photo: wobbly_pop_tendy

    #47 Swift River Valley (Massachusetts, Us) 1880s vs. 2010s

    © Photo: dctroll_

    #48 My Mom And I Sitting On The Stoop Of The Bronx House That's Been In Our Family For 100 Years, Recreating A Photo Of My Great Aunt And Great-Great Grandmother Taken In The '40s

    © Photo: Delighted_Strawberry

    #49 The Tribune Tower, Located At 435 North Michigan Avenue, Seen From Across The Chicago River - 1931 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #50 Linwood St., Camden NJ 1988 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #51 My Town's Downtown Area (1960s vs. 2022)

    © Photo: vilify97

    #52 Silver Plume, Colorado Jail 1895 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #53 Detroit, Michigan. Then & Now

    © Photo: MrMacBro

    #54 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #55 Hollywood High School In Los Angeles In 1941 And Now

    © Photo: reddit.com

    #56 Main & Delaware St, Kansas City, Mo (1906 vs. 2015)

    © Photo: pancakeking1012

    #57 San Francisco, 1920 And 2020

    © Photo: 5_Frog_Margin

    #58 Old House In Omaha Nebraska

    © Photo: sethsta

    #59 Abraham Lincoln's Home, Springfield, Illinois. Seen Here In 1861 And Today

    © Photo: Le_Rat_Mort

    #60 Michigan Avenue Bridge - 1929 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #61 Jackson Street Bridge From The South Bank Of The South Branch - 1916 Jackson Street Bridge From The South Bank Of The South Branch - 1916 And Today

    © Photo: Lepke2011

    #62 1980’s To Now In Urban USA

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #63 Mozart Ave At W. Roosevelt, Chicago 1988 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #64 Mlk Blvd At Court St., Newark NJ 1981 And Today

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #65 My Hometown, Approx 100 Years Ago vs. My Pic From Last Week.... Not So Much Has Changed

    © Photo: Hobbz11

    #66 Silver Plume School Colorado 1894 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #67 Silver Cliff Colorado 1890 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #68 R/Oldphotosinreallife - Smuggler Mine Colorado 1902 And Now Smuggler Mine Colorado 1902 And Now

    © Photo: stumpjungle

    #69 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #70 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #71 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #72 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #73 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #74 Detroit, Michigan Before And After

    © Photo: ForwardGlove

    #75 Old Photos In Real Life: 1978 vs. Now

    © Photo: okgusto

    #76 Detroit Before And After The Construction Of Freeways And “Urban Renewal”

    © Photo: TheSandPeople

    #77 Dallas, Texas (2001 vs. 2021)

    © Photo: RyeTiliDie

    #78 We Lost Joey Ramone 20 Years Ago Today. Here Is Ramones Pictured Outside Cbgb July 15 1975

    © Photo: iconoclastickangaroo

    #79 Manhattan 1931 vs. Now

    © Photo: DTheDev

    #80 Mount Rushmore

    © Photo: sethsta

    #81 Then & Now

    © Photo: No Longer Here

    #82 Then & Now

    © Photo: No Longer Here

    #83 Then & Now

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    #84 Then & Now

    © Photo: No Longer Here

    #85 Old Photos In Real Life 1934 Edition

    © Photo: jesseberdinka

    #86 Louisburg Square On Beacon Hill In Boston, In 1930 And 2021

    © Photo: alanboston

    #87 The Royal York Hotel Towered Over The Toronto Skyline For Close To 40 Years. Nowadays It's Buried Behind Glass And Steel Office Buildings And Condos

    © Photo: IWasGregInTokyo

    #88 America- Past And Present

    © Photo: Lordcrappington

    #89 I Tried Taking A Modern Version Of This Photo Of The Empire State Building From 1941

    © Photo: corso923

    #90 Then & Now

    © Photo: No Longer Here

    #91 Then & Now

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  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 05:00

    There’s this misconception that all, or most, twins are thick as thieves. They once shared a womb together, and know each other better than anyone else. But it turns out that sometimes, the good twin/evil twin narrative we see in movies isn’t too far from the truth.

    A cousin has spilled the beans on some wedding drama that rocked the boat of a wealthy family. According to her, this family splurges on an boat cruise every few years. One such vacation hit an iceberg when the dad decided he’d postpone it so that he could pay for his daughter’s extravagant wedding instead. The bride’s twin sister lost it, accusing her of being selfish and ruining everyone’s year by getting married.

    Their family cruise was put on ice so that the bride’s father could pay for his daughter’s lavish wedding

    A woman crying while another woman looks away, depicting a sister's wedding ruining a vacation.

    Image credits: http://www.kaboompics.com / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    Her twin sister is furious, and has demanded that the bride postpones the wedding because she’s ruining everyone’s year

    Screenshot of text: You're getting married? But what about MY cruise?? Debating to post a story about a sister's wedding ruining a vacation.Screenshot of text: A story about a woman who did crazy stuff, implying an entitled woman's actions related to her sister's wedding and vacation.Screenshot of text: Cast list including Good Cousin, Good Husband, Entitled Cousin, representing characters in a story about a sister's wedding ruining a vacation.Screenshot of text: This story doesn't involve me much, but I know a lot about Entitled Cousin's actions from family members, detailing how a wedding ruined a vacation.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation; practically exploded.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation. Screenshot of text about past a*****e relationships.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation. Screenshot about blaming weight and finding true love. Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation. Screenshot about engagement after healing from past.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation. Screenshot about family's joy and father paying for wedding.Entitled woman tells sister her wedding is ruining her vacation. Screenshot about sister's unhappiness with Niagara Falls wedding.Text snippet about an entitled woman telling her sister her wedding is ruining her vacation and not interfering with the family cruise.An entitled woman, looking stressed and gesturing with her hands, expresses anger about her sister's wedding ruining her vacation.

    Image credits: Blake Cheek / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

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    A screenshot of text about the entitled woman's continued nasty behavior and her father's threat. A screenshot of text suggesting the entitled woman may change her attitude.

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    The cousin later revealed that while the “good twin” was torn up about her decision, she stuck to it

    A screenshot of Reddit comments discussing the entitled woman's behavior and the sister's wedding.

    Screenshot of Reddit comments discussing an entitled woman and her child.

    Reddit comments about vacation preferences, mentioning Niagara Falls and cruises.

    A screenshot of a Reddit discussion about a sister being banned from a wedding.

    An entitled woman in a white shirt argues with her sister, ruining her vacation.

    Image credits: http://www.kaboompics.com / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    Twin estrangement is more common than you might think, here’s why…

    Many people think of twins as having the perfect relationship but this is simply often not the case. In fact, some experts say that twins fight worse than other siblings and hold onto resentments for much longer.

    “There’s such an ingrained belief that twins have an ideal relationship, that twins are icons of idealized intimacy, and sometimes that’s true, but often it’s not,” says Barbara Klein, an expert on the development of twins. Klein adds that because twins are supposed to get along, estrangement between them can cause deep shame.

    Dr. Joan Friedman, another expert on twins, notes that while twins fight just like different-aged siblings, “their tensions have much more to do with establishing separateness and uniqueness, traits afforded naturally to siblings born at different times.”

    “Twin estrangement that grows out of unresolved anger, disappointment, and resentment is emotionally complicated and confusing,” Klein writes. The expert herself has first-hand experience of this, revealing she was “estranged and then connected and then disconnected” from her own twin sister for over 45 years.

    Klein describes twins as “born married” because they have a unique bond. But that doesn’t always mean they’re close.

    “What is unique about twinship is the level of conflict between twins, which can come after harmony, almost instantly,” she explains. “Conflicts over differences of opinion—what belongs to whom, or who is more favored or entitled—are ongoing discussions that create intense unhappiness and confusion.”

    According to Klein, harmonious happiness can easily be totally wiped out by a superficial fight over a dress, toy, or sweet treat.

    “Profound fights about the best college to go to or the right man or woman to marry can become ruthless and hateful, and often cause nonstop fighting and alliances in the nuclear and extended family,” adds the twin expert.

    Friedman says that rivalry in adult twins has “everything to do with wanting to be on one’s own and discovering one’s singular sense of self without worrying how this will disrupt and upset one’s twin.”

    Klein reveals that even when they’re estranged, twins yearn for each other.

    “All twins long for the closeness they shared from conception into childhood. The bond twins share is primary; like the mother-child bond, it cannot be replaced,” she says. “Misunderstood and mistreated by each other, twin communication can be destroyed because of fighting and unrealistic expectations.”

    A sad woman crying and wiping tears, her wedding ruined by an entitled sister.

    Image credits: cottonbro studio / Pexels (not the actual photo)

    Some felt the drama was worthy of becoming a movie

    A comment praising the sister for not tolerating bad behavior at her wedding, indicating the entitled woman's vacation was not a priority.

    A comment supporting the sister, hoping she gets a happy ending after the entitled woman ruined her vacation and wedding.

    A comment suggesting the child was too young for the vacation and would not appreciate the sister's wedding.

    A comment speculating that the entitled woman might try to show up in a wedding dress, highlighting her behavior.

    A comment wishing the sister a wonderful marriage, describing the entitled woman's negative impact on the wedding and vacation.

    A comment about choosing family and involvement in lives, reflecting the entitled woman's wedding vacation ruin.

    A comment calling the person an entitled woman after her wedding vacation ruined story.

    A comment suggesting that the story of the entitled woman ruining a wedding for her vacation could be a movie.

    A comment stating the entitled woman deserved to be kicked out of the wedding for ruining the vacation.

    A comment describing the wedding and vacation ruined story of the entitled woman as dramatized for a Lifetime movie.

    A comment about the entitled woman and her sister's wedding, expressing disbelief at her behavior.

    A comment suggesting the entitled woman's sister's wedding story should be a revenge story.

    A comment praising the original poster for being a supportive sister and bridesmaid, unlike the entitled woman.

    A comment referencing a Thanos quote in relation to the entitled woman and the sister's wedding.

     

  • Wednesday 24 June 2026 - 05:00

    Sometimes a job, a career, the rat race all gets to be too much, even if the work is manageable. The truth is that we’re all well aware that there is a big world out there to explore and one typically doesn’t get to see much of it if you’re stuck in a nine-to-five.

    So we’ve gathered posts from people who decided that they don’t want to be stuck, tied down to a job and got up and left to travel the world. Get comfortable as you read through their experiences, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own tales in the comments section down below.

    #1

    Yes. Several times. No regrets. The biggest was when I quit a bad factory job and saved up about 7k. Then I walked coast to coast across the USA which took about 8 months. Most of my budget was food and gear, slept in a tent most nights. My work history is full of large gaps, but also full of life experiences I wouldn’t trade for anything.

    © Photo: TheTrailArtist

    #2

    My partner passed away in an accident in July 2024. Quit my job, packed up and left. I couldn’t stand staying in the city we had moved to together and planned to have our life in. Initially, I started a new job in another country but I was not mentally ready for it and I couldn’t hack it. Ended up leaving and now I’m traveling. Somewhat with a plan, somewhat randomly. Visiting friends in different places, and seeing places I’ve always wanted to visit but never had the chance. It’s bittersweet because I wish my partner was with me but I’m hoping it’ll help me figure out what to do with myself when the traveling ends.

    I say go for it. Why wait? There are always going to be reasons to put it off. If it’s something you want to do, don’t spend your time dreaming about it and never doing it. You never know who you will meet or what will happen along the way. Go wherever you’ve always wanted to go. Don’t overthink it.

    © Photo: roar075

    #3

    Traveling alone gets hard around the 7 month mark. You start slowing down and spending a month or two in each place and taking classes or participating in sports or something.

    Humans really want connection, comfort, stability.

    If you travel with a partner though, it’s easy to go full blast for the full year at pretty high speed.

    © Photo: Mammoth_Support_2634

    #4

    I did a whole year. Quit my job and travelled Europe, India, SEA, Japan. Ended up in Australia on a WHV, met my future wife in Thailand, she's Aussie, got married last year and bought a house now have a baby on the way. I don't regret a single thing!

    © Photo: CastNoShadow1

    #5

    Not a year. I'm on year 8. And now it's coming to an end. I regret very little, although I wish I'd known the entire time that financially I was always going to be okay.

    In hindsight, I'm always fine, but after 8 years of not always knowing where the next paycheck is coming from, and always having an eye on 6 months in advanced for the next major contract, it's grown tiresome

    Now I worry about getting back into work that will 1 keep me stimulated and two, not suck because of nearly a decade out of regular work

    If I knew what I know now when I started, I'd have taken less big risks, and just enjoyed the ride, although the 8 years of pushing myself will definitely pay off when I put down roots

    The thing with money is there's always a way to find it. You just have to hone skills.

    Learning things like video editing, marketing, copywriting. Are actually great starts, it's cliche, but the way you approach it is key.

    The most successful way of finding money on the road that I've ever seen was video editing. Not my cup of tea but he would approach businesses, offer to do them a video for free, if they like it, they can buy it off him. Worked really well.

    © Photo: StopTheTrickle

    #6

    Have you considered discussing the potential of an unpaid sabatical with your office? I am in the middle of a 5 month unpaid sabatical which I think has made the trip more relaxing, knowing that I have a job to go back to. It also has made budgeting easier as there is no unknown of job searching.

    Alternatively, maybe see if you can find a new job and tell them you can only start on 3 months? I have a 3 months notice period at my job so it's not uncommon that people can't start straight away.

    © Photo: _fountainhead

    #7

    Yes, twice.
    Though I wish it weren’t the case, I feel that age plays a significant role in how these experiences unfold for me.

    The first time, I was young, living in my parents’ house, and my job wasn’t very serious. Traveling for a year was an incredible adventure—I learned a lot, had amazing experiences, met fascinating people, and felt I’d had serious personal growth. Coming back home after a year of traveling wasn’t overly easy, but it wasn’t very difficult either. The hardest part was dealing with the overwhelming boredom of not traveling or doing something different and exciting every day. Still, it was relatively easy to get back into my life—I moved out of my parents' house, rented an apartment with friends, and landed a higher-paying job fairly quickly, so things worked out.

    The second time, I quit my job, sold everything I owned, and set off for another adventure. It was great, but when I returned after a year, it was much harder. This time, it felt like everyone around me had moved forward with their lives. People had advanced in their careers, gotten married, had kids, and I felt stuck in place. I struggled to find a job for over a year, eventually looking at entry-level positions, which was a huge blow considering I was once on a completely different career path. At some point, COVID hit, and things got even worse. It became incredibly difficult to find an apartment to rent, so I had to sublet and move to a different apartment every month or two. My friends were busy with their spouses or babies, and I felt like I was completely alone.

    Now, almost six years later, I still feel like I haven’t caught up with those around me.

    Do I regret traveling? Not really. I had incredible experiences that I wouldn’t trade for anything, but it’s important to acknowledge that while you’re living your dream, life keeps moving forward for everyone else. People progress in their careers, relationships, and personal lives, and when you return, you might find that you’ve missed out on opportunities.

    © Photo: Initial_Cranberry251

    #8

    It’s not the same but I took a 13 month unpaid sabbatical to travel the world. Here’s the bulletin list to your questions:

    Yes, I recommend it. You’re only at your age once. It becomes different the older and more established you are. I was 41 back then.

    No. I have no regrets. The memories, friendships and experiences I made live on long after I came home.

    Short answer I work for the government in BC, Canada. I just came back to my old job.

    I saved and spent $24,764 CAD. About $62 a day.

    I spent three months in South America, two months in Eastern Europe, six weeks in the Middle East, five weeks in Africa and five months and a week in Southeast Asia.

    Regarding the regret question it’s been ten years and I’m on a second sabbatical. This time it’s seven months paid at 40% of my salary. I’m traveling Africa for the whole time. Currently in Kenya.

    © Photo: Cheat-Meal

    #9

    A long time ago, my then girlfriend asked me to give up my job, rent out my house and travel the world with her. I immediately said 'No'. It just made no sense to me. Weeks later she passed suddenly at the age of 27. Suffice to say, I was devastated. We'd not been together for a long time (18 months) but...

    12 months later, after saving every penny I could, I gave up my job, rented out my house and headed to the other side of the world. What followed was five years of on/off travel. I'd work to save money and travelled as much as I could.

    My regrets are obvious but I also wish I'd done it much earlier in my life. I was once sat in a hostel cafe in Paris and a16yo back packer came in. I was so jealous of the freedom he had and the great travel experiences he had ahead of him. I didn't start til I was 29.

    Travelling changed me in so many ways and I encourage everyone to go out and see the world. You'll learn more about yourself than anything else.

    © Photo: stippleeffect

    #10

    I'm in the middle of doing it. 1 month in. Feeling a bit homesick but don't regret it. But I was tired af of that job. I saved up plenty of money that I don't have to stress too much. Doing Europe and a bit of Asia. Might extend the trip when I get back if I feel like it.

    © Photo: Jammintoad

    #11

    I left a job in an engineering/manufacturing business to tour Asia for six weeks. Relatively short, but it was a long journey for me. I just needed the break as an opportunity to explore and experience discovery. When I came back I had the opportunity to work fewer days at the same place and a few years later left completely to go back to school.
    No regrets at all.

    © Photo: AlarmingMonk1619

    #12

    Yep, did it in 2023 for 6 months after leaving a stable corporate job in marketing. I interviewed about 4 weeks before I came home and walked into a job immediately. I had some decent experience though and was not a junior anymore. No regrets at all but it was definitely mentally challenging at times and I learned a lot about myself.

    © Photo: iridessence

    #13

    Not the same, but I was laid off in September 2023 and remained unemployed through March 2024.

    I don't have any children, so I took part of my savings and my severance to travel to 4 different countries (Portugal, Curaçao, Türkiye and Chile). Having credit card points available also helped.

    It was definitely risky, but worth it. I want to do it again, but between January and June 2027 because my passport expires in January 2028 (usually you need to have at least 6 months of validity on your passport).

    Who knows if I will do it again or not.

    It all depends on your personal situation and the job market (which is not the best right now).

    © Photo: ed8907

    #14

    I only regretted not updating my resume before I left, and not preparing for interviews a little more while traveling. I don't regret quitting or traveling at all.

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    #15

    Yes, twice quit and sold all my possessions. I was gone for 9 months the first time, second time 5 years :)

    Absolutely no regrets. 10/10 would do it again.

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    #16

    You can work to live or live to work, it’s your choice.

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    #17

    I did it! I was basically going to quit my job one way or another, but I ended up deciding to take another job in the industry four months later. Given your industry, I think the key is to make sure that your professional network is kept up. But, I never had anyone view the fact that I took a few months off work negatively.

    I went to Europe and, being a planner, I had a lot of my trip planned out in advance. I used a Google spreadsheet to keep the hostel reservations and flight/train/bus tickets organized in one place.

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    #18

    I’m quitting my soul sucking IT job next week and taking off for a 4 month trip across Latin America and Europe. I’ve saved $10,000 and will be teaching English online very part time for an additional 200€ a month. I’ve secured a job teaching English in Vietnam starting in August so that was easy. I’ve already booked the first month worth of accommodations and I’m just going with the flow for activities !

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    #19

    Yes I did it at the beginning of 2022 and came back home 13 months later. I travelled around Asia and it was probably the best year of my life. Absolutely no regrets. I did this at 39 years old, had plenty of savings and also rented out my flat for income so I was in a good position to do it.

    Coming back home was hard initially adapting back to reality again. The job market wasn't great and it took me about 3 months before I got a permanent job. I spent about £18,000 on the trip in total and I've since made all that money back again.

    Would I do it again? No, it was a one off thing for me and kind of a midlife crisis. I'm now happy in my job and ready to settle down with the right person. And as I'm getting older I now prefer comfort over the backpacking life.

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    #20

    I've taken a year off to travel and this is really a much bigger topic than can be covered in a comment on reddit. Great experience, no serious regrets, just minor tweaks. (And I've since learned how to plan trips like this in a more streamlined way than I did originally.) I went from juggling multiple part time jobs to travel to pivoting into a more stable career path in marketing. Saved $12k before leaving and made the rest of my budget freelancing while traveling. Finding work on return varies between industries, positions, and individuals. You might chat with a recruiter in your industry to learn how long job searches are taking. Happy to share more via chat another time.

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    #21

    Yes.

    My first trip to Europe I quit 2 jobs AND took a semester off from university actually to spend 3 months backpacking through Europe.

    I regret not staying longer. I regret going back to school and work. I regret not expanding my travels more to see more of Europe and traveling further afield.

    I would 100% do it again, even today with my family. We own home and cars and have savings. We are healthy and I have a skillset that I can come back home and immediately either find a new job or work on the side to start re-earning a livable income.

    But not everyone is as ready to leave it all behind for an extended trip as I am :)

    When I went on that first trip, it was supposed to be 4 high school friends spending 2 weeks seeing our favorite soccer clubs and the tourist highlights along the way.

    Budget was $3,500 - all in: flights, hotels, rental car, food, etc. I didn't have that kind of money, my parents didn't have that kind of money. But all of my friends' parents did.

    I took a semester off of university, doubled my part-time job's hours, picked up a second full time job. I worked 6-7 days per week for several months.

    Then I found 'Europe Through the Back DOor' by Rick Steves, consumed its 300+ pages in a single weekend, and realized I could spend the entire summer on that same $3500 budget.

    I told my friends thinking they'd stay the summer with me. They laughed and made fun of me.

    I bought a backpack, a Eurail pass, a Hostel Card, and a moneybelt, and a open-jaw, round trip 'from anywhere on the East coast of US to Western Europe and back' airfare 'voucher.

    I flew out a week before my friends, and learned all about solo backpacking, hostels, Europes trains, sleeping on trains for free, eating affordably. \Then met my friends in Rome and we traveled together for 2 weeks.

    THey left and a cousin from home flew out to meet me. We traveled together for another 2 weeks.

    Then I traveled solo for the rest of the summer. I didn't see as much as I could have in retrospect, but i saw and experienced a LOT.

    Next to my wife and kids, it was the single most pivotal moment in my life.

    Now I share my stories and experiences and advice from 25 years of European travel on Youtube and Twitter and am building a web app to help others travel to Europe on their own affordably and with confidence.

    The only thing I regret is not traveling more before having a family & not dragging my family around more as my kids have grown up.

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    #22

    Currently doing this 🤣 so ill tell ya in a year 😆
    So far at 4 months and no regrets, feels weird to not have a routine.

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    #23

    Not quit, but had a 9 month sabbatical planned after my dad passed away. 2 weeks into the trip I end up temporarily paralyzed in a hospital in Santiago, Chile and had to cut the trip short and come home.

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    #24

    Yes. I planned to travel from 6 months to 1 year, and ended traveling for 3yrs and half, with 2 stops at middle.
    At total, I stayed 10 years in Asia, and expected was 6 months.
    You can do it at any age, regardless of people tell you, but you have to be flexible with jobs, want to learn new skills, accept losses, loneliness, uncertainty about the future.
    When you end, for me at least, there is always a sensation of feeling lost, but after a period of recovery, I'm ready to look for a job.
    Many hiring companies see work gaps as a red flag but you can overcome it proving that you are a resourceful person.

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    #25

    I am a teacher and I quit my job in 2022 to travel Latin America for 6 months. Like everyone has already said, my only regret is not saving more money or spending more time away—it is an incredible experience you should have if you can!

    I spent roughly $10,000 not including some withstanding expenses in the US (storage unit, credit card, etc). My one piece of advice is to keep things open and flexible! I was always anxious about not having plane tickets or solidified reservations/plans, but traveling is so convenient nowadays and most things works out when you go with the flow. Give yourself enough wiggle room so when you fall in love with a new spot, you can hang for a bit!

    Being a teacher, I had no problem securing a job when I returned but each profession is different. I hope you have a blast :).

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    #26

    Several times and absolutely 0 regrets. About to do it again soon too!

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    #27

    Ive been laid off a lot and that is usually the best time to travel. live a little and dont worry about work and time pressures.

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    #28

    I do it every few years. Frick it dude, you will be replaced at a job within a week.

    Travel is the only thing you can waste money on and it’ll still make you ‘richer’. Richer with life and stories and knowledge.

    Get out there man.. one day the grim reaper will come knocking. Live a life you wanted.

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    #29

    If you got the opportunity, do it. You're not gonna look back on your life and think "hell yeah working instead of traveling the world was awesome" lol. Do it.

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    #30

    12 years ago I quit a 100k job and purchased a one way ticket to SE Asia. I was 32 and started my trip solo (ended it with a partner I made along the way). I ended up travelling for 18 months. Honestly, I wish I had gone longer.

    Hell yeah I was nervous. I was leaving a really good job, my friends and my family. And it was hard the first month. I was on a small island learning to scuba dive and it would get lonely. I was used to being busy all day. But then like anything, you adapt and get more comfortable. You begin to appreciate the peacefulness of not having obligations. And you see the joy in smaller things. You will be fine.

    The trip itself was amazing. I went places and did things I would never dream of. Spent 6 months making my own way across Africa, which just blows my mind when I look back on it. Hell, because of my trip I ended up moving to Europe from the U.S. I’ve been here 10 years now. My trip changed my life completely, and I’m much happier for it.

    Go. Enjoy every moment you can.

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    #31

    Crazy my roommate is literally leaving tomorrow to travel for the next few months. Quit his finance job, totally got burned out. I can hear him packing as I type.

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    #32

    I didn’t do this but I’ve traveled solo a lot and what I say about it is the highs are higher and the lows are lower. The loneliness and boredom sometimes is awful but then you have these incredible unplanned experiences and it makes it all worth it. I’d say establish some daily routines you can take anywhere so you ground yourself.

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    #33

    I quit a job that some people considered a career entry point. It was a union job providing tech support for the local phone company. It paid decently for the time ($17/hr in 2006), but I always intended for it to be temporary.

    Best thing I ever did. Spent the next 6 months on an overland route from Cairo to Budapest. Egypt, Jordan, Syria, Turkey, Greece, Bulgaria, Romania and Hungary. Plus some brief stops in London, Paris and Malta. (Those brief stops totalled about 3 weeks, which is now my typical vacation length)

    Traveling long term isn't like a vacation. You develop routines, meet new friends, and just experience what carefree living is all about. Probably you'll spend whole days reading books. Maybe you'll randomly decide to spend a whole week somewhere just because the pension you're staying at serves good food (okay, they also had a pool). But the travel adds variety to those routines. You'll never be bored because there's always something new to see. And if you are bored, you can just pack up and move on.

    Everyone gets nervous in the face of a big change, but if this is something you want to do, and have the ability to, you'll have far more regret and second thoughts if you back out.

    #34

    I did it and traveled for a year. It was totally worth it. I wasn’t at all doubtful about it because I was really unhappy with that job by the end of it and was sick of where I was living and was planning on looking for a new job and moving anyway. Looking back it was amazing but while doing it I kind of got used to it and there were just different kinds of highs and lows. Sometimes I had to stop and just take a moment to appreciate all the incredible things I was seeing.

    I very rarely had nothing to do though. You can pack your itineraries as full as you want. Apart from the occasional beach break I was pretty much doing stuff every day during the hours most people would be working.

    #35

    I did it back in 2023. Well I didn’t quit, I was laid off and just took the opportunity to go travel for 3 months.

    A few things happened, one I haven’t been able to land a job since lol. I worked in the tech industry and the market has just been absolutely ruined. I worked as a photographer as a hobby and occasional side-gig but have been forced to do it full time. So while I’ve been broke as hell, I’ve actually been a lot happier as I have more free time.

    #36

    I did this for a four month trip. I was leaving a job that was for a set term and so had to find a new job anyways. When the new job gave me the offer I asked if I could delay my start date for four months and they agreed. It was great, honestly - I had the security of knowing the job would be there when I got back but I didn’t know anything about it to have it weighing on me during the trip.

    #37

    I left my job in September 2022 and traveled for 14 months.

    I returned in December 2023, and it was a rough first few months back. I didn't expect to struggle so much with the transition back to being home. I battled depression. It didn't help that I live in a northern city that gets very dark and grey in the winter, and I was returning just in time for that.

    I also didn't expect my friends and family to be so uninterested in hearing about my experience. I spent a few weeks seeing family after my return and they could not have cared less and acted like I was irresponsible for not working for so long. So what I'm saying is don't expect friends and loved ones to understand or care about your journey if you choose to do this.

    During my travels, I also struggled existentially with the purpose and meaning of what I was doing. You get tired and burnt out. Some days I sat inside and did nothing. Sightseeing gets old real quick, so you need to have a purpose for traveling, or some sort of interest you're pursuing. I also got tired of moving around, so the further into my trip I got, the longer I'd find myself staying in some spots - especially if I liked them.

    Once I returned, I briefly saw a therapist to try and talk through some of the issues I was having mentally and slowly came out of my funk. I found a job about four months after getting back. Granted, I wasn't even looking the first two months. I did put my traveling experience on my resume as a self-improvement sabbatical, and employers seemed to respond to that in a positive way.

    As far as anything I would do differently? Not sure, maybe using more of my down time while traveling to invest in skills that might translate into employment opportunities. But it's hard to do that when your mind is focused on traveling and not thinking about your next career move. The time was mostly a break after leaving a very stressful and toxic job, and I wouldn't give it up for the world. I think about it every day, and I can honestly say that it is one of the best decisions I've ever made.

    #38

    This comes up on career subs pretty often. If you want to travel for 6 months or less and are in a professional role, I would highly suggest asking for a leave of absence. By the time they post your role, find someone and train them, it can easily be 4-6 months, and they would be better to have you back. If you hate your job or your company, then the situation may be different, but even so, a leave of absence will play better than a resume gap. If you want more advice along this line, I am happy to provide it.

    #39

    I have seen this type of thread come up on Reddit over the years. Hardly anyone who quit their job to travel a bit regretted it.

    As for me, I decided between quitting my job to travel and buying a house. I chose the latter and I regret it. Now I have a mortgage tying me down and I have to stay employed or I’m screwed.

    If you’re itching to travel then do it now.

    #40

    Came back 4 months ago, travelled 1 year.

    I didn’t expect to cry a bit when I got home and drove out to the mountains. Realized once again how lucky I am to live in such a gorgeous place.

    Started the job hunt 2 weeks into being back, started in a stellar job 2 weeks later.

    I wouldn’t change a single thing about the trip.

    #41

    Also a software engineer.  I left in 2023 and worked for a charity up in a remote part of the my country for a season, then travelled NZ for 7 months in 2024, working odd jobs and volunteering for accommodation.

    Not going to lie it was rough when I came back and applied for SE jobs again. I got quite depressed feeling like I was unwanted and like I’d made this huge mistake that would cost me my future in this kind of job. I kept telling myself just to keep trying and something would work out - in the end that happened through reaching out to a previous manager and going in for a chat. I rejoined that company and feel settled back in now. 

    Looking back it was absolutely the right decision to leave and travel / experience a different job for a while. I think about NZ daily and I had a great experience travelling. It has also given me a different perspective around work - I used to fantasise about quitting and travelling just to escape my weeks in the office. Now I understand that work is (for most people) an inevitable sacrifice that has to be made, and I feel a lot better equipped now to make the best of my days rather than sulk and daydream.

    Savings wise, it sucked to go basically back to 0, but we’re both in a fortunate position of working in a well-paid job, and with hindsight I would not question the decision to trade savings for the experience of travelling. If you’re thinking about it and the timing feels right for you, sometimes you’ve just got to make the scary decision and trust that ‘future you’ will figure out the situation when you return. Hope you can make it work for yourself, I’m rooting for you!

    #42

    I did this for a little over a year! Got back a couple of months ago and thankfully was able to find work (tech) pretty quickly after.

    I have zero regrets and am so so happy I pulled the trigger! Obviously, i might feel a bit different if I hadn’t been able to find a new job so quickly.

    Traveling has put my savings and retirement behind but it was worth it.

    #43

    I did this for a year after 2023 tech layoffs like others mentioned. I was on a visa and had to leave the states quickly because I couldn’t find another senior design job in 60 days!

    I travelled around Mexico and Colombia and practiced Spanish. By around 8 months I kinda had travel fatigue and got sick of packing up and moving every month or so but I really enjoyed the little friend groups I made at each place.

    Early 30s is a great time to travel. Think of the opportunity cost. You can put off tech burnout and you might not have a hard time going back to work if you are in engineering.

    #44

    I quit my job in 2022 after I turned 30. During Covid I had worked a lot without having major expenses so I saved a lot of money which allowed me to think about travelling.
    Initially my plan was to travel for 3 months and rejoin ( I worked as a psychologist in a school) but I ended up traveling for 1.5 years as I was having the best time of my life.
    Not going to lie, once I got back, it was a bit bleak. I didn't want to continue the job (due to low salary) and it took me some time to figure out my options. I had lots of people tell me to try out in the tourism industry but I didn't want to change my career at the age of 32, which is exactly what I did and right now I am working with a tour company and honestly it's a dream job. So I lucked out.

    My advice here would be, only do it if you have enough money for this with some extra savings for some months after you get back from your travel and know when you are going to get back, you are probably going to be a different person because the entire travel experience changed me. For good.
    I had absolutely no idea what I wanted to do once I got back. I wish I got into tourism immediately rather than waiting for a year. That's something I wish I did differently.



    But I'd say, if you have money, do it. Southeast Asia is especially cheap. And this is a fantastic age to travel.

    #45

    I am currently four months into this myself - been in Japan since April (with a 2-week trip to visit an old buddy in Mongolia) and I’m about to head to Thailand for August then South Korea in September, potentially coming back to Japan in October thru December.

    I’m traveling solo and have found really good deals on long-term stays by contacting expat groups on FB and getting a way cheaper rate than thru Airbnb. I hate checking into and out of hotels constantly, so being in the same apartment for the last two months has helped me avoid feeling like I’m living out of a suitcase. Being able to cook and store food is amazing and don’t ignore that.

    #46

    The first time, no. Six months off after a brutal year of 80+ hr weeks to explore all of South America was worth it. I spent ~$4k/mo.

    The second time... I turned down phenomenal job offers that would've catapulted my career and life forward to backpack Europe, Africa, Asia instead. Not the worst trade, but I gained less and gave up more the second time.

    Get what you can out of travel, but don't let it distract you from building a life to come back to.

    #47

    Quit my job at 37 - had about $175k in cash and owned 4 rental properties that replaced my salary. Wish I could have quit in my 20s, but would never have been able to build that financial parachute. Travel only gets harder as you get older, that much I can say. Even in my late 30s, I'm not willing to put up with certain discomforts that didn't bother me in my 20s, like 16 person hostel dorms lol. I have been going all over the world, but I slow travel now.

    The big thing I want to say though: traveling will not fix you or make you happy if you are depressed or struggling. It actually may be a terrible idea, as it is frequently uncomfortable and challenges you, especially if you are going to countries where you don't speak the language. The good thing about traveling in yours 30s: I'm much more emotionally resilient than I was in my 20s - I've lost a parent, been through some stuff, built a business. A bad trip or experience rolls off me, where I used to take it more to heart in my 20s. It's all part of traveling. Good luck!

    #48

    My wife and I quit our jobs in our early 30s to take a 2 month European honeymoon. It was the trip of a lifetime and my favorite time of my life. No regrets whatsoever.

    #49

    Travel is great. But you’ll take yourself with you. You can change your daily grind to make it more enjoyable while also spending time travelling.

    #50

    No. I did this from 2022-23 and travelled for a little over a year.

    In retrospect, it was just the right time for it. COVID was still lingering somewhat, so over-tourism and inflation hadn't hit like they are now. I saw places like Venice and Angkor Wat with very few tourists.

    There are certainly things I would do differently knowing what I know now, and it did wipe out my savings that I had built during the pandemic. But it allowed me to quit a job that I hated and I don't regret it for a minute. I think about those travel experiences every day and cherish them more than any material possessions.

    #51

    I only regret running out of money and not being in a great position to make a lot more quickly before my bucket list was complete.

    #52

    At the age of 21 I quit a job in telecomms to travel. I was away for 5 years and when I returned home, all my knowledge was outdated, the industry was downsizing. I went back to travel after 18 months of odd jobs and came back with a spouse and kids 3 years after that. That was decades ago and I never really caught up financially with my peers who stayed at home and retired after 30 years or so in their line of work.

    Most retired before the age of 60 whereas I'll be 70 soon and although it's not an absolute necessity, my wife figures she's more comfortable if I put in a few more years, since I don't have a company pension unlike most fo the folks we know. I don't regret my travels but if I had to do it again I figure I might have been better off if I had had a trade that doesn't involve too much technology (nothing changes like tech.) instead of a diploma, and also I wouldn't have stayed away from my home country for so long. When you come back in your field or any new job at the age of 33, there are lots young folks who already have years in with the firm and know their way around and don't mind trying to boss the old person around...

    #53

    I can’t speak to your career field necessarily but I’m all for living your life in a way that actually feels fulfilling rather than just being a part of a machine and waking up when you’re 45 wondering what it’s like to feel alive. Not that travel is the only way to live a fulfilling life, but I have a feeling you’d figure it out.

    #54

    I am doing it right now in my 40s. Left everything behind in storage to travel for 7 months.

    #55

    I quit my job for a year and spent the time traveling, taking classes, starting personal projects, and just doing what I’ve always wanted to do. However, I only felt comfortable doing this because I was solid in my career (8 years). It’s a relatively high-paying career in a specified field that I felt confident I would be able to rejoin after that time off. I could also afford to come in at a role 1-2 levels below and still be fine financially. I also had tens of thousands in savings and a couple hundred thousand in investments, so I also felt confident that I could go even longer without a job in the worst case scenario.

    After ~10 months not working, I started applying. Got several interviews and got a job offer within 1.5 months at a great company. So personally, I would get more work experience under your belt because < 2 years of experience + 6-12 months of voluntary travel essentially relegates you to the same category as inexperienced new grads. And from what I hear, they’re having a terrible time in this current job market.

    #56

    The upside of having a bad job is you've got little to lose by leaving it to go travel.

    #57

    I was laid off and did it. It was great. I just recommend ending your apartment lease if you have one. Looking back I wish I travelled longer if anything and let go of more financial obligations.

    #58

    I quit my job and sold everything to go on a working holiday to NZ and Australia. Plan was 3 years. It's been 6, and I am having a hard time imagining a life outside of Australia at this point.

    #59

    I usually take temporary contracts (6 - 18 months), and travel in between. A few times I've been offered to come back to the job after I've got back from travelling because it's easier for them to give me unpaid leave rather than hire someone new. It's also generally easier to get a temp contract because not as many people apply for those roles.

    #60

    I took a six months leave of absence and went around the world. I told my boss about it a year in advance. As the date got closer they offered me incentives not to go, but no way! They did want me to continue working there, so were supportive.

    This was 1998, so no doubt prices have gone up, but it cost about $22k total! We didn’t stay in fancy places but they mostly were not dumps, either. I miss those days.

    #61

    I left my job and went travelling for 4 months. Zero regrets! I was refused a sabbatical so off I went. It made me rethink what I wanted to do and if it wasn’t for my personal circumstances I’d do it again!

    #62

    My advice, if it's your first time planning a big trip alone, is to be somewhat modest. This isn't about going to the most difficult to get to, most exotic location. You can absolutely have an amazing, life changing experience even if you just road trip within your own country. 


    Be mostly practical in your approach, with a touch of wild dreamer. Ie, if you've never traveled internationally, maybe don't make your first adventure a maze of international travel to ten different countries with all sorts of visa requirements. You're gonna be stressed AF and one little mistake could ruin the trip. Do one country for all three months. Or do a guided multi country thing with a travel agency.


    Be honest with yourself about your comfort level, and remember that this isn't the only time you'll ever have a chance to do this!! Your goal here is to have a good experience, relax, break free of the productivity mindset; if that means staying within your home country to start, that is a great idea. 


    I discovered things I didn't even know existed in my own country, found a new passion, overcame fears, and grew so much as a person without ever crossing a border. If I had tried to plan a gigantic trip overseas to all of the places I've dreamed of visiting, I think I would have had to deal with a lot more anxiety and ultimately not enjoyed it as much. 


    Now that I have built my confidence in my planning skills and the fact that I won't be destitute upon my return, I am working on an international trip. .

    #63

    Yes I did it. Quit my job in a call centre after saving up for a year. I was 24. Left UK in January 1997, returned the following February. Travelled round the world, had a 1 year working visa for Australia (repo man for Radio Rentals; mail clerk in David Jones). Best thing I ever did, and would recommend it. If you hate it, or it’s wrong for you, promise yourself you’ll just come home. But you won’t 🙂.

    #64

    Recommend. A lot will become clear as you do this, and you will return to your career with better priorities.

    #65

    It’s been great. Took 18 months off to travel Asia, spent half of our house down payment fund. Returned to the US last April, landed a job within 4 weeks that I absolutely love. Traveled to El Salvador, Chile, and Ecuador for “normal people” 1-2 week vacations. Closing on a house next month. Life is good.

    #66

    Slightly longer than your requested timeframe. 


    Quit my corporate job in 2018. Lived out of a backpack traveling the world with my wife for 2 years. Came back to USA and lived in a van for a year. Got a job 4 years ago (software developer).


    We got tired of traveling. It's hard to constantly change your home base and always be doing something new in remote places in countries where your not a native. I started to get de sensitized to the amazing things we got to see and do. Today's erupting volcano wasn't as good as the alpine waterfall we saw last week or the rainforest we saw the week before, ect. We needed to slow down and find a better way to have a comfortable home base. Van life solved this for me, would have happily continued to do it if not for COVID. 


    Both my wife and I had jobs within 4 weeks of applying to new positions. Admittedly the market was better in 2021. 


    I don't think I would do much if anything different. If you're willing to take the plunge, there is a wonderful full world out there with endless adventures. It's uncomfortable and challenging at times to navigate it, but when you figure it out, I can't explain how amazing your experiences can be. The good and bad change you and help you grow. I'd rather take the time when I'm younger to go experience the world and new perspectives.

    #67

    I was 31, spent $26k staying out of the US for 8 months. Australia, NZ, SE Asia. Would absolutely do it again in a f*****g heartbeat. Believe people when they say life is short.

    #68

    Quit a bad job in my early 30s, moved to Brazil to live with my girlfriend for almost a year. Was the most incredible year.

    Now married to said woman and working a better job with better people. Eventually going to retire in Brazil (hopefully in under 10 years) and do something fun with my life there.

    I did miss out on a lot of earnings and a little bit of career mobility, but it’ll be a wash in the end. Don’t regret it for a moment.

    #69

    Certainly never great to do this as a new professional in an engineering discipline because there is a lot to learn in the early years to establish your career.

    That said, if you do it extremely early in your career, you’re going to be an entry-level employee either way when you return 🤷‍♂️ Early is often easier than later.

  • Tuesday 23 June 2026 - 14:07

    Sometimes, we see people in toxic relationships and wonder why they stay despite all the trouble. The truth is that we can’t really judge anyone, as we don’t know the internal affairs. Despite that, watching the victims finally walk away can feel like our own victory.

    Speaking of such couples, this woman didn’t even realize that she was stuck in an emotionally violent relationship. Her boyfriend of 7 months was so jealous that he made ridiculous rules to control her whole life, until she felt like she was going crazy. Here’s how she finally stood up for herself…

    More info: Reddit

    Sometimes, people don’t even realize that they are in a toxic relationship, even when everyone else can see it

    A toxic guy looking at the camera, leaning against a metal structure with another guy blurred in the background, highlighting the jealousy and rules.

    Image credits: teksomolika / Magnific (not the actual photo)

    The poster’s boyfriend of 7 months was extremely jealous and made ridiculous “rules” just so he could control everything about her

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    He also tried to manipulate when, what, and for how long she could speak with her guy friends, and fought even if she smiled at a guy

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    In fact, he constantly broke into arguments when she chatted with her close guy friend, and got annoyed if she got his texts when she was with him

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    The poster’s boyfriend had gaslighted and manipulated her so much that she actually started to believe that she was being an awful girlfriend to him

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    Netizens called the guy a massive red flag, as he had also displayed violent tendencies, and they opened her eyes to the fact that she was in a toxic relationship

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    She soon gave an update that the guy had totally flipped when she went out with her friends and had dinner with them instead of him

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    Moreover, he also threw a fit that she didn’t “act like a couple” in front of her childhood friend, who was visiting, and had a massive fight

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    They also had a tiff when she got a text from her guy friend, and the frustrated poster realized that she was done with his toxic behavior

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    Moreover, the poster was horrified when she went through his phone and found flirty texts with his ex, which was very hypocritical of him

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    The poster wanted to end things with him for good, but he begged her to wait till his exams, so she controlled herself, but she had emotionally checked out

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    Netizens urged the poster to end things at the earliest, but they also showered her with love and strength as she was feeling ashamed of herself

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    Much to their delight, she gave an update that she broke up with him, but even then, he kept accusing her of being “inappropriate” with her guy friends

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    She graduated from college and planned to stay with her parents for some time, while also trying to heal from all the trauma that he had caused

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    The poster was still full of self-doubt, scared for the future, and missed being with him, but felt that letting go of him was the best thing that she had done

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    Netizens were more than delighted that the poster finally took a stand for herself and got rid of the guy before anything untoward happened

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    She also gave a happy update after 2 years, claiming that healing from the trauma had been very challenging, but therapy had helped her a lot

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    The poster was finally able to settle down, get a new job, and a new apartment, so she was more than enjoying her newfound freedom

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    She also had a piece of advice for people stuck in such a toxic relationship, that letting go can be difficult, but in the end, anyone can do it to reclaim their life

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    Not only was she still in touch with her guy bestie, whom her ex had fought over, but she also had new female friends that he wouldn’t have allowed her to have

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    Lastly, she also spilled the tea about her new boyfriend, who was the exact opposite of toxic, and she was very happy to be in a healthy relationship

    Today’s tale is quite traumatizing, but it has a joyful ending for the 25-year-old original poster (OP). She had been with her boyfriend, “Peter,” for 7 months and felt like she had found the perfect guy. However, there was a darker side to him, which was his extreme jealousy. That’s why he made a long list of ridiculous rules about what, when, and how much she could talk with her guy friends.

    It also included things she could wear, what she said, how she lived, and you get the gist. Basically, he wanted to control every aspect of her life. As if this was not enough, things exploded because she often chatted with her close friend, “James.” In fact, Peter manipulated and gaslit her so much that the poor woman started to believe she was an awful girlfriend.

    Not only did they have constant arguments and fights, but she also lost good friends because of his jealousy. Peter turned her whole life into a nightmare, as anything she did on her own would upset him. However, things got heated when she noticed that he was being a hypocrite. While he banned her from talking to her ex, he was exchanging flirtatious texts with his ex, and the OP was utterly upset.

    After months of suffering, the author did eventually dump him, despite his protests that he would “change.” Even while breaking up, he accused her of being inappropriate with her guy friends. That’s when she knew she had made the right decision, but healing was still very difficult. Delightfully enough, she gave an update 2 years later, saying her life had turned for the better after ditching him.

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    Netizens were delighted by the poster’s joyful ending, but also expressed their sympathy that she had to go through the trauma in the first place. Sadly, a study revealed that 40% of women in their survey reported expressive aggression and 41% reported coercive control. It further stressed that the effects of emotional violence were just as detrimental as the effects of physical mistreatment. 

    Moreover, researchers highlight that victims of psychological cruelty almost lose their identity and emotional security, which breeds anxiety and fear. They add that “it takes away the wonderful, positive characteristics of their nature and seeks to replace them with false truths and negative images. It attempts to hijack the personal power and sense of self for the benefit and control of the manipulator.”

    We can’t even begin to imagine what the original poster went through in those few months. Experts emphasize that experiencing emotional cruelty is difficult, but recovering from it can also be pretty challenging. Some survivors may experience PTSD, constant fear, or even feel that they are always on edge, but therapy definitely helps them deal with this difficult process.

    Well, I am glad that the author sought professional help and got better. I think that even netizens heaved a huge sigh of relief after knowing that she was doing so well in life after leaving him. It just goes to show that no matter how tough, humans can overcome anything they set their mind to, right? What are your thoughts about the story? Feel free to drop them in the comments section!

    Netizens were overjoyed by the positive ending, and many applauded the poster for walking away and seeking professional help

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  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 11:25

    It doesn’t matter with whom your partner cheats; it hurts nonetheless. However, sometimes it hurts more when they do it with someone you’re close to. Unfortunately, that’s the case for many cheating stories, as research shows that only around 15% of cheaters are unfaithful with strangers or casual acquaintances.

    The husband in this story cheated with his wife’s best friend, so she was betrayed by two of the most important people in her life. A few years later, after she recovered and established her small baking business, she heard from the couple again — they wanted to hire her for their child’s birthday. Here she faced a dilemma: should she accept the money and risk drama, or just refuse and keep her peace?

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    After the divorce, she was able to pick herself up, but heard from her BFF again when she was least expecting it

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    Commenters had no sympathy for the best friend: “She ‘won’ a bad husband”

    Later, her best friend came to her with a request to bake a cake for her son’s birthday

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    “I need [to] mentally prepare myself for every kind of scenario,” the woman wrote in the comments

    Some advised her to take the order, others recommended staying out of the drama and keeping her peace

    In the end, she decided to accept the job: “It looked too good to pass”

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    Thus commenced one of the most awkward kids’ birthday parties in history

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    Commenters praised the woman for handling the party with such decorum: “You have just slayed your dragon”

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 10:15

    Many people dream about starting a family with their partner for years. They can’t wait to get married, settle down, and bring a baby into the world. And for a lot of couples, becoming parents brings them much closer together. 

    But unfortunately, after one man became a father, he couldn’t help but wonder whether or not his “daughter” was actually his. Below, you’ll find the full story that he posted on Reddit, desperately seeking advice, as well as some of the replies invested readers left him.

    Becoming a parent is sure to change a person’s life

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    But this man couldn’t shake the nagging feeling that his daughter might not actually be his

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    Some readers encouraged the author not to panic, while others said he should definitely get the DNA test to put his mind at ease

    Then, the author shared an update on his situation

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    The majority of Americans have been cheated on in a romantic relationship

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    When a married couple finds out that they’re expecting, there’s typically no doubt in anyone’s mind that both spouses are the parents of the child. There’s no need for a paternity test.

    But we’ve all heard stories about adults who suddenly found out who their real father was once they were in their twenties or about women who kept secrets about the paternity of their baby. So unfortunately, stories like this one are not unheard of.

    According to data from the Survey Center on American Life, 57% of young women say that infidelity is very or extremely common, and 44% of young men say the same. Another study found that one in ten married individuals in the United States is still on at least one dating site.     

    Meanwhile, a YouGov survey found that over half of Americans have been cheated on by a romantic partner, either physically, emotionally, or both. However, the same study found that the majority of relationships can actually survive cheating. 

    The situation does become a bit more complicated when there is a child involved, though. It’s estimated that historically in Europe, about 1% of all children born were the result of an affair. But the knowledge of this child can be the most devastating for an unsuspecting spouse.

    Apparently, between 20% and 40% of divorces are linked to infidelity, and only 44% of women who cheated on their spouses are still married. It can be difficult enough to accept that your spouse has been unfaithful, but when there’s a child in the picture, they can be a constant reminder of marriage vows being broken.

    Nearly one-third of men who feel the need to ask for a paternity test find out that they’re not the father

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    Clinical psychologist Dr. Michael Wetter, PsyD, told Celebrity Parents Magazine that there is no exact timeframe when it comes to how long it will take people to accept news like this. 

    “It depends on how secure the communication and trust are,” Dr. Wetter explains. “It’s going to be painful and a little more raw initially, but if we talk about when it first occurs, it doesn’t have to take 10 years. Within six months to a year, something could be achievable, but it depends on the dynamics.”

    He notes that it’s a different scenario, however, when the person finds out years later that their partner had a child with someone else. In that case, the person will go through a process of loss and grieving, along with a feeling of betrayal. “It’s a lot,” Dr. Wetter says.

    In this particular story, the father was extremely torn about whether or not to ask for a paternity test. But according to DNA Diagnostics Center, nearly one-third of men who ask for a paternity test find out that they are not actually the father. 

    Whether it was intuition telling them that something was wrong or simply bad luck, it’s important for men to be prepared for some difficult news if they feel the need to ask for a DNA test.  

    We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. How would you have handled things if you were in the author’s shoes? Feel free to weigh in, and then you can find another Bored Panda article discussing similar family drama right here.     

    However, some readers weren’t satisfied with the ending

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 08:50

    Nobody’s perfect. Everyone has annoying quirks that you are often better off simply ignoring. Not just for your peace of mind, but also for the relationship. However, when you spend years together with a person, some of their habits might become unavoidable.

    So when a Reddit post asked men to share the grossest things they’ve discovered about their long-term partners, many were able to contribute. From strange sandwich “recipes” to more unsettling personality traits, the answers covered a wide spectrum, too.

    #1

    She likes peanut butter and mayonnaise sandwiches.

    #2

    That her boundaries are concrete solid and never to be questioned and my boundaries is just me being an unreasonable vindictive a*****e.

    #3

    My ex wife her new shiny toy personality.

    Nothing was ever enough for her.

    TikTok and insta made it so much worse. She always had to have the new it purse or hobby. After a month and thousands of dollars. Never touch it again.

    She was that way with our pets.

    In the end of our marriage she was that way with me.

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    #4

    I love my fiance so very very much. But the used balled up tissues are everywhere. I swear our apartment has added flammability from the amount of wadded up tissues just being present.

    © Photo: ImSteady413

    #5

    Stuffed soiled baby diapers under my couch because her fat a*s was too lazy to get up and walk 8 feet to the garbage can. I found them a month after she moved out and my house still stank.

    #6

    I dated a girl that would 100% pee the bed when intoxicated. Waking up to pissed on sheets when we were both hungover was not cool. That was many years ago, and she has been sober for nearly 20 years.

    #7

    Her AO3 fanfic’s reads are often weirder than any p**n I’ve ever seen on the internet.

    © Photo: rustedforwhat

    #8

    She's an ex. But she was eating boogers. Yeah I know, we were licking each other's privates, but seeing her out of the corner of my eye, while watching a movie, picking her nose and eating that booger was a real showstopper for me.

    © Photo: reedshut

    #9

    When we have leftover pasta my wife carefully, meticulously washes her hands, then *grabs* the leftover noodles from the pot and places them into a ziplock bag, instead of using the tongs.


    She says that it's because "evolution made the human hand the most efficient grasping tool."


    I once asked her to use the tongs and she informed me that, "not even God could stop her from grabbing spaghetti".

    © Photo: Crappler319

    #10

    My ex would order a side salad at a restaurant and when pouring the dressing on and when the small cup was empty, instead of using a fork or spoon to scrape the sides of the dressing cup onto the salad, would LICK the cup and proceed to SPIT the dressing on her salad. IN PUBLIC. At home too obviously, still disgusting, but in public!?!?! I refused to take her to any restaurant nicer than a Waffle House. 🤢.

    © Photo: pinky728

    #11

    Prob minor, but she s***s with the door open and one time even asked me to wipe her a*s when she painted her nails and didnt want to mess them up.

    © Photo: Perkis_Goodman

    #12

    She defrauded her grandparents out of a degree’s worth of tuition to fund our lifestyle and lied about obtaining a degree and still benefits from it to this day in her career that doesn’t validate education. I actually only figured that out after the break up and years after the fact of us both “graduating”.

    © Photo: flubberguard29

    #13

    My girlfriend and I wash our towels once a week. Not great not horrible I don’t mind as long as I feel clean after I shower.

    Found out my girlfriend uses her towel to dry the floor including around the toilet of any water that drips past the mat after she steps out. She then hangs it back up again to use tomorrow.

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    #14

    She keeps her toothbrush and toothpaste in a cup, pointed down. Said cup collects run off water and gets DISGUSTING. Like, just keep them pointed *up* in a holder that doesn't collect water.

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    #15

    She puts ketchup on her chicken noodle soup.

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    #16

    Her car is a mess all the time. Disgusting.

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    #17

    The state of her desktop or the 10k+ unopened emails in her inbox.

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    #18

    After I broke up with my gf we had to move out and she refused to come clean the apt so I had to do the whole thing myself. Found her booger wall.

    © Photo: hipposaver

    #19

    Her side of the bathroom looks like when the sirens go off in Silent Hill.

    © Photo: AnameAmos

    #20

    Telling me she prefers the drunk me over the sober me.

    #21

    Gave me an insane amount of c**p about cancelling a scheduled date because I had to drive my grandma back to her hometown (she was hospitalized in the city I lived and discharged for hospice). Grandma practically wanted to d*e in her home as a last request. I really liked my gf but I couldn't handle the disrespect and resentment after she told me her feelings were valid and I should have apologized for cancelling. I broke up with her the week after.

    #22

    Had me help her raise her young son, and had me pay for pretty much everything for 5 years.

    She inherited a lot of money from her grandmother and bounced out of her relationship. Within weeks, she bought a new car, a home, and a trip to Europe.

    The worst thing is that she said unforgivable things to break off our relationship--that I never did anything for her and for her son. It was terrible. I was a dad to her son when he needed one. And, yes, I still have a relationship with him.

    #23

    My ex-girlfriend removed a bloody tampon to have s*x with me, wrapped in a tissue and dropped it under the bed. I found it still laying there about a week later. Asked her why she did not put it away. She told me that I should have since I was the one who wanted to have s*x with her.

    #24

    My wife is a 10. Now I don't mean she's a 10 to me, and I love her so she's a 10. No, she's insanely f*****g hot.

    I only say that to say this. This girl takes the meanest s***s you've ever seen in your life. Like I'm talking a few times a week she leaves skidmarks in the toilet that would make a long haul trucker blush. I don't even know how it's possible. She's tiny. But I never know what I'm going to see after I lift the lid. It's like Roger Clemens took a s**t in his pitching hand and threw it full force into the toilet.

    Can anyone else relate? There aren't support groups for guys in my situation.

    © Photo: BaronVonTitties

    #25

    She s***s with the door open and stinks up the entire house. I’ve even complained about it but it’s so the cat can come in and watch her s**t. Seriously. We aren’t together anymore but wanted to mention.

    © Photo: Silver_Objective7144

    #26

    I love her dearly so I'm not really moved to disclose her lack of toothpaste tube hygiene with a bunch of strangers.

    © Photo: geodebug

    #27

    She peels her chicken nuggets and eats the skin and then the naked nugget.

    © Photo: RBWaves

    #28

    Sock, shoe, sock, shoe like a maniac.

    #29

    She wanted to declaw our new kitten, and then I realized she's always been a p.o.s. and we split.

    #30

    She had a blanket that she loved. She would only sleep with that blanket wherever she went. Brought it on trips and everything.

    I was not a fan of it, so I had my own blanket.

    One day I was being helpful and thought to wash the blanket. She scolded me about not using a regular washer due to its fragile nature. Since it’s silk or a silk like substance. It made me think of the entire time we had been together until that moment and I asked when it was last cleaned. She couldn’t give me a date and we had been together over 15 years by this point. I nearly threw up instantly.

    #31

    Mine throws her toilet paper in the trash after using it. The kids do the same now. im trying to break the habit, because why??? also, so much hair everywhere all the time….

    #32

    At the end of the day she takes out her single use contacts and flicks them anywhere she pleases.

    #33

    It wasn’t his fault, but what came out when he got food poisoning 🤢 poor guy.. I’ve never seen stuff projectile from both ends of the body. Got on ceilings, walls.. the dog. It was bad.

    #34

    Popped the staph abscess on my b**t.

    Doc wasn't able to lance it, but she went in and got it immediately with no further complications. Thing kept me from sitting down properly for a week.

    It was a nasty job and I am still so grateful to her. She is a saint. We're getting married :).

    #35

    This ex revealed he was diagnosed sociopath so he did a bunch of disgusting things but if we’re talking sanitary disgusting… I found a pile of dirty panties in his closet. None were mine. All different sizes. A PILE. USED AND DIRTY.

    #36

    Mostly her personality.

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    #37

    Turns out adorable sweet ladies fart too. Farts that are so putrid and noxious that they can cause you to awaken from a d**d sleep in a state of panic.

    © Photo: That-Web5867

    #38

    She’s a mess. What she calls organized makes me cringe. She is bossy. She sheds like a cat. Gives me dirty looks when I eat. Farts like a buffalo. She’s a great mom. Hard worker. Supports me and all my weirdness. She covers every flaw I have and I cover hers. Together we make one hell of a human.

    #39

    How f*****g mean she is.

    #40

    I tried to look past a lot of things. Her messy clothes, messy car, messy room. She rarely had to wash a dish, vacuum a floor, or do a load of laundry while we were together. I had it covered, at least for a while.

    Though the straw that broke the camel's back was her hygiene. Never showered or brushed her teeth. It was physically repulsive. I can't make love to someone like that. The subtle hints didn't work. She'd just get b******t.

    I really tried to make it work but I can't live my life perpetually exhausted and disgusted by someone.

    #41

    The hair ends up EVERYWHERE.

    #42

    She never deletes the old alarms set on her phone, just makes a new one. There's so many now it's too big a job to correct.

    #43

    My ex is leaving in less than 10 days. Went through the process to evict her, and her man-child. Personally, I believe a home should be clean and presentable, organized, and things put away. Yes I give room for “lived in,” because that’s normal. After I sold my home and bought the one we just moved in to, I realized more and more it was just a constant stream of boundary violations from her, and her man-child:

     

    1) Cleanliness. Great example of that, is I asked for things not to be thrown, dropped, and left on stairwells. It’s a safety hazard. It’s also very demoralizing because it shows that, “this is what I think of you, you are to clean up after me.” After I explained to her why it’s rude to expect someone else to clean up after you with this regard, she burst out laughing. Wherever she went in the house, a trail of trash, dishes, empty Amazon packages, medication bottles, insulin pens and much more would follow. And remain. And grow.

    2) Responsibility. Her man-child has no job, no license, no desire to improve or contribute. It’s hard to get him to lend help to actually “do” anything in regards to upkeep of the home, or projects. When she told me, “if he doesn’t want to drive, he doesn’t have to. We will figure it out.” The phrase “we” turns out she was dumping responsibility on me 90% of the time, if not more. In this regard, it was to mean I would have to chauffeur him to and from a job, if he ever got one. After two months of “job searching,” I offered to check his indeed profile (and subsequently his email account), to see how I could help him. Quickly discovered he was in fact, not looking. Zero applications or saves on Indeed. No email receipts of applied for jobs. But boy, could he tell me what the latest patch notes were in WoW Classic at the drop of a hat.

    3) Finances. She told me upfront in saying she made $100-150k. Great! I was mid range of those two numbers. She was in fact, not making that much and had $40k in credit card debt alone. She was expecting me to pay off her pre-relationship debts with the sale of my home that I had owned well before I ever met her.

     

    More and more things registered for me this year after the move when she couldn’t disguise her lies anymore and I’d be doing 90-95% of the cleaning, the driving, paying for 100% of the groceries…

    I’m sure when they vacate, I’ll find a pile of moldy wash cloths in the shower, as she just drops them on the floor.

    Freedom is coming soon, and I’m excited for the next chapter in my life.

    #44

    For years i refused to enter my gfs car. On the outside it was horrible abd what little inside I could see was aweful. Finally, I had to get her to drive me somewhere and I entered something far worse then I expected. It was a science experiment of rotting Starbucks coffees, makeup residue, and makeup fingerprints on everything she touched.

    I was shocked since she would complain if I left a single hair in the shower/sink. Yet m, she enters this rotting coprse of a vehicle.

    #45

    She’ll take out condiments to use and then either leave them out in random places in the house or put them on the deeper shelf in the back of the fridge.

    Put them in the door like a gentleman! She’s an animal! Where is my ranch woman! Where’s my mustard! I’m disgusted.

    Buying ranch dressing and then not knowing where the hell it is is the 7th level of hell.

    #46

    One of my exes would use the packet ranch dressing mix to make an entire huge bowl of ranch dressing, then sit down with a bag of carrots and eat the entire bowl. Thinking about it still makes me gag.

    #47

    She has 3 cats and they're not super house trained. One was a barn cat first, and that one and the youngest aren't spayed, so when the third older cat got introduced it became a free for all of territory p**s wars.

    We never spent much time at her house for years and I found out she had been airing out the house before I came over every time. I lost power at my house and she offered to let me stay at her house for a few days to have hot showers and such.

    I found a half inch of standing urine under the elements of her stove. A pile of clothes that was virtually drenched. I had always given her shkt for not cleaning the litter box which was what I assumed smelled. Nope it was the whole house. We live together now and I clean all the cat messes, because that's the only way we can live together.

    #48

    My ex used to wipe his personal emissions on his side of the bare mattress and box spring. I never noticed. We used to make our bed together and he would always take care of his side and put the clean fitted sheet over the layers of crust... I didn't notice until I was making the bed alone one day and I was horrified.

    #49

    (Now ex) never washed his hands even after using the toilet... took a few trips to the dr before realising he was the problem.

    #50

    Picked something out of his teeth and wiped it on my blanket.

    #51

    Ghosted while I was undergoing treatment for the cervical cancer he gave me after lying about his STI status. He was cheating, a lot. We'd been together for three years.

    ETA: The ghosting during cancer treatment was the "most disgusting" part, not the STI status thing. That part is horrible etiquette for anybody s******y active, you should always be safe, get tested regularly and be completely honest with partners, but it is not inherently "disgusting" to get an STI. Stigma around that is dangerous for everyone, so I wanted to be explicitly clear and not add to any shame around it.

    #52

    After seven years, I found out she actually loves me? The f**k?

    © Photo: ProfessorSmooth7135

    #53

    That she farts and poops I guess? But my farts and poops are way worse. Go figure.

    I honestly love my wife so much, that nothing disgusts me about her. I wish I was just being cheesy, but that’s just how I feel.

    © Photo: Dezmanispassionfruit

    #54

    She takes off her underwear WITH her jeans / leggings. I do all of the laundry (and she cooks), but having to pull her underwear out from her jeans every time she takes off a pair adds 2-3 minutes every load! ANNOYING .

    © Photo: Sealky

    #55

    That her hair would destroy our vacuum without regular disassembly and clean out.

    We now have 3 hair monsters so it ends up to be a basketball size hairball each time.

    At least she is a good sport about the "Trophy" photos I send her.

    © Photo: Best-Company2665

    #56

    She never uses the shift key when she types. She turns the caps lock off and on with each capital letter.

    #57

    I always new that she had dozens upon dozens of tabs open at once. But one time I saw her minimize down to the desktop. Good god. The had thousands of things saved to her desktop. Did you know that once you fill up the desktop, things start stacking on top of each other? Her whole desktop was huge stacks of icons, none of it in any sort of order whatsoever. She has a folder called "To sort" and in that folder is hundreds of random files, including another nested "to sort" file with more s**t in it. Presumably there are more "to sort" files as you go deeper. I don't know how deep it goes, and frankly, I don't want to know.

    #58

    I have been with my wife since 2001. I recently learned that she doesn't use the gmail app. She just ... goes to gmail.com and manually logs on using her phone's internet browser.

    #59

    We'd been together for 3 years, but I'd never actually seen her naked. Every time we were intimate, she'd insist on turning off the lights. Finally one day, I got a little impatient and asked what was it going to take for me to actually see her without her clothes on, and she told me "I need about tree fiddy." It was about that time I noticed my "girlfriend" was actually about 8 stories tall and was a crustacean from the Plethazoic Era! Absolutely disgusting.

    #60

    She put the toilet paper under the roll. Had to go.

    #61

    The little hairballs all over my shower walls.

    #62

    My wife would probably say the time we were messing about and I licked her eyeball. The honest to god ball.

    It was indescribably smooth. Like, it made glass feel like 36 grit sandpaper.

    Edit: No it wasn't painful at all. The taste was just a mild salty flavour.

    #63

    Milk before cereal.

    #64

    She genuinely loves me, which means she has bad taste...idiot!

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    No matter where you come from or where you’re going, what unites all of us is the embarrassment we have felt—at some point in our lives—of getting a disastrous haircut. Whether at your own hands or those of a misguided stylist, some hairdos are not meant to see the light of day.

    However, the ‘Just [Eff] My [Stuff] Up’ online community thinks differently. It invites everyone to share the very worst haircuts “from all walks of life,” and the results are both hilarious and painful to look at. We’ve collected our favorite cringey hairdos to share with you. If you have ever regretted getting a haircut before, this is the post for you.

    #1 Why They Do Him Like That?

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    #2 You Know What It Is

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    #3 Close Enough

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    Looking good feels awesome. We don’t know about you, but we feel fresh, fine, and confident when we look good. A new hairdo or outfit can do wonders for your self-esteem. But unfortunately, we can’t always control how our hair will look. If you don’t have a trusted stylist whom you’ve been going to for years (or sometimes literal decades!), it can be tough to build that relationship from scratch.

    No matter who your stylist is, what you—the client—must bring to the table is good communication. The best thing you can do is help them understand what it is that you want, and they can then give you their professional opinion.

    #4 Barber: What Would You Like? Him: Short Back And Shepherd's Pie Please

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    #5 Grandpa’s Definitely Behind This

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    #6 Just Found This Sub And I Think I Qualify!

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    The fact of the matter is that unless your hairstylist has known you for years or can literally read minds, there will probably be a disconnect between a few things. Namely, between what you want, what they think you want, and what they can realistically achieve with their skills.

    So, the more detailed you are about the hairdo you want, the better for you and them. Don’t just describe what you want, but actually show your stylist or barber photos of the hairstyle you want to rock!

    These professionals are working with something incredibly visual, and your words might not always be enough to get your ideas through. What’s more, words can be misinterpreted. Photos, meanwhile, are very clear.

    #7 Once You Defeat All The Other Karens.. This Is The Final Boss

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    #8 Rip To This California Firefighter

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    #9 It Was Me, Thought I Could Save $20 By Cutting My Own Hair

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    “Start with showing the length you want, and find pictures of looks you could see yourself loving. Don't be afraid to be detailed and specific—hair stylists won't be offended, and actually prefer it,” Southern Living suggests.

    However, you can’t ignore the fact that not every stylist will be able to turn your vision into reality. The fact is that some professionals, though they earn a living, do not have the skills for every single hairdo project. A humble, grounded pro will let you know what they are comfortable doing and what is beyond their skills. Meanwhile, someone with an out-of-control ego or something to prove might take on a task beyond their league.

    #10 There Goes My Pet Grooming Career

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    #11 Illegal Immigrant Elon Musk

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    #12 My Uber Driver This Morning

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    Furthermore, a real pro knows which hairstyles work with which hair types and face shapes. You might have a fantastic idea for something really awesome, but it might not be the best look for you. Sure, the client is always right, but genuinely good stylists will offer their professional opinions about what you might want to consider doing. You can stick to your original vision and ignore their advice, but sometimes, the right thing to do is to amend your idea for something that’s more personalized.

    “Photos work better than words, but you must be considerate of your own natural texture, thickness, and styling habits. These will affect how closely your stylist is able to match the photos, so aim to bring something realistic while still aspirational. When in doubt, you can ask your stylist to recommend specific tweaks to your inspiration that will suit your hair type better,” Southern Living writes.

    #13 Do It !

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    #14 Idk Who The Hell This Is But, Man

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    #15 He Really Thinks No One Noticed

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    You have to be honest with yourself about your own skills, too.

    The Fade Club warns that you probably don’t want to do your own fade at home, as it is a technical style that is hard to master. And online tutorials won’t give you the skills that take a long time—sometimes literal years—to hone. The last thing you want is for your “cost-saving experiment” to end up in an “emergency barbershop visit to fix it.”

    Meanwhile, the hair salon stresses that nobody should blindly copy haircuts they see online. You have to consider whether the cut suits your face shape.

    “A haircut that looks great on someone with a chiseled jawline and high cheekbones might not have the same impact on a round or oblong face. Your face shape influences how your haircut frames your features. Not taking this into account can throw off the balance of your look, making your face appear too long, too wide, or even asymmetrical.”

    #16 To Her Barber: How Dare You?!

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    #17 The Plant Holder

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    #18 This One Polarized The Comments Section

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    Other things to keep in mind include getting regular haircuts to maintain your dashing good looks, using the right hair products, and actually washing your hair before your appointment at the hair salon. Furthermore, you have to choose the right stylist or barber for your hair type.

    “Not every barber has experience with every hair type or style. Curly, textured, straight, fine, or thick hair all require different techniques and tools. Some barbers specialize in fades and modern styles, while others excel in classic scissor cuts. Going to a barber who isn’t experienced with your hair type can lead to uneven results, poor shaping, or cuts that don’t suit your natural growth pattern,” The Fade Club suggests.

    #19 I Wonder If She'll Win

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    #20 Next Top Model Makeovers

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    #21 Did The Fire Alarm Go Off Inside His Barbers?

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    During an earlier interview with a professional barber from the UK, Bored Panda dove deep into the line between good and bad haircuts.

    “The main difference between avant-garde and plain bad for a haircut is the focus on details and the whole idea behind the haircut. You would think that haircuts like the bowl cut are never gonna be trendy. Wrong. It’s happening and thanks to extremely talented hairstylists, we see a lot of hipsters rocking a very fashionable bowl,” barber Giuliano Dore told our team earlier.

    #22 At My Daughter's High School Concert Rmhs

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    #23 Local Newsman From Northern Wisconsin

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    #24 Haircut My Husband Got At One Of Those "Mens" Salons

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    According to the barber, quality lies in the pattern, symmetry, and sometimes even controlled asymmetry. “If I see patchy haircuts, holes, or broken hairlines, I am gonna assume the worst,” Dore said.

    He also shared some advice for cutting your own hair at home. “If you want to cut your own hair at home, go with a safe option. Same-level buzz cuts are a safe choice.”

    “Home is not the place for challenging haircuts. For example, attempting a 0 to 2 high skin fade by yourself is not gonna work. Even professional barbers don’t do it themselves,” the barber told Bored Panda earlier.

    “Being able to cut just based on the reflection of a mirror takes a whole new level of 4D chess and not everyone is ready for the challenge. I would also avoid sharp tools like razor blades. It’s absolutely possible to rock a very decent hairline without using razor blades at home. Clippers are your friends.”

    #25 My Hair Before I Shaved It :)

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    #26 3 In 1

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    #27 What Would You Call This?

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    The ‘Just [Eff] My [Stuff] Up’ online group has been entertaining the internet with the very worst haircuts from “all walks of life” for nearly 12 years, since 2014. The community has become utterly massive. At the time of writing, the subreddit gets a mind-melting 761k visitors every single week. This mass of internet users garners a whopping 7k contributions every single week.

    The moderators who keep the group running emphasize that the goal of this community is comedy, not hate. Everyone is invited to gently laugh at people’s poor hairstyle choices, not poke fun at the individuals themselves. What’s more, certain things are off the table, such as sharing identifying information or shaming someone who is ill or injured.

    #28 Valentina Petrenko, Russian Politician And Former Senator

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    #29 Cosmetology Subreddit Told Me To Post Here This Is My Classmate

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    #30 8 Year Old Me After Trying To Shave Off My Baby Hairs In The Shower 😭 Feel Free To Laugh, Roast, Etc…

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    Tell us about the very worst haircut that you have ever gotten! What happened, and how did you react? Did you go to a professional hair salon, or did you try to beautify yourself at home with some rusty DIY skills?

    What do you look for in a hair stylist or barber these days? How do you explain to them exactly what you want to look like?

    Share your grievances, wins, and embarrassing moments in the comments at the bottom of this list!

    #31 I Was Told I Belong Here

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    #32 ”i Look Like A Worm”

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    #33 "Give Me The 'No Country For Old Men' Cut"

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    #34 Not Sure What You’d Call This One

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    #35 The 'Squatch

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    #36 This Was A 'Skin Fade'. I Got As Far As The Pub, My Mates Took This Picture And Promptly Ushered Me Back To Their House To Fix It

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    #37 Ryan Seacrest

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    #38 As Seen During The Super Bowl

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    #39 “How Did You Know I Was Iraqi”

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    #40 Japanese Exchange Student In Birmingham Asks For A Peaky Blinders Style Haircut

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    #41 Walter Jones (Black Power Ranger) In Disney’s Brink!

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    #42 First Time Cutting Myself. How We Feelin?

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    #43 What I Asked For, What I Got

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    #44 Hmm

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    #45 Oh Lawd

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    #46 Instagram Reels Is A Goldmine

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    #47 Home Perm Courtesy Of My Mom In The 70’s

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    #48 Mr. Half N Half

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    #49 I Deeply Regret Looking Up The Voice Actor Of Johnny Storm From The 1994 Fantastic Four Series On Imdb

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    #50 The King And Queen Of Jfmsu

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    #51 Real Life Photo Of A Reddit Mod

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    #52 It Was 2003, We Didn't Have Internet Fashion Tips Yet, Okay?

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    #53 That’s A Choice

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    #54 Rafael Nadal

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    #55 German Chancellor Friedrich Merz Spent 12.000€ Of Taxpayer Money On A Hairdresser Last Year

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    #56 Apologies If This Has Already Been Posted Here

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    #57 For Real Though

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    #58 I Got You, Bro

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    #59 An Ad I Just Got Served On Fb

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    #60 A Realtor In Our Area

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    #61 They're Like Teenage Toddlers With Tattoos

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    #62 Fox News Host And Former Us Representative Trey Gowdy

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    #63 Stupid Chud Uncle Messed Up My Style

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    #64 My Great Grandma

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    #65 Job Interview Haircut

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    #66 Prince Harry And His Lawyer (?)

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    #67 There Is So Much Going On Here

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    #68 I Genuinely Want To Cry

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    #69 What Do You Even Say To Get This?😭

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    #70 Longevity Award

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    #71 Throwback To The Time My Girlfriend Cut My Hair In The Early Days Of The Covid Pandemic

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    #72 Todd White, Evangelical Pastor

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    #73 I Was Told By 50 People My Cut Belongs Here

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    #75 Jermaine Jackson Being Seen For The First Time In 6+ Years

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    #76 Boneless Afro

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    #77 Illegal Immigrant Elon Musk

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    #78 Shi U Only See On TV

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    #79 What An Actual Domestic Terrorist Looks Like

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    #80 A Lot Going On Here

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    #81 A Dichotomy For You To Contemplate

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    #82 Peaches In A New Interview

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    #83 Maga Thug For Life!

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    #84 An Israeli Settler Harasses A Woman Outside Of Hebron, Palestine. Photographed By Pietro Masturzo For L'espresso Magazine

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  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    We often get the urge to laugh at the worst possible moment — a funeral, a hospital waiting room, or the middle of a very serious conversation.

    Don’t worry, you are not alone, and you are not a monster.

    Recently, netizens shared moments when they laughed only to realize later it wasn’t a joke. The responses are funny as well as mortifying.

    One person giggled when a colleague said his car was on fire, and it genuinely was. Another burst out laughing when a friend mentioned their grandmother choked on a banana and passed away. Most said the regret hit almost immediately. But by then, the chuckle had already escaped.

    These aren’t wicked or evil laughs. Just a human reflex — and there’s a surprisingly fascinating reason why your brain does it.

    Keep reading to find out about it.

    #1

    I was chatting with an elderly security guard at the movies and he was talking about having a degree he never used. He said "now, I only use it to decorate my bedroom wall." I laughed and he said " you laugh now, I laugh about it sometimes, but I cry most of the time".

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    #2

    I was taking a cave tour in West Virginia and at one point the tour guide said "Scientists believe that these markings on the rocks were made by erosion from rainfall over time. But WE know that it was actually created by the waters from Noah's flood." I laughed unpleasantly and involuntarily, and the guide glared at me for the rest of the trip.

    #3

    This happened to me a few days ago. I received a private facebook message of what I can only call word soup. It was seemingly random, but just barely cohesive enough to make sense at times.. like really riding that uncanny valley.


    I assumed it was some sort of bot that used markov chains (like /r/subredditsimulator) from scraping posts on my friends list because it had references to things, places and people I knew and even posted photos from people's albums.


    So, I screenshotted it and posted it because it was legitimately hilarious. I mean it had such winners as "IF your her love you have to prove all others are inferior to you in bed, with Jill."


    I was like, "Hey everyone, check out the weird ramblings of this bot!"


    An hour or so later, I got a message from another friend that explained that this was actually an old mutual friend from high school who had suffered a psychotic break and was schizophrenic. Sometimes he goes off his meds, or his family doesn't keep an eye on him and he makes tons of facebook accounts and messages this s**t to people. They'd been getting them for years, and I must have fallen into his crosshairs.


    Suddenly it wasn't so funny anymore and was rather tragic. I deleted the post and continued to block the next 6-7 aliases that kept sending stuff like that all night. Went from hilarious, to sad, to alarming in the span of a few hours.

    This bizarre malfunction is officially called nervous laughter, or dimorphous expression.

    It’s when one emotion, like fear or grief, produces the outward expression of its opposite.

    When a situation gets too dark or uncomfortable, your brain panics and searches for an escape hatch. Inappropriate laughter then works as a psychological shield.

    A 2015 study from Yale University found that our brains use “incongruous expressions,” such as crying when happy or laughing when terrified, to restore balance.

    When you are hit with an overwhelming wave of negative emotion, your brain forces out a positive one to stop you from having a complete meltdown.

    #4

    I have a slight hearing problem, which has led to several awkward faux pas situations. The worst one was when I was a cashier at Walgreens.

    A woman came up to pay and I asked how she was doing and she replied with a sigh and a "Oh I just found out..." I couldn't hear the second part so I asked her to repeat. I still couldn't hear the second part and I didn't want to make her keep repeating, but her delivery sounded like a dry joke so I just politely laughed.

    She gave me the dirtiest look and said "What's so funny about my husband having cancer?"

    I definitely heard her that time.

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    #5

    Please keep in mind, I was, like, 11.

    Back when I lived in a a foster group home, me and some of the older guys were playing on the Xbox. One of my foster brothers stopped and started making funny faces at me. He was a chill guy and we got along well and joked together, so I laughed and made faces back.

    He was having a seizure.

    #6

    Monday morning guy comes up to my desk says my car is on fire I respond laughing and saying okay. Guy say no I am serious, look out office window 10 foot flames shooting out of the hood of my car.

    Edit: Saw people asking about make and model so it was a 1996 ford Crown Victoria pretty sure there was a lawsuit over it at one point. Tried looking a bit only one I found was on the gas tank issue for early 2000 models.

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    The most striking evidence for nervous laughter came from a very unsettling experiment done in the 1960s.

    During the study, researchers asked participants to administer electric shocks to strangers, with shocks increasing from 15 to 450 volts.

    The strangers were actually actors who weren’t really being shocked — but the participants didn’t know that. Most of the participants, as expected, showed signs of distress.

    But some also laughed when they heard screams, and the nervous laughter increased as the voltage went up. While the chuckles may have come across as rude, these participants clearly felt distressed when administering what they thought were painful punishments.

    #7

    I work at a nonprofit. My boss needed to fill a position, so he sent me to a job fair to collect some resumes. I found "Kevin", a young guy full of energy and enthusiasm with over a decade of fundraising experience.

    Me: So, when is Kevin starting?

    Boss: Actually, I hired someone else.

    Me: Hahah! Seriously, when is Kevin starting?

    But it wasn't a joke. Boss hired a dimwitted, sleepy old guy with no discernible skills. I guess he felt they had more in common. Three years later, the old guy got fired for never actually finishing a single project.

    #8

    "Your dad just cut his finger off with the push mower".

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    #9

    A friends grandmother died. When i asked how she died, she said "she choked on a piece of banana.....".

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    Inappropriate laughter, as uncomfortable as it can be, plays an important role in overall emotional regulation.

     “When we laugh at a good joke or a comic routine, we tend to feel more relaxed afterward. Nervous laughter serves a similar function, allowing the individual to discharge anxiety and relax a bit,” says clinical psychologist Joe Nowinski.

    Studies also show that laughter activates the endorphin system in the brain, the same receptors that are activated when using drugs like heroin. It literally produces pain-numbing and mild euphoria effects.

    #10

    When I first met my best friend at uni she showed me a picture of her brother. I laughed really hard at the picture and said "why is he pulling such a silly face?!" - "Ummm he's got Down's Syndrome." *cringe*.

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    #11

    I was at a pirate themed costume party and a woman was dressed as the coin from the first Pirates of the Caribbean. The costume was pretty big, you could only see her head and legs, so I shouted across the room 'hey it looks like you have no arms' to which she replied that she didn't. I laughed it off thinking she was joking...nope...she literally had no arms. I've never been more mortified in my life.

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    #12

    One time I walked into my school and I looked at my friend who was very upset and said "what happened? Your cat pass away?" (It's an Italian saying) and he said "no, my mom did"

    I laughed for a while because he was one to make those type of jokes, little did I know..

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    Neuroscientist V.S. Ramachandran, in his research, explained that laughter first appeared in our history to tell those around us that whatever made us laugh wasn’t a threat.

    Think about the last time a friend tripped and hit the floor. Your first move was probably to laugh. Not because you’re cruel. But because your brain ran the math instantly: they’re moving, no blood, no broken bones.

    This is also why, when a toddler takes a tumble and looks up with that wobbling lip, a parent’s instinct (after making sure they’re alright) is often to smile or laugh before the child has even decided how to react.

    “Perhaps laughter serves a self-regulation function. That is, it is ordinarily associated with happiness and may help to down-regulate the nervousness. Or perhaps, laughter in combination with nervousness suggests to other people around the person that they too should help down-regulate that nervousness,” says Margaret Clark, professor of psychology at Yale University.

    #13

    I used to have lunch with this guy I worked with. We became really good friends. All of a sudden he stopped coming to my office. I asked him why and he told me it was "Because I think you have a crush on me and you make me very uncomfortable". I am also a Guy who is 12 years younger then him. He is very ugly and has cerebralpalsy. I laughed then I realized he was serious. He has an extremely jealous wife who put all these weird thoughts in his head. As soon as I realized he wasn't joking I said "Do you realize how ugly you are?". I was in shock and it just came out. I felt really bad.

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    #14

    I was pretty ignorant in high school, and our friend group was one that would bust each other all the time without many boundaries. A friend was telling us about how his father died of breast cancer at the lunch table. I thought he was messing with me so I kept laughing, telling him to quit his b******t. Me being a f*****g dumb teenager assumed only women could get breast cancer, and just rolled my eyes when he kept saying it was true. This proceeded for the entire lunch period.

    It wasn't until after lunch period was over and someone else came up to me and confirmed the fact that I realized what a gigantic a*****e I had just been.

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    #15

    Going to middle school and needing to make a phonecall home (before I had a cell phone) from the office, the secretary said, "It'll cost you 50 cents."

    I laughed. She didn't.

    That was the moment I realized that despite being a good kid, adults suddenly wouldn't like or trust me simply because I was in middle school. It was jarring.

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    Some people also build a habit out of it. Every tense moment and awkward silence can be met with a chuckle. They’ve learned, usually without realizing it, to use humor as armor.

    It’s called a defense mechanism — an unconscious strategy that helps us cope with anxiety, stress, and emotions that feel too large to sit with.

    The cruel irony is that the more uncomfortable you feel, the more you laugh; the more you laugh, the more uncomfortable everyone else gets.

    #16

    Met with a custom wedding ring maker. He asked what my budget was and started at $20k. If I had a drink I would have spit all over him. Felt bad that I laughed in his face. He was totally serious. My budget was $2k.

    Edit: My highest comment by a longshot is about laughing in someone's face. Meh, could be worse.
    I will try to reply to everyone. I have never gotten this many messages ever! Thanks guys!

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    #17

    I was chatting with a future tinder date and he was an actor. I asked him how he got into it.

    "I broke my leg while being the quarterback in high school and tried out for the musical and got the leading role."

    "Haha nice what really happened?"

    "That's what really happened."

    I don't think I've ever met someone who had quite as wholesome of a life as he did.

    #18

    2 years ago today, I was getting the kids ready to go to a local water park. My husband was taking out the trash. His phone rang. I answered, his mom(who was supposed to be meeting us at the water park) said she needed to talk to my husband immediatly. He walked in the door at that moment. I handed him the phone.

    A minute goes by and he says, "I'll be right there." and drops his phone on the table.

    He looked at the cieling and said "My sister is d**d."

    I was thinking he meant like, she got in trouble in the "OMG my parents are going to k**l me" type way, since he said it so calmly, so I grinned at him and said "What did she do?"

    Then he said "She ove***sed.".

    Many experts advise against suppressing this emotional response whenever possible. They believe that laughter, in general, helps calm us and signals submissiveness to those we are interacting with.

    But when it becomes a cause of distress, experts say what helps is working on the underlying anxiety — the fuel — rather than the laugh itself. “People who feel that they suffer from frequent social anxiety can benefit from practicing strategies such as mindfulness meditation,” suggests psychologist Joe Nowinski.

    #19

    One of my most uptight friends is a reiki healer. When she first told me, I burst into a fit of laughter. I thought she was making fun of herself....she was serious.

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    #20

    When I was a high school freshman, there was a girl in my class who said "I have never kissed a boy and wouldn't unless we're married because I don't want to get pregnant from the kiss."
    I immediately laughed, until I saw her confused look and realized she's being serious.

    That was the first time I truly thought the US education system has failed us.

    #21

    "You can't wear ponchos on campus anymore because we've decided it could possibly be offensive to...someone" at a Student Union meeting.

    It was the pause before someone, the entire lecture theatre took it as a funny joke about political correctness. She was deadly serious.

    Those who laughed at a car crash, a terminal diagnosis, or a colleague’s genuine distress are not all terrible people. It’s because their brain, under pressure, reached for the only exit it could find.

    The next time nervous laughter catches up to you, you might not be able to stop it. But you’ll know exactly what it was, why it happened, and that you’re not alone in this.

    #22

    Ok. So I was at my best friends high school Grad party at his house, and he invited some of his other friends not from our school to come too. I always goofed around in high school and today felt like any other day.

    This kid, who was nicknamed 'Beateys' and I were getting along fine when I noticed some type of string hanging from his waistbelt. I couldn't really make out what it was so I assumed it was a tag to his clothes or something similar. Being an immature, unaware high schooler, I thought nothing of the context of where we were, or thinking anything would be inappropriate for me to crack a remark or joke. I took his string and started tugging on it and even asked 'Lol what is this, your stupid inflatable pants?"

    He looked down and didnt give the reaction I was hoping & he turned & said "No, j*****s, it's actually my insulin pump." Which is where I found out his name wasn't Beateys, it was 'Betes. Y'know, short for Diabetes.

    #23

    I was a preteen at bible camp and one of the leaders was sharing the story of his upbringing. It got real intense and he ended that intense part of the story with "And now my brother is an alcoholic!" His tone and the timing was rather comedic and I thought he was doing that to break some tension and without thinking anything else of it, I let out a huge, organic "HA!". Everyone turned to look at me. I tried to fake a coughing fit to play it off. Don't think it was very convincing.

    #24

    A girl that wanted to become our new flatmate, when asked what her hobbies were: "I enjoy sleeping". I laughed. She didn't.

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    #25

    'Your sister is 10 weeks pregnant'.

    #26

    My cousin dated a girl named Fear... I laughed and she got pissed. Whoops.

    #27

    At college orientation, my group was told that we were going to see an improv show later in the day. When we got there, it was one of those acting troupes that does shows about alcohol poisoning and date r**e and stuff like that. We all kind of tried to politely laugh through the show because we felt bad that it wasn't funny (or even well done) and we were under the pretense that it was comedy. We totally got yelled at, but at least one guy pointed out that we were just trying to be nice to a group that we were told were comedians.

    #28

    (This one's a doosey.) My ex's brother's ex-girlfriend. Everything that came out of her mouth was serious. I laughed every time.

    *Looks at CD Case* "Made in Mexico? But they're a third-world country, how do they have CD technology?"

    Ex's Brother to me while the four of us were at the fair. They split off from us but he came back first, "So she said you're very mature for your age." I laughed. I was older than her. She didn't know this. He continued, "When I explained you were actually older she went quiet. I don't know where she is." She came back after a palm reading thinking she got an age increase...I laughed again and she was d**d serious.

    "Aren't ants just baby wasps? I mean they look similar!"

    "No Hawaii is in Cuba. It's not in the US."

    "Cats are always female and dogs are always male because they're the same animal! S****l dymorphism!!" (She learned that phrase and used it for three weeks straight...)

    Edit: Remembered one. "Horses have teeth?!".

    #29

    "We just got a call that the church messed up and the wedding isn't at 11 am anymore..."

    Two days before my sister in laws wedding. I started hysterical laughing. "Can you imagine?!"

    I didn't need to imagine because the family was living it.

    #30

    Ex-wife and I had been fighting for many months. I'd been sleeping on the couch. But I was staying there for the sake of the kids. One day she came home and she sits me down at the kitchen table and tells me the bad news, "You have to move out. I have a boyfriend now, and he's kind of jealous. He doesn't like the idea of you living here with me." I actually burst out laughing at the irony.

    Wasn't laughing too hard, though, when I had to pack up my things and kiss my kids goodbye. They saw my bags by the door and said, "When are you coming back, daddy?" They were legit terrified they would never see me again. All I could say was, "I'll see you soon..." At that point I didn't even know where I was going to live.

    Choose your partner wisely. Take all the time in the world to get to know them. Avoid this experience if you can.

    #31

    I was shadowing at a high school and one of my stops was a Latin class. The teacher introduced himself but I couldn't understand him so I laughed and said I couldn't speak Latin. He actually just had a surprisingly thick British accent.

    #32

    Years ago, a coworker told me never to drink water from a pond with a beaver dam because I could get Beaver Fever. I laughed. He informed me that it's a real thing and his dad died of it (Giardia). I felt SO BAD.

    #33

    When a girl told me she accidentally used the wrong spell (witchcraft) and k****d a cow.

    #34

    Watching HBO - the national TV premiere of some movie made by universal pictures - pre-torrenting in my family - no one had seen this movie yet. Universal pictures logo appears (cue universal writing over lovely image of the earth)

    Sis: I've seen this movie before.

    Mum and I: mild laughter, thinking that's not a bad joke

    Sis: no really I'm sure I've seen this before.
    Mum and I: hysterical laughter.

    #35

    At an eating disorder clinic in the weekly meeting the staff told us that the neighbours had complained that their cats were vomiting - they thought we were feeding them or something. I was snickering because it sounded to me like they thought we were contagious.

    #36

    "You are fired".

    #37

    The other day I read about a guy who plays games on steam with his mouth and he is paralyzed from the neck down. Little did I know, it was not a troll and he actually is paralyzed. Felt really bad after that.

    #38

    Last year when a couple of veterinary students, myself included, were having lunch.

    I lose track of a conversation while on my phone and only heard the back end where a friend started listing symptoms.

    Jokingly, I suggested they test the dog for Addison's disease. She was talking about her moms chemo side effects.

    #39

    When I was in high school, I worked at a video store. One night when I wasn't on-shift, I went in to rent a movie. As soon as I entered, the manager dragged me outside and demanded to know if I'd left a bottle of p**s in the office. He was the kind of guy who'd say/do thing to s***w with people, so I started laughing. Fortunately, he didn't take that as a sign of guilt, and pointed out that if he'd been screwing around, he would have asked in front of everyone. I quickly stopped laughing. Turned out it was another employee's way of giving notice.

    #40

    Dad Bods

    I thought it was a parody of the 'real women have curves' movement. Then when I found out women *really* are all about the dad bod, I cried over all the hours I wasted in the gym trying to look good.

    #41

    I was chatting with a friend in his car, waiting around, when he tells me he has to do laundry. Small talk, you know? He adds "I've been meaning to do it for 2 weeks! I haven't had clean clothes since. Even underwear!". I start smiling, because who would share that? BUT WAIT, THERE'S MORE! He follows by stating "I just turn my boxers like, upside down"

    Now I start really laughing, and he keeps going and asks me "you've never done that??" with a concerned look.

    I just said nope and lit a cigarette, staring away...

    Bonus: his car was absolutely filthy, wrappings everwhere, soda cans, and a half finished sandwich from a few days prior. Should have seen it coming.

    #42

    Not me, but a friend once laughed at my other friend's mother telling us their dog died.

    #43

    I really wish I was earlier to this as my comment is gonna be buried, but one time I was complaining about some tough test or something to my roommate, and he said, "Oh, that s***s, but my insurance doesn't cover I care" and I burst out laughing thinking he had just invented a line on par with or better than "would you like some cheese with that whine?" and he stared at me blankly and said "Why do you find the fact that I can't get new glasses so funny?".

    #44

    A girl invited me to her dorm room once. I assumed she just wanted to hang out. Then she asked me if I wanted to have s*x and I laughed, thinking it was a joke. Nope, she was serious.

    Note: I laughed because I'd been crushing on her for a bit, but didn't think I actually had a chance with her.

    #45

    I was talking to my mom's friend and she told me dinosaurs didn't exist and the evolution is a myth and I started laughing at her.

    #46

    This one is embarrassing. I'm so sorry. I was talking to a friend who was a car dealer (high end cars) and a woman came into the showroom, nearly in tears. He asked if he could help her, and she said she had just come from (other high end car dealer) to buy a new car and they told her to come back with her husband. I laughed out loud and they both looked at me in horror. I had no idea this was a thing: It was 2012, not 1940, for cryin' out loud. (Even in 1940, it would have been rude, and poor business practice, BTW) He immediately treated her like a customer, and sold her a great car.

    #47

    "Is Maths related to Science?".

    #48

    Somewhat relevant. I went to the Iowa State fair last year with a girl I had met on tinder. We ran into a friend of hers and she introduced us.

    She was carrying a bucket of tiny chocolate chip cookies, and a little bit of chocolate had smeared on her chin. When I pointed it out to her and told her, she turned bright red and said, "it's just a mole.".

    #49

    I always have a nervous laugh for any situations to the point I tell ppl about this quirk as a precaution. A friend of mine I havent seen in a while, was recently diagnosed with cancer and was prepping for chemo. I had no idea that she was diagnosed since I was out traveling when she decided to tell ppl about her illness.
    She drasticly cut her hair so when I saw her again I complimented her on the bold fashion change when she realized I had no idea was going on and told me.
    My friend is a joker so I thought she was joking and laughed it off, she kept insisting she was serious and I told her "Having Cancer is not funny, please tell me its a lie."

    Good thing she was a good sport about it, I was laughing then nervously chuckling as she was telling me her situation. Had to tell her sorry if I laughed, my stupid personality has no idea how to handle sad news. She just told me to give her a good hug.

    #50

    A girl writhing around on the ground at a festival. I thought it was performance art. She was actually having a really bad trip and paramedics were rushing over. The looks from her friends as I lamely tried to explain myself will haunt my dreams.

    #51

    A guy said that anyone who takes any kind of d**g should be k****d by the government. I laughed and he said "no seriously, it would solve the problem".

    #52

    *"My brother got his face blown off by a s*****n,"* she said.

    For some reason, my brain immediately short-circuited and I thought of a *Bugs Bunny* cartoon...Daffy Duck getting shot in the face, his duck-bill landing some few feet away...

    I laughed. The girl looked at me in horror. I tried to explain. I failed.

    #53

    "Good morning ma'am. We've just arrested your husband for statutory r**e. Did you know your husband was having an affair with one of his female students?"

    Yeah, it wasn't a joke.

    #54

    While watching Snow White and the huntsman in the theater There is a scene where a magical deer or unicorn or something like that shows up and stands there all majestic like, then gets shot with an arrow and keels over.

    I burst out laughing and my sisters looked at me in disgust.

    #55

    My brothers girlfriend, when she realized that Cubans came from Cuba, and Haitians come from Haiti and so on and so forth.

    © Photo: keluvsorangesoda

    #56

    A disabled guy at my university walked like he was a slapstick comedian doing a bit on funny walks.

    I didn't know him or have any classes with him. (It's a very large university.) I'd see him every few weeks, walking outdoors, and -- again and again -- I'd think it was somebody *trying* to make people laugh, and so I would.

    After a year or so I finally remembered that he existed and that that his walk was not meant to be hilarious.

    #57

    In my master's degree course some 14 years ago, I first heard the term Aspberger's and busted out laughing thinking someone was kidding and saying a*s burger as a joke. True story.

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    Being a teacher is not easy. You have to wrangle a full classroom of students all day long, handle pressure from parents and the admins, and actually teach those young minds something in the process. Sadly, many teachers face terrible working conditions. In fact, according to one Australian survey, 80% of teachers experience bullying and harassment from students and parents.

    Not every parent is a bully, but some say and do such out-of-pocket things that they need to be kept for posterity. Last year, teacher and creator @AmyThingGoes asked fellow teachers to share the most outrageous things parents have messaged them. And the teachers delivered: from ridiculous demands, entitled behavior, and straight-up disrespect, these parents did more than just make the teachers raise their eyebrows.

    #1

    “I want to homeschool my child. When will the teacher be at our house and which teacher will it be?”

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    #2

    My first year teaching PE I had a students parent at an open house tell me that I don’t know the first thing about basketball because I’m a girl. So I challenged him to one V one and I beat him while wearing my Birkenstocks. I know ball

    #3

    "It is so unprofessional that you took 3 days off and didn't tell the parents you would be out and why. This impacts my daughter's learning. You need to tell us where you were" and cc'd my principal...so I gave my principal permission to go into detail about my miscarriage.

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    #4

    Parent messaged me “why are you picking on my child, I only ever hear about things she is doing”…ma’am why would I tell you about the other children??

    #5

    “With technology today I don’t really care if my child can read.”

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    #6

    “Can you make sure to call my house at 6:30 to wake my son up for school. I work.”

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    #7

    “Why did my child not hand in this assignment?” I don’t know why your 15 yr old didn’t hand it in. ASK THEM.

    #8

    I had a parent give ME a report card...

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    #9

    I got told there was no reason for me to be teaching about the rainbow and "promoting gay culture" I teach elementary art

    #10

    “You have a Black Lives Matter symbol in your classroom. What does this have to do with ELA? Stick to the curriculum.” Lots to say about that, but mostly, it is a Star Wars rebellion symbol, so…

    #11

    Imma flip it and reverse it, I’m a parent and I told my son’s teacher “please, if he’s acting a fool YELL AT HIM! By all means I give you permission to reprimand my kid, I will not be upset! And if he doesn’t listen, you can use calling me as a threat bc he KNOWS if I have to leave work bc he’s acting up

    #12

    Went to a splash pad with students over the summer “please make sure my student has a life jacket as he cannot swim, make sure he doesn’t get too hot or cold, remind him to drink water and take breaks and don’t let him get water in his face.”

    © Photo: dieselthecooldog

    #13

    "Please remove all sick children from your room for the next 2 weeks. We are going on a cruise and I don't want my child to be sick and ruin our vacation." When I told her no, I would not be targeting children based on their wellness, she went to the board.😅

    © Photo: cococabanapumpkin

    #14

    Special Ed teacher here: her daughter threw up and she asked me to smell it to make sure it was a “sick” smell.

    #15

    In 2013 I got divorced, a few other teachers knew. I never told students, just quit wearing my ring. A parent emailed me and asked I keep wearing my ring so her son didn't learn about divorce. Her son was a senior in high school.

    #16

    "Please stop marking my son's work in red ink. It's very aggressive and we're trying to encourage him to try hard." Went right into my trash bin

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    #17

    One of my parents asked me for a parent teacher conference on a Sunday….

    #18

    “Please do not talk about your sexuality, your students don’t need to know you have a wife.” After every teacher was talking about what they did for the weekend.. with their husbands.. and I was just explaining what I did with my daughter and wife..

    #19

    Had a senior with a 3 average in a class that’s a grad requirement. Mom asked if student could go back and do all the work for the entire semester (ended in 5 days). I laughed out loud, then said sure, if she can do 90 days worth of work in 5 days I’ll grade it. She got a 3.

    #20

    “Please remove my child anytime there is talk about ghost, monsters or demons, as we don’t want the devil to infect our child” I was reading a fantasy book in my curriculum

    #21

    “Can you buy pizza for the class for my daughter’s birthday and then I’ll reimburse you afterwards?” Yeahhh no

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    #22

    Kid did a back flip in the cafeteria after being told not to so he owed 5 minutes of recess. Mom emailed saying we need to give him his 5 minutes back because he has ADHD and we wouldn’t ask a kid in a wheelchair to stand up, so we can’t expect him to not do backflips.

    #23

    “Hi, this isn’t school related, but I was wondering if (students name) dad is single?”

    #24

    not a teacher but as a parent I may have sent numerous emails to my child's teacher somewhat demanding her to make an Amazon wish list 😅 I was like "help me help you. yall dont get paid enough"

    #25

    1 parent asked me to CREATE and send out her child’s birthday party invitation and sent me all the information to include on it. The worse part was I did it, because it was my first year of teaching and I had not learned to say no yet.

    #26

    “My son came home without his limited edition Cinnamon Toast Crunch crocs and I’m telling the principal you stole and sold them”

    #27

    “Please don’t teach about voting, it doesn’t seem appropriate for them to learn..” as I stopped reading and laughed because my kids were voting about oreos or chocolate chip cookies.. they’re 3

    #28

    “She smells uncertainty, fear, and anxiety, so be prepared.”—this morning

    #29

    "Miss can you please send homework. it's 1 week into holidays and he's driving me insane"

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    #30

    “Why is Obama’s picture hanging in your room?” — my response was “I’m a history teacher and he’s is (2010) the President”.

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    #31

    “I really think you need to incorporate Spanish more into your class. It’s a disadvantage to those trying to learn” ma’am, I teach English. And we live in Puerto Rico.

    © Photo: ohheymalloryy

    #32

    I had a parent message BEYOND upset with me that I labeled their child as a BOY on their trimester assessment scores. BOY = Beginning Of Year

    © Photo: magikateball

    #33

    "I need money for gas, otherwise (name) will not be attending school"

    #34

    A parent told me her kid was triggered by the word ‘germs’ so asked me if I could call germs ‘munchkins’

    #35

    “You being gone is the reason my daughter had a panic attack today and you weren’t there to help me.” I’m sorry my mom was in the hospital?

    #36

    had a CHILD (9 or 10 at the time) interrupting my lesson by saying hawk tuah LOUDLY, emailed home about it, the response from mom was that i was “projecting my adult views onto her child” and now she had to “have a weird adult conversation about what it means what he didn’t know what he was saying” like ma’am. YOU HAVE TO PARENT?!!? REALLY…

    #37

    “When she is at school you are her parent”

    #38

    Emailed a parent about her child's increased behavior issues. Was told "he's performing experiments on you to prove you don't treat him fairly. When we gather the data we will go to the principal and let you know what we find"

    #39

    Had a parent email and accuse me of teaching sexual orientation when I was actually teaching asexual reproduction in unicellular organisms… (I teach biology) lol

    #40

    Went to my super bc they didn’t agree with the length of my maternity leave (50 school days, per my contract) & said it was “unprofessional” for me to get pregnant knowing I would be due during the school year & tried to speak at the school board meeting about it.

    #41

    Screamed at me for 10 minutes on the phone. How dare I ask her son to stack his chair on his desk, throw away his trash, and plug in his computer at the end of the day. 🙃 I’m not exaggerating. “It’s your classroom! It’s YOUR job to do that!”

    #42

    I didn’t get the message (my principal did) but the parent was upset after seeing I was reading Onyx Storm through social media. She said it was inappropriate for me to be promoting those kinds of books where students might be able to see… I teach 4th grade

    © Photo: melbugarinn

    #43

    Had a kid take a tumble during program and swallow her tooth. Two hours later she goes #2 and the parent asks me to go digging for it so she can put it under her pillow. EXCUSE ME?! I’m still heated and it’s been 3 years.

    #44

    Got accused of teaching about “drag queens” in a lesson about Japanese kabuki. Women aren’t allowed to be kabuki actors. Lost that fight with admin

    #45

    “I realize she didn’t do any of the work. But why did she get a zero?”

    #46

    “Please refrain from playing K Pop Demon Hunters music in the classroom, we are a Christian household and do no promote worshipping demons.” 😄 it was the first day of school and we were doing get to know you activities and I played “Golden”. I teach 4th grade.

    #47

    I had a parent email me that when her child was worked up in class I needed to lay him down in front of the class while I rolled an exercise ball over him while playing Andrea Bocelli.... I teach sixth grade

    #48

    During Covid, i told a parent that their child was logging off during class and the parent asked me where the child was going when they logged off...

    #49

    I was told I made up the Boston tea party to push an agenda… I teach 4th grade

    #50

    A parent came in livid to tell me she could not believe I wrote her a note that her son had been pulling grasshoppers legs off at recess and it needed to stop. She told me I didn’t know anything about boys and her son had jars and jars full of legless grasshoppers at home.

    #51

    I was turned into the superintendent because I was unable to open a student’s Gatorade bottle. There was a whole investigation by admin. Ummm I have Lupus.

    #52

    Put a general comment on everyone’s progress report that says “please encourage your child to attend class regularly, ask questions when needed and participate in class”. Parent thinks I am directing this message at her child. And even after I have explained that I have put this comment on all progress reports for probably the last 20 years she still wants to have a meeting to discuss it. Meeting is tomorrow.

    #53

    I helped with a class for theater.... had a parent ask why a teen was allowed to teach other teens. I was 27 at the time

    #54

    Not outrageous, just funny. A kindergarten parent sent in a note asking how much make-up they should put on their daughter for make up picture day.

    #55

    "Please refrain from bringing politics into the classroom. You should not be discussing the president or tariffs." I'm the AP Government teacher. It was a lesson on presidential communication.

    #56

    Parent put in a complaint about me for not sending out her child’s birthday invites. She sent them to me on Class Dojo on July 1st. School ended on May 28th

    #57

    “Who allowed my child to talk to someone without my permission? I will be suing” (the kid talked to the guidance counselor…parent did not sue)

    #58

    “I’m taking my husband and my 3 yr old and 7 yr old to Disney world. *child who is 2yrs old* is staying with grandparents. Because she is too young. Please don’t tell her about where we are. She’ll get upset.” They were gone about a month and a half. Poor little girl was so sad.

    #59

    A parent wouldn’t let their high school senior watch a PG disney movie. They said it wasn’t appropriate. It’s Inside Out…

    #60

    Had a mom tell me via the child’s planner to stop messaging her husband bcs it makes her uncomfortable (he was the only contact I had on file & I was just updating every parent on remind)

    #61

    I got a handwritten note saying they will be sending a bill for the clothing the child ruined. She requested they not be allowed to use markers or scissors. Ma’am it’s kindergarten 🤣 and our curriculum uses dry erase boards and markers DAILY.

    #62

    “I can’t volunteer for the field trip because I’m a felon”

    © Photo: brittani189

    #63

    "You're running a communist classroom by manipulating my child for compliance". This was regarding an elf on the shelf......

    #64

    I had a parent accuse me of deleting a students writing essay. The student didn’t know that I could look up the work history since it was on Google Docs and the parent was embarrassed when I showed her her son was just typing random letters the whole time. She just said thank you and left.

    #65

    "Please remove all sick children from your room for the next 2 weeks. We are going on a cruise and I don't want my child to be sick and ruin our vacation." When I told her no, I would not be targeting children based on their wellness, she went to the board.😅

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    We’ve seen our fair share of mothers-in-law behaving badly at weddings. But the following story is the stuff that horror films are made from…

    A rehearsal dinner turned into a nightmare when the groom’s mom took a sick joke a bit too far. She had matching t-shirts made for about ten of her relatives. While it may sound cute, it was anything but. The crazy MIL and her entourage burst into the dinner shrieking, and wearing their ‘Bride of Chucky’ tops. While the couple and their guests were horrified, the woman claims it was all in the name of fun.

    We’ve heard our fair share of wedding horror stories but this one takes the cake…

    A woman looking upset during the rehearsal dinner, as the MIL turns it into a spectacle.

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    A rehearsal dinner turned creepy when a crazy MIL burst in with a group of people, all wearing ‘Bride of Chucky’ t-shirts

    Screenshot of text about a mother-in-law making the wedding weekend a spectacle.

    Screenshot of text detailing the bride's anxiety about her MIL's spectacle at the rehearsal dinner.

    Screenshot of text describing the MIL bursting into the rehearsal dinner, creating a spectacle.

    Screenshot of text explaining the MIL's Chucky t-shirt spectacle at the rehearsal dinner.

    The bride's perspective on MIL turning the rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, sharing her feelings about the situation.

    The bride needing to walk away to calm down after the MIL caused a spectacle at the rehearsal dinner.

    A thoughtful bride in a beret at the rehearsal dinner, reflecting on the MIL turning it into a spectacle.

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    The groom confronting his parents after the MIL turned the rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, upsetting the bride.

    Family members apologizing for the MIL turning the rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, while the MIL remains unrepentant.

    Mother-in-law turns rehearsal dinner into spectacle, bride's wedding planners set up the venue.

    Rehearsal dinner drama: Wedding planners lock in the venue setup to avoid MIL spectacle.

    Bride's MIL makes demands at the rehearsal dinner, then cries about the beautiful setup.

    Man with curly hair, wearing a suit, looks away from the camera, perhaps during a rehearsal dinner spectacle.

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    Bride's MIL turns rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, leaving the couple to decline future assistance.

    Bride discusses how MIL turned rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, causing her to lose sleep before the wedding.

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    How to deal with badly behaved wedding guests, according to experts

    The worst wedding guests come in all shapes and sizes. Maybe they’re friends, parents, in-laws or even members of the wedding party. Many experts have seen it all, and they say there are ways to pre-empt drama or deal with it on the day without losing your sanity.

    One of the most common problems is the drunk guest. Aka the one who becomes besties with the bar and doesn’t know when to call it quits. If you know beforehand that this person might misbehave when under the influence, you should inform your wedding planner or a friend, bridesmaid or bestman.

    “We have actually provided a watered-down bottle of the preferred liquor just for pouring drinks for that person,” says Alex Alexander of Alex Events.

    Charley Izabella King, a wedding planner from Bluebell Events, also has a few tricks up her sleeve. She reveals that she usually finds the person’s plus one and asks them to help in limiting their alcohol intake. King adds that she’ll also let the bartender and banquet captain know if there are any guests they should keep an eye on.

    Katrina Otter, an award-winning wedding planner, agrees.

    “If you’ve got guests who you know are big drinkers, tell your caterers or bar staff in advance and ask them to stop serving the guests in question when they deem it’s necessary,” says the expert. “Make sure that there’s plenty of water and non-alcoholic options on hand right through the day and remember that evening food is not only great for giving you a boost of energy later in the day, it’s also very useful for soaking up a day of drink.”

    Otter adds that you shouldn’t give any heavy drinkers a big role in your day.

    “It’s also helpful to nominate someone who can keep an eye on things and help if things do go awry,” she suggests. “A parent or an uncle is usually a great choice here because these people automatically carry respect. Brief them ahead of time and try not to let someone’s drunken behaviour ruin your day.” 

     “If they get particularly rowdy, I would ask them to leave,” King told Inside Weddings.

    But sometimes, even stone-cold sober guests can create wedding chaos and drama. For example, the entitled mother or mother-in-law who catches main character syndrome and thinks she’s the bride.

    Experts suggest gently setting firm boundaries during the wedding planning process. So if your mother or mother-in-law insists on choosing your flowers, Alexander advises saying something along the lines of, “It is so lovely of you to want to pay for and surprise me with the flowers, but I have always looked forward to planning my wedding and especially the flowers! Having you there with me as I choose the look of the wedding means so much to me. Thank you!”

    In addition, it may help to give your mom or mother-in-law a dedicated role to keep them busy, and make them feel included. This ideally would be something you’re willing to loosen your grip on.

    Don’t hesitate to enlist the help of your wedding planner, or a friend to smooth things over.

    “We have diverted many a situation by being fully aware of peoples’ feelings,” says King, “and being comforting to them by understanding the situation and helping to resolve it.”

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    People were shocked that the MIL turned childhood trauma into a joke

    Commenter expresses shock and disgust at MIL turning the rehearsal dinner into a spectacle by bringing up childhood trauma.

    Discussion about MIL's motivation for turning rehearsal dinner into a spectacle, potentially seeking attention.

    Conversation about the FIL's role in the rehearsal dinner spectacle and supporting MIL's agenda.

    Commenter shares personal experience relating to MIL's behavior at the rehearsal dinner, calling it disgusting.

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    A screenshot of a comment saying Congratulations on your new marriage. Keep those crazy in-laws at arms length! referring to the MIL rehearsal dinner spectacle.

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  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    As a rule of thumb, the less we know about something, the more fascinating it becomes. A missing person’s case where someone vanished without a trace. A crime scene that left investigators with more questions than answers. It makes us want to get to the bottom of what really happened and why no one has been able to figure it out.

    One Redditor asked users to share creepy unsolved mysteries that deserve more attention, and they came through with stories that are equal parts intriguing and unsettling. We’ve gathered some of the best ones below. Scroll down to read them.

    #1

    Whatever the f**k is happening with the Epstein files and how many people are getting away with it all. Seems like a mystery until you start really looking into it.

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    #2

    Shelly Miscavige, David Miscavige's wife (Head of the church of Scientology), who was last seen in public in August 2007...

    More info from Wikipedia:
    Michele Diane "Shelly" Miscavige (née Barnett; born January 18, 1961) is an American Scientologist who was last seen in public in August 2007. She is a member of the Church of Scientology's Sea Org who married Scientology leader David Miscavige in 1982. Miscavige worked as her husband's assistant and was involved in managing the Church of Scientology's relationship with high-profile member Tom Cruise.

    Since her disappearance in 2007, she has been the subject of speculation and inquiries regarding her whereabouts and well-being. In 2012, attorneys who said they represented her responded by saying she was leading a private life devoted to the Church of Scientology. In August 2013, actress Leah Remini, a former Scientologist and critic of the organization, filed a missing person report regarding Miscavige with the Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD). The LAPD closed the investigation within hours and described the report as "unfounded".

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    #3

    Walter Fischer

    He lived in a small village in Slovakia and would go to a nearby town to work in a shoe factory Mon-Fri (returning home to be with his family on weekends). One weekend in January of 1939 he didnt return home.

    Several weeks later his wife sends her brother to find him (thinking he was just drinking and choosing not to come home). The brother gets there and speaks to everyone who would know where he was but they all said they hadn't seen him in weeks. His coworkers said that on the Friday where he was due to go home he had said he planned to stay the night and walk to Castle Black (a ruin up in the mountains). This apparently was not a typical thing for him and no info is available on what drove this.

    Fearing him d**d up there the brother and some others go up the mountain in search of him. But its January and it is freezing. So they have to abandon the search and accept he likely perished.

    Now the extra mystery. 3 months later Walter reappears. He is found in a field more than 1km south of the town or mountain. A local farmer/herder recognises him and sends for his wife and a doctor (recognising he is in a bad condition). When they arrive they realise he is not responding to any questions or verbal prompts (borderline catatonic it seemed) and is covered in burns.

    The wife isn't able to take him in so instead he is sent to an asylum. Sadly any further records of Walter or if anyone made any breakthrough in getting him to communicate is lost due to the N**i invasion of Slovakia and the destruction of the asylum and its records.

    But its a really fascinating one. Why hike up that mountain in horrible conditions in January? How did he stay alive for 3 months in the Slovakian wilderness and what caused his catatonic state and the burns.

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    #4

    The Black Dahlia.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    Elizabeth Short (July 29, 1924 – c. January 14–15, 1947), posthumously known as the Black Dahlia, was an American woman found m*rdered in the Leimert Park neighborhood of Los Angeles, California, on January 15, 1947. Her case became highly publicized owing to the gruesome nature of the crime, which included the mutilation and bisection of her corpse.

    A native of Boston, Short spent her early life in New England and Florida before relocating to California, where her father lived. It is commonly held that she was an aspiring actress, though she had no known acting credits or jobs during her time in Los Angeles. Short acquired the nickname of the Black Dahlia posthumously, as newspapers of the period often nicknamed particularly lurid crimes; the term may have originated from the film noir thriller The Blue Dahlia (1946). After the discovery of her body, the Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD) began an extensive investigation that produced over 150 suspects but yielded no arrests.

    Short's unsolved m*rder and the details surrounding it have had a lasting cultural impact, generating various theories and public speculation. Her life and death have been the basis of numerous books and films, and her m*rder is frequently cited as one of the most famous unsolved m*rders in U.S. history, as well as one of the oldest unsolved cases in Los Angeles County. It has likewise been credited by historians as one of the first major crimes in postwar America to capture national attention.

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    #5

    The Wow! Signal. One strange radio signal from space and then... nothing.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    The Wow! signal was a strong narrowband radio signal detected on August 15, 1977, by Ohio State University's Big Ear radio telescope in the United States, then used to support the search for extraterrestrial intelligence. The signal appeared to come from the direction of the constellation Sagittarius and bore expected hallmarks of extraterrestrial origin.

    Astronomer Jerry R. Ehman discovered the anomaly a few days later while reviewing the recorded data. On the computer printout, he circled the reading of the signal's intensity, "6EQUJ5", and wrote the comment "Wow!" beside it, leading to the event's widely used name.

    The entire signal sequence lasted for the full 72-second window during which Big Ear was able to observe it. Despite numerous follow-up searches and hypotheses (including brief consideration of reflections from space debris, interstellar scintillation, and comet hydrogen clouds), the signal has never recurred, and no explanation, terrestrial or otherwise, has been confirmed. While some researchers have suggested it could represent an extraterrestrial transmission, its single occurrence and lack of replication limit the strength of this interpretation. The Wow! signal has inspired targeted searches, scientific discussion about rare astrophysical phenomena, and references in popular culture.

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    #6

    The Springfield Missouri 3 missing women. 3 women gone with no trace from a home. Nothing in 34 years.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    The Springfield Three refers to an unsolved missing persons case that began on June 7, 1992, when friends Suzanne Elizabeth "Suzie" Streeter and Stacy Kathleen McCall, and Streeter's mother, Sherrill Elizabeth Levitt, went missing from Levitt's home in Springfield, Missouri, United States. All of their personal belongings, including cars and purses, were left behind. There were no signs of a struggle except a broken porch light globe; there was also a message on the answering machine that police believe might have provided a clue about the disappearances, but it was inadvertently erased.

    In 1997, Robert Craig Cox, a convicted kidnapper and robber, claimed that he knew the women had been m*rdered and that their bodies would never be recovered. Neither their whereabouts nor their remains have ever been discovered. No investigators in the case believe Cox has any credibility.

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    #7

    Polish 24-year-old tourist Bruno Muschalik went on a solo trip to India and has been missing since August 2015. Since he failed to come back home his dad has been flying to India dozens of times to look for him.

    Supposedly over 1000 people have gone missing in Parvati valley since 1990s. that includes 20+ foreign nationals from the US, Poland, Israel etc and hundreds of Indians.

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    #8

    Also Mateusz Kawecki, 30yr old, Poland. Polish construction worker living in Hanover, Germany for 5 years with his father (sister is also in Hanover). Uncertain about the details but it goes something like this. Receives a phone call from his long term fiancée that she was due delivery of their baby. He leaves Hanover at 11:30pm for his fiancées village in Southern Poland on the 28th of March, 2018 in his BMW, a 679km or so drive (9hrs or so). At about 10:30am his father calls him as he hadn't arrived and he said that he had been stuck at the Polish-German border for 2hrs, citing traffic. He also texts his fiancée to tell her the same thing. By about mid-afternoon, the worried fiancée calls his sister in Hanover, they call Mateus phone, it rings but no one picks up. By evening time they go to Polish police to report him missing but they think it's too soon. Eventually, they open the case. The German police have refused to open a concurrent case as long as the Polish police are investigating. The family ask the Polish police for his SIM to be located as his phone was ringing but they say they couldn't cause it was a German SIM. The German police couldn't either cause the SIM was last located in Poland. But Polish police claim he never entered the border because his car plate registration wasn't captured by cameras at the border. The frustrated family search the whole route for months and fail to find him and no clues come up.

    In Sept, a neighbour approaches the family reporting a smell from their barn, the village have noticed throughout summer, thinking there must be a d**d animal. At the end of the barn (as I imagine it) is a tier (a story) cordoned off by a wall forming a kinda attic space. Since they couldn't find the d**d animal, the neighbour asked to check the attic . He finds a pile of clothes and a back pack on the floor. He moves the clothes about to find a severed or decapitated head and a badly decomposed corpse (so damaged it couldn't be identified). However the backpack contains Mateus items, his ID, a Polish water bottle, cigarette packs and stubs but interestingly as well a carton of orange juice (which he never drank cause he detested orange juice since he was a kid) & the clothes were his. Two nooses are tied to the roof.

    Following a police search & investigation of the barn. His case was ruled a s*****e. However 4 days later (after his body was found) the family finds (on the lower floor I believe) his shoe...with his amputated decomposing foot still inside! They complain the search was not conducted properly.

    The mystery thickens as it is later reported that there were German & Polish public transport tickets found with him. He also checked into a hotel on the German-Polish border with a stranger, who was it? The interesting thing is that Mateus' body was found in the barn of the small village of his family home, he wasn't aiming for there, he was aiming for his house with his fiancée in Southern Poland, a small village 635km away (that's a cross country distance apparently across Germany). Further, his clothes were bloody and some or all of his teeth had been knocked off, sticking to his clothes. His phone was found with his backpack. He made a short 1s call to his uncle on the 29th of March, likely a b**t dial- his uncle never received the call.

    His car was never found, neither car nor keys to this day. His family report to have used the barn, throughout the summer and it would have been obvious to them as somehow the attic was reportedly in plain-sight & the barn doors were open if he was there- not to mention the smell. Also, since it is a small village, it's strange that no one in the village caught sight of Mateus, his car or anything about him. It was like he set off from Hanover in the middle of the night to d*e in his family home's barn when he was aiming for his fiancées over 600km away for his child birth. Finally, where was Mateusz really when he received his dad phone call, was he really at the border and obstructed or delayed by traffic? That border section is unmanned except for ANPR cameras...but if he was headed the wrong direction, did he lie to his family & fiancée, why? Who was the stranger? And how about the public transport tickets in Germany & Poland when he had a car & set off in one? Why commit s*****e when he appeared to be anticipating the birth of his child otherwise he would never have set off? Nevermind the amputated foot, the knocked out teeth... which doesn't fit a deteriorating hanging body (though the severed head might) So many mysteries in this case.

    What a mystery and such trauma for both him and his family (unless they were somehow involved).

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    #9

    Highway of tears. 100 missing since the 70s.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    The Highway of Tears is a 719-kilometre (447 mi) corridor of Highway 16 between Prince George and Prince Rupert in British Columbia, Canada, which has been the location of crimes against many women, beginning in 1969 when the highway was completed. The phrase was coined during a vigil held in Terrace, British Columbia in 1998, by Florence Naziel, who was thinking of the victims' families crying over the loss of their loved ones.

    There is a disproportionately high number of Indigenous women on the list of victims, hence the association with the Missing and M*rdered Indigenous Women (MMIW) movement.

    Proposed explanations for the years-long toleration of the crimes and the limited progress in identifying culprits include poverty, dr*g ab*se, widespread domestic violence, disconnection with traditional culture and disruption of the family unit through the foster care system and Canadian Indian residential school system. Poverty in particular leads to low rates of vehicle ownership and mobility; thus, hitchhiking is often the only way for many to travel vast distances to see family or go to work, school, or seek medical treatment.

    The lack of public transportation between communities was at one time a major factor. Another factor leading to unsolved disappearances is that the area is largely isolated and remote. Soft soil in many areas makes burial easier and carnivorous scavengers often carry away human remains. Additionally, before December 2024, much of the highway had no cellular telephone service.

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    #10

    Brian Shaffer, a 27-year-old medical student who vanished from a bar in Columbus, Ohio, in 2006. CCTV shows him enter but he never leaves.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    In the early hours of April 1, 2006, Brian Randall Shaffer, a 27‑year‑old medical student at the Ohio State University College of Medicine, disappeared in Columbus, Ohio. He had spent the previous night, March 31, having drinks with friends at a campus‑area bar to mark the start of spring break. He later became separated from them, and they assumed he had gone home.

    Security footage from outside the second‑floor entrance recorded Shaffer briefly speaking with two women just before 2 a.m. before walking out of frame. No video shows him exiting the building, and he has not been seen or heard from since. The case received national media attention.

    Shaffer's disappearance has been especially puzzling to investigators because the bar had no other publicly accessible exits at the time, aside from a nearby service door. Columbus police have explored several theories about what happened. Some scrutiny has focused on a friend who was with Shaffer that night, though he was advised not to take polygraph tests. Other speculation has included a possible connection to the purported Smiley Face serial k**ler, but police rejected any link to the alleged k**ler, consistent with the FBI and other agencies. It has also been suggested that Shaffer might be alive and living elsewhere under a new identity.

    © Photo: merlin6014

    #11

    Tristan Brübach.

    ​I am from germany and have been following this case for over ten years now.

    It is honestly one of the most disturbing mysteries I have ever come across and almost no one outside of Germany seems to know about it.

    ​In 1998 in Frankfurt a 13 year old boy named Tristan Brübach was m******d in broad daylight in a tunnel near a train station. The k**ler did not just k**l him. He performed some kind of surgical mutilation on the body and took body parts with him as trophies. Experts strongly suggest that this was a case of cannibalism.

    ​The weirdest part is that it happened in the middle of the day in a busy public area. Witnesses saw a man with a ponytail and police checked over 14000 people but the guy just vanished. It has been over 25 years and the trail is ice cold. It feels like the k**ler just walked into thin air.

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    #12

    Morgan Nick. June 9, 1995, six-year old Morgan and her mother, Colleen Nick, attended a little league baseball game in Alma, Arkansas. At 10:30 PM, Morgan and her friends asked if they could leave the stands to catch fireflies. Initially, Colleen was hesitant to let her but was convinced by the other parents to let her. Morgan was last seen by her friends at 10:45 PM alone near her mom's car emptying the sand from her shoes. Her friends also reported seeing a "creepy" man talking to Morgan as she put her shoes back on.

    Morgan's friends returned to the stands without her, told Colleen that she was at the car. But when Morgan's mother returned to the car, she was not there, and Morgan was not seen or heard from again.

    Police only ever named one person of interest, Billy Lincks. This guy died in prison for an unrelated charge in 2000. They identified fibers in his red truck that were similar to Morgan's shirt. In 2024, police revealed there was DNA evidence that strongly indicated Morgan was in the truck.

    But we might never know what really happened to her or where she is.

    Her parents started the Morgan Nick Foundation to both help parents cope with the disappearances of their children, and help prevent children disappearances. June 1995 was before the Amber Alert was created. Furthermore, in Arkansas, it's known as the Morgan Nick Amber Alert.

    I'm from Arkansas, I was born in 1997. My mom would tell me about this horrible cold case throughout my childhood and it's stuck with me to adulthood, I guess.

    © Photo: Slothpoots

    #13

    John P. Wheeler III:

    Wheeler, a highly connected Pentagon official and presidential aide, suddenly began behaving erratically in December 2010. Surveillance footage captured him wandering the streets confused, disheveled, and carrying only one shoe while asking strangers for help. He had recently been involved in a bitter feud with neighbors and was reportedly linked to a bizarre smoke-b**b incident. Days later, his battered body was found in a Delaware landfill. His d***h was ruled a homicide, but no suspect has ever been identified.

    © Photo: Sweetie_8605

    #14

    The missing Malaysian airplane.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    Malaysia Airlines Flight 370 (MH370 / MAS370) was an international passenger flight operated by Malaysia Airlines that disappeared from radar on 8 March 2014, while flying from Kuala Lumpur International Airport in Malaysia to its planned destination, Beijing Capital International Airport in China. The cause of its disappearance has not been determined. It is widely regarded as the greatest mystery in aviation history and remains the single deadliest case of aircraft disappearance.

    The crew of the Boeing 777-200ER, registered as 9M-MRO, last communicated with air traffic control (ATC) around 38 minutes after takeoff when the flight was over the South China Sea. The aircraft was lost from ATC's secondary surveillance radar screens minutes later but was tracked by the Malaysian military's primary radar system for another hour, deviating westward from its planned flight path. It left radar range 200 nautical miles (370 km; 230 mi) west-northwest of Penang Island in northwestern Peninsular Malaysia.

    With all 227 passengers and 12 crew aboard confirmed dead, the disappearance of Flight 370 was the deadliest incident involving a Boeing 777, the deadliest of 2014, and the deadliest in Malaysia Airlines' history until it was surpassed in all three regards by Malaysia Airlines Flight 17 on 17 July 2014. Relying mostly on the analysis of data from the Inmarsat satellite with which the aircraft last communicated, the Australian Transport Safety Bureau (ATSB) initially proposed that a hypoxia event was the most likely cause given the available evidence, although no consensus has been reached among investigators concerning this theory. At various stages of the investigation, possible hijacking scenarios were considered, including crew involvement, and suspicion of the aircraft's cargo manifest; many disappearance theories regarding the flight have also been reported by the media.

    The search for the missing aircraft became the most expensive search in the history of aviation. It focused initially on the South China Sea and Andaman Sea, before a novel analysis of the aircraft's automated communications with an Inmarsat satellite indicated that the aircraft had travelled far southward over the southern Indian Ocean. Several pieces of debris washed ashore in the western Indian Ocean during 2015 and 2016; many of these were confirmed to have originated from Flight 370. After a three-year search across 120,000 km2 (46,000 sq mi) of ocean failed to locate the aircraft, the Joint Agency Coordination Centre heading the operation suspended its activities in January 2017. A second search launched in January 2018 by private contractor Ocean Infinity also ended without success after six months. The Malaysian Ministry of Transport's final report from July 2018 was inconclusive. It highlighted Malaysian ATC's fruitless attempts to communicate with the aircraft shortly after its disappearance.

    In the absence of a definitive cause of disappearance, air transport industry safety recommendations and regulations citing Flight 370 have been implemented to prevent a repetition of the circumstances associated with the loss. These include increased battery life on underwater locator beacons, lengthening of recording times on flight data recorders and cockpit voice recorders, and new standards for aircraft position reporting over open ocean.

    © Photo: ghosttravel2020

    #15

    In the coming years, the disappearance of Nancy Guthrie.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    "On February 1, 2026, Nancy Guthrie (née Long), the American 84‑year‑old mother of NBC News journalist and Today co-anchor Savannah Guthrie, was kidnapped from her home in Catalina Foothills, a suburb of Tucson, Arizona. Evidence recovered at the residence indicated that Guthrie had been taken against her will, and Pima County Sheriff Chris Nanos stated that he believed she had been abducted.

    A multi‑agency investigation led by the Pima County Sheriff's Department, with assistance from the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), US Customs and Border Protection (CBP), and search-and-rescue teams, has included extensive forensic analysis, neighborhood canvassing, and review of surveillance footage. Bloodstains found at the scene were confirmed to be Nancy's. Multiple ransom notes of undetermined origin demanded payment in cryptocurrency, with two deadlines that had passed by February 9. On February 10, the FBI released still images along with a short video from a video‑doorbell camera, showing an "armed individual" wearing a mask and carrying a backpack tampering with said doorbell camera on Nancy's property prior to her disappearance.

    Family appeals on social media have not yet yielded any "proof of life" sought from the person or persons who abducted Nancy Guthrie. On February 24, the family offered $1 million for information that assists in her recovery. Her condition and whereabouts remain unknown. The case has drawn international attention, with Savannah Guthrie suspending her broadcasting duties, including coverage of the 2026 Winter Olympics, to participate in the ongoing search."

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    #16

    Dorothy Jane Scott- this always creeped me out because of the time put in and how one minute you’re helping your friend and next your worst nightmare happens.

    From Wikipedia: Dorothy Jane Scott (April 23, 1948 — May 28, 1980) was an American woman who disappeared on May 28, 1980, in Anaheim, California. After driving two co-workers to the hospital, Scott went to fetch her car to take them back to their workplace. However, as her car approached them, it sped away; neither could see who was driving as its headlights had blinded them. The co-workers reported Scott missing a couple of hours later, after not hearing from her. In the preceding months, Scott had been receiving anonymous phone calls from a man who had reportedly been stalking her and had left threatening messages.
    In June 1980, a man called The Orange County Register, a local newspaper that had reported Scott's disappearance, and claimed that he had killed Scott. Police believe the caller was Scott's killer. From 1980 to 1984, Scott's mother also received phone calls from a man who claimed to have Scott or to have killed her. None of the calls could be traced, however, because the caller would not stay on the line long enough. In August 1984, partial human remains were found and later identified as Scott's. No arrests have been made in Scott's case.

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    #17

    Susan Swedell

    On the evening of January 19, 1988, 19-year-old Susan Swedell vanished during a blizzard in Lake Elmo, MN.

    After finishing her shift at K-Mart in Oak Park Heights, Susan stopped at a gas station while experiencing car trouble. She left her car at the gas station and was seen getting into an older-model sedan, possibly a late-1970s Ford LTD with a white man who had shoulder-length sandy-brown hair and was wearing a waist length coat.

    Susan Swedell has not been seen or heard from since that night. Her car, along with her purse was found the next morning at the gas station (now the site of a Holiday Station) on the outskirts of Lake Elmo.

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    #18

    The d***h of Noah Donohoe, age 14. Mixed race kid in Ireland. Left home at 3 am wearing flip flops, shorts, shirt and headsets he returned at 4 am barefoot without his headset. Went to school, came back. Told his mum at about 4/5pm he is going to cycle to his friends place across on the other side of Belfast (seems quite the distance). He packed a bag of clothing & laptop & left wearing a helmet, jacket, shorts and trainers. He is spotted on CCTV (& by passerby) an hour later at 5pm in central Belfast by Queens University then again on CCTV naked and without his bike or backpack...and entering some public space but which was only open to residence. At 9pm, his mother reports him missing. He was missing for 5 days before being found d**d & naked in a sewer drain, even further away than from his last sighting. Past-portum, revealed cause of d***h to be drowning. Coroner's verdict: accidental drowning. Still a mystery, how or why he died. Where he went to earlier that morning, why he was barefoot and where was his headset, why he was naked on the streets of central Belfast at 6pm, where was his bike? His backpack was found close to Ulster university, where someone tried to pawn off his laptop (he was jailed for 3 months). Another mystery to me is why his mum would let him cycle such a long way on an Autumn/ November evening alone (would have certainly been dark or getting dark by the time he left and soon after). Bet there are deep regrets and she is devastated. No one has ever been charged...after all the verdict is that it was accidental.

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    #19

    Oakey Al Kite, Randy Wayne Leach, Amy Mihaljevic, St. Louis Jane Doe, and, the most disgusting case ever, the Dardeen family. Do not look that one up if you are squeamish.

    On the plus side in recent years we have seen the solving of Alexis Flores, Morgan Jade Violi, Princess Doe, Yogurt Shop M*rders...

    © Photo: First-Sheepherder640

    #20

    Joe Anderson, Jamestown ND. Found in the trunk of his car in just his underwear and wrapped up in a tarp.

    © Photo: Tanaisy

    #21

    The Donna Kay Cloud case from 2016 in Splendora, Texas. She was friends with many of the people I went to high school with, but I personally never met her.

    She was 19 with a 4 year old son, and had been dealt quite a rough hand in life and made a few mistakes of her own, but was very much trying to turn her life around. She was going on a blind date with a guy she had been talking to, and left her dad’s house I think with the guy and a couple friends in his truck to eat at Texas Roadhouse. She never made it there.

    All 3 guys she was with were interviewed and “cleared” and her own dad keeps changing his story and refuses to fully cooperate. Her cell phone even pinged at a location 2 months after her disappearance. This story haunts me because it’s very close to home and feels like a true embodiment of the good ole boy system in SETX where I’m from. And she’d NEVER leave her son. Somebody is protecting somebody.

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    #22

    The Yuba County Five. Such a terribly sad case and little to no answers.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    The Yuba County Five were young men from Yuba County, California, United States, each with mild intellectual disabilities or psychiatric conditions, who were reported missing after attending a college basketball game at California State University, Chico (also known as Chico State), on the night of February 24, 1978. Four of them—Bill Sterling, 29; Jack Huett, 24; Ted Weiher, 32; and Jack Madruga, 30—were later found dead; the fifth, Gary Mathias, 25, has never been found.

    Several days after their disappearance, Madruga's car, a 1969 Mercury Montego the group drove to Chico, was found abandoned in a remote area of Plumas National Forest, on a high mountain dirt road far out of their way back to Yuba County. Investigators could not determine why the car was abandoned, as it was in good working order and could easily have been pushed out of the snowpack it was in. At that time, no trace of the men was found.

    In June 1978, four of the men's bodies were discovered after the snow had melted. Ted Weiher was found inside a United States Forest Service (USFS) trailer some 20 miles north of the abandoned car. Only bones were left of Jack Madruga, Bill Sterling, and Jackie Huett as a result of scavenging animals; Weiher had apparently lived for as long as three months after the men were last seen, starving to death despite an ample supply of food and heating materials in and near the trailer. Weiher was missing his shoes; investigators found Mathias' own shoes in the USFS trailer, suggesting Mathias also survived for some time beyond the group's last sighting.

    A local man later came forward, claiming that he had spent the same night in his own car a short distance from where the Mercury was found. The witness told police that he saw and heard people around his car that night, and twice called for help, only for them to grow silent and turn off their flashlights. This, and the considerable distance from the car to where the bodies were found, has led to suspicions of foul play.

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    #23

    The 2017 Las Vegas sh**ting. Deadliest mass sh**ting in modern U.S. history and we still don’t really know why.

    © Photo: strawberrycash

    #24

    Deborah Deann Poe (often referred to as Debrah Poe or Deborah Poe) was a 25-year-old convenience store clerk who vanished without a trace from an Orlando, Florida Circle K on February 4, 1990

    The Last Sighting: Deborah was working the overnight shift at a Circle K near the intersection of Aloma Avenue and Hall Road. A regular customer found the store completely abandoned at 4:00 a.m.

    The Store's Condition: There were no signs of a struggle, and the cash register was completely untouched, with no money missing.

    Personal Belongings: Deborah’s car (a red Toyota Celica) was parked in the lot, with her keys, purse, and latest paycheck securely locked inside. Her uniform was discovered neatly folded behind the counter.

    The Megadeth T-Shirt Man: A customer reported seeing an unknown man wearing a "Megadeth" rock band t-shirt behind the counter at 3:15 a.m. He was never identified or located.

    Police Investigation: Scent dogs tracked her path from behind the store to the nearby road, suggesting she was forcibly abducted and driven away in an unknown vehicle.

    © Photo: 0x7A5

    #25

    Not really anything mystery but the amout of d**d people that are still left up on Mount Everest really disturbs me.

    © Photo: Acrobatic-Money-1227

    #26

    The strange deaths of Kris Kremers and Lisanne Froon in Panama.

    More info from Wikipedia:
    Kris Kremers and Lisanne Froon were two Dutch students who disappeared on 1 April 2014, while hiking a trail called El Pianista in Panama. After an extensive search, portions of their bodies were found a few months later. Their cause of death could not be determined definitively; Dutch authorities working with forensic and search-rescue investigators initially thought it likely the students had accidentally fallen from a cliff after becoming lost. The circumstances and aftermath of their disappearance have resulted in much speculation about their final days.

    Although many theories have been presented as to what happened to Kremers and Froon, no official cause of death has been ruled. Panamanian authorities came under fire for allegedly mishandling the disappearance and aftermath.

    © Photo: xanderpandercat

    #27

    The disappearance of Anne-Elisabeth Hagen in Norway.

    Halloween morning October 31, 2018, 68-year-old Anne-Elisabeth Hagen vanished from her home near Oslo. When her husband, businessman Tom Hagen, returned home from work, he claimed to find signs of a struggle and a ransom note demanding €9 million in the cryptocurrency Monero. The note threatened that she would be k****d if police were contacted.

    What makes the case especially strange is that police secretly investigated it as a kidnapping for months, but later concluded the kidnapping itself may have been staged. They eventually shifted to the theory that Anne-Elisabeth had been m******d and that the ransom note was part of an elaborate deception. Tom Hagen was arrested in 2020 on suspicion of m****r or complicity, but was released within days and the case against him was ultimately dropped because investigators could not prove his involvement.

    There are a lot of odd details: the ransom demand was in cryptocurrency years before crypto ransom cases became common, the note was written in awkward Norwegian, police found cable ties and traces suggesting a struggle, the family dog had been locked away, and despite years of investigation involving thousands of tips, surveillance footage, international forensic assistance, and extensive searches, nobody knows for certain whether Anne-Elisabeth was kidnapped, m******d, or by whom. Her body has never been found.

    Nearly eight years later, the case remains unsolved.

    #28

    Yuba County 5

    Five men when missing in Yuba County, California, in February 1978. Four were found d**d in Plumas national forest, while one remains missing to this date. No one knows why they went that direction as they were headed the wrong way to get home.

    © Photo: PatienceEffective248

    #29

    Terrence Woods, someone I knew as a student.

    He was filming something in rural Idaho and allegedly just ran away into the woods, never to be seen again. In nearly any article I see, he's described as gentle, friendly and kind, and that completely checks out with my experience with him. It all seems so wrong, but there doesn't seem to be any lead otherwise.

    Hope you're still out there man, you were great singing Linger by the Cranberries on your guitar.

    #30

    Jodi Huisentruit - Iowa Newscaster abducted early in the morning on her way to work and never seen again. There are a number of potential suspects but nobody really knows what happened to her. There is a subreddit for this person.

    Elizabeth Barraza - another one with a subreddit - possibly more commonly known but a woman is setting up for a garage sale in the morning and someone shows up in a pickup truck, confronts her and sh**ts her d**d. It's captured on multiple doorbell cameras yet to this day over 6 years later we do not know who the culprit is. Numerous potential suspects like the Huisentruit case but no "for sures".

    #31

    One that doesn't get nearly as much attention as some famous mysteries is the Lead Masks Case in Brazil.

    In 1966, two electronics technicians were found d**d on a hill near Niterói, Brazil. They were wearing formal suits, waterproof coats, and strange homemade lead masks that covered their eyes. Nearby was a notebook containing cryptic instructions, including a reference to taking capsules and waiting for a signal. There were no obvious signs of violence, and investigators never conclusively determined what happened.

    © Photo: FairyWink_

    #32

    The granite caves of Barabar India.

    Of all the ancient wonders that make you scratch your head, this one is an absolute doozy.

    © Photo: facepillownap

    #33

    Sneha Philip. The woman who was last seen the evening of 9/10. Lived near WTC, but there is no evidence that she returned home the night before.

    © Photo: Random_user_nickname

    #34

    All those d**d or disappeared scientists.

    © Photo: goaheadblameitonme

    #35

    The fact that some people vanish without a trace and nobody ever finds out what happened still messes with me.

  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    Fashion is all about taking risks. If you leave the house knowing that some people will despise your outfit, you’re probably making the right choices. But there are some articles of clothing that are essentially universally hated, so if you’re ready to be a fashion critic, we’ve got plenty of pieces for you to pick apart right here.

    Bored Panda has searched far and wide for comedically bad clothing design fails, so we’ve compiled a list of our findings below. From text that makes no sense to color schemes that might remind you of something disgusting, there’s no limit to the ways that designers can mess up. We hope you enjoy channeling your inner Miranda Priestly and scrolling through these hilarious faux pas, and be sure to upvote the ones that you can’t help but laugh at!

    #1 T-Shirts For A Fun Run

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    #2 The Heel Of These Heels Are Heels

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    #3 It's Supposed To Be A Floral Pattern, It Looks Like Bruises

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    Have you ever had a meltdown after going shopping for jeans? Perhaps you’ve tried on 25 pairs, but nothing fits just right. Everything is too baggy in the waist, yet too tight in the hips. Or nothing is the exact cut and color that you had in mind. So you give up, buy a pretzel, and leave the mall feeling ten times worse than you did when you arrived. 

    We all have to wear clothes pretty much all of the time, so you would think that designing cute, comfortable pieces of clothing would be extremely easy. Yet for some reason, it seems like bizarre and uncomfortable items are the norm, not the exception. As you can clearly see from this list, there’s no limit to the number of terrible pieces that you can buy, no matter where you live. 

    #4 Do You Like My New Boots?

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    #5 Shoes That Look Like You Always Just Stepped In Dog Poop

    © Photo: MrBonesMalone

    #6 I Cant Really Decide If Im Dumb For Walking On Pebbles Or If This Is Just Bad Design

    © Photo: Submarine335

    According to Vogue, part of the reason why we’re all struggling to find decent clothing nowadays is that nobody knows where to shop. Fast fashion brands are accessible and affordable, but the quality of their pieces is terrible, and their impact on the planet is even worse. Meanwhile, brands that were historically a bit higher end seem to have plummeted in quality in recent years, so you don’t always get what you pay for.

    And luxury brands are obviously off limits for the average person. When half of Americans are struggling to even buy groceries, spending a significant amount of money on clothing is out of the question. But apparently, social media has also played a role in the collective fashion identity crisis.  

    #7 Donated Blood Today And This Was The Shirt I Got

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    #8 A 'Polo' Shirt

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    #9 Hood On vs. Hood Off

    © Photo: m_delacour

    “The pandemic definitely threw the collective style zeitgeist for a loop,” writer and fashion commentator Alexandra Hildreth told Vogue. “Many consumers stopped shopping for office and non-athleisure daywear altogether, and many others got their own style identity swept up in TikTok’s unprecedented trend acceleration.”

    It has become increasingly difficult for social media users to discern what is actually their own taste versus what they think they like because they saw it online. 

    #10 Can We Stop With The Broken Text Clothing? It's So Bad

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    #11 This Shirt That I Ordered For My Son

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    #12 Cat Socks

    © Photo: Savings-Tax2720

    Meanwhile, social media has certainly expanded the definition of what is considered fashionable. Clashing patterns, skirts layered over dresses, and using skirts as tops would have been fashion faux pas ten years ago. But for some reason, nowadays, many people seem to be dressing “ugly” on purpose.

    Fashion lover Emilee Russell wrote a piece for her Substack examining this phenomenon, where she noted that unflattering silhouettes are suddenly being celebrated. And part of the reason for this may simply be because we’re bored. 

    #13 Buy A Man Eat Fish

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    #14 Finally Found One Of The Infamous "Refuse To Sink Shirts" Irl

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    #15 This Shirt I Found In Turkey

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    “We live in a time where fashion history and trends from decades ago can be dug up in about 3 seconds,” Russell explains. “We have immediate access to inspiration from all eras of style via the internet. That being said, it seems that because of this (and the unfortunate nature of micro trends thanks to social media), we’ve mowed through just about every possible trend there is and seen them styled in all the ‘right’ ways according to the style makers. We’re fatigued. We want something new.” And the solution to this might just be breaking the rules.

    #16 These Shoes Have A Texture Printed Onto Them. There Is No Actual Texture

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    #17 That Awkward Moment When You Accidentally Print A Picture Of A Model In A Similar Shirt Onto The Shirt You Made

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    #18 Foot Is Free. Ball Dom

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    The Guardian also proclaimed in 2024 that “dressing pretty is over,” noting that “this is fashion’s ugly decade.” But even within the realm of unflattering fashion, you can’t be too ugly. Styling questionable pieces still requires an eye for design, and looking unkempt won’t make anyone envy that dress that makes you look like a pilgrim. One thing that might help is adding plenty of accessories. If you’re covered in jewelry, hair clips, a scarf, and a belt, one unattractive piece won’t stand out so much. And apparently, maximalism is in.      

    #19 Bruh

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    #20 "Leg End"?

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    #21 Be Happy

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    It’s also important to remember that you can wear whatever the hell you want, whenever you want, regardless of what’s trending on TikTok. If you find a piece that you love, don’t be scared to wear it. For all you know, it might become trendy next year. And even if it doesn’t, personal style should be personal. At the end of the day, it’s your life. And if you feel confident in something, then it’s certainly worth strutting down the street in. 

    #22 Heres The Second One For Evreyone

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    #23 This Pennywise Halloween Costume

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    #24 Hopefully You Guys Find My Shirt As Amusing As I Do!

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    Are you enjoying these hilariously tragic fashion fails, pandas? Keep upvoting the pieces that you can’t believe were ever created, and let us know in the comments below what the worst articles of clothing you’ve seen recently were. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another article from Bored Panda featuring terrible design, look no further than right here!

    #25 Meet Asla

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    #26 Balenciagas New $5000 Dress

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    #27 Show Me Your Awkward Crops, Let's Make Some New Dinos

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    #28 Didn’t Realise How Bad This T Shirt Was Until I Put On A Jacket!

    © Photo: PachaFerrera

    #29 This Shirt I Bought That May Give Off The Wrong Message

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    #30 How Rude (Toddler Clothes)

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    #31 Grain Text Effect In Photoshop

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    #32 Look At These Amazing Walking Dead Socks!

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    #33 Mmmm My Favorite Combo

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    #34 Absent Is A Clothing Brand Here In Nz

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    #35 Found This On Facebook, No Idea What It’s Trying To Say

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    #36 Found This Frankenstein Of A Shirt While Packing My Things For Moving Houses

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    #37 Shirt Mock-Up Printed On The Shirt

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    #38 Poorly Translated Shirt

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    #39 I’ve Had This Shirt For Years, And Since English Is Not My First Language I Have Always Doubted If This Is Wrong As Hell Or I’m Having A Stroke. Any Help?

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    #40 Thanks, Tokyo Laundry, For Your Red Label On My Grey Jumper Resulting In The Nice Pink Square On My Back. This Is Now The Craft Jumper Since It’s Ruined

    © Photo: SolarLunix_

    #41 I Ordered These Pants, And To Try Them On You Have To Remove The Tags So You Can't Send It Back

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    #42 These Pants Don't Even Have Pockets They Just Added A Zipper To Make It Look Like A Pocket

    © Photo: Toxicwand

    #43 These Shoes Have A Fake Label Sewn Over Another Fake Label

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    #44 They Put The Website Name On The Shirt That Was Paid For

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    #45 These 2020 Glasses

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    #46 Advertising Plus-Size Leggings With A Small Model In One Leg Instead Of Getting A Plus-Sized Model

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    #47 No Has Bo Me Ever?

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    #48 Badly Designed Music Shirt Flatlines

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    #49 This Official Playstation Brand Shirt With The Circle, X, And Triangle Colors Wrong

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    #50 This Shirt I Got 2 Years Ago

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    #51 Still Regret Not Buying This Hat I Saw In Japan

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    #52 This Shirt

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    #53 It's Supposed To Say "Women Want Me, Fish Fear Me"

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    #54 New Jeans I Ordered Online, Have A Dark Spot Which Make You Look Like You Wet Yourself A Little

    © Photo: ansartty

    #55 I Get That It’s A Shirt. But What Does This Mean?

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    #56 Children's T-Shirt, Thought For A Good Minute It Said "Clam"

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    #57 Someone Tell Me What This Shirt Says

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    #58 My Friend Found This Shirt At Target Lmao

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    #59 My Dad's Shirt

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    #60 Australian Hat?!?!

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    #61 This Doctor Who T-Shirt Is Supposed To Say “Time Lord”

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    #62 This Guy Looks Like He's Wearing A Taylor Swift T-Shirt

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    #63 My Kid’s Robotics Club Shirt

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  • Monday 22 June 2026 - 05:00

    When you work from home, you often have the freedom to tackle little household tasks whenever you like. Maybe you clean out a closet during lunch or take the trash out for a quick breather between meetings. But what happens when neighbors start judging how you handle your own space? 

    One man, working from home, often mowed his lawn at odd hours—shirtless, thanks to the heat. One day, while chatting with a neighbor, her husband showed up, noticed him, and later demanded he “dress appropriately” for mowing his own yard. Keep reading to see how this man responded with some perfectly petty revenge.

    What a person does on their own time and on their own property is their business

    A man mowing his lawn shirtless, part of a plan to annoy his insecure neighbor and shock him with his audacity.

    Image credits: stopabox (not the actual photo)

    When this man’s neighbor was offended by how he chose to dress while mowing his lawn, he decided to take his outfits a step further

    Text describing a man's decision to wear revealing shorts to annoy his insecure neighbor.

    Text asserting that mowing shirtless is a normal activity for men in the neighborhood, shocking the insecure neighbor.

    Text detailing the neighbor's becoming a problem, leading to a plan to annoy him even more with audacity.

    A man looking intently at his phone, possibly planning to annoy his insecure neighbor with his audacity.

    Image credits: Stockbusters (not the actual photo)

    Text snippet describing the neighbor's wife making small talk about yard work.

    Text snippet about the insecure neighbor's DM, demanding the man cover up while mowing.

    Text snippet detailing the man's plan to annoy his insecure neighbor by wearing revealing shorts.

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    Working from home often boosts productivity, allowing people to focus deeply without the usual office distractions and interruptions

    Ever since the pandemic, the workplace landscape has changed dramatically. One of the biggest shifts has been the rise of work-from-home setups, something very few companies offered before. Employees suddenly had the freedom to structure their own day, take quick breaks, and even run small household errands between meetings. Tasks that used to feel impossible during office hours could now fit into micro-moments throughout the day. Work became less tied to a desk and more about results and flexibility.

    Even as the world slowly returns to offices and commutes, remote work has proven it’s more than just a temporary experiment; it’s here to stay for millions of people worldwide. Companies are beginning to recognize that productivity isn’t tied to a desk, a cubicle, or even a physical office building. Employees, on the other hand, have discovered a newfound sense of freedom and control over their days, shaping work around life rather than the other way around. Research into remote work shows a fascinating mix of outcomes: many report getting more done, feeling more focused, and even experiencing less stress, while others face the challenge of blurred boundaries, isolation, and a sense of disconnection from colleagues. For countless workers, this hybrid reality has reshaped what “going to work” even means. 

    Studies show that working from home often leads to a noticeable boost in productivity, and the reasons go beyond simply being at a desk. Without the constant interruptions of a busy office: phones ringing, coworkers dropping by, and the endless chatter, people can truly focus on their work and accomplish tasks more efficiently. Emails get answered faster, reports are completed on time, and projects move forward with a clarity that’s hard to achieve in a crowded office environment. 

    At the same time, stress levels can drop significantly when employees have control over their own environment. There are no awkward water-cooler conversations, no office politics lurking in the background, and far fewer micro-distractions pulling your attention away. Instead, you can arrange your workspace, set the lighting, and even control the background noise to match your mood and energy. 

    Another major advantage of working from home is the incredible control it gives you over your own schedule. Suddenly, the rigid 9-to-5 no longer dictates your every move—you decide when to tackle that big project, when to take a mental break, or even when to fit in household chores that would normally feel impossible on a workday. This flexibility means you can enjoy meals on your own timetable, grab a snack when your energy dips, or handle personal errands without feeling guilty or rushed. For many, this sense of autonomy transforms the daily grind into something that feels manageable, even liberating, giving life a rhythm that aligns with your own energy, needs, and priorities.

    Work from home also gives employees a much better work-life balance. One of the biggest perks is cutting out long, stressful commutes. Imagine spending an hour to reach work and another hour and a half stuck in traffic on the way back; that’s two and a half hours of your day gone before you even log off. Remote work eliminates that, giving people extra time to exercise, spend time with family, or just relax. The time saved can transform daily life, turning previously frustrating days into productive, satisfying ones.

    An orange and white lawnmower sits in a lush green yard, representing the yard work inciting neighbor conflict.

    Image credits: Joel Hägele (not the actual photo)

    Remote work can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation, making it harder to stay connected with colleagues and maintain social interactions

    Of course, there are downsides to remote work. Studies note that isolation can be a big issue. Without colleagues around, it’s easy to feel lonely or disconnected from the team. The casual interactions that make office life enjoyable (the jokes, the quick check-ins, the brainstorming sessions) are lost when you’re at home. Employees can also struggle with home office setups: chairs that aren’t ergonomic, small desks, poor lighting, and spotty Wi-Fi all contribute to physical discomfort and mental fatigue.

    On the flip side, remote work can also blur boundaries between work and personal life. People often end up working longer hours because there’s no clear “end of day,” support from leadership may feel distant, and social interactions are limited. It can be difficult to switch off, making work-life balance harder to maintain despite the absence of commuting. Without intentional breaks and boundaries, home can start to feel more like an extension of the office than a sanctuary.

    Clearly, working from home comes with its pros and cons. It offers freedom, flexibility, and the chance to shape your own day, but it also brings challenges like isolation and blurred boundaries. In this particular case, the man mowing his lawn becomes a small but telling reminder of the balance remote work brings; how it grants personal freedom while sometimes creating unexpected social friction and negotiations with neighbors. The key takeaway? Remote work isn’t flawless, but approached with awareness, a sense of humor, and a bit of strategy, it can make life and even something as simple as mowing the lawn, feel lighter and more manageable. Pandas, we want to hear from you: what are your thoughts on this balance between personal freedom and neighborly expectations?

    A man works on a laptop outdoors, symbolizing the man's reaction to his insecure neighbor.

    Image credits: Sóc Năng Động (not the actual photo)

    Readers found the story amusing, and many shared suggestions of how to annoy the neighbor in the future

    A comment about cooling off with water, relating to the insecure neighbor and his plan to annoy.

    A comment suggesting the insecure neighbor's wife wants her grass mowed.

    A comment humorously suggesting mowing in a banana hammock, related to the insecure neighbor.

    A comment about the insecure neighbor's marriage problems if a shirtless lawn mowing bothers him.

    A comment expressing happiness about a man being a homewrecker in revealing shorts to annoy his insecure neighbor.

    A comment on an insecure neighbor with audacity, suggesting wearing short shorts to annoy him even more.

    A comment on an insecure neighbor with audacity, suggesting shirtless gardening to annoy him even more.

    A comment on an insecure neighbor with audacity, suggesting mowing in flesh-colored shorts to annoy him even more.

    A comment on an insecure neighbor with audacity, referencing Stupid S**y Flanders to annoy him even more.

    A comment on an insecure neighbor with audacity, suggesting mowing in a speedo to annoy him even more.

    Insecure neighbor suggests a Borat thong to annoy him more.

    Insecure neighbor discussion: women lining up for yard work day.

    Insecure neighbor suggests pouring water like a romance novel.

    Insecure neighbor asks what's the minimum to avoid jail, creating a plan.

    Insecure neighbor discussion: being super petty to annoy him.

    Screenshot of a comment: 'Don't forget to oil up next time 😊', related to an insecure neighbor situation.

    Screenshot of a comment: 'Wear one of those collar & bow tie things the Chippendale dancers wear.', about an insecure neighbor.

    Screenshot of a comment addressing an insecure neighbor: 'Yeah, seriously the b***h boy can suck it hard. If he's cheating on his wife, he needs to come out and admit it.'

    Screenshot of a comment: 'S**t it up! You're not in a relationship with them so not your problem. I firmly reject the idea that all nudity is s****l. If ma'am next door is all hot and bothered, that's something for her to work out.', regarding an insecure neighbor.

    Screenshot of a comment: 'Shorts so short you need a license to sell hot dogs.', about an insecure neighbor.

    A comment suggesting mowing in tighty whities to annoy an insecure neighbor with audacity.

    Some even shared similar stories of their own

    A story about a dad who mowed shirtless, his clothes, and an insecure neighbor's reaction.

    A comment suggesting an MMA fighter's shirtless, cowboy-themed outfit to annoy an insecure neighbor.

    A comment about a secure relationship and how an insecure neighbor's audacity affects relationships.

    A comment about Shirtless Chris, a neighbor with an amazing body, to annoy an insecure neighbor.

    A Reddit post about an insecure neighbor who mows his lawn naked, shocking the guy with his audacity.

    A Reddit post about an insecure neighbor's court case involving a pole dancer, revealing his audacity.

  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 06:00

    Whether it’s messy relationship drama, heated workplace clashes, or awkward family misunderstandings, daily conflict is unavoidable. Even the most easygoing people get pulled into disagreements where opinions collide and emotions run high. But what if you could step into these real-life stories and give your honest judgment completely consequence-free?

    This interactive poll puts you in the judge's seat for real viral drama. Read the wildest dilemmas, cast your vote on who is in the wrong, and see how your choices compare with the Bored Panda community. Will your instincts match the majority verdict, or will your hot take stand out from the crowd?

    When you’re done reading through these stories, make sure to vote in Part 5 of the ‘Who’s in the Wrong’ poll by clicking here.

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity.💡 🚀

    #1 My husband and I have been planning a family vacation for the past few years. I’ve been saving for it and have been telling my husband I want to book the flights soon. He, however, hasn’t been using his money responsibly, so I told him that I’m going to book flights for the kids and myself, and he can book his flight when he has the money. He’s really upset with me now, saying that it’s not much of a family vacation if "I don’t want him there," but I’ve been bailing us out for the past 5 years, and I just can’t afford to keep doing it.

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    #2 I (38M) am a self-employed building surveyor, and I agreed to do an urgent job on the 29th and 30th of December. I planned it as a work trip, but my girlfriend (33F) wanted to come with me, saying it could be a romantic getaway. I explained to her very clearly that I’m traveling for work, but she can come with me if she finds something fun to do on her own. Despite that, she made multiple moves on me during the trip and even planned for us to go out to dinner with her friend and the friend’s husband. We had a whole fight about it when I refused her advances and stupid plans, since I'd already told her multiple times that I was just there to work.

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    #3 My boyfriend (27M) and I (23F) just bought a new mattress. Last night I woke up to a wet feeling under my arm, and he was in the bathroom. When he came back, I asked him if he knew why the bed was wet. He told me that he thinks he wet the bed by accident during a realistic dream. He grabbed a towel, laid it over the wet spot, and got back into bed to sleep. I pulled the covers off him and told him he needed to clean it up, and he said I was overreacting. I threw the sheets at him and told him to sleep on the couch, and he’s still mad at me for it.

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    #4 I have a daughter (16F) from a previous marriage and a stepson of the same age from my current marriage. He doesn't stay with us that often, but when he is here, he’s a good kid, polite and respectful. He does get kind of grumpy when there’s too much going on around him, especially noise, so he uses expensive noise-canceling headphones, a gift from his father. One time, he left them in his room, and my daughter went through his stuff and accidentally snapped them. Understandably, he was very upset, so I told my daughter she’s replacing the headphones. She’s pissed at me because she knows that my stepson’s father can easily afford new ones for him.

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    #5 My wife of 10 years wanted to try an open relationship. I was really hurt by it, so I decided it’s best to leave her, but I found out that I can avoid alimony if I can prove she is cheating. So I agreed with her, but secretly hired an investigator to gather evidence. One month later, I filed for divorce. My lawyer thinks I’m almost guaranteed to avoid alimony. My wife is begging me to forgive her and saying that she would never have forced me into an open relationship if I just said no. I don’t know what to believe now.

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    #6 My (36M) local coffee shop has a set of five leather chairs that are more comfortable than the rest. When I got there, three older men were sitting in three of the chairs, talking. I squeezed past them into the fourth and started listening to a podcast on my headphones. After I sat down, one of the men mentioned that they were uncomfortable with me being part of their conversation. I told him that I wasn't listening in on them, but I was willing to move. The other two decided it was time for them to leave. They seemed a little upset, but I genuinely didn’t know or care what they were talking about at all.

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    #7 My husband and I live abroad. A mutual acquaintance reached out, saying he’d been scammed with an apartment rental and had nowhere to stay, so we let him live with us for a bit. While he seemed grateful and helped around the house, some things rubbed us the wrong way. He’d never pay for groceries and usually ate way more than his share. We were planning a trip, so we offered him to stay at our place in exchange for taking care of our dog. When we came back, our entire fridge, freezer, and pantry were all empty. He consumed things that usually last us six months in just two weeks. I felt deeply disrespected, but my husband says I’m being too harsh.

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    #8 My girlfriend and I had a Christmas gift exchange with our friends. I have been dating her for a year, and she has been friends with a guy from that group for 10 years. Turns out my girlfriend had made DIY gifts for everyone. She made me one of those boxes that fold into a million little pieces with pictures of us inside and my favorite candy. I loved it. But then this guy opened his gift, and it was a full-sized blanket. Hand-knit. I felt like she put more effort into a gift for a friend than for her boyfriend. When everyone was distracted, I just left. I have been flooded with messages from her asking where I went and from our friends, who are calling me insecure.

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    #9 On the 23rd of December, my daughter's (19F) boyfriend (19M) came over for dinner. I answered the door and noticed he was wearing a t-shirt with a really inappropriate innuendo written on it. I told him the shirt was disrespectful, pulled two twenties out of my wallet, and quietly ushered him back out the door towards the nearest shop to buy a new shirt and come back with it on. Mind you, this whole exchange took place just between him and me. He came back wearing a better shirt, and we had a nice dinner together. The next day, my daughter kept complaining that I had humiliated her boyfriend after finding out what happened.

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    #10 My friend (40M) and I like to go out for sushi. He claims to have invented a new sushi roll and speaks as if he’s proud of himself for it. All he did was list out the ingredients he enjoys to the chef. He even gave this sushi roll the name "Fishermen's delight". I told him he could call it an "invention" if he wanted, but that would make anyone who has ever made a custom order just as much of an inventor. That made him seriously upset, and he thinks I’m in the wrong for downplaying his "invention."

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 04:00

    Often, history holds a strange sense of fascination for all of us. Looking at old photographs, forgotten places, and moments frozen in time can feel almost magical, like peeking into lives that existed long before ours. But not every part of history is inspiring or beautiful. Sometimes, history can be unsettling, heartbreaking, mysterious, or even deeply disturbing. And yet, those darker moments are just as important because they remind us of what humanity has survived, learned from, and sometimes repeated.

    Today, we dived into an Instagram account that shares historical photos offering glimpses into the past—from chilling moments and forgotten tragedies to bizarre snapshots that almost don’t feel real. Some pictures may leave you shocked, others emotional, and a few might simply stay in your head longer than expected. So scroll carefully, Pandas… history can be fascinating, but it can also send chills down your spine.

    #1

    In May 1845, the Franklin expedition set sail from England with 129 men aboard two ships in search of the Northwest Passage. Two months later, a passing vessel saw the HMS Terror and the HMS Erebus off the coast of northern Canada — then they vanished. For 150 years, no one had any idea what happened, until a series of terrifying "ice mummies" began to be pulled from the snow in and around King William Island. Ever since, researchers have worked to determine who these grisly remains belong to — and whether any were victims of the cannibalism that took place as options grew thin.⁠ ⁠ Now, scientists have just used DNA analysis to identify four sailors from the doomed Franklin expedition - read more at the link in our profile.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #2

    Emperor Nero is perhaps most famous for allegedly playing the fiddle while Rome burned, but few people remember Sporus, the boy who became Nero's last empress. A teenager with the bad luck of resembling Nero's dead wife Sabina, Sporus was castrated and paraded before all of Rome as the emperor's new bride. Even after Nero's death, Sporus was passed around as a wife to three other powerful Roman men.⁠ ⁠ This is the story of how a eunuch became the empress of Rome - read more at the link in our profile.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #3

    Researchers in Portugal recently stumbled across a fossil containing the mummified remains of hundreds of bees, perfectly preserved in their cocoons for 3,000 years. The insects were Eucera bees, which spend most of their lives gestating underground and feeding on pollen left by their mothers and only emerge from their subterranean homes for a few weeks, when their favorite flowers bloom. Unfortunately for these particular bees, some unknown catastrophic event kept them from emerging from their cocoons. ⁠ ⁠ Because bee exoskeletons are made of chitin, a fibrous substance that decomposes rather quickly after the animal dies, finding bee exoskeletons preserved for so long is incredibly rare. However, these bees had been sealed within a silk-like waterproof thread created by the mother bee, and over the course of millennia, this casing protected the bees' cells from the outside environment, preventing their decomposition.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    The world is filled with incredible kindness, generosity, and uplifting moments, but it also contains its fair share of hardship, tragedy, and negativity. The problem is that negative stories often grab our attention much more quickly than positive ones. When we constantly read about disasters, conflicts, crimes, or other distressing events, it can leave us feeling emotionally drained and overwhelmed. Of course, these events are real and deserve coverage, especially when they affect people's lives.

    However, repeatedly consuming difficult news can take a toll on our mental well-being. Many people walk away from their news feeds feeling anxious, helpless, or discouraged about the state of the world. That's why it's important to recognize how the information we consume affects our mood. While staying informed matters, so does protecting our emotional health.

    #4

    Metal detectorists were recently exploring areas along the Vistula River in Ryki County, Poland when they came across a wealth of artifacts from World War II. This spot was likely used as a campsite for the Polish Army's cavalry regiments during the September Campaign of 1939, which unfolded just as the war began. Metal detectorists came across everything from dog tags to coins to a spearhead to a dagger.⁠ ⁠ But their most treasured find was an intact cavalry sabre known as a Ludwikówka - see more at the link in our profile.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #5

    "Each time the ritual was performed, the final violent reaction would come from the boy when the words were spoken, 'I cast thee out' — a reaction of profanity and screaming and the astounding use of Latin phrases."⁠ ⁠ On August 20, 1949, The Washington Post reported on a priest who had recently performed 20 to 30 exorcisms on a teenager from suburban Washington, D.C., over the course of several months. Throughout these intense rituals, the boy erupted in fits of cursing and screaming every time the priest invoked the name of God. And once, a heavy armchair that the boy was sitting in slowly tilted to one side until it fell over and threw the boy to the floor. ⁠ ⁠ But the story lay largely forgotten for 20 years — until a psychologist's extensive notes from the incident were discovered and turned into "The Exorcist."

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #6

    Just blocks from the boutiques of Rodeo Drive in the heart of the coveted 90210 zip code, a seemingly dilapidated cottage is nestled among rows of modern homes and swanky mansions. Known as the "Witch's House" of Beverly Hills, this unusual structure stands out with its pointed roof, tiny windows, and hand-painted "No Trespassing" signs as the epitome of the storybook architecture style that gripped California in the 1920s and '30s. A rickety picket fence surrounds a garden full of thorny plants and gnarled trees, making the home appear run-down and vacant, but Spadena House is happily inhabited — and meticulously maintained to look like a centuries-old fairy tale cottage. The current owner has even furnished the interior to match, complete with a dining room table with a tree-trunk base.⁠ ⁠ Go inside the famous Spadena House with 25 whimsical photos by clicking the link in our profile.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    If you've noticed that many modern news headlines seem unusually dramatic, alarming, or negative, you're not imagining it. The way people consume news has changed dramatically over the past few decades. Earlier generations often relied on physical newspapers, where readers might spend considerable time engaging with articles.

    Today, a large portion of global news consumption happens online. In the United States alone, 89% of adults get at least some of their news from the internet, and reliance on digital news sources continues to grow. At the same time, research shows that most users spend less than five minutes per month across all of the top 25 news websites combined. This means news organizations are competing fiercely for an extremely limited amount of reader attention. As a result, many outlets feel pressured to publish eye-catching, emotionally charged, and often negative headlines designed to encourage clicks—a phenomenon commonly known as clickbait.

    #7

    While exploring the ancient Egyptian necropolis at Oxyrhynchus, archaeologists recently uncovered several mummies dating back 1,600 years. Some had bandages adorned with ornate patterns while others had golden tongues placed in their mouths. Researchers even found a jar filled with the cremated remains of an infant as well as the skull of a cat wrapped up in a cloth. However, the most striking discovery was the mummy that had been wrapped up with a papyrus excerpt of Homer's "The Iliad" tucked inside its bandages. Archaeologists were able to remove and read this excerpt, identifying it as a section from Book 2 in which Homer lists the many Greek ships sent to attack Troy.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #8

    In 1936, photographer Dorothea Lange spotted a young mother named Florence Owens sitting with her children in a temporary shelter near a migrants' camp in Nipomo, California. Owens was waiting for her boyfriend, Jim, and two older children to return from an adjacent town to fix their car's radiator.⁠ ⁠ Lange asked Owens for a photograph as part of a series she was doing for the federal government to document the plight of migrant laborers. Allegedly, Lange promised Owens she would not distribute the photos, even though these "Migrant Mother" images would become part of history for decades to come.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #9

    "I don't have any friends and don't have any intention of making any. People will stab you in the back, mistreat you, talk about you behind your back, steal from you. And they're not really your friends."⁠ ⁠ In his later years, legendary "Diff'rent Strokes' actor Gary Coleman had grown so disillusioned with people using him for his money and fame that he wrote in his will that he didn't want anyone who had a financial stake in him present at his funeral. Indeed, people had been taking advantage of the former child star from the moment he started acting. When he was 20, Coleman successfully sued his parents for $1 million of the roughly $3 million they misappropriated from him. ⁠ ⁠ Later, his marriage to actress Shannon Price proved to be even more fraught. Coleman accused her of using him for his money, abusing him, and carrying on affairs behind his back. And even though the couple divorced less than a year after they were married, they lived together right up until Coleman's sudden death in 2010 — after which a bitter battle over Coleman's assets ensued. Learn more about the tragic life of Gary Coleman by following the link in our profile.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    Mental health experts have increasingly begun examining how constant exposure to troubling news affects people emotionally. Don Grant, PhD, who has worked with teenagers and young adults through both Newport Academy and his private practice in Los Angeles, has observed this impact firsthand. He explains that young people may read a story about an endangered animal species, climate change, or another distressing global issue and not immediately realize how deeply it affects them.

    However, the information often lingers in the background of their minds throughout the day. They continue thinking about it, worrying about it, and feeling unsettled by it. As Grant points out, they may find themselves perseverating on the story without fully recognizing why their mood has shifted. The emotional impact can be subtle at first, but it often accumulates over time.

    #10

    In 1995, DHL co-founder Larry Hillblom died in a plane crash near the Northern Mariana Islands. In the aftermath, a number of s*x workers came forward claiming that he had fathered their children. But proving their claim was tricky. Not only had Hillblom's body never been found, but his live-in girlfriend had destroyed all possible DNA evidence — including his toothbrush, comb, and clothing — by burying it in their backyard. Ultimately, lawyers for the women decided to test the children against each other.⁠

    They found that four of the children shared a father, and Hillblom's mother ultimately relented and gave blood after she was promised $1 million. The four children were thus proven to be Hillblom's, and because he died without adding a disinheritance clause to his will, the children inherited a huge share of his $600 million estate - read more at the link in our profile.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #11

    For more than 20 years, Helen Ackley and her family lived in this stately Victorian home perched along the Hudson River in Nyack, New York. Though the house was spacious and charming, the family soon came to believe that it was also haunted. Their terrifying accounts included everything from beds rocking on their own to spirits floating through the living room to a lieutenant from the Revolutionary War lurking in the basement.⁠ ⁠ But after a man named Jeffrey Stambovsky signed a contract to purchase the house in 1989, Ackley wanted him to know that it was haunted, prompting Stambovsky to pull out of the sale. His refusal to honor the signed contract went to trial and eventually made its way to New York's Supreme Court, which decided in Stambovsky's favor, allowing him out of the sale and declaring, "As a matter of law, the house is haunted."⁠ ⁠ Learn more about the only house in America to ever be legally declared haunted at the link in our profile.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #12

    Just a few months before Abraham Lincoln was assassinated, his son Robert was preparing to board a train in New Jersey when he had a terrifying near-death experience. While standing on the narrow platform, Lincoln was jostled by a crowd and pushed against a train car just as it started to move. The force of the train threw him off balance, and as he began to fall toward the tracks, feet-first into the empty space between the moving train cars, someone grabbed him by the coat collar and yanked him back to safety. Lincoln looked up to thank his rescuer — and was amazed to see that it was none other than Edwin Booth, one of the most famous actors of the day.⁠

    In an eerie twist of fate, it was Edwin's brother, John Wilkes Booth, who would go on to a***ssinate Robert's father just a few months later. And while Edwin was devastated over the president's death, he found comfort in the knowledge that he had once saved the life of Lincoln's son.⁠

    Click the link in our profile to learn more about the life of Edwin Booth, the famous actor who became a footnote in history after his brother k**led the president.⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    Grant refers to this growing phenomenon as "media saturation overload," a term that captures the emotional exhaustion many people experience after consuming large amounts of news and online content. He is far from the only mental health professional noticing this trend. In recent years, several new phrases have entered public conversation to describe similar experiences. Terms such as "doomscrolling," "headline anxiety," and "headline stress disorder" have become increasingly common as people struggle to manage a nonstop stream of information.

    Thanks to smartphones and social media, troubling news is no longer limited to a morning newspaper or evening broadcast. Instead, it follows people throughout the day, arriving through notifications, social feeds, videos, and conversations. While technology keeps us connected, it can also make it difficult to mentally disconnect from upsetting events.

    #13

    Like many tribes in the United States, the Osage people were forced to vacate their native land to make room for white settlers. But much to the disdain of settlers, this move led the Osage to incredible wealth in the 1920s, as oil was discovered on their new land in Oklahoma. This soon put a target on the Osage people's backs, and before long, dozens of tribe members were turning up dead — the victims of sh**tings, brutal beatings, and st**bings.⁠

    Since local authorities were no help, the m*rder spree soon became the first big case for the future FBI, which turned the case over to a former Texas Ranger named Tom White, who was willing to work with a Native American agent to investigate the crimes properly. Because of this, a wealthy cattleman named William Hale was later revealed to be one of the masterminds behind the Osage Indian M*rders, along with Hale's nephew Ernest Burkhart, who had married an Osage woman named Mollie solely to steal her fortune after brutally k**ling off a number of her family members. But they weren't the only ones behind this vicious crime spree. ⁠

    Learn more about the Osage Indian M*rders — and how the FBI investigation only scratched the surface of this deadly conspiracy — at the link in our profile.

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #14

    Born in 1898, William James Sidis could read “The New York Times” by 18 months, spoke English, French, German, Russian, Hebrew, and Turkish by age six, and even invented his own language. With an estimated IQ between 250 and 300 — far above that of Einstein and Newton — he was accepted to Harvard at the age of 11 and began lecturing to his peers on four-dimensional bodies by age 12. Despite his extraordinary abilities, Sidis shied away from fame, working in low-level office jobs and retreating from public attention. He died on July 17, 1944, at age 46, living in seclusion as a penniless office clerk. ⁠

    © Photo: realhistoryuncovered

    #15

    "The thought of having s*x with her husband made her physically ill, and she would fly into a panic."⁠

    Jordan Graham grew up in Kalispell, Montana, a small city just outside Glacier National Park. Her family was deeply religious, attending weekly worship and other events at Faith Baptist Church. Graham likewise met most of her friends through church, and she often told them about her dreams of getting married and starting a family. ⁠

    When she met Cody Johnson, it seemed like that dream was coming true. The couple began dating in 2011 and on June 29, 2013, they were married. It was then, however, that Graham was overwhelmed with terror at the prospect of having s*x with her new husband. The very day after the wedding, she texted her friends saying she had "totally had a meltdown" and didn't know why she'd decided to marry Johnson. ⁠

    All these emotions came to a head when Graham and Johnson were having an argument while hiking along a cliff in Glacier National Park eight days after the wedding. Graham said that Johnson grabbed her arm — then she, not thinking about where they were, "just pushed," sending her husband to his death.

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    Research has repeatedly shown a connection between frequent news consumption and emotional distress. One study examining news-seeking behaviors and emotional responses found that increased exposure to current headlines (whether through traditional media outlets or social media platforms) can negatively affect mental well-being. Researchers surveyed 2,251 adults during the spring of 2020 and discovered a clear pattern.

    The more frequently participants sought information about COVID-19 through television, newspapers, websites, and social media, the more likely they were to report experiencing emotional distress. While staying informed can help people feel prepared, constantly checking for updates can have the opposite effect. Instead of providing reassurance, excessive news consumption may heighten feelings of fear, uncertainty, and worry. This highlights the importance of finding a healthy balance between staying informed and becoming overwhelmed.

    #16

    In 1962, Marilyn Monroe died inside her Los Angeles home at the age of just 36. Discovered naked in her bed and surrounded by empty pill bottles, the legendary actress was found with an enormous amount of barbiturates in her system. On the surface, it appeared to be a s**cide — but further examination suggested foul play. Despite the high levels of dr*gs in her system, there were no pills found in her stomach. And a mysterious bruise hinted that she may have been injected with a deadly dose of Nembutal.⁠

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    #17

    On the morning of July 3, 1988, 290 passengers and crew, including 65 children, boarded Iran Air Flight 655 at Bandar Abbas airport in Iran. Their flight, a short trip to Dubai, was popular among Iranians, who sometimes shopped for luxury goods there on the weekends. But on that morning, things would take a terrible, tragic turn.⁠

    Just moments after the flight took off, it was detected by the USS Vincennes, a U.S. Navy warship patrolling the Strait of Hormuz during the Iran-Iraq War. The Vincennes had just engaged Iranian g*nboats, and it mistook the civilian aircraft for an Iranian fighter jet heading in its direction. With minutes to react, the ship's captain gave the order to fire — and the warship sh*t Iran Air Flight 655 out of the sky, k**ling everyone onboard.⁠

    In the aftermath, the U.S. called the incident a "terrible tragedy" but also blamed Iran for letting its civilian aircraft fly near an active military zone. Iran, meanwhile, called the downing of the aircraft a "barbaric m**sacre," and sued the U.S. in the International Court of Justice. Without admitting liability, the U.S. settled the case and agreed to pay $61.8 million (more than $100 million today) to the victims' families.⁠

    But the memory of Iran Air Flight 655 is far from forgotten in Iran today

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    #18

    While married to his first wife, Albert Einstein had two sons: Hans Albert and Eduard. But when the boys were still young, he left them to be with his second wife. Though living apart, Albert frequently worried about Eduard, who was a sickly child with innumerable health problems. In one letter to a friend, Albert even mused about the practice of leaving ill children on a mountainside to die, but ultimately stated that he would do whatever it took to help Eduard, and even accompanied the boy to sanitariums. ⁠ ⁠ Eduard, however, purportedly never forgave his father for abandoning the family. Interested in psychiatry, he also mused about the impact of having a famous father, once writing to a friend, "People who fill their time with intellectual work bring into the world sickly, nervous at times even completely idiotic children (for example...me)." Meanwhile, Eduard's behavior became increasingly erratic, and he was diagnosed with schizophrenia in the early 1930s. Shortly thereafter, Albert left Europe for the U.S. ⁠ ⁠ Though father and son initially stayed in touch, they would never see each other again. Albert became more distant as Eduard's mental health problems deepened, and by the end of Albert's life, he was estranged from his son, who remained in psychiatric hospitals until his death in the 1960s.

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    Studies have also linked prolonged exposure to negative news with increased symptoms of anxiety and depression. In fact, one study found measurable increases in these symptoms after just 14 minutes of news consumption. While that may sound surprising, psychologists explain that repeated exposure to distressing information can trigger feelings of helplessness, particularly when the problems being reported feel beyond an individual's control.

    Whether it's a natural disaster on the other side of the world or a major global crisis, people often feel emotionally invested but powerless to change the outcome. This combination of concern and lack of control can amplify stress levels. Over time, constant exposure to difficult news stories may contribute to emotional fatigue, making it harder for individuals to maintain a positive outlook and sense of well-being.

    #19

    During a time when Times Square was one of the most dangerous places in New York, a group called the Guardian Angels stepped onto the scene. In 1979, the group was formed, and volunteers were recruited to help patrol the New York City subway to prevent crime. Adorned with their distinctive red berets, this group still operates today. To see more vintage images from Times Square

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    #20

    In 1823, a fur trapper named Hugh Glass was traveling with other frontiersmen in modern-day South Dakota when he was attacked by a grizzly bear. Though Glass survived, the bear had broken Glass' leg and left such deep wounds in his torso that some of his ribs were exposed. His fellow fur trappers assumed he would die soon and assigned two men in the group to stay with him. But the men ended up stealing Glass' weapons and survival tools, cruelly leaving him to die alone on the frontier. Glass was so furious that his desire for revenge gave him the energy he needed to survive his ordeal, and before long, he had miraculously stumbled more than 200 miles to the nearest fort. And then he began seeking his vengeance.⁠

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    #21

    Marguerite de la Rocque was sailing to the New World with her relative in 1542 when she met a man on board and began a love affair with him. Her relative was so scandalized that he abandoned them, alongside a servant, on the remote Isle of Demons near Newfoundland. Though de la Rocque gave birth to a baby, the infant died, as did her two companions, leaving her isolated and surrounded by hostile wildlife.⁠ ⁠ Armed with a knife, a gun, and a Bible, de la Rocque reportedly survived by fighting off wild animals — including polar bears. She was finally rescued two years later in 1544, and her story sparked such interest that the queen of France included it in her short story collection.

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    #22

    The Roaring Twenties is one of the most iconic eras in American history, but you may be surprised to hear that much of the culture from the time period was actually brought about by Prohibition. When the 18th Amendment banned the sale and transport of alcohol in 1920, illegal saloons called speakeasies appeared across the United States.⁠ ⁠ Since these new bars weren't regulated by law, women could enter and drink right alongside men. They soon began smoking and dancing, and the "flapper" was born. And with the rise of speakeasies, drinking became more of a social pastime, and venues started bringing in jazz musicians to entertain the crowds, helping to bring about the Jazz Age. Prohibition was ultimately repealed in 1933, but the drinking culture it inspired is still popular today.

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    Clearly, the news we consume has a significant impact on our thoughts, emotions, and overall mental health. While staying informed is an important part of being an engaged citizen, it's equally important to pay attention to how that information affects us personally. Taking breaks from the news, setting boundaries around media consumption, and intentionally seeking out positive or inspiring stories can help create a healthier balance. The goal isn't to ignore difficult realities but to ensure that they don't completely overshadow the good that exists in the world. 

    #23

    Mutsuhiro Watanabe was born into a wealthy family and attended a prestigious university, so when World War II broke out, he expected that he would immediately be made an officer. Instead, Watanabe was assigned the rank of corporal and assigned to a series of POW camps. Bitter and jealous, Watanabe was unpopular even among his fellow soldiers — and he took out his resentment on the prisoners. Not only did Watanabe beat them, but he also tortured them psychologically by destroying photographs they had of their families or burning their unopened letters from home. ⁠ ⁠ After the conflict ended, Watanabe was declared one of the most wanted war criminals in Japan. But he went into hiding — even his mother thought he had died — and the charges against him were dropped in 1952. Afterward, Watanabe had a lucrative career as a life insurance salesman and exhibited no remorse for his actions during the war. In a rare interview, he stated: "Beating and kicking in Caucasian society are considered cruel behavior. However, there were some occasions in the prison camp in which beating and kicking were unavoidable… I treated them strictly as enemies of Japan."⁠

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    #24

    On May 13, 1983, millionaire vaudeville promoter Roy Radin got into a limo with Hollywood producer Karen Greenberger — and was never seen alive again. Radin was in Los Angeles to meet with Robert Evans, the legendary studio head behind "The Godfather," about financing the upcoming film "The Cotton Club." Evans was reportedly in a relationship with Greenberger at the time and she was involved in deal-making discussions for the movie. But just days after Radin and Greenberger were seen together in the limo, he was reported missing. ⁠

    A month later, his body was found 65 miles away in Gorman, California, with a single g*nsh*t wound behind his left ear. When questioned, Greenberger first said that Radin had kicked her out of the limo after they got into an argument. However, she then changed her story and claimed that Radin had climbed out of the vehicle and told the driver to take her home. It wasn't until four years later that police discovered that Greenberger had hired a hitman to m*rder Radin — all because she felt she wasn't getting a fair cut in "The Cotton Club" deal.

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    #25

    Archaeologists in Israel have unearthed a 2,500-year-old mass grave filled with the remains of dozens of infants and children. For decades, people in the ancient city of Azekah used this repurposed cistern as a burial plot for as many as 89 children, most of them under the age of two. Though researchers do know that the children were buried here just after they died, experts remain unsure what k**led the children in the first place. Now, this haunting discovery may shed more light on life in ancient Azekah, located in the valley outside Jerusalem where David is said to have k**led Goliath.⁠

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    #26

    In the late 1980s, Mexican singer Chalino Sánchez rose to fame as the "King of Corrido," referring to the genre of music made up of ballads about dr*g lords and associated g*ngsters. Sánchez performed songs about c*rtels, dr*g trafficking, and true crime, and his sincere lyrics resonated with fans who understood the struggles of life in some of the poorest and most violence-plagued areas of Mexico.⁠

    But on May 15, 1992, Sánchez took the stage at the Salón Bugambilias in Culiacán. While his band played the first notes of a song, someone in the crowd handed Sánchez a note. Nobody knows what it said, but Sánchez was visibly shaken by its contents. Still, he continued the concert, and he left the club with two of his brothers, his cousin, and several women at the end of the night. As the group was driving through Culiacán, they were pulled over by armed men who identified themselves as police officers. They told Sánchez that their commander wanted to speak to him, so the singer got into their car. He was never seen alive again.⁠

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    Being aware of what's happening around us helps us make informed decisions, participate in our communities, and better understand the world. The key is consuming news mindfully rather than endlessly scrolling through alarming headlines. The world contains both challenges and acts of kindness, both setbacks and progress. By making room for both perspectives, we can stay informed without becoming overwhelmed, and remain hopeful without becoming uninformed.

    #27

    "He was a hero. He was not some psycho on the corner. He was not. He was a gentle giant until you pushed him. If you pushed him to the max, then you'd see a different person. But it took an awful lot. It took a lot."⁠ ⁠ Brian Brown-Easley had been a shy, gentle young man before enlisting in the U.S. Marines. But after his dishonorable discharge, his family noticed a marked change in the man who'd been known as "Easy." He showed signs of paranoia, sometimes flew into fits of rage, and briefly broke off contact with his wife and daughter when he checked himself into a mental hospital. Eventually diagnosed with PTSD, schizophrenia, and paranoia, Brown-Easley seemed to be pulling his life together after his release from the hospital, forming a strong bond with his daughter and supporting himself on his monthly disability payments from the VA. Then, these payments suddenly stopped — and he "just snapped."⁠

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    #28

    In December of 1900, three lighthouse keepers stationed in Scotland's Flannan Isles suddenly disappeared. Investigators found that the island, Eilean Mòr, had been brutally ravaged by a recent storm. Inside the lighthouse, it was as if no one had left, with proper upkeep continued up until the moment the keepers vanished. The official story was that the men had been attempting to secure a box from the storm when they were swept out to sea by a massive wave, but speculation remained.⁠

    Outlandish explanations spread in the media: perhaps the men had been carried away by a sea serpent, or they had conspired to abandon the lighthouse together and sailed off to a new life. Maybe they had been kidnapped by foreign agents — or maybe it was a ghost. Over time, another seemingly more plausible theory emerged. Rumored logbook entries from one of the keepers reported one man crying and another irritable amid the storm. Many soon began to wonder if the men had not been k**led by a wave, but had instead m**dered one another.⁠

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    #29

    On April 2, 1801, with the Napoleonic Wars tearing Europe apart, the British Navy attacked Danish ships in Copenhagen Harbor. Hoping to force Denmark out of its alliance with Russia, Prussia, and Sweden, British ships under the command of Admiral Horatio Nelson b*mbarded the Danish Navy mercilessly. Atop Nelson's hit list was the 157-foot Danish flagship Dannebroge, which he a**aulted with cannonballs that tore through its upper deck and sparked a fire that crippled this imposing vessel. Soon enough, Denmark surrendered and the Dannebroge sank to the bottom of the harbor, though all but 72 of its 357 crew members were able to survive.⁠

    Now, in preparation for a massive housing construction project in the harbor, divers have located the wreck of the Dannebroge. Though the vessel itself can't be recovered, marine archaeologists have collected a wealth of remains, including grape sh*t, a cannonball, uniforms, insignia, one sailor's shoe, and another sailor's jawbone.

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    #30

    To many Americans, George Washington has long been the epitome of dignity. Not only did he lead the United States to victory during the Revolutionary War, but he also served two terms as the country's first president before giving up power to prevent future undemocratic executive branches. But Washington had another side that remains little-known to this day.⁠ ⁠ Though you'd never know it from the dour expressions in his iconic portraits, Washington absolutely loved to drink. Two days before he signed the U.S. Constitution, shortly before he became president, Washington threw a party for 55 guests in Philadelphia and racked up a bar tab of over $17,000 — plus another $300 for all the glasses they broke. The soon-to-be president and his guests drank 54 bottles of Madeira wine, 60 bottles of Bordeaux, eight bottles of whiskey, 22 bottles of ale, eight bottles of hard cider, 12 jugs of beer, and seven large bowls of punch. And Washington didn't slow down after he ascended to the presidency — when he spent an eyebrow-raising 7 percent of his presidential income on alcohol. He apparently liked to end each night with a full bottle of Madeira, plus some rum or beer.⁠

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    #31

    In the wake of World War II and the advent of the nuclear b*mb, the specter of world-ending warfare became a stunningly immediate fear for many Americans — one that tensions between the United States and the Soviet Union amplified. Among the many potential answers to a worst-case scenario was the creation of the Boeing E-4B, an American aircraft built to withstand nuclear radiation and fly in the air for days. In the event of a nuclear war, the President of the United States could escape to one of these planes, safely commanding a response from the air. ⁠

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    #32

    Perhaps no survivor of the Titanic was more fearless than "The Unsinkable Molly Brown." Famously portrayed in the classic 1997 film, Brown was even more formidable in real life. When the ship began to sink on the night of April 14, 1912, Brown sprang into action, tirelessly helping others board lifeboats before she was finally persuaded to board one herself. Once aboard, she grabbed an oar and rowed her fellow passengers toward safety — before stopping to insist that the vessel's crewman turn around so that they could save more people. When he told her that they could be sucked into the frozen depths of the North Atlantic, she refused to back down and threatened to toss him overboard if he didn't turn back.⁠

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    #33

    The Boston Strangler terrorized the women of Boston from 1962 to 1964, k**ling 13 and sparking one of the largest investigations in the city's history. The main suspect at the time was Albert DeSalvo, an inmate at a mental hospital who actually confessed to the k**lings.

    However, there was no physical evidence linking him to any of the crime scenes, and he was never charged with the m*rders. Decades later, DNA evidence did link DeSalvo to the scene of the final r*pe and m*rder that's commonly attributed to the Boston Strangler — but many were skeptical. From the ages of the victims to the way they were k**led, there are several discrepancies that suggest there was more than one strangler, and the case remains a mystery to this day.⁠

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    #34

    "It still haunts me. It always will."⁠

    In October 1969, a cab driver named Paul Stine was m*rdered in San Francisco. The Zodiac k**ler, an anonymous m**derer who'd k**led several young couples in the Bay Area already, claimed credit for Stine's m**der and even sent a bloody piece of Stine's shirt to the San Francisco Chronicle. Stine was the first of the Zodiac victims to be k**led within San Francisco, and so the case landed on the desk of a San Francisco Police Department detective named Dave Toschi. ⁠

    For the next decade, Toschi doggedly investigated the case, interviewing up to 5,000 people in his quest to unmask the Zodiac k**ler. He personally came to believe that the most likely suspect was Arthur Leigh Allen, a man who was reportedly writing a "novel" about a k**ler called "Zodiac" who k**led couples. But Toschi was never able to find enough evidence to connect Allen to any of the crimes. ⁠

    Even after he left the case in the 1970s, Toschi continued to wonder about the identity of the Zodiac K**ler. But the perpetrator remains unknown to this day. ⁠

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    #35

    When Sajida Talfah was a child, her parents arranged her marriage with her first cousin, a younger boy named Saddam Hussein. They didn't meet until they were in their early 20s, shortly before their wedding, but their relationship ultimately lasted 43 years and produced five children. It wasn't always a happy union, however. In the 1980s, Hussein took a second wife, a woman named Samira Shahbandar. Samira was furious, and she wasn't the only one. Her eldest son with Hussein, Uday, m**dered the man who purportedly introduced his father to Samira.⁠

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    #36

    André René Roussimoff, better known as André the Giant, was born in 1946 with a condition known as gigantism. This caused his pituitary gland to produce too much growth hormone, causing him to be 6'3" and 240 pounds by the age of 12. By the time he was an adult, André stood at 7'4" and 520 pounds. In fact, his fingers were so big that a silver dollar could fit inside one of his rings.⁠ ⁠ Unfortunately, his condition led to him experiencing congestive heart failure at the age of just 46. The crematoriums in Paris, where he passed, were not big enough to accommodate a body of his size. After his body was sent back to the United States, he was cremated, and his ashes ultimately weighed 17 pounds.

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    #37

    In the final weeks of the Vietnam War, the U.S. government organized the mass evacuation of Vietnamese orphans from Saigon to be placed with families across America. Known as Operation Babylift, the mission was a joint effort between the Air Force, private airlines, and philanthropic businessmen — including U.S. Army veteran and Playboy publisher Hugh Hefner.⁠ ⁠ On April 9, 1975, Hefner sent his private plane "Big Bunny" to Saigon to help carry dozens of Vietnamese orphans to New York City, with Playboy Bunnies caring for the babies during the entire flight until they reached LaGuardia. Follow the link in our profile to see more of the astonishing rescue mission that helped save over 3,300 South Vietnamese babies before the fall of Saigon.⁠

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    #38

    "She is the first feline astronaut in the world."⁠ ⁠ On October 18, 1963, French scientists in the Sahara Desert launched a rocket with an unusual passenger: a tuxedo cat named Félicette. A stray feline found on the streets of Paris, Félicette had undergone special "training" alongside 13 other cats to determine her fitness for space travel. Because Félicette was the calmest cat of the whole group — and didn't gain weight during the study — she was chosen as the first feline to ever go to space.⁠ ⁠ Félicette spent 15 minutes in spaceflight before her rocket plummeted back down to Earth. But even though she survived the trip, her story would soon come to a tragic end. Not long after Félicette returned from her journey, French scientists euthanized her so that they could study the effects that the trip had on her brain.⁠ ⁠

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    #39

    “I landed in this country with $2.50 in cash and $1 million in hopes. And those hopes never left me.”⁠ ⁠ A fraudster from the early 20th century, Charles Ponzi has since become the most notorious con man in United States history. In fact, the term "Ponzi scheme" for an illegitimate operation was coined for him. The international postal coupon system caught his eye when he realized he could buy massive quantities of postal coupons from countries with weak economies and redeem them in countries with stronger ones. With the promise of a return on investment, Ponzi used trained sales agents to pitch to potential investors. However, Ponzi just pocketed the money.⁠ ⁠ In just six months, he had over 40,000 investors, making him a millionaire who could afford a mansion, multiple cars, and a gold-handled cane. While he was eventually caught and deported back to Italy, Charles Ponzi's name lives on in infamy.

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    #40

    "Everybody in that situation... you would have arrived at the same thought. And it's easier than you think."⁠ ⁠ In December 1972, three farmers in Chile came upon two skeletal men shouting for help. They said they'd been in a plane crash two months earlier and 14 other passengers were still stranded up in the Andes Mountains. The men had spent the last 10 days hiking nearly 40 miles through the steep slopes in search of rescue, and their bravery had paid off. When the 16 survivors returned to Uruguay, everyone wanted to know how they'd managed to live in the extreme conditions for 72 days, and the disturbing truth soon came out: They had eaten the dead bodies of their fellow passengers to avoid starvation.

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    #41

    Known around the world as the ruthless Mongol conqueror who built the largest contiguous land empire in history, Genghis Khan is likewise famous for his countless wives and concubines who birthed him as many as 1,000 children. In fact, he was so prolific that a 2003 study concluded that roughly 1 in 200 modern men are direct descendants of his.⁠ ⁠ However, new research just disproved this astonishing claim. Scientists analyzed DNA from four corpses interred in mausoleums in Kazakhstan that are believed to belong to Genghis Khan's relatives, with one of them perhaps belonging to his eldest son, Jochi. Researchers found that their DNA contains a specific signature that's different from the supposed Genghis Khan signature identified in the 2003 study. It's thus likely that far fewer men today are related to Genghis Khan than previously thought

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    #42

    "It's incredible to imagine how this tiny piece of history created by an ancient civilization thousands of years ago has somehow made its way to Leeds."⁠ ⁠ A coin that someone used for bus fare in Leeds, England in the 1950s has been identified as a 2,000-year-old Phoenician relic. When the city's chief cashier, James Edwards, later plucked it out from the pile, he took it home to his young son, Peter. For 70 years, Peter kept his "treasure" in a small wooden chest — before investigating and eventually discovering its origins. Experts have now confirmed that the coin, featuring the god Melqart on one side and a pair of tuna on the other, was minted by Phoenicians in the Spanish city of Cadiz in the first century B.C.E.⁠

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    #43

    While preparing for hospital construction in Romania, excavators recently happened upon a perfectly-preserved ancient staircase — leading down into vast Roman catacombs containing 34 graves. This enormous necropolis from the ancient city of Tomis also held a wealth of rare relics, including jewelry, coins, amphorae, and glass vessels. But perhaps the two most remarkable finds were a ceremonial shield and a stone tablet emblazoned with a Greek inscription wishing good health and fortune to the emperor.⁠

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    #44

    In the Victorian era, going to the beach wasn’t as simple as laying out a towel. Because it was considered scandalous for a "proper" lady to be seen in a swimsuit — even one that covered her from neck to ankle — the "Bathing Machine" was invented. These were essentially wooden huts on wheels that functioned as mobile dressing rooms.⁠ ⁠ A woman would enter the hut on dry land, change into her swimwear, and then wait as a horse pulled the entire structure into the surf. Once deep enough, she would emerge from a door facing the open ocean, shielded from the gaze of men on the shore. To ensure she actually got into the water, strong attendants known as "dippers" would often stand by to literally dunk the bathers into the waves.⁠

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    #45

    Ninety-eight years ago today, Fred McFeely Rogers was born in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. Better known as Mister Rogers, he would eventually become the most beloved broadcaster in the history of children's television. From 1968 to 2001, "Mister Rogers' Neighborhood" taught children across America about everything from family and friendship to love and death.⁠ ⁠ Never afraid of tackling weighty topics, Rogers centered some of his most enduring episodes on subjects like divorce, the loss of a family pet, and racial harmony. In fact, perhaps the series' most iconic scene came in 1969 when Rogers broke barriers by sharing a pool with a Black policeman character named Officer Clemmons. Likewise unafraid to take up important causes in real life, Rogers also remains famous for testifying before the U.S. Senate Subcommittee on Communications in 1969 in order to stop proposed budget cuts that would have gutted funding for PBS. As he delivered a heartfelt speech on the importance of children's programming, he brought Committee Chairman John Pastore to tears — and convinced Congress to halt the budget cuts. ⁠

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    #46

    A public works project in southern Italy's Salerno province just turned up an ancient Samnite necropolis filled with 34 burials, including 15 children. Found in the seaside town of Pontecagnano Faiano, this 2,300-year-old burial ground was uncovered at the site of a former tobacco factory. ⁠ ⁠ Archaeologists unearthed jewelry, ceramics, and weapons including spearheads and javelin points, but perhaps most astonishing were the two children interred with massive bronze belts. Known as warrior belts, these were usually reserved for the burials of adult men who had seen combat, leaving experts baffled as to why they were found on children

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    #47

    After he was k**led in the early morning hours of May 2nd, 2011, Osama bin Laden's body was disposed of at sea that same night.⁠

    Since then, a single DNA test has been released confirming the body was that of bin Laden, but no other supporting evidence has since been provided.

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    #48

    Archaeologists in Egypt have uncovered graffiti on the walls of several ancient tombs in the Valley of the Kings — left there by tourists from India 2,000 years ago. Researchers ultimately discovered 30 inscriptions written in three different Indian languages and spread across six tombs built for pharaohs like Tausert, Setnakhte, and Ramesses IX. Most remarkable was the fact that one man left eight inscriptions inside five different tombs, all of them reading, "Cikai Korran came here and saw." More noteworthy still is that he somehow managed to leave his etchings 16 to 20 feet off the ground each time out, and even got inside one tomb that was completely sealed off.

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    #49

    "Finds like this highlight the rich history beneath our city."⁠ ⁠ While excavating for storm drain tank construction at Queen's Gardens in Hull, England, workers recently happened upon a massive cannon that could be as much as 400 years old. Measuring 8.5 feet long and weighing 2,200 pounds, the cannon is believed to come from either the 17th or 18th century. It had likely been moved to Queen's Garden during the 1920s or '30s and repurposed as fodder for dockside backfill or as a mooring post for ships.

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    #50

    On this day 170 years ago, one congressman almost beat another to death right on the floor of the chamber. Two days earlier on May 20, 1856, abolitionist Massachusetts Senator Charles Sumner gave a fiery speech in which he criticized slavery and slaveholders, including South Carolina Senator Andrew Butler. So, on May 22, Butler's cousin, South Carolina Representative Preston Brooks, walked up to Sumner as he sat at his desk and began beating him mercilessly with a metal-tipped walking cane. Brooks didn't stop when Sumner fell unconscious, nor did he stop when his cane broke in two.

    Eventually, other senators were able to intervene and restrain Brooks, who never apologized for the attack and never faced any charges.⁠ ⁠ As for Sumner, it would be more than three years before he could return to the Senate, but the state of Massachusetts insisted on not replacing him, instead leaving his chair empty as a reminder of the attack — while an increasingly divided nation inched ever closer to civil war.⁠

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    #51

    In July 1975, labor leader Jimmy Hoffa went to lunch at the Machus Red Fox restaurant outside of Detroit — and was never seen or heard from again. He ran the most powerful union in America, gave Attorney General Robert F. Kennedy the middle finger during a Congressional hearing, and made both friends and enemies at the highest echelons of organized crime. Then, on July 30, 1975, he simply vanished into thin air.⁠ ⁠ Some say he was executed, dismembered, frozen, and buried under Giants Stadium. Others say he was betrayed by his friends and run through a meat grinder. Still others believe he was abducted by federal agents and pushed out of an airplane thousands of feet above the Great Lakes.⁠

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    #52

    Travis Walton was working as a logger in Arizona's Apache-Sitgreaves National Forest on November 5, 1975 when he and his crew noticed a glowing light in the forest. Walton got out of the car to take a closer look, and to the horror of the others, the light seemed to grab him, fling him into the air, and slam him back down again. The loggers fled, and when they returned a few minutes later, Walton was gone.⁠

    The loggers, who reported Walton missing, were suspected of m*rdering him. But they were adamant about what they had witnessed — and five days later, Walton reappeared in the town of Heber, about 12 miles from where he'd last been seen. Not only did Walton confirm the others' stories, he also claimed that the light had come from an alien craft and that he'd spent the last five days being examined by extraterrestrials. ⁠

    Go inside the alleged alien abduction of Travis Walton, which later inspired the 1993 movie "Fire In The Sky."

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    Shortly before he died in 2010, a scholar named Zecharia Sitchin described himself as "the most controversial 89-year-old man in New York." Known for spearheading a theory that early humans were genetically modified by aliens called Anunnaki, Sitchin was dismissed by countless scientists, historians, and archaeologists. And yet his 13 books sold millions of copies around the world. ⁠ ⁠ Up until his final days, Sitchin insisted that the Anunnaki were behind the creation of early humans, one of the first civilizations, and the incredible advances that the ancient Sumerians made thousands of years ago. He said, "This is in the texts; I'm not making it up. [The aliens] wanted to create primitive workers from the homo erectus and give him the genes to allow him to think and use tools."⁠ ⁠

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    On February 16, 1981, 19-year-old Arne Cheyenne Johnson m*rdered his landlord in Bridgeport, Connecticut. And although he had no criminal history, Johnson had started to exhibit strange behavior months earlier. According to his fiancée, he would frequently fall into a trance-like state and begin growling before returning to normal and having no recollection of what happened.⁠

    This was around the same time that his fiancée's 11-year-old brother, David Glatzel, underwent an exorcism while Johnson was present. David's symptoms of possession aligned nearly perfectly with Johnson's, leading his lawyer and several priests to make the conclusion that Johnson himself had become possessed by one of David's demons. It was the first time in the history of the United States that a defendant tried to plead not guilty by reason of possession.⁠

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    The only legal wife of polygamous cult leader David Koresh, Rachel Jones was ordered to marry him when she was just 14 years old. At the time, David was known as Vernon Howell and was already in his mid-20s. He was quickly taking control of the Branch Davidians, a religious offshoot of the Seventh-day Adventists. Despite Rachel's young age, it was reportedly her own father who pushed her into the marriage, saying, "You're going to go with Vernon, and you do whatever he tells you to do. He's gonna be your husband now." And as David's power grew among the Branch Davidians, he took several other "spiritual" wives, some of whom were as young as 12 years old, and even eventually wed Rachel's younger sister.⁠

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    On April 14, 1912, Titanic lookout Frederick Fleet was sitting in the ship's crow's nest when he spotted a "black mass" directly ahead. Though Fleet acted quickly and warned the bridge, the ship hit the iceberg — and quickly began to sink. ⁠

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    "It's a perfectly scripted Game of Thrones-style epic. All the romance, all the blood, all the gore, all the bling."⁠ ⁠ At 105.6 carats, the Koh-i-Noor is one of the largest cut diamonds in the world — and the most sought-after. Originally mined in India, the gem has a long and bloody history, having passed through the hands of countless emperors and kings over the centuries through violent means, leading to rumors that the diamond may be cursed. Today, the diamond is part of the Crown Jewels of the United Kingdom. However, many view the Koh-i-Noor as a "symbol of conquest" and a token of colonial violence. Countries like India, Pakistan, and Afghanistan have all laid claim to the diamond, demanding that Britain return it. But despite all of the controversy surrounding the Koh-i-Noor, it continues to sit on display in the Tower of London to this day

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    The Holocaust brought a tragic end to more than 11 million lives. One 12-year-old Polish girl named Józefa Głazowska was sent to Auschwitz in 1942 as part of a plot to remove the occupied country's native population and settle ethnic Germans there instead. Józefa's mother was e**cuted in a gas chamber, and her father also died at the concentration camp. The young girl herself was subjected to medical experiments that likely infected her with malaria or typhus. She managed to survive until the camps were liberated — but many other children didn't.⁠

    Czesława Kwoka, another girl from Poland, was sent to Auschwitz when she was 14. Upon her arrival, she was photographed by Wilhelm Brasse, a fellow inmate who was ordered to take portraits for each prisoner's file. Czesława couldn't understand the instructions from the German guards, so they brutally beat her just before her turn in front of the camera. Brasse later recalled, "She was so young and terrified... To tell you the truth, I felt as if I was being hit myself." Czesława was m**dered just a few months later, likely from a phenol injection to the heart. ⁠

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    Just after midnight on February 5, 2007, Charity Bennett was finishing her shift at Buffalo Wild Wings when the police arrived to deliver unthinkable news: Her four-year-old daughter was dead. Ella Bennett had been at their home in Abilene, Texas, with a babysitter and her 13-year-old brother, Paris Lee Bennett, while Charity worked that Super Bowl Sunday. Around 10 p.m., however, Paris had convinced the sitter to leave — and then m**dered his little sister, st**bing her 17 times. Paris, who received the maximum juvenile sentence of 40 years in prison for this horrific crime, later stated that he'd wanted to hurt his mother and that Ella was his easiest target.⁠

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    In August 2015, construction workers demolishing an abandoned cabin in Woodland Park, Colorado, came across a disturbing sight: a partly mummified body stuffed into the chimney. It was Joshua Maddux, an 18-year-old who had vanished seven years earlier. A coroner determined that Maddux's death was an accident, likely occurring after he got stuck while trying to climb into the house from the roof. But evidence found inside suggested that something far more sinister had happened

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    On April 18, 2016, a 45-year-old Texas mom named Missy Bevers was murdered by an unknown assailant while setting up a fitness class at a church in Midlothian. But authorities think that her k**ler, who was dressed in head-to-toe police gear, may have been someone she knew. Bevers' cellphone records from March 1st to April 24th revealed that she was having "an ongoing financial and marital struggle as well as intimate/personal relationships external to the marriage." And three days before her m*rder, Bevers had shown her friend a LinkedIn message from an unknown man that they both agreed was "creepy and strange," leading investigators to believe that Bevers' k**ler had contacted her before her death.⁠

    Police investigated a number of suspects, including Bevers' husband, whose alibi checked out, and her father-in-law Randy Bevers, who loosely matched the description of the suspect seen in the church's security footage — and who had gone to a local dry cleaner just days after Bevers' death with a woman's blood-soaked shirt. But a forensic analysis found that the blood was a dog's, seemingly confirming Randy's claim that it had come from an injured dog that he'd rescued from a fight. And years later, in 2019, detectives followed a tip regarding former police officer Bobby Wayne Henry, who, like the suspect in the church's security footage, owned tactical police gear and walked with a limp. But Henry's alibi also checked out, and he actually turned out to be taller than the person in the video.⁠

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    The village of Pień, Poland, is home to a mysterious graveyard thought to have been made to hold those who were "feared not only during life but also after death." Over the last few years, archaeologists have been working to excavate this 17th-century site that holds at least 30 bodies. In 2022, they found a woman buried with a blade above her neck and a padlock on her ankles. Now they've discovered the body of a "vampire child" buried face down and padlocked to prevent its return.

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    While repairing loose floor tiles at St. Peter and Paul Church in the Dutch town of Maastricht, workers recently came upon a centuries-old skeleton — that may belong to one of the real-life Three Musketeers.⁠ ⁠ Experts believe that these remains belong to D'Artagnan, also known as Charles de Batz de Castelmore, a 17th-century French soldier who was captain of the Musketeers of the Guard, elite soldiers who served the royal household for 200 years starting in the early 1600s. D'Artagnan himself died while fighting the Dutch at Maastricht on June 25, 1673. Nearly two centuries later, his exploits inspired Alexandre Dumas to write his famous novel "The Three Musketeers."⁠

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    While hiking on the Spanish island of Mallorca, a man happened upon a Bronze Age figurine depicting the head of a bull. Made sometime between 550 and 123 B.C.E. and measuring just 1.2 inches in length, this tiny relic was likely a product of the post-Talaiotic culture, named for the roughly 300 enormous stone towers known as talaiots that dot the landscapes of Mallorca. Though the purpose of the newly-uncovered figurine remains mysterious, experts note that bulls were common symbols of strength and fertility for various cults throughout the ancient Mediterranean.⁠

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    On June 30, 1999, a passerby happened upon the body of 41-year-old Ricky McCormick in a cornfield 20 miles out of St. Louis. As police grappled with the baffling mystery of how McCormick died and why he ended up in that field, the case only grew more bizarre when investigators discovered several pages of notes in his pockets. They were written in a code so complex that it stumped local police and elite FBI codebreakers alike. And after failing to crack the code for 12 years, the FBI even turned to the public for help, posting the notes online to see if anyone could decipher them. But to this day, both the meaning behind the notes and the cause of McCormick's death remains a mystery. ⁠

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    Mictlantecuhtli, or Mictlāntēcutli, translates to "Lord of the Land of the Dead," and this menacing Aztec god of death was said to rule over the underworld, Mictlan. Often compared to the Greek god of the dead, Hades, Mictlantecuhtli was thought to be a keeper of the underworld who greeted nearly all who died, as the Aztecs believed that almost everyone faced the same destiny in the afterlife. Those who perished in childbirth, suffered an especially violent end, or met their demise in a storm or flood had their own path after death, but everyone else descended into the underworld and faced a four-year journey full of obstacles through the nine layers of Mictlan. When they reached the deepest level, they finally met Mictlantecuhtli — and were rewarded with eternal rest.⁠

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    In the early 1980s, Doreen Lioy lived a successful life as a magazine editor in California. Working for "Tiger Beat," she was a respected journalist who helped launch the careers of stars like John Stamos. However, her life took a baffling turn in 1985 after she saw a mugshot of serial k**ler Richard Ramirez on the news.⁠

    Almost immediately after Ramirez was arrested, Doreen Lioy realized she was attracted to him. Despite the horrific details of his 14 m*rders and his open devotion to Satanism during his trial, Lioy became his most persistent advocate. Over the next 11 years, she sent him 75 love letters and visited him at San Quentin State Prison about four times a week. By 1996, she had given up her career and her relationships with her family to marry the "Night Stalker" in a prison visiting room.⁠

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    On March 28, 1941, Virginia Woolf, the 59-year-old author who redefined the modern novel, walked out of her Sussex home for the last time. A central figure in the Bloomsbury Group of intellectuals, Woolf authored novels like “Mrs. Dalloway” and the essay “A Room of One’s Own,” which explored themes of feminism and mental illness. On that morning in 1941, her husband, Leonard, noticed that she seemed unwell and suggested she rest. Instead, Woolf went to her writing lodge and composed two s**cide notes. In the note left for Leonard, she wrote, “I feel certain that I am going mad again. I feel we can’t go through another of those terrible times. And I shan’t recover this time. I begin to hear voices, and I can’t concentrate. So I am doing what seems the best thing to do.”⁠

    After leaving, she filled her pockets with heavy stones and walked into the cold water. Her walking stick and footprints were found on the bank shortly after, but her body wouldn't be recovered for another three weeks.⁠

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    In 1981, Janis Miranda fell for Randy Roth’s charm at a social event for single parents. To Janis, Randy seemed like a devoted father who shared her deep love for family — but just weeks after their whirlwind wedding, she fell to her death during a hike at Beacon Rock. Roth, the only witness, collected a $100,000 life insurance policy just months later. For a decade, it was treated as a freak accident, but in 1991, history repeated itself. His fourth wife, Cynthia Baumgartner, drowned during a trip to Lake Sammamish while alone on a raft with Roth. Once again, he was the sole witness, and once again, a massive insurance policy was involved. These parallel "accidents" eventually forced investigators to look past the coincidences and into the shrouded history of a man who appeared to view marriage as a financial investment.⁠

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    Originally named Cassius Marcellus Clay Jr., legendary boxer Muhammad Ali changed his name after converting to Islam, saying, "Cassius Clay is a slave name. I didn't choose it and I don't want it."⁠ ⁠ In fact, Ali's distant relative, Cassius Marcellus Clay, had been a slaveholder — before emancipating his family's slaves and becoming one of the country's most prominent abolitionists.

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    Over the years, countless people have embarked on the hunt for Mel's Hole, a mythical bottomless pit said to be hiding somewhere in Washington State's rural Kittitas County. Originally reported in 1997 by a man who called himself Mel Waters, the hole is supposedly over 80,000 feet deep and boasts a range of magical properties, like the ability to bring dead animals back to life. Portable radios held near the hole allegedly play programs and music from years past, and metals held close to the opening reportedly transform into other substances. Waters also claimed to have seen black beams emitting from the pit, and he said that his dogs were terrified to go near it. So far, no such hole has ever been found, though ​​one geologist with the State Department of Natural Resource claims that it was likely a hoax inspired by an abandoned gold mine shaft in Washington State.⁠

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    Arguably, the most famous photo in North Dakota history was taken during the 1966 winter storm, showing Department of Transportation employee Bill Koch standing next to power lines that had been almost entirely buried in snow during the blizzard.⁠ ⁠ Koch said he never expected to be the "poster boy" of North Dakota winters, with the image now featured in countless publications. He recalled, "Not far from where we were standing there by that utility pole, there was a railroad track. And there was a train stuck in there, and we took pictures of that too. The train came along and I'm just assuming they didn't think it was that deep. They drove into that thing thinking they were going to go through it, but they didn't."⁠

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    An ace navigator, Fred Noonan got the opportunity of a lifetime in the 1930s when he was tapped to serve as navigator for Amelia Earhart's historic attempt to fly around the globe. At first, Noonan was supposed to be one of two navigators, but the other man dropped out of the mission after he purportedly got spooked by a minor crash. Then, Earhart and Noonan continued on their own. Though their flight went smoothly at first, they infamously vanished over the Pacific while trying to reach Howland Island in July 1937. ⁠ ⁠ In the years since, some have laid the blame at Noonan's feet, suggesting that he was an alcoholic. Though allegations of his alcoholism didn't emerge until the 1960s, and seem to be based on a police report which has since disappeared, it is possible that Noonan made a fatal error during the flight. Later studies found that it was possible he was working with a faulty map that put Howland Island miles away from its actual location. ⁠

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    On January 7, 2011, 22-year-old Jared Lee Loughner of Tucson, Arizona left a cryptic message on a friend's voicemail saying, "Hey man, it's Jared. Me and you had good times. Peace out. Later." ⁠ ⁠ The next day, he went out to buy ammunition at a local Walmart before heading to a political gathering hosted by Rep. Gabby Giffords in the parking lot of a nearby Safeway. On his way there, he was pulled over by an officer for running a red light — but he was allowed to proceed when the officer found no warrants for him and saw nothing suspicious in the vehicle. Finally, Loughner arrived at the event — and opened fire. ⁠ ⁠ Soon, six innocent people lay dead: 63-year-old Chief U.S. District Court Judge John Roll, 30-year-old community outreach director Gabe Zimmerman, 76-year-old retired secretary Dorothy "Dot" Morris, 79-year-old homemaker Phyllis Schneck, 76-year-old retired construction worker Dorwan Stoddard, and 9-year-old Christina-Taylor Green. Thirteen more people were injured, including Loughner's original target, Giffords, who suffered a critical head injury but narrowly escaped death.⁠

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    In May 1939, Gerardo Medina was born in Peru. He was one of many babies born in Peru that day, which happened to be Mother's Day. But Gerardo's birth had been attended by dozens of doctors because his mother, Lina, was just five years old. ⁠ ⁠ Doctors quickly determined that Lina had a condition known as precocious puberty that caused her body to develop far earlier than normal, which made it possible for her to get pregnant just before the age of five. But though she had given birth, Lina was still just a little girl, and after Gerardo was born she was more interested in playing with her dolls than with him. Lina was too young to understand that he was her baby, and too young to explain how she had gotten pregnant. As such, the identity of Gerardo's father remains a mystery to this day.

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    One of modern history's more popular conspiracy theories claims that the 1969 Moon landing was all a hoax. Skeptics point to several photos to prove their point, such as the famous image of Buzz Aldrin standing next to an American flag that's seemingly blowing in the wind. Because there is no wind on the lunar surface, proponents say that fans were used to make the flag wave. However, upon closer inspection, it's clear that there's a horizontal pole inserted along the top of the fabric to make it stand out.⁠ ⁠ In another photo, Aldrin stands against an inky black background with no stars, sparking debate about the authenticity of the setting. But it was daytime on the Moon when the picture was taken, so the sunlight made the stars too dim to be seen on camera. Nevertheless, these rumors have continued to circulate, and as many as six percent of Americans still believe the lunar landing was a hoax. Some have even harassed the Apollo 11 astronauts about the conspiracy — and Buzz Aldrin famously punched a heckler in 2002. ⁠

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    In May 1972, an Italian magazine stunned the public with a headline that seemed straight out of science fiction: "A Machine That Photographs The Past Has Finally Been Invented." The article centered on Father Pellegrino Ernetti, a Benedictine monk and scientist who claimed to have developed the "Chronovisor." According to Ernetti, the device didn't transport people through time but rather acted as a window that captured light and sound echoes from the past.⁠ ⁠ Made of cathode rays, antennae, and metals that received sound and light signals on all wavelengths, the Chronovisor purportedly allowed the team of scientists to document events of the past, including the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. Ernetti even provided a photograph he claimed was captured by the device — “evidence” that fueled a decades-long debate over what the Vatican might be hiding in its archives.⁠

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 04:00

    Pandas, have you ever had one of those completely random moments where you suddenly decide to do something for absolutely no reason? Maybe you went on a late-night walk just because the weather felt nice, bought yourself a dessert even though you weren’t hungry, or randomly spent money on something unnecessary but oddly satisfying. Honestly, life would feel pretty boring without these tiny impulsive moments.

    That’s exactly why today we decided to bring you something wonderfully random. We stumbled across an Instagram page filled with absolute meme gold, and naturally, we had to share it with all of you. From painfully relatable posts to the kind of memes that make you laugh at 2 a.m. while questioning your entire existence, this collection has a little bit of everything. Some are clever, some are chaotic, and some honestly make no sense at all — which somehow makes them even funnier. So if your brain needs a tiny break from work, studying, responsibilities, or simply being an adult, you’re in the right place. Keep scrolling, pandas, and enjoy the randomness.

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    “Don’t worry, be happy.” Sounds simple enough, right? People say it all the time like happiness is just sitting somewhere waiting for us next to our car keys and missing socks. But let’s be real — life gets busy. Between work stress, bills, awkward social interactions, family drama, and trying to remember why you walked into a room, being “happy” isn’t always easy. Sometimes we become so focused on surviving the week that we forget to actually enjoy little moments while they’re happening. And honestly, that’s why silly posts, random memes, and wholesome internet corners matter more than we think. They remind us to pause for a second, laugh a little, unclench our jaw, and stop taking life so seriously all the time. Because sometimes happiness really is just one dumb meme away.

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    The funny thing about happiness is that it looks completely different for everyone. For some people, happiness means spending quality time with family, eating good food, and hearing their dog sprint toward them like they’ve returned from war after being gone for 20 minutes. For others, happiness might be traveling, gaming for hours uninterrupted, buying books they may never actually read, or simply getting into freshly washed bedsheets.

    Some people feel happiest while surrounded by friends, while others recharge best alone with snacks and zero notifications. Interestingly, research also shows that having a sense of purpose can deeply affect happiness levels too. It’s not always about being excited every second of the day — sometimes it’s about feeling like your life has meaning, direction, or even just small things to look forward to. 

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    In fact, researcher Kaylin Ratner, in a study published in the Journal of Happiness Studies, found that purpose gives people a sense of focus in what can often feel like a chaotic world. And honestly…that checks out. When people in the study felt a stronger sense of purpose, they also reported feeling more positive emotions like joy, enthusiasm, contentment, and relaxation.

    On the flip side, they experienced fewer feelings of anger, anxiety, sluggishness, and sadness. Participants also reported higher levels of overall wellbeing and life satisfaction. Basically, having purpose acts like emotional GPS; it helps people feel grounded even when life feels messy. Whether that purpose comes from career goals, relationships, hobbies, creativity, parenting, or simply taking care of yourself, it can make a huge difference mentally and emotionally.

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    According to Psychology Today, there are also certain outward signs that often show when a person is genuinely content with life. For example, happy people are usually more open to learning new things because they don’t constantly feel threatened or defensive. People who are emotionally content often laugh easily, smile naturally, and don’t need every single thing to go perfectly to enjoy themselves.

    They’re also more likely to “go with the flow” instead of trying to control every tiny situation around them. Compassion is another big sign. Happy people often have more emotional space to care for others because they aren’t constantly overwhelmed internally. Of course, nobody feels peaceful 24/7, but these small behaviors can reflect a deeper sense of emotional balance.

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    And happiness is not just some fluffy emotional concept people write on motivational mugs — research shows it actually affects almost every area of life. A large amount of empirical research has found that happier people tend to experience better overall life outcomes, including stronger relationships, better financial stability, improved mental health, and healthier coping mechanisms during stressful situations.

    Interestingly, studies also show that happiness often comes before these positive outcomes instead of simply being a result of them. In other words, being emotionally healthier may actually help people build better lives over time. Happier individuals are often more motivated, productive, socially connected, and resilient when dealing with setbacks. So while happiness won’t magically solve every problem, it can absolutely shape how people navigate challenges. Basically, your mental state quietly influences way more of your life than you realize.

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    Research has also linked happiness to physical health and even longevity. People who experience more positive emotions often have lower stress levels, healthier habits, stronger immune systems, and reduced risks for certain health conditions over time. Scientists believe positive emotions may help regulate stress hormones in the body, which affects everything from sleep quality to heart health. Happier people also tend to maintain stronger social bonds, and those supportive relationships themselves are deeply connected to long-term wellbeing.

    Of course, this doesn’t mean happy people never struggle or get sick — life happens to everyone. But overall, emotional wellbeing appears to give the body and mind a stronger foundation to handle stress and recover more effectively. Which honestly makes sense because constantly being stressed feels like your brain is running 47 tabs at once.

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    Some fascinating studies have even explored how positive emotions affect the immune system. In one study by Cohen et al. (2003), participants rated their positive emotions over a two-week period before researchers exposed them to the common cold virus. Five days later, the people who reported experiencing the highest levels of positive emotions were actually less likely to develop a cold. Another study looked at participants receiving the hepatitis B vaccine.

    Those who scored highest for positive emotions were twice as likely to show a stronger antibody response compared to others. Basically, feeling emotionally well may actually help the body respond better physically too. No, this doesn’t mean memes are medicine…but honestly, maybe your body does appreciate that random laugh break more than you think.

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    Clearly, happiness matters in ways we often underestimate. It affects our minds, our bodies, our relationships, our energy levels, and even how we move through everyday life. And while nobody can feel positive all the time, small moments of joy still matter a lot. A funny meme, a good conversation, your favorite snack, sunlight hitting just right, or laughing so hard you need to pause and breathe…those moments count too.

    Sometimes happiness isn’t about huge life achievements. Sometimes it’s simply about giving yourself permission to enjoy things without guilt. So honestly, we hope these posts make you smile, laugh, or at least briefly forget your responsibilities for five minutes. Pandas, tell us — which one of these memes made your day a little brighter?

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 01:01

    Chris Pratt has become the subject of intense scrutiny on social media after a comment by his ex-wife, Anna Faris, reignited public discussion about their divorce.

    Faris walked the red carpet for Scary Movie 6 on Wednesday, June 3, where she spoke to the media and thanked fans for supporting her work over the years.

    She said their support meant even more to her because she had not always felt that same backing from the industry, a remark some fans quickly read as a possible reference to her past with Pratt.

    They saw the comment as a veiled admission that Pratt may not have stood by her during parts of her career.

    “Very unfortunate because she is super talented and stood beside that man before he got famous and left her,” a fan said in response.

    Anna Faris reflected on industry support at Scary Movie 6 premiere, but it sparked conversation about her past marriage

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    Faris has starred in every installment of the Scary Movie series except for the fifth film, which came out in 2013.

    “The gift of Scary Movie for me is I have a fan base like no other. And it’s across demographics,” Faris told Variety at the new movie’s premiere.

    “I felt it for years but not from the industry, you know,” she went on to add.

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    Faris and Pratt were married between 2008 and 2018.

    They announced their divorce citing irreconcilable differences, though subsequent reports suggested Pratt’s insecurity was the cause for their separation.

    “He never felt good enough for Anna Faris, and when their relationship started to go downward, he was angry and not liking who he was,” a source told Us Weekly in March 2020.

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    While Faris had credits like Brokeback Mountain, Lost in Translation, The House Bunny, and more under her belt before her marriage with Pratt, he had started making a name for himself in the Guardians of the Galaxy franchise only in 2014, with the Jurassic World trilogy landing in his bag in 2015.

    Faris, in a March 2021 episode of the Anna Faris Is Unqualified podcast, opened up about the competition between her and Pratt, saying she believes they did not do a great job of “eliminating” that aspect of their relationship.

    Hence, when Faris spoke about being abandoned by the industry recently, her fans linked it to Pratt.

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    Blaming the actor and Hollywood collectively, a Faris fan wrote, “The industry went for the man. The one who left and had a better career ahead and married into a good family.”

    The latter part of the comment referenced Pratt’s marriage to Katherine Schwarzenegger, the daughter of renowned actor, producer, and former bodybuilder Arnold Schwarzenegger.

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    “I give her a ton of survivor’s credit for suffering Chris Pratt for 9 years,” a second remarked.

    A third recounted Pratt’s 2021 birthday tribute for Katherine in which he thanked her for giving him a “healthy daughter.” 

    The user reminded the masses how Faris “also got no support” from the industry when the statement was clearly meant as a dig.

    Pratt and Faris’s son, Jack, 13, was born prematurely and suffered from a severe cerebral hemorrhage and visual impairment.

    Chris Pratt criticism aside, Faris received significant messages of support from fans in the wake of her latest comment

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    “Anna doesn’t know the impact she has on millennials with House Bunny, Scream Movies, Overboard, Just Friends, the classic Waiting, etc.,” one wrote, while another added, “She is a true icon, and true icons never fade.”

    “You can’t have Scary Movie without Cindy,” a third noted.

    “Cindy lives rent-free in our heads 26 years later. Fans got your back forever. The industry can catch up,” a fourth echoed.

     

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    Faris was asked during her interview how she feels about starring in Scary Movie 6.

    The actress said she did not expect the makers to include her. She had at most expected “a cameo,” she said.

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    A fan recommended Anna Faris focus on her “$30 million net worth” and not care about what the industry said.

    A separate user praised her for her “humble and laid-back” approach, expressing a desire to “meet her” someday.

    Anna Faris’s appearance at the Scary Movie premiere, however, left fans shocked

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    Faris wore a Mônot black sequin halter dress with side cutouts for the big night.

    Her recent appearance sparked comparisons to Faris’s first Scary Movie premiere, with fans pointing out her slender frame.

    “Every video of Anna Faris on the red carpet of Scary Movie 6 is kinda breaking my heart,” one worried fan said, while another added, “Yep, she must be added to the list of celebs we must protect.”

    “This doesn’t look like her normal self at all. I really hope she is ok,” a third expressed.

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    Many attributed Faris’s lean look to “O**mpic,” the semaglutide injections that have gained popularity for their weight-loss benefits in recent months, with one asking her to “get off that bandwagon.”

    Meanwhile, several claimed her frame should not be the only concern, as she also appears to have had a “grotesque” amount of cosmetic work.

    Scary Movie 6 released in cinemas on Friday, June 5.

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:53

    Mackenzie Shirilla has found herself back in the spotlight after new allegations from a former inmate and recently reported prison disciplinary records added another chapter to the ongoing debate surrounding her case.

    Shirilla, who is serving 15 years to life for the 2022 crash that took the life of her boyfriend, Dominic Russo, and friend Davion Flanagan, has continued to maintain that the collision was an accident.

    However, fresh claims about her behavior behind bars, coupled with dozens of disciplinary reports, have sparked renewed backlash.

    “She said the devil was pressing on her foot,” the inmate said.

    A former inmate claimed Shirilla privately told a very different version of events

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    The latest allegations came from Anastasia, a former inmate at the Ohio Reformatory for Women, who spoke to the Daily Mail about her time with Shirilla behind bars.

    According to Anastasia, Shirilla’s private conversations allegedly differed from the version she has of them publicly shared since her conviction.

    Shirilla has repeatedly maintained that the crash was accidental and has claimed she lost consciousness due to Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) before the vehicle struck a building.

    But Anastasia alleged that Shirilla told fellow inmates something entirely different.

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    “She said she was s*icidal, but she almost looked as though she was enjoying (telling the story) – like she was amused by it,” Anastasia claimed.

    The former inmate further alleged that Shirilla said “Dom had to d*e” and even attempted to blame supernatural forces for her actions.

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    “She said the devil made her do it,” Anastasia alleged.

    “She said the devil was pressing on her foot… She wanted to make it sound like she was a little devil girl, and that this is what she intended to do.”

    Anastasia also revealed that she never witnessed any medical episodes that would support Shirilla’s claims about POTS.

    “I never saw her pass out,” she said.

    The report also cited prison records that showed dozens of disciplinary violations

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    The report also cited prison disciplinary records that allegedly documented repeated rule violations during Shirilla’s incarceration.

    According to the records, Shirilla accumulated 36 disciplinary reports covering a range of infractions. These reportedly included contraband violations, disobeying direct orders, being out of place inside the facility, violating prison rules, and taking medication prescribed to other inmates.

    One incident from September 2024 reportedly involved an inappropriate video call.

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    According to the disciplinary report, Shirilla was accused of exposing her breasts during a video call while the other participant allegedly u*dressed and displayed a s*x toy on camera. The report stated that Shirilla admitted to the violation and received a 60-day video-call suspension.

    Other reports allegedly documented prohibited items found in her possession, including craft supplies, jewelry-making materials, altered prison clothing, and magazine pictures.

    The latest allegations followed earlier claims about her behavior behind bars

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    The new accusations are not the first time former inmates have spoken publicly about Shirilla.

    As reported by Bored Panda, another former inmate, Mary Katherine Crowder, claimed the convicted driver acted more like a prison celebrity than someone serving a life sentence.

    According to Crowder, inmates knew exactly who Shirilla was because of the publicity surrounding her case.

    “Everyone knew why she was there,” Crowder said.

    “She walked around like she was this famous person within prison.”

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    Crowder also alleged that Shirilla carefully maintained her appearance behind bars.

    “She always had makeup done, hair done, her clothes were altered to fit her body tighter,” she claimed.

    The former inmate went on to describe her as the “Regina George of prison” and claimed she rarely appeared upset about her circumstances.

    “She was always laughing, always smiling and happy,” Crowder alleged.

    “Never one time did I see Mackenzie cry.”

    The renewed interest in the case stems from one of Ohio’s most closely followed criminal cases in recent years

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    On July 31, 2022, Shirilla was behind the wheel of a Toyota Camry carrying her boyfriend, Dominic Russo, and their friend, Davion Flanagan.

    Prosecutors argued that she intentionally accelerated to nearly 100 mph before crashing into a warehouse wall in Strongsville, Ohio. Both young men died at the scene. Vehicle data showed the accelerator was fully depressed, and no braking occurred before impact.


    At trial, prosecutors pointed to surveillance footage, black-box data, previous threats, and evidence of a deteriorating relationship between Shirilla and Russo.

    One text message sent by Russo weeks before the crash revealed he wanted to end the relationship.

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    “Kenzie, you know I love you, but I don’t think we should be together at this point,” he wrote.

    When delivering the verdict in 2023, Judge Nancy Margaret Russo rejected the defense’s argument that the crash was accidental.

    “This was not reckless driving — this was m*rder,” she said.

    “She had a mission, and she executed it with precision. The decision was d*ath.”

    Victims’ families alleged that the claims of innocence continue to hurt them

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    Despite the conviction, Shirilla continues to maintain her innocence.

    In recent filings, her attorneys asked the Ohio Supreme Court to review the rejection of her appeal after an earlier filing missed a deadline. Prosecutors have said they remain confident the conviction will stand.

    Meanwhile, Dominic Russo’s family said the continued attention surrounding the case remains painful.

    “The case has tortured our family… her claims of innocence are beyond insulting to us,” Christine Russo said.

    She previously criticized jailhouse calls in which Shirilla allegedly discussed publicity, social media attention, and the possibility of becoming famous after prison.

    “Becoming famous is all Mackenzie has cared about for a very long time,” Christine said.

    As of now, Shirilla is not eligible for parole until 2037.

    “She doesn’t even look sad,” a viewer remarked

  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:07

    A cancer diagnosis always marks a difficult time for a family. While parents are no doubt affected by their child’s cancer diagnosis, siblings can also find it hard to cope. According to one study, 63% of siblings experience adjustment difficulties during cancer treatment.

    This teen got in a fight with his father after his step-sibling was diagnosed with cancer. The family decided to move to another state, but the teen refused; he would turn 18 soon and move out anyway. So, he stayed behind with his grandparents, but faced harsh reactions from both his dad and his stepmom, the latter of whom even expressed disgust.

    A teen refused to move to another state for his step-sibling’s cancer treatment

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    He stayed with his grandparents but faced harsh words from his father and his stepmother

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    Families living far away from cancer treatment centers are a worldwide phenomenon, so moving is a common solution

    Having cancer can be expensive, especially in the U.S. According to a survey from the American Cancer Society Cancer Action Network (ACS CAN), 64% of cancer patients and survivors say they were surprised by the cost of treatment, and 54% said they were unprepared for these expenses.

    It’s not uncommon for people to go into debt just to be able to afford cancer treatments. Seventy percent of patients and survivors say they had to make significant lifestyle changes. These changes include delaying bigger purchases, depleting savings, going into credit card debt, and borrowing money from family and friends.

    But money isn’t the only hurdle cancer patients face; geography is another major challenge. Sometimes, as it happened in this story, patients have to seek treatment far away from where they live. Studies show that the chances of survival can depend on whether a person lives in a rural or urban area.

    A 2025 study by researchers at the University of Nebraska Medical Center found that pediatric cancer patients in rural counties had a 9% higher risk of not surviving. Another study in the same year showed that 27% of children in rural areas succumb to cancer within the first year of diagnosis.

    So, moving to another state makes a lot of sense. This is a worldwide phenomenon as well. According to a 2020 Saudi Arabian study, almost a third of childhood cancer patients live about 250 miles (400 km) away from treatment centers. It’s understandable why the family moved, but pressuring their teen to do so even after he would leave a year later seems a bit unreasonable.

    The lives of siblings often get pushed to the periphery when one child gets diagnosed with cancer

    When a child is diagnosed with cancer, parents will do anything to make the child healthy again. In that process, they might overlook the needs of their other children in favor of the sick child. One need only remember the 2009 movie My Sister’s Keeper as a cautionary tale of what happens when parents fail to address the needs of all their children.

    This teen decided to move in with his parents until he leaves for college, but this situation is quite common in families that are dealing with childhood cancer. A 2025 study showed that siblings are often cared for by others, primarily grandparents.

    The researchers also found that siblings often feel sidelined in favor of the child with cancer. Children report having “their needs subordinated” and feeling like their role in the family becomes a peripheral one.

    In this story, the father and the stepmother are demanding that the teen show support for his stepsibling at the cost of his education. They interpret his absence as a sign he doesn’t care about “Rory,” but that isn’t necessarily the case. A comprehensive review of existing literature on the topic found that the healthy child’s relationship with their parents deteriorates after the sibling’s cancer diagnosis. While it is difficult, parents need to keep in mind that healthy siblings need support and fair treatment, too.

    “I should have been willing to be there with them anyway and show a united front and all of that,” the teen said, explaining his father’s perspective

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:00

    A quality insult is considerably more useful than most conventional methods of self defense, but in the heat of the moment, most people can’t come up with something. But online, people have a moment to think, plan and edit their best counterattacks.

    We gathered some of the best comebacks and comments from an Instagram page dedicated to those exact things. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples in the comments section down below.

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    The finest insults are not born from anger. They come from a place of calm, almost surgical precision, where the person delivering the blow has taken the time to really observe their target and identify the one thing that, when said aloud in just the right way, causes the whole room to inhale sharply before erupting into laughter.

    Rage produces noise. Wit produces wounds. And the best roasts leave a mark not because they were mean, but because they were so undeniably, perfectly true. Timing is everything. You could have the greatest line in the history of human language sitting in your back pocket, but if you pull it out at the wrong moment, it lands like a damp napkin.

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    The masters of the craft, people like Mark Twain, Winston Churchill, and Dorothy Parker, understood that a comeback delivered three beats after the opening exists in a completely different universe from one that arrives three days later in a strongly worded letter. The pause, the breath, the slight tilt of the head before delivery, all of it is part of the art form.

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    Specificity is what separates a great burn from a generic one. Telling someone they are stupid is not an insult, it is a complaint. But telling someone that their last idea was so catastrophically misguided that it somehow managed to loop back around and become accidentally innovative, now that is something worth remembering.

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    Great roasts zoom in. They target a particular habit, a specific quirk, a recognizable pattern of behavior that the audience immediately connects with. The more specific the observation, the harder the hit, because it demonstrates that the person delivering it has been paying attention.

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    The best insults are also almost always compliment adjacent. This is the sneaky genius of the truly skilled roaster. They build you up just enough that you relax, you start to smile, and then the floor disappears. Churchill was a virtuoso at this. So was Oscar Wilde, who managed to make his targets feel vaguely flattered even while being absolutely destroyed. When an insult contains a grudging acknowledgment of something real, it becomes almost impossible to argue against, and that helplessness is part of what makes it sting so beautifully.

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    There is also the question of economy. The longer an insult runs, the more it starts to feel like a grievance, and nobody wants to be around someone airing grievances. The sharpest burns are short. They are clean. They do not explain themselves or circle back to check that you understood the point.

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    If you have to add "and another thing," you have already lost the room. Think of it like a great one-liner in stand-up comedy, the setup exists only to serve the punchline, and the punchline knows exactly when to stop talking. Delivery, of course, is the invisible ingredient that recipe writers always forget to mention.

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    Two people can say the exact same line and produce completely different results. The deadpan face, the raised eyebrow, the almost bored tone of someone who is not even sure the target deserves the full effort of their attention, these are the tools of the trade. Enthusiasm undercuts an insult. Calm devastates.

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    What truly elevates a roast into legend is when the target laughs too. That is the summit. When the person being roasted cannot help themselves, when they break into a grin despite their best efforts, the roaster has achieved something rare and genuinely admirable.

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    It means the observation was so accurate, so free of actual malice, so perfectly constructed, that even the subject has to respect the craftsmanship. The best insults, at their core, are not really about cruelty at all. They are about truth, delivered with style, at exactly the right moment, to exactly the right person, by someone who was clearly paying closer attention than anyone realized.

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:00

    It’s not that hard to be a decent neighbor. Let others get some sleep, park your car where it belongs, and you’re already doing pretty well.

    We’re not talking about becoming best friends — just making it easier for everyone to peacefully coexist. But apparently, that can also be too big an ask.

    When Reddit users were asked who their worst neighbor was and what made them so awful, thousands chimed in with stories of noise, entitlement, bizarre behavior, and conflicts that went on for years. We’ve rounded up the most memorable replies below.

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    Neighbor called the police on my barking dog.

    Police came.

    It was her dog.

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    The neighbors kids man. It starts every spring. They only have one speech volume, which is scream. They jump all over my porch swing even though I have repeatedly asked the parents to tell them not to. They run up and down the stairs of my porch constantly. I am just waiting for one to get seriously hurt and then it’s my fault. I have a narrow driveway and last summer the one got his bike wedged between my house and my cars’ passenger door, scratched it. Basically they just run wild and the parents either don’t care, or are too drunk to notice at times. I don’t know when I turned into a crotchety old man at 30 but damn those kids.

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    In 2025, the Pew Research Center asked Americans a series of questions about their neighbors, including whether they know and trust them and how similar they are to them demographically and politically.

    The survey also asked people whether they are likely to do things for their neighbors that might build community ties, and whether they think their neighbors would do the same things for them.

    More than a quarter of respondents (26%) said they know all or most of their neighbors. Another 62% know some of them, and 12% don’t know any of them.

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    My old neighbor was a grumpy old alcoholic. He used to complain when we had our light on too late at night. The light on in our bedroom. He also used to be quite horrible to my girlfriend. Whenever I tried to talk to him he wouldn't open the door to me or would run away because I shouted at him once.

    Here is the karma though. He used to knock on the door to moan at my girlfriend when I was at work. So naturally my girlfriend started ignoring him when he did this.

    One day she hears frantic banging. Ignores him. Turns out he was having a stroke and couldn't speak so couldn't call an ambulance. He now lives in a nursing home.

    We aren't horrible people at all. If we had known what was happening we would have opened the door and called an ambulance. It just goes to show, be nice to everyone. You might need their help one day.

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    I'd always had problems with my neighbor until we put up a fence about two years ago. He is a self-employed plumber, and a nasty hoarder. When I moved in, he was dumping his lawn clippings behind my shed. He had a junk pile on the property line (PVC pipes, traffic signs, political ad yard signs, plastic barrels), and I would have to go out back every few days to clear my yard of his stuff.

    For years, he was claiming about an extra five feet of my yard without my knowledge. When the land surveyors came out to set the property line for the fence guys, I was not surprised to see that I suddenly had an extra five feet of yard. I promptly mowed all of the ugly plants and flowers that were planted in my yard. It felt great.

    Put up the fence, and I haven't had a problem with him since. His wife divorced him soon after. Their daughter, whom we adored, told us that her mom was glad to finally have a garage where she can actually park a car inside because it's not filled wall to wall, floor to ceiling with junk hoard. We had a good laugh. Kids say the darndest things.

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    I lived in a complex that was a rectangle, with a central courtyard, and all the units' doors facing inward. It was a very social place, a block away from the beach, and all the neighbors were friends, except for one couple. We would congregate in the courtyard almost every day to barbecue, picnic, and just kick it and drink a beer at the end of the day. It rarely ever turned into a full blown party, but occasionally we would have courtyard parties for the complex and invite friends over.

    This one older couple didn't get the memo that they were moving into this kind of complex, and they were on a mission to stop any socializing outdoors.

    They would call the owner anytime people were talking outside. They would yell through their screen door at people to keep it down, even in broad daylight. If anyone was gathering outside after dark, they would call the police.

    I lived next door to them, and any time I would watch TV at night, or have friends over, or even talk on the phone at night, the guy would bang on the wall like a maniac.

    The woman eventually convinced the landlord to remove the patio furniture, and eventually the BBQ, which actually belonged to me. The landlord said I could have it back but had to remove it from the premises. They got the landlord on their side. It absolutely ended the good vibe we had going.

    Then one day, a young family with their new baby had a picnic in the courtyard, sitting on a blanket because the patio furniture was gone. The nasty neighbors actually came outside and started photographing them, causing them to take their baby and flee indoors. This was the last straw.

    We wrote up a petition to send to the landlord with an ultimatum. Shut them down and return the patio furniture and BBQ, or we will all move out. I got signatures from every single tenant in the complex.

    The nasty neighbors moved out the next month. On their moving day, we all threw a going away party in the courtyard, without them of course. When they were finished moving and they locked the door for the last time, we all sang "Nananaaana! Nananaaana! Hey hey hey! Goodbye!"

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    When it comes to trust, 44% of people said they trust all or most of their neighborhood. Another 46% trust some of them, while just 9% trust none.

    However, the shares of Americans who say they know and trust their neighbors have both decreased slightly in recent years. In 2018, 31% of Americans said they knew all or most of their neighbors, and in 2015, 52% said they trusted all or most of their neighbors.

    #6

    My wife and I purchased or first house about three years ago. While moving in there were my new neighbors drinking on their front porch, no big deal. While bringing the last load of boxes into the house my neighbor comes up, welcomes me to the neighborhood, mentions how nice my TV is. Fast forward one week, we are headed out to dinner, this neighbor stops me before getting in the car and asks how long we will be gone (huge red flag). I lie, tell him I'm just running to the gas station one block away, and will be back immediately. Twenty minutes later I get a phone call from the local police, this moron broke into my house in broad daylight with three other neighbors watching (luckily these neighbors weren't trash too). He cut his hand on the window he was attempting to climb through, and used his bleeding hand on every doorknob in my house. He is now a number in the US penal system.

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    #7

    My neighbour. Let me tell you about this guy.

    In the apartment to my left is a guy who is studying music at university, he plays guitar and he's really amazing. Above me, a 14 year old kid who plays the most beautiful piano every afternoon at 4pm. Then there's this guy. Knows one nirvana riff which he plays over and over again from 3am till 5am on a cheap electric guitar at full volume. He never gets it right and never gets better at it

    He's a 35 year old scooter-riding unemployed loser who's frail elderly parents come over every week to do his washing and clean the flat they had to buy for him to live in.

    I had a baby this month. Then the lady at the front apartment had one too. I put the crib against the wall we both share. Now this douche bag is sandwiched between two screaming newborns who never sleep. Ever. And it feels so good.

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    #8

    He takes firewood from our woodpile at night - or when he knows we're away - for use in his own fireplace. (Our neighbor across the street has seen him doing it and has kept us informed.)

    In the summer, he's the tomato bandit - stealing produce from our garden. This summer, I'm going to install a surveillance camera to catch him in the act.

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    Americans said they are more similar to their neighbors in some ways than others:

    1. Half of adults said all or most of their neighbors are the same race or ethnicity as they are;
    2. 38% said they have about the same level of education as most or all of their neighbors;
    3. 23% said they have the same political views as all or most of their neighbors.

    Overall, how similar people feel to their neighbors is related to how much they trust their neighbors and to whether they expect they and their neighbors will do things for one another.

    #9

    There's a particular type of person who seems to feel like they're the only thing standing between society and complete collapse, and about six years ago, my downstairs neighbor was one of them. She was aloof and paranoid, and she'd imagine threats from almost everywhere... which made the fact that she thought of herself as some kind of secret agent all the more annoying.

    Said neighbor was always trying to find ways of getting me (and anyone else whom she thought of as suspicious) to move out of the building. She'd stage loud telephone calls with "headquarters" about the alarming behavior of the other tenants - like my tendency to get home after nine in the evening, which was clearly scandalous - and frequently yell at the people who'd stand on the corner to smoke. On one occasion, I heard her shouting at someone over the placement of a flowerpot in their window, which was obviously an indication that they were selling drugs.

    Then, one afternoon, I found this taped to a wall in the stairwell.

    It was perhaps the most ridiculous attempt at an official document that I'd ever seen, and I'm including the time that my friend Jonathan - then nine years old - made a flyer for bodyguard services. The atrocious grammar, poorly Photoshopped seal, and distinct absence of any legitimate contact information made the "notice" about as realistic as a scene from NCIS. Furthermore, the reference to "the past two years" seemed to indicate me as her primary target, since I was (as far as I knew) the only resident who had been there for less time than that.

    Still, since the notice was clearly meant to scare someone, I decided to return the favor by taking a page out of my neighbor's own playbook and standing outside of her apartment while staging my own fake phone call:

    "You should see the notice; it's terrible! Hah, yeah, it's like they didn't know that impersonating a federal official is a felony! Anyway, the real FBI are on their way, and they're going to dust for fingerprints. Whoever made that notice is looking at a lot of jail time!"

    I went back inside my apartment after that... and within seconds, I heard my neighbor's door open. There was the sound of hurried footsteps rushing towards the stairwell, followed by an equally hurried retreat. When I went out to check five minutes later, the notice was gone.

    I've since moved away from that location, but for the rest of the time that I lived there... the lady never bothered me again.

    TL;DR: My idiotic neighbor liked to pretend that she was a secret agent.

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    #10

    I had this neighbor. She had a little tiny pomeranian dog that barked at everything, which wasn't too bad actually. The dog wasn't outside much and barking dogs aren't too hard for me to ignore. What was really hard to ignore was this woman yelling, "NALA, NO BARK!" at the top of her lungs every time the dog barked. It drove me and my roommate up the wall.

    EDIT: Enough people have asked me if I live in or have ever lived in Jersey that it necessitates a response. Fortunately, I have not. I can only imagine how loud the barking/yelling can be that all of Jersey knows about it.

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    #11

    I have these stupid college kids that just started renting a house next to me. Every single weekend for three months straight they've been throwing parties. That's not so bad, even though they are super loud and won't shut up until about 3am.

    What makes them the worst is that we live in a court, so whenever the party ends, all these drunk idiots get in their cars and drive home. Almost every single neighbor, including me, had had windows shattered, cars dented, or side panels destroyed because of them. Not a single note left or insurance info exchanged. At least 8 hit and runs in the last three months.

    Edit: After all these comments, I've decided to call the cops next time they throw a party, as I know they are all driving drunk afterwards, and see if the cops will come out. I doubt they will, bit it's worth a shot, right? I'm also going to invest in some outdoor CCTV cameras. It's going to be annoying to set up, but like others have stated it'll be worth it. You can stop flooding my inbox now.

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    #12

    We received a very stern letter from our town Animal Control Officer. One of our neighbors (the one who happened to drunkenly hit our mailbox) contacted them to complain about the unlicensed dogs which we allow to roam through the neighborhood, barking and digging up lawns.

    We don't own any dogs.

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    When it comes to specific annoyances, a survey of 1,000 U.S. homeowners revealed that the top complaints were:

    1. Garbage (27.4%)
    2. Landscaping and lawn care (22.6%)
    3. Home maintenance (21.9%)
    4. Noise (19.4%)
    5. Pets (16.5%)

    And whether or not you end up living next to someone like the people on this list appears to be a coin flip: nearly half of respondents claimed they haven’t disagreed about anything with their neighbor (46.7%).

    #13

    I've written about my crazy neighbour before. I have since moved. Quick recap; Nut job who broke into my room in the middle of the night and stood next to my bed with a power drill as I woke up. She carried her dog's body in a see through plastic bag. And so much more.

    She is now in jail waiting for trial after attacking the new tenant with...a power drill.

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    #14

    Neighbour has been asking for Sugar 4times this week.

    Twice on monday & Tuesday. Morning & evening.

    Its not a huge nuisance but please buy sugar on your own, im not ur next-door supermarket!

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    #15

    My neighbor has no sense of time. One time we had to talk to him about not using power tools or splitting wood at 3 in the morning. What makes him worse? He gets a smaller trash can to pay less to the city but then puts all his extra trash in our bin so ours overfills and we have to pay extra.

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    #16

    My next door neighbour is lovely in nearly every way. He's friendly, has a cute dog and he brought us fish and chips for lunch on the day we moved in. He watches our house when we're away, and deals with repair people if we're at work, since he's retired. Practically perfect in every way.

    BUT.

    His garden is full of wind chimes. Like, there could well be more than 100. The constant chiming 24/7 makes me want to garrote him. I hear them in my sleep. I hear them at work. I swear they're following me. The chimes never stop.

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    #17

    Oh damn, this is a nice one.
    I live in a pretty nice apartment, with one big downside; I share a toilet with other person on the same floor as me. To get to it, you have to leave the apartment, and enter the attic (on the same floor as my apartment, with the storage units for the rest of the building etc).
    My neighbor, is a seniledemented drunk. With whom I share a toilet.

    Why he isn't in a home is beyond me (his caretakers who visit him once each day have hinted that he might eventually get put into one, but there's no indication that it will actually happen), he can't take care of himself. He's always drunk, the girl who lives on the floor below have had to call 911 several times when He couldn't get up the stairs. He's constantly EXTREMELY noisy. Image the sound of moving furniture, every night. I have no idea what he's doing, but I'm happy that I don't live below him.

    But the worst part, by far, is the toilet situation.
    Let's start of easy. He never flushes. Almost everytime I have to use the toilet, I have to flush down first.
    He seldom closes the door. Remember that the toilet is on the attic, with the storage units. Pretty much everyone in the building have sometime walked in and seen him sitting on the toilet, me more than most.
    And as the grand finale, he defecates on the floor. I have no idea how he does it. On the toilet ring, on the floor, underneath the toilet ring, the walls, everywhere. It's like he slipped of the toilet,in the middle of it and just didn't stop pooping, just let it all out, wherever it lands. One rather... spectacular time he seems to have lost all control of his sphincter on his way to/from the toilet, and let it rain in the corridor outside our apartments. Literally let it rain too. It was a couple of puddles of pure liquid, imagine if someone spilled a cup of coffe on the floor pretty much, right outside my door. It smelled something unholy. Not like regular defecation, just this opressive odor that made it hard to breathe. Almost threw up right there.

    So yeah... I wouldn't be sad to see him go.

    Edit: Allright, so this got a bit bigger than expected. Let me clarify a few things:
    The apartment might not be the most amazing thing ever, BUT currently I cannot afford a much higher rent, and the location is amazing. Honestly, the landlord could double the rent and get away with it, just due to location alone.

    Personally, a shared toilet (and bathroom for those who asked) isn't a huge problem, if I shared it with someone who handled it well. Currently, I don't, but if a reasonably clean person lived there, I would be 100% okay with not having my own.

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    #18

    The ones directly below me. Now, granted they are in their early 70's, but here's the situation. They are sandwiched between our flat and the flat below them. They stay in all day, every day, every week, only going out at the crack of dawn for a walk or once-twice a week for the weekly shop.

    They live underneath two people (me and housemate) yet expect total and utter silence at all times.

    They complain when we walk around, and after the first time we made a pointed effort to be more light footed, remove shoes, etc. We have carpets, but they still complain that we walk around too much.

    They complain they can hear us go to the toilet. Well. SORRY. I WILL JUST HAVE MY BLADDER EXPLODE SO AS NOT TO INCONVENIENCE YOU.

    One time, I was lying in bed, no music, nothing, just on reddit. I get up to pee and leave my room and go into the bathroom opposite. As soon as I shut the door, I hear the front door open. Thinking it's my housemate, I shout out "Yo!" but I hear a strange voice in return. I stepped out the bathroom and there's my downstairs neighbour, he let himself in! And he's talking about "I don't understand it, am I dreaming? Because all I can hear is banging and crashing all day!"

    I've been in bed for the last 2 hours scrollingReddit!! Absolutely insane. I had to drive him out amid his protests of "but your door was unlocked" it's not an invitation to come in!!

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    #19

    Earl. We have this crotchety old man named Earl who lives a few houses away from us. He keeps security cameras in his front yard pointed at the street and dashes out to scream at children for "tresspassing on private property" when they set one foot on the drainage ditch across the street from his house. He threatened to shoot our dog once, and he's just a weirdo in general.

    There's "The Chanter." A little bit of backstory, I live in the backwater town of Yelm, Washington and we have a local religious nutjob called J.Z. Knight who is the inventor of this crazy cult which is really popular here. The lady who lives at the end of the street subscribes to this religion and constantly knocks every house's door in the neighborhood trying to get us to convert. It was especially bad for me, because I was friends with her daughter when I was younger and she absolutely will not leave us alone, no matter how much we tell her we're not interested in her cult. She chants weird mantras when she walks down the street between each house.

    Finally, we've got "The Rabbitmaster." This guy used to be the landowner of our housing division, and he set all the rules for what we could keep on our property. We started noticing domesticated rabbits appearing all over the neighborhood a few months after we moved in. Apparently, this guy had a rabbit breeding mill in his backyard where he was breeding hundreds of rabbits to sell for pelts and meat, and eventually this guy got charged and decided to flee the country and run off to Mexico. He illegally released all his rabbits before he did, and we saw the last rabbit about a year ago. We've lived in this house for over 11 years.

    So, those are my stories.

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    #20

    Does my land lady's daughter count?

    I live in a room with private bathroom off of their home, and it's a pretty convenient set up. I'm almost never home other than to sleep, so generally the little annoyances don't bother me.

    But holy hell I want to throw this girl into a bag and drown her into the river. She's 19 years old, living at home while she takes some time off from college. Okay, pretty reasonable, I've been there before.

    Except she acts like a five year old. Her speaking voice is, at best, a yell. At worst it's a demon screech from hell. She likes to hang out in the room directly next to mine and scream full volume at her mother pretty much every day. They're not normal arguments either. Her mother is always very calm and reasonable, while this girl just throws tantrums like a child because she doesn't like what her mother is making for dinner, or her mother isn't paying enough attention to her, just really the kind of stuff toddlers enjoy complaining about. Normally I just tune it out, but I work an overnight shift on the weekends and have to catch up on sleep during the day. Unfortunately for me she has the weekends off and it seems like they are her favorite time to scream for hours on end.

    This girl also fancies herself a singer, and is trying to get herself into a performance art program at some college. She's applied to a bunch now I think, and she likes to practice for her auditions again in the room right next to mine. Her voice literally sounds like a dying cat (hence the river drowning). Of course if anyone tries to give her constructive criticism she just shrieks, so they let her be. Now recently I've heard a lot of sobbing from her because she's starting to get rejection letters from the colleges she's been applying to with these horrible auditions.

    I normally try to keep as much distance from her as possible, but her sister and I are friends so when her sister is visiting from out of town this girl will invite herself along on our plans and since we don't want to listen to her scream we just let it happen.

    On one of these outings I learned that she's also a "dancer". I figured we had finally found some common ground! So I ask her what styles she's into and she says ballet, modern, and tango. I don't know much about the first two, but I'm a competitive international ballroom dancer, so I tried asking her what style tango she dances, assuming she probably also dances the other dances in the style and just mentioned the dance she's working on.

    She just met me with a blank stare and repeated as if I were the 5 year old that she's dancing tango, didn't I hear her? So I elaborate, asking if she means international or American, and she starts to get pissed off saying that she just dances "regular" tango. Apparently she just walked into an Arthur Murray dance studio and told them she wanted to dance tango. And because it's Arthur Murray they charged her an absurd amount of money for their studio gear and just started teaching her some unidentifiable form of tango. At that point I was just like "Oh okay cool" but I had already set off her rage so she starts shrieking asking what I even know about tango. I reminded her that I'm a ballroom dancer, and her response was

    "I don't dance BALLROOM, I dance TANGO aren't you listening?"

    We just don't really speak anymore. And yet the headache just from listening to her in the next room never seems to go away.

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    #21

    My current neighbors are loud and they smoke like chimneys. They have a medium sized dog that lives outside. He's called Rocket and he's so bored that he barks a lot at small things. Open the back door on their side of the house? He's off. He won't stop barking for 15 minutes to an hour.

    That barking ruins me. They go out shopping on the weekend and he starts barking. Not irregular "I'm excited" barks, I can filter those out in my head. These are "I have nothing better to do" barks, one every second with a monotonous regularity that does my head in. They constantly leave the poor mutt outside in the cold and he sits and whines all the way into the night until he falls asleep.

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    #22

    Pam was a single mom with her teenage daughter, and for the first few years we more or less got along. Helped her move some furniture in, listened to her complain about her work, and ignored the smoke that billowed off of her adjacent back deck.

    I don't know what caused it, but Pam started to lose it. Everyone was out to get her, myself included... and she loved to call the cops. Once she called the cops because the garbagemen put my trash can too close to her driveway after emptying it. Usually it was for watching TV at 9:00pm at night, because she thought any noise was a pointed attempt to keep her from sleeping.

    The craziest was when I was having an argument during the summer (and some windows were open). Pam called the police, and told them that I had been recording an argument that she had with her daughter and was playing it back on loop to torment her.

    Pam was nuts.

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    #23

    I had recently bought a camping stove- the biolight campstove- and wanted to test it out. I put in some little twigs, light it up, and heat up some beeswax for a woodworking project.

    Two minutes after lighting up, nosy neighbor comes out onto driveway and starts yelling at me, threatening to call the cops. She said, "It's summer time and our doors are open. The smoke from your fire is entering our hone and making black char marks on the wall, you're destroying our property. And you're also choking our parakeet- he can't breathe the smoke from your fire and is suffocating."

    The biolite camp stove has a tiny flame lol, and there was very little smoke, she was obviously exaggerating. I was annoyed but also found it comical and told her to stop gossiping in the neighborhood and stop making problems where there weren't any. She started crying and sobbed to her husband who then told me to not insult his wife. I told him that this is 2016 and not 1916, and that women are equal to men and that there's no need for him to finish a fight she started and especially because I did what she wanted and put the fire out. Gotta love city living sometimes, close quarters and all.

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    #24

    NeighborLady and her (male) fiance (NeighborDude) kidnapped NeighborLady's ex-wife. Confine ex-wife for two days, beat on her, force ex-wife to admit she inappropriately touched her own son (which she didn't) and recorded it, threatened to turn recording over to police if ex-wife didn't sign over custody of child to NeighborLady. Ex-wife eventually escapes, calls police, and neighbors are arrested for aggravated kidnapping.

    That's the worst story I have about those neighbors, but I've got plenty of others.

    #25

    They called the cops on me for walking on the street in front of their house. We live on the same street.

    #26

    My next door neighbors are awful. They're Asian refugees of some sort (please don't crucify me, I really don't know their nationality). Let me make this clear: I do NOT care where they came from. AT ALL. I'm honestly very glad they were able to escape whatever hell they were going through. But, they're Asian, which means they make Asian food. Sounds awesome, but it isn't. They cook outside a lot, and their food smells absolutely horrendous. I've seen them eat things that just shouldn't be eaten and prepare it in ways that I've never seen. One time they brought home a muskrat (the only place you can find those around here is by the sewage ponds) and cleaned it with a legit flamethrower. The smell of burning rodent fur is not something I would care to ever smell again. I can handle the six kids yelling and screaming all day. I can handle their yard being full of trash and picking up whatever should blow into ours. But I just can't handle the smell. Rotten smelling fish, burning fur,. My husband has walked outside and instantly vomited from the smell on more than one occasion. It's gross.

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    #27

    My downstairs neighbor is convinced the boyfriend and I have secret kids that disappear when she knocks, but are running around making noise when she's trying to sleep. She's made multiple complaints to me and the super, who knows we don't have kids. Last night took the cake, when she started pounding on her ceiling with a broom after we were in bed, asleep. I have no idea if it's like she's hearing kids in the courtyard and thinking it's from our apartment or if she's just a nutjob, but it's getting kinda scary.

    #28

    A guy who lived below me constantly complained about my music playing to loud. He would leave notes under my door. I didnt even own a stereo. My landlord took my side after the guy came upstairs and knocked on my side neighbours door at 3am to inform him he was snoring too loud.

    Later he was evicted because he called the landlord saying he was locked inside his apartment...yes locked inside. When the landlord couldn't convince him to just unlock the door he called a locksmith because the guy was losing it. When the landlord got into the place the walls had all been broken through and had pillows stuffed inside them because the guy said he could hear everyone talking through the pipes.

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    #29

    13 years ago I found out my neighbor was having an affair with my (ex)wife, so yeah. Worst neighbor ever.

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    #30

    She watered the plants twice a day through our drought, only person on the street with green grass. interrogates you about your life when she never wants to talk about anything else, and is just generally rather grinchy. Also she substitutes at my high school.

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    #31

    APARTMENT 3. I live in a 4-storey, 3 apartment (Number 4 is the business at the ground floor) building, and I live at number 2 (so, 3rd storey). Number 3 are young foreign people who decide to do renovations until 1 in the morning (we're renting, I hope they're just putting furniture together and not damaging the property) and on other nights, party until 5am, or until my angry flatmate goes up and yells at them. We've complained about them many times to the landlord and they won't be getting their lease renewed.

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    #32

    Romanians living in the upstairs apartment. Living hell.

    Apartments are sized for 3 people, but they've got like 8-10 people in there illegally. Constant entering and leaving, as late as 3-4am, they've been visited by so many housing officials, but they keep denying them entry. Then, one day, the police raid the place at 6:30am, ramming down the door with abattering ram. One guy ran off and literally just tumbled down the stairs and bolted down the street.

    Apart from that, fire hazard, water leaks (one of which went into my main electricity line. it was pretty funny trying to explain to them that they couldn't use the shower and that they'd pass away if there was a short with a direct connection to them through the water), damage to my door from them moving beds out, smell, late noise...

    They have a deadline till April 8th when the municipality is going to inspect the place. If it doesn't immaculately conform to standards, they get kicked out, thank god.

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    #33

    I need to point out that I have zero idea what I did to these people. I live next to this hipster couple with 2 daughters. They literally make me afraid to go outside during the daytime. They scream and curse at me when they see me outside. Especially the wife, who will actually follow me around until I go inside, screaming insults at me. They have pounded on my door all hours of the day and night, way longer than any normal person would, without giving up. The reason I don't answer my door when they knock? Last time I did, it was the wife, with one of the daughters, screaming at me to give her my landlord's phone number. Presumable to call him and coomplain about me. And one day I came home to find a broken window, on a wall that only faces their house. I'm quiet and I keep to myself. I don't have a lot of guests over. I have absolutely no idea what I did to piss these people off.

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    #34

    Not my neighbor now, but a few years ago we lived across the street from an elderly couple. The wife had dementia (we think). Trash including disgusting things like used toilet paper was shooting up in everyone's yards. One night we watched and saw the old lady come out and throw trash over the fence into the neighbor's yard.

  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:00

    Welcome, Pandas! Today, we’re here to serve you a fresh platter of completely random memes — the kind that make absolutely no sense and yet somehow fix your mood instantly. These are perfect for brightening your day after a long shift at work, helping you procrastinate instead of replying to emails, or simply giving your brain a tiny vacation from real life for a few minutes.

    So grab a snack, pretend you’re being productive, and enjoy today’s chaotic collection from the Instagram account “daddiememes.” We’ve rounded up some of their funniest posts just for you. Keep scrolling, Pandas… and try not to laugh too loudly in public.

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    Pandas, let’s be honest — being stressed has basically become part of modern adult life. One minute you’re peacefully drinking coffee, the next you’re spiraling because of unread emails, bills, deadlines, family responsibilities, or that one awkward conversation you replayed in your head 14 times before sleeping. And honestly, it’s not just you.

    Studies around the world continue to show that stress and anxiety levels are rising globally, especially with fast-paced lifestyles, work pressure, financial uncertainty, and constant digital overload. Sometimes it feels like our brains forgot how to simply relax for five minutes without opening another tab or checking another notification. Humans today are somehow exhausted and overstimulated at the exact same time. Which is exactly why finding small moments of joy, laughter, and calm has become more important than ever before.

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    And stress doesn’t just stay inside your head quietly — it slowly spills into almost every area of life. High stress levels can seriously affect workplace productivity, focus, creativity, and overall performance. When people are overwhelmed, even simple tasks can suddenly feel impossible, like replying to one email somehow becomes a full emotional event.

    Stress can also affect relationships with coworkers and peers, making people more irritable, impatient, or emotionally withdrawn without even realizing it. Over time, the quality of work may suffer too because tired minds struggle to stay sharp and motivated. And unfortunately, the effects don’t magically stop once work ends either. Chronic stress often follows people home, impacting friendships, romantic relationships, sleep, mood, and overall emotional well-being.

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    So if stress is practically everywhere, what can we actually do to manage it better? Well, according to the UK’s NHS, one of the best ways to reduce stress is surprisingly simple: stay active. And no, this doesn’t mean you suddenly need to transform into a fitness influencer waking up at 5 a.m. to run marathons. Any physical activity helps. Walking, stretching, dancing terribly in your kitchen, cycling, swimming, or even cleaning while aggressively lip-syncing to music counts too. Physical movement helps release feel-good chemicals in the brain, improves sleep, and gives your mind a break from overthinking. 

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    Another thing many of us underestimate is the importance of “me time.” Somewhere along the way, people started treating rest like a reward instead of a basic human need. There are even people who feel guilty for relaxing, saying no to plans, or spending time alone doing absolutely nothing productive. But “me time” is important. It’s how people mentally recharge, reconnect with themselves, and step away from the constant noise of life.

    Sometimes happiness is literally sitting in silence, watching comfort shows, reading a book, gaming for hours, journaling, gardening, or eating snacks without somebody asking for “just one bite.” Taking time for yourself doesn’t make you selfish or lazy. It helps prevent emotional burnout and gives your brain space to breathe. Because honestly, you cannot pour from an empty cup — especially if everyone keeps stealing your fries too.

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    What you eat also plays a much bigger role in stress levels than most people realize. Healthline highlights how eating healthy and balanced meals can help support both physical and emotional well-being. When people are stressed, it becomes really tempting to survive entirely on caffeine, sugary snacks, instant noodles, or random meals eaten at 11 p.m. while standing in the kitchen.

    And while comfort food absolutely has its place (because sometimes fries genuinely heal the soul), constantly neglecting nutrition can leave people feeling even more tired, sluggish, and emotionally drained. Balanced meals help stabilize energy levels, improve concentration, and support overall brain function too. Basically, your body and brain work much better when they’re not surviving on iced coffee and emotional damage alone.

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    Setting boundaries is another major part of protecting your mental health, even though many people struggle with it. Saying “no” can feel awkward at first, especially if you’re used to people-pleasing or trying to avoid conflict. But whether it’s at work, in friendships, or even with family, boundaries matter. If a coworker keeps dumping extra work on you, you’re allowed to say no. If someone constantly drains your energy, you don’t have to be available 24/7. If relatives expect too much emotional labor from you, it’s okay to step back and protect your peace. Boundaries are not about being rude; they’re about recognizing your limits before burnout hits. Honestly, sometimes the most powerful form of self-care is simply refusing to carry stress that was never yours to begin with.

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    Stress may feel normal these days, but that doesn’t mean it’s harmless. Long-term stress can affect sleep, digestion, concentration, mood, immunity, and overall health. It can make people feel emotionally exhausted even after doing “nothing” all day because the brain never truly switches off. That’s why it’s important to slow down when possible, check in with yourself, and find small healthy ways to decompress before stress completely takes over. Nobody can eliminate stress entirely — life will always be messy sometimes. But learning how to manage it in healthier ways can make a huge difference over time. Even small habits, repeated consistently, can help people feel more balanced emotionally and mentally.

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    And honestly, that’s also why silly posts, random memes, and chaotic internet humor matter more than people think. Sometimes, after a long, stressful day, all your brain really needs is one ridiculous meme that makes you laugh-snort unexpectedly. Tiny moments of laughter help people feel lighter, calmer, and a little less overwhelmed by life for a while. So we hope these posts gave you a break from stress, responsibilities, and whatever dramatic nonsense your week has been throwing at you. Pandas, tell us — which one of these memes made you smile the most? Did any of them instantly improve your mood or make your day feel just a little easier?

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  • Saturday 06 June 2026 - 00:00

    Not every thought needs to be a loud one. But unfortunately, the internet has given people endless opportunities to criticize each other’s lives and spread misinformation.

    And as the subreddit ‘[Stuff] Mom Groups Say’ highlights, some parents seem to be in a league of their own. They appear to have convinced themselves that raising a child automatically makes their opinions more valuable than everyone else’s, and good luck trying to change their mind. Even if you’re an actual expert.

    Then again, no wonder Lithuanians have the saying, “Let the fool have his way.”

    #1 Popped Up On Feed From A Mom Group

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    #2 A Whole New Level Of Delusional

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    #3 *please Be Fake*

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    #4 Asks For Opinions On Gender Neutral Name Idea... But "We Don't Care It's Linked To White Nationalists" 😂😵‍💫

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    #5 This Lady Would Rather Have Her Daughter Die Than To Receive Vaccinated Blood

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    #6 Baby Thieving Spirits

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    #7 Public Group That Came On My Feed

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    #8 This Is Actually Infuriating. That Poor Child

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    #9 Who Needs Medication When You Have Nicotine Patches?

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    #10 Not The Dyes!

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    #11 On A Conversation About An Unvaccinated Child Who Died Of Influenza

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    #12 Warms

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    #13 Poor Little Guy

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    #14 Mom Comes From A Family Of Neurosurgeons. Worried Why 8 Month Old Isn’t Talking

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    #15 Her Husband Doesn’t Believe In The Ducking Hospital

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    #16 Basing Your Friends Off Of What They Eat Is Probably The Reason They Feel So Isolated 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    #17 Sick Baby? That Fine! Fever? That’s Fine! Vaccines? Hell No

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    #18 You Must Be Joking Me Bro 😳

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    #19 Because Endangering Your Own Kids Is Not Enough

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    #20 Dr Said The Baby Has An Ear Infection But No Symptoms

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    #21 Always A Hot Topic…

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    #22 Interstitial Pregnancy But Pro-Life

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    #23 Rifht?

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    #24 The Fact People Think Like This Is Mind Blowing

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    #25 I Don't Need To Listen To My Ob, I'm A Mom!*

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    #26 It's A Show For Preschoolers

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    #27 Dad Left Baby On A Changing Table In A Public Restroom

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    #28 I Wish My Husband Would Sa Me 😔 No

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    #29 Op Most Likely Has Hellp, Still Denying The Emergency C-Section Bcs "What's A Few More Hours?" With Rising Liver Enzymes

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    #30 Not Worried About Clotting Because It’s Perfect After Day 8

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    #31 Sounds Like A Great Idea!

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    #32 Why?

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    #33 If Only She’d Put The Honey On Beforeee The Concussion, Dang

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    #34 "I'm Having Trouble Finding Some"

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    #35 The Same Old Heartbreaking Delusional Story

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    #36 Just Small Town Shenanigans

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    #37 Stuff Like This Posted On The Daily

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    #38 Theres A Lot Going On Here

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    #39 I Have No Words

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    #40 From An Antivax Mom Group That Can't Decide If They Should Fear Germs Or Not (Or If They Exist 🤷‍♀️)

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    #41 Yes, Please Send Your Child To Daycare Without A Flu Shot

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    #42 Safe Sleep Is A Chocking Hazard

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    #43 Biblical Birth Control

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    #44 “Can A Stranger Put My Toddler To Bed? Her Dad Can’t.” (With Comments)

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    #45 There Are No Circumstances Where A Woman Cannot Birth At Home☺️

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    #46 Ah Yes, Chiropractors - The Secret To Happiness

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    #47 Quick Question, What The F*ck

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    #48 Such A Nice Stepdad

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    #49 In A Crunchy Mom Facebook Group

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    #50 What A Strange Flex To Share On The Internet. Better Off Buying 3 Stocks Of Nvidia

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    #51 When You’re Too Out There For Even Your “Crunchy” Pediatrician

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    #52 I Wish She Was Joking

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    #53 What Could Possibly Go Wrong When You Deny Your Child A Birth Certificate???

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    #54 I’m Not Very Educated So Instead Of Trusting My Doctors I Will Consult Facebook

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    #55 It’s The Smiley Face For Me

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    #56 The Cure For Baby Acne! Who Knew!

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    #57 Hey Guys Is It Okay If I Physically Ab*se My Child?

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    #58 40 Months Or 40 Years?

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    #59 "It Says Schools Are Closed Tomorrow. So Does That Mean They're Closed?"

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    #60 Went Looking For Advice And…🫠

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    #61 Someone Spoke To Me In A Store! Call The Cops!!!

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    #62 School Is Not Designed For Boys

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    #63 Beware Of Tap Water From The Bathroom!

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    #64 Coffee Milk. Not A Joke

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    #65 My Husbands Missing And It’s Makes My Christmas Gift Less Fun…

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    #66 It's Not Your Special Day!

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    #67 “I’m A Killer” -Her Newborn, Probably

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    #68 I Truly Thought This Was Going To Be About Acid Rain... Not Whatever This Is

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    #69 Mom Groups Are Just Rage Bait Pages

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    #70 If I State That I Know Something That Makes It A Fact, Right?

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    #71 Alternate Tag: “Raw Milk Is Magic” 🤢

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    #72 Pardon???

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    #73 Safe Sleep Where?

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    #74 But Yes, Let’s Blame The Pillow

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    #75 Why Risk Vaccination When Rabies Is Only 100% Lethal?

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    #76 Please Discourage Your Kids From Sharing And Being Generous With Others

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    #77 I Have A Good One To Share

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 06:00

    From blockbuster hits to underrated hidden-gem films and cult classics, we’ve rounded up 22 tough picks that every movie lover has to face. Will you choose the iconic classics or the latest must-watch releases?

    Dive into the ultimate ‘This Or That’ movie poll, cast your vote, and see how your taste compares to other Pandas!

    When you’re done voting and comparing in this poll, check out the ultimate music poll by clicking here.

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity.💡 🚀

    #1 Which director is more influential?

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    #2 Which actress is superior?

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    #3 Which action film is more exciting?

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    #4 Whose filmography is more impressive?

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    #5 What makes for a better movie?

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    #6 Which comedy movie stands the test of time better?

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    #7 Who is the better actor?

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    #8 Which romance film is more iconic?

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    #9 Who’s the better director?

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    #10 Who’s the better action star?

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    #11 Which horror movie is better?

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    #12 Which sci-fi film franchise is more iconic?

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    #13 Whose filmography is more impressive?

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    #14 Which film is more thrilling?

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    #15 Which director is more influential?

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    #16 Which fantasy franchise is more iconic?

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    #17 Who’s the better James Bond?

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    #18 Which Western holds up the best?

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    #19 Which director is better?

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    #20 Which adventure franchise is more exciting?

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    #21 Who's the better action star?

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    #22 What should films be tailored to?

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 01:05

    Spanish tennis player Rafael Jódar found himself at the center of an online debate after a viral clip from the French Open appeared to show him pushing a ball girl while leaving the court.

    The incident quickly spread across social media, with many viewers accusing the 19-year-old of disrespectful behavior.

    However, as additional footage emerged and Jódar addressed the situation himself, questions began to surface about whether the video showed what people initially thought it did.

    A viral moment during Rafael Jódar’s French Open match quickly drew criticism

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    The controversy unfolded during Jódar’s third-round match against American player Alex Michelsen at Roland Garros on May 29.

    After finishing a set, Jódar was walking toward the exit for a toilet break when a ball girl appeared in his path. Footage shared online appeared to show the teenager moving past her before suddenly stumbling backward and falling.

    The clip spread rapidly across social media, where many viewers believed the young player had shoved the volunteer out of the way.

    “I’ve seen loser behavior, but this just takes the cake; he deserves to get blackballed,” one person wrote.

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    “LOSER and a liar!! Losers don’t push girls. Only cowards and mean, sick men do,” another commented.

    “He lost not just a game, but his character too,” a third person added.

    Others criticized what they viewed as poor sportsmanship.

    “This scene is honestly upsetting to watch. Ball kids deserve respect and protection at all times. Athletes are expected to maintain basic professional conduct, even under pressure,” one viewer wrote.

    After the clip went viral, Jódar broke his silence and revealed the truth about the whole ordeal

     

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    The Spanish player was asked about the incident after his match, which he won in five sets to reach the fourth round.

    Jódar strongly denied making contact with the ball girl and offered a different explanation for what happened.

    “She was walking backward, I mean, I didn’t push her or anything,” he said.

    “I was telling my dad to give me the things that he was going to give me after a toilet break when I was coming back.”

    According to Jódar, the ball girl was trying to step aside when she lost her footing.

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    “She was in the middle, so I think she was trying to get out of the way. She was going backward, but I think she fell, but not because I pushed her.”

    When later asked directly whether he touched her, Jódar gave an even firmer denial.

    “I never touched her. I would never do that.”

    He also emphasized his respect for the volunteers working at the tournament.

    “I appreciate all the work that the ball kids are doing. I know it’s difficult with the heat and the conditions to stay there,” he said.

    “I could never push a ball kid.”

    Additional footage led many viewers to question the original accusations

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    As the video continued circulating, another camera angle began attracting attention online.

    Many viewers argued that the clip created an optical illusion and that the ball girl had actually tripped over equipment positioned behind the baseline.

    Perspective matters. He didn’t touch her at all,” one person wrote.

    “She tripped on netting. He never touched her. If you slow the tape down, you will see,” another commented.

    “He doesn’t, another camera angle shows that he didn’t touch her, and that she tripped as many others have on the stupid advertising boards around the court while moving out of his way,” a third viewer added.

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    Others criticized people for rushing to judgment based on a single video.

    “Stop jumping to conclusions about people/things based on a single perspective. Check community notes and comments on this one. It’s not what it appears.”

    “You should have checked before posting, it’s an optical illusion, he in fact did not shove her,” another person wrote.

    The court cover behind the baseline became a key part of the explanation

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    According to Jódar, the fall was likely caused by a folded court cover positioned behind the baseline.

    “The court cover was right behind her,” he explained.

    “So when she was walking backward, she fell with that.”

    The explanation gained attention because similar issues had already occurred at this year’s French Open.

    Belgian player Alexander Blockx reportedly injured his ankle after stepping awkwardly on a court cover during practice and later withdrew from the tournament.

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    British player Katie Boulter and Turkish player Zeynep Sönmez had also experienced problems with advertising boards behind the court.

    After one incident, Boulter posted on social media, adding, “THESE THINGS HAVE TO GO.”

    Those previous accidents led some fans to believe the ball girl’s fall may indeed have been caused by the court setup rather than any physical contact.

    The incident drew comparisons to a previous French Open controversy involving a ball kid

    Part of the reason the clip attracted so much attention was that Roland Garros had previously dealt with incidents involving ball kids.

    In 2023, Japanese doubles player Miyu Kato was defaulted from the French Open after a ball she hit toward the back of the court accidentally struck a ball girl in the neck.

    Although the contact was unintentional, tournament officials enforced the rules strictly, and the decision became one of the most debated moments of that year’s event.

     

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    As a result, any incident involving ball kids tends to receive heightened scrutiny from tennis fans.

    Even after additional footage emerged, some viewers remained critical of Jódar.

    “Those saying he didn’t touch her, the fact is, he chose to walk right into her. What a ‘gentleman’ thing to do,” one person wrote.

    Others felt the controversy had been blown out of proportion.

    “The players we see today are more egocentric; fame and money have really made them think they are better,” one commenter argued, while others continued defending the teenager.

    People speculated what really happened after clips went viral online

    Social media reaction questioning ball girl incident involving French Open star

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    Tweet defending French Open star, says ball girl tripped back and player did not push her

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    Tweet claiming ball girl tripped on netting, French Open star didn't touch her

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    Tweet explaining French Open star didn’t touch ball girl, she tripped on advertising boards

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    Tweet expressing upset over French Open star pushing ball girl, calling for athlete respect

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:23

    Bonnie Blue has sparked another wave of criticism after revealing plans for a highly controversial baby shower that left even the interviewer visibly uncomfortable.

    The adult content creator, whose real name is Tia Billinger, had spent months making headlines over conflicting pregnancy claims, and now said she intends to host an event unlike a traditional baby shower.

    Her comments quickly spread online, prompting many netizens to express concern about the situation.

    “People need to stop paying attention to her. Problem solved,” one person wrote.

    Bonnie Blue’s latest baby shower twisted plans left the interviewer uncomfortable

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    The controversy began during a May 29 appearance on LBC, where Blue discussed plans for an event she intends to host next month.

    Speaking with presenter Shelagh Fogarty, Blue revealed that she wanted to turn her baby shower into what she described as a “g*lden sh*wer.”

    “I’m inviting the public to turn my baby shower into a g*lden sh*wer,” Bonnie said during the interview.

    “It is exactly what you think it is. I’ll be inviting the public to come and urinate on me and have s*x with me.” She quipped, revealing that it will be in London.

    Fogarty immediately responded by saying she felt “uncomfortable.”

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    Blue doubled down on the idea and insisted the event would go ahead because it was her choice.

    “Again, my body, this is what I’m choosing,” she said.

    She went on to explain that pregnancy is “a big f*tish for a lot of people” and claimed she wanted “to make the most” of the experience because it may only happen once.

    According to Blue, the event would include traditional baby shower elements alongside adult content activities.

    “It’ll be partly wholesome,” she said, explaining there would be food and games, while also mentioning that “other fluids” would be involved.

    Bonnie Blue’s pregnancy rumours have confused followers for months after her announcement

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    The latest interview is only the newest chapter in a pregnancy story that has repeatedly changed over the past year.

    Blue first sparked widespread speculation after claiming she had become pregnant following what she called a “breeding mission,” during which she allegedly had unprotected interc*urse with 400 men.

    At the time, she posted videos discussing the pregnancy and even joked about collecting DNA samples.

    “Which is why I collected DNA samples on the day,” she said in one video.

    “It was important for me to remember more than just their p*nis size this time round.”

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    In February and March 2026, Blue continued discussing the pregnancy publicly and even revealed future plans involving the baby.

    During an interview with Us Weekly, she said she wanted her followers to play a role in major milestones.

    “I’ll have a gender reveal later on in the year with my fans,” she said.

    She also floated another controversial idea.

    “I would like to auction off the baby’s name,” Blue said. “I think that would be quite fun.”

    At the time, she refused to identify the child’s father.

    Instead, she described him as “one of many.”

    As speculation surrounding her pregnancy grew, Bonnie Blue admitted her pregnancy announcement was fake

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    Questions about Blue’s claims intensified when viewers began noticing what appeared to be a silicone baby bump in some of her videos.

    As speculation grew, Blue initially dismissed criticism.

    “It’s not my job to convince them I am actually pregnant,” she told Us Weekly.

    “The more doubts, the more comments, the more views.”

    Soon afterwards, however, she publicly admitted that one of the pregnancy announcements had been staged.

    Twitter reply condemning Bonnie Blue for endangering her child in baby shower plans

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    In a video filmed at a villa in Mexico, Blue removed a fake bump and revealed it had been part of a publicity stunt.

    “So, spring break is done, and I’m no longer gonna need this fake bump,” she said.

    “Thank you for all you middle-aged dumb parents that fell for my rage bait.”

    She claimed the stunt generated more than 100 million views and earned her roughly £1 million.

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    The admission sparked intense backlash, particularly from people who felt pregnancy should not be used for online engagement.

    Despite admitting that the stunt was fake, Blue later returned and insisted she was genuinely pregnant.

    In a May interview with the Daily Star and other outlets, she claimed she was expecting a child and said her due date is in November.

    “It is healthy, and everything is all good,” she said.

    This is not the first time Bonnie Blue has broadcast her pregnancy

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    The baby shower announcement also reminded many people of another controversial claim she made in 2025.

    As reported by Bored Panda, Blue announced plans to livestream the birth itself.

    “In just eight months’ time, I’m so excited to do the world’s biggest livestream of a birth,” she said in a social media video.

    “Don’t worry, boys, you haven’t got to queue for this one.”

    The announcement drew widespread criticism and fueled further doubts about whether the pregnancy was genuine or simply another publicity stunt.

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    Blue had repeatedly insisted that much of her content is driven by audience interest and engagement.

    Over the years, she had built a massive following through increasingly controversial stunts, including claims that she slept with more than 1,000 men in a single day and other attention-grabbing challenges.

    Those incidents helped make her one of the most talked-about figures in the adult content industry.

    Following the latest baby shower comments, detractors said they were worried about the child, not the controversy

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    “That child isn’t even born yet, and she’s already using the pregnancy for adult content. I’m worried about the safety of the child,” one person wrote, while another added, “I don’t think this child is going to be safe around her.”

    Several users questioned whether Blue should even be allowed to raise a child.

    “I don’t think she should have custody of that child. She is insane, wow,” one viewer wrote.

    Others called for authorities to intervene.

    Child protective services need to step in immediately,” one person said.

    “Needs to be a law against this, no way should we allow this in our society,” another added.

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    Some viewers remained unconvinced that Blue is even pregnant.

    “She’s not even pregnant, she’s trolling all of you and making a fortune,” one commenter wrote.

    Others were simply disturbed by the latest revelation.

    “What a disgusting, sick individual,” one person wrote.

    “Dear God, please protect that child. Wrap your arms around him. Allow him to be surrounded by guardians. Protect him from evil. Amen.”

    “I don’t think this child is going to be safe around her,” wrote one netizen

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:10

    There are plenty of things women have to put up with that they really shouldn’t have to, and sexist comments are definitely one of them. They come from strangers, coworkers, even family members. And it’s always, always the same lines.

    You know the ones. “Get in the kitchen.” “Make me a sandwich.” Cue the sigh and the eyeroll. So when one Redditor asked women to share their favorite responses to these tired remarks, we had to round up the best ones. Scroll down to read them all.

    #1

    Australian Jade Hameister is the youngest person to have pulled off a Polar Hat Trick by traversing the North Pole, South Pole, and Greenland ice sheet. She had multiple boys telling her to get in the kitchen and make her a sandwich. She captioned a post on Instagram “I made you a sandwich (ham & cheese), now ski 37 days and 600km to the South Pole and you can eat it.”

    Teach your daughter to ignore them and focus on becoming radically successful at something, and the comebacks will write themselves.

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    #2

    Are you... too dumb to make your own sandwich?

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    #3

    I’d just send a YouTube meant for small children on how to make a sandwich, since he obviously needs some remedial instruction.

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    #4

    I had an online friend in my late teens who would make comments about women in the kitchen and making sandwiches. Not sure why I let it slide for so long but at some point I got annoyed and asked him,


    Me: “you know what they call guys who make jokes about women in the kitchen?”

    Friend “?”

    Me: “single”


    Didn't hear those comments from him after that.

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    #5

    Comebacks are about engaging in a battle of wits to beat the other person at their own game. The problem is that you can't beat a misogynist because their "game" is basically, "haha, I don't consider you to be a human being." I would focus on teaching your step daughter that she is too valuable to waste her energy on people who don't respect her. Whatever she once felt for this boy, he isn't the person she thought he was. She should block him and never give him the time of day, even if he tries to apologize or claims he was only joking later.

    It's a very valuable lesson to teach young girls that when someone shows you who they are, you need to believe them. If she gives him a second chance, she is teaching him she will tolerate being treated like garbage.

    #6

    A fun thing to do when someone makes a sexist “joke” is to act like you don’t get it or didn’t hear the first time, and ask them to repeat it.

    Man: make stupid sexist comment

    Me: “what? I don’t get it”

    Man: “uhhh…(tries to find way to explain why he’s a jerk)”.

    #7

    "Oh no, is your babysitter off this week? You poor thing. Do you need help tying your shoes as well?"

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    #8

    Had a "kid" (12 years old maybe?) harass my gaming buddies one day. Little [jerk] was just whipping out the insults and more and the voice admin wasn't on to kick him. Nor were a mod. After tormenting the other gamer girl in the channel, he turned his target on me and told me to go to the kitchen and make him a sandwich.

    "You don't want me to go to the kitchen, little boy, that's where all the *knives* are."

    That shut him up for a couple of minutes and the cheers from the guys were great. By then the voice channel admin got on and got rid of him.

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    #9

    There was a female gamer that dealt with something like this. She told him "how about I [sleep with] your dad and give him a son he actually loves." lmao your daughter is only 13, so that's not recommended but it was hilarious nonetheless.

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    #10

    "Sorry, but I am way too young to be a mom."

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    #11

    If you can't even make a sandwich, what else can't you do?

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    #12

    Forward the texts to his mother...

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    #13

    My response to “make me a sandwich” is “I’m not that kind of witch. You’ll have to stay a guy.”

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    #14

    Slap one piece of bread on each of his ears and declare "you're a sandwich."

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    #15

    Never speak to him again. That’s the comeback. Someone like this does not deserve another second of her time.

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    #16

    Build me a house.

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    #17

    Take a cue from Kamala Harris when her opponent tries to say something demeaning or insulting to drag her down to his level. Don't engage with it. Arguing back against an insult like that means accepting his premise that your value and your humanity is something that can be debated. It isn't. You have to reject that entire idea by ignoring it and ignoring him. He doesn't get any more time, effort, or attention. (Because what do you gain by winning this argument, even if you could win it? It only gives him attention and validation.)

    This boy did you a favor. He showed you who he is. And now you don't have to waste any more time or energy thinking about him as a possible crush.

    #18

    “Do you need me to fix your diapers as well.”

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    #19

    A 13 year old would understand the response: “sounds like a skill issue.”

    #20

    Well I'm a Scorpio so I have a knack for destroying people completely by understanding their insecurities and having no qualms about using that against them to knock them down if they give me any [nonsense]. So if she wants to go scorched earth, the best way to do it is to mock them using things we *know* misogynistic men and boys are extremely insecure about. Eg. "get some biceps and I'll think about it" or "you're not tall enough to deserve a sandwich".

    When I was in film school, an irritating little man kept making sexist comments like this to me in class, hoping for clout with the guys. I was one of two women in a class of 16, so it was extra irritating. One day, while we were doing a camera test and my role was acting as DOP, I asked him to do something normal related to the shot. He said "shave your legs woman, then you can talk to me". I clapped back "I can shave my legs whenever I want but that's as tall as you're ever gonna get", the dudes all laughed, and the little [jerk] never even LOOKED at me again, let alone sass me.

    Scorched earth, sister. Only way to go.

    #21

    Oh, I thought I liked you. Thanks for showing me that you’re not my type.

    #22

    Refer him to the Home Economics or Food Science teacher, since no one at home has bothered to teach him how to take care of himself.

    #23

    “ I don’t date toddlers. Bye.”

    And block.

    #24

    The best thing you can teach your daughter to do in these situations is to treat the boy saying these stupid things as utterly insignificant.

    There is no reason for her to feel hurt by these comments because they say absolutely nothing about who she is or the value she brings to the people around her. Those comments quite literally have nothing to do with her and she needs to learn to treat them as such.

    I highly recommend responding with "well that's a weird thing to say..." as it identifies that it is a stupid comment but also makes it clear that the only person in the interaction who looks stupid is him.

    Treat it as a stupid comment that makes the person saying it look stupid, because that's genuinely what it is. These boys are not worth her attention so don't give it to them.

    I totally understand that it is annoying behaviour and it is completely normal for her to find it frustrating, but she will be best served by not letting on that it bothers her. The fact is that she *is* better than them, so she should act like it by simply not giving them her energy or attention.

    #25

    She doesn’t need a comeback. She needs to say “that’s disrespectful and gross, I’m not wasting any more of my time with you”.

    #26

    Pretend like you don’t understand what he means and have him explain it. If he says it’s a joke, have him explain what’s funny about it. Aren’t jokes supposed to be funny? And then of course never speak to him again and warn all your girlies.

    #27

    Wow. Suddenly you have become very unattractive.

    #28

    “Why, are your parents not feeding you? Should I call cps?” Realistically, what she should do is not waste her time on this idiot. Her rejection can help him learn.

    #29

    Couple of different responses depending on whether this is in person or via text and how threatening she wants to be!

    1. Send a link to Lily Singh's how to make a sandwich video. Tutorial and a burn all in one
    2. Have a blank face and then slowly let it become a sickly sweet smile and either simply say "okay" all cheerfully or if they're slow drive it home with "you can totally trust me with your food!!" all with a sweet sweet smile and a nice tone of voice- scares 'em every time
    3. Let your face show how stupid you find what they just said and then just hold that expression. Keeping holding it. Hold it until they start falling over themselves to retract their statement. You can hasten it by saying words like: wow, ick, yikes, pass, ew (my fave)
    4. Build me a house, cut down a tree, [pass away] in a war, aka tell them to do a "manly task" first!
    5. Leave 'em on read. They may or may not catch on and self correct but either way ur depriving them of attention, which is what that statement wants.

    #30

    "Next!" then look past him as if you're looking for someone else. Do not engage with him again.

    #31

    "oh, I don't date children, did you confuse me for one of your parents?" edit: don't say 'mommy', says 'parents'.

    "can't you take care of yourself? How weird".

    #32

    "You've had 13 years (or whatever his age is) to come up with a better insult but instead copied one that's been around longer than you have been alive. I can see why you need help making a simple sandwich."

    #33

    Sounds like she should send that text to every girl in school. Maybe make posters, with his photo by the quote.

    #34

    I agree with the other commenters that a 14 year old boy deserves nothing but a block and delete.


    However. If you happen to be a gamer and some idiot thinks you should "go make me a sandwich" you tell him "your mom and I agreed you need salads".

    #35

    "Enjoy your future as an incel, bro ".

    #36

    Personally I like to be condescending my go to’s are usually “it’s okay some people never grow out of not being allowed to touch knives” or “wow sandwich is a big word for you” if I’m completely done with the bs I use this gem that I’ve shamelessly stolen from my FIL “you have 2 feet and a heartbeat - off you go sweetheart”.

    #37

    “Sorry I like men, not dependents who can’t take care of themselves. Maybe try a daycare next time.”

    #38

    “Do you not know how to make sandwiches? That’s sad. I texted your mom and sent her this screenshot, because it seems you’re too shy to tell her you don’t know how to make sandwiches :)” and then block him. You can choose to actually text/FB message his mother if you want. Or don’t but let him suffer that ball of anxiety.

    Send the text to other girls and give them a heads up. Maybe the next day at school they all bring in sandwiches that a male figure in their lives made for them and go “oh yum! Dad/Older Brother/Step Dad/Grandpa made me lunch today!” And all the girls eat their sandwiches while staring at the kid and his friends.

    #39

    Block his number and move on. Thank her lucky stars he showed who he really was early on.

    #40

    The best response is "I do not deserve this level of disrespect, joke or not. I guess we end here".

    #41

    Someone using words like that is trying to cause pain and conflict, on top of trying to batter down someone else's will. There is no response that will "get them back", or any such thing. Sadly, they will simply go on being what they are, because someone made them into that. There are very, VERY few things that can jar someone out of an ingrained pattern of hate.

    I've never found anything to do but walk away. It only ever escalates from there.

    #42

    “Sorry to hear about your mother”. But seriously that boy has no manners right now and has probably been taught that is somehow appropriate language and an appropriate way to speak to another person, just block numbers and ignore the boy if possible.

    #43

    “Too busy taking out the trash. Bye”.

    #44

    Tell him Gordon Ramsey can teach him how to cook if he cannot.

    #45

    "that is so sad. wow that's sad." why, they ask? "you're so desperate you'll settle for people you hate."

    it was just a joke? "yea, a creepy joke that's older than my dad."

    The best reaction is to just realize they're sad desperate sacks and get tf away from them, or send them away, but if she's stuck with them like on a bus or in a class, i think this might help:
    "that joke is older than my dad. dude i thought you'd be real with me but you're fake. Shame really."

    #46

    Go outside and fix my car.

    #47

    Go [to] war!


    Similar to how women have been placed in subservient roles throughout history, men have consistently been forced to go to war.

  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:10

    Will AI take my job? It’s a question burning in the brains of many people out there. Artificial Intelligence has been around for ages, but it’s really exploded onto the mainstream scene in recent years. From ChatGPT to Claude to Gemini and others, robots are being tasked with doing work that previously only humans could do.

    A person has told how their friend’s boss “fully drank the AI Kool-Aid” and has been asking his staff to use it for pretty much everything. What the IT manager didn’t expect was for one employee to follow that instruction to the T. The guy called on Claude to take a mandatory compliance test for him, and the manager finally learned why some things still need to be done by living beings.

    Their manager has been insisting that they use AI “wherever possible”

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    And that’s exactly what one guy did, much to the amusement of his colleagues – and disdain of his boss

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    Experts say more than half of all jobs in the U.S. will be reshaped by AI over the next two to three years.

    Artificial Intelligence has left many workers feeling intimidated, and for good reason. According to data from outplacement firm Challenger, Gray & Christmas, companies have already announced nearly 50,000 job cuts linked to AI this year alone. “Those layoffs account for roughly 17% of the roughly 300,000 total job cuts announced so far in 2026,” reports CBS News.

    Not all jobs are at risk, though. The ones safest from AI and automation are those that require human qualities that a robot cannot replicate. Things like social skills, emotional intelligence, and interpersonal relationships.

    “Fields that are more creative and don’t stick to a rigid routine will also lower the risk of AI replacing jobs in that field,” notes the U.S. Career Institute. “The most common jobs found to have a low risk of automation are jobs in the medical field, as they are complex and require flexibility; medical situations can be unpredictable.”

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    Positions least likely to be affected by automation include nurses, doctors, therapists, and counselors. In the education sector, teachers, instructors, and school administrators are considered fairly safe. The U.S. Career Institute also lists musicians, artists, writers, and journalists as those with a low risk of being affected by automation. Hairdressers, cosmetologists, personal trainers, and coaches are also unlikely to be replaced by robots- for now…

    It’s not always a matter of robots replacing people. Experts say 50% to 55% of jobs in the U.S. will be reshaped by AI over the next two to three years.

    “For many employees, this will mean that they retain the same or a similar role but face radically new expectations for how they work and what they produce,” explains the Boston Consulting Group’s team. “For company leaders, it will require a clear vision for how the transformation is managed, including a scaled, strategic approach to upskilling and reskilling and the restructuring of career ladders.” 

    The consultants say that in around five years from now—or perhaps further in the future—10% to 15% of jobs in the U.S. could be eliminated because of AI.

    “Managers need to get on board,” they warn. “Those who cut their workforce beyond AI’s ability to replace it will see productivity drop, institutional knowledge disappear, and critical talent walk away. Those who fail to dramatically rethink work will see their competitors grow faster and more profitably.”

    “Some things still need to be done by humans.” Many people loved how the employee got the last laugh

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:03

    The internet can be whatever you want it to be. It can be an endless well of information, whether necessary or trivial, a source of entertainment during the dullest moments of your day, or a digital confession box you can spill your deepest secrets onto.

    Of course, not every hidden truth is sinister and sordid. Some could be shallow and silly, much like what these people share on the Silly Confession subreddit. And with 36,000 weekly visitors, we can say that this online group is thriving from the less serious revelations from users all over the world.

    Here are some of the posts that stood out to us. If you have similar stories to share, feel free to share them in the comments!

    #1 I Stole 4 Years' Worth Of Toilet Paper At My Expensive College

    When I was 17, I got a scholarship to a very expensive East Coast school, one you might have even heard of. Anyway, since I was so poor, in addition to the scholarship, I had to work 3 part-time jobs while going to school full-time, just to afford a [trashy] basement studio filled with cockroaches.

    I hardly had money for food, much less toilet paper. The fancy school always had tons of toilet paper, and I found through trial and error that if I used my tiny mailbox key to turn the toilet paper roll lock, it would free the roll.

    So every week I would go into stalls and take just ONE of the two toilet paper rolls (I didn't want to ever leave anyone in a lurch in the stall), put it in my backpack, and bring it home. The key even worked on those giant rolls they had, the ones that are like two feet in diameter. If I managed to nab one of those, it lasted me a month! But I'd have to sneak it out in a garbage bag, because it was too big to fit into my backpack.

    I did this for the entire four years of college, and graduated with honors, although my internal honor was blackened by my thieving. I justified it to myself that the school was so overpriced and making so much money that they could afford to support the wiping of my ass for a few years. I still feel a little bad about it, even though it was over 20 years ago.

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    #2 I've Been Feeding A Neighbor's Cat For Two Months Thinking It Was A Stray

    Last week met the owner who has been worried sick about why her cat keeps refusing meals at home.

    She's a fluffy grey cat who showed up at my back garden looking hungry and pitiful and I am not made of stone. I started with a little bit of chicken, then actual cat food, then she got her own bowl, then I named her Pepper.

    Pepper has a home. Pepper has a name that is not Pepper. Pepper has been eating a full second dinner at my place every evening for months now and going home too full to touch her actual food and her owner, a very kind woman, has been quietly anxious about her health for most of that time.

    Margaret and I had a very long conversation over the fence. I apologized extensively. She was gracious about it. Pepper sat between us looking completely unbothered. She has two dinners now officially. We worked it out. I'm not sure Pepper deserves her.

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    #3 I Whisper "Good Job" To My Toaster Every Morning

    Every single time my toast pops up perfectly golden (which is like 70% of the time), I quietly say "good job, buddy" to the toaster like it's a loyal employee who nailed the quarterly report.

    If it burns even a little, I just sigh and say "we'll get 'em next time" in a disappointed-dad voice.

    I've been doing this alone in my kitchen for two years. No one knows. Except now you do.

    Am I the only one giving kitchen appliances emotional support?

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    While these confessions are nothing serious, telling someone about them can feel like a relief. Dr. Beth Ribarsky, who specializes in interpersonal communication, says all forms of self-disclosure, even in an anonymous forum, can be a cathartic experience. 

    #4 Love When My Husband Is Sick

    I know that sounds bad, but hear me out!

    He works all the time, Work this, work that, our son this, our son that, Cooking here, Cooking there, I’m so grateful for everything he does, and I help out (I SWEAR.) I’ll take our son and we’ll hang out, or drop him off at his grandmas (husbands side.) I’ll grill on occasion to take over dinner, I can’t help with his work part though.

    The only time he gets a break is when he’s sick, and I make sure he’s treated like a king in our bed, I feel like I’m immune to whatever he gets, I made sure the bed is comfortable, I’ll ran him baths and carry him myself to the tub, I re-wet his rag every 15-20 minutes, Make sure he’s in comfortable clothes.

    He hates being sick, especially if pain is involved, and I hate that for him, but I love seeing him get rest, I make the food he wants, I make sure our son waves from the doorway, and his computer is close if he needs to meet a deadline.

    I especially love bringing him food, He loves soup when sick, He’ll take a bite and shake his booty like a dog wagging it’s tail, and rest while I feed him, I hate how he feels when he’s sick, but I love seeing him rest when he can.

    He gets really bossy when sick, but he’s so loving when I ‘complete my task’ (his words.) I’ll bring soup, and feed him, and he’ll talk in a sweet voice about how he loves me, and he’s so thankful, or I’ll help get him to the tub, and he’ll talk about how grateful he is that he gave me a chance, or how handsome I look when I’m sitting by the tub and waiting.

    I’m definitely a dog for my husband, but I wouldn’t change it for a thing.

    Edit: to clear things up: I’m a man too! I’m built and taller than my husband, while he’s slender and lean, He’s easy to pick up and carry around! I’m a tree, and he’s my squirrel. 😆

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    #5 I Kiss My Cat While Doing Push-UPS

    My cat loves messing with me when I’m doing exercises. Particularly when I have to be on the ground. When I get to the push-ups, she just kinda… walks under me or flops under my face. How can I not give her sweet kisses?

    It’s a great motivator! I get healthy, she gets to play.

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    #6 Every Time I See A Kid Wandering Off With No Parents In Sight, I Yell: "Hey, Free Kid!"

    Loud enough for any parents around to hear. Someone always comes running to fetch them, while giving me a dirty look, and it makes me laugh. It also may have saved a kid from getting lost or kidnapped, you never know.

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    “If you’ve ever tried to hold in a secret, you know the stress it can create mentally, and in turn, physically. The mere act of disclosing can allow for the emotional release,” Dr. Ribarsky told Bored Panda.

    #7 I Tried To Get My Own Number At A Bar

    I (32f) had broken up with one of my first girlfriends about ten years ago. It ended messy and so I gathered a couple friends and went to the most poppin gay bar I could find.

    Fast forward a couple hours and a few drinks later and there I am… edge of the dance floor. I’m on top of a chair, fresh drink in my hand, dancing my heart out.

    I look across the sea of sweaty strangers and spot a girl, a beautiful girl. She looks at me back and I swear we have this indescribable moment. We start to wave and gesture at each other to come over to dance. I have my friends help me off my chair and I start walking towards her. I notice she does the same.

    The butterflies are starting to spread in my stomach as we get closer. The lights are flashing, the smoke machine is working overtime and my eyes are a little fuzzy now and then but I never lose sight of her.

    Finally, we’re nearly face-to-face, seperated only by a row of bar stools on the dance floor’s edge. We each have the same idea at the same time: one of us should crawl over them to the other. It’s obviously the right move.

    Being a gentle-lady, I volunteer and get my knees on the stool and I reach my hand out for support as she reaches hers forward to help pull me over and then…

    My hand makes impact. Not with the soft hands of a beautiful girl but of something hard and cold and flat. I look up and squint to see my own, quite disheveled, reflection staring back at me. I lift my hand to the mirror I forgot surrounds the dance floor and touch my face and watch the mirror do the same. I decide I should probably stop drinking for the night.

    I return to my friends, still off in their own world dancing. They ask how it went and if I got her number. I told them no, I already have her number and proceed to tell them the tale of how I hit on myself. A tale they will never let me forget and rightfully so.

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    #8 I Currently Have A Tampon In My Nose

    When I get sick, my body releases a waterfall of clear mucous from my nose that does not stop for three days straight at least. I hate the sensation of my nose drilling immensely. I cannot stand it, and in my younger years I would simply put a washcloth down and lay on the offending nostril and let it drain while I slept. However, I got the idea last night to try shoving a cotton ball up there and see what happens. In less than an hour the cotton ball was entirely saturated and began dripping through the cotton, so I decided I needed something more absorbent. Enter the light tampon. Small enough to fit, large enough to soak up the icky. My mom thinks it's a bit odd but it's finally working, so I don't really care.

    © Photo: Recent-Celebration86

    #9 I'm A Grown Woman And I Share My Life With My Stuffed Animals

    Yes, it might be embarrassing for some, but it's my way of relieving stress.

    I'm 28 years old, have a career, and other commitments, like any adult. However, at the end of each day, before going to bed, I talk to my stuffed animals.

    I have many, scattered across my bed and around the room. Some are old, some new, received as gifts from friends or purchased because they're adorable. All of them have become my audience in the bedroom.

    They help me express myself in the most natural way, telling them everything that happened during the day. They don't understand what I'm saying, but I feel like they're listening. It's as if no one is judging me when I share private matters with them.

    I also do other things in the bedroom, including saying goodbye to my stuffed animals before going to sleep.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with this practice, but it might make me feel embarrassed if someone saw me doing it.

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    The internet can be a toxic space at times, given how easily people spew hate and negativity. But even so, Dr. Ribarsky says online platforms can remain a haven for people to share their secrets without the fear of judgment by their social circles. 

    #10 I Wore A Fake Mustache Shopping

    My son got a mustache from Kindergarten last week and I wore his mustache when he asked me to. Haha it caused quite a stir, people couldn’t stop doing double takes. Some smiled, some tried to have no reaction, some complimented me. It was fun! 10/10 Would do it again. This one guy said “You get used to it tickling your nose.” Loved it. It was a real win for my fear of judgement.

    Edit: I should qualify, I’m a woman.

    #11 My Mother-In-Law Farted During A Fancy Dinner And I Can't Stop Laughing

    My husband and I took the in-laws out for a nice dinner on Mother's Day. My mother-in-law is a very proper lady and is always insisting on good manners, so this was extra humorous. During dessert, I heard this low rumbling, and looked around, and it was coming from her. Suddenly, she let out the loudest and loooongest fart I have ever heard, it just kept on going, and going, and even the servers in the restaurant looked around for the sound, and then after a while it finally stopped, and there was complete silence around us. She turned red, and said, "Well, excuse me!" And my father-in-law burst out laughing, while I covered my laugh with a napkin and pretended it didn't happen. I felt bad for her so I made sure no one saw me laugh.

    But as soon as we got home, my husband and I laughed and laughed about it. That is all.

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    #12 I Say “Thank You Green Light” Every Time It Stays Green Until I’m Through It

    There is one particular light on my way home that i swear when it sees me coming from way down the street it stays green until I’m through it!

    I know that isn’t possible, but I thank it just the same.

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    “Even though online readers might provide unwanted feedback, it still is a distanced response – that lack of immediacy can feel safe,” Dr. Ribarssky said. “And, if there are unwanted responses, it is as simple as deleting your confession to stop the comments.”

    #13 Will Grill So I Can Watch My Husband Tan

    As the title says, I don’t care for grilling, It’s the only time I really cook as my husband loves cooking inside, He enjoys baking and making anything pasta related to show off his skills to me, though he’s been really into making pizzas for me.

    But sometimes, I’ll decide I want to grill hamburgers or hotdogs, or anything really, and he’ll decide to relax in the sun, I know this, which is the only reason I like to grill in the first place.

    And he’s got these banana shorts that he wears, Don’t even remember where they came from but he loves wearing them while chilling out in the sun, and wear, oh god, He’s got banana glasses that match his shorts, I can’t stand them but he loves them, so I love them.

    And while I’m watching him, our son chills in the kiddie pool, He’ll just lay there because he likes the warm water, I love grilling days.

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    #14 The String On The Public Bus Has A Function!?

    My dad told me that the string on a public bus was an emergency brake. I didn't know he was pulling my leg until a couple years ago.

    Im a full grown adult. now

    I lived in a major city in the US with big public transportation, and I asked my dad what the strings were for. He told me there were an emergency brake. If we needed to brake urgently, that's how you tell the bus driver

    It wasnt until my sophomore year of college, that I realized that it was an indicator for passengers wanting to get off at the next exit. I missed my exit three times before I finally saw someone else do it.

    I told my parents about it and they laughed, saying they didn't want me pulling that string as a kid too many times and ruining the bus ride for everyone.

    And now I feel super silly.

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    #15 When Everyone Thought I Was A Boy

    F(29)When I was little, I thought I could cut my own hair.

    Big mistake. I grabbed some scissors while playing and ended up with one side shorter than the other. My mom looked at me for five seconds in complete silence 🤬… then took me straight to the salon so they could cut it even shorter to “fix” the disaster. I cried the entire way there because I thought they were going to leave me completely bald.

    The funniest part is that during that time I started wearing my brother’s clothes because they were more comfortable and already at home. Oversized shirts, loose shorts… the whole look. Some kids in the neighborhood who didn’t really know me thought I was a boy and played super rough with me during soccer games and street games.

    I came home covered in scratches and bruises almost every week. A few tiny scars are still on my knees and elbows today. And because I cried dramatically every single time, some older kids started calling me “the crybaby of America” as a joke. At the time I hated it… now it honestly makes me laugh every time I remember it.

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    As the reader, you may also feel a closeness to the person sharing the secret, even though they are a complete stranger. As Dr. Ribarsky explained, it’s another way for online forums to create that sense of community among anonymous users. 

    “You are apt to see a confession that could be your very own – helping you feel less alone,” she said. 

    #16 I Thought I Won Actual Money

    I have a funny confession. When I was a kid my classmate showed me a fun online trivia game — it’s kid-friendly version of wheel of fortune or something similar— and every time I got a question right, it would show on the corner of the screen how much “cash” I won. At the end of the game it’ll say the total.

    And because I thought I won such and such, my gullible [self] thought the money would come out of the desktop CPU machine LMFAO. You know when you press the button to open the CD Hard drive on those old school CPU, I thought the cash would magically be there *delivered* after the game. So literally I…. opened the CD hard drive if a bill would come out there.

    I was probably 6 or 7 at that time.

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    #17 I Pretended I Fainted

    I have a confession to make.

    I don’t know if anyone wants the full story but if anyone does let me know:

    I went on a first date with an amazing guy, and I slipped walking into the restaurant. Instead of getting back up like a normal sane woman, I instead decided to pretend I fainted and didn’t get back up for like 5 minutes.

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    #18 I Still Run To My Bed Like Something’s Chasing Me

    When i turn off the lights i suddenly feel like i need to get to my bed very fast, so i do a quick run and jump like something invisible is right behind me. like just in case something decided to appear in that exact moment. I know nothing is there but i’m not taking any chances.

    © Photo: Rouby_Hansley41

    #19 Sometimes I Eat A Steak On My Bedroom Floor And Pretend I’m A Werewolf

    who caught a lost hiker. Don't judge me, I already know.

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    #20 I Once Bought Two Cookies

    One for me and one for my boyfriend and I ate both of them.

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    #21 I'm A Grown Woman, In My Thirties, And I Still Say Hello To People Who Say Hello To Me On Television

    Okay, this might be absolutely ridiculous, but I can't help myself.

    Whenever I watch something on television or YouTube and a person on the screen waves at the camera, I automatically react. For example, raising your hand and waving like crazy at the computer or TV screen.

    Yesterday I was watching a cooking video and the chef greeted me by saying: "hi guys!" and wishing everyone a good day, I responded instinctively, waving at the screen and saying “hello!” out loud, while I was all alone in my room, with no one else around me except those virtual pixels.

    The most embarrassing thing about all this is that sometimes I even smile a little and nod, as if saying goodbye.

    I'm a 28-year-old grown woman, with bills to pay, work deadlines, etc., yet I still say goodbye to pixels.

    Is it me or do others do it too?

    #22 I’m A Grown Woman Watching Bluey And I Haven’t Stopped Since Yesterday

    I’m on Season 2 Episode 8. I have no children.

    #23 I Lied About Having Underground Music Taste And Immediately Folded Under Pressure

    Met this guy at a party and he asked what music I’m into. I wanted to sound mysterious and intellectually hot so I said “mostly underground artists.”

    He got excited and asked who I listen to.

    My mind went completely blank.

    I panicked so hard that I looked him in the eyes and said “Ariana Grande.”

    There was a full 4 seconds of silence before I tried to recover by saying “you probably haven’t heard her older stuff.”

    I have not slept peacefully since.

    Learn from me how to embarrass yourself...

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    #24 Hate My Husband's Lamp

    I (38) and my husband (37) have been together since our early twenties.

    We moved in after about two years of our relationship and he’s had the same lamp since forever.

    He had a paranormal experience when he was younger, and he hasn’t been able to sleep in a dark room since, He HAS to have a light and I was fine with that.

    But this lamp is blinding, There’s not enough descriptive words I can give you for how awful this lamp is.

    I HATE this lamp, I have always hated this lamp, and half way through our relationship I realized, If we’re watching tv, He doesn’t turn the lamp on, If he dozes off with the tv on I’m safe from the evil lamp.

    So, I’ve started making sure to start a movie or show whenever he’s about to sleep, and he doesn’t bother with the lamp.

    Is this an easy fix? Yes, I could discuss how much I hate this lamp, but he’ll say,”It’s so pretty, and perfect for my desk.” So I have no heart taking this blindly lamp away, I can always put a pillow over my head. Lol.

    I have other confessions, but this was the funniest one to me, A horrible, awful, blinding lamp I can’t stand.

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    #25 I Like To Flex My Laundry Folding Skills

    I (F24) live in a shared student housing facility, and the entire building uses the same laundry room. Most people just take their laundry and fold/put it away in their rooms, but I like to fold it immediatly after taking it out of the machine. At first it was to avoid wrinkly bed sheets, but now it's turned into showing off my folding :) Everytime i fold my towels, bed sheets and especially my fitted sheets, I hope people notice how good I am at it. It makes no sense at all, and there's probably nobody that notices, but it feels like such a flex to put my perfectly folded laundry into my bag and bring it back into the elevator with me :)

    © Photo: Lost-Somewhere9136

    #26 Up Until Today My Avatar Was A Dude With A Moustache And I Had No Idea

    I’m blind, so I use a screen reader to navigate apps and things. I pressed the random avatar button when I first made the account, so I had no idea what it was. I’ve been wondering for years why everyone keeps assuming I’m a man. It took some troll pointing it out in the middle of insulting me for me to work it out.

    #27 I Have Been Pretending To Enjoy Wine For Nine Years At Dinner Parties And Work Events And I'm In Too Deep To Admit It Now

    It started at my first proper work dinner at 24. Everyone was swirling and sniffing and saying things like "a bit oaky" and I panicked and joined in. I said something about tannins. I don't know what tannins are.

    Now I'm 33 and I've been to hundreds of events where I hold a glass and nod and say things like "this is lovely, is it French?" and people seem satisfied. My partner knows. My partner is the only person alive who knows and I don't know how to stop lmao.

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    #28 I Play Music Through Other People's Unsecured Speakers

    Or computer or whatever Bluetooth device they have. I like to play something unhinged that will definitely get them looked at funny.

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    #29 Thought I Was White For Years

    So when I was younger I had a weird race thing like my dad grew up with me saying "Black girls hair is beautiful!" And stuff like that yk be proud of your culture.

    However for some reason i thought everybody else in my family was black but I was white and adopted because my palms were lighter compared to my skin, I was lighter than my very very dark dad, and slightly lighter than my mom so I thought everyone was trying to make me feel welcomed in the family.

    For years I wanted to actually be darker so I would fit in with my family and would be suprised when my skin got slightly darker during the summer. I also had issues drawing myself because I wasn't aware of my skin tone and everything was too light or dark.

    The best way I can describe my skin tone now is sorta like a caramel type skin tone.

    © Photo: Alexizking

    #30 I Stole My Ex's Minecraft Account

    While my ex and I were dating, she offhandedly said she wanted a Minecraft account so we could play together, so I bought her one for her birthday, but I used one of my backup email accounts so it would be a surprise. Two years later, we are no longer together, but one of the first things I did after we broke up was change the password. I feel no regrets over this, but my pettiness alone makes me chuckle.

    © Photo: BasketSmall7777

    #31 I Once Thought Chipmunks Were Baby Squirrels

    Here me out, they have the little stripes on the back like fawns do and fawns lose the stripes when they grow into adult deer. Chipmunks also are smaller and have smaller tails. Squirrels are larger and have much bigger tails.

    I know they are different now though haha, but you can't blame me too much for the confusion, right?

    #32 I Don’t Watch The Reels People Send Me

    Idk I just don’t wanna.

    #33 I Refuse To Let The Microwave Hit Zero

    I will literally dive across the kitchen to stop the microwave at 1 second. I don't know why, but letting it actually beep feels like a catastrophic failure on my part. I treat it like I'm defusing a bomb every single time.

    #34 I Just Now Realized The Pixar Film Ratatouille Is Named That Because The Protagonist Is A Rat...

    All this time I've just thought it was because it was a french dish they made in the movie and I just never thought much about the reason for the title. Good god.

    #35 As A 28 Year Old Lady, I Still Cannot Watch Violent Scenes On TV Because My Reaction Will Be Similar To That Of A Frightened Child

    Ok, this is really, really ridiculous but it's true.

    At age 28, I am physically unable to watch any form of violence in any film/television show. The minute someone gets hit or attacked or fights happen, I have a complete meltdown and automatically flip the channel.

    Just last night, I was watching an ordinary action film with my boyfriend. I flipped the channel at the very first sign of fighting and just left him sitting there with the remote in hand staring at me in shock.

    I have done this with Game of Thrones, Marvel films and even cartoons. Once, I even flipped channels because of a cartoon due to someone being slightly slapped. They don't stop teasing me about that one.

    It's obviously fake. It's clearly just an act. But something in my head goes "NOPE" and my hand acts on its own accord.

    I am a grown adult who runs away from violence that isn't even hurting me.

    #36 I Am Extremely Obnoxious In The Way I Cross The Street

    As a kid, I was always (correctly) told to always check left-right-left before crossing the street. however, it always annoyed me that the same adults that would insist I need to do it wouldn't do it themselves. They'd just waltz right out into the parking lot because they're tall enough that a car will see and stop.

    So for my entire life, I look EXTREMELY BLATANTLY left-right-left. I swivel my head a full 90-180-180 degrees, and when I have long hair like I do now, it whips around. It is impossible to say I did not look left-right-left. No subtlety. No little glance.

    I do this so any kid who might be watching goes, "oh yeah, that's how you do it. adults do it. I'm cool for doing what that dude does."

    I mean, in reality, the kids probably don't even notice. but if they do. they'll know checking both ways isn't for babies only.

    © Photo: Valeriesaboyname

    #37 I Always Wait 10-15 Minutes Before Going Into The Bathroom After Someone Else Uses It

    It always irritates and makes me feel disgusted to use the bathroom after someone else uses it especially at home. So I just wait until after 10-15 minutes to use it for their scent to escape the bathroom regardless of how bad I have to go.

    #38 I Pick Earthworms Off The Sidewalk When It Rains

    Ever since I was a kid, I hated to see the worms come out in the rain and doom themselves by getting stranded on the sidewalk. Even as a grown woman, I will stop and gently move them back into the grass with a leaf, twig, or even my bare hands. I am sure the birds sometimes find them, but at least they are nourishing another creature that way instead of wasting away on the pavement!

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    #39 When I Was A Kid I Thought Ducks Were Just Baby Geese

    Not ducklings. Actual ducks. I thought every duck would eventually “grow up” into a goose like some kind of pokemon evolution.

    I fully believed this until I was like 12 and confidently said it during biology class. The teacher just stared at me for a second and went “...what?”

    I still think about the silence in that room sometimes.

    © Photo: Dontae-Vixamar99

    #40 I Lied To My Wife

    She wants me to rotate my underwear when I put it away so I don’t always wear the same pairs. I tell her I rotate it, but I really don’t.

    #41 I Like To Watch Cat Grooming Videos And Imagine That I Am The Cat

    I bet getting brushed as a cat feels so good. I think that the upkeep of the hair on my own head is a bit much, I cannot imagine having hair EVERYWHERE. Imagining that my biggest problem is a hairdryer or bathtub is also a guilty pleasure. Not even in a cynical way, either. I would love to be a cat who experiences deep sorrow (by cat standards) due to such experiences. And to be expected to yowl and scratch at people about such things. And to have a stupid hat put on me to stop me from freaking all the way out, and for this hat to actually be effective. In that I only freak 2/3 of the way out. I bet getting the claws clipped is also relieving. I know I can't stand having my nails be long.

    I am not picky about the type of cat I project myself into. Of course I will dabble in "best cat I have ever groomed." Naturally. But the meanest cat is not off of the table, either. I, too, would wish to scratch the hell out of whoever's fault it is that I'm soggy and looking pathetic. Without getting slapped back.

    I want to know what having your ears scratched is like as a cat. I wonder if their feet are ticklish, which is why they don't let you touch them. I would also like to know what it is like to have a tail.

    I'm also curious about the experiences of bald cats. I can't help but feel that it would feel very distinct from our (mostly) hairless human skin-having experience.

    #42 I Thought Turkish Delight Was Some Sort Of Meat For An Embarrassingly Long Time

    I only had the one vague memory of seeing it in Narnia and it wasn't until I finally got to see it in person as a young adult that I understood what exactly it was.

    #43 "Bless You!"

    I'm the one who yells, "BLESS YOU!" from the opposite end of Walmart because I heard someone sneeze... instinctually.

    #44 I Have Been Pretending To Recognize A Song Within The First Two Seconds Of It Playing For My Entire Adult Life So People Don't Think I'm Uncultured

    Someone plays something and everybody around them does this immediate recognition face and says oh this song and i just. join in. i make the face. i say oh this song. i have no idea what it is. i look it up later when no one's watching.

    This has been going on since i was about 23, conveniently when I started working. it's just reflexive now. the face appears before my brain has even processed anything. i'm performing music recognition constantly and retaining none of it and the social cost of just saying i don't know this one apparently feels too high to find out what it actually is. Its so stupid yet sometimes i wish that they wont ask something after playing the song lol.

    #45 I Had To Call A Client Named Jose...

    That was the name on the paper. I was pretty young and.. pretty dumb. I called. A man answered. I said, "Hi. Can I speak to Joe See." Needless to say, I did not make the sale.

    #46 I Trick People With My British Accent At New Jobs...

    On two occasions I have worked at a place like Mariano's for like a few months in summers.

    Im black and from Chicago, but I do a very convincing British accent. So when I go for the first interview I use it heavy and say I live elsewhere before moving here.

    They eat it up every time, so from the first interview down to the last day I use it until I clock out for the last time. People are usually super confused and find the joke just as funny as I do.

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    #47 I Loved Seaweed

    When I was a little kid, kindergarten age or younger, I picked up the idea that kids don't like spinach. So the next time my parents served spinach I insisted I hated it and refused to eat it. My parents responded "oh, this isn't spinach, this is seaweed like Ariel eats in the little mermaid." I had no problem with that and continued to eat and enjoy it for the rest of my childhood.

    In high school I was so excited to get my license and I would volunteer to go do the grocery shopping for the chance to drive. And so this led to me asking my mom where the seaweed is at the A&P, because I never see it when I was there.

    #48 Random-Silly-Confessions

    As a kid, most types of cake I had ever heard of were named after their flavors. Carrot cake. Chocolate cake. Etc.

    So, as I grew up, I assumed that coffee cake was the same-a flavor, a…description.

    When I was 21, I was at my parents’ house, and my mom finally asked me why I hated coffee cake.

    ”Well, I’ve never liked coffee! Why would I like cake that tastes like it?”

    Laughter ensued as she explained what coffee cake actually is.

    EDIT/FYI: It’s a cultural/regional thing, apparently, which I learned after posting this. I’m in the US. Here, “coffee cake” is…a breakfast or brunch item, traditionally eaten with coffee. It even has its own Wikipedia page…

    #49 Cowbell Hit My Forehead And That’s Why I Like Mustaches

    Back in 4th grade I was at a rodeo playing on my iPod touch. The bull’s bell fell off and somehow it got kicked up and launched into my forehead leaving a huge gash. Everyone was freaking out, and after EMS bandaged me as best as they could, I was on the opposite side of the emergency bay exit. 6 cowboys picked me up/walked with us over there. They were staring down at me asking if I was okay, and the only thing I could think of was how attractive they were and their mustaches. I only date men with mustaches and I think that scenario is the reason why. All the cowboys signed a shirt and gave it to me LOL!

    #50 Silly Song Mis-Hearing

    I thought the sad country ballad of Kenny Rogers song Lucille was

    "With four hundred children and crops in the field"

    Now that sadness would be legendary.

    #51 Apricots Are A Thing

    Until I was in my late 40s, I never knew that apricots were a standalone fruit. I'd only ever heard of them as dried fruits so I assumed that apricot was the name of a dried fruit, like a peach. My thinking that was raisins are the name of dried grapes and prunes are dried plums, apricots are the dried version of something. Was totally stunned to find that apricots are a thing.

    #52 I Tried To Eat My Earbuds (Just Stupid)

    For some context:

    I was eating m&Ms earlier tonight, as I used some to decorate my gingerbread man. I really dislike the fireworks and the noise during Christmas, too. My wired headphones died and don't work not so long ago.

    Anyway, so earlier tonight, as I went to bed I put on my earbuds like normal. When I wake up,One way or another, I could find the left one but the right one was nowhere to be found. And then, it clicked ...

    I dreamt I was eating some m&ms, and there was this really hard one, that had a smaller m&m glued to it (the part that goes in the ear). I tried really hard to chew through it but just gave up and left it on the floor wanting to throw it away later. I didn't want my dream to be based on the truth, but ...

    I checked where I left it on my dream, and there it was. And I'm like, god damn it. I use my phone's light and it has chew marks and it's case is open. I quickly put the case together and now I'm laying here questioning my life.

    I've never had any sleepwalking problems or anything. It's the first time I dream of something that IS happening. This is so damn stupid and could've ended horribly if I tried a little bit harder with the m&m in my dream.

    TLDR: I thought I was eating m&Ms in a dream but accidentally chewed on my earbuds and ruined them for life.

    #53 NY Pigeons

    For the first 13 years of my life, I thought pigeons only lived in New York.

    #54 I'm Jealous Of My Brother Cuz My Cat Keeps Giving Him Attention

    I BUY THAT UNGRATEFUL JERK FOOD, SNACKS, TREAT, I GIVE HIM PETS BUT NOOOOO HE WANTS MY BROTHER WHO FEEDS HIM FOOD WHENEVER MY CAT TRIES TO BOTHER HIM and when I see that little jerk sleep on my brother's chest i get so mad bro. I can't, is this how parents feel when children favor someone else??!?

    #55 Pretty Girls Still Make Me Nervous

    Earlier today I was at the grocery store when I saw two women shopping together whom I found very attractive. I’ve been recently watching a lot of hopeposting content and decided I wanted to tell these girls I thought they were pretty and wish them a good day. Just passing along some kindness.

    I figured this would be easy — I’m a relatively confident person, and in my friend group I’m known to be the most flirtatious and bold when we go out to clubs & bars. But when I saw the girls again and steeled my nerves to go up and tell them what I planned, there was way more stuttering and tripping over my words than I had anticipated.

    Eventually I got my words out, they said thank you, and I promptly walked away to continue my shopping. As soon as I turned the corner and was out of their sight I noticed that my legs were shaking incredibly hard. Even after a few minutes combing the rest of the aisles for the rest of my shopping list, my legs feel like jelly and my heart was pounding. But I also couldn’t stop myself from smiling like a little kid. Somehow just a simple act of complimenting strangers had me giddy all the way through my drive home.

    I hope I didn’t make those girls uncomfortable with my comment, and that they actually did have a good rest of their day. I know it at least made my day a little better somehow.

    #56 I Like Collecting Lost Items

    I dont know if this is weird, but I like collecting people's lost things. Whenever I walk in the streets and see an item that was clearly lost on the ground I pick it up and keep it. I dont usually collect anything that has a large value, just small maybe personal items like keychains, small toys, lipsticks, cheap rings etc.. I dont use them ever but I keep and collect them, I usually wonder about who lost it and I dont try to return them unless the person just dropped it or it has big value. It never came to my mind that it was maybe strange until I did it in front of friend and they looked at me weird when I explained this(the item was a keychain in the shape of a pink lizard). I just wanted to share this thought, is it really that weird? Does anyone else do it?

    #57 Used To Think Neutering Meant Chopping Everything

    When people told me they neutered their pets, I automatically thought,”Wow, Harsh.” Because I thought it meant EVERYTHING went, All of it.

    I don’t know why I didn’t even think,”Well, That doesn’t make sense.” And sometimes I’d see a dog, I knew was neutered, and think,”How does it urinate?”

    #58 I Used To Think Patrick Swayze And Patrick Stewart Were The Same Person

    I had no idea that Patrick Swayze passed away young and haven't really seen any of his movies, so in my head I just thought that Patrick Stewart was Patrick swayze but older. For Halloween this year, my wife and I went to go see Green Room, an excellent horror movie starring Patrick Stewart, in theaters and I said Patrick Swayze is great in this. My wife asked if I meant Patrick Stewart and my world broke.

    #59 "Why Do Y'all Fart So Much?"

    Back in my teens, my boyfriend at the time and most of the rest of my friend group at the time did NOT get along. In retrospect I actually can't entirely blame them because he was not the easiest guy to get along with back then.

    But of course, in my love-drunk 17 year old mind, he could do no wrong and all these people just didn't understand him like I did! So one day, a bunch of them were tag-teaming on talking crap about him in the group chat. Love-drunk 17 year old self sees this and immediately perceives it as gross slander against my beloved.

    So what did I do about it? Well, I had what I thought was the brilliant idea to "create a diversion". And the diversion in question? To post "Why do y'all fart so much?" out of nowhere in the group chat!

    It worked! For all of maybe 2 minutes. People were confused, offended, and just plain unsure how to respond to that. Then one girl clapped back with "Maybe you should worry less about our farting habits and more about your problematic boyfriend!"

    And the trash talk resumed. I told myself that I had made a valiant attempt, at least!

    #60 When People Talked About Mohair Clothing, I Thought They Said Mole Hair

    Which made sense to me since moles are very soft, if you're ever touched one.

    #61 Old People Name

    When I was a child I used to believe that when you reach a certain age you had to pick your “old people name” to go by.

    #62 Cottage Cheese

    When I get the craving for it, I’ll eat an entire 16oz container of cottage cheese.

    #63 I Love Jumpscaring My Husband

    My husband is a speed racer, He walks fast anywhere, even just downstairs to get a snack, He wants to get there and get back quick!

    So it’s easy for me to know where he’s at, and sometimes I won’t even have to do anything but stand around the corner, He’ll come around quickly and gasp, before he huffs and says,”Stop it!” Before I chase him around.

    I love doing it, It’s like no matter how much I’ve exposed him to my ‘jumpscaring’, He doesn’t ever expect it, He’ll walk around the corner of a doorway, and boom! I’m there.

    I think he enjoys the thrill too because of me chasing him afterwards, but he gets embarrassed by being scared since I always do it. Lol.

    #64 Everytime I Drink Something, I Always Make The “Gulp” Sound And I Don’t Know How Stop

    I remember being little and watching Full House, there was an episode where Michelle did the gulp sound when drinking water, I tried it once and from there never stopped. I’m so embarassed to drink things in front of people.

    #65 I Microwave My Coffee Three Times Every Morning Because I Keep Forgetting To Drink It

    Every single morning i pour a fresh cup of coffee. then i get distracted by emails or my phone or just staring into space. it gets cold. i microwave it for 30 seconds. sit down. get distracted again. microwave it again. by the time i actually finish my coffee it's been reheated at least three times. sometimes four. i know i could just drink it faster. i know this is a ridiculous problem to have. but here i am. living this life. my coworkeer saw me do it once and asked if i was okay. i said yes but i don't think she believed me. anyone else do this or am i alone in my lukewarm shame?

    #66 I Thought Banoffee Was A Place In Canada

    I thought those lovely pies, you know, the ones with Banana and Toffee - I thought they came from Banoffee, Canada. I found out there is no such place, and it's just named after the ingredients.

    #67 Sometimes I Insult My Dog

    Because I think it is funny she doesn't know what I'm really saying, but then start apologizing to her profusely afterward.

  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:00

    It’s easy to think of the law as something very serious and perfectly rational. After all, it’s handled by important institutions and meant to keep society running in order. But as it turns out, it’s not always as sensible as it seems.

    We’ve gathered some truly unusual laws from around the world, and let’s just say they’re not what you’d expect. We had a hard time wrapping our heads around quite a few of them. Scroll down to check out the list and upvote the ones that surprised you the most!

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  • Sunday 31 May 2026 - 00:00

    Cats are known for being elegant, graceful creatures. They can sit in a cardboard box like it’s a velvet throne. They strut across the room like the floor is their personal runway. They lounge in sunbeams with their eyes half-closed and their toe beans out, like tiny royals who’ve never known a hard day in their lives.

    But don’t be fooled. Even the most majestic cats have their less flattering moments. So when one Redditor asked people to share the worst pictures they have of their cats, owners delivered plenty of hilarious gems. Scroll down to see them.

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    In truth, these cats were probably set up by their own owners. After all, even we look a little rough when someone catches us off guard with a camera. Cats are no different.

    But a bad photo doesn’t change the fact that they’re wonderful, perfect creatures. Any cat owner will back that up without hesitation.

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    Most of the time, cats have something magnetic about them. There’s an effortlessness to the way they move and carry themselves that’s hard to look away from. 

    You could watch a cat stretch on a windowsill for five minutes and not get bored. So what is it about them that makes us feel that way?

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    A lot of it has to do with how their bodies are built. Dr. Lizzie Youens, a veterinary surgeon and writer, explains that cats evolved to be solitary hunters, which meant they had to be agile and flexible enough to do everything on their own.

    From stalking prey to squeezing through tight spaces to grooming themselves in seemingly impossible positions, their entire body was designed for smooth, graceful movement.

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    It starts with the spine. Cats have 53 vertebrae, which is significantly more than the 33 we humans have. A big chunk of those extra bones sit in their long tails. Each vertebra is connected with elastic cushioning discs, which gives cats an almost unreal range of motion.

    They can rotate their head and trunk nearly 180 degrees, meaning a cat can have its body facing one direction while its head points the other way. That kind of flexibility helps with hunting, but it also explains why they can twist mid-air without hurting themselves.

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    That same spinal elasticity is also what makes them surprisingly fast. When a cat sprints, it alternately stretches and flexes its body along the spine, which lengthens each stride dramatically.

    At full speed, a single stride can cover up to three times their body length, pushing them to around 30 miles per hour. They can only keep that up in short bursts, though. Unlike dogs, cats aren’t built for running long distances.

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    Then there’s their sense of balance, which is something else entirely. Cats have a highly developed inner ear system that gives them what’s called a righting reflex. That’s the reason they almost always land on their feet.

    Their long tails help with this too, acting as a counterbalance while they climb and jump. It all works together to make them look effortless even when they’re doing something physically impressive.

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    And according to Anjali Goswami, an evolutionary biologist at the Natural History Museum in London, cats aren’t just graceful. They’re evolutionarily perfect. She explains that unlike some other animals, for example dogs, which come in wildly different shapes and sizes, all cats share the same body structure.

    “It doesn’t matter whether they’re tiny Bengal cats or gigantic lions or tigers; they’re gonna basically look the same,” she says. “If you handed me a lion or tiger skull, I could not, as a person who’s a pretty solid expert in carnivorans in general, tell you which one it was.”

    To her, that consistency is the proof. Cats figured out one thing so well that they never needed to change.

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    So yes, the photos in this list are hilarious. And yes, these cats look absolutely ridiculous in every single one. But let’s be real. These little weirdos are still some of the most perfectly designed creatures on the planet.

    They just happened to get caught at a bad angle. We’ve all been there.

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  • Friday 29 May 2026 - 11:52

    While religion is very prevalent in our society, not everyone is a fan of it. For some, it's just simply not a thing they're interested in, or something that doesn't fit into their lives. For others, it's something that was once their life that they had to turn away from, since it wasn't a pleasant experience, to say the least.

    Today, we've collected a list of rather diabolical things that people who grew up in church heard being said to them. And let's just say, many of these are pretty traumatizing, so it's no wonder why some folks decide to leave religion behind after experiences like this.

    More info: Threads

    Click here & follow us for more lists, facts, and stories.

    #1

    I’m still traumatized.
    My youth pastor drank a live goldfish in a game of truth or dare, and when I began CRYING because I was a teen girl who had just seen a live animal go to its death, a church lady pull me aside and lectured me that I was ruining everyone’s fun evening.
    That was the first moment I looked around and realized that church might not be for me.
    IRONIC that Christians love to tell stories of Satanists sacrificing animals though.

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    #2

    That my gay brother wouldn’t be welcomed into the gates of Heaven. I never returned to that church ever again.

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    #3

    A friend got pregnant immediately after high school graduation and had a beautiful baby boy. As a toddler the baby tragically died of a bowel infection. During the funeral, the pastor stood over his tiny white coffin and said the baby paid for the sins of the parents…

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    No matter where you live, there’s no chance you haven’t encountered religion in some form in your life. It’s so prevalent in our society that there’s no avoiding it. We’re not saying that you have to have been religious yourself, only that you’ve either had contact with a religious person, been affected by customs set by religion, or anything of that kind. 

    According to Encyclopedia Britannica, Christianity is the most widely practiced religion in the world, with more than two billion followers. While this religion isn’t passed down to a person like, let’s say, Judaism, usually it is instilled in a person by their family believing in it and being raised on this religion’s values. 

    #4

    Believing my pets had souls was demonic.

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    #5

    One “religious” thing I was told is that the reason a couple died in a hot air balloon accident leaving their five kids parentless is bc they were wearing shorts and weren’t dressed in a Godly way.

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    #6

    That if a man cheats on or divorces his wife, it is always the woman’s fault.

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    Well, it doesn’t have to be only within the family. Some parents choose to send their children to things like Sunday school (also known as Sabbath school). If you don’t know what it is, it’s classes before Sunday church service that are used to provide catechesis to Christians, usually of a younger age, but it can be for adults too. 

    And while for some the experience of being raised Christian is good enough that they continue practicing the religion well into their adult lives, for others, it’s not so great. The causes for this can be various, from mild to criminal ones. 

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    if i didn’t have a sin to confess they would give me one

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    #8

    At 12 years old (Mormon) we were asked to make a list of the qualities we want in a husband. Then they turned it around on us and said now we as young women need to be perfect so we are worthy of these qualities in our imaginary husbands.

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    #9

    “I know the doctors will tell you you need 6 weeks to heal, but your husband can’t wait that long. Make sure he’s taken care of and doesn’t resent the baby once she comes.”
    I was 38 weeks pregnant.

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    We’re not going to delve into all of that today, as just a shallow discussion wouldn’t do it justice. Instead, we’re just going to talk about the things people who grew up in churches heard being said to them, something that makes up today’s list. And since we’ve already mentioned the unpleasant experiences, you’ve probably guessed that these things that people heard aren’t pleasant either. 

    Well, after reading these stories, it becomes clear why so many young people choose to turn away from church. Let’s be honest, some (if not all) of the experiences presented in today’s list are borderline traumatizing, and so it’s completely understandable when a person wants to leave something like that behind them. 

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    Marriage advice from youth group: “women- don’t wear sweatshirts and lots of clothes to bed if you’re cold. Let your husband warm you up.”

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    #11

    As a teenager I opened up about my anxiety disorder and was asking for help from (at the time) people I trusted and had grown up with. I was told that I had it because I didn’t believe in God enough.I don’t think I ever went back there after that.

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    #12

    Being self conscious and insecure about my appearance was actually pride because I thought I knew better than god about how I was made and I needed to constantly ask forgiveness

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    Granted, that isn’t the only reason why people are choosing not to practice Christianity. There are plenty of others too. For instance, they simply might not be connecting with what the church teaches, or it might be just too detached from their lifestyle, interests, and issues. Lack of relevance can quickly work as a reason to not get overly involved. 

    A busy lifestyle can play a part in detachment from religion too. Daily life usually includes plenty of commitments to education, career, personal interests, and social life. So, if religion isn’t among those personal interests, there’s little to no time for it. Basically, if they don’t make it a priority, it gets left out pretty easily. 

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    Not growing up, but…..in premarital counseling, the pastor told us that my husband wouldn’t never be a good father bc his parents were divorced and his dad wasn’t the best or around much after that. (Mind you, his dad had frontal lobe damage that makes him difficult and/or unsafe to be around.) My husband is an amazing dad.

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    #14

    I was told I’d go to h**l at the ripe age of eight because I was sad my mother had died. And I wasn’t happy because “God always has a reason and it’s his will”. My mom died when I was four and in front of the whole church the pastor had told me I’d go to h**l- Because I was crying as he had targeted me in the church crowd knowing about my mother. As the church was in a tight community…

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    #15

    That I would go to h**l if I died prematurely. (Whatever that means 🤷🏼‍♀️)

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    These are just a few of the many reasons why people choose not to practice religion. Each of them is just as acceptable, whether it’s a busy lifestyle or trauma. After all, there’s always a broader context to a person’s life that influences their decisions. And that’s completely OK, as long as these decisions don’t hurt others, unlike the spoken words presented in today’s list.

    #16

    So I didn’t really grow up in church, but as an adult a friend took me to her church (a now infamous church)
    Where I sat through a sermon about how women need to be subservient to men and our hands are smaller so they fit in men’s hands.

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    #17

    The last time I went to church, my senior year of hs, the pastor basically told our youth group it was [promiscuous] to go look for a boyfriend. Just sit tight, god would deliver a man to us and we’d just know that’s who we’re supposed to marry.

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    #18

    That pre-marital [intimacy] was a sin second in line to [taking a life].
    Drinking alcohol was next. Or breaking the Word of Wisdom in general. I had a full on panic attack the first time I drank green tea.

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    #19

    I remember crying at a Christian camp because they dared us to eat a worm and I was horrified. And everyone probably thought I was pathetic. But what are we even doing!

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    #20

    Not really the churches fault but my grandmother’s. I went to church every other Sunday (parents are divorced and separate weekends, this grandma is on my dad’s side so I don’t see her anymore) we got ready for church and I was around 7. She backhanded me in the stomach and said [be bad] it in. Also continuously made comments about my body. Stopped liking church because I associated church clothing with being overweight.

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    #21

    I went to a church camp where some kids tortured a small shark in a puddle

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    #22

    That my mom was damned to eternal h**l because she married my dad, who was divorced.

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    #23

    that everything in revelation was literal. the ocean and moon WOULD turn to blood, everyone who believed in jesus WOULD disappear suddenly one day, and if i had “fallen short without repentance even once” i wouldn’t make the cut and i’d be here alone (presuming my family was raptured) to suffer trial and tribulations with the rest of the sinners.

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    #24

    That my anxiety would go away if I just stopped thinking about myself so much.

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    #25

    A Bible story I heard at church camp made me believe my mom lost my little brother at 20 weeks because she was being punished for having a child out of wedlock

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    #26

    That god would sacrifice literal beauty if you were too arrogant about said beauty.

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  • Friday 29 May 2026 - 11:49

    Your first day at work is usually the most stressful one. You work hard to show your best side, you try to make friends during lunch, you do everything to leave a good impression.

    And usually, we are so preoccupied with our own performance when starting a new job, we may actually not realize that the workplace is not doing a good job either. In fact, people in these threads (this and this) say that the first impression, not just of you, but of any workplace you enter, is the most important one.

    So you have to stay alert and make sure you don’t spot any of these screaming red flags, either during the interview or during your first day at work, that show you that you gotta run, not walk out of there.

    Click here & follow us for more lists, facts, and stories.

    #1

    Constantly having people leave. Constantly hiring people. No real training structure for new hires.

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    To find out more about what red flags you should watch out for when entering a new workplace, Bored Panda reached out to Gleb Tsipursky, the CEO of the boutique future-of-work consultancy Disaster Avoidance Experts. Gleb has been consulting Fortune 500 companies for 20 years and is the author of 7 books, including the global best-seller “Never Go With Your Gut: How Pioneering Leaders Make the Best Decisions and Avoid Business Disasters.”

    “Some potential signs of trouble to look out for when joining a new company,” Gleb explained, “include a lack of transparency from leadership, high turnover rates, and a lack of clear communication and expectations.”

    #2

    If you have to pay any amount of money in order to work for them it is a scam and stay away.

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    #3

    "We work hard and play hard" translation: You'll have no work-life balance but we also all drink too much.

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    #4

    They’re not prepared for you on your first day.

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    “Another red flag,” Gleb continued, “to be aware of is a toxic or negative work culture, which can manifest through gossip, backstabbing, and a lack of support among colleagues. Additionally, it's also important to be aware of any cognitive biases that may be present, such as the sunk cost fallacy, which may lead you to overlook red flags in the hopes of making the best of a bad situation.”

    #5

    I always ask in interviews what the turnover rate is, or why the person I am replacing left the position. Definitely avoided some sketchy scenarios with those questions.

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    #6

    Treating you like a child- ie. monitoring the time you arrive/leave, timing your breaks/bathroom visits, dress codes that don't make sense for your role, and any other rules that make more sense for a kid than an adult. If you're an experienced professional in an office setting, you should be basically left to take care of yourself as long as your work is getting done. Obviously, these rules make more sense for jobs where you need to schedule breaks around other people, or service jobs, or jobs with lots of people with little experience - but still, I hear stories of places that give people warnings for being a minute late.

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    #7

    If you constantly get “this is how we’ve always done it” responses to your suggestions.

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    If you identify one of these red flags, Gleb argues that it's important to weigh the pros and cons before making a decision.

    “On one hand, it may be wise to walk away if the red flags are severe and it seems unlikely that they will be addressed or resolved. On the other hand, it may be worth giving the company a second chance if the red flags are relatively minor and there are good reasons to believe that they can be addressed or improved,” the CEO of Disaster Avoidance Experts explained.

    #8

    People have either been there for decades or a few weeks. No people in between.

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    #9

    You realize that all of the other people working there are related to the person who hired you or the person who is running the place. Run while you still can.

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    #10

    If everyone is trash talking everyone else, you don’t want to work there.

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    Moreover, “checking with your gut is an initial step to evaluate whether to join a new company, as it can help you to identify potential red flags and to make decisions that are in your best interest.”

    “However, it's also important to be aware of cognitive biases, such as confirmation bias, which may lead you to overreact or overlook red flags or to make decisions that are not in your best interest,” Gleb explained.

    “Therefore, it's important to check with your head and use your head to overrule your gut when your gut and your head disagree,” Gleb concluded.

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    If they ask you to clock out and then keep working to finish closing or whatever, run away fast. It's never just a one-time thing.

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    Employers who bemoan the lack of “good employees who want to work”. If everyone who hires [is bad] then either you are the most unfortunate business owner in the world or you need to look in the mirror.

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    My friend got hired at a place that called itself "the family". Nahhh.

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    If they lure you into an interview for a management position, but tell you during the interview that the position has already been filled. Then they ask if you're interested in interviewing for the entry level position instead.

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    Having a guy saying in the 1st group meeting: this company IS NOT a pyramid scheme.

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    They like to micro manage you but then tell you off for not having enough initiative to do something.... then tell you off for doing it due to micro managing and the cycle continues

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    A boss who spies on his employees. With hidden cameras.

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    My workplace has a sign in the employee bathroom that says, “The best way to appreciate your job is picturing yourself without one.” They also don’t pay benefits until after 2 years and have an incredibly high turnover rate. They’re great..

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    "We don't "technically" have breaks. We just take smoke breaks and stuff here and there." No, f*** you. I don't smoke. You can't deny me a meal break, I don't give a s**t how busy you are.

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    Being hired for a specific job and then having additional duties tacked on after you are hired. The company doesn't follow it's own employee handbook or whatever rules and guidelines they have. Work hours and days change after you are hired. Telling you which holidays you have off, then not giving you those holiday's off. Every employee is talking s**t about every other employee. Poor or non-existent training time. Management with no management training or knowledge.

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    Places with truly great culture don’t have management teams constantly gushing about how great the culture is. If management talks about the culture ten times in the first week you’re there, run. Don’t look back.

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    If they say they are family-friendly. It mean that as a childfree person, i will have to pick up the slack of parents. No thank you.

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    If you work in manufacturing, the company buys cheap and s****y machinery to save money. If they don’t even value their equipment, they definitely won’t value their people.

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    The look of defeat on the faces of their employees. When a place is good to work, their employees seem to be excited to be there. There are smiles, there are jokes, there is enthusiasm. When a company screws over and abuses their employees? The employees get that look of defeat in their eyes. Their job has no enjoyment, it is merely about survival. When I say survival, I don't mean working to make some money to get food to eat, I mean that you are trying to make it to the end of the day, just to go home and repeat the cycle, each day a bit worse than the next. People don't joke and if they do, it seems to be morbid jokes about the workplace. People aren't social. You can feel the lack of joy. The company has managed to defeat their workforce.

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    They have literally everything in the building. I interviewed at a place where they had the cafeteria and a nurse station (not healthcare related) in the building. I was pretty desperate for a job so I overlooked this, but was glad they didn't call me back. They didn't allow missed days, and I was told by one of the ladies who let me listen in on her phones that she had missed a day of work so she didn't get any sort of raise that year. If you're sick, they expect you to be in there and doing the job. Worst case scenario you need to visit THEIR nurse.

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 12:12

    Can you tell Plato from Freud? And Darwin from Descartes? The Enlightenment from the Renaissance? This general knowledge trivia quiz is all about big ideas across history, philosophy, science, and culture.

    From the “invisible hand” to the fall of the Berlin Wall, from natural selection to Stoicism, this quiz is designed for people who believe that ideas, more than anything else, shape the world. 🤔

    So whether you’re a great thinker or a curious mind, the real question is: How many can you get right?

    Let’s find out! 👀

    🚀 💡 Want more or looking for something else? Head over to the Bored Panda Quizzes and explore our full collection of quizzes and trivia designed to test your knowledge, reveal hidden insights, and spark your curiosity.💡 🚀

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 11:54

    You are not you when you are hungry. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Never make a big decision on an empty stomach. We have been absolutely marinated in the idea that food equals brainpower and that skipping a meal is basically volunteering to become temporarily stupid.

    It is in our adverts, our parenting, our office culture — someone always has a snack in their bag for emergencies, and that someone is always very smug about it. But what if the whole thing was just not true? A massive new study just looked at 63 pieces of research and had some very interesting thoughts.

    The idea of skipping meals is a nightmare to some, while others preach its benefits, but no one knows who is really right

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    A massive new scientific study might have cracked the code, though, telling us whether or not our brains can benefit from fasting at all

    Fasting has been one of the more contested topics in nutrition science for years now. On one side, you have the intermittent fasting crowd: people swearing by 16:8 windows, five-two protocols, and the general principle that giving your body a break from food does more good than harm.

    On the other hand, you have the three-meals-a-day camp, backed by decades of conventional nutritional wisdom and nearly every cereal brand that has ever existed. The specific question of what fasting does to your brain has been particularly thorny, with studies pulling in different directions and no real consensus ever landing cleanly. Until now.

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    A massive sample size of people was tested on their cognitive ability after an average of 12 hours of fasting, and no big changes were observed in their brain function

    The review, published in Psychological Bulletin, was conducted by psychologist Christoph Bamberg from Paris Lodron University in Austria and cognitive neuroscientist David Moreau from the University of Auckland in New Zealand. They analysed 63 scientific articles representing 71 independent studies and covering a total of 3,484 participants, which is a significant enough sample size to take seriously.

    The cognitive skills being measured included memory recall, decision-making, and response speed and accuracy. The median fasting duration across the studies was 12 hours. And across all of those measures, taken as a whole, short-term fasting did not significantly change performance. “For most healthy adults, the findings offer reassurance,” Moreau said.

    “You can explore intermittent fasting or other fasting protocols without worrying that your mental sharpness will vanish.” But there was one outlier to their overall results.  The anxiety-inducing state of ‘hangry’ might finally have an explanation.

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    The one place where brains did seem to feel the effects of fasting was in tasks that were specifically food-related. Things like looking at pictures of food or processing food-related words changed the outcomes. “Performance deficits were often evident only in tasks involving food-related stimuli,” Moreau noted.

    “In contrast, performance on tasks using neutral content was largely unaffected.” His explanation? “Hunger might selectively divert cognitive resources or cause distraction only in food-relevant contexts, but general cognitive functioning remains largely stable.” In other words, staring at a photo of a burger while hungry might trip you up. Doing your actual job? Probably fine.

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    But whether you are fasting for your health or simply trying to save money by skipping a meal, we now know that for most healthy adults, short-term fasting is not going to cost you your focus or your memory. The researchers themselves are careful to frame it as a personal tool rather than a universal prescription, and anyone with specific health considerations should absolutely talk to a doctor before overhauling their eating habits.

    The broader picture of fasting research is quietly compelling. A 2023 study of 209 people found that intermittent fasting just three days a week can reduce the risk of type 2 diabetes by increasing insulin sensitivity. Research has also linked fasting to reduced levels of inflammation in the body, which matters more than it might sound, given that chronic inflammation is thought to play a role in the development of serious conditions.

    And then there is the psychological angle, which tends to get overlooked entirely in the food-equals-fuel conversation. Studies have found that fasting doesn’t just produce negative emotional states like irritability; it is also associated with genuine feelings of reward, accomplishment, pride, and control. Which, when you think about it, is a pretty solid return on skipping lunch.

    Have you ever tried fasting? How did that work out for you? Share your unscientific but very real findings with us in the comments!

    People in the comments were delighted to see that the science now backs up what they have known all along

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 11:53

    With just a few loose lines and one perfectly timed sentence, Jim Benton has mastered the art of delivering jokes that feel simultaneously ridiculous, sharp, awkward, and strangely accurate. His single-panel cartoons often begin with familiar everyday situations before suddenly veering into complete absurdity, the kind of humor that catches readers off guard because the punchline arrives from exactly the direction they were not expecting.

    Benton has a talent for spotting the strange logic hidden inside completely normal situations and pushing it just far enough into absurdity to make it unforgettable. His cartoons move effortlessly between sarcasm, social awkwardness, dark humor, and pure nonsense, often saying more in a single panel than some stories manage in pages. For this post, we gathered some of his best cartoons. Scroll down for humor that is quick, unpredictable, slightly chaotic, and weirdly relatable in the best possible way.

    More info: Facebook | Instagram | gocomics.com | itshappybunny.com | tiktok.com

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    Over the years, Benton has built one of the most recognizable voices in modern humor illustration. Many readers know him as the creator of "It’s Happy Bunny", "Dear Dumb Diary", "Franny K. Stein", and "Catwad", projects that helped define a generation of sarcastic, self-aware, and slightly chaotic comedy. Beyond books and character franchises, his cartoons and illustrations have appeared in publications including MAD Magazine and The New Yorker, while his work has also earned recognition from the National Cartoonists Society.

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 11:33

    Rob van Barneveld is a Dutch illustrator and comic artist best known for Pussloose, a charming series of wordless comics starring an expressive and endlessly mischievous cat. Inspired by his own cat, Hobbes, Rob creates funny and wholesome stories that perfectly capture the chaos, curiosity, and lovable weirdness of feline life.

    What makes these comics so enjoyable is how relatable they are. Even without dialogue, each comic manages to tell a complete story filled with humor, warmth, and clever visual twists that cat owners will instantly recognize. As the cartoonist himself says, “I think everyone loves cats,” and the universal, textless format of his comics makes them easy for anyone to enjoy.

    Scroll down to discover a new selection of adorable and humorous comics from the series, which prove that life is always more entertaining with a cat around.

    More info: Instagram | x.com | Facebook | roodgras.nl

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 10:21

    When loud bangs echoed near the White House over the weekend, most people ducked and scrambled for safety. But one NBC reporter’s response to danger went viral online, instantly becoming meme material.

    “I saw this earlier and thought it was a parody video in front of a green screen,” a viewer commented online. “Yeah, she would be one of the first to go.”

    NBC reporter Julie Tsirkin was mocked online for her response to the weekend incident at the White House

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    The White House lawn turned tense on Saturday evening when a man pulled out a revolver from his messenger bag and fired outside the White House at the intersection of 17th Street and Pennsylvania Avenue NW in Washington, DC.

    The armed suspect fired multiple times at the White House security checkpoint before Secret Service officers immediately returned fire and struck him.

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    NBC News Capitol Hill correspondent Julie Tsirkin was reporting for a routine live segment on the White House lawn when the loud bangs were heard.

    The cameraman captured her super calm and confused reaction.

    “What is that?” Julie asked.

    “It sounds like fireworks,” a male voice was heard saying.

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    The unperturbed NBC reporter then turned toward the White House and took a step toward the sound before a Secret Service agent told reporters to take cover inside the press briefing room.

    “I was outside of these doors on the North Lawn getting ready to tape something for your show, when myself and my cameraman, John, we heard what sounded like 20 to 30 sh*ts,” she was heard saying from the press briefing room after the exchange of gunfire.

    “I ended up running after that happened,” she went on to say. “I saw a Secret Service agent come out of the security booth, g*ns drawn, telling the few of us who are out there to ‘run inside the press briefing room.’”

    Julie and the cameraman ran to the press briefing room after hearing a Secret Service agent yell orders at them 

    @selinawangtvI was in the middle of taping on my iPhone for a social video from the White House North Lawn when we heard the shots. It sounded like dozens of gunshots. We were told to sprint to the press briefing room where we are holding now.♬ original sound – Selina Wang

    Social media erupted with memes about Julie’s muted reaction to danger, claiming she has the “survival skills of a potato.”

    “Situational awareness of a house plant,” one said, while another wrote, “It looked like an SNL skit.”

    “Sweet girly pop, it’s not fireworks it’s Americas National Anthem.”

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    “So wait, this is legit?” another asked. “The first time I saw it, I was sure it was a spoof or something.”

    One wrote, “Survival instincts and situational awareness of a baby squirrel.” Another comparison read, “Survival instincts of a tree.”

    Others sympathized with the reporter’s reaction, saying, “It’s easy to say what you would do in the moment, when it isn’t you in the moment.”

    “Imagine waking up a meme,” one netizen commented on her video

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    “I totally understand her reactions,” one sympathized. “I didn’t grow up around g*nshots and was in my 30’s before I heard a g*n fight. If you’ve never heard them before, it’s not immediately assumed to be g*nfire.”

    “Let’s be clear, the average person doesn’t react to g*nfire like you’d want them to,” another said. “Unless you see the g*n the most common reaction is what you just saw and heard, ‘no I think that was fireworks.’”

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    After her reaction was given the meme treatment, Julie was an absolute sport and wrote on X, “I’m glad I could take one for the team.”

    “Thanks for the memes, internet! Hope you’ll stick around for the reporting,” she added.

    The reporter also addressed how this was the second firearm-related incident she had witnessed while on duty in the last four weeks.

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    @nbcsouthfloridaCaught on video: Gunshots heard near the White House while Nightly News reporter was about to tape for the show♬ original sound – NBCSouthFlorida

    “Twice in one month I found myself face to face with a USSS agent yelling at me to get to safety, guns drawn,” she wrote on Instagram. “I find myself thankful, again, that I could run to safety when so many run to danger.”

    After bullets were fired at the checkpoint on Saturday, the 21-year-old suspect Nasire Best was struck by the gunfire and lost his life in the hospital.

    A bystander was also seriously wounded in the exchange but is now in stable condition.

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    The suspect from Maryland was known to both the Secret Service and the Metropolitan Police Department prior to Saturday’s incident.

    He had a documented history of mental health conditions and attempted to gain entry to the White House in July 2025, claiming he was Jesus Christ and telling officers he “wanted to get arrested.”

    Nasire Best, who once told officers he was Jesus Christ, was struck by gunfire and taken to the hospital

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    Officers arrested him at the time, and he spent time in a psychiatric facility following the incident.

    “I’m actually the son of God,” Nasire wrote in one social media post. He threatened violence against US President Donald Trump in another post.

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    When Nasire opened fire on Saturday, ABC News senior White House correspondent Selina Wang was also handling coverage in the area and immediately ducked for cover.

    “My initial thought was this must be fireworks or something else,” she said while later sharing her experience on an ABC News segment.

    Selina immediately ducked when she heard the words “get down,” realizing they were actually in danger.

    She and her team began running upon hearing the Secret Service agent ordering reporters to move to the press briefing room.

    “We were running as fast as we could,” she said. “The g*nshots sounded so close we were worried as we were running that the g*nshots were actually getting into the White House grounds.”

    Selina said they remained in the room for about half an hour.

    President Trump was in the Oval Office at the time of the incident.

    “It’s not in her script!” one commenter wrote on Julie’s video, while another wrote, “Hearing that in real time must’ve been intense”

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 09:25

    If you are the one in your family or friend group that does a lot of the organizing, you are probably aware of just how much work it actually takes, which everyone else typically doesn’t notice or appreciate.

    A woman went online to get a story off her chest. She had driven thirteen hours to attend a class reunion, only to find that everyone but the organizer had flaked at the last moment. Readers shared their thoughts and a few also wrote out their own similar tales in the comments down below.

    When you’ve put in the effort to show up, others flaking feels disrespectful

    Which is exactly what happened to one woman who traveled to a class reunion

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    She gave some more info in the comments

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  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 09:14

    One of the best things any parent can do for their children is support their independence. This will not only help the family at home, but also teach them all-important practical skills they’ll need when they grow up.

    In some cases, parents motivate their kids with money. However, this can become comically expensive. Case in point, redditor u/Baileythenerd recently amused the r/MaliciousCompliance online community with a tale from their childhood about how their help doing the laundry netted them a jaw-dropping $200. Scroll down for the brilliant story, as well as other people’s priceless reactions.

    (Bored Panda contacted u/Baileythenerd, and they were kind enough to share their thoughts with us on the advantages of parents teaching their kids to do chores from early on. You’ll find their insights below.)

    It’s a wonderful idea to include your kids in housework from an early age because it teaches them valuable life skills

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    One internet user shared how their parents motivated them to help with the laundry by promising them all the money found in the dryer

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    According to the person behind the story, helping out at home from an early age builds a mindset focused on growth and self-sufficiency

    Bored Panda got in touch with the author of the story, and we were curious to hear their take on whether children who never learn to help with chores end up at a disadvantage when they eventually grow up.

    According to u/Baileythenerd, in these scenarios, the kids would have a harder time in the future.

    “It is to the benefit of both the child and the parent to involve them with daily chores and tasks,” the OP said, sharing their thoughts with us.

    “The value of this goes beyond the individual skills the child learns; it also impresses three very important mindsets/ideas in individuals,” they said.

    First of all, u/Baileythenerd stressed that teaching kids to tackle chores from early on impresses upon them that “no daily task is beneath anyone to do.”

    Next, they pointed out that parents teach their children that the necessary skills can and must be learned. “As children, it’s easy to assume the adults around you were just born knowing how to do the tasks they do every day,” the author told Bored Panda.

    Lastly, this approach also supports self-sufficiency and independence. “Eventually, going out on your own is terrifying,” u/Baileythenerd said. “Even more so when you realize that you don’t know how to do many of the things that need to happen in any household.”

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    Learning how to do various chores early on prepares kids for adulthood

    Many of us probably wish that we had developed healthier habits and learned practical skills from an earlier age. For some of us, that might mean regular exercise and eating a nutritious diet. For others, it’s learning to cook and clean at home.

    While it’s never too late to learn something new or to change your life, it takes a while for the habit to become automatic. Though all our brains are capable of change through neuroplasticity, it’s easier to learn new behaviors when we’re young and have someone guiding and motivating us.

    The reality is that it can take a vastly different amount of time to form a habit, depending on the type and complexity of the activity. As Verywell Mind points out, it can take anywhere from 18 to a whopping 254 days to form a new habit. The average, however, is around 66 days for a behavior to become automatic.

    Let’s be real, though, developing some habits can be a huge pain. Especially if we find them deeply unpleasant. Some people hate vacuuming. Others think doing the dishes is worse than all the other housework put together.

    If we don’t have strong internal motivators (e.g., keeping a clean home or taking pride in helping our loved ones), we need to rely on external ones.

    Naturally, it gets easier for us to do the chores we have to do if someone pays us or rewards us in some other way, like by praising us. However, money should not be the only reason we do these things.

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    How children ought to be rewarded for helping with the housework might vary from family to family

    So it’s vital that parents talk to their kids about why their help is so important. It’s essential that they grasp that they’re helping out for reasons that go beyond the financial. There’s a lesson to be learned here about being independent, pulling one’s own weight, fulfilling promises, and doing tasks from start to finish.

    As reported by The Washington Post, some experts believe that chores should not be connected to kids’ allowances at all.

    However, the Preferred Medical Group notes that cash rewards are fine, so long as they’re reasonable and age-appropriate. The more difficult the task, the higher the reward. However, mundane tasks should not be overvalued.

    The rewards that work best will vary from family to family and child to child. Some kids prefer getting compliments for all their hard work. Others enjoy the freedom to do what they want after they finish their chores. Still, others prefer getting a tangible reward, whether it’s cash or a small gift.

    Meanwhile, Bright Horizons suggests that parents try to involve the entire family in the chores to show the kids that everyone’s actively participating. It also helps when everyone tries to make housework fun in some way, rather than a dreary activity they’re forced to do.

    In our experience, dividing chores according to personal preferences is a good way to address who does what. We don’t mind doing some chores. Some of them are even soothing and meditative.

    So when we focus on those instead of the ones that we loathe, it’s less of a drag. However, if there are chores that everyone in the household hates with a fiery passion, it might be best to set up a timetable and divide them equally among household members. Unless… there’s a large reward involved?

    The author of the viral story clarified a few things in the comments

    Here’s what some other internet users had to say after reading the post. Some even shared their similar experiences

  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 07:58

    When parents take their kids to a backyard barbecue, the last thing they should be worrying about is another guest picking a fight with their child over a hot dog.

    But that’s exactly what one dad says happened after a particularly annoying acquaintance began lecturing his daughter about unhealthy food.

    The father eventually pulled him aside and demanded he stay away from his family. The dad believed the situation was finally over. However, a few days later, child protective services showed up at his home following an “anonymous” complaint.

    Continue scrolling to read the dad’s story about the whole ordeal, which he shared with the ‘Pro Revenge’ community.

    No parent wants other people to discipline their children without permission

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    Even if they know the person

    The know-it-all physicist ended up stuck dealing with the consequences of his actions

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    As his story went viral, the dad replied to some people in the comments

  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 07:56

    One of the most annoying things in the world is dealing with entitled people. They are selfish, put their needs above yours, want to be seen as special, and get mad when you enforce even the most basic boundaries. Getting told “no” is a mind-melting experience for them.

    A man opened up online about how his toxic sister, who used to bully him and make his life a living hell, went nuclear because he did not take her daughter on an expensive Disney cruise. Instead, he chose to take his beloved adoptive daughter. Read on for the full story, and to see how the internet reacted to the family drama.

    Entitled family members can be a nightmare to deal with. They might even try to control your finances

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    This man revealed how his toxic and narcissistic sister flipped out when she learned who he was taking on an expensive Disney cruise

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    People who have an entitled mindset are narcissistic, selfish, and believe they are superior to everyone else. They want special privileges without deserving them

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    In a nutshell, people who have a sense of entitlement fundamentally believe that you, other people, and the world all ‘owe’ them something. These narcissistic individuals believe that they should get special treatment, even though they have done nothing to actually deserve it.

    In this particular case, the post author’s sister believes that her daughter should be prioritized over his daughter. This reeks of entitled behavior. Not only is the sister suggesting that her brother’s adoptive child is less deserving of the Disney cruise, but she is also implying that she gets to decide what others do with their savings. It’s the sort of behavior that leaves a bitter taste in your mouth.

    Entitled individuals tend to see themselves as superior to others, and this has a direct negative impact on their relationships with other people. “When you believe you’re entitled to better treatment than others or that the rules don’t apply to you, you’re more likely to suffer in the long term,” WebMD warns.

    People who have adopted an entitlement mentality tend to have more conflicts in relationships and experience more unhappiness, disappointment, and depression. What’s more, this same mindset can harm your career, too. Sure, if you’re confident, you can land leadership roles. However, if you’re not a team player and keep making selfish decisions, you will have a very tough time at work.

    Entitlement tends to lead to unmet expectations and then even more entitlement. Thankfully, you can take specific steps to grow into a kinder, more respectful person

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    Ironically, entitlement leads to more entitlement. Namely, entitled people are vulnerable to unmet expectations. When their expectations aren’t met, they become disappointed and get angry. In that distress, they reassure themselves that they deserve everything they have ever wanted. The result? Even more entitlement.

    Overcoming your sense of entitlement won’t happen overnight. It’s a long process. You need to give yourself some patience and grace if you’re trying to change your narcissistic tendencies. The first step is developing at least a kernel of self-awareness about how your behavior affects your social environment. The best antidotes to entitled, narcissistic behavior are practicing gratitude, humility, respect, empathy, and taking responsibility for your actions.

    Meanwhile, Verywell Mind emphasizes the importance of recognizing that the world does not, in fact, owe you anything. It is a harsh truth, but one that we all need to remind ourselves of every now and then. “Life is unfair and it’s your job to make the best of what you get in life, not to complain about what you deserve but don’t have.”

    Something else that can help you climb out of your entitlement mentality is to give to others without expectations (for example, by volunteering) and to learn to distinguish between your wants and your needs. “People with a sense of entitlement have a problem distinguishing between needs and wants. This makes it very difficult to make healthy, sound decisions since you constantly want more than you need.”

    What would you have done if you were in the author’s shoes and your sibling tried to guilt-trip you over doing something nice for your kid, but not for her child? How do you push back against entitlement and people who ignore your boundaries? Share your insights and advice with all the other readers in the comments.

    The story started going viral, and the author shared more context in the comments

    Quite a few readers were shocked by the sister’s behavior. Here’s their perspective on the family drama

  • Monday 25 May 2026 - 05:00

    Sometimes, ignorance can be bliss. That's especially true when we're talking about other people's jobs. People visit hospitals, airports, and hotels every day, but there are lots of things behind the scenes that they don't see. Smashed luggage, poor cleaning practices, and doctors' real personalities are often for employees' eyes only.

    Luckily, some folks online who work in these fields sometimes spill the tea and enlighten the rest of us. Recently, one netizen asked hotel, airport, and hospital workers to share their behind-the-scenes facts that would most likely shock the general public.

    They wrote, "People who work in hotels/hospitals/airports: what's something the public doesn't know?" Read on to find out the inner workings of these industries, and keep these stories in mind the next time you pay them a visit.

    #1

    When requesting your medical records tell them ‘it’s for continued care’ and you won’t be charged to get your records.

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    #2

    ICU nurse here. The odds that a patient that codes and is successfully resuscitated will survive until discharge are way lower than you would think.

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    #3

    Hospital chaplain, someone passing away at age 90 surrounded by friends and family is actually a happy visit for me, not sad.

    Young, traumatic passings, stillbirth, people being kept alive in the ICU well past their due date to family not honoring their wishes, these are the sad ones.

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    #4

    I supported doctors in IT for a while, I can tell you they are both the smartest and dumbest people I've ever met.

    I had one who could take a human brain apart and put it back together, but kept all of his passwords, bank accounts, social security number, and every other personally identifiable thing on sheet of paper stuck to the back of his laptop. He got a very short and grumpy response when I suggested that was a bad idea and also told him I could make all that an encrypted file on his laptop.

    You didn't ask, but the second dumbest for IT professionals are lawyers, but I assume they are very good at practicing law.

    © Photo: zerbey

    #5

    I was a chef for many years and nothing crazy in the kitchen but from other departments… Housekeeping is so overworked. It is hard to stay at hotels now. Knowing they probably clean all with the same rag.

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    #6

    Nothing is as clean as you think it is. Except for the actual sterilized equipment or one time use items

    Although I think most people know this by now.
    I’m referring to hospitals

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    #7

    If you’re told to be at the hospital at 6 AM for your procedure you’re slotted for 7:30 or after. You have to go through admissions first. Then to pre-op. Then anesthesia will come and assess you. Next surgeon will stop by the bay. Then you wait. If an emergency comes up, you wait longer. It’s frustrating but please be glad that you are not the “emergency”.

    Also, hospitals can get bed bugs too.

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    #8

    We have a code phrase for "this person is being creepy" over the radio. You'd never hear it unless you needed to. - Hotel staff

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    #9

    I used to work at a very small airport (three flights in and out a day on a turboprop) where we were all simultaneously the ticket agents, gate agents, security personnel, and baggage handlers. We also fueled and de-iced the planes, along with cleaning the cabin between flights.

    DO NOT mess around with the people who have your travel plans in their hands. Don't yell at them if your flight is delayed or if your bags don't make it. They can make it a whole lot worse.

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    #10

    Don't be embarrassed if you accidentally leave an adult item out in your hotel room and housekeeping comes. They've seen much worse. Don't use this as an excuse to leave them out on purpose.

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    #11

    We are all miserable and hate being there.

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    #12

    If you pass away during flight the Captain will decide to continue to final destination or divert to nearest airport.

    If diverting to nearest airport the crew will move the body to an empty row of seats. If empty row unavailable they will place the body in the rear galley and cover with blankets.

    If continuing to final destinations the crew may leave the body in the seat and remove passengers to other seats for the duration of the flight.

    Typically you may not know someone has passed away during flight. The crew does their best to maintain calm and not draw attention to the situation.

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    #13

    People think airports run on giant systems and precision. Half the time it’s exhausted workers holding together a chain reaction with coffee and pure stubbornness.

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    #14

    I work in IT for a massive hotel chain, and previously designed 911 system infrastructure (so not hospital, but adjacent).

    It's honestly breathtaking (terrifying) how antiquated some of the massive core systems are that run these industries. Southwest Airlines crew scheduling system outage was a great example of this a few years ago.

    Back when I worked in 911, I saw systems still in operation that actually made me nervous. There was a lot of "we don't want to invest in upgrading yet and it still works, so our most important task is to make sure that it never shuts off." And we're talking about the MOST CRITICAL communications network in the country. Granted, the level of antiquity varies by region/locale. But still lol.

    Edited to add: I've seen phone systems almost as old as I am still landing active 911 calls - and I'm almost 30 lol. Now the larger, better-funded municipalities have moved to E911 with SIP trunks and whatnot, but old copper landlines are definitely still out there.

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    #15

    Hotel superchains (Hilton, Marriott, and such) keep notes on your account... forever. Do something "notable" and we put it down. When you check in, it displays on their screens. Good, bad, ugly... it's right there. Passed off a maid 10 years ago at the Orange County Hilton? It's still there when you check into the st louis hampton. Good tips? Bad tips? NO tips? Bought pizza for their desk staff at the Marriott Chicago? Yeah, that's there too. The moral?

    Don't be a jerk; be Good... be better. We'll reciprocate, even decades later.

    Hotels NEVER forget.

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    #16

    Used to work in housekeeping for a hotel as a teenager. If someone requested early check in or we were on a time crunch, we were told to “clean” by making some quick vacuum lines in the floor and spraying lemon Pledge in the air to make it “smell clean.” And yes, the comforters never get washed.

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    #17

    House keeping uses the bath towels and other kinds of towels to wipe EVERTHING while cleaning the whole room.

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    #18

    Hospitals: how disgustingly dirty they are. Especially if you work in a non-patient area, it’s even worse. If the general public is going to be seeing an area they at least attempt to keep it somewhat clean looking. But I highly encourage you not to walk around barefoot, I’ve seen that far too many times 🤢.

    #19

    If an aircraft goes tech (breaks or something) then they can often tell the crew in advance, but will not tell any passengers -they want them at the airport to wait.

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    #20

    A whole lot of co-worker adult "playtime" going on in hotels and hospitals. I can't vouch for airports, but I've worked in hospitality, and currently in healthcare, and it's common.

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    #21

    Airport.

    The number of buzzing bags in the bag room after they tumble their way down the baggage conveyors.

    Pax claim they are "electric toothbrushes" nine out of ten times.

    When we are short of staff, the lav guy also does the potable water. The good people do the potable water first.

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    #22

    Comforters on your beds in hotel rooms are not washed between guests. If they are stained or look rough, then they wash them. They make your bed in a specific way so the comforter isn't the main blanket on top touching you. The sheets are cleaned every time though.

    Some of the rooms are not vacuumed either. Just lint rolled.

    Housekeepers are on tight schedules most of the time, with strict management breathing down your back, so don't blame them.

    I used to work front desk for many years.

    #23

    I worked as a front desk agent for a little while at a large conference and airport hotel (Marriott chain). Two points.

    If the hotel requires a deposit or full payment on arrival try to use a credit card, not a debit card. Not even as "credit". Debit cards will pull the cost twice, which means you will see two charges - the first charge & the real charge - and it can take up to two weeks for the "not real" charge to drop off your account. A credit card will pull a single charge up, adjust the charge as needed (drop the deposit, add incidentals charges, whatever) and that will be the one that sticks. This was a *constant* issue with visitors. Constant. This can put you thousands of dollars in the hole for your entire vacation. Pay with a credit card if at all possible!

    ALSO, IMPORTANTLY: if you are coming in on a work conference or similar at a Marriott, Hilton, etc. in the US: PLEASE make sure your company has filed the credit card authorization form with the hotel for their company card so that THEY can be charged, not you. This was a *huge* problem at the hotel I worked at. We had a lot of teacher conferences and they were the *worst* about this. Do NOT take Debbie in Accounting's word for it, please. Make sure they have filed the authorization. All hotels that do this kind of thing know exactly what you mean when you ask for it. A few extra minutes of work will save you a ton of problems later.

    #24

    Booked a 45 minute connection through O'Hare once. once.

    #25

    There are more than 250,000 passings in the US from medical mistakes and malpractice every year.

    #26

    At a Hospital, one of the reasons we slap that wristband on you is for morgue ID purposes. Have a nice day.

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    #27

    Mid hotels with complimentary breakfasts? Yeah, everything is premade and microwaved, or slid into slots on a massive oven. Whatever isn't eaten gets put away and reheated for the next day.

    The breakfast juice machine never gets unplugged, it has a switch under the front edge you can turn on. If you ask the staff nicely, they'll turn it on for you. I used to do it for parents with little kids all the time.

    Showers and tubs, including Jacuzzi tubs, get sprayed with bleach, and that's it. I never saw the inside of the faucets or sprayers cleaned.

    They keep a skeleton crew at night. I worked 3-11. After housecleaning left at 5ish, it was just me in a hotel of 30 rooms.

    Key cards will deactivate if you keep them next to any magnetized strip, like a credit card.

    #28

    I can’t (or couldn’t) tell you if someone passed away in your room or any ghost stories because it’s bad for business. (I’m aware that some people seek those rooms, but not every hotel wants that kind of publicity)

    I worked over ten years for a major (the biggest they said!) hotel company and my boss would get mad when I tell the new staff about these stories.

    © Photo: CaligulaQC

    #29

    Hotels spy and make it easier for others to spy on you.

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    #30

    Many hotels don’t have a 13th floor. I mean, they do, but the elevator goes from 12-14.

    #31

    The morgue is next the the kitchen.

    #32

    Worked at a hotel one summer when I was younger. We were told to
    - Just rinse the glasses in the bathroom.. I said hey can we please buy some dish soap? It took them 2 weeks to buy us dish soap
    - We were told to only wash the comforters if there was a stain 
    - We never spray disinfected any of the upholstered seats/couches 


    You can imagine how I feel when I have to stay in a hotel hey? .

    #33

    As a past waitress for years I can tell you most ice machines have cockroaches in them so check your ice cubes.

    #34

    No matter where a hotel is located, it can be in the nicest area and it’s still full of weirdos. Something about hotels attracts the nuts.

    #35

    In every patient room literal poo has been all over the floor, walls, equipment and sometimes even ceiling….

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    #36

    Comforters even in high end ski resorts are not washed after each guest checks out.

    #37

    Hospital: maybe this isn't surprising and perhaps on par with other mid-to-high stress professions, but sooooo many staff are sleeping together/having affairs.

    That being said...the hospital I worked at was staffed by highly competent and caring people from cooks and security guards to nurses and doctors.

    #38

    No one passes away in the Operating Room, they pass away after moving out of the room. No need to delay scheduled surgeries and impacting revenue.

    #39

    Our tech is years behind current availability. It is hella slow and outdated, but they look fancy and new.

    #40

    Saw on tiktok a woman washes her underwear in the kettle when she travels!

    #41

    The hospital is filthy.

    #42

    When you come in to the ER at 3am because your foot has been hurting all week, and you chose now to come in, yes I am judging you and your life choices!

    #43

    Hospitals are nothing but a money machine. Novant has started billing every patient- regardless of WHY they came in - for "mental health screening" If you come to the Emergency room with a broken toe they ask you if you've thought about hurting yourself ...AND THEN BILL YOU FOR IT!!! Im sure there are other awful hospital systems too. But this one is BAAAAD.

    #44

    We all hate every single one of you.

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    #45

    Every single hotel gets bedbugs. You can’t prevent them and it has nothing to do with a hotel’s cleanliness.